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skysky429 continued. so we havea alot of common intrests and he laughs at my bad jokes and we have a few inside jokes... does he lik eme or is it just me

12/16/2012 8:13:45 PM | Report

dojhallow97 He could, but guys are hard to tell with. Does he do this to every girl? Or only with you? If its the 2nd one, it could be very possible that he likes you! :) Hope htis helps! -caroline xx

12/19/2012 8:06:23 PM | Report

skysky429 so this boy i like (obvi) i cant tell if he likes me back. we talk alot every other day (cuz of classes) and when we do talk he laughs alot. he teases me in a good way. his friends seem to like me to. we like the same things, hockey baseball.more nxt

12/16/2012 8:11:28 PM | Report

Sarah B. alright...So ok there is this guy, there always is, ha anyways so I never see him and don't have classes with him so it makes it really hard to get to know him and even talk...how should I go about this situation?

11/25/2012 12:16:25 AM | Report

dojhallow97 hmm well you could accidentally bump into him and say oops sorry!I dont think we've met, im(insert your name here). After that, feel free to talk to him whenever you want to! hope this helps girlie! -xx caroline

12/1/2012 2:52:39 PM | Report

dojhallow97 HEY GIRLIES! IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS PLEASE POST THEM ON MY PAGE AND I WILL POST THE ANSWER ON YOUR PAGE BECAUSE I CAN TYPE MORE! -dojhallow xx

11/4/2012 10:59:06 AM | Report

starstream1001 ok so the prob is i know for a fact that his twin bro (let's call him Z) Z likes me. Another problem is I don't know how I can get together with the one I like (lets call him J) without hurting z's feelings! And what if J really doesn't like me back?

10/3/2012 10:21:10 PM | Report

dojhallow97 well first of all, until J asks you out, there is nothing to be worried about! If Z asks you out, then politely tell him that you like someone else. Good luck girlie and kick up the flirting a notch with J! Hope this helps! -xx caroline

12/1/2012 2:55:26 PM | Report

starstream1001 Ok so I just started thet 6th grade I moved here almost a year ago after thanksgiving. I've had a crush on a boy that lives to blocks away from me since like December and I think he likes me back. TO BE CONTINUED...

10/3/2012 10:18:03 PM | Report

Hotchoco Hi :) So today my crush and some other boys were playing around with a basketball. I was talking with my friends. And then My crush started kicking the ball at us,And he seemed like he was aiming at me! I feel so confused! Do u think he hates me?

9/17/2012 9:15:02 AM | Report

dojhallow97 haha im sure he doesnt hate you! In fact, i think he was trying to get your attention and hoping you would look at him. Boys have strange ways of expressing themselves, believe me! hope this helps! xx -c

12/1/2012 2:58:09 PM | Report

smiley12345 Okay. I really like this guy. Let's call him D. On Thursday, he said he loved me. Last year, his best friend A, wrote, "I love you" in my yearbook. I don't know if A still likes me or if he even liked me at all. Should I ask D out? I really like him.

9/15/2012 1:03:15 PM | Report

dojhallow97 I NEED HELPPPP :(

7/15/2012 9:45:11 AM | Report

cutie00 what's the matter?

8/4/2012 1:13:09 PM | Report

flowergirllova @cutie00 It seems this is quit a problem. I suggest that you don't be afraid to speak up for your self and have a serious discussion with him somewhere private. Also this might be a sign that he likes you! I have a club Dear Clo Co if you need help!

6/18/2012 1:18:06 PM | Report

cutie00 thanx and i will i don't like him i'll do it thanx a lot hope he not in my classes next year

6/25/2012 10:49:46 AM | Report

cutie00 i liked them. I am not friends with her and dont like the guys anymore. Its been 5 months but oe of the guys is annoying me saying i cant deny that i likehim now but i dont. How should i deal with this guy?

6/12/2012 7:23:29 PM | Report

cutie00 I liked this guy he popular and my bff was dating him i said i kinda liked him and this other guy. She knew that i wouldn't wanna go out with him though. I was play fighting with her and we both got detention. She got so mad at me she told ever1

6/12/2012 7:22:02 PM | Report

cutie00 omg that happened to me 2!

5/19/2012 4:58:42 PM | Report

powercat13 I have a major crush on this guy and we used to text each other every once in a while like friends and now he wont respond to any of my text what can I do? Are there good convo starters or to see if he likes me?

5/8/2012 9:23:31 PM | Report

dojhallow97 HAPPENED TO ME 2!!!!! :(

6/15/2012 10:38:49 AM | Report

cutie00 how'd you get over it?

7/4/2012 3:41:14 PM | Report

dojhallow97 i kinda didnt... :(((

12/1/2012 2:56:32 PM | Report

CL13 I have a bf now the only problem....he's my friend's stepbrother.....any advice on how to deal with her bugging?????

5/7/2012 6:43:23 PM | Report

CL13 Thanks both of you guys! :) I am definitely gonna talk to her especially since she's going to the same picnic as us this weekend.

5/14/2012 7:34:54 PM | Report

dojhallow97 SIt down with her and ask her ( in the nicest way possible) to not interfere with the relationship, OR if shes bugging you just roll you eyes in a playful way and say why dont you ask him? Hope this helps! x0x0 -c

5/8/2012 5:02:00 PM | Report

cutie00 Tell her first that u going out with him be4 she hears from someone else and if she freaks out and tell him to speak to her about it and you to. Good luck. Btw i was in a sitch kinda like this

5/8/2012 4:00:52 PM | Report

beautifuldoll there is this boy in mt class and i used to have a crush on him but now i don't. He always smiles at me and gives me and cracks a joke with me all the time. Today i was feeling a bit down and he tried to cheer me up, does this mean he likes me?

4/30/2012 7:30:11 PM | Report

Laura :) not necessarily. This one boy that I liked since the first day of school (because he said i was a good soccer player) he kept on giving me high fives and talking to me and smiling at me all the time but he didn't like me...

6/1/2012 11:52:57 AM | Report

cutie00 I think that he want to be like the best bgf ever, like a brother. This happened to me exactly and i took the cheering up stuff to annoying and i made a huge mistake. hope it works out.

5/8/2012 4:02:26 PM | Report

cutie00 sorry forgot to mention he prob does like like you in a way so a few signs you like him would do the trick

5/10/2012 8:58:30 PM | Report

dojhallow97 I don't personally know the boy, but to me it sounds like he does! Or at the very least wants to get to know you better and hang out more. Either way you are super lucky! :) x0x0 -c

5/4/2012 6:01:02 PM | Report

cutie00 I don't like my bgf, and don't want to. But i can't stop thinking 'bout him or sumtimes i get a lil jello wen he give other girls mad attention. what's up? I don't like him i cant!

4/27/2012 7:22:48 PM | Report

dojhallow97 hate to break it to you sweetie but it sure sounds like you do! Getting jello and thinking about him are both big signs that you are into him. And whats so wrong about liking you bgf? ;) x0x0 -c

5/4/2012 6:02:22 PM | Report

cutie00 I dont think he would ever like me back cause he likes this girl who started going to my school this year and i've known him since 1st grade.

5/5/2012 5:11:55 PM | Report

dojhallow97 awhh im srry hun! Be there for him and one day he'll realize that youre the one for him for sticking by him al this time! x0x0 -c

5/8/2012 4:59:54 PM | Report

cutie00 thanx i will but how i dont want i to seem to . . . you know

5/11/2012 7:09:39 PM | Report

penguinpeep There's this guy that flirts with me a lot, but there are also a few other girls he flirts with He is always saying how much we need to hang out and when my friend plays smash or pass with him he says smash to me and only 1 other girl Wat do u think?

4/21/2012 2:14:25 PM | Report

dojhallow97 When a guy flirts with a girl, it means he sees something in her that he likes, not nessicarilly meaning he has a crush on you, though he could. From what you said, it seems like hes a bit of a flirt so watch out! Take it slow and see what happens.XO

5/5/2012 9:58:05 AM | Report

cutie00 what r some tips for flirting?

4/13/2012 9:05:06 PM | Report

dojhallow97 Smile at him in the hallway, make eye contact, and say hey! dont stare for too long though! Also, try to get to know him better by asking about hobbies, sports, etc. This will give you more to talk and text about! x0x0 -c

4/13/2012 9:20:50 PM | Report

kala1150 hmmm im really confused cuz all of my bf's friends keep saying he is messed up and is very nasty when he talks but when he talks to me hes the complet opposite then when his friends tell me stuff they say he is nasty what should i do????

4/11/2012 7:53:54 PM | Report

cutie00 I think he tries to keep up his image with his friends but with you it's different. (sweet) I like when people ask me stuff straight up so ask him what that's about.

4/24/2012 8:21:44 PM | Report

dojhallow97 If hes kind to you, treats you right and is what you want, ignore his frineds. Maybe theyre just trying to break you up, for who knows- jelousy? If he isnt kind to you, they drop him. Any guy who doesnt treat you like a princess doesnt deserve u! x0x

4/13/2012 9:18:27 PM | Report

Blondiey ok so i really like this guy in the other class but im not good at talkin to ppl tht arent my friends and every tim i try to tlk to him i feel like i turn bright red any advice

4/6/2012 9:06:11 PM | Report

CL13 Totally let a bestie help you out! There's nothing to worry about. :)

5/14/2012 7:36:28 PM | Report

cutie00 ask him casual things like "hey, did u get the math hw i 4got wat it was?" and have a friend with u incase u chicken out.

4/27/2012 7:25:36 PM | Report

dojhallow97 just take a deep breath and try to just talk to him like u would ur bffl! This always helps me! x0x0 -c

4/8/2012 12:43:52 PM | Report

iluvuso The guy I like is really mean. How do I get myself to not like him? And if I can't do that, is there a way to make him a nicer person?

4/3/2012 12:03:52 PM | Report

dojhallow97 ask yourself all the things that you dont like about him, for example how hes a mean person. Also consider this, if hes not very nice, would you want him to treat you like that while your dating? In the end its your choice but preceed with caution!

4/3/2012 6:50:13 PM | Report

chacha:) I have a crush on thins guy and i think he might like me to but my friend is dating him so i dont know what to do

4/1/2012 9:57:54 PM | Report

bball_girlwi123 There is this guy that i have a crush on and we're always talking. idk if I'm responding right cuz he nevers talks to my bff and all the sudden he asks her out? She said yes, but doesn't really REALLY like him like her old bf. Then they broke up.

3/28/2012 7:50:17 PM | Report

dojhallow97 guys are so confusing sometimes! But maybe he just sees you as more of a friend, or possibly was just using you for ur bff. But if they are now broken up, kick up the flirting a notch with him! x0x0 -c

4/1/2012 11:34:28 AM | Report

classicalgirl I'm a homeschooled 8th grader who does classes once a week and it is very separated between the guys and girls. I really want that to end so that I can become friends with the guys. I don't want a BF. other girls don't want to talk to them.

3/28/2012 6:15:31 PM | Report

dojhallow97 the best thing to do is to go up to a guy and introduce yourself to them! :) Ask about hobbies, music, sports, ect with the guys! Don't be flirty if you dont want to lead them on! Just treat them like you would anyother friend! x0x0 -c

4/1/2012 11:33:01 AM | Report

quickeagle70 Kids in 6th grade are starting to date. I do not want to but I am afraid people will think I am weird.

3/12/2012 4:04:21 PM | Report

dojhallow97 same thing happened to me! Trust me, not everyone will date someone i promise. And its not weird to not date anyone in 6th grade, in fact i think your a little young to be dating.(im almost 15) So go with whatever you are comfy with. xo -c

3/18/2012 11:21:49 AM | Report

CL13 I have a huge crush on my best guy friend. Everyone says it seems like he likes me & he acts like it a lot too. I really don't want to risk our friendship but I really like him. What should I do?

3/7/2012 7:14:59 PM | Report

dojhallow97 you should go with whatever your heart says. Me and my bgf dated and then broke up and we"ve become even closer now. I think we like each other again... heehee anyway, i dont think its a bad idea! xoxo -c

3/18/2012 11:23:18 AM | Report

kelly2oo1 I have liked this boy for about a year now... He asked me out in the beginning of the year and I panicked and lied and said I was dating someone else. Now he knows I like him but i think he is like scared because I turned him down. What do i do!!??

3/3/2012 11:19:58 AM | Report

dojhallow97 hmmm well i think you should just talk to him and tell him the truth! xoxo- c

3/18/2012 11:24:16 AM | Report

bridgetrox how do i get my crush to like me!

3/1/2012 5:59:43 PM | Report

dojhallow97 depends: be flirty and kind, always be there for him and try to always be helpful! hope this helped! xoxo

3/3/2012 9:34:36 PM | Report

gracerules617 MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So there's this guy I really like, and I think he likes me too, but he has a gf. But he asked one of our mutual friends if I liked him and he responded with, "Oh! She's cuter than my gf". I

2/29/2012 9:07:43 PM | Report

dojhallow97 i know this will be hard for you to hear chicka but if a guy is willing to cheat on his current gf with u, that doesnt sound like you and he would be exclusive if you ever dated. in other words, he might attempt to cheat on you. sorry girlie xoxo

3/3/2012 11:26:02 AM | Report

kelseyb<3 my crush and i r dating but our parents found out and made us break up. now its all awkward and i dont know what to do or say,WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I NEED HELP FAST!!!

2/27/2012 8:29:20 PM | Report

gingerlion101 i really like this guy. i have him 3rd and i can see him lookin at me sometimes. does that mean he likes me? should i drop hints? and i if i should drop hints how do i drop hints? :/

2/26/2012 3:39:27 PM | Report

dojhallow97 also, a way to drop hints in to meet his gaze for about 3 seconds then look away and smile. Try to talk to him and be flirty, it helps if you lightly touch his arm when you laugh. :) hope this helped!

2/27/2012 5:27:00 PM | Report

dojhallow97 @ gingerlion101: Hey! From my experience, iv learned that guys usually stare at you for one of these 3 resons: 1) Theyre just staring off into space :) 2) They want to stare at some eye candy, meaning they think you're pretty or hot. 3) He likes you

2/27/2012 5:25:40 PM | Report

iluvlogan I like this guy but, he has girlfriend, he says he likes me but he hasn't broken up with her yet.What gives?!?!?!

2/24/2012 5:54:43 PM | Report

dojhallow97 he might be trying to take advandage of you. until hes broken up with that girl, remove yourslef from the sitch.

2/26/2012 11:15:38 AM | Report

cutie00 I like my bgf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He dated my bff. Idk if he likes me and i think he already knows i like him. Should i ask him out. btw i in 6th grade ik u might say amma little young but everybody at school dates and my parents are chill wit it. Help me

2/24/2012 9:27:45 PM | Report

cutie00 she doesn't like him anymore btw idk how to flirt

3/15/2012 8:34:22 PM | Report

dojhallow97 ask some of his frineds what he thinks of you! then ask ur bff if shes cool with u 2 dating because no guy is worth losing a friend over. also, kick up the flirting a notch to show him ur intrested. hope i helped :)

2/26/2012 11:17:09 AM | Report

bonbonhallie how do i ask a guy after the 4 time

2/18/2012 7:11:17 PM | Report

cutie00 let him as u out. Flirt and if he likes u he'll ask you out

2/24/2012 9:28:31 PM | Report

juliahoops14 So....there's this guy I like and hes all funny and stuff in class butwhen hes talking to me hes more polite, I guess. What gives? Does he like me back or something?

2/12/2012 9:22:22 AM | Report

dojhallow97 alot of guys act differently around the girl they like so thats always a good sign! keep flirting and see what happens! :) hope i helped!

2/26/2012 11:18:04 AM | Report

Jillian May Well lets just say tht when ever i try and talk 2 my bf, all my friends run ovr and start to interupt it annoys me A LOT!! And then i gess ive started to feel uncomfortable to talk to him bcuz i think their gonna run ovr and make a relly lame coment!

2/7/2012 7:40:44 PM | Report

MusikRox1999 HELP!!! Please answer on my profile! I want to get my crush's cell # but I have no idea how to come across the subject and especially without letting on that I like him. How can I get it without being obvious??

2/7/2012 1:26:25 AM | Report

BoysCheerleadingLife13 plus she hates me. idk if i still like him but he gives me signs. he is offly good at ignoring me tho. im so confused

2/3/2012 4:26:48 PM | Report

BoysCheerleadingLife13 so i like this boy. he is my ex-bf. we broke up because he played a really mean joke on me w/his friends. basically the joke was so bad that i almost ended up driving to the hospital. he likes this girl that every boy likes. HELP

2/2/2012 5:14:33 PM | Report

cutie00

2/24/2012 9:28:49 PM | Report

Necrospider I have a BGF who has a crush on me. I like him too, but lately he's been sort of avoiding me. Is there anything I can do?

1/28/2012 5:19:19 PM | Report

cutie00 i had that happen b4 i just cornered him and talked to him. Figures he was nervous around me since i knew he liked me.

2/24/2012 9:37:55 PM | Report

morganika I like 2 guys, but i don't know which 1 i like more. 1 is my best guy friend, and the other1 used to be my friend but we don't talk much any more, and i think its because he likes and i like him. i'm really shy...any advice on being more outgoing?

1/22/2012 1:06:39 AM | Report

ROGER191998 We are together. The thing is his first gf he broke up with still really likes him. I don't know if I should tell him I like him or not because I don't want to ruin us! PLEASE HELP!!!!! What should I do?

1/16/2012 11:18:41 PM | Report

xXMissBehavedXx If anyone reads this plz answer on my profile! Is 12 too young to date? Nothing serious, just a totally casual relationship. Plz explain your answer, don’t just say yes or no. Thanks!

1/16/2012 6:20:07 PM | Report

cici123 i think my crush has a girlfriend, but it seems like he likes me. he flirts with my alot. how do i make him my boyfriend?

1/15/2012 10:51:10 AM | Report

bonbonhallie ask hem "do u have a gf

2/18/2012 7:13:06 PM | Report

G & F I need HELP!!!! I have a boyfriend of whom I love and adore weve been going out for a year. But my bgf is really funny and nice and careing and I'm starting to get feelings for him. i tell these feelings to go away but i can't. what do i do!!!!!!!!!

1/13/2012 8:08:43 PM | Report

Bean7280 Theres this guy who likes me and i like him but he has a gf! He alsp goes to a diff school but we txt each other every day and i see him every wed...What should i do? Thx

1/3/2012 11:29:27 PM | Report

Tropical1340 So there is this guy I have liked for a longggggg time and I really want to tell him. So for the past few months I have been casually giving hints. I don't know if he is getting them or not. And I want to ask him to our freshman formal. Please help!

1/2/2012 2:46:37 PM | Report

theg I really like this guy, but I always start convo's with mean stuff on accident and especially when he comes on to me. Help! I can't stop!

12/29/2011 6:01:10 PM | Report

Icecreamluver My BFF is self conscious and is super embarrassed she likes someone. She feels like he's way to perfect for her and that she'll never be worthy of him. She also feels she'll never be pretty enough for anyone. What can I do to help her?

12/24/2011 12:00:33 AM | Report

katlynn6 So I like this guy and we talk a lot in the hallways but in class we sit right next to each other and can't keep a convo going. It gets really awkward. What should I do?

12/14/2011 11:41:15 AM | Report

pelo1999 hi

12/10/2011 10:16:12 PM | Report

breezey123 my bf will txt me all night but he wont talk to me at school.......my friends tell me to break up with him but i really like him what should i do?

12/5/2011 3:51:42 PM | Report

jazmin23 would flirt with me everytime he could . but he got a gf a few weeks later & stopped talking to me . but the weird thing is that he started flirting with even wen he was with the girl & now he wont talk to me at all & i want to y & if he worth waitin

12/3/2011 11:29:14 AM | Report

jazmin23 well ive known this guy for 5 years & he wrote me a note saying he liked me in the 4th grade & back then i wasn't interested in him or any boys so last year i asked him if he still liked me and he said yes , so i told him i liked him . Meghan D.

12/3/2011 11:24:53 AM | Report

texanangel00 I like this guy but he's 2 years older than me. Sometimes it seems like he likes me because he flirts a lot w/ me. I've told him I like him and he said " I wish u were older" but i told him i dont like him anymore but I still do but he has a gf! :(

11/30/2011 7:57:58 PM | Report

Sockers14 I have LOADS of guy friends, but when it comes to liking guys, I am completely clueless. What do I do?

11/15/2011 7:14:35 PM | Report

8horselover okay so this guy that i still like broke up w/ me cause he thought i was going to break up w/ him he thinks i like this other guy i don't but he thinks im lying i want him badly but i don't know how to confront him he always has his friend around.

11/10/2011 1:23:10 PM | Report

alyssa_taylor_ Im confused this boy at school I like flirts with me ALLL the time, but he also flirts with other girls. Am I getting wrong impression or is he sending wrong signals???

11/9/2011 9:51:30 PM | Report

bdarrough98 could finish my sentences.then the other day at the football game we stuck together and it was raining and so we went under shelter and he made everyone move so i could stay by him.we've been hanging out more was this just a friendly gesture or what?

11/9/2011 1:09:01 PM | Report

bdarrough98 there is this guy at school and he is my best friend we think a lot alike and its been that was since before we even met i found out after i met him in 6th grade we did the exact same science fair project the year before and when we met he...

11/9/2011 1:06:05 PM | Report

izzytheswiftie The dance was yesterday, and we just found out that my crush 80% probably likes me, than my friends dragged me around to all the places he was going and told him I wanted to dance with him!!! im moving soon, so wat do i do

11/4/2011 11:14:04 PM | Report

kkttyl123 this boy is the bigest hawty at skool andis dateing my friend what shold i do me and the boy know echoter longer

11/2/2011 6:02:12 PM | Report

brandon phillips i really like this guy and i think he likes me to what should i do

10/30/2011 12:37:31 PM | Report

Kchan Sorry if i double posted this I wanna be friends with this guy but i dont want him to think i wanna be a girlfriend. I dont know anything really about him and he's really smart. He's in two of my classes. P.S. Join "Who Knows Fashion" club

10/25/2011 8:39:08 PM | Report

Kchan I wanna be friends with a guy but don't want him to take friends the wrong way. I don't know anything about him. Just that he's in two of my classes. He's really smart too. ANy advice??? P.S. Join the club Who Knows Fashion

10/25/2011 8:36:05 PM | Report

Kchan I wanna be friends with a guy but don't want him to take friends the wrong way. I don't know anything about him. Just that he's in two of my classes. He's really smart too. ANy advice??? P.S. Join the club Who Knows Fashion

10/25/2011 8:35:41 PM | Report

Kchan I wanna be friends with a guy but don't want him to take friends the wrong way. I don't know anything about him. Just that he's in two of my classes. He's really smart too. ANy advice??? P.S. Join the club Who Knows Fashion

10/25/2011 8:33:43 PM | Report

grffitigal I LIKE DIS GUY BT ONE OF MY FRIEND GOING OUT WITH HIM BUT SHE'S USING HIM FOR POPULARITY! ND I REALLY LIKE HIM HOW CAN I TELL HIM THAT I LIKE HIM AND ALSO THAT SHE'S JUST USING HIM IN A WAY THAT HE SHOULD NOT THINK THAT I'M JEALOUS OF HER -dROCK

10/25/2011 6:27:30 AM | Report

hersheychocolate11 Thanks! I guess thats around the time when guys get kinda better.

10/19/2011 7:07:56 PM | Report

alexrocks784 I really need this answered theres this guy in my class whos really nice and super cute the only problem is i don't know if he likes me. we were best buds last year but ever sence summer he just avoids me. what should i do?

10/17/2011 9:36:40 PM | Report

izzytheswiftie This is real and I need it answered! I'm in love with this guy.(there r claimers saying he is <3 w/ me) Were also best friends. He's super hot, laughs at my jokes and we have a ton in common. I'm moving to the otha side of the world: should i fin ask

10/17/2011 4:48:28 AM | Report

nancydrew12 hi me again... i tried talking to him but i get to scared it took me till the end of the day to tell him good job in his football game :( any advice 4 this

10/15/2011 9:11:39 PM | Report

hersheychocolate11 I dont have any crushes. Im in middle school so the guys are going through the change. So there changing for the bad.Anyways there are 2 guys i think are kinda cute but they have gfs so that made me think what s the best time to start dating?

10/11/2011 6:13:05 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! i strongly believe that dating should only start in high school! from my experiences, high school relationships actually mean something and any time before then is sort of too young! but whenever you want to date is up to you! :)

10/12/2011 5:26:47 PM | Report

nancydrew12 I like this guy and I want to talk to him but in my school girls dont talk to guys and I dont know if he would like me back if I told him I liked him or if he would tell everyone HELP!

10/10/2011 5:43:22 PM | Report

bonbonhallie it's up to you

2/18/2012 7:44:40 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! i think you should just talk to him!! be confident! if you don't talk to him then you'll never know what could have happened! trust me if you talk to him it'll be worth it! :)

10/12/2011 5:25:12 PM | Report

mars12154 Well for one thing I have a crush and he's the bad boy in school. The problem is everybody thinks I'm a preepy girl in school and so does he they all think ima teachers pet

10/10/2011 9:19:37 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! it really doesn't matter what people think of you! as long as you both like each other, i'd try to talk to him and become friends. labels are only labels and they don't matter!

10/12/2011 5:22:50 PM | Report

mars12154 Well for one thing I have a crush and he's the bad boy in school. The problem is everybody thinks I'm a preepy girl in school and so does he they all think ima teachers pet

10/10/2011 9:17:24 AM | Report

izzytheswiftie Haha! JKJK about the advice question! It was a joke... I'm such a girly girl, but yet I hate guys! LOL I'm such a PRANKSTA!!

10/9/2011 7:08:15 AM | Report

izzytheswiftie Hi I'm in love with this guy. (there r claimers saying he is <3 w/ me) We are also best friends. He's super hot, laughs at my jokes and we have a ton in common. Its not FOR SURE he likes me, and im moving far away, so should i finally ask him?

10/5/2011 4:07:24 AM | Report

GOALIEROCK1301 it homecoming week and today our teacher said that girls cant where guys football jerseys.oh and im in 5th grade.any way.we cant where them because some girls got cheated on and started to cry.and now every one is blaming a girl and now she feels bad

10/4/2011 10:26:56 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! stick up for the girl if it's not her fault! don't join in with everyone blaming her!

10/12/2011 5:21:13 PM | Report

McKenna:) ok i like my best friends EXboyfriend.But she said she dosent care bc she broke up with him but idk should i like him? bc i really really do hes just like me and hes so funny idk what to do HELP.+ i think he likes me!!

10/1/2011 11:18:54 PM | Report

soccergirl524 if you are SURE your BFF won't get mad about it, and you make sure you let her know what you're gonna do, then i say go for it! :)

10/12/2011 5:19:52 PM | Report

speaknowforver so, i know this guy and hes in 2 of my classes but we don't really talk except to catch up on hw . all my friends and his friends r tellin me he likes me but i don't knoo... (i kinda like him)

9/28/2011 6:17:05 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! if you like him then talk to him more often! :) you already talk to him so that's awesome! now just start to talk about things other than homework and see what you 2 have in common! :)

10/12/2011 5:18:45 PM | Report

LilmissBTR Ok so hers the deal: I kinda like this guy, hes rlly nice and cutebut see the problem is hes in gr 8 m in gr 7 so idk wat 2 do HELPPP (i'mmm reaaaly shy wen it comes to guys)

9/28/2011 5:39:40 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! age doesn't matter! you gotta just get up the confidence to talk to him! :) you'll never know what could happen if you don't at least try! good luck! :)

10/12/2011 5:17:25 PM | Report

NevaStar My BF keeps doing stuff that gets me mad. He always jokes around about having other girlfriends, and one of my BFFs as his wife.I talked to him and he felt bad. but he's started it again only a few days later. Am i just being too dramatic or jealous?

9/19/2011 7:04:35 PM | Report

NevaStar I'e even comtemplated breaking up with him, and i've liked him for a long time.we've only been dating nearly 2 months.He says he'd never try to make me jealous/mad,he says he'll always be mine, but it doesn't seem like it.my friends have noticed too

9/19/2011 11:17:36 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! if this really bothers you, talk to him one last time and give him one more chance. let him know that it'll be his last chance. if he blows it again, break up with him! don't waste your time being upset with him!

9/23/2011 4:08:57 PM | Report

babygirl67811 like i do...i dont wanna date him but my heart and my head are confusing me and im not really sure how to react to this. any advice ? (:

9/16/2011 4:08:06 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! if you can picture the 2 of you dating and you like what you see, then definitely date him! :) but if there's any doubt or you think that you don't really like him, then don't lead him on and let him know you just wanna be friends!

9/19/2011 8:10:03 PM | Report

babygirl67811 like i do...i dont wanna date him but my heart and my head are confusing me and im not really sure how to react to this. any advice ? (:

9/16/2011 4:07:10 PM | Report

babygirl67811 hey ok so heres the problem: i've known this guy for a while and hes really cool and were good friends and all but i would never EVER date him. now all of a sudden, i have this wierd feeling that i might like him...like i think i do but i dont feel..

9/16/2011 4:05:07 PM | Report

Lauranna My seat in class is rite in back of this REALLY cute guy i noticed.i think he likes me cuz he asked if i wud be his lab partner in science.but i think i blew it cuz i just stood there not knowing what to do.i said yes but now i feel awkward.wat 2 do?

9/12/2011 5:25:17 PM | Report

soccergirl524 also, since you're lab partners, just be yourself and have fun :) remember to make conversation and be friendly! :)

9/13/2011 8:47:37 PM | Report

soccergirl524 be his lab partner! :) it's totally fine, trust me, you didn't blow it! :) deffffinitely be his lab partner girl! you'll get to know him better! then you can be friends or possibly more than friends!! :)

9/13/2011 8:46:41 PM | Report

LunaEstrellas How do I know if a guy likes me? And should I flirt if he likes me? What if he asks me out what should I say?

9/9/2011 7:07:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 if a guy likes you he'll usually try to spend a lot of time with you, flirt with you, look at you often, and joke around with you a lot :) if you like him and he likes you, then you should flirt back! :) if he asks you out and you like him, say yes!

9/10/2011 11:08:16 AM | Report

pepper444 but there's this guy who stares at me a lot! does it also mean he likes me?

12/29/2011 10:58:01 AM | Report

fashionfairy single for awhile. meanwhile, the other ones goin CRAZY for him, and has been for the past, like, year, and they keep coming to me for advice about wat 2 do for about the other girl, and here i am in the middle liking him too! WTH???

9/7/2011 5:54:46 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! i think you and your friends all need to hang out soon. then you should just talk about it and also tell them that you like him also. you don't want to let this guy come between you and your friends! figure things out now before its too late! :)

9/8/2011 11:17:50 AM | Report

fashionfairy I really like this guy, like REALLY like him, but the thing is, two of my 4 BFFs have this like huge fight going on over him. he asked one of them out, who doesnt really like him that much, but DESPERATELY wants a boyfriend, as she's been...

9/7/2011 5:49:34 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR There is this guy I like He's really Cute. The problem is I DON'T know him And I'm rlly Shy so I can't talk to him AND I think He's dating one of my friends

9/6/2011 7:13:54 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR nevermind hesss rudddeee :( and now my evry1 says my bgf likes me but i KNOW he doesnt or maybe hes lying to me cuz i asked him how do u noe a guy likes u????

9/8/2011 7:13:00 PM | Report

soccergirl524 he might like you! :) try to find out! :)

9/14/2011 4:40:09 PM | Report

fashionfairy the main way 2 know that a guy likes u is if he makes fun of u or teases u alot.

9/14/2011 8:18:46 AM | Report

fashionfairy try and become friends, then when they break up, pounce!

9/8/2011 4:10:56 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! if he's taken, definitely stay away! if he's not taken, try to get up the courage to talk to him! :) at least try to text him or smile at him or facebook message him or something! :) that way you can become friends!

9/7/2011 5:05:30 PM | Report

Sarah B. So I broke up with my boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 years and it was mutual so we are friends but I haven't exprienced high school without a boyfriend...I don't want to get back together with him but I don't want to rush into another relationship too fast

9/3/2011 4:51:28 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! just take thing slow. go with the flow! see if you start to like any other guys! if you do, cool, see where things go! if you don't, then just be single for a while! :) there's no rush and just take your time and stay friends with your ex!

9/5/2011 12:58:46 PM | Report

novlist1307 School is about 2 start and there is a new boy in my class. He's tall and has blonde shaggy hair, and he's the neighbor of my crush. My problem, getting to know the new boy and become friends. I can make friends, but Im not good with guys. Help <3

8/31/2011 10:24:12 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! just be yourself and be friendly! introduce yourself to him and offer to show him around the school or sit with you at lunch! you make friends with guys the same way you make friends with girls! :) it's all being yourself and being friendly! :)

9/1/2011 11:06:15 AM | Report

rtyryt98 My bgf and i kiss each other on the cheek a lot! I consider him my bf, but i don't know if he considers me his gf. What do i do?!

8/28/2011 1:46:15 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you should talk to him and ask him if he considers you his gf. if he does, then you two should date :) if he doesn't just stay really good friends :)

8/29/2011 11:24:10 AM | Report

rtyryt98 But it'd be sooo awkward! I'm afraid that if i ask, we'll grow apart!

8/30/2011 10:07:44 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hi again! then i guess don't ask and just go with the flow! as long as you two are happy, who really cares what your "relationship status" is? :)

8/31/2011 1:43:01 PM | Report

rtyryt98 okie doke! thanks for the advice!

8/31/2011 8:44:38 PM | Report

isiahlaye my school's HOTTIE is in my class he just got a new phone and i dont know his number (ive been crushing on him since kindergarten) his friends know i like him and they said i like him and he likes me too what do i do?!

8/27/2011 10:16:12 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) that's awesome! you should definitely get his number and start texting him! :)

8/29/2011 11:23:18 AM | Report

alierox there's this UBER cute new guy in my grade, but he's in none of my classes, so how do i even get to know him

8/24/2011 6:32:35 PM | Report

soccergirl524 could you possibly see him at lunch, after, or before school? or could you text him or talk to him through facebook? :) i would try any of these options if you can!

8/25/2011 4:32:39 PM | Report

hpnerd<3 me and this guy txted almost every day most of the summer and i knew he liked me during the school year and he told me he liked me over the summer, but now he says he doesnt like me and he only liked me for a day and doesnt txt me anymore! plz help!!

8/18/2011 6:46:36 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi girl! if you still like him, you should try to talk to him more often! you know he liked you at one point so he might start liking you again! if he has already moved on, then you should try to get over him and try to find someone new to like! :)

8/19/2011 4:35:39 PM | Report

fungirl123 But then, she acts like she did nothing and I benefit in NO WAY at all!

8/18/2011 11:45:14 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you just gotta move past it then. ignore her. end the friendship and don't listen to her excuses!

8/19/2011 4:34:03 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hi! So I have a friend. Lately we haven’t been getting along. She won’t return my calls and I KNOW she’s home. My other problems with her is that she can never respect what I have to say when she KNOWS it’s the truth (Example: I tell her nicely she isn’t a very good singer. AND SHE CALLS ME JEALOUS!! Or when I try to tell her that a boy doesn’t like her, she tells me that she doesn’t care about what I have to say!). It’s been really getting on my nerves. But if I tell her I don’t want to be her friend, she goes all “goodie-goodie” on me like she did nothing! I don’t know what to do! I don’t have anyone else that keeps my secrets like that! I did one of those lists that states the good and the bad…I got more bad. I really don’t want to be her friend!!!! What do I do????!!!!!

8/17/2011 6:13:51 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! okay, i think you need to tell all of this to your friend. tell her exactly what you wrote to me. how she's been getting on your nerves. tell her WHY she's been annoying you. see if she's willing to fix it. if not, don't be her friend anymore!

8/18/2011 10:30:19 AM | Report

speaknowforver ok so about a year ago i met a boy he wuz really nice and i k liked him he liked me but he lives in the city.we swore to txt each other all the time but we soon just stoped. Now he's txting me again and i think i still like him wat do i do?

8/16/2011 2:20:47 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) definitely text back! if possible, you should contact him on facebook, or maybe call him :) just because he lives in the city doesn't mean you guys can't plan a day to meet up and hang out! :) you should definitely do that! :)

8/17/2011 10:34:12 AM | Report

hanho2005 one of my GF likes me and asked me to dance on grad night (8th grade) and I didnt want to hurt his feelings so i did. i still think of him as a friend and when asked 'do u like him?' i go 'i dont know...' aahh wat to do? (1st timer here+paniking!)

8/11/2011 6:47:59 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! ok, so just tell everyone you're going to the dance just as friends!! and you should let your guy friend know ASAP that you only like him as a friend so that he doesn't get the wrong idea! just tell him that you wanna be just friends for now! :)

8/12/2011 8:54:39 AM | Report

fashionfairy some jerk whipped out his cell and txted pics to half the school! Now everybody thinks we like sleep together or somethng! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!

8/9/2011 4:57:52 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl. ignore the rumors. you know that it's not true. it doesn't matter what other people think. tell the guy who sent the pics that it's not acceptable to do that. keep your chin up and deny the rumors! you know they're not true!!

8/10/2011 11:01:43 AM | Report

fashionfairy hey!!! So i was in a group of plpl playing truth or dare, and this guy dared me to change shirts with another guy (while I was inside, of course). So I did the stupid thing, and gave in. Well, when we were in each other's shirts...

8/9/2011 4:56:17 PM | Report

Pumpkin1513 Hey!! Ok so i went out with this boy for a year and a half and then i ended it bcuz ppl kept telling me he was gunna kiss me then break uP with me. But now hes dating my best friend and i still love him. Do u know how i can get over him?

8/9/2011 12:58:32 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! you need to focus on new things! keep yourself busy! hang out with your girl friends and have a sleepover or do something fun! just keep your mind off him! don't try to communicate with him or anything. surround yourself with friends and family!

8/10/2011 10:59:29 AM | Report

hpnerd<3 last year! he told my firend he only liked me for like a couple days this summer but idk if he is lying! he has done that before! he knows im mad at him he just doesnt know y and he wont ask me!

8/8/2011 1:29:08 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! i think you should tell him how you feel next time you talk to him. just ask what's going on and why he's saying this stuff. it's better to talk to him about it than hide your feelings. :)

8/9/2011 11:23:37 AM | Report

hpnerd<3 me and this boy txted almost every day for like half the summer (he always started the convo with me, im not allowed to txt boys first,idk if he knows that) but now he doesnt txt me at all! he told me he kinda liked me but i know he liked me all of..

8/8/2011 1:26:10 PM | Report

ah1313 Do you have to be born dislexik or can it just come one day? If it can i think i have it because i read words for what they arnt. Like today i read 'splish' as 'spanish' and this happens alot everyday. If it isnt dislexia then what is it?

8/3/2011 11:48:26 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you don't have to be born with dyslexia. it can happen over time. which means that it's possible you might have it. you should go to your doctor to find out!! :)

8/4/2011 11:19:31 AM | Report

fashionfairy hey girl! I have a pretty bad problem. I sent a really embarassing text to a guy that knows I like him, and he showed the entire school! Now everybody like laughs in my face when I walk by. Even my BFFs act akward around me... HELP!!!

8/3/2011 6:04:03 PM | Report

soccergirl524 heyy! omg :( im sorry! :( but you need to stand up to these people. when they laugh, ignore them. if there are rumors, ignore them. show them you're better than that. :)

8/4/2011 11:17:10 AM | Report

fashionfairy hey girl! So I have a pretty bad problem. I sent an embarrasing text to a guy that knows I like him, and he showed the whole school! Now everybody like laughs in my face when I walk by them, and my BFFs act really akward around me. HELP!!!

8/3/2011 5:55:52 PM | Report

ayojacks hola how do you get a friend to move on from a loser guy..

8/3/2011 11:59:24 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you need to encourage her and let her know that she's too good for him! let her know that she's really special to a lot of people, and he's not good enough for her! :) constantly remind her of these things!

8/4/2011 11:15:13 AM | Report

makeitshine21 hey lauren i was wondering if u have any advice on getting a bf...i'm going into high school this year and still no one has gone out with me.

8/1/2011 12:02:01 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! to get a boyfriend, you honestly have to do two things: the first is be yourself! this will help you get a bf who likes you for who you really are! :) second, give yourself lots of options! be open to any guy and experiment with new people! :)

8/2/2011 10:49:28 AM | Report

BroadwayBabe1023 There's this guy that i went to preschool with. I haven't seen him in years, but I discovered that we go to the same pool. Now i'm not sure whether or not to go talk to him. I'm really into him but i don't know if he'll remember me, what should I do?

8/1/2011 11:13:47 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! DEFINITELY go up to him! :) if he doesn't remember you, so what? re-introduce yourself! if you don't go up to him, you'll just sit there wishing you did! you'll never know if you don't make the effort! :) i say go for it girl! :)

8/2/2011 10:47:23 AM | Report

emdog2000 my ex has a new GF and i dont know how i feel about that. we broke up about 5 months ago. but me and him kinda flirt with each other when i c him. idk what hes thinking. but then he cancelled his facebook i think... or he maybe unfriend me. i dunno?

7/31/2011 11:47:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! to me, it sounds like u might not b totally over ur ex. which is totally fine, i understand cuz i just went thru that. sadly, u can't make him dump his new gf :( u just have to go with the flow and b friends for now! it's tough, but wait it out!

8/1/2011 10:44:00 AM | Report

sydthekid0507 I have an ex boyfriend and now he is like my BGF (fate is weird)and we broke up like 8 months ago but I think we're still into each other but don't even know it. We even act like we're together still sometimes!! I'm just confused :\ WHAT DO I DO?!?!?

7/29/2011 10:56:51 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! ask him ASAP how he feels about you. ask him if he still has romantic feelings towards you and if he likes you as more than a friend! if not, that's okay. but if he does, you might wanna try dating him again! :)

7/30/2011 6:06:14 PM | Report

lizzi1572 school is starting in 9 days and im going into 7th grade this year and i've liked the same guy since 3rd grade! and i really wanna ask him out but idk how to w/ out looking like an idiot. and WHAT IF HE SAYS NO AND LAUGHS IN MY FACE?! please help!!!

7/29/2011 5:38:18 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) be confident! make sure you're friends with him first and get to know him! then flirt with him and finally, ask him out! the worst he will do is say no, and he WON'T laugh at you, trust me girl! :) good luck!

7/30/2011 6:04:09 PM | Report

singin'queen I like this guy and my friends told him I like him, but he doesn't go to my school so I may not see him again in person for years. Also I think he likes another girl. How do I tell if he likes me back?

7/29/2011 5:19:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 if he talks to you a lot, smiles, laughs with you, compliments you, then he's probably into you :) also if he flirts with you that's a big hint! :)

7/30/2011 6:02:53 PM | Report

bamagirl22 i really like this guy but i can't date HELP!!

7/28/2011 10:20:47 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you have to wait till you can date :) till then, flirt :)

7/30/2011 6:01:43 PM | Report

dmaluvsmusic PLEASE HELP! I rely like this guy but he likes my friend. He talks about her al the time and knows i like him. What do i do?! I try 2 4get about him but i just can't I think bout him all the time! I don't want to fall 4 some1 who's not fallen 4 me!!!

7/27/2011 2:44:36 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) okay, so i know it's tough! but try to stay friends with him for now! you never know when his feelings will change! until then, stay close to him and wait it out! :) what's meant to be will be :)

7/30/2011 6:01:04 PM | Report

Dancer4 Please help!! I like a guy and he's nice to Me but he asked my friend out then said he didn't like her and Jude wanted to know if she liked him, I don't want to fall in his trap again, what do I do!!!!!!

7/26/2011 12:03:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! if he doesn't like your friend anymore, tell her that! and tell her you like him! also you should flirt with him if you wanna date him :)

7/30/2011 5:59:52 PM | Report

soccerchica42 okay... so i like this guy. i can text him all fine and all but when i try to go up to him i get super shy and awkward! what should i do!?

7/25/2011 12:39:45 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) just be yourself!! and remember to smile, laugh and be friendly :) remember, he texts you, so you already know he likes you for who you are! :)

7/30/2011 5:58:16 PM | Report

peacelovewyse Boy prob. So I like this guy since 5th grade. He seemed to like me back. But now he hates me because I yelled at him 2 years ago, just to make my friend happy. I hate her now. I really want him to like me again. How do I show him that I've changed?

7/24/2011 10:36:40 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! :) just tell him that you're sorry about yelling and that you won't do it again! :) ask him to trust you!

7/30/2011 5:56:11 PM | Report

espaces14 Boy Drama! Ok so i met this boy at a dance, and we stayed together for the whole night, we talked, and texted forthe next few weeks.It wasnt anything serious, just puppylove. We went out a coupletimes, and then he asked me to be his gf. I accepted. his mom is protective and told him no gf's, but he dated me anyway. His mom found out and he broke up with me, he has no facebook now, and i am sort of afraid to call him. My friends wont listen causethey think this is stupid. I am just really confused on what to do b/c i still really like him!and rumor has it he still likes me please help.

7/23/2011 5:57:44 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) can you possibly ask him if he's allowed to date now? if he's not, you can't really date without his mom's approval! so just wait it out :) it'll be worth it! :)

7/30/2011 5:54:59 PM | Report

moalone I met this guys two weeks ago:) His name is Luke we are in theater camp together he is a beautiful singer/guy!! I reeaally like him:) any good ways to flirt??

7/23/2011 3:12:26 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) just be yourself! :) smile, laugh, and give him compliments :)

7/30/2011 5:53:10 PM | Report

Coventry1999 Ive liked this guy for almost a whole year and I rly hate that I still like him.I asked him out three times and he said no each time.After he says no he will pull me over to the side and say that he does like me.I hate that I like him.Help me plz!!!!

7/21/2011 1:47:12 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! :) be more direct and ask if he likes you. if he says no, MOVE ON! you don't wanna be stuck liking him forever!! there are better guys! if he says he does like you, ask him why he won't go out with you!

7/30/2011 5:52:22 PM | Report

Coventry1999 Thanks! I will definetly do that this year!!!!

8/1/2011 3:44:03 AM | Report

soccergirl524 no problem girl! :) glad to help! :)

8/2/2011 10:50:21 AM | Report

chrissysays21 How do u know if u actually like a guy? cuz sometimes i feel like i like this guy and sometimes i REALLY dont.

7/19/2011 9:39:30 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) if you can picture him kissing you, holding your hand, all that romantic stuff, and if you like the idea of it, then you probs like him :)

7/30/2011 5:51:06 PM | Report

AlyssaLM6 Hey, I have a crush in this guy that is going into high school and I am going into 7th grade. I won't get to see him for awhile and I have spoke to him a couple of times. But, our families are really close and I kinda don't know him.What should I do?

7/18/2011 11:11:41 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! :) i think you should stay friends with him for now and see what happens...maybe text or facebook him? :) just go with the flow for now and focus on being friends for now! :)

7/30/2011 5:49:57 PM | Report

Girlskickgrass HELP! My BGF used to like each other in 7th grade and this past year, but I broke it off because we never saw each other, only texted. Now I like him again, but so does my worst enemy! I'm going to a camp with him next week and I don't know what to d

7/15/2011 9:40:02 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! just be yourself :) make sure you talk to him and hang out with him! :) and start texting again! :)

7/30/2011 5:48:49 PM | Report

Girlskickgrass HELP! my BGF and I used to like each other in 7th grade, and then again this past school year. I broke it off with him because we never saw each other, only texted. I like him again, but the problem is, so does my worst enemy! What should I do?

7/15/2011 8:41:05 PM | Report

soccergirl524 I'll be on vacation from July 16- July 31! :) I will answer all advice questions as soon as I get back! :)

7/15/2011 7:09:18 PM | Report

Ha haha nevermid i figured it ou! thanks though!

7/15/2011 1:10:43 AM | Report

Ha Hey,I was wondering how to become an advice queeen> can you leave you answer on my profile? thanks:)

7/15/2011 12:24:55 AM | Report

LiLmissBTR Hey, Its me again I like a different guy now hes sweet, funny, nice, smart, british, and hes two yrs older than me. Problem is he is my cousin...........Sorry if it sonds wird but i duno wat 2 do? HELP PLEASE

7/13/2011 8:17:42 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! it's NOT weird! i've given advice to tons of girls that likes their relatives! but i think you should try to find a guy to like that you're NOT related to! :) it's for the better girl! scope out guys in your school or somewhere else instead :)

7/14/2011 11:06:55 AM | Report

ashjoka For my 1-month bf: I text him but he never texts back (which is really annoying bc i keep checking my phone) bc hes too busy(he's not lying) I miss him. Ill see him at school in Sept. and everything will be really nice bc i get to see him everyday..

7/11/2011 9:30:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey i commented on your profile on what i think you should do :)

7/12/2011 10:55:39 AM | Report

ashjoka Thanks so much :)

7/12/2011 12:35:00 PM | Report

soccergirl524 no problem girl! :)

7/12/2011 1:01:36 PM | Report

lovemybeau1994 ok so that girl that was answering on ur page is so rude. i was reading it earlier. i wanted to be like "grow up". she's being ridiculous. did you report her?

7/11/2011 8:17:50 PM | Report

soccergirl524 yeah i did!

7/12/2011 10:54:44 AM | Report

lovemybeau1994 k so ive been with my bf over a year. ik for sure he is the right guy for me and we are getting married as soon as we get out of high school. i'm 17. we've had sex and my friends dont like it. is that so wrong?? ik he is the right one for me

7/10/2011 9:46:38 PM | Report

soccergirl524 u need to make those decisions, not ur friends! just be careful with whatever u decide. even tho a year seems like a long time, i kno people who have broken up after 6 years! it's an important choice. make sure you're sure of your decision first! :)

7/11/2011 10:37:18 AM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 well its my friends flirting with HIM, he is the one who told me about it...

7/9/2011 4:10:14 PM | Report

soccergirl524 oh! my bad! :) well then as long as he's NOT flirting back don't break up with him. but DEFINITELY talk to your friends about it ASAP cuz that's not what friends do.

7/10/2011 1:24:05 PM | Report

sgcsgirl2 there was a guy that liked me since kindergarden and he just stopped talking to me. for the few rare times he txted me he keeps saying stuff like hes my bf. what does that mean?

7/8/2011 5:52:04 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! it means that he likes you and wants to be your boyfriend :) if you don't like him like that, you should tell him!

7/9/2011 11:12:40 AM | Report

Soccergirl615 I have a friend from school he has liked me since 7th grade but when I talk to him he is just interested in my body and keeps asking me for pics what should I do? I'm defiantly refusing his offers but should I not be buds with him now?

7/7/2011 11:09:21 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! I think you should stay friends...but if he keeps asking for pics, tell him that you're not gonna be friends with him anymore! let him know how wrong it is for him to do that. and you're doing the right thing to not send him pics! :)

7/8/2011 12:48:17 PM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 Well my friends started flirting with my boyfriend and i think he is starting to fall for it. What should i do? i am freaking out!

7/6/2011 5:52:34 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! talk to your boyfriend ASAP about him flirting with your friends. hear him out and see what his reaction is. if he denies it, let it slide THIS time. if it happens again or repeatedly, i say you should think about ending the relationship!!

7/7/2011 11:09:47 AM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 HELP ME! i am dating this really amazing guy who all my friends say they hate and they badmouth him to his face and fight with him all the time. I left town for a week, and there was a school event where all of my friends and my boyfriend were there.

7/6/2011 5:51:52 PM | Report

LoveMeHateMe90210 volleyballgirl7799, u should have a talk with all ur friends and tell them to stop badmouthing him. ur in love and if they can't help but badmouth him everytime they see him, maybe its time 4 new BFF's.

7/18/2011 12:12:45 PM | Report

Kalulah well there's this guy at school that i really like. During school we would talk almost every day and he has become like a brother to me. Since summer started, we havn't talked much though.. Do you have any tips on how to text him first? Thanks!! :)

7/5/2011 9:23:06 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) just send him something simple like, "hey :)" or "hey, what's up? :)" it seems scary but honestly im sure he will text back! :) be yourself! good luck! :)

7/6/2011 9:39:54 AM | Report

BlueOwl76 I've been texting this guy, who is soo sweet, but he is 4 years older than me! I always think of myself as mature, but still! Should I go for him?

7/4/2011 7:05:34 PM | Report

soccergirl524 i say go for it! :) :) just be careful because a big age gap can have its negative aspects!!

7/5/2011 8:32:29 AM | Report

jtbeauty15 im dating sme1 younger than me and im not sure if he really likes me i also like another boy who older than me and me and my friend are not sure if he likes me but he flirts with me all the time and we hug everyday so what should i do???

7/2/2011 9:03:20 PM | Report

soccergirl524 if you like someone else besides your bf, dump your bf!! then start to hang out with the older guy more! :) but i say definitely dump your younger boyfriend.

7/3/2011 1:37:18 PM | Report

noodle&poodles 3 now he NEVER texts me back :( y and what should i do?

7/2/2011 9:12:39 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you need to ask him in person or call him and ask why he never texts back! :) you need to try a more direct way of talking to him than texting!!

7/2/2011 11:15:44 AM | Report

noodle&poodles 2 She texted him "TEXT BACK OR ILL KILL U" i told her he prob won't text back. But he did! so 4 like 2 hours (during the play 2) we just texted non stop. he said the play was really boring and he was bored, but he flirted and was being really nice!

7/2/2011 9:11:56 AM | Report

noodle&poodles 1So the guy i like used 2 ALWAYS text me and i would text back. All the sudden, he just stoped, so i texted him. Every time i tryed he just never texted back. My friend (a flirt) came over so we could watch a play kids in our school were putting on.

7/2/2011 9:10:06 AM | Report

cinnamorollgirl14 So I did something really bad. I kinda dated this guy just to get over this other guy. I didn't mean it to be that way in the firat place but I realised what happened and now now I broke up with him.I screwed everything over what do I do now?

6/24/2011 5:48:03 PM | Report

soccergirl524 yea that is sorta bad :( you should definitely apologize to the guy you dated to get over the 1st bf.... its the right thing to do :)

6/25/2011 10:18:34 AM | Report

cinnamorollgirl14 well i feel really bad. we havent talked in a long time and i think i broke his heart cuz he told me "r u trying to hurt me?" it feels like i can never ake it up to him and be his friend anymore. i act like its nothing cuz he a nerd-ish guy but idk.

6/25/2011 3:44:50 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! i think you should apologize regardless. you'd never want to hurt someone intentionally :) then at least he will know how sorry you are and how bad you feel :)

6/26/2011 2:46:58 PM | Report

showchoirplease Hey! So, I'm not allowed to date for another year, but my parents won't even let me hang out with my guy friends outside of school, even guys I wouldn't consider dating. How can a get my parents to let me see my guy friends? Thanks!

6/23/2011 1:21:21 PM | Report

soccergirl524 have you talked to them about this? ooooh or try hanging out with a mix of guys and girls?? try both of these.... let your parents know about this ASAP and be honest and serious so they know that you are really telling the truth :) post back!!! :)

6/24/2011 1:54:38 PM | Report

MusicPrincess14 I like this guy, but my friend took it upon himself to pressure the guy to go out with me! The guy didn't even know I like him yet! Now I think its all awkward, and we were supposed to go swimming when I get back home :/ Help!

6/19/2011 4:56:44 PM | Report

soccergirl524 k, u should see what happens when u hang out cuz it might not be as awkward as u think. i doubt it will be awkward at all actually! hang out with him and see what happens then if it's awkward just give it some time. what's the post u made below?

6/20/2011 9:38:38 AM | Report

MusicPrincess14 Hey girl :) so I like this guy, and we don't really know each other that well yet. But i got his number and we started texting, and I invited him to the movies with me and some friends. He came, and the movies was PERFECT <3 So this summer I'm...

6/19/2011 4:53:44 PM | Report

soccergirl524 Hey Girls! :) Summer is almost here! you know what that means... tans, sunshine, new crushes, and no school! i know that summer can also bring tough situations, and i'm here to answer any and all advice questions that you have :) post away! :) <3

6/14/2011 2:34:56 PM | Report

pinkypi26 @soccergirl524- I will quit advertising but anybody is allowed to give girls advice. It helps to get many different perspectives when you ask for advice and I'm not doing anything wrong! Sorry, but I'm just helping people!

6/11/2011 12:30:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 this is unacceptable. if you continue to give out your advice on my personal advice queen page, i will report it to the moderators. once more, please respect my choice and post your own advice on your own personal page.

6/11/2011 4:54:33 PM | Report

pinkypi26 Sorry but Im not sure what the mods are going to do considering the advice queen pages are about helping OTHER GIRLS not getting credit for answering the questions yourself. You can report it to the mods if you would like! Im not doing anything wrong

6/12/2011 1:58:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 i find it funny that you're pitching a fit about this..considering that on YOUR advice page, you asked another girl not to post her advice because you said "it's my job".people come here for MY advice. soccergirl524. NOT pinkypi26 advice.

6/12/2011 7:52:10 PM | Report

pinkypi26 And I'm not the one pitching the fit. I came on here to HELP GIRLS by answering their questions and you threw a fit because you wanted to get all the credit, and me not to get any! :)

6/12/2011 9:05:39 PM | Report

pinkypi26 Yes becase that is my club and I already gave all the other jobs away all I have left is answering the questions! And people come here to GET advice, i doubt they care where its coming from, as long as its good advice.

6/12/2011 9:04:45 PM | Report

soccergirl524 stay off my page

6/13/2011 3:27:18 PM | Report

pinkypi26 I'm sick of arguing with you! Once again I didn't do anything wrong! I'd rather not be associated with someone thats too self centered to allow me to help other girls though so I'm done with your page anyway!

6/15/2011 5:04:46 PM | Report

futurebarbra13 Ok, so there is this really cute guy I met and he asked for my phone # and we txted for a while then I told him I had a crush on him. He stopped talking to me but HE IS SO CUTE!

6/11/2011 12:21:16 AM | Report

soccergirl524 okay, so i recommend you talk to him in person about if he likes you :) i think he does, but you can't be sure unless you ask face to face. or try calling him and asking. try either of these ideas ASAP and see what happens! :) good luck! :)

6/11/2011 2:22:01 PM | Report

pinkypi26 You prob freaked him out when u told him u had a crush on him, he might not feel the same way about you. I'd wait a while before you text him (unless he texts you) and give him some time. Then maybe text him and act like nothing happened! :)

6/11/2011 12:33:48 PM | Report

soccergirl524 @pinkipi26- please DO NOT post your advice or do any advertising on my page. i have a strict rule about that. thank you.

6/10/2011 4:00:39 PM | Report

bonesarecool i like my BGF. Sometimes he flirts with me and talks with me a whole lot but other times he ignores me and flirts with this other girl. ive told him that ive liked him for some time now but it hasnt changed anything. Did i do something wrong?help plz

6/7/2011 9:53:37 PM | Report

pinkypi26 Check out my advice queen page or my advice/tips club Dear Pinky! (I also give advice on my profile)

6/9/2011 4:02:11 PM | Report

pinkypi26 Y ou didn't do anything wrong, he just doesn't like you back. Unfortunately you can't force a guy to like you! You should keep being his friend and if his feelings change, great, but if not oh well. If he doesn't like you thats his loss!

6/9/2011 4:01:41 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! sadly, it doesn't sound like he feels the same way about you!! :( i would continue being his best friend until his feelings change! it'll be worth the wait! and you didn't do anything wrong, right now he just sees you as a friend! :)

6/8/2011 5:55:26 PM | Report

paige153 Hey, My BGF and I are always made fun of about how we are absolutely perfect for each other and that we should date! He finally just said that will never happen and now I think I am falling for a guy who won't ever be into me! Help!

6/3/2011 3:59:02 PM | Report

soccergirl524 since he doesn't feel the same way you need to still be friends :) you don't want to ruin your friendship :) his feelings might change later on but for now you need to remain best friends and see what happens later on!

6/4/2011 10:01:40 AM | Report

Girlskickgrass I was going out with this guy who lives next to me but we broke up cuz we never saw each other we only texted. Then I found out he said things like I was boring so I called himon it and said he felt bad, but this was over texting. I still kinda <3him

6/3/2011 11:54:25 AM | Report

pinkypi26 Its a lot easier to say something in text than in person, so he may not be truely sorry. I know you still kind of like him, but it seems like he may not be the kind of guy for you. You want a guy who wants to spend time with you and whos always nice!

6/9/2011 4:04:13 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! if he said things like that about you and the whole relationship was over text....i think it's best that you try to move on to another guy! if you try but you can't get him off your mind, try talking in person with him more often! :)

6/3/2011 4:17:39 PM | Report

Allison31 Hi! Allison here. So my BF is moving away this summer and I want to do something for him. Something that will really give a piece of me to him. I could only think of giving him a picture with a jar filled with origami stars...

5/30/2011 1:54:52 PM | Report

soccergirl524 i would suggest a picture of you two in a nice frame, or a scrapbook with pics of the two of you together :) you could also make him a mix cd of his favorite songs :) any of these ideas are cute, but your idea of the origami stars is cute too! :)

5/30/2011 2:41:04 PM | Report

queenclairebear52 There are these two guys at school and they r totally awesome. I really like them both but they are both but they r "way out of my league" AND one has a girlfriend and the other is the most popular guy in school. What should I do????

5/29/2011 6:21:25 PM | Report

pinkypi26 Go for the one that doesn't have a GF. Who cares if he's popular! If hes worth having as a boyfriend he will like you for you, not your popularity ranking! Just be yourself around him, if he doesn't like you, thats his loss!

6/9/2011 4:06:00 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! talk to the one that DOESN'T have a gf :) u def have a chance with him! dont let the fact that he's popular scare u! :) but don't chase the one with a gf. that's just asking for drama! :) be confident and say hey to the single one! good luck! :)

5/30/2011 12:56:10 PM | Report

WeDoodle:) hey I like this guy and we have dated before then we almost went out again and now I like him again. In skool he was flirting with me but when I talked to him he acts like he doesnt know who I am.I want to talk to him but idk what 2 say.What do I do

5/25/2011 11:46:36 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! well you should text him :) then talk to him in school about what you texted about! talk face to face about school, t.v., music... summer! anything really! if he still acts lk he doesn't know you after a while, move on and find someone else! :)

5/26/2011 7:39:00 PM | Report

thatdanceplace hey so i like this guy i have known ever since 4th grade and he told me he likes me bak adn weve been flirtin over text but he wont ask me out or txt me bak...shuld i be worried...what shuld i doooo

5/25/2011 2:59:07 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! :) you should talk to him face to face in person and ask why he hasn't answered your texts! also, DEFINITELY ask him to hang out soon! you already know he likes you so he will probably say yes if he's available :) good luck!

5/25/2011 6:49:35 PM | Report

~sexyblondehorselover~ heeey i need some advicee! okay so i really like this guys, and i know he likes me back(he told me), but he is one of my best friend's twin brother!! and he told me we shouldnt go out cuz he didn't want to ruin our friendship...what should i do??

5/21/2011 10:04:54 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! k, so y don't u just keep it chill for now and wait a bit? you 2 know that u like each other, so don't officially date, but u can act like a couple. or if u REALLY want to date, tell him how u feel and see what he says! he might change his mind!

5/22/2011 12:36:15 PM | Report

Lipglosslover47 People constantly tease my bf and I. I dont even know why... but they say things like, "oooo kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss!!" and they pressure me and him. He is really sensitive and tells me all the time how upset it makes him. How do i make it stop?

5/18/2011 8:18:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) tell them to stop it. tell them that it makes him really upset. be serious and firm about it and make sure they hear you loud and clear. if they STILL do it after that, hang with other people for a while :)

5/19/2011 3:31:20 PM | Report

queen genius Me and my bgf are close we got even closer suprisingly after people sayed we make such a cute couple.Should I forget about it or see if he feels the same?

5/18/2011 7:05:15 PM | Report

soccergirl524 see if he feels the same! :) if he does, try dating! if he doesn't feel the same way or if dating doesn't work out, still be friends :) you don't want to ruin your friendship :)

5/19/2011 3:29:43 PM | Report

gracerules617 I like my ex and everybody including me thinks he likes me. We broke up mutually bcuz we were 2s hy around each other. We are perfect for each other and his body language says that he likes me. How can I get him to like me without creeping him out?!

5/17/2011 8:56:53 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! k, so if u two broke up bcuz u were 2 shy, then an easy solution is 2 be LESS shy with each other :) start over & get to know each other better! then flirt and see if he flirts back! :) don't flirt 2 much at first or it'll creep him out! :)

5/18/2011 4:00:28 PM | Report

soccer911 There's a guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me. my so-called friend told him. Now he hasnt been talking to me. Is that a sign of something

5/14/2011 3:38:30 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! yea, it might mean he doesn't like u. but really there's no way to tell what's going on with him until u ask him! talk to him face to face and ask him why he hasn't talked to u and what's going on. u need to find out what's going on with him! :)

5/14/2011 5:48:05 PM | Report

sky593 I have 2 questions, but idk if they will fit in one thingy. 1) I told my crush i liked him last year, and he hasn't talk to me since. I'm too scared to talk to him and my friends try to make him talked to me but I feel bad. What do I do?

5/14/2011 1:19:28 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! :) you should talk to him again maybe in school and ask him why he hasn't talked to you!! definitely ask him face to face if possible! you need to clear up this confusion! don't worry about talking to him...you'll be just fine! :) good luck!! :)

5/14/2011 5:46:32 PM | Report

purplekitty35 Hi! So i like this guy that lives down the street from me. We text occasionally and I really like him. We dont go to the same school either. But we never hang out. I want to get to know him better. What do I do?? -Thanks

5/13/2011 10:08:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! it's GREAT that you live on the same street! why don't you text him and ask him to hang out one day? since you live close by, you could go for a walk or something! :) if you want to get to know him better, DEFINITELY text him and ask to hang! :)

5/14/2011 8:41:46 AM | Report

penn0415 best guy bud problem. I keep trying 2 make a move but he won't take the clue!!!!

5/12/2011 5:18:45 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! he might not like u :( if u're flirting with him & making a move & he doesn't seem to flirt back or anything, either it's not obvious enough or he's not into u like that! make ur flirting obvious and see what he does! if not, value ur friendship!

5/14/2011 8:39:57 AM | Report

nikkistarr10123 bad boys. I dont want 2 break up with him after making out!Im 16 for goodness sake!!! What do i do? A- BREAK UP WIT HIM B- TELL THE PARENTS C-KEEP IT SECRET. I NEED UR HELP SOCCERGIRL524!HELP!!!!!!

5/10/2011 7:58:02 PM | Report

soccergirl524 CONT: have good reasons for y u can date. tell them u're mature & responsible enough & that u think they'll like him :) its better to tell them than to have them find out. then u'll get in a lot of trouble! if u rele like him, 100% tell ur parents :)

5/11/2011 6:53:30 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! im 16 too, and i was scared to DEATH to tell my parents that i had a boyfriend...but it's the right choice. DEFINITELY tell your parents. they will probably understand. tell them that you're 16 and old enough to date now :) be reasonable......

5/11/2011 6:51:28 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 OK QUESTION? JOSHUA TURNED ME DOWN, BUT NOW I HAVE ANOTHER CRUSH- RICKY.Hes my bgf and a bad boy. Today i went over 2 his house to go swimming. Then we started making out and my world turned upside down. I was in love bt my rents dont let me date....

5/10/2011 7:55:44 PM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 how do you become an advice queen? id like to be one but i cant figure out how to...

5/9/2011 8:22:29 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! :) go to the "Fun Stuff" tab, then click "Advice Queens", then there's a blue box that says, "Become an Advice Queen! Click Here!" and then you just click that and fill in the info! :)

5/10/2011 3:22:18 PM | Report

txt_msg_4_u Hey, I REALLY like this 1 guy in my grade. He's hot, althetic, smart, and he has a sweet side. How do I catch his eye? We dated like 2 months ago but broke up bc his best friend and my best friend kept acting like r parents or sumthing. Help please!!

5/8/2011 10:27:06 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! k, 1st off- NEVER let your friends influence your relationship! leave them out of it! :) u know at one point he liked u cuz u 2 went out already! so start flirting with him again & talking to him :) he'll definitely flirt back if he likes you! :)

5/9/2011 5:37:51 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 Does this work? PLEASE DON'T READ THIS, YOU WILL BE KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVER OF YOUR LIFE. TOMMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. NOW YOU'VE STARTED READING THIS, DON'T STOP, THIS IS FREAKY. 1. Say your name 10 times. 2. Say your mom's name 5 times. 3. Say your crush's name 3 times. 4. Paste this to 4 other quizzes. If you do this, your crush will kiss you on the nearest Friday, but if you read this and do not paste this, then you will have very bad luck! SEND THIS TO 5 QUIZZES IN 143 MINUTES. WHEN YOU'RE DONE PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSH'S NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS ON THE SCREEN. THIS IS SO FREAKY BECAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS

5/8/2011 9:05:41 PM | Report

soccergirl524 idk if it works.... i doubt it :P

5/9/2011 5:35:19 PM | Report

twilightlover565 I met this boy at a dance, we got along really well and finally we slowed danced together at the end...we talk on fb all the time but we dont go to the same school so we dont get to see each other what can i do to get him to like me??

5/8/2011 3:58:45 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! you DEFINITELY need to talk to him on fb and ask him to hang out one weekend! :) sounds like he really likes you already because of the slow dance :D just cuz u go to diff schools doesn't mean you can't date! :) def ask him to hang! good luck! :)

5/8/2011 5:29:05 PM | Report

luhnaynay9 (Cont) What do I do to get him to notice me???

5/8/2011 3:06:13 PM | Report

luhnaynay9 So, I have this crush, and he's really athletic. He's super into basketball, and doesn't have a fb or a phone. He says he doesn't like girls (not gay he just doesn't have a crush). I dont have any classes with him at all! Cont

5/8/2011 3:05:36 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! i think you should talk to him in school maybe at lunch? or after school? or email him or call his house? :) there has to be SOME way to talk to him! :) try any of those!

5/8/2011 5:14:11 PM | Report

Jinxycharms I like this guy but he likes my friend!!! My friend doesn't like him bac. Any advice?

5/7/2011 11:08:22 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! i think you should wait and see if his feelings change! they probably will once he realizes she doesn't like him back! :) don't risk your friendships!

5/8/2011 5:15:13 PM | Report

soccerqueen64 hey, i been having a little problem, i dated my bestfriend and well i was another guy kissed me. i told my ex. he got mad at me, and broke up with me. now i try talking to him and i want to be friends with him. he said i hurt him badly, but i never

5/7/2011 6:19:45 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you probably did hurt him :( think about how itd make YOU feel... its ok tho, just talk to him and tell him you're really sorry and you still want to be just friends :)

5/8/2011 5:17:07 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR I like this guy and IDK if he lykes me (let's call him Shan). Shan is super sweet and 1 of my bgf. He winks at me, talks to me, makes me laugh, always smiles at me, whenevr i'm sad he always comforts me but IDK What shood i do now?

5/6/2011 9:41:59 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you should definitely flirt with him and see what his reaction is! that way you can tell if he likes you as more than a friend! :) if he doesn't like you as more than a friend, stay just friends so that you don't ruin your friendship! :)

5/7/2011 7:03:56 AM | Report

dancingqueen96 my bgf and i tell each other every thing and idk what i would do without him. I just found out he likes me. I don't like him at all. But hes super confident and I just know he'll ask me out. when i reject him ill lose one of my bffs :( What do i do?

5/4/2011 4:06:47 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you'll just have to tell him that you don't like him back like that..but that you don't want this to ruin your amazing friendship! :) be gentle and kind about it! don't worry, if he's a true friend, things will work out and he'll understand! :)

5/5/2011 5:55:33 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR how shood i flirt with him?

5/8/2011 7:14:58 PM | Report

soccergirl524 compliment him, laugh at his jokes, smile at him, wave to him :) any little things to let him know you like him as more than a friend :) just don't come on to him too strong...that'll freak him out! :)

5/10/2011 3:19:59 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR So today he found out i liked him cuz SOME of my guy frends told him&so basically he said he'll think about it.(I know WTH iwasn't asking him out&he hasnt talkd 2 me eva since.I mean he didn't like me, but aftr lunch(Big prob)hetold1guy2saysrry Help!

5/10/2011 6:20:05 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! wait... he told someone to tell you he doesn't like you?

5/11/2011 6:49:04 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR Well....ya he kinda did (He told my bff to tell me he dosent like me)but i am super sad and confused i think he likes my bff who doesn't like him bak but she thinks he likes me(That's the confusing part). I am sad cuz he avoids me ALL the time :(

5/12/2011 6:28:35 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! can you talk to him about it and tell him that it's upsetting you that he's avoiding you?

5/14/2011 8:36:52 AM | Report

LiLmissBTR oK TELL U WAT HAPPEND NEXT POST

5/15/2011 9:28:53 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR He stope avoidin me (BTW- i got tounge tied + coodntspeak) And he hardly talks 2 me anymore help please

5/17/2011 3:44:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 @LiLmissBTR- okay...well ask him (again) why he's avoiding you and not talking to you! if he STILL doesn't answer, give it some time and he'll come around :)

5/17/2011 4:40:46 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR He said sorry i was about 2 talk 2 him, he apologized for avoiding me, he diidnt now wat 2 say he said srry.....Me + him r frends again (for now)

5/18/2011 5:56:27 PM | Report

soccergirl524 well it's good that your friends for now :) keep it that way :)

5/19/2011 3:28:08 PM | Report

LiLmissBTR He is the sweetest guy ever now he always talks to me "and I just can't get enough" (LOL) any flirting tips?

5/19/2011 6:13:10 PM | Report

soccergirl524 for flirting: smile, laugh a lot, gently touch his shoulder, lean in a little when he's talking to you :) and be yourself! :)

5/21/2011 11:00:35 AM | Report

LiLmissBTR Gave up on him!!! he lies to my face ALL the time :(

5/31/2011 7:41:13 PM | Report

soccergirl524 then it's VERY good that you are moving on :)

6/1/2011 5:39:16 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey look up at the top for my answer!

5/17/2011 4:38:56 PM | Report

Sarah B. Alright so my boyfriend of a year and a half are going well but sometimes I wonder how things would be different and stuff and we have started moving backward kinda because I don't want to be in such a serious relationship as a sophomore. any advice?

5/3/2011 10:55:59 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about this! just tell him you don't want things to get too too serious at this point! tell him you want your relationship to slow down a little and be more fun :)

5/4/2011 6:51:50 PM | Report

peytonminerds So there is this kid. He is as cute as ever. Every girl likes him. He doesn't know to many girls. and doesnt have a fb or phone. what should i do to take a step forward

5/2/2011 6:07:43 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you should definitely start a conversation with him in school! :) then you two can get to know each other and find out if you have stuff in common :)

5/3/2011 3:58:20 PM | Report

tinkerella13 Hey! I like this guy. I never really talk to him cuz im kinda shy to boys. I have french and homeroom w him. How can I start talking to him w/out being too obvious? my friend asked him if he liked me a little while ago and he said yeah a little... :)

5/2/2011 6:05:07 PM | Report

soccergirl524 aw! :) that's so cute! ok, so to casually start talking to him, why not ask about the french homework? it's simple, easy, and it could start a conversation :) or just say something to him after class like, "Did you catch what the homework was?" :)

5/3/2011 3:56:05 PM | Report

meowheartlolz I really like this guy at school (lets say his name is bob).Bob is really popular and i think he has a GF. Sometimes he stares at me in class or says little things he remebered about me, but my BFFs dont. Should i make a move or wait?

5/2/2011 3:52:32 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi! i'd start flirting with him and see what he does :) if he likes you, chances are he will flirt back! :) and remember, just cuz he's popular doesn't mean he can't like you! :) BUT if he does have a gf, DEFINITELY stay away so you dont cause drama!

5/3/2011 3:54:38 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 I broke up w/ him bbut now everyones askin me out-except for the guy i like.HES SINGLE NICE CUTE AND A FOOTBALL PLAYER. should i ask the mighty ? ?

5/1/2011 6:11:01 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hmmmm well yeah if you like him that much you could ask him out yourself :) no sense waiting around! :)

5/2/2011 5:17:58 PM | Report

IceTigers HI! I really like this guy and he knows cuz one of my friends told him, and I thought he liked me too but he hasn't said anything and it's been weeks! We're talking, and it's not weird but I don't know! If he's shy would that make a difference? help!

4/29/2011 3:02:11 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! if he's shy, that'd DEFINITELY make a difference! right now he's probably just thinking about the idea that you like him :) if he still doesn't mention it in a week, you should definitely bring it up and see what his reaction is :)

4/29/2011 5:39:08 PM | Report

happyhelena ok...so I need some help with flirting? The same guy I was telling you about is always like "how are you?" every day, like 3 times a day. Maybe something cute to say to that?

4/28/2011 9:54:05 PM | Report

soccergirl524 how about, "I'm happy, now that I'm talking to you" :) it's cute, but not cheesy and it'll let him know that you're interested in him! :) for flirting, just BE YOURSELF! have fun being with him and make sure you ask questions bout his interests! :)

4/29/2011 4:40:23 PM | Report

NYCGURL28 Heyy um I am trying to get off of guys because there all jerks and my friends tell my crush that I love him I need major help

4/26/2011 11:22:22 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! you need to talk to your friends and tell them that you don't want them telling your crush that you like him!! it's not nice and unless you want them to, they shouldn't do that! so let them know how you feel ASAP! :) hope this helps!

4/27/2011 6:56:45 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 My Bf was at a swimming pool with someone really popular- GENESIS( cheer Leader) my bf (fb player)leaned over and made out w/ her! I asked him politely about it- DENIED. How do I make him spill the truth?

4/26/2011 11:18:07 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hi!you can't make him tell you the truth- but i think you should dump your bf because honestly the fact that he did that is really not good.i doubt he'd like it if he saw you making out with another guy! i think you should dump him!u deserve better:)

4/27/2011 6:58:51 PM | Report

Girlskickgrass Hey! I've read through some of your advice and it's pretty good. I'd love it if you would become the VP of Team Decode. Please consider it!

4/26/2011 8:12:50 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! i am really busy (as you can probably see!) with all these advice questions on this page! is it okay if i get used to the flow of things and try being VP in a little bit? i need time to adjust to this busy schedule! let me know! thanks! :)

4/27/2011 7:00:36 PM | Report

hbdancer i realy like this guy but weve non eachother 4 like ever! i dont no if i should ask him out i see him every few days but he never gives me a 2 look he comes over 2 the fluets (hes in my band class)and incorgeges and talks 2 us!so what should i do?!?!

4/25/2011 8:58:03 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! when he comes to talk to the flutes, make sure you make conversation with him and talk back! :) if you catch his attention he'll be more likely to notice you :) what you should do:next time he comes over, talk to him & make conversation! :)

4/26/2011 3:45:00 PM | Report

jqueen27 I have to ask why won't boys ask me out? I mean my friend has a boyfriend and my best friend has been asked out and neither of them are any different than me. I don't no if I'm doing something wrong or what. Please tell me why you think this is?

4/25/2011 5:25:40 PM | Report

soccergirl524 continued: also, if there is a guy you're interested in, you should flirt with him or give him signals so he knows you're interested :) hope this helps!

4/26/2011 3:42:39 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! it's not what you do wrong! often the guy is too shy to ask the girl out or make a move! i used to think this about myself too, before my bf asked me out! turns out he was just too shy to do anything but TRUST me there are guys that like you! :)

4/26/2011 3:41:58 PM | Report

happyhelena and then we were recently watching a movie in class and my guy friend playfully shove my arm and I couldn't shy away from him and my crush was like why can he touch you and I can't? he tried to touch me and I instinctively moved then he was like SEE!

4/24/2011 7:39:22 PM | Report

soccergirl524 cont: you need to start flirting with him to let him know that you like him, otherwise he will think you don't like him and he will move on to liking other girls!! so start flirting with him ASAP! make conversation and be friendly! :) post back!

4/25/2011 3:43:27 PM | Report

soccergirl524 he DEFINITELY likes you! i can tell he's jealous of your bgf! its AWESOME that your crush likes you! next time he goes to playfully touch you, DO NOT shy away because he'll get insulted and think you don't like him! which is TOTALLY not what you want

4/25/2011 3:42:17 PM | Report

happyhelena ctd! do you think he likes me? what should I do? and don't tell me to tell him because that is never gonna happen. My school will be going out of town as a "senior trip" in about a month and I want him to ask me out. ADVICE, PLEASE!

4/24/2011 7:11:03 PM | Report

happyhelena ctd. my crush said "why don't you shy away from him when he touches you?" and i mean i didn't even have time to react!! but anyways my crush then proceeded to try and touch my arm and my initial reaction was to shy away...and he was like SEE! ctd...

4/24/2011 7:08:43 PM | Report

happyhelena ctd again! and things like that and then a few days ago we were watching a movie in class when my guy friend playfully pushed my back while sitting behind me (THIS GETS INTERESTING) and my crush is then all like...to be ctd.

4/24/2011 7:05:52 PM | Report

happyhelena ctd! and I was freaking out...A LOT. but then we were all waiting for our parents and he asked me to go into the haunted house with him but i said no(i wish I said yes!). and yeah. so since then he has been calling me nicknames that he has come ctd,

4/24/2011 7:03:00 PM | Report

happyhelena Well there is this guy that I have liked since the beginning of the year...we are in 8th grade and we went to this halloween thing (not together) with friends back in Oct. Long story short I held onto him during a scary ride and he didn't mind--ctd,

4/24/2011 7:00:40 PM | Report

savyv123 Hey first of all what does mod stand for? 2nd is it wrong for a guy to ask out a girl? I need help ASAP!!! please anyone?

4/22/2011 10:17:49 PM | Report

soccergirl524 @fungirl123: if you could please leave the advice giving to me that'd be awesome! :) not trying to be mean or rude but i like giving my own advice!! thanks!

4/23/2011 9:26:13 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl!!!! MOD stands for moderator :) they run the site and make sure everything is safe and appropriate! second, it's NOT wrong for a guy to ask out a girl! (OR the other way around!) :)

4/23/2011 9:24:49 AM | Report

fungirl123 Continued. She found out the next dayand she was crying cuz her 16th b-day is comin' up and she needs (Actually needs) a car! But now I am confused cuz I don't want to keep it and flaunt to her cuz her's is not as updated as this one!!! HELP!!!!

4/22/2011 9:06:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey, Last night I had my 1st communion, afterwards, my sis left for a bff's house, then my dad gave me an itouch I dont even deserve it, I am always annoying to them and I asked him to take it back before my sis found out cuz this one was better than

4/22/2011 9:03:55 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you need to do whatever you feel is right. if you really honestly feel bad about keeping the ipod, you should return it!! you don't want to feel guilty every time you use it!

4/23/2011 9:27:56 AM | Report

may1124 I had a bf for 3 months then HE broke up with me. I want to stay friends how can i get over him and still be able to talk to him without thinking about him in tht way? please reply i could use some advice right now.

4/22/2011 7:44:27 PM | Report

soccergirl524 Continued: as for getting over him, have a girls night out! :) get a mani/pedi! treat yourself! you just need to have some fun time with your girl friends and it'll definitely help you forget about him! try seeking out new guys who are like you :) :)

4/23/2011 9:32:19 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! you need to talk to him alone and tell him that you still want to be friends, but let him know that you know he doesn't want to be your boyfriend! let him know that you understand that! and tell him you just wanna be friends with him! :)

4/23/2011 9:29:47 AM | Report

fungirl123 Hey, just go up and ask about how's his life going and what he's been doing lately! He might be caught of guard at first cuz of how nice your being but he'll get the message that you are ready to be friends!

4/22/2011 9:08:43 PM | Report

xx.shootingstar.xx I always feel jealous when I see my crush talking to the "popular" and annoying girl in my class. I feel like she's everything that I'm not. I shouldn't even be feeling this because I want to get over him. Is there any way I won't be jealous? Thanks.

4/19/2011 6:54:31 PM | Report

soccergirl524 also, as for getting over the guy, if those are the types of people he wants to hang with, he's probably not the right guy for you! so it's good you're trying to get over him! good for you! :) "populars" are usually fake, snobby and mean!!

4/20/2011 4:01:50 PM | Report

soccergirl524 honestly, the "popular" kids usually aren't as awesome as the "uncool" kids :) they often have poor grades, and get in a lot of trouble.. being popular isn't having alot of friends, its having the "right" friends. don't be jealous! be happy u r YOU!

4/20/2011 3:58:28 PM | Report

soccergirl524 any girls that post questions, i'd really love to have you join! :)

4/18/2011 5:45:38 PM | Report

singer girlie hey! I was wondering if it is ok to like a guy who is a year younger than you? Also, if i did end up liking him, my friend likes him! what do i do?

4/18/2011 12:15:31 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! yep it's okay if he's a year younger! :) its no huge age difference! make sure you tell your friend how you feel about him and DON'T risk your friendship with her over this guy! :) friends are forever, boys come and go! trustttt me! :)

4/18/2011 5:41:27 PM | Report

jazmine ann Hey! So i like this guy that ive known scense i was about three months old, and he talks to me at my locker and stuff and passes notes to me but its really just jokes nothing serious. He also leaves notes in my locker and writes notes on my whiteboard

4/15/2011 6:45:07 PM | Report

soccergirl524 heyy girl! :) do you want to know if he likes you? haha you never put a question in your post! :P

4/16/2011 8:33:11 AM | Report

musicgirl<3 Hey! so i need a little help. theres a guy I like that I know through my friends.he always comes by my locker and says hi and kinda flirts with me but we never seriously talk. how can I really talk to him and get closer instead of just joking around?

4/10/2011 9:39:26 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! try talking to him alone in a place that's not crowded :) it's essential to set a good tone, and a crowded, loud, public place isn't usually where a guy would want to talk about intense topics! :)asking him to talk will let him know how ya feel!

4/11/2011 4:51:02 PM | Report

fungirl123 @musicgirl<3, Does he play sports or is he in any activities, if he is then get into a convo about what he likes to do and maybe your own opinions!!

4/11/2011 4:11:49 PM | Report

e.procinsky hello i've been asking advice to mods since october and they never respond so if you could respond to this i will ask my question. :)

4/10/2011 9:37:23 PM | Report

soccergirl524 heyyy! :) what can i help with? :)

4/11/2011 4:49:02 PM | Report

e.procinsky i cried all the way home but he wouldn't stop looking at me, i felt awful, i didn't like him but everyone at school was making fun of me. now he always asks to borrow things and its getting kinda wierd im so afraid he'll ask me out again,what to do?

4/18/2011 12:09:52 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! :) you should be polite to him and friendly....but don't give him the wrong idea!! if he asks you out again, just politely tell him that you don't feel that way about him! :) hope this helps!

4/18/2011 5:39:46 PM | Report

e.procinsky thank you! i'm glad some one answered. i'll try

4/20/2011 10:36:33 PM | Report

soccergirl524 no problem! i will ALWAYS answer and im here for you if you ever need anything else! :)

4/21/2011 5:23:55 PM | Report

e.procinsky so me and one opf my bffs we talking and it came up about this one guy would was always starring at me. so she confronted him.. later that day he confronted me with his firneds, it was so embarrassing, he kept asking me out and stuff. (continued)

4/18/2011 12:06:32 AM | Report

bubble_heart2 ummm this is kinda embaressing.lol im 17 and never had a bf. is that weird? it never really bothered me till now. i have always been just the friend or one of the guys. i just feel like i need someone now. do u understand? or am i just being crazy?

4/10/2011 10:54:21 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey! i totally understand! no worries! im almost 16, and i'm only on my 1st boyfriend! honestly, before i met him, i NEVER thought i'd have a boyfriend! it's honestly just a matter of finding the right guy! is there a guy you have in mind? :)

4/10/2011 2:53:36 PM | Report

bubble_heart2 thanks!i feel better. no their isn't anyone right now. their was someone but he didn't return my feelings and i had moved by that time anyway.:/

4/11/2011 8:41:36 AM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! my advice is to wait for the right guy :) you'll know when you find him, and the wait will def be worth it! :)

4/11/2011 4:48:26 PM | Report

bubble_heart2 XD thanks so much!!!!

4/12/2011 12:25:05 PM | Report

fungirl123 If you like what I just said then check out me as an Advice Queen!!

4/11/2011 4:17:43 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey also DON'T go and cuddle up to one of your guy friends, they will get very creeped out and never wan to be around you! Don't worry, I say the same as soccergirl524!

4/11/2011 4:17:02 PM | Report

bubble_heart2 haha yeah they'll definetly get creeped out!! thanks (:

4/12/2011 12:26:02 PM | Report

soccergirl524 no problem! :)happy to help! :)

4/12/2011 4:27:29 PM | Report

fungirl123 then I am an advice queen too!

4/12/2011 4:15:50 PM | Report

soccergirl524 no problem! :)happy to help! :)

4/12/2011 4:09:31 PM | Report

milkyway7117 Lol! I was just responding to your comment about the Paramore quote in the GL Music Lovers Club, and then I look at the advice queen page and you were the featured advice queen! Congratulations and keep up the good advice! :)

4/10/2011 10:46:20 AM | Report

soccergirl524 awwww thank you sooo much! :) im glad to have 6 members already!! :D

4/10/2011 2:49:49 PM | Report

soccergirl524 If anyone has ANY questions, feel free to ask! :) ~Lauren

4/9/2011 5:33:56 PM | Report

hermione&ron I have a question about my crush. He made me cry 2 weeks ago! He's not like that though.... He's amazingly nice.... But I think he likes me. He smiles at me, talks to me, and is amazing! What should I do?

4/9/2011 5:33:19 PM | Report

soccergirl524 hey girl! hmmmmm, what exactly did he do to make you cry? :( ~Lauren

4/10/2011 8:33:33 AM | Report

hermione&ron Well... He basically downright embarrassed me in front of the whole cafeteria

4/10/2011 7:02:20 PM | Report

fungirl123 then he's is not sooo Nice after all! Well if it was NOT his fault then give him another chance! But if purposely then get away from him!

4/10/2011 8:56:01 PM | Report

hermione&ron Well it wasn't technically his fault but... Sorta. half/half really

4/11/2011 7:36:32 AM | Report

soccergirl524 if you think he deserves a second chance, give him one! :) but let him know how you felt about that!!!!

4/11/2011 4:51:45 PM | Report

fungirl123 I would totally ask him about it! If you liked that then I am an Advice Queen toooo!! Check me out if you liked me!

4/11/2011 4:08:32 PM | Report