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Advice Queen:KansasBelle
Happy to help with anything from an unbiased, logical, third party perspective! I am particularly popular in working with queer or questioning teens as well as family based problems. Coming from a background of abuse and a wavering sexuality myself, I would be glad to share the lessons I've learned with you! Please note, that as some of these issues are sensitive, if you are in need of urgent advice, you should call a 24 hour hotline or get in touch with a trusted adult.
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redvelvetluv I'm not bi or les but I support it I just wanted to know why do people say there's no such thing as being bi? I mean why do people think a girl can't like both genders a lot of people seem to think there's no such thing as being bi why is this?
5/22/2013 6:52:43 PM | Report
kjritchie0711 I just want some advise on my issue. I REALLY like this girl I know named Liz but I don't know how to flirt with her. I want a relationship with her,but I can't approach her. What do you think I should say to her in order to let her know my feelings?
5/13/2012 9:46:16 PM | Report
KansasBelle (8)...that would flatter you, and then do them for her! Let her catch you staring at her, wink at her, give her special attention, etc. But most of all show her what a unique, sweet, intelligent, great girl you are! I wish you luck! <3
5/14/2012 12:29:10 AM | Report
KansasBelle (7)...gold mine, hun. All you have to do in this case is flirt with her! The flirting part is easy because she's a girl just like you, which means she likes a lot of the same things you do when it comes to relationships! Think about the things...
5/14/2012 12:27:13 AM | Report
KansasBelle (6)...so that nothing moves too fast for her. Scenario C A.K.A Best Case Scenario) She IS open to lesbian relationships, and, in fact has been in them before or is at least very familiar with them. If this is the case, than you've just struck a...
5/14/2012 12:24:17 AM | Report
KansasBelle (5)... never been in one, than the best thing you can do is take it slow. Be mysterious and flirtatious, play a little hard to get (but not TOO hard to get), and maybe in time she'll decide you're worth it. But be sure to let HER lead the way...
5/14/2012 12:21:06 AM | Report
KansasBelle (2)...them: Scenario A) You don't know how she sexually identifies. If this is the case, then just talk to her! Get to know her a little bit in person and when the time is right, drop a sly line and ask for her number. After you feel you know her...
5/14/2012 12:12:29 AM | Report
KansasBelle (1) Well, first things first, do you know for sure whether or not she is open to lesbian relationships? I would say this is the first step in deciding how to handle the situation. The following are three possible scenarios and how to best approach...
5/14/2012 12:09:28 AM | Report
KansasBelle (4)... or Scenario C. Scenario B) She either is not open to lesbian relationships or has never been in one. If she's not open at all, than your only hope is that in time she will become open (maybe because she fell for you ;)). If she is, but has...
5/14/2012 12:18:02 AM | Report
KansasBelle (3)...well enough, start talking to her about your own sexuality. Hopefully she will open right up and let you know where she stands. It should become pretty obvious whether or not she's into girls. Once you find out, proceed to either Scenario A...
5/14/2012 12:14:29 AM | Report
KansasBelle *Scenario B*
5/14/2012 12:18:45 AM | Report
KansasBelle P.S. I apologize some of these answers got put in a funky order. If you go in numerical order, they should read fluently.
5/14/2012 12:31:31 AM | Report
XxSixSidedCrimexX
(cont.)..have a girlfriend and since I go to a small school information travels quickly. What do I do?
Hey girl,
This is a lot to deal with! You should feel comfortable with who you are, and you should speak with a trusted adult like a guidance counselor or other family member about your feelings. They'll help you figure out how to talk to your dad!
Meghan D.
5/11/2012 10:37:38 PM | Report
KansasBelle @XxSixSidedCrimexX (4)... the best reaction possible? -- it might help to "practice" and come out to some close friends or family that you think will be supportive. I don't know if there's much else I can say. I wish you luck! Let me know how...
5/12/2012 1:22:08 AM | Report
KansasBelle @XxSixSidedCrimexX (3)... want to be thinking about before you tell your dad are: A) Do you have a support system of trusted adults or a community safe house that would be there for you if he took it badly? B) How can you tell him that will get...
5/12/2012 1:18:46 AM | Report
KansasBelle @XxSixSidedCrimexX (2)... personal favorite of mine is the GlBT National help center. They have a toll free youth hotline that provides peer-to-peer counseling, etc. Some things you'll... Meghan D.
5/12/2012 1:15:39 AM | Report
KansasBelle @XxSixSidedCrimexX (1)I would agree that it would be good to get an adult involved. If that's not possible, it might be good to call a hotline for LGBTQ youth -- they can give you advice as to how to approach your dad. A personal favorite of mine...
5/12/2012 1:13:14 AM | Report
XxSixSidedCrimexX I need some help. I have a homophobic dad (actually, his whole side of the family is seriously homophobic) but I really want to come out. I'm a bit scared that information will reach him before I can say things properly. Mostly because I..(see cont.)
5/11/2012 10:34:31 PM | Report
KansasBelle @XxSixSidedCrimexX (6- I think :/)... let me know how it goes! And remember, the LGBTQ is always here for you! Lots o' Love <3
5/12/2012 1:29:31 AM | Report
KansasBelle I take that back. That was [5]
5/14/2012 1:05:23 AM | Report
gummgumm1998 shoud i com eout to my family imean everyone at school knows just not my parents and im not bi im in the middle of lesbian and bi go figure??????????????
4/3/2012 6:51:54 PM | Report
KansasBelle (4) you want. I like to identify as queer because (though I mainly date women) I don't want to be seen as restricted to ONLY dating women. If I met a man I liked, I would consider seeing him. It's just rare that I find a guy I like.
4/6/2012 1:16:34 AM | Report
KansasBelle (3) system in place of your parents? As far as the actual label of your sexuality goes, who cares? I wouldn't stress to much about the bi vs. lesbian thing. Labels only mean what we make them mean. You are free to identify yourself as whatever
4/6/2012 1:13:15 AM | Report
KansasBelle (2) that would put you or anyone else in danger in any way? B) Are YOU comfortable and secure in your sexuality? and C) In case your parents DID react negatively, do you have other people in your life who ARE supportive and could act as a support
4/6/2012 1:11:27 AM | Report
KansasBelle (1) Coming out is something you should do when you feel ready yourself. No one else can tell you when is the "right" time. However, there are some things you'll want to consider in deciding your timing. A) Will your parents react in an extreme manner
4/6/2012 1:08:46 AM | Report
 

 

 

 
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