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Star1ight Umm well, I'm kinda jealous of my best friend hanging out with this other girl. I know it sounds kind of stupid, but the jealousy is really letting me down. I really don't want to tell my best friend because I don't want our relationship to be ruined

2/28/2013 12:18:15 AM | Report

bballstar123 Hey!! i would love it if you would become an officer, etc of my new writing club! its for girls to just write their hearts out in poetry, stories, etc. Whether you can or can not could you help me spread word about my club?? thanks! <3 minni

11/9/2012 9:14:08 PM | Report

simone34 hi i a 10 a i have a bunch of Fs how do i tell my mom

11/9/2012 10:45:56 AM | Report

fungirl123 Well, first let's talk about how you got these Fs in the first place. Have you been distracted? Maybe a tutor would help. Then let's go on the telling Mom. Tell her you've been trying hard (hope you are), but that you just don't get the subjects. <3

11/10/2012 10:32:06 AM | Report

bballstar123 Thank you so much for all of your help!

11/6/2012 5:39:43 PM | Report

bballstar123 i know that this is continual but i have been more than busy telling myself not to worry and to except my mistakes. but i keep waking up w the sweats and my heart pounding. Any tips?

9/13/2012 8:01:23 PM | Report

fungirl123 I'm just going to be frank with you: you might have anxiety sweetie. I'm no doctor, but my best friend Marian had really bad anxiety back in fourth grade, and that was basically what she went through. :\ Anxiety is something that needs to be treated. Talk to a trusted family member and/or guidance counselor about it. <3 Just talk to someone as soon as you can, sweetie!! ^.^ ~Haley <3 <3

9/14/2012 3:24:45 PM | Report

bballstar123 (continued) stomach. i regret my decision. How do i make the guilt go away? thank you. :'(

9/8/2012 10:24:34 AM | Report

fungirl123 You should just accept the fact that everyone makes mistakes. :) All that matters is that you and your mother are okay again. Just forget about your past and carry on with the present, girlie. <3 <3

9/8/2012 3:03:41 PM | Report

bballstar123 Kids have started talking about what happened. I;m afraid of going to school tomrrow

9/9/2012 11:27:24 AM | Report

bballstar123 i kissed a boy on the cheek. My mother and i already have trust problems. i apologized and told her the truth. She is upset with me and thinks im to young for that. (i kind of agree with her) i have the worst stomach ache ever. like butterflys in my

9/8/2012 10:23:45 AM | Report

bballstar123 Ive been asking a lot lately and i know im prob a bit annoying.... but ive started a club a few month ago and i only have 2 people in it! how did your club become so popular???

8/26/2012 9:40:44 AM | Report

fungirl123 You could: Join a bunch of really popular clubs and become an officer, or post random blurbs on articles. :-) Also, the reason that my clubs are popular is because a started them when not many clubs were even up yet. So...yeah. Love ya! <3 ~Haley P.S. You're NOT annoying at all! ^.^ I LOVE answering questions. :D

8/27/2012 4:48:22 PM | Report

bballstar123 Thanks! :)

8/27/2012 7:13:56 PM | Report

bballstar123 How did your club become so popular??? i started a club a few months ago and i still only have 3 people in it! :(

8/26/2012 9:40:30 AM | Report

bballstar123 (continued) a new style for school, and ideas? i need something that wont take a ton of work in the mornings since my school starts at 7:50. thanx! :)

8/24/2012 10:23:34 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Bballstar, you could straighten or curl it. :-) But a few things easier is just to buy a bunch of cute headbands or scrunch your hair with gel, starting from your roots. :-D Hope I could help! <3 ~Haley

8/25/2012 12:58:31 PM | Report

bballstar123 Thank You!

8/25/2012 1:46:02 PM | Report

bballstar123 Thank You! Since we have been friends for so long i truly believe that she would tell me if she was angry, i will take your advice and just go with it. :) But i have one other question- A bit random but..... i have thick wavy hair and i want a new

8/24/2012 10:22:36 PM | Report

a_school_nerd .....(continued) I have not talked to them since and school is starting soon. I just not sure what to say to them. (sorry about any spelling mistakes I'm a bad speller)

8/22/2012 10:35:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear a_school_nerd, I would say just be nice to them! :-) Kill 'em with kindness, girlie! I hope this was helpful. ^.^ ~Haley <3

8/23/2012 1:39:47 PM | Report

a_school_nerd .....(continued) I have not talked to them since and school is starting soon. I just not sure what to say to them. (sorry about any spelling mistakes I'm a bad speller)

8/22/2012 10:29:03 PM | Report

a_school_nerd I need some advice on what to do about some of my friends. A little before summer break some of my "friends" desided that I was not worth talking to me if one of the populer drama club kids were around. I haven't talked to them since.....

8/22/2012 10:19:22 PM | Report

a_school_nerd I need some advice on what to do about some of my friends. A little before summer break some of my "friends" desided that I was not worth talking to me if one of the populer drama club kids were around. I haven't talked to them since.....

8/22/2012 10:13:42 PM | Report

bballstar123 (continued) I really do like her cousin but i would rather her not get my hopes up for nothing. At one point in was starting to believe her so much that i would make attempts to talk to him alot more and now i have a feeling he just thinks im a pain

8/22/2012 6:16:07 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Bballstar, for some reason, since your friend isn't respecting your requests to stop getting your hopes up, maybe she's secretly angry that you even wanted to be WITH her cousin. :\ I think you have two choices to go from here: 1.) Completely ignore all of her claims and continue on with the friendship. 2.) Tell her you don’t want to be around her anymore if she’s going to continue doing what she’s doing. :-) I hope I could help! <3 If not, just let me know and we’ll keep talking about this! ^.^ ~Haley <3

8/23/2012 1:36:33 PM | Report

bballstar123 Okay so, you helped me out a while ago when i liked my bff's cuz and she accepts it now. But she is always telling me that he likes me back and i know he doesnt. I have told her she doesnt need to make me feel better but i feel like she doesnt care.

8/22/2012 6:14:19 PM | Report

High Tops FTW hey hey!! this isnt like a REAL question, but i need some good tunes tht arent explicit. Something hip-hoppyish sorta, kinda like gym class heroes.....

8/9/2012 5:39:08 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear High Tops FTW, I don’t really listen to hip-hop. I’m mostly into Christian music. But there are a few singers I listen to here and there: Eminem is good if you’re not afraid of hearing the “F” bomb a lot. LOL! :-P Christina Aguilera, Demi Lovato (personal favorite), Foster the People, Kelly Clarkson, Maroon 5, One Republic, The Script (another personal favorite), Train, Andy Grammer, Adele (gotta love her!), Adam Lambert, All Time Low, Hot Chelle Rae, Justin Bieber (his new album is amazing), and Jason Mraz. I was really just looking through what I have on my iTunes. Like I said, not all of these are even close to hip-hop. But I’d really recommend Andy Grammer! All of his songs are upbeat and happy. Justin Bieber’s new album has a few hip-hop-ish songs, too. I hope I could help, lovely! <3 ~Haley P.S. What do YOU like to listen to? ;-)

8/10/2012 12:17:37 PM | Report

High Tops FTW Thanx!! i'll def check these out!! (: i liusten to gymclass hereos, maroon 5, i see stars, thousand foot krutch, and attack attack

8/10/2012 4:12:13 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey, girls! <3 I won't be answering any questions until Thursday. Feel free to keep asking, but I won't be answering since I'll be on vacation. :-)

8/5/2012 3:28:52 PM | Report

ekatia217 Hi. I have an admissions test soon&I'm nervous. I've been taking classes but my scores aren't so good. I study the material, I do the practice tests, we go over the problems. Most of the q's are the same style but I still keep getting q's wrong.

8/2/2012 11:45:01 AM | Report

fungirl123 I don't really know what your asking for here. :-\ But I'd just say to take a deep breath and talk to someone who could help (a tutor, teacher, peer, parent, etc.). I hope I could help! <3 If not, ask me again. :-P ~Haley<3

8/2/2012 12:14:18 PM | Report

coolgal332 Hi, I'm getting glasses and am worried abt going 2 school. I have a really cute pair, but I'm still worried abt looking like a nerd since I also have braces. Can u help me boost my confidence?

7/21/2012 5:24:13 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Coolgal, LOL, I totally know how you feel! I have glasses and I’m getting the rest of my braces put on later this year. Do NOT be afraid of looking bad! Trust me, there are a few things to do to draw attention away from all the metal. ;) 1.) We’re jewelry. I really like cute necklaces that have my initials on it or even just things that say BE YOU or BFF necklaces. 2.) Dress nicely. 3.) BRUSH YOUR TEETH. I cannot stress this enough! Even though your teeth will be covered, you still need to brush them chompers. It’ll make you look even better! Hope I could help, love! <3 ~Haley P.S. Sorry I couldn’t get back to ya sooner. The GL Mods wouldn’t approve my comment sooner. :\

7/24/2012 2:06:39 PM | Report

gracezoom144 HI! My parents are separating and looking at divorce. My parents have been married for about 20 years. How should i feel?? How will my life change? I'm really sad and a little confused! Please Help if you can!

7/20/2012 5:35:19 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Grace, I know it’s a huge change, but it’s for the better…I promise! <3 Sure, there might be a lot of changes and such. Like smaller houses and maybe even some financial problems. But you have to know that it’s not at all your fault! They’re doing this partly to make your life better, too. So that maybe you don’t have to see them having marriage problems ever again. I hope I could help, loves. <3 ~Haley P.S. The reason I didn’t get back to you sooner was because GL Mods didn’t approve my comment sooner. Sorry ‘bout that, darlin’! :\

7/24/2012 2:02:09 PM | Report

High Tops FTW hi, im homeschooled, and im going to the real school for math this year, ive NEVER been 2 real school in my life. im worried it might be really hard, or i'll get teased, or i wont kno anyone, HELP!!

7/13/2012 6:17:01 PM | Report

fungirl123 Just remember that your not there to have the full middle school/high school experience...your just there for math. :-) It all starts with a simple, "Can you help me with this math problem?" ~Haley <3

7/14/2012 8:54:12 AM | Report

High Tops FTW Thank you! you got back to me so fast! :D

7/14/2012 10:32:19 AM | Report

High Tops FTW to boys like it when girls ask them out???

7/10/2012 10:31:32 AM | Report

fungirl123 It really depends on the boy. If the boy is a sexist idiot, then he might be super offended if a girl asks him out. :\ Another guy might get a bit embarrassed. Others are completely fine with it. :-) But try to not do it when the guy is around his buddies. Then he might get embarrassed about it. Do it in private. Hope I could help! ~Haley <3

7/10/2012 1:48:32 PM | Report

High Tops FTW Thanks so much!! =]

7/11/2012 4:14:09 PM | Report

fungirl123 no problem! :-D

7/11/2012 4:39:03 PM | Report

bballstar123 just an update. I talked to my friend and she respects my choice. She was upset at first but not anymore. thanx Haley! :)

7/9/2012 5:33:15 PM | Report

fungirl123 No problem! <3

7/10/2012 1:46:11 PM | Report

bballstar123 thanx! :)

7/8/2012 11:14:26 AM | Report

bballstar123 (continued) guys are usually jerks.

7/6/2012 4:39:19 PM | Report

bballstar123 She would be mad because its her cousin, and they are SUPER close. like, brother sister close. should i tell her? Should i go after him with the chance the my best friend would be mad? i'm so confused... And thanks ive started figuring out that hot

7/6/2012 4:38:59 PM | Report

fungirl123 Talk to your best friend about it. If she is really against you even going after him, remember that besties before boys! This is just me, but I believe that fate will bring you together in the end if your really meant to be together. <3 You still have plenty of time to date sweet and cute guys. ~Haley

7/8/2012 9:20:14 AM | Report

bballstar123 (continued) I dont want to hide my feelings especially because i think he likes me back. thanks

7/5/2012 5:49:26 PM | Report

bballstar123 Dear Haley, i kinda have a crush on my best friends cousin. He isn't "the hunk" all the other girls go for but i like him for his personality. My friend will be mad if she finds out i like him. What do i do? because i don't want to hide my feelings

7/5/2012 5:48:46 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear bballstar123, why would your friend be mad at you for going after a guy? Would you be mad if she took him? Put yourself in your BFF's shoes. And cheers to you for liking a guy for his personality!! <3 ~Haley

7/6/2012 3:01:14 PM | Report

bballstar123 thanx! :)

7/6/2012 4:39:57 PM | Report

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7/5/2012 5:46:45 PM | Report

taylor8213 thx haley ur the best

6/12/2012 8:54:38 AM | Report

fungirl123 I'm SO happy I could help you, Taylor! <3 ~Haley

6/13/2012 6:29:59 PM | Report

xOCutie_CupcakesXo I need writing advice, every time i get a good idea, my creativity just stops. Do you have any ideas on how I get get my creativity flowing again?

6/12/2012 2:18:36 AM | Report

fungirl123 Dear xOCutie_CupcakesXo, you asked the right person! :D I’m a writer, too, if you didn’t know. To keep yourself interested in the story, here are some of my tips: use your favorite names! Make up or look up fantastic names that you’ll love writing about. Second, use as much description as you can, use as much dialogue as you can. You can look back on your previous pages and say, “Wow, I’ve been doing a marvelous job. I have to continue this!” Also, beforehand, plan out all of the conflict that you’ll be using and write out all of your characters that will have a part in the conflict for example (random): Bob Rodgers’s father died when he was twelve-years old in a car accident. Amy Smith helps him get over the grief of the loss.” That kind of stuff. I hope I could help! If you have any more questions, go right ahead and ask! <3 ~Haley

6/13/2012 6:29:07 PM | Report

taylor8213 my best friend said i shouldnt care about and that really hurt me it made me feel like she doesnt care what should i do about the mean girl since my bff wont help me

6/9/2012 7:55:47 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Taylor, tell you’re friend that you’re hurt by what she said…tell her that it makes you feel like she doesn’t care about you, and you shouldn’t feel that way! If she still ignores the truth, maybe it’s time to take a break from the friendship? :) I hope I could help. Need more? Keep asking. I’m always here. ;-) ~Haley<3

6/11/2012 8:50:01 AM | Report

taylor8213 theres this really mean girl she calls me geek and retard and says i have no life but i try to ignore her but shes friends with my bff which makes things really hard how do i stay friends with her without being near mean girl

6/8/2012 6:53:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear Taylor, tell your friend! :-] Tell her, “Hey, the girl that you’re good friends with has been quite mean to me lately and it’s really hurting my feelings. You don’t have to stop being friends with her…but I don’t want her to do something that will make YOU not want to be friends with me. So can we do something about this?” If you friend is real, she’ll understand. If something happens that makes the problem bigger, tell me and I’ll help you out! :D I hope I could help you. ~Haley<3

6/9/2012 2:12:04 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 I just found out that two guys who are best friends both have a crush on me! I want to like at least one of them back but I just don't like either of them that way. I don't know how to tell them without hurting their feelings, HELP!

6/2/2012 5:42:52 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear SmileyGal7, I don’t think you’ll hurt their feelings that much. They have each other to fall back on. If you don’t like them, just say it. Say it nicely. And say that you’d still like to be friends with them. :-) I hope I could help! <3 If I didn’t, please tell me. ~Haley :P

6/9/2012 2:08:47 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 The thing is that neither of them know the other one likes me as well...what if I get them in a fight? I would feel terrible if I was the reason! They got in one just a few weeks ago about something silly what if it happens again because of me?

7/11/2012 5:43:20 PM | Report

Smileygal7 i need some advice for my bff so there was this guy that she'd liked for 2 years a couple of weeks ago she gave him a note that said how she felt about him the next day he asked out another girl and now she is heartbroken what should she do?

2/26/2012 7:23:28 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear @Smileygal7 (or her BFF…), Well, let’s recap…he new how she felt about him…and he asked out another girl. I think he’s the definition of J-E-R-K! I know this may be hard to here for your BFF, but if you care…you’ll want her to know. Personal experience: I guess my BFF’s crush, Jay, heard that she liked him, so he started making jokes around her that “She had this giant pimple on her nose”…or that “He would die before he would date her!” It took her a long time to stop crying and get over him. I stood with her every way and told Jay to step off the insults. Tell your BFF to lay off Facebook, Twitter, etc. for awhile as he will probably keep posting about his “new relationship”. Your friend can join new activities to get her mind off of him. Remember, if this guy cared about her feelings, he would have told her that he didn’t like her that way…not just ignore her and go on to date another girl! :( Hope I could help! Need more?…ask again! ~Haley <3

2/27/2012 4:56:08 PM | Report

Smileygal7 Thank you SO much I hope this works because I hate to see her so sad all the time the worst part was everyone thought he liked her back and so that made it 10 times harder I hope your advice works Thanks again :) <3

2/27/2012 7:00:43 PM | Report

fungirl123 No problem! <3 Glad I could give ya a hand. :D

2/28/2012 7:06:48 AM | Report

fungirl123 Haley's Handy Tip: If someone says something mean to you (Ex: "You're clothes really DON'T match!"), do what I do: Kill 'em with kindness! <3 Shoot back something like, "Wow, your sooo nice!" or "OMG! I love your shirt!". It will make them feel like crap! Guaranteed (I don't really know how to spell that...L0L! :P)!

2/22/2012 9:05:18 PM | Report

ayeebeecee Yesterday this guy asked me to go to the movies with him. It was a school night so of course I had to say no. So he asked if I wanted to go friday. How can I convince her to let me go?

2/15/2012 8:37:50 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear @ ayeebeecee, ask her maturely (meaning: No getting down on your knees and begging!). Say “Mom, one of my good guy friends (No need to rush to “boyfriend”) asked me to hang out at the movies on Friday. I can be home by *whatever time…* and you can even meet him if you want to. Do you think I could go?” If she has a good excuse besides “No”, you should respect her. But you have to act maturely in order for her to take you seriously! :) x0x0…! –Haley <3

2/16/2012 3:56:08 PM | Report

carls522 I have 3 really good friends at my school, perfect amount right? No, its really bad. 2 of my friends can't stand the other one but i like them all. I keep trying to help the 2 work it out but they don't want to. What do I do?

2/15/2012 6:41:48 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear @carls522, if they don’t like each other, why should you have to suffer. If you want them to make up, tell them sternly, “Your affecting *insert other friend’s name* and I by fighting; why can’t you TRY and make up just for the sake of US?” Sometimes, you can’t be sweet and caring…you just have to lay down the law! :) If they still refuse to try, who says they have to be together. Have separate sleepovers…but if it comes to birthday parties, tell them “Seriously? It’s by birthday! Can’t you try to make it special?” Up till then, just don’t force them to be friends. x0x0…! –Haley <3

2/16/2012 3:51:26 PM | Report

Bookworm16 I have a guy that I've been friends with for a while, and i realized recently that he is really cute and sweet. I love being around him and he flirts with me too. he doesnt seem too get that i like him tho. hes always tellin me how smart i am. Help!!

2/15/2012 5:21:30 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear @Bookworm16, if he’s complimenting you, it means he must admire you in some way! Now, it’s time to be just as sweet to him. If he’s struggling on his math, English, etc…homework, offer him some help! If he does well on a test, congratulate him on it! You don’t need to rush things. <3 I have a lot of guy friends and they say that they don’t really like it when girls and guys actually say “Will you go out with me?” They like when the relationship just evolves on its own. If he’s genuinely into you, he’ll come around! Boys can be blind at time…but they will come around if they truly care! :) x0x0…! –Haley <3

2/16/2012 3:42:25 PM | Report

akitaneru53 (contiuing) My best friends brother. 3rd, our school has NO 6th grade dances as far as I know, and no one ever goes to any dances at our school. I dont want him or me to feel like losers. My bfb who's older than me! PLZ HELP!! DON'T WANNA LOSE PALS!!

2/15/2012 5:19:13 PM | Report

fungirl123 Dear @akitaneru53, Do you guys have phones (L0L, I don’t…); Facebook; Twitter, etc…Get what I mean? If you have any of those, just arrange for you two to hang out sometime. And are girls in your grade aloud to go to THEIR dances? If so, do you have a girl friend in his grade that you can go to the dance with and then just hang out with him once you get there? Or if your ever at your BFFs house and she leaves the room for a second (and he just so happens to walk in), make a convo with him! <3 x0x0…! -Haley :)

2/16/2012 3:37:34 PM | Report

akitaneru53 Hey I'm new! I like a dude who is my friend in a brotherly sort of way, but there r some snags in getting him to know I like him. First off, I'm 12, he's 13 , and a grade higher so we eat lunch separate and have entirely different classes. 2, he's my

2/15/2012 5:16:08 PM | Report

132hannah I haven't told many people this.. but i'm balemic and its gotten out of control. I really want this to stop because I know it's really unhealthy but I don't know how. Please help.

1/30/2012 7:17:53 PM | Report

fungirl123 I’m really glad you came to tell me this. :) First of all, I can say that I’ve thought of making myself throw up before…I didn’t think I was pretty at all. Why are you doing this? Is it someone at school? If so, there are a number of people you can talk to. Your best friend, a trusted teacher, a school counselor—best choice—etc. But there is always something pretty about a girl. Whether it’s her nose, her sense of humor, her pouty lips, or her amazing desire to help people; there is something about you that is beautiful, I know it! So why try to damage an absolutely beautiful body? If a boy doesn’t like you, so what? I have a big belly and I have plenty of best friends. I’m going to a waterpark this weekend and I could care less if my tummy is a little bigger than my best friend, Liz’s. Whenever you feel fat or like you need to make yourself stick-thin, think to yourself, “What am I doing? Do I want to be like other girls…or do I want to be unique and beautiful on the inside?” Trust me, if you think of yourself beautiful inside, you’ll feel beautiful outside! And if you want to be healthier and not wanting the need to throw up, swap a vending machine brownie for a low-fat milk. And it doesn’t make you a bad person to treat yourself sometimes. Treat yourself to an ice-cream sandwich after a good test score or some type of award! Loves ya and I hope I could help! <3 x0x0…! –Haley :)

1/31/2012 8:35:22 PM | Report

fungirl123 C'mon...I miss seeing the questions!! :-[

1/18/2012 6:54:23 AM | Report

fungirl123 If you believe that girls our age should NOT be having s*x or looking at Cosmo magazine. Look at this article on this website to be inspired. There's also a video for it. Here's the link: http://www.projectinspired.com/january-2012-anti-cosmo-video-you-need-to-see-this-and-spread-it-lets-make-it-viral/

1/12/2012 7:07:02 PM | Report

sassyclassycat I believe that girls should have the same right to go topless in public as boys. If boys can go topless in public, then girls should have the same right to go topless in public. Otherwise, it's discrimination against girls. What do you think?

1/6/2012 5:44:09 PM | Report

fungirl123 I kind of think the same. But we can't change society even if we tried. If that was what had been happening since the beginning of womankind, it would be okay to go topless in public. But since it hasn't, we can't. I know, it sucks!

1/7/2012 7:47:06 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 I'm not sure what to do anymore because every guy I become friends with and start to trust hurts me emotionally in the end because of how he doesn't and never really cared I don't know what to do about how I trust and like guys to easily any ideas?

1/5/2012 5:37:32 PM | Report

fungirl123 There should never be any rush to like guys. The heart wants what the heart wants <3 For now, try to stop pushing them out and start letting them in. It starts with a simple "Hi" to a guy you think you MIGHT like! Ask again if I didn't help! ~Haley<3

1/5/2012 8:12:10 PM | Report

fungirl123 D.R.A.M.A. Dumb Retards Asking for More Attention *Did not mean "retards" to offend anyone. If I were directing my attention to the mentally disabled, I would've said so*

12/30/2011 10:56:36 AM | Report

DaNcInGQu33N9812 I'm thirteen and I was wondering how much makeup is too much to wear out in public for my age? PLZ post an answer on my profile page

12/30/2011 2:11:18 AM | Report

fungirl123 Keep it natural!! :-) Don't go all out for a regular day at school. I think that teachers judge your attitude partly from the way you dress. So (and I know you probably don't do this!) if you wear a skimpy outfit, they won't like you! The same with makeup! If you wear TONS of it, they will think you’re just begging for a guy’s attention! You don’t want them to think that about you. I was watching an episode of “What Not to Wear”. It was talking about how makeup can bring out your natural beauties of yourself. If you have beautiful eyes, use a color that will make them pop! If you have pretty lips, do the same! I hope this helped! ~Haley <3

1/2/2012 3:16:19 PM | Report

DaNcInGQu33N9812 Hey! Thanks for the makeup tips:) but do you think light pink eye shadow would look good on me? I have very fair skin and I was wondering if light pink would make me look sick... Anyway, Merry Christmas! LUVS, Ann

12/24/2011 1:23:19 PM | Report

fungirl123 Test it out :) But I have fair skin and it looks nice on me :) Keep it on your LOWER upper lid. Keep it just about your lashes. DON'T go all the way to your eyebrow or brow-bone. ~Haley <3

12/24/2011 6:52:34 PM | Report

DaNcInGQu33N9812 OK, so tomarrow is Christmas eve (duh!) and I'm going to a family gathering. Any ideas of how to do my make-up? Post the answer here and on my profile (sometimes I forget to check advice queen pages!) Thanks! LUVS, Ann

12/23/2011 11:23:09 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 My best friend has been crushing on my best guy friend for 2 years and he just told me when i asked him if he wanted to date her he said that she was the most annoying person in the world she is crushed and i don't know what to I am so confused! HELP

12/21/2011 7:24:40 PM | Report

fungirl123 Everyone has an opinion. That doesn't make him mean, or a bad person, it makes him real. To me, a person could be mean; to you, they could be sweet and nice. Just tell your friend that your BGF’s opinion shouldn’t matter. If your BFF is sad about this, tell her that it was just an opinion and that it doesn’t matter. One of the best ways to get over someone: Look for all of their flaws and giggle about them with a friend. Tell her about the times when you were younger and all of the embarrassing things he did! It’ll make her feel better. But you still don’t have to abandon you BGF, just don’t talk to him around your BFF! I hope this helps! ~Haley

12/22/2011 7:45:26 PM | Report

sassyclassycat I'm in the 8th grade. Recently, I forgot to close the door to the girl's locker room. Nobody realized that the door was left open. Later, when the boys walked by, they were able to see right into the girl's locker room. Boys saw girls totally nude!!!

12/6/2011 6:10:26 PM | Report

fungirl123 The best thing for you to do is keep your head high when you walk through. You can't change the past, but you can change how you deal with it! :) If the boys start making rude remarks, tell a teacher or the counselor and they can deal with them! :)

12/7/2011 6:39:34 AM | Report

SmileyGal7 I think I might like this guy but he's an 8th grader and I'm a 7th grader next year he'll be in high school and I will never see him plus I don't have his number but I don't know how to ask for it since we aren't super close! HELP!

12/6/2011 6:04:47 PM | Report

fungirl123 Does he know you even exist? If not, make yourself known to him! Get involved in things that he might be in. Lightly nudge him in the halls, then turn around and say "Aww, I'm sorry!" That will make you sound sweet!

12/7/2011 6:37:36 AM | Report

SmileyGal7 Yeah he does he's friends with my best friend that's how I know him. He doesn't really do any clubs at school but today he smiled and said hi to me not just my friend. Whenever I see him I get butterflies in my stomach I've never felt like this befor

12/7/2011 6:57:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 Next time he says Hi to you, say it back and smile and look him in the eye. Say Hi to him once in awhile, don't do it often becuz then he will start to think your obsessed with him! You don't want that! :) Haley <3

12/7/2011 9:12:33 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 Ok thanks I'll try that!

12/8/2011 6:35:35 PM | Report

fungirl123 No problem!

12/9/2011 6:43:59 AM | Report

vanessa__rocks I have trouble trusting people.I am very popular, have gone to a boarding school in London, and am a trend-setter. But I feel like I'm always being used.Girls will be really nice to me...then after I tell them something important to me, they leave :(

12/5/2011 8:28:43 PM | Report

fungirl123 You have to find a friend and ask them if you can trust them. Then if they do turn there back, ask them again WHY they would ever do something like that. :) Haley

12/6/2011 8:45:51 AM | Report

cait1998 so anyway afterwards he started kinda glaring @ her and ignoring her evn tho shes his friend!and also i did my last project with him! he didnt say anything 2 me about it and hes a REALly nice guy! What should i do? and im awful @ confrontation! Help!

12/5/2011 5:47:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 If you don't want to confront him in person, call him or send him a text. Get back to me if that doesn't work! :D Haley

12/5/2011 6:57:50 PM | Report

cait1998 Hey! Oh so i reeeaaally need help: So im doing this science project with my bff who ive known for 11 years!! (which is alot considering im only 13!) but my bf (whos been my bgf since 4eva) asked her if she was and she said ya. continued....

12/5/2011 5:42:35 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Hey! I'm tryin with the text thing!! He just got his phone and ipod takin away tho because of his ex....... OF COURSE!!!!!

12/5/2011 5:26:25 PM | Report

fungirl123 Is there any other way you can talk to him?

12/5/2011 6:58:33 PM | Report

ilovegl98 So the guy I REALLY like told my guy friend that im really ugly!! He's normally really nice to me because we're friends! They guy he told keeps telling him to ask me out! Hes a grade younger than me and I feel.. well ugly! PLEASE HELP!!!

12/2/2011 4:31:37 PM | Report

fungirl123 "Love is Louder than the Pressure to be Perfect!" ~Demi Lovato, Miley Cyrus, tons of other celebs!

12/2/2011 6:58:45 PM | Report

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12/2/2011 8:23:16 PM | Report

fungirl123 Ya know my good ol' fix up for every boy prob: ASK HIM :) about why he said that and if his intentions were as bad as you thought! Check back with me when you get his response, then I'll tell you what to do next! :D Haley

12/2/2011 6:57:06 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Ok I'll try but I can never find a good time to talk to him. He's a grade younger than me and we are friends but its complicated. Iget so nervous and dont know how to act around him!!! hahaha typical girl stuff!

12/3/2011 12:35:17 PM | Report

fungirl123 Send him a text...that is, if you have a phone (haha, I don't..). If not, try and catch him in the halls or after school. :)

12/3/2011 1:14:55 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 Oops i posted two of the same thing ha ha i thought i hadn't clicked post on the first one! wow i'm smart, I'm so sorry reply to either one :P

12/2/2011 6:58:46 AM | Report

SmileyGal7 An awkward thing happened between me and my crush mainly he asked me out then changed his mind and asked to be friends. It hurt to do so but i said yes. Now i see him looking at me in the hallways but he has a girlfriend what do i do?!

12/1/2011 5:14:22 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 Last year my crush mainly asked me out then changed his mind and wanted to be friends. It was hard but i said yeah to being friends now he's popular and he never talks to me EVER what should i do? Plus he looks at me in the hall but he has a GF!

12/1/2011 7:12:22 AM | Report

fungirl123 Its as simple as this: ask him! When you see him alone (or ask to talk to him privately if he's with friends), say: "I thought you wanted to be friends. You never even talk to me. Why did you break up with me anyway?" That should do it! Luv, Haley <3

12/2/2011 4:28:30 PM | Report

DaNcInGQu33N9812 Hey Does anyone have any work-out suggestions that really target your tummy area??? Thx! --C

11/30/2011 1:12:50 PM | Report

fungirl123 good ol' fashion crunches! Try it on an exercise ball to mix it up!! : ) Haley

11/30/2011 6:45:10 PM | Report

DaNcInGQu33N9812 HEY! thanks!

12/2/2011 10:47:35 PM | Report

ilovegl98 1.think of your crush 2.make a heart with your hands 3.then kiss your hand while still making the heart 4.then put the heart where your real heart is 5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out 6.this will only work if u post this on your favorite article

11/29/2011 2:05:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 I'll try????

11/29/2011 7:50:17 PM | Report

SmileyGal7 Hey!So there's this guy that I just started liking and he's my bgf but there's a lot of rumors about him liking one of my close friends it makes me sad because i thought he liked me. What should i do so he'll notice me as more than just a friend?

11/28/2011 7:45:50 PM | Report

fungirl123 Look him into the eyes and hold it for a second before batting your eyelashes and turning away mysteriously. When he is telling you something look him in the eye, Also, talk to him more about movies and music. Gently git him on the arm on occasion.

11/29/2011 7:13:26 AM | Report

SmileyGal7 WOW! you have great advice thank you SO SO SO much I'll try your advice out i bet it will work great thanks again :)

11/29/2011 6:16:37 PM | Report

fungirl123 Your soo welcome!

11/29/2011 7:49:50 PM | Report

NinjaKitty be* lez

11/23/2011 10:48:52 PM | Report

fungirl123 First off, you should talk to a guidance counselor or a trusted adult. Then tell your most trusted freind. Depending on how your parents are, they might not take it well.I don't reccomend telling your 'rents first. Practice telling them with afriend.

11/24/2011 4:23:07 PM | Report

cait1998 Hey! So theres this guy i REALLY like and my BFF who is reaaaaaly good friends with him was talking 2 him and he said he was gonna ask me out. I know she was being serious cuz shes a REALLY bad liar. I cant really act normal around him anymore. ->

11/23/2011 6:45:33 PM | Report

fungirl123 Try just smiling at him! Say simple "Hi, [Insert name of boy] wasn't that Math homework super hard last night?!" Or something like that! Hope I helped! Happy Thanksgiving! :) -Haley

11/23/2011 9:56:07 PM | Report

cait1998 Thx soooo much!!! :)

11/25/2011 10:20:48 AM | Report

fungirl123 No problem, Chickie! Come back if you ever need advice again!! :D

12/3/2011 1:16:02 PM | Report

NinjaKitty i think i might me lez... what should i do??/

11/21/2011 4:50:47 PM | Report

fungirl123 What is "me lez"? Was it a typo?

11/22/2011 1:49:44 PM | Report

fungirl123 What is "me lez"? I think I know what you mean...I just want it to be clarified before I give you a totally wacky answer! Thanks! *Haley Luv*

11/22/2011 9:23:28 AM | Report

NinjaKitty be* lez... yea sorry

11/23/2011 10:56:08 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Wht do you think is a good outfit to wearon Thanksgiving?!?!

11/21/2011 1:21:02 PM | Report

fungirl123 Does your family dress up a lot? If so, get a autumn-y dress a drape a cardi over it. Wear dangley earrings and cute winter boots, too! :) Haley

11/21/2011 6:20:09 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Thanks! I'll prob. wear a long nice shirt, pants, and the boots!! :D

11/22/2011 11:03:22 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Hey! Ok so I like this guy who dated this girl that used to be my friend but shes just not someone I want to be friends with. He feels bad that he "ruined" our friendship so he doesnt talk to me alot! How do I let him know that I want to be friends?

11/19/2011 12:02:40 PM | Report

fungirl123 Did he tell you he feels bad?Or do you just know he feels that way?If he did say that he feels bad, you need to ask him why he feels bad.Then ask him if he wants to help you study for a test, quiz, etc.That will let him know he shouldn't feel bad! :)

11/19/2011 9:47:07 PM | Report

ilovegl98 Ok Thank You!! I really like him and people think he does but he says he doesnt! I have no idea what to do about it anymore!!!

11/20/2011 4:07:59 PM | Report

fungirl123 Your welcome! I'm going through the same thing! :) Haley

11/20/2011 7:39:44 PM | Report

divapup4 I like this guy & he's my neighbor. Only prob: he's a year older than me, & he has girl freinds (notice two words). I feel like he won't notice me because I'm younger and he probably has better options. HELP ME! I've also been obsessed with boys...

11/14/2011 9:37:25 PM | Report

fungirl123 Do you know anything about him? Does he know you even exist? If he doesn't, it's time to make yourself noticed by talkn to him tons! Also, if he has a lot of girl friends, he probably a flirt! That can spark jealously in a relationship!

11/17/2011 3:00:20 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey girls! Since this is kind of a club, I'll be posting weekly advice quotes that I see. I'll also be addressing some things going on here on GL! Lovee! <3 -Haley

10/31/2011 5:04:22 PM | Report

musicdefinesme Ok, so I am a sophomore and almost all of my really close friends are juniors. My mom used to tell me that I wasn't hanging out with my friends enough. Over the past couple of weeks, I've been hanging out with them a lot and it seems to bug my mom.

10/3/2011 7:46:01 PM | Report

fungirl123 So do you want your mom to accept your friends? If you do, ask your mom why she doesn’t like your friends. Tell her that it’s not fair that she’s telling you she can’t be friends with these girls. Hope I helped! If I didn’t, please ask me again! –Haley : ]

10/6/2011 3:20:39 PM | Report

hellosunshine44 She sent them the picture..and like now hes showing EVERYBODY!!!

8/10/2011 7:11:14 AM | Report

fungirl123 Uh...OK?

8/10/2011 7:55:35 PM | Report

tfishwildy I have volleyball practice in the mornings before school starts and i get really sweaty. I don't want to smell at school help!

8/5/2011 5:27:44 PM | Report

fungirl123 NVM bout shutting down this page! Keep asking questions. Love, Haley

8/6/2011 12:54:13 PM | Report

fungirl123 You have to be clean in order to not sweat. Whenever you get a shower, use a good soap that has antiperspirant in it. If you shower at night, then wash your face every morning. Then bring deodorant to practice and keep reapplying it about every 30 mins. If possible, shower after practice and use soap. Then wash your face. If you can’t shower, change out of your sweaty clothes and into good-smelling clothes. Put on more deodorent or antiperspirent. For your hair, bring dry shampoo in your gym bag and spray it in. Bring fresh socks and put baby powder on your feet to dry out the sweat and prevent rashes. Hope this helped! If you’re confused, just tell me!

8/6/2011 12:53:16 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey, girlies! I am shutting down this page. If you need any advice, comment on my profile, tho!

8/4/2011 4:41:22 PM | Report

fungirl123 Welcome,@ah1313 and hermione&ron!!! Ask away!

5/21/2011 8:01:59 AM | Report

fungirl123 Ask Away!

5/21/2011 8:00:29 AM | Report

fungirl123 Hey, girls! Remember that it does NOT matter what the question is! I love giving advice!I Love helping people!

5/21/2011 8:00:01 AM | Report

fungirl123 Welcome @emmyie11!! Just ask any random Question!!! (Don't care at all what it isss!!!) Love ya, ~~~Haley R.~~~~ fungirl123

4/13/2011 7:26:11 PM | Report

kittypryde676 How can u tell if you are depressed? Thnx, Kitty

4/16/2011 5:17:39 PM | Report

fungirl123 Continued. So if you really look down on yourself and are shutting the world away from you then maybe you are becoming depressed. I have never had to deal with that but I have suspected it in friends and it came to be true. Glad to help, Haley<3.

4/17/2011 12:07:16 PM | Report

fungirl123 Is this about the friend thing or something else? If it it the friend thing then ask her about it and if she blows you off then, then it's probably time to end the friendship. If we are speaking of you and your-own-self

4/17/2011 12:04:39 PM | Report

kittypryde676 (Continued)Sorry it is long!She never listens when I talk to her and that really hurts me.I've tried to talk to her about it and she just blew me off.My parents say it is because her sister moved to college,but it started before that.Help??Thx!

4/10/2011 4:46:12 PM | Report

fungirl123 Hey that's a toughy. I would give her some space and if you still have to sit by her then only talk to her if you must. Soon she will either realize she doesn't need you or she'll realize how much she will miss you. Maybe the the same for you!

4/10/2011 8:52:44 PM | Report

fungirl123 And, if your parents think its cuz of her sis then think to yourelf and ask "How much did she talk about her sister before she left for college?" If she talked about her a lot then consider that that's why.

4/11/2011 4:26:43 PM | Report

kittypryde676 Hi, I need advice! Ok, so I have this friend,"Aly".We have been best friends for a little over a year.We were only friends in the first place because we sat next to each other in class.For a while now I feel like she is not that good of a friend.

4/10/2011 4:42:35 PM | Report