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Ash-blue Hello! I have a problem. I like my friend's bro! The other day when we met he kept playing with me and staring at me for no reason. But he is 13 and I am 11. His sister would be fine with it if we dated. Is there a possibility he likes me? Help!

6/11/2013 11:16:23 AM | Report

JKOF hi, now there's this guy i like.he was about to ask my bff out but said no cuz i liked him. i dont really like him anymore, i'm kinda a boi quitter, but things are akward and i want 2 be friends. help!

5/25/2013 7:11:36 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey all! I wanted to ask you guys if I should do something special with this page along with answering questions as and Advice Queen. Possibly post tips, ask you guys questions, whatever. Let me know!! Any suggestions are helpful. Thanks guys, xoxox

5/3/2013 7:08:57 PM | Report

jayjay7

i like this guy i am 14, he is 18 and after school i went around to his house to see him and we made out. then the next day one of my guy friends said that he was just going to use me. then he went and saw the guy i like and told him that i said that.

Hey Girl! OK so you should talk to the guy about how you feel and not let what other people say get in the way of your relationship. If you really like him then give him a chance to prove that he really likes you. Just be sure that he treats you like a princess, especially because he is older. Also, don't let him pressure you into doing ANYTHING you don't want to. Be the boss of your relationship!

Elizabeth K.

4/25/2013 8:10:15 PM | Report

candy914 I have a friend problem!So 2 of my bffs always take control when we are doing some kind of group project.I tried talking to them alone but whenever I do that somebody else always buts in & gets offended when I ask them to leave.How do I solve it?plz

4/24/2013 12:41:25 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You need to take charge and tell them that everyone needs to contribute. Pipe up when they are talking and give suggestions. If this doesn't work, then you need to pull them aside or call them up later to chat personally without interruptions. xoxo

5/3/2013 7:04:19 PM | Report

vanessa brissett hey i want to be perfect in high school and popular any advice how?

4/6/2013 6:42:29 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* There is no need to be perfect. Just be YOU. you are going to be popular in your own way. If you feel like you need to be popular, start talking to more people. BUT, the friends you have now like you for you, and you are popular in their eyes.

4/19/2013 1:14:44 PM | Report

jaz.thoman I cant stop thinking about me ex boyfriend. Its been 3 month! What do I do?

4/4/2013 8:40:01 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Focus on other things besides your ex. Get involved, do some crafts, sing your heart out, write out your feelings, have a girls night, start chatting up other guys if need be. This is the best way to get over him! I hope this helps! xoxo

4/19/2013 1:10:21 PM | Report

shantie34 hi there is a guy i like him he likes me he is kinda shy but i want his number. how do i ask for it without be full on?

3/25/2013 3:59:55 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* When you talk to him, casually say, well I have to go but maybe we can text? and if he says Yeah, exchange numbers! Another way if you want to be a little flirty pass him a note in class or in the hallways saying "we should exchange numbers (:

4/4/2013 6:40:32 PM | Report

candy914 Ok I really like this guy and I got up the guts to ask him if he liked me he said i don't know.A year later we ride the same bus so my BFF and I r walking and he smiles,waves & says Hi Delaney. He has been saying hi to me a lot now.Does he like me!?

3/9/2013 10:14:37 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Its hard to say. Maybe he's being friendly. Chat him up, and if he compliments you and is engaged in your convo, its a go! Good luck! xoxox

4/4/2013 6:37:59 PM | Report

KaitenYuki Thanks for the advice~ Another friend had to stick his lousy nose in it though, so I sat down and talked the guy. He does like me a lot more then other girls, but he's had his eye on my friend (Who I'm a lot alike). She rejected him XD

2/7/2013 9:01:22 PM | Report

KaitenYuki -not quite sure how he interacts with other girls, but usually when I see him he ignores them. Help, please? ([^]w[^]') -Kai-kai

2/4/2013 7:49:14 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* long. Maybe hang out with him and if he compliments you or is "sweet on you" then he prob likes you! Let me know how it goes with other girls. Watch out for the "player" characteristic. Hope this helps! xoxoxo ~Gab

2/5/2013 8:03:05 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* I would take the time to get to know him. See how he acts around other girls. If he isn't particularly nice to other girls, that's a good sign for you. Don't rush into this because upperclassmen may not be the best choice if you haven't known him -

2/5/2013 8:01:57 PM | Report

KaitenYuki -REALLY nice to me. He has a cute nickname for me (No matter how offensive it is that he's calling me short!)and even takes to ruffling my hair. He's an upperclassmen, (I only get to see him before school, on the bus, and in Science Olympiad) so I'm-

2/4/2013 7:47:56 PM | Report

KaitenYuki Hi there~ <3 I just wanted to know if you could tell me if a guy likes me. I mean, you could describe him as a jerk, (actually, when most people think of him they immediately associate his name with the term 'annoying')but he's actually - Meghan D.

2/4/2013 7:44:18 PM | Report

gleerules101 -if he told me why he was mad at me.What do i do for us to become friends again? I miss him.Also he unfriended me on fb and we see eachother everyday after school for like 5 hours becuse were in the musical together. Help!!!! (sorry i wrote alot)

1/27/2013 12:45:12 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* and start moving on from this whole situation. If and when he wants to talk, listen and maybe he will want to be friends again. Give it time, but don't rush him. When you see him, smile nicely, but don't be too involved with him. I hope this helps!

2/5/2013 8:00:00 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It sounds like he is being stubborn. Whatever was between you was gone after you broke up. Don't stay hung up on this guy. Let him have his space and when he wants to talk, talk with him. Don't let him be the main priority of your relationships -

2/5/2013 7:58:37 PM | Report

gleerules101 -but he doesnt answer me or ignores the question.I also try to have my friends ask him but he says he doesnt want to talk bout it. I wanna be friends again but he isnt making an effort to solve the situation.He also told me i would get mad at him-

1/27/2013 12:41:47 AM | Report

gleerules101 - and talked it over with the office. Anyways the problem is that even though me and his ex arent friends and we decided not to talk to eachother. Well my ex is mad at me even though the fight wasnt my fault.I tryed asking him why he is mad at me --

1/27/2013 12:40:04 AM | Report

gleerules101 - that they broke up which isnt true. becus he messaged me on fb the night before the fight that he likes me and wants to go out with me and i told him i would tell him the next day(fight day). Anyways his now ex and i got sent to the office--

1/27/2013 12:37:33 AM | Report

gleerules101 Okay so a few weeks ago i got into a fight with my ex's gf. And she literally chased me at school like she was gonna kill me.Anyways this was becus my ex broke up with his gf and some of our mutual friends told his ex gf that it was my fault --

1/27/2013 12:35:49 AM | Report

Olivia_Rose I have a huge crush on this boy at my school and he knows. He talks to me, sometimes, but not very often. (He's shy.) He texts me all the time and gives me compliments. The problem is, he's still kind of hung up on his ex girlfriend. What do I do!?!

1/25/2013 4:04:26 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Give him time to move on, but be encouraging to show him you so that he will forget all about his ex GF. If he is up for hanging, do it. Be a good listener to his probs if he wants to talk about his ex. Give him a little time and he'll come around.

2/5/2013 7:56:08 PM | Report

zakeyah i just moved to a new school and on my first day there was a cute boy thats in every class i have and i've had a crush every sense i go skating with him every week he acts like feels the same way about me but how do confront and tell him how i fill?

12/8/2012 8:17:02 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well first of all, if he is spending time with you, thats really good. Drop hints, flirt with him, and if he flirts back, then you are in good shape. Congrats! See if he is more like a brother or more like a crush. Hope this helps, xoxoxo.

1/16/2013 11:51:10 AM | Report

dramaqueen44711 Hey, So the Christmas dance at my school is coming up and my friend asked my crush to go to the dance with her and he said yes before I could get to him!What should I do???HELP ME!!!

11/25/2012 7:34:15 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl, sorry I haven't replied back! What happened? Does your friend really not know who your crush is? These are things that you should tell your friends so that this doesn't happen because trust me, it blows! Sorry girl!

1/16/2013 11:49:40 AM | Report

biomaster I've been wit my bf 4 a year & recently i get d feelin he's not into me anymore,we dont see each other as much as we used 2 cuz he graduated & im stil in skl but he has time 2 play videogames & watch tv & he makes excuses when i ask him 2 do sumthing

10/31/2012 12:09:49 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You may just be growing apart. Maybe talk to him about it. You never know whats up with him until you try and ask. If he is making excuses still, give him a lil space and he is bound to come around. Good luck xoxox

11/11/2012 9:15:33 PM | Report

gleerules101 What are some signs that a guy likes you?

10/4/2012 12:14:56 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* If he flirts, looks at you and smiles, gets jealous easily, talks to you a lot, things like that.

10/27/2012 3:27:28 PM | Report

gleerules101 I met a few new guy friends and their great and we have fun and all in class together. But when I am outside and lets say one of them walks by and i say hi they just ignore me and walk away. Two of the guys i met did that.Whats it mean?

9/29/2012 11:04:13 PM | Report

gleerules101 -and get them to remember how much fun we all had in the 6th grade together? Also some of them i realy really havent hung out with in along time.What do i do?

9/22/2012 7:25:37 PM | Report

gleerules101 Im in 7th grade and i never see my friends especially my guy friends and i want to hang out with them more but i feel our best friendship is driftin apart. I miss my guy friends so much but i nver see them anymore.How can i hang out w/them more-

9/22/2012 7:24:11 PM | Report

Sunny79 I think she told him I like him! He wouldn't tell me what she said so I really think she told him. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it? Should I just give up? I don't know what to do...

9/7/2012 6:47:00 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Casually bring the subject up. You don't want to be too pushy because then he might get freaked out. Dont forget to be his friend first too. Slowly start flirting with him again and if he flirts back, that is a good sign. I hope all works out. Xoxo

9/9/2012 1:26:17 AM | Report

Sunny79 He says we couldn't go out because we know each other too well and we r too good of friends. I would never let a relationship mess that up but I really really like him! I told someone I liked him and he told me she txted him something about me and I

9/7/2012 6:45:39 PM | Report

Sunny79 I like this guy who I've known since we were both like 5 and we r neighbors. I really like him but idk if he likes me. It seems like he is flirting with me and he's admitted that I'm cute and that he's wondered if he likes me but he says we couldnt

9/7/2012 6:44:05 PM | Report

boypolar What does it mean when a guy hugs girls? Ive only seen him hug 2 girls but hes always talking to a girl! What the heck does that mean?

9/6/2012 11:26:20 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It doesn't necessarily mean anything. It could be a flirty hug or a friendly hug. Guys hug girls that are strictly friends all the time. You have nothing to worry about girl. Xoxoxo

9/9/2012 1:21:51 AM | Report

gleerules101 because other girls like him too however his friend told me hes not a player so should i go for him and still like him or not?

8/21/2012 12:06:55 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Definitely keep trying with him! Don't let other girls get in your way of a potential boyfriend. He obviously has some interest so take advantage of that and chat him up and get to know him. Xoxoxo

8/30/2012 9:42:49 PM | Report

gleerules101 likes me for example he wanted to be my partner again today, he told me i was his best friend in the class fyi we just met he also gave me a high five and tries to make me laugh quite alot but i am worried that i might not have a chance because other

8/21/2012 12:01:53 AM | Report

gleerules101 Hi um okay so i started school a few days ago and i met this awesome guy. I mean we have a lot in common. However his friend thats a girl that went to his school told me that a lot of girls like him.I have seen girls around him but it seems like he -

8/20/2012 11:59:23 PM | Report

Wordgirl789:) So I Wanna text him again but I don't want him to think I like him ... I texted him August 9th . When should I text him and what should I say . Thanks for all the amazing advice

8/11/2012 1:19:28 PM | Report

Wordgirl789:) So it's been a 2 hours later and he doesn't text back! Ok I think he doesn't like me so can you help me find a way to get over him?? I just need a good way to move on . Thanks !!:)

8/9/2012 12:45:39 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well if he hasn't texted you back, try just talking to him in person. If that isn't possible then just say hey to him don't come off to strong girlie! Xoxo

8/30/2012 9:38:33 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Everyone follow me on Instagram!!!!! @gabrielle__rebecca Thanks! (:

8/9/2012 4:19:25 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It sounds like you're moving on way to fast. Maybe he got caught up in something? Don't assume the worst. Wait a few days then text him again, if still no response then forget about the guy thats missing out on a great girl. Let me know what happens!

8/9/2012 4:18:43 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It sounds like you're moving on way to fast. Maybe he got caught up in something? Don't assume the worst. Wait a few days then text him again, if still no response then forget about the guy thats missing out on a great girl. Let me know what happens!

8/9/2012 4:18:11 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It sounds like you're moving on way to fast. Maybe he got caught up in something? Don't assume the worst. Wait a few days then text him again, if still no response then forget about the guy thats missing out on a great girl. Let me know what happens!

8/9/2012 4:17:45 PM | Report

Wordgirl789:) Hey so I'm pretty sure this guy doesn't like me.Um first I text him what's up from me . But he got a new phone so he called me then hung up . Then texted me who is this ? I said this is (my first name )( First letter of my last name ).To be continued

8/9/2012 12:43:03 AM | Report

alibaba So my bf & I went for a walk in the woods@ a party.Everything was perfect,and we kissed.But his tongue made a surprise appearance.I told him I dont like that, but I worry that wasn't the only reason we couldnt "get into lip rhythm" Am I a bad kisser?

8/6/2012 12:15:41 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Nah girl you just need a lil practice. If you're not comfy french kissin then take it a lil slower. Or, if you want to, experiment some and take a few chances to get to know better kissin techniques. Let me know how it goes! xoxox

8/9/2012 4:15:37 PM | Report

hopie1215 My friend always talks about my mom but she i dony know how to tell her i dont want to be her friend without hurting her.

7/27/2012 4:37:47 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* What does she say about your mom? Not sure why you don't want to be her friend so if you could tell me, that would be great. I'm not sure what your question is?

8/1/2012 11:37:53 PM | Report

Nightless Hello there. :) I have a crush on this guy who's a grade above mine. Because of that, I rarely see him and because of THAT, I don't have much interaction with him. Any tips on how to get the most out of the times we meet and how to see him more often

7/20/2012 12:41:53 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Find a common interest. Next time you talk ask him to a movie, or a basketball game, or out for icecream. Start slow but get to know him and his interests and see what you have in common so you can hang with him. Ask him for his number too. xoxo

7/23/2012 1:11:21 PM | Report

wordgirl789:) School starts in a month . I like this guy and I really really want to tell him I do . But I'm sooo scared to say it . Just what should I do ????

7/9/2012 12:08:49 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Instead of straight up telling him, drop hints. Flirt. If he seems to flirt back, then it won't be so scary and won't hurt as much if it goes badly. But chances are he will appreciate you (; good luck girl. Xoxo

7/16/2012 11:48:30 PM | Report

Wordgirl789:) Thanks So much !!!!:)

7/24/2012 3:40:03 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey guys. If you ask for advice, please let me know if I helped or not. I really want to hear about your problems and anything I can do to help. Thanks guys! (; xoxoxo

7/26/2012 11:20:56 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* No problem girl! That's what I'm here for. Let me know how it goes!(: xoxo

7/26/2012 11:16:28 PM | Report

chewche my type is shy guys so wt if i'm shy too wt dod i do?

7/3/2012 2:22:22 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well maybe your shyness will bring you closer. But one of you is going to have to break the ice at one point. Try talking to some guys like as friends to get ya more comfortable with talking to guys. I hope this helps xoxoox

7/6/2012 9:11:07 PM | Report

boypolar Should I say hi? What should I wear? He was so handsome I wannanlook good. Please help!

7/2/2012 2:03:28 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Take control and talk him up! Wear something that will catch his eye but not to dressed up, like nice jeans and a pretty top or a cute sundress. I hope this helps :) xoxo

7/6/2012 9:07:00 PM | Report

boypolar I saw this REALLY hot guy today in church. I wasn't dress up at all. I saw him looking at me after I got the Eucharist. I looked bad so I'm hoping next week he'll see me dressed up. I haven't seen him at church before so I'm hoping he'll come back.

7/2/2012 2:01:17 AM | Report

boypolar <3 (PLEASE!!!) So in about a year im having a quincenera(15 year old party). Im overweight about 10-15 lbs. and i wanna lose weight. I have 6 months until my dress fitting. What is healthy to eat? Whats unhealthy to eat? How many hours should i workout? What workouts should i do? Should i eat school lunch? If not, what should i pack? PLEASE HELP!!!(sorry for so many questions) __**Boypolar**__

7/2/2012 1:13:21 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Eat green. Meaning try not to eat processed foods (chips, ice cream, junk) and eat fruits veggies dairy products. Start slow when working out, jogging, then start running 3-4 times a week. I hope this helps. Xoxo

7/6/2012 8:39:42 PM | Report

8thwonderoftheworld I met this guy at an acting camp and i started having a huge crush on him the thing is though that one of my friends like him too but she has known him longer and i just dont know what to do

7/1/2012 10:16:57 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Don't let a guy get between you and your friend. I'm not quite sure what your question is? Sorry :/

7/6/2012 8:35:57 PM | Report

Shygirl15 I like this boy and i just started txting him at the beginning of summer he didnt even know me 😓😳 i was embarrased because i knew anout him and i had a huge crush on him sunce the bigginning of the school year he said like 4 times that we should ha

6/25/2012 5:32:01 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hm. Does he know who you are now? Does he talk to you? Sometimes boys make mistakes and sometimes are really forgetful. I hope everything is going okay now though. Xoxo(:

6/27/2012 12:51:26 PM | Report

boypolar Im really confused. Everyone talks about flirting. I don't know how to flirt and what flirting really is. My idea of it is people touching you. I think I'm wrong. Can you please explain? Thanks-Boypolar!<3

6/25/2012 6:50:21 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* All flirting is showing somebody you like them whether it's through words, body language, eye contact, etc. when you flirt it's more like paying a special interest to somebody rather than just talking to them. Flirting is really just having fun. (;

6/27/2012 12:49:01 PM | Report

inmyownlittleworld TO KYLA MARIE RICH. depends. did you get the full story? did he take your silence as a no go? talk to him. find out what happened and if he just left ya for no reason then delete away!

6/19/2012 10:56:02 PM | Report

Kyla Marie Rich I am in homeschool and was talkin to a guy from school on email. We said we would go to prom together. I dnt hear from him then find out he is going with some1 else. I have not deleted him from my chats list but think I should. Should I?

6/18/2012 12:11:30 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Talk to him first and see what his reason was for doing that. Maybe there was a misunderstanding or something. Vent a little befor so ou don't end up writing things hurtful. Good luck (:

6/18/2012 12:10:48 PM | Report

gleerules101 i am going into middle school and heard there were going to be dances so i told my mom that and then she was all maybe you shouldnt be aloud to go to those but i want her to say yes. What should I tell her?Why do they have dances anyways?

6/16/2012 11:23:26 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hm. Most schools have dances to fundraiser money. Others is just so the kids can have incentive to behave. Tell your mom that you would like to go and that it will be chaperoned by school staff. Good luck (:

6/18/2012 12:07:53 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Okay guys. I knojave been a little absent for like the past month an I am so sorry. I will be on here daily to help you all so don't think I'm abandoning you! Sorry guys! Xoxoxo

6/12/2012 10:48:19 PM | Report

boypolar The blame and I'm young on a road trip to California. And I don't want it to be awkward and whenever we talk shes usually rude. Shes hurting my feelings and I already told her I'm sorry! I'm going to be with her for 6 days. Wat do I do?please help

6/11/2012 11:47:12 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl. Well she needs space and so do you. YOu already apologized and told her how you felt so now all you can do is wait for her to come around. Try and be nice and don't say anything you will regret. I'm sorry him. Let me know how it goes.

6/12/2012 10:46:25 PM | Report

boypolar HELP!!! My sis and I got in a fight about 3 or 4 days ago.... I made a mistake and so did she. I txted her a sorry message explaining how I felt and shes still acting annoyed and rude. I'm giving her space and I miss her but shes not accepting any of

6/11/2012 11:39:21 PM | Report

Taylorpop500 So i have liked this guy since 2nd grade and now i am going to be in highschool. Everyone knows i like him, even him, but i dont think he likes me back. What do i do?

6/8/2012 5:41:08 PM | Report

soulsister12 will blossom!!! i hope this helps:)

6/9/2012 12:29:49 PM | Report

soulsister12 hey chica, honestly what i would do is try to get over him.hey for all you know there might be another cute sweetie you'll meet in highschool!;)but if you just cant get over him try to spend just a bit more time with him get his # maybe something

6/9/2012 12:28:39 PM | Report

Taylorpop500 see i have his number but he doesnt really text people, and i really like him. What is even weirder is that there is this nerdy guy who asked me out 3 times and for valentines day he asked my crush were to get me a good present!!

6/10/2012 12:04:52 PM | Report

soulsister12 Happend to me and i just learned to ignore him so if he tries to buy you a gift i wouldnt exept it, you could just be leading him on by doing that so if he does offer you a gift i would just say thank you for the thought but i dont like like that

6/15/2012 4:02:39 AM | Report

soulsister12 Just let him down easy and hey maybe your crush will respect you more for not just saying no and leaving coldly cause knowmatter how nerdy he is hes stilla person Hope i helped

6/15/2012 3:59:17 AM | Report

soulsister12 Happend to me and i just learned to ignore him so if he tries to buy you a gift i wouldnt exept it, you could just be leading him on by doing that so if he does offer you a gift i would just say thank you for the thought but i dont like like that

6/15/2012 3:55:01 AM | Report

soulsister12 Well is it one of those sitches where youll text him and he wont text back or he wont be the 1st one to text you and your shy to be the first one to text him????and about the nerdy kid is he just a little annoying or is he kinda creepy cause this

6/15/2012 3:45:57 AM | Report

Taylorpop500 Well, my crush he like never has his phone on him so when ever i text him he doesnt reply therefore i dont really text him... and the nerdy guy he is creepy and annoying and just ewwww!

6/23/2012 11:14:04 AM | Report

Taylorpop500 Well, my crush he like never has his phone on him so when ever i text him he doesnt reply therefore i dont really text him... and the nerdy guy he is creepy and annoying and just ewwww!

6/23/2012 11:13:13 AM | Report

soulsister12 they basicly ignore me i feel really left out and sad... what do i do?????

6/8/2012 3:59:35 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl. You could try talking to your girlfriends to see if they could hang out with you for one night instead of with their boyfriends. It's all about communication sweetie.

6/12/2012 10:42:30 PM | Report

soulsister12 hey! so recently iv been feeling like a 5ht wheel around my friends...by best friend is dating my crush and my other friend that i hang out with has a bf too but im still single and whenever we all hang out i just end up coming home by myself because

6/8/2012 3:58:16 PM | Report

inmyownlittleworld

I need help. I made a huge mistake and drank some alcohol with my friends and then went to school. I told my friend and a girl near by told admin. Now I have been suspended for the rest of school and my parents have decided to home school me and cut me off from my former friends. They also took away my phone and kept me inside which made my boyfriend think I was ignoring him, and he broke up with me. I have no life anymore. Plus my other ex is still in my life and I still have feeling for him. But he keeps leading me on then saying he doesn’t want to date anyone. idk what to do. I have no will for life anymore. I feel like a hermit. Like nothing. HELP

Hey Girl,

That sounds really rough. I know it's hard but instead of worrying about your exes just focus on your school work hobbies, and winning your parent's trust back. If you can prove to them how responsible you are, they may allow you to return to your old school.

Best of luck,

Simone S.

simone s.

6/7/2012 12:58:00 PM | Report

inmyownlittleworld

. MOD MOD MOD thanks for the response simone s, my parents already told me nomatter what i do, i cant go back to a regular high school

Hey Girl,

I'm really sorry to hear that. Try and make the best of the situation. Can you join extracurricular clubs? Coed teams?

Maybe you could talk to a counselor at school who could try and convince your parents that home schooling might not be the best thing for you. Maybe if you agree to go to alcohol counseling your parents will agree?

good luck!

Simone S.

simone s.

6/7/2012 1:42:27 PM | Report

inmyownlittleworld mod mod mod to simone, i have to as a part of the school policy. ive tried everything from compromises to plain begging, they say this will be the only way, i will be able to go to comunity theater classes and a public dance class, but thats it.

6/7/2012 5:13:27 PM | Report

Alykat18 but that would make me weak wouldn't it? idk what to do i haven't talked to him since he broke up with me to date some other chick...but i just can't forget about him and i can't find anyone to replace him..:(

5/29/2012 11:47:00 PM | Report

boypolar If u hang out with friends and have fun u wont even think about him. Relax and enjoy ur teens years. Ur true love is somewhere out there..... just wait and who knows maybe he already has a crush on u (right now)?????? HOPE U CHOOSE WATS BEST FOR U★!!

5/30/2012 11:13:33 AM | Report

Alykat18 help! i'm desperate:( i miss my ex. even tho he was such a jerk the whole time we were dating! but he would say sweet things and i fell for it even tho it was all 1 big lie...but i really miss him and i want to text him and ask him how things r going

5/29/2012 11:45:46 PM | Report

boypolar First of all think of all the good AND bad things about him. If he's going to treat you badly and not treat you with respect.........the answer lies right there. Anybbody can say sweet things to u and who says u need a boyfriend right at this minute?

5/30/2012 11:10:00 AM | Report

vball_queen1834 so i really like this guy and i kno he used to like me but im not sure he still does. anyway so usually im really good at talking to guys but wenever im talking to him its like i get quiet n akward. i hate this cuz i have never done that what do i do

5/17/2012 5:39:25 PM | Report

boypolar Also maybe he is waiting for you to tell him you like him(Confess your love). Or you can just straightforwardLY ask him if he likes you.

5/18/2012 10:42:42 PM | Report

boypolar Be confident and speak up! guys really like a confident girl and be the first one to start the conversation...just dont be LOUD AND OBNOXIOUS.

5/18/2012 9:05:20 PM | Report

nikkijay ok so this guy who i dated broke up w me and its the 3rd time he broke up w me and i still cant get over him and my friends told me he still likes me but hes goin out with my friend what should i do???

5/8/2012 3:34:05 PM | Report

boypolar BEST OF WISHES AND GOOD LUCK!PICK IS WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU!:)<3

5/18/2012 9:19:15 PM | Report

boypolar If you dont already know what you want as him to give you some time to think. If you decide he isnt worth it or he acts lie a jer its his loss anyways. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Dont let a guy put you down and hang out with your friends and have fun!

5/18/2012 9:17:42 PM | Report

boypolar Sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel and what you think of his mood swings in your relationship. Then ask him how he feels. Give him a chance to explain himself to you. Ask him if he likes you. Why is he going out with your friend?

5/18/2012 9:15:49 PM | Report

boypolar Think about what you like about him. Write down his pros an cons. Weigh them out and decide what is better for you. Then think about how he makes you feel and if you is worth your time.

5/18/2012 9:13:56 PM | Report

boypolar First ask yourself a few questions. Do I REALLY like him? Does he treat me right? Does he like me? How will this affect my friend? Will he break up with me again? Can my heart(MAYBE) take another punch? If so read on..............................

5/18/2012 9:12:28 PM | Report

gleerules101 Ok so my friend and I just started a no animal abuse club and couldnt think of anything to do at our school!any ideas?

5/6/2012 12:52:04 AM | Report

boypolar Why isn't the advice queen actually giving out advice?

5/11/2012 1:39:17 AM | Report

gleerules101 I know right!

5/12/2012 3:39:29 PM | Report

boypolar You can voulenteer at the local shelter with a group of friends/peers . Or u can help make sure responsible people adopt animals.

5/11/2012 1:37:38 AM | Report

gleerules101 So I just found out one of my bffs doesnt wanna be friends anymore but for real!!!her friend told me she doesn't wanna be friends because i choose my other girlfriends over her but its not like that its just hard for me to say no.What do i do?

5/3/2012 11:14:25 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl. You could try talking to your girlfriends to see if they could hang out with you for one night instead of with their boyfriends. It's all about communication sweetie.

6/12/2012 10:43:09 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You need to talk to her. If he doesn't feel like talking to you then let it rest for a few days and try again when she is a little more calm. This friendship breakup is the worst. Sorry chicago, good luck. (:

6/12/2012 10:39:25 PM | Report

gleerules101 -or stay friends with her til the year is over because its only in one month or just tell her how i feel and try to work it out without telling her i dont wanna be friends with her??? My mom says i should let our frienddship drift.What do you think?

5/1/2012 7:55:42 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* I almost had the exact same problem. It's really hard letting friends go so you may want to make sure you don't want to be her friend. Try talking to her and see why she acts the way she does. I'm sorry girl. Good luck.

6/12/2012 10:36:54 PM | Report

VNJ99 you should try to talk to her.if she still asks the same way,then maybe you should just let her go. good luck

5/2/2012 4:04:45 PM | Report

gleerules101 Hey so my friend emma and i well i feeel are friendship is not really working out and me and my 2 other friends wanna tell her we dont like the way she treats us but then again she soemtimes is nice to me too.Should i not be friends with her anymore-

5/1/2012 7:53:52 PM | Report

orangutanluver101 my friend is dating my crush. I don't know if he likes me because he interacts with me like we are always singing songs together and maybe a couple times i have seen him stare at me. But I don't know what he is trying to say by his actions!! HELP!!!!

4/30/2012 11:44:22 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Alright guys. I have been really bad about getting on here. I am so so so so so so so sorry for not being more consistent. I love helping you guys so in the next day or two, I will answer all of your questions from the past months. Sorry! Xoxo

6/11/2012 8:01:15 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Guys are confusing. You're going to have to dig a little deeper to figure out what is really going on. Good luck to you darling!

6/11/2012 7:59:28 PM | Report

Vampirechic Plus last thursday he had his hand on top of mine, then the next day he brushed his hand on mine and since then he has barely talked to me.

4/28/2012 8:23:29 PM | Report

VNJ99 well guys change their mind a lot.trust me.bu that doesnt mean that he isnt in to you.try talking to him and if he doesnt talk back to you i dont know wat tp tell you

5/2/2012 4:07:31 PM | Report

Vampirechic Thanks! He talked to me yesterday, ALOT. Plus we have a school trip tomorrow, and I THINK he is on my bus!

5/2/2012 9:45:26 PM | Report

Vampirechic he was not on my bus. but my group got switched because our air conditioner broke and we could barely breathe in there, and we got switched to his bus!

5/12/2012 2:25:51 PM | Report

Vampirechic There's this guy I like who likes me as a friend and I can talk to him, as a friend but how do I make him think I like him more than that, or even see if he likes me as more than a friend without embarrassing myself?

4/28/2012 8:22:17 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, you have to flirt. Compliment him, smile at him, and act like you want him. Don't be to upfront about it at first, baby steps, baby steps.

6/11/2012 7:57:10 PM | Report

Vampirechic well that was kinda hard over the summer. im not in any of his classes this year i dont think. im sad. :'(

8/17/2012 2:20:34 PM | Report

panther7 there are two guys who in the past have admitted they have liked me but now they still act like it but say they dnt like anyone? they both stare at me alot. What do i do to find out if they like me?

4/27/2012 12:56:15 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl. I your not sure, ya need to ask them! It's no fun to think someone likes you if they don't so you need to clear the air. (:

6/11/2012 7:37:10 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girl. I your not sure, ya need to ask them! It's no fun to think someone likes you if they don't so you need to clear the air. (:

6/11/2012 7:36:31 PM | Report

VNJ99 ask a friend to ask them.

4/27/2012 3:33:21 PM | Report

justinbieberrox1999 ive had a bf for a couple months and i really like him but he seems to be not interested in me anymore. hes talking to other girls more often and dosnt seem to notice me sometimes.it'll be weird if i talk to him about it so idk what to do! plz help!!

4/25/2012 5:10:44 PM | Report

VNJ99 sometimes you have to face your fears.if he isnt paying attention to you and talking to others girls,then somethings up.you dont deserve that!or mybe hes having a rough time.idk but tlk to him

4/26/2012 3:26:29 PM | Report

VNJ99 who here loves One Direction,cuz i doooooooooooo :D

4/25/2012 4:55:15 PM | Report

gleerules101 I love them too!!!They are the best boy band ever!!!

5/1/2012 7:56:30 PM | Report

boypolar P.S all my friends say its weird to like a guy you don't know is that true?

4/23/2012 12:22:12 AM | Report

gleerules101 that is so not true well in my opinion and if you really think he is worth wild i would try to get to know him!

5/1/2012 7:59:08 PM | Report

boypolar Also I was wondering how I could make some easy safe money (I'm trying to save up for my dream car!) Also my parents are super overprotective so it has to fit their standards

4/23/2012 12:12:39 AM | Report

boypolar I was wondering if it is weird to like a guy you don't know besides seeing walk around the hallways?

4/22/2012 11:27:08 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It is totally not weird to like a guy that you see in the hall ways! Of course you should get to know him better and talk to him but seeing a cutie first is the first step! (:

6/11/2012 7:32:55 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girls! I'm so glad that so many people have joined! If you love to run or workout, you should join my club, Run, Run, Run. It will be awesome. I promise dudes.

4/14/2012 6:16:12 PM | Report

gleerules101 - then he told my crush i am guessing like my crush's bff was his messenger.Do you think that my crush might like like me?

4/12/2012 11:59:00 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Definitely a good sign! Usually a guys BFF wouldn't just say that just for the heck of it. I think he may have an interest in you! Just make sure you are prepared for the worst incase something bad happens. Protect yourself and you should be fine (:

4/14/2012 6:11:52 PM | Report

gleerules101 Hey, so today I was doing History and my crush's bff came up to me and asked me if i liked my crush and i said yes.Then he asked on a scale of one to ten and would you go out with him if he asked you out, and the thing is he only asked me!-

4/12/2012 11:57:33 PM | Report

blue98 -and is about to talk to me and sometimes he doesbut others he gets cut of. and he compliments my work and stuff sometimes and wenevr im around he boasts aboiut his new older gf! wat should i do i dont want 2 end up crushed again! PLZ help!

4/12/2012 7:20:45 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Decide if he is worth your attention. He has a GF tho so he prob shouldn't be flirting with you. My feeling is that he is a player so you may want to watch out. Sometimes guys are confusing but that's the way they work. Sorry doll. xoxox

4/14/2012 6:12:07 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Decide if he is worth your attention. He has a GF tho so he prob shouldn't be flirting with you. My feeling is that he is a player so you may want to watch out. Sometimes guys are confusing but that's the way they work. Sorry doll. xoxox

4/14/2012 6:08:14 PM | Report

blue98 alright i am seriously confused about this guy in my year. last year i had a huge crush on him when we sat next 2 each other but then sent me a fb mess that i think meant he thought i was a jonah!so ive gotten ovr him but now i catch him lookingatme-

4/12/2012 7:17:55 AM | Report

gleerules101 Okay, so a week or 2 ago i asked my friend to tell the guy i like i like him, she did. However i asked her what he said after but every time i asked her she would log off of Facebook or just wouldn't chat.What should i think?

4/8/2012 12:57:35 AM | Report

gleerules101 What are some conversation starters you can use on your crush?

4/7/2012 11:41:05 PM | Report

chacha:) my friend is dating my crush and i think he might like me to HELP ME!

4/7/2012 4:28:53 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, do you like him? If he likes you too, then he has to decide to stick with your gal or to date you. And if it causes tension between you and your friend, then lose the guy. No guy should tear a friendship apart. If you don't like him, no worries

4/8/2012 12:22:54 AM | Report

gleerules101 Hey so today my crush asked me and my friends if we had "swag" i thought he said sweat but thats not the point. I was wondering what is "Swag"???

4/11/2012 10:23:16 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Swag is generally how someone dresses, acts, and presents themselves. I don't really know what he meant but he was probably wondering like how you guys roll. ? I hope this helps.

4/14/2012 6:04:22 PM | Report

gleerules101 thanks it helped alot

4/15/2012 7:00:36 PM | Report

gleerules101 whats swag???

4/12/2012 9:34:07 PM | Report

gleerules101 yes i do like him!However its not reallly like that i mean i dont think she or he cares if we were to date.The thing is she just sort of never told me what he said and i cant ask her at school either because she has been gone for 2 days.

4/11/2012 10:21:36 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, I guess that if it doesn't come between you and your friend then I guess its fine. Although, you may wan to watch yourself because this happened to me and I felt really hurt. Just make sure you protect your friendship and never lose your gal.

4/14/2012 6:00:21 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You could always use a pick up line! for example, Are you tired? Because you have been running through my mind all day! Or how are you? How’s your day so far? how are your classes? What are you doing this weekend? Or just ask him about his interests

4/8/2012 12:22:29 AM | Report

gleerules101 okay thanks!

4/8/2012 12:45:13 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You could always use a pick up line! for example, Are you tired? Because you have been running through my mind all day! Or how are you? How’s your day so far? how are your classes? What are you doing this weekend? Or just ask him about his interests

4/8/2012 12:21:01 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, do you like him? If he likes you too, then he has to decide to stick with your gal or to date you. And if it causes tension between you and your friend, then lose the guy. No guy should tear a friendship apart. If you don't like him, no worries

4/8/2012 12:18:38 AM | Report

Artsychica I go to an all girls school how/where can I get a BF?

4/7/2012 12:40:42 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* You could always go to public places (the mall, pool, bowling alley) and find some dudes to chat up. I don't really know on this one. My best bet is somewhere where a lot of people your age hang out, or where everyone is hanging these days.

4/8/2012 12:16:42 AM | Report

gleerules101 okay thers this guy i like and he is really popular. Lately hes been asking my friend about me and asking if i like him!Do you think he likes me?

3/31/2012 12:46:02 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Either he likes you or you have been giving out hints that you like him. Do you guys talk? One thing I advise you to do is to talk to him and get to know him first and don't make your friends do all the talking/acting like messengers. Tell me more!!!

4/1/2012 12:48:34 AM | Report

gleerules101 i dont talk to him that often and if i do its usually someone else who starts the conversation.You see he is known for hangin with the drama people and i am known for hangin with the smart funny goofy people.But hes been giving me clues he likes me!

4/5/2012 12:52:54 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hmm. Interesting. Thats how it was for me too. Two different groups colliding. Just chat him up! Pull him aside after class and talk to him about his interests. (:

4/8/2012 12:15:08 AM | Report

gleerules101 thanks and i will try also is it okay to tell a guy you like him?

4/8/2012 12:44:21 AM | Report

alexcee there is this guy that I like, and I think he maybe likes me too. Howevere, whenever I text him he doesn't respond. He won't respond when I just blurt out random things, only texts. How do I get him to respond? Should I ask him at school cuz i don't.

3/29/2012 6:34:44 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* What are the signs that he likes you? I think I need a little more information to help ya on this one chicky.... ? Tell me as much as you can. (:

3/31/2012 12:58:30 AM | Report

alexcee Well, I think he likes me cuz he will walk with me to some of our classes. He wished me luck on my CPR test. He keeps reminding me of this stupid thing I did in chorus. And he will text me back sometimes and he does text my other friends with his #.

3/31/2012 9:48:09 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hmmm... I would just suggest talking to him more in person rather than texting. Let him get to know the real you and see what a great person you are. Conversing is hard sometimes, but it is ALL worth it. Good luck chicka, you will do great.(:

4/1/2012 12:46:00 AM | Report

nykisixx This guy likes me and i kinda like him but my friends don't aprove AT ALL:( he's not a bad guy just not popular...i really don't care what my friends think but there opinion does matter a bit...what should i do??

3/27/2012 4:26:20 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* It doesn't matter if your friends like him or not, its the guy YOU are interested in. Maybe explain to them why you like him and why they should approve. This happened to me too and the best way is to just keep your chin up and ignore opinions(;

3/27/2012 5:04:05 PM | Report

nykisixx OK thank you sooo much:)

3/27/2012 6:57:08 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* I hope it helped (: Good luck chica (:

3/29/2012 4:51:08 PM | Report

smartdramaqueen My mom is over protective and im not aloud to wear make-up and the kind of clothes I want. She criticizes me about being "hookerish" snd hanging with the wrong crowd what do i do?! They are all nice and fun and trustworthy she says the opposite HELP!

3/18/2012 12:16:31 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey guys! Thanks for all the comments and questions! Sorry I haven't been here in a month but I will be here from now on! Sorry guys! COME BACK!!

3/19/2012 7:25:09 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Sit down with your mom and tell her your story, without yelling or telling her she's wrong. Mothers are often protective because they don't want to see their kids grow up. You need to respect her and her rules but try and persuade her to see you side

3/19/2012 7:24:23 PM | Report

Steff12345 So can you give me advice? O think my crush likes me back but I'm not so sure

3/4/2012 6:11:35 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* I can definitely give you advice! Tell me why you think he likes you and I will sure help! I am ALL ears (:

3/19/2012 7:23:11 PM | Report

KaitlynCoyle22 Okay so i play volleyball. And im going to high school next year and im gonna tryout for that team but i dont know how to improve my skills. Any ideas?????

3/3/2012 11:24:16 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Practice makes perfect. Bump a vball against a wall, lay on your bed and set above your head, grab a bud and pass back and forth, set a ball into a basketball hoop, or against the backboard, grab an older girl from the team and ask her for tips. (:

3/19/2012 7:22:16 PM | Report

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3/3/2012 9:42:45 AM | Report

kaymalu hey so im totally into fashion. I love fringe boots and neon wayfarers and stuff but whenever i try and wear that stuff my friends always say i look stupid or weird. they dont appreciate my style. how do i stop the tease while still being myself?

3/2/2012 4:29:14 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Ooh, this happens a lot with me too. Sometimes I will wear something tots cute, and then they will criticize me for it. If they tease you for what you wear, then they obvi aren't really your true friends. They should like you for who you are chicki.

3/19/2012 7:20:07 PM | Report

dorkalicious123 ok thanks for the advice but the guy i like everyone thinks he's weird the reason im mean is cuz when im near him i dont know what to say so i say something mean i try to be nice but then i go back to being mean again

2/20/2012 5:26:04 PM | Report

kelly2oo1 The boy i like when he is with his friends all of them are looking me and talking to him and then he comes over and does something mean but that type of mean where like they call you names it is like playing around mean. Does that mean he likes me?

2/19/2012 3:11:44 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Is he different when he is not around his friends? If he is mean to you around his friends but nice to you otherwise, he prob likes you, or enjoys talking to you. Don't jump to conclusions tho, find some ways to figure out if he likes you!

3/19/2012 7:18:26 PM | Report

Babygirl777 I am kind of chubby. I wanted to start working out. What is the best workout that is not painful?

2/18/2012 10:46:48 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey hunny, no workout is easy. I would start by fast walking, (with your dog?) around the block a couple times. Make sure to breathe and to never quit. Do it often too, and then start running!

3/19/2012 7:17:10 PM | Report

dorkalicious123 thanx for the advice but he's sorta the class weirdo. And 2 of my bfs have a crush on him too. I think it'll be to obvious if im suddenly ALL NICE TO HIM. help me (again).

2/17/2012 6:23:02 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well of course you have to subtle at times, just make sure he knows that you don't hate him. xoxoxx :)

3/19/2012 7:16:03 PM | Report

1corinthiansgurl I've known this boy for a long time, but we were never friends. Now he started coming to my youth group and we started hanging out with me and my BFF. We're good friends now and I REALLY like him.

2/10/2012 8:44:05 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* That's great! I am glad that you found a boy. (: If you like him, show him! (: (: Everyone deserves love. What exactly was your question tho?

2/17/2012 11:44:38 AM | Report

dorkalicious123 i like a boy but im mean to him cuz i dont want him to know i like him but now i want him to know i donnt hate him but i dont want him to know i like him and to make matters worse i think he likes my bff/twin/sister! what do i do????

2/9/2012 7:16:43 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* That's great! I am glad that you found a boy. (: If you like him, show him! (: (: Everyone deserves love. What exactly was your question tho?

2/13/2012 3:39:02 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* WHy would you be mean? If you like him, SHOW him. Don't send him mixed signals cuz that is the worst. Try being nice to show you don't hate him. I am sorry that you are in such a sticky sitch, just try to make better moves. (:

2/13/2012 3:38:55 PM | Report

madie5480 i REALLY like this guy.hes super nice really smart athletic and a bonus good looking.the problem:hes also really shy.idk if this is flirting but he does small stuff like high fives and plafully tries to trip me.we talk some and he stares at me. help!

2/5/2012 7:16:46 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* OMG. This sounds just like what it was like for me! Well, some of my friends talked to him for me and found out what he thought of me. you could do that? also, just try and break his shell of shyness. See how he reacts to your flirting. (:

2/13/2012 3:35:47 PM | Report

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1/28/2012 9:15:14 PM | Report

sassysammi19 MOD MOD MOD! How do you answer a mod or see the answer someone gives you? Also, how do you get pople to see your clubs. JOIN MY JUSTIN BIEBER CLUB PEOPLE!!

1/27/2012 8:24:18 PM | Report

fashionfairy ...knew he had a gf and i was killing me the whole time! whenever i see him in school i feel like im melting inside! but he has a gf :( what do i do???

1/26/2012 8:21:48 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey girlie. I get what your saying, he is off limits tho.. Maybe ask him to clear up the confusion you have. maybe even drop hints to tell him you like him. you do have to respect that he has a gf even if you really like him. I would wait and see (:

1/31/2012 12:25:12 PM | Report

fashionfairy ...2 go ice skating with him. i'm not that good, so i'm pretty slow. he's been skating for awhile, so he can go waay faster. anyway, he came up behind me and grabbed my waist. he stuck with me the whole time, and he wuz acting suuper nice. but i...

1/26/2012 8:20:44 PM | Report

fashionfairy hey i REALLY like this guy, i've been crushing on him for the past three years. i cant figure out if he likes me or not, but right now he has a gf. but, my neighbor who's also in my grade (and who i know likes me) invited me, my crush and his sis...

1/26/2012 8:18:30 PM | Report

mlennon ok i am not pretty but i want to b can u help? Anything helps.

1/24/2012 5:50:23 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Why do you say you're not pretty? EVERYONE has beauty inside and out. Don't change who you are, don't wear heaps of make up, don't change dramatically. Maybe try a few new things, like hair styles and experimenting with makeup.Sorry you feel this way

1/26/2012 3:53:17 PM | Report

izzygirl13 HEY! I think you might be able to help me a little. There's this guy... I have been crushing on him forever and by forever i mean like 5 years... The only problem is I CAN'T talk to him normal! I freeze up and start saying dumb and rude things! HELP!

1/23/2012 6:16:37 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Ah, shyness. talk to your other guy friends and practice talking to them normally, then you will eventually won't be shy around your crush. This generally helps, just pretend like he is one of your closet friends, just a boy, Trust me it will workout

1/26/2012 3:51:59 PM | Report

lizzyloo1470 ok so my BGF that I've known since forever is also my biggest crush.Whenever I'm at his house I sometimes catch him staring at me but when he seed he looking he looks away.Also I asked him to be truthful about if he likes me he said No what do I do?

1/22/2012 4:28:13 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Boys are confusing! Well, if you get that vibe that he likes you, he may just be too nervous to admit it. Be subtle and drop hints that your interested. Don't act weird around him or be any different, don't go full out flirting, see if he flirts back

1/26/2012 3:50:24 PM | Report

KAS 131528 ok so theres this guy that I like.He is a grade higher but only 8 months older.He thinks Im pretty but theres a few problems.He doesnt notice me,he's never talked to me and the biggest one of all...he's my BFF's brother!and i cant get him off my mind

1/18/2012 6:13:35 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* OhEmGee! Wow, thats pretty intense. What I would do first is be his friend, not just his little sis's BFF. Show him that your awesome to be around and make jokes. Be his friend first but then show him later that you like him(:

1/26/2012 3:48:50 PM | Report

agrin12321 hey i am new and i have a question-so i like this guy and i want to be more than friends, but how do i show him that without spelling it out for him?

1/1/2012 7:37:21 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, the question is, how do I flirt? and this is not easily answered. The most subtle way is to lightly touch his arm when he's being funny, and make sure you are listening to everything he says, don't ignore him. Be compassionate, and be yourself.

1/26/2012 3:47:40 PM | Report

8/25/98 hey! this is for everyone who wants too join two extra clubs!! they are really fun and exciting to be on! they are called Girl Talk! and Music Stars!! these are me and my friends clubs!! thank you very much!! :D

12/30/2011 2:51:52 PM | Report

8/25/98 hi, im kinda new here but i have a question. . . so i was dating this boy, he broke up with me for my best friend. he broke up for my best friend for me. should i take him back????????????????????????

12/29/2011 3:15:17 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, in my opinion I wouldn't take this guy back. He keeps bouncing back between you and your BFF. I don't think that this guy knows that you aren't that easy to get back. He isn't thinking about your feelings, only his own, which is tots wrong.

1/26/2012 3:45:44 PM | Report

8/25/98 thank you soo much!!

2/24/2012 5:12:53 PM | Report

AnnaSalvatore99 Okay this is kind of weird because i'm an advice queen too but i just need a 2nd opinion. So i just started going out with this really sweet guy but whenever some hears about it they're like" why would you date him?!?!" as if to high maintenance!!

8/30/2011 8:19:21 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well. Thats what happened to me once. I would just ignore them. If they are teasing you then they obviously don't see the good in him like you do. It's good you found a sweet guy, so it doesn't matter what other people say about him! Good luck!

9/16/2011 12:18:14 AM | Report

me! hey umm this is me!, iguess. i have a question about my best guy friend i absolutly love and dore him. and i told hm "if i said i liked u not saying i do wat would u say" an dhe sai dhe dont like me. but i really wish he felt the same way. its depres

8/3/2011 1:38:26 AM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, Hmm. Maybe you should just give you and your BGF's relationship some time to sort things out. Maybe drop subtle hints that you like him and try an be a girl of interest instead of one of the guys. Hope this helps sweetie!

9/16/2011 12:22:25 AM | Report

pinkann27 A special guy is in my life right now,he makes me feel great&special.We talk about everything&anything without feeling awkward.I've never felt anything so beautiful for someone other than now.He's responsible,sweet,funny,patient,&etc.how 2 tell him?

8/2/2011 1:12:42 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Well, if you talk about everything, he prob likes ya! Do you talk about girls with him? If you think he is perfect then just tell him that you like all those things bout him. Tell him he's funny and great.He might see that you like him! Good luck!

9/16/2011 12:23:03 AM | Report

coolcat101202 I like a guy in my school but we've just broken up for the summer and he's not going to my college next year. i'm going to see him at prom but i think that after that i won't see him again. i really like him, he's perfect. what should i do?

6/27/2011 7:03:03 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Do you think he is worth a long distance relationship?If he is, then you should tell him how you feel. If you truly feel like he is the 1, then go for it chicka. You might figure out ways to see him and communicate with him even if you are separated

9/16/2011 12:25:01 AM | Report

stylediva Hi, I was wondering, how do you tell that "special someone" you like him? Btw plz plz plz check out my advice page <3 stylediva

5/23/2011 5:46:17 PM | Report

candy914 I can help. All u hav to do is get him alone and ask him. DO NOT ASK HIM MORE THAN ONCE then he will get indimidated by u. Also don't write it in a note I try's it and it DID NOT WORK!!!

3/9/2013 10:20:02 AM | Report

fungirl123 PLEASE come check out my advice queen page!

6/16/2011 12:43:22 PM | Report

fungirl123 Just by dropping hints. Like touch his arm or purposely bump into him and when you say sorry, gaze into his eyes for at least 1 sec. Hope I helped and come check out my advice queen page!

6/16/2011 12:41:45 PM | Report

*Marco* He said he did i because he wanted me to break the rules one more time.... I don't really like him but i think i do at the same time.... WHAT DO I DO????

4/30/2011 9:39:11 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Hey Bestie!!! Well, I think you should totally follow your heart. I know that he said he wanted you to break the rules but he can't tell you how to feel or what to do. Please don't fret over what to do. Wait till you know the absolute right decision.

5/13/2011 11:49:16 PM | Report

*Marco*

I need advice on a boy.... He wants to date me really bad i am not aloud to date... I currently just got done with a relationship with his best friend. He know that i cant date but he came up to me one day at lunch and kissed me.

hey girlie,

if you are not in a place to date, then don't! Just because he kissed you and he wants to date you doesn't mean you have to. You know what you're ready for, so just follow your instincts :)

Ruth S.

4/30/2011 9:37:52 PM | Report

totalotaku I have a crush on my BGF. I don't know how to make him look at me more as a future gf rather than just a friend. I also stink at flirting.My hair is always a mess. My weight doesn't help my case either. Let's just say i could be healthier.So, HELP!

4/13/2011 8:19:08 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* will catch his attention and these actions will tell him that your interested. Maybe pamper yourself, or wear something new, or do your hair up nice, and that will catch his attention and make him look at you as a possible GF. Hope this helps!

4/16/2011 11:13:54 PM | Report

*Twifan.Vball.Chic* Totalotaku: I bet you know a lot about your BGF, so next time ask him casually what he likes in a girl, and if there is anything in particular, show it. Little things like touching his arm when he says something funny, or sending him flirty smiles

4/16/2011 11:11:28 PM | Report