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LexilicousCandy @BooRadley02- If you like each other, what's stopping you from being together? Keep in mind the guy doesn't always have to make the first move, so branch out and try talking to him directly; instead of through your friends. Who knows where things might end up? :) I hope that was helpful, and I wish you two the best of luck! <3 -Lexie xx
4/13/2013 10:45:04 PM | Report
erikers00 him goin off to high school. Please help!!!!
5/23/2013 7:59:56 PM | Report
erikers00 and he came up front and sat with and talked to me for the rest of the bus ride home. but there are a few problems... his younger brother is in my grade and i feel like it would be awkward. i also dont want to date anyone this close to summer and...
5/23/2013 7:58:27 PM | Report
erikers00 ok so im am 13 and in 7th grade but the guy i like and he is 14 and in 8th grade i really like him. the other day i was sitting up front on the bus by myself because my friend just got off and when the rest of his friends were sitting in the back....
5/23/2013 7:55:43 PM | Report
Grace246 Theres a guy I like. We've known each other since we've been 8, so we're close but he goes to a public school and I home school. I think he might like me, I'm not sure. Do you think I should try to reach out to him over the summer or just leave it?
5/20/2013 7:14:25 PM | Report
Grace246 Theres a guy I like. We've known each other since we've been 8, so we're close but he goes to a public school and I home school. I think he might like me, I'm not sure. Do you think I should try to reach out to him over the summer or just leave it?
5/20/2013 7:05:22 PM | Report
Featherr.♥ i'll make this short and sweet; how do i tell a guy to back off? haha thanks.<3
5/15/2013 8:51:06 PM | Report
scarlet274 i like this guy and i don't know how to spill it. I have short hair like REALLY short hair, like boy short hair. so i was thinking he will like me if i had longer hair. please give me advice for my hair to grow faster
5/12/2013 5:26:40 PM | Report
anniejane2000 Hey, I have to ask for some advice. One of my best friends is a guy, and we've known each other forever, and I've just started to like him, but if he doesn't feel the same way I don't want to ruin our amazing friendship. What do I do?
4/17/2013 10:42:47 PM | Report
maddiecat1999 @AnnieJane2000 Hope you dont mind me answering :) Well for starters, it is always hard when you start to like a guy friends because you don't want to ruin your friendship. But maybe he does have feelings for you! Maybe talk to him about it <3
4/19/2013 10:13:35 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @zoraz- I think this webpage (http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Guy-Out) has all the answers you're looking for. :) I've never asked out a guy before, but I'm sure you'll do great if you follow the tips! ^.^ Come back and tell me how it goes. Good luck! <3 -Lexie xx
4/13/2013 10:41:26 PM | Report
cla2611 I started liking this guy for a while now, and he found out about it. He told one of my friend (who is also his friend). I still don't know if the guy likes me too. But I just learned that my friend is actually in love with me. I had no idea and all of my friends knew and were hiding it from me. And apparently the guy that I like knows that my friend likes me and someone told me he didn't want to do anything because he doesn't want to upset my friend. I really don't know what to do, I want to say to my friend that it won't work because I don't like him but I'm not supposed to know that he likes me.
4/18/2013 11:05:30 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy My Spring Break is coming to a close; I go back to school tomorrow… sadly. :( How was everyone else’s breaks? I hope you all had fun! <3 I was on a cruise for the first week and spent this weekend at my competition and went ziplining after my cheer comp then spent the day on the boardwalk, it was a blast. :) What about you girls? Did anybody meet any cute new boys?(; Share your experiences below! –Lexie xx
4/7/2013 2:32:26 PM | Report
BooRadley02 A boy I like told a friend he likes me and I told a friend to tell him I like him, and now its just like awkward.... what should I do
4/13/2013 8:01:41 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @abbypesola- Leave me a message on my profile and I'll get back to you. :)
4/7/2013 2:26:20 PM | Report
zoraz Everyone wants me to ask my crush out and of corse i want to but i don't know how. I think my crush knows i have a crush on him and now he just treats me weird, but i still have a crush. Don't know how to aprosh him any more. What do I do?
4/12/2013 9:38:27 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @bookworm2000- I'm sorry, I was at a cheerleading competition all weekend and didn't have internet access. :/ If you leave me a message on my profile then we can talk and sort things out. :)
4/7/2013 2:25:35 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @BooRadley- Well, why is your ex, your ex? There must have been a reason you broke up, so I think that must be a factor in your decision. Also, you have to ask yourself who do YOU like. I don't know either guy personally, nor do I know you personally, so the decision should be based on how you think they act around you. What do you mean the one who you’re certain likes you acts weird around friends? You have to think if that will affect your potential relationship, as well. Good luck; I hope this is at least somewhat helpful! <3 -Lexie xx
4/3/2013 5:20:52 PM | Report
bookworm2000 Was wondering if I could be sec. and if I can, what are the responsibilities???
4/4/2013 4:10:45 PM | Report
bookworm2000 Hello???
4/5/2013 12:53:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hi guys. :) I'm sorry I've been gone recently, but seeing as I just found out that ownership has been transferred to me, I'm going to be on a ton's more and hopefully keep this club alive. <3 Much love, Lexie. :) xx
3/30/2013 1:58:35 PM | Report
bookworm2000 THE place to be We talk about fashion/beauty, celeb gossip, guys, and advice about life in general. We need 2 custom officers, so join and ask about that. Thanks for reading!! BTW, the form for customs is on my profile!
4/4/2013 4:11:43 PM | Report
abbypesola Hey i was wondering if you could make me vice or something. I'm super good at giving advice and I get on this all the time! Pleas! thanks -Abbi
4/1/2013 8:57:59 PM | Report
abbypesola Hey i was wondering if you could make me vice or something. I'm super good at giving advice and I get on this all the time! Pleas! thanks -Abbi
4/1/2013 8:57:58 PM | Report
Angel~Breath I need help. I have a boy I like, and we've been friends for 4 years, and I can't say I like him, or do something to make sure he likes me. What should I do?
5/9/2013 6:12:14 PM | Report
BooRadley hey I like two guys one is really sweet and I think likes me but he is my x the other I know likes me but he acts weird around friends ... the x gave me jewelry for my bday !! who do I choose??
4/1/2013 9:45:49 AM | Report
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3/30/2013 9:02:26 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hi :) xx
3/31/2013 5:20:30 PM | Report
7714st Hey everyone. Sorry I've been missing...my life has been pretty hectic, and I can't keep the club up. I'm transferring ownership to Lex, and she'll be able to appoint new officers, if she so pleases. Sorry guys.
2/15/2013 5:57:13 PM | Report
audzyd urgggggg do u know y my profile wont edit? i send it my email and i cant do anything!
3/16/2013 9:56:31 PM | Report
audzyd :)
3/16/2013 8:08:04 PM | Report
audzyd hey :)!
3/15/2013 6:39:58 PM | Report
audzyd hey I need help here. last month my crush asked me out ( on a Friday ) and on Monday he dumped me. :( I still like him and he likes me. im super confused. wat do u guys think?
3/15/2013 6:49:11 PM | Report
gracie02 I need help I had liked this guy since 1st grade to 4th grade I stopped because I found out that if you chase some one and they don't chase back then there not worth your time.But now he likes me how do I break it to him.
3/14/2013 10:56:26 PM | Report
gracie02 Well well they're closing my grade school so I have to go to middle school early and I'm so not ready.Help!
3/14/2013 10:17:54 PM | Report
gracie02 Well well they're closing my grade school so I have to go to middle school early and I'm so not ready.Help!
3/14/2013 10:17:18 PM | Report
ToughGirl13 Hey! Please help! I like my BGF and he is dating on of my besties! She knows I like him. But I also like them together as a couple. What do I do?!!!!!!
3/13/2013 8:31:40 PM | Report
gracie02 Well Tough Girl you can't force yourself to stop liking him.But you shouldn't try to make them break up,well another thing is you shouldn't constantly talk about it.Maybe you should focus on your friendship not that you like him.Hope it helps Girly
3/14/2013 10:25:03 PM | Report
anniejane2000 Hey, I have to ask for some advice. One of my best friends is a guy, and we've known each other forever, and I've just started to like him, but if he doesn't feel the same way I don't want to ruin our amazing friendship. What do I do?
3/9/2013 9:55:35 PM | Report
aubrey12344 hi! it is my b-day!
3/7/2013 6:19:44 PM | Report
awesomegirl22 hey what do i do if me and my best friend both like the same guy but he likes me and my friend gets mad whenever she sees us together ?????
3/6/2013 5:28:20 PM | Report
gracie02 Well I'm not saying your wrong for going out with him but if it comes down to it think would you rather have a bf or bestie .So if she's a good friend she would do the same. Chick a dee just think about it
3/14/2013 10:32:43 PM | Report
vikiwasawoo Hey Awesomegirl22! Well, thats a pretty bad issue. Just decide, best friend or boyfriend? If she's your friend, she will pick you too, you both should let him go and move on, and later on if one of you still has feeling for him, go for it!
3/7/2013 1:06:45 AM | Report
vikiwasawoo Hey Awesomegirl22! Well, thats a pretty bad issue. Just decide, best friend or boyfriend? If she's your friend, she will pick you too, you both should let him go and move on, and later on if one of you still has feeling for him, go for it!
3/7/2013 1:06:43 AM | Report
vikiwasawoo Hey join a club "Divas 101" for advice on everything from boys to school, and cloths, workouts, gossip, and everything really! go to my profile and click on it! <3
3/5/2013 5:04:30 PM | Report
vikiwasawoo And also check out my club "funny moment" to share all kinds of halarious things!
3/5/2013 5:11:11 PM | Report
gracie02 Go ahead you can hold hands after school and just chill at school and babe don't rush it you don't have to hold hand constantly maybe just dangle your hand next to his maybe he'll get the nerve and grab your hand.
3/14/2013 10:39:50 PM | Report
wierdlycool Hey I'm new here and got a problem with my BF coz he's shy and we really dont talk in school and my school the guys will scream if i hold my BF's hand in Public. what do i do?
3/2/2013 7:33:12 AM | Report
aubrey12344 hang out w/ him after school!
3/4/2013 7:22:26 PM | Report
rainbow_kitty0 okay so there is this boy i like and he likes me back but his friend says he doesn't like me and i don't know who 2 believe I'm really confused because his friend also said he liked another girl and i don't know what to do... HELP!!!
2/27/2013 8:39:09 PM | Report
aubrey12344 if your crush says he likes you non-sarcastically, he likes you. his friend might be jealous.
3/4/2013 7:23:54 PM | Report
aubrey12344 hey! please join my club/advice queen page, they are both called Aubrey12344!
2/26/2013 7:44:11 PM | Report
kekebears12 Hey i just joined this group what do we do here
2/20/2013 6:37:53 PM | Report
awesome111 I just joined 2
2/22/2013 10:35:37 PM | Report
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3/15/2013 6:42:25 PM | Report
Rey Aww it'll be different without you!! But, Lex will be a great new owner, and hopefully this club can get even better! ....If it can....
2/16/2013 2:51:42 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Thank you. <3 I'll try my best. :) xx
3/30/2013 1:56:10 PM | Report
japanna02 its ok
2/15/2013 9:33:30 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Valentine's Day is coming up! <3 What are your plans for this upcoming Thursday?
2/10/2013 2:25:15 PM | Report
molls101 So there is this guy in my class, he sits in front of me and i caught him looking back at me 7 times. Later that day he told his friends (2 girls) that he liked someone. Today he wrote on my book "I love 'his name'". Does he like me or is he a flirt?
2/21/2013 7:09:09 PM | Report
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3/1/2013 6:01:46 PM | Report
berryblossom5 Hanging home alone! I'm going to watch some movies with my family,
2/11/2013 7:56:04 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Family time can be fun, even on Valentine's Day! :) Do you know what you're going to watch?
2/11/2013 8:08:27 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Ahh, sorry it's been so long! :p But I'm back now, so yay! ^.^
2/10/2013 2:18:25 PM | Report
LissaLovesSmiles Hi! I'm homeschooled and all my friends are in public school. I want to go, but my parents don't want me being influenced badly. I haven't talked about it a lot because I don't want to disappoint them. How do I convince them? Thanks :D nice blog btw
2/13/2013 1:09:41 AM | Report
kateeydub Hey! So I sorta like this guy, and he chats me all of the time on facebook and we're getting closer but problem is, he's my bff's bgf! theyre super close and my friend says she doesnt like him but i know she does! what do i do?!?!?!?!
2/19/2013 8:32:18 PM | Report
kateeydub Hey! So I sorta like this guy, and he chats me all of the time on facebook and we're getting closer but problem is, he's my bff's bgf! theyre super close and my friend says she doesnt like him but i know she does! what do i do?!?!?!?!
2/19/2013 8:31:30 PM | Report
7714st @Rey- It does sound like he likes you. Unless he acts on it, there's no need to do anything. Just make sure you don't flirt back and lead him on. If he does act on his crush on you, let him down easy. Tell him that you like him as a friend, and you're not looking for a relationship at the moment. Good luck!
12/15/2012 10:47:37 PM | Report
bellasocceralpha78 Heyyy! Could go join my club called Infinite Directioners? I will post news and gossip (and other 1D stuff) at least every week. I'm also currently looking for officers so if you want to be an officer then let me know! :) x Bella
2/9/2013 3:55:06 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove HELP!so there is this guy who i have a HUGE crush on. i think he likes me but its confusing. one week he will be all over me, like coming up to me in the hall,staring and smiling me at class,but the next week he might ignore me. im so confused.help!
2/8/2013 7:43:00 PM | Report
Makyla Ellis He definetely likes you,but he might be a shy one. Just let him do his own thing and he will ask. He just wants you to think he does not like you, but he is soooo bad it. Obviously!
2/10/2013 4:40:13 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove @Makyla Ellis- thanx for the help! nothing has happened yet, but now its the third marking period, and everyone got our scheduals changed, and me and the boy i like are in the same gym class, so we talk alot more, and spend more time together.
3/8/2013 11:01:08 PM | Report
goofballgirl101 Hi, I just joined this club! So, I was wondering, what is the best way to ask my crush for his number? Or for me to give my number to him? Thanks!! (:
2/1/2013 1:41:42 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove @golfballgirl- if you are in a class together and there is a project try to get him to be your partner. if you already are, be like"Hey can i have yur number incase i have questions on the project or need help?" if not just try and casually ask
2/8/2013 7:36:55 PM | Report
jmtkwalshgirl HELP! My BGF is acting really kind and not really caring what other people think when we hang out so much. It's near Valentines day so is he trying get my attention? I really want some help!
2/5/2013 8:04:39 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Do you have feelings for your BGF? If so, try bringing up Valentine's Day and see how he responds. You can even leave him a couple subtle tips while you're at it.(;
2/10/2013 2:22:05 PM | Report
rebecca18 Hey, I just joined the club (this is the first one I've joined) would you guys mind giving me some guy advice??? thanks:)
1/29/2013 9:57:18 PM | Report
lulubird2000 ur name sounds familiar.....
2/11/2013 5:37:04 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girly thanks for joining the club! :) What's your question?
2/10/2013 2:22:54 PM | Report
paigey013 I have a question there is a boy I like he is cute he said he likes what should I do
1/27/2013 2:45:59 AM | Report
18slabio @paigey013 It seems like you have feelings for him by the way you talk about him.If he likes you and you feel rteady and comfertable to date there is absolutley nothing wrong with girls making the first move.Good luck and tell me how it goes!
1/28/2013 7:49:10 PM | Report
hanalicious i agree
1/19/2013 12:29:52 PM | Report
4soccer27 I really like this boy. I talked to his best friend ( who is also a friend of mine) and told him to find out who my crush likes, but my crush isn't saying a word to anyone. I think he might like me but im not sure. how do i find out if he does?
1/18/2013 11:09:33 PM | Report
4soccer27 also, i want to make my crush a card for valentines day but im not sure what it should say. plz help :)
1/20/2013 10:19:36 PM | Report
chelsea04 If you like him and you think he likes you on Valentines day ask him out just be prepared if he says or no if he says no don't that get you down:)
2/10/2013 12:12:36 AM | Report
Rey BTW, A and C's BF's are some of my closets friends, and they were really mad when A and C pulled me away to tell me something. C's GF gets really jealous when I am around him, bc he is obvi showing that he likes me.I know this'll take time, sry!!
1/17/2013 10:21:24 PM | Report
Rey One day, they told me they were gonna break up with their Gf's and I just said OK and they were asking if they should and stuff. It has been a couple weeks now and they STILL haven't! A was talking about doing it 2morrow. Sry but still continued
1/17/2013 10:18:34 PM | Report
Rey Thx, but did I mention that my crush (not my BGF, but the other one, lets call him C and my BGF A) is taken as well? So I like two guys, and I know C likes me, and I have a feeling A likes me too. Yet, they are both taken. Continued in a next comment
1/17/2013 10:15:14 PM | Report
fresnobee My crush's birthday is coming up, and I want to make him a birthday card. I want to make him a super cute message in the card, but I'm not sure what to write. Any ideas??
1/17/2013 10:09:22 PM | Report
Gymnastics Girly127 Could I have the Treasurer position? Thanks! xoxo Angel
1/16/2013 6:07:37 PM | Report
Rey Ok, so the guy that has a crush on me, asked a girl out bc he thought I didn't like him in that way (I started to grow feelings for him). So I moved on (not really). I then got feelings for my BGF that I've know since pre-k. He is taken. WHAT DO I DO
12/31/2012 11:51:01 PM | Report
Rey Thanks! I have another problem... My life is pretty complicated and confusing D:
12/31/2012 11:47:08 PM | Report
7714st Sorry I've been MIA guys! I have first semester finals in a week, so I've been crazy busy.
12/15/2012 10:23:03 PM | Report
7714st @fresnobee-for a shy person, a note is always an option. If you think he likes you back, you might take the direct approach and just tell him. Or you could start a conversation about crushes and stuff. If he asks you who yours is, you can say something vague like "he's someone i'm friends with, who i've talked to recently." He might be able to figure it out. Good luck!
11/30/2012 11:20:42 PM | Report
linnobear I like this guy at my school. What are some tips for me though we only have one class together and we have the same lunch on one day. Tips please? im really shy with boys btw.
12/9/2012 6:41:25 AM | Report
Cstyle6 hey everyone! i have an awesome boyfriend but my best guy friend recently told me he has liked me for a while. i feel bad because now everybody knows and makes fun of him, he isnt himself anymore and i know its partly because of me!! plz help!!
12/7/2012 12:25:49 AM | Report
jeanbean9 Still hang out with your guy friend but put that aside and forget it happened. If things don't go we'll with you and your boyfriend and you start to have feelings for BFG. Just make sure you don't ruin your friendship and take things fast.
1/8/2013 6:25:24 PM | Report
fresnobee HI guys! On the bus, I told these guys who I liked. They told me that I could trust them and that they won't tell anyone. I kind of trust them, but I'm scared they're going to tell everyone and MY CRUSH! What do I do then?
12/4/2012 11:00:13 PM | Report
Tasha1991 this happened to me last year but the best thing happened to me . i told my best friend jamie who i like and he told everyone the hole school new but know one really cared as long as u dont make a big deal out of it u will be fine...
12/15/2012 2:04:48 PM | Report
Caitlin2000 So im in Middle School and i havent ever gone out w/ anyone. is this normal or does that make me weird/ncool? there are kids in my school who strted dating in PRESCHOOL but it wasnt serious (duh) but is there a way i can get ppl to like me/ notice me
12/3/2012 6:38:08 PM | Report
klairbear19356 thats what i wander too.
12/20/2012 10:55:28 AM | Report
fresnobee Thank you so much!
12/2/2012 7:57:40 PM | Report
Rey so this is what the guy does: He compliments me He laughs at ALL my jokes (even the cheezy ones) He says that he will tell his friends (that idk) that his GF said hi (me) He says he will get e something for Valentine's Day/Christmas WHAT DO I DOOOO
12/1/2012 12:06:27 PM | Report
Rey I need help! I think a guy likes me (I will post what he does in the next comment) and I have only a little feelings for him! I am still not sure if he likes me, because I am that girl who doesnt get many guys to like her, and he is 'the perfect one'
12/1/2012 12:03:59 PM | Report
sydstar1999 i really like a guy but i don't think he likes me but i want to know for sure but if someone asks him then 1 he will figure i like him and 2 he will say no because he doesn't one to know or just doesn't like me at all ok i think he like this other girls and i think she like him back and i feel like my heart is broken even though i havent dated him or anything but i am REALLY JEALOUS so the girl he likes has a boyfriend and today we switch seats and now he sits across from me and i think he was staring at me i get so nervous around him i do not know what to do
12/1/2012 10:17:08 AM | Report
Tasha1991 also right now u r carrying this big rock on your back and when u tell him the rock falls of off your back and u r free. talk to him tell him how u feel it wil all be worth it in the end
12/15/2012 2:02:11 PM | Report
Tasha1991 well sydstar1999 if u like him tell him i told my crush i liked him and he understood now we text all the time and my friends think we r dating but we r not . i am told if he is a real true nice guy when u tell him u like him he will under stand.
12/15/2012 1:59:52 PM | Report
Tasha1991 well sydstar1999 if u like him tell him i told my crush i liked him and he understood now we text all the time and my friends think we r dating but we r not . i am told if he is a real true nice guy when u tell him u like him he will under stand.
12/15/2012 1:59:48 PM | Report
Cstyle6 @sydstar1999 TALK TO HIM!!!! talking is a great way to find out if he likes you without directly asking him or having someone else do it (which is kinda childish). If he laughs at your awful jokes or makes an effort to keep the conversation going, GO
12/7/2012 12:20:46 AM | Report
Cstyle6 @sydstar1999 TALK TO HIM!!!! talking is a great way to find out if he likes you without directly asking him or having someone else do it (which is kinda childish). If he laughs at your awful jokes or makes an effort to keep the conversation going, GO
12/7/2012 12:20:43 AM | Report
josie12 hey..if anyone needs on absolutely anything come to me and together we'll sort it out!..visit my page please x
12/8/2012 1:13:35 PM | Report
i have a fewe guys questions anyone there?
11/26/2012 6:09:01 PM | Report
GT23 . I don’t know what to do. I cant just ignore all of his attemps to talk to me. Its completely obvious that he likes me and we both know it. Hes tried to get me to quit the band I like to join the one hes in and even tried to get me to join his scout group! I don’t mind talking to him once in a while cuz I still don’t really know him but I knda want him to leave me alone and get the hint im not interested in him. Im sorry that this is long but I wanted you to understand everything. Thanks for reading this and im open to any advise you have
11/28/2012 9:29:42 PM | Report
i have a fewe guys questions anyone there?
11/26/2012 6:08:07 PM | Report
heyy
11/26/2012 6:07:28 PM | Report
@sydstar1999-I'm sorry, I think the first half of your question wasn't posted. Can you try again?
11/25/2012 9:26:16 PM | Report
@Molly9872-Well, first off, there's no need to have a boyfriend all the time. Not having a boyfriend for over a year is perfectly fine. If the reason you want a boyfriend is because you feel like you have to have a boyfriend to fit in, then I would reevaluate your reasons for wanting a boyfriend. If you want a boyfriend because you want someone to be close to and have a romantic relationship, then that's awesome! Look around and find a guy you can develope a crush on. Wait until you're sure you like them before flirting and trying to get them to be your boyfriend. Come back if you need advice once you've found a good guy. :)
11/25/2012 9:25:04 PM | Report
@nikkelioso-Okay, what do you need advice about?
11/25/2012 9:20:01 PM | Report
@fresnobee-I'm not sure what you want advice on. Do you want advice on whether or not you should tell him, or how you should tell him? I need more details.
11/25/2012 9:19:06 PM | Report
fresnobee Sorry about that... I need advice on how I should tell him.
11/26/2012 9:35:44 PM | Report
@MaddisenK-He never responded? Are you sure he got the note? What did the note say? I need more details.
11/25/2012 9:17:03 PM | Report
MaddisenK it basically said that i really liked him and what I liked about him. my friend says she gave him the note, but i don't really know.
11/28/2012 11:31:05 PM | Report
@disneyyensid-Talk to him. Tell him that you know you're friends with his ex, but that shouldn't get in the way of your friendship. And if he still won't talk to you? He's a jerk and he doesn't deserve you.
11/25/2012 9:15:26 PM | Report
I really like this guy and he flirts with me but whenever this girl shows up he's ALL over her! I tried confessing but I'm really shy. So I told his best friend I liked him and he thought I was confessing to HIM! Should I give up? P.S he rejected me!
11/25/2012 2:22:56 PM | Report
7714st @honeycakes-Take any chance you get to talk to him! You say you want to get to know him better, so do just that! If your mom has an issue with his mom, then explain to her that you don't have a crush on his mom, you have a crush on him. It might take awhile, but she should understand eventually. Good luck!
11/8/2012 9:20:19 PM | Report
disneyyensid So theres this guy I have chrush on and I liked him before he dated my bff. When my bff and him broke up she started talking about how mean and rude he is. He wont even talk to me anymore because im best friends with his ex. This is driving me insaine what do i do? :(
11/22/2012 4:07:44 PM | Report
disneyyensid So theres this guy I have chrush on and I liked him before he dated my bff. When my bff and him broke up she started talking about how mean and rude he is. He wont even talk to me anymore because im best friends with his ex. This is driving me insaine what do i do? :(
11/22/2012 4:07:41 PM | Report
disneyyensid So theres this guy I have chrush on and I liked him before he dated my bff. When my bff and him broke up she started talking about how mean and rude he is. He wont even talk to me anymore because im best friends with his ex. This is driving me insaine what do i do? :(
11/22/2012 4:07:38 PM | Report
MaddisenK I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. i'm too scared to straight-out ask him, and i've already tried a note(he never responded) what do I do?
11/21/2012 4:57:40 PM | Report
fresnobee Hi guys! So I like this guy and I'm thinking of telling him I like him. I'm really shy, and I'm not sure what to do... We're friends, but... What should I do???
11/21/2012 1:06:52 AM | Report
nikkelioso soooo umm i need advice on friendships and stuff...
11/20/2012 7:50:12 PM | Report
MountainLover456 I feel the same way.
11/21/2012 1:20:20 PM | Report
Molly9872 im a freshman in hs and i havent had a bf in over a year. im not really the type of person who has guy friends and im really quiet so no guys hardly even know i exist. how do i get them to notice and like me without changing my personality?
11/20/2012 3:49:40 PM | Report
MountainLover456 This may be something that you have already heard, but try talking to them more, nd then they may notice you!!
11/21/2012 1:21:35 PM | Report
sydstar1999 so the girl he likes has a boyfriend and today we switch seats and now he sits across from me and i think he was staring at me i get so nervous around him i do not know what to do
11/9/2012 5:12:29 PM | Report
7714st @heartfashion27-Well, did you get any contact information from him? If so, set up a weekly email schedule or something. If not, there's not much you can do. Good luck!
11/8/2012 9:13:38 PM | Report
lexshe Hey! So really need help! So i like this guy and he likes me back. the prblem is, is that his bestfriend likes me too and there was this big miss understanding about who i like because the guy i like thought that i liked his friend.. (more to come!)
11/14/2012 5:33:20 PM | Report
MountainLover456 OMG I know how you feel
11/19/2012 7:05:14 AM | Report
lexshe Hey! So really need help! So i like this guy and he likes me back. the prblem is, is that his bestfriend likes me too and there was this big miss understanding about who i like because the guy i like thought that i liked his friend.. (more to come!)
11/14/2012 5:33:17 PM | Report
7714st @sydstar1999- Don't worry about this other girl. Focus on you and him. Flirt, and if he doesn't end up liking you, then that's his error, not yours. Good luck, honey.
11/1/2012 9:03:02 PM | Report
honeycakes Hi! I need some help! theres a guy that I kind of have a crush on, how can I start talking to him? He’s in my gym class... I just want to try and get to know him a little better so I can see if I actually like him. Another problem is my mom: she has always said to me that I shouldn't date him because she knows his mom and doesn't like his mom, what can I do about that??? Also (sorry for so many questions!) how do you know when you like someone for sure, and if they like you back?? Thanks a bunch!
11/4/2012 1:59:17 PM | Report
MountainLover456 Alright. Q1: I am shy so I know how you feel, but try and ask "Hey, what books do we need for..." and then it could turn into a convo. Q2: Just say that you don't care about that, and hopefully she understands. Q3: Look for some signs!!! Good Luck!!!
11/21/2012 1:18:29 PM | Report
heartfashion27 hey so I go to an all girls school and there's this guy I like that I met in summer camp but i feel like im spending to much time away from him and that he might forget me.what do i do?
11/3/2012 10:28:47 AM | Report
heartfashion27 hey so, I just joined this club and i have some major guy problems
11/2/2012 7:16:03 PM | Report
7714st @oliviaayerlove- I would go ahead and try out! Practice in front of some friends first, and find something that helps you calm down. It might be something weird. Like for me, I sing "Que Sera Sera" by Pink Martini before I go onstage for something. Do something that you know makes you calm. Good luck, and sorry for not answering sooner!
11/1/2012 8:59:40 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove thanks for the good advice!im pretty sure im going to tryout. im just a little nervous because last year i tryed out, but i didnt make it. i think it was a popularity contest though because almost all the judges were students that i barely knew.
11/6/2012 8:46:18 PM | Report
7714st @maddy234-Im sorry, I can't understand. Can you rephrase?
10/22/2012 11:49:51 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove I am a freshman in high school and i heard that there is a school talent show. i really want to try out to sing, but i am afraid that if i try out during the tryouts i will freak, or if i make it i will freak during the talent show. what should i do
10/27/2012 9:32:05 PM | Report
MountainLover456 Sing infront of friends,family,etc. and maybe you will have better luck!!! Good Luck!!!
11/21/2012 1:19:25 PM | Report
sydstar1999 i really like a guy but i don't think he likes me but i want to know for sure but if someone asks him then 1 he will figure i like him and 2 he will say no because he doesn't one to know or just doesn't like me at all
10/24/2012 4:32:51 PM | Report
sydstar1999 ok i think he like this other girls and i think she like him back and i feel like my heart is broken even though i havent dated him or anything but i am REALLY JEALOUS
10/25/2012 4:28:08 PM | Report
7714st @epicactress15-There's no reason to give up on a crush. I liked my guy for five years before we finally got together, and three of those years he was at a different school then me! Persevere!
10/15/2012 6:19:00 PM | Report
yvpizza I also have this boy in P.E. class that waves hi to me all of the time when I catch him staring at me. My friends say that he likes me a lot andthat's why he always hangs out around me. I want to ask him if he does but don't want to scare him away...
11/4/2012 12:21:05 PM | Report
MountainLover456 You should ask a friend to talk to him!!! That is what friends are for!!!
11/21/2012 1:26:13 PM | Report
maddy234 like this guy in dance class he smaile at me what do l do
10/19/2012 10:21:45 PM | Report
MountainLover456 Try talking to him and get to know him more!!!
11/21/2012 1:25:27 PM | Report
maddy234 like this guy in dance class he smaile at me what do l do
10/19/2012 10:21:43 PM | Report
7714st @bdarrough98-This other girl is also entitled to his attention. There's nothing wrong with someone else hanging out with him. Just enjoy the time you two have together! Invite him to hang out, and just have fun together!
10/15/2012 6:17:19 PM | Report
7714st @Sweetheart ♥-Of course it's not bad! What's so wrong with liking to hang out with someone? I love hanging out with tons of guys who have girlfriends. There's nothing wrong with hanging out with a guy. And if you get a crush on him...well, we'll cross that bridge when we come to it!
10/15/2012 6:15:19 PM | Report
7714st @regan1D-How do you say hi? Just like that! Smile and say hi. It may be awkward, but it's a good way to get his attention. Say hi to him every day, and then one day don't. He'll be confused and intrigued. It should lead to a good conversation!
10/15/2012 6:09:44 PM | Report
regan1d thanks so much for the advice my friend told me the exact same thing! so I did it :) tomorrow i'll say hi to him again :)
10/18/2012 5:58:38 PM | Report
7714st @bigbratpaige-If you really like him, it's in your best interest to try and work it out. Tell him that you two need to talk in person. Tell him that you really like him and that you're upset that you two are fighting so much. Tell him you feel like he doesn't care about your relationship as much since he never seems to apologize and blames you for things. If you two trying to work it out starts a fight? You two might want to take a break for a little while to figure out what's going on and how you really feel about each other. Best of luck!
10/10/2012 4:57:11 PM | Report
Sweetheart ♥ When my friend and I hang out,all she does is text her bf,or her other friends thats why even when she asks me to hang out i tell her "no" because i dont need to be dissed...i just want to tell someone,i dont have a question but tips help ._.
10/15/2012 6:19:13 PM | Report
moderngirl22 my friend won't stop talking about her bf and she'll call him when were hanging out and she won't stop saying omg i got a bf before u and we've already kissed but she does'ent know that i've had a bf for 2 months what should i do about both of them
10/15/2012 8:38:56 AM | Report
epicactress15 i have liked this guy since first grade, and we like to tease each other, like last year I gave him a cookie filled with salt on April fools day. everyone teases us about each other, and we dont have very many classes together any more.give up or not
10/14/2012 2:44:42 PM | Report
bdarrough98 not! don't give up! your chances are good!
10/14/2012 4:59:39 PM | Report
bdarrough98 so i like this guy and he sits by me in band and we've had a blast hanging out at football games and stuff but now another girl is hogging his attention and they're both a grade beneath me...help?!
10/14/2012 9:47:23 AM | Report
Sweetheart ♥ My best friend has a boyfriend.....i dont like him.....but i love spending time with him. hes awesome! is that bad? what if i get a crush on him?
10/11/2012 8:37:53 PM | Report
regan1D HELP ME PLEASE!! So this guy i like knows i like him and when we said hi the other day it was really awkward. now i want to talk 2 him again but he's always with this other girl she has a boyfriend. he's seems a tad bit interested...how do i say hi?
10/10/2012 7:04:32 PM | Report
7714st @Wicked-Love-Locks-How is he refusing to talk to everyone? Is he just refusing to talk to anyone about liking you, or refusing to talk period. I need more information here.
10/8/2012 5:42:31 PM | Report
bigbratpaige so me and this guy have been going out for 8 months now. and i really like him, but we fight all the time. he never really says sorry and blames things in me. to make things harder we go to different schools. please help me.
10/9/2012 2:55:46 PM | Report
7714st @fggf56-Well, he might like you. Check out the quiz in the description box, and if you still need help, just ask.
10/2/2012 4:40:01 PM | Report
Wicked-Love-Locks GAAHH!! I really like this boy, and think that he might like me back, but what am I suppose to do if he is now refusing to talk to everyone? I act like I'm cool with it, but inside it's driving me mad because it's making it so much harder to find out
10/6/2012 6:04:14 PM | Report
7714st @hailie2878-It's not bad, that you like him per-say...but you do want to be careful. This guy is your BFF's boyfriend, and you need to keep your distance. Unless they break up, he's completely off limits.
10/2/2012 4:37:43 PM | Report
7714st @Featherr.♥-Talk to him about other things. Ask him about his family, his friends, what kind of music he likes, anything! There has to be at least one topic that'll get him talking. Good luck!
9/29/2012 3:31:34 PM | Report
hailie2878 ok, so i like my bff's boyfriend and we talk alot like 200 messages in 2 days. is it bad that i like him?
9/29/2012 8:08:12 PM | Report
eric I mean if you guys are gushy and say I love you or stuff like that well than yes its bad but if you are just friends and keep you likeingnes than dont feel bad.:)
10/12/2012 5:03:13 PM | Report
7714st @Rey-Don't worry about it! Tons of girls have more than one crush at a time. It's perfectly normal and healthy. Just let your crushes run their course, and if you end up only liking one of them, great! If you end up liking neither of them, that's fine too! Just don't worry about it.
9/29/2012 3:29:36 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy If anyone has any thing to talk about, I'm online & available now! ^.^ Finally over the flu! ^.^
9/22/2012 11:42:13 AM | Report
MaddisenK I really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. i'm too scared to straight-out ask him, and i've already tried a note(he never responded) what do I do?
11/20/2012 6:16:10 PM | Report
Shamrock31799 I like this guy and I only told my best friends. But.. his friend was asking one of them who I like and she wasnt telling him anything. And he guessed the guy i like and she was like NO ITS NOT. But it was and the guy I likes friend told him. HELP!?
10/19/2012 5:37:00 PM | Report
regan1D i need some guy help and some good convo starters for me who is freaked to talk to my crush. we said hi the other day but it was really awkward cause there were lots of people around. please help me!!
10/10/2012 7:06:38 PM | Report
Featherr.♥ Hey girls, I need guy help. I feel a crush sort of developing on this guy who sits next to me in English. He isn't that talkative and I've tried bringing up P.E. topics (we are in the same PE class) and a conversation never seems to start! Help! ♥
9/24/2012 7:53:41 PM | Report
sydstar1999 just be urself and dont push the convoersation on him just let what happens happen and if nothing does then be partners in pe and then u will have something to talk about xoxo <3
9/25/2012 4:15:12 PM | Report
Rey Hey!! Sorry you had the flu!!!
9/22/2012 6:11:56 PM | Report
7714st @sydstar1999-If you like him that much, then it shouldn't matter what your friends think. When you're telling them who he is, just say "Guys, there's this guy I really like, and I'm going to tell you, and I would really appreciate it if you would keep your opinions about him to yourself, okay?" It should give them the hint that their teasing last time really bothered you. Good luck!
9/19/2012 3:24:01 PM | Report
Rey continued on from my other comment: anyways, I have been getting some feelings for his friend. Now, I dont really like my crush anymore, but i still like him. Confusing, huh? Now I like TWO guys! My long time crush knows that I like him! WHAT DO I DO
9/22/2012 6:23:06 PM | Report
Rey Hey, its me. I haven't been on in a very long while, and I have a HUGE predicament. HELP!!! So I have a crush on a guy (same one in the last comment I left), but he has been avoiding me for... some reasons... and i can tell you if you wanna know
9/22/2012 6:15:43 PM | Report
helloimawkward1 Sure, what's the prob?
9/27/2012 6:41:00 PM | Report
7714st @Swimmer.GuitarChic- since you both love water polo, start by talking to him about that. It's something you both have an interest for, so neither of you will be bored talking about it. Maybe you could go to one of his games or something. Make a bet that the next person who wins a game has to buy the other one pizza or ice cream or something. Good luck!
9/15/2012 12:02:58 PM | Report
sydstar1999 I like a guy and he is cute,smart nice,and funny.Everything i want and i want to tell my friends i like him but i am scared that they will make fun of me like last time and the other day my friend said she would kiss him if i had too chose some1
9/18/2012 4:19:02 PM | Report
Jnicole2002 @sydstar1999 Wow these "friends" don't sound so friendly. You should start out as friends and work ur way up then he will warm up to the occansion
11/21/2012 3:36:19 PM | Report
Jnicole2002 @sydstar1999 Wow these "friends" don't sound so friendly. You should start out as friends and work ur way up then he will warm up to the occansion
11/21/2012 3:36:16 PM | Report
7714st @cassr-Start simple. Say hi one day, and build from that. Say "how are you?" Ask him about the homework. Eventually, you'll have built up enough that you're able to have a good conversation with him. Good luck!
9/14/2012 7:32:20 PM | Report
sydstar1999 i was wondering is there any postions open if so comment on my proflie plz and thx
9/15/2012 10:32:24 AM | Report
7714st @pepper444-It's quite possible. I know some girls who whenever someone tells them who they have a crush on, they immediately start flirting with them. She may not even realize she's doing it. Try talking to her and say to her "I know I told you about my crush on xxxxx, and I've noticed you've been hanging out with him. Is there anything you would like to tell me? What do you think (insert her boyfriends name here) would think about me and xxxxxx going out? This should remind her that she has a boyfriend and you already kind of have a claim on this guy. Good luck!
9/13/2012 6:40:30 PM | Report
7714st Anyone have anything they want to ask?
9/12/2012 3:44:38 PM | Report
lolive<3 I had this bf but I decided to break up with him because I started to see him as just a friend. he was so nice about it and said we'd be really good friends which I was happy about. but as soon as I got to school he blanked me and backstabbed me. ???
10/9/2012 6:34:18 PM | Report
Swimmer.GuitarChic Theres this one guy who i really like hes on the guys water polo team and im on the girls team he is perfect in everway but hes a senior im a freshman how do i talk to him? he watches our dogs when my family goes on vacation.
9/14/2012 7:49:48 PM | Report
cassr thrs this boy in my english and science class and i really like him and my friend says he likes me to but i dont know for sure and im really shy ive never just started a convo with him im to scared what if i embaris me self what am i supposed 2 say!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/13/2012 6:19:00 PM | Report
pepper444 I got a question, I recently told my best friend about my crush (he likes me back). The next day, I saw her talking to him, and the next, next day, she was FLIRTING WITH HIM! She already has a boyfriend, but is she trying to steal him?
9/13/2012 5:17:20 PM | Report
7714st @crystal106-You have to ask the girl. If she's okay with it, then it's fine. Also, you should wait at least a month after they've broken up to ask.
9/8/2012 11:07:47 AM | Report
7714st @Bailey15-Some signs you've got a crush are: thinking about them all the time, getting nervous when they're around, saying silly things about them, and ignoring their flaws.
9/6/2012 8:47:39 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Woah... sorry I've been gone. :p Anyone have any questions? :)
9/2/2012 6:18:13 PM | Report
crystal106 hey, so me and a guy liked each other a year ago, but we never dated. my friend(in high school) whos one year older that me didnt know that, and they started dating. now they never see each other, and the guy broke up with her. can i date him?
9/7/2012 5:06:23 PM | Report
Bailey15 I do! Its my first time time asking a question! Okay here it is Im not sure I truley like this guy or not how do I know if I reallu like him? Oh and he thinks Im kinda weird:( HELP thanks!
9/5/2012 4:12:51 PM | Report
Sweetheart ♥ Hey you guys...(: join my new club the Sweeties...plz...thxx...(:
9/2/2012 11:13:09 PM | Report
7714st @puppylace-There's no need to worry! For more confidence, get everything ready the night before-your outfit, your backpack, maybe even something for breakfast. Start the day with a smile and walk with confidence. Try to find out if any of your friends are in your classes. Good luck!
8/29/2012 3:33:17 PM | Report
7714st @zee100-Question 1: Hang out with them outside of school! Do things as a group! Go to the mall, hang out at the movies, have a sleepover! Question 2: Sounds to me like he likes you. :)
8/22/2012 6:22:44 PM | Report
puppylace Hey :) im starting 7th grade next week, and im really scared. Please help
8/26/2012 10:29:36 PM | Report
Susmita24 Don't be scared pupplace, I was in 7th grade and it was a funny year! I kept organized and listened to my teachers which caused me to always get A's on practically everything except pre-tests. Have fun! Always be kind no matter what they say and act!
8/27/2012 12:02:03 PM | Report
Susmita24 when I mean they, I mean students in your classes,school, or just random students. :)
8/27/2012 12:28:34 PM | Report
puppylace Hey :) im starting 7th grade next week, and im really scared. Please help
8/26/2012 10:28:39 PM | Report
7714st @coolteen24-Say to him "I know you still haven't given me an answer yet, but I've realized that I'm not ready for a relationship. I'm sorry, but can we be just friends for awhile?"
8/21/2012 6:34:11 PM | Report
zee100 Alright this is my other Q. I like this guy in my level. And he's super nice and sings and acts. He's always nice to me. And waits for me and talks to me in the halls. And he always volunteers to be my partner?What does it all mean?
8/22/2012 5:29:16 PM | Report
zee100 Ok I kinda have 2 questions. In my new school (I'm in 7th) We have 3 different levels A,B,C I am in C the lowest. My best friend is in A. And all the friends I made are in A. And I personally don't like nyone in my level. What do I do?
8/22/2012 5:26:45 PM | Report
7714st How're you all doing?
8/19/2012 1:51:37 PM | Report
coolteen24 And now, how do I tell him I love him a lot, but I can't be with him till I'm 14??? (BTW, this applies to all guys)
8/21/2012 5:05:20 AM | Report
coolteen24 I asked a guy out 3 months ago, he said he needs time to think about it. I was a bit pressed by my friends to ask him. Now, since I have had time to think about it, I realized I'm not ready for a relationship.
8/21/2012 5:04:18 AM | Report
7714st @madcat25-You can always just casually bring up other girls and watch his reaction. Or you can get your friends to keep an eye on him. As for the kissing thing, talk to him! Tell him you want to do more things than just kiss. Communication is ESSENTIAL in any relationship. So email him, text him, or talk to him in person and let him know that just kissing isn't what you want out of your relationship. Good luck!
8/10/2012 5:05:05 PM | Report
7714st @dolphinchic-Some guys are just like that. One out of 5 girls waits for the boy to text first and one out of 10 boys waits for the girl to text first. Maybe he's just that one out of 10.
8/10/2012 5:01:16 PM | Report
dolphinchic Ok thanks and the other day over text he asked to play the question game and it was fun
8/14/2012 5:59:53 PM | Report
7714st @luv2ski7-Well that sure is confusing behavior. One thing to do would be to confront him about it. Tell him straight out that you're find with him dating girls, and it really bothers him when he ignores you. Make sure he knows you're not jealous and that it's okay to have a girl friend and a girlfriend. Another thing you could do is if he gets a girlfriend, talk to her. Let her know that he's been neglecting you and that you can't seem to get through to him. Ask her to say something like "Why haven't you been hanging out with (insert your name here)? I thought you guys were really good friends." That should make him realize that it won't make his girlfriend jealous if he hangs out with his girl friend. Hope this helps!
8/10/2012 5:00:00 PM | Report
luv2ski7 yes it sure is:) thanks!
8/11/2012 10:51:38 AM | Report
7714st @neko101-If his school is close by and you really like him, I don't see much of a reason to break up with him unless you don't have much time after school or on the weekends. Sorry.
8/9/2012 1:18:57 PM | Report
madcat25 Ok 2 things, 1. How do I keep an eye on my bf with other girls but not be obsessive? 2. My bf keeps wanting to just kiss. I like him but what should I do?
8/9/2012 4:13:35 PM | Report
abbe2hip244812 u shuld tell him yhu dnt wnna kiss him say stop it your making me feel weird !
9/1/2012 5:57:11 PM | Report
7714st @dolphinchic-In my opinion, it sounds like he likes you. Some easy conversation topics are school, current events (not the kind your social studies teacher makes you do-stuff around your town or about people you both know), and 20 questions. In 20 questions you get to learn a lot about each other, everyone has things they love and hate about school that they're usually ready to talk about, and almost everyone keeps up with local current events-whether they realize it or not. Hope I helped!
8/9/2012 1:17:26 PM | Report
dolphinchic ok thanks! :) he also wont text me unless i text him first what does that mean?
8/9/2012 4:37:22 PM | Report
7714st @HoopsGirl99- Thank you! :D
8/8/2012 9:41:32 AM | Report
luv2ski7 my best guy friend has changed. we've been close since kindergarten, but not so much anymore. the reason? him. the problem isn't that I like him, because I don't. the problem is that whenever he gets a girlfriend (2 so far, 1 coming soon ;) ) he feels like he can't talk to me! its ruined our friendship. but once they break up, we're good again. our parents are good friends and he lives down the block so I can't avoid him. right now we're friends, but who knows in 2 months! I don't want it to keep being like this...he needs to know that it's okay to have a girlfriend and a girl friend! but there's one more catch... he does have another good girl friend but he's always good with her...dating or not! why is he only weird with me? I would say something but I don't want to make it seem like I'm jealous...because I'm not! code red...HELP!
8/9/2012 1:24:58 PM | Report
510812 ive known this guy since 5th grade and i really like him. alot of people have been saying that he might like me n im unsure how to tell if he really likes me or not i mean he is always talking to me n making fun of me but playfully but is it normal.
8/20/2012 5:24:07 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me.
8/8/2012 10:08:15 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me
8/8/2012 10:08:13 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me
8/8/2012 10:08:11 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me
8/8/2012 10:08:06 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me
8/8/2012 10:08:04 PM | Report
neko101 this guy said to me that im really cool and that he likes me. when he asked me out i said yes and i really like him. but i broke up with him cause hes going to a different skool than me. did i do the rite thing. help me
8/8/2012 10:08:01 PM | Report
coolteen24 You got it right. If you kept the relationship it would get stale and awful with the Skype dates and trying to figure out when you guys can get together. It would become one of the distance relationships that just don't work.You'll find another guy:)
8/21/2012 5:08:28 AM | Report
LOLGirl109 You Are Invited! Heya all my members! You are all invited to our late nite club meeting! When? 10:00 tonight and tomorrow night Where? Become a Cuter You! club Why? Because I feel we all need to chat live...spread the word!
8/8/2012 9:59:30 PM | Report
dolphinchic My friends and I kinda look for him and stuff(so basically stalk him XD) and they said that today when i wasnt looking he smiled at me. He rarely smiles when i do look and he sees me. I text him and we talk but in person hes super shy. Please help
8/8/2012 5:21:23 PM | Report
dolphinchic He always looks over at me during camp too. Does that mean he could like me back? I walk by his baritone room once every day during camp but we only talk for a minute. I just wanna talk to him in person more you know?
8/8/2012 5:16:57 PM | Report
dolphinchic I need some more subjects to text him about. He was cool and asked about me and i did the same, but i just always want something to talk about. Also at band camp hes always with his guy friends. I'm great with guys, i just dont wanna be awkward.
8/8/2012 5:12:25 PM | Report
dolphinchic hey guys so there's this sophomore guy who i like(i'm just a freshman) and he's in my venture crew and in the band. So I manned up and asked for his number and gave it to me. He's used alot of smiley faces and stuff and he's really sweet.
8/8/2012 5:10:45 PM | Report
7714st @HoopsGirl99-One way to tell him you miss him is to just say something like "remember all those crazy times in class? I sure miss that." it shouldn't make things awkward. :D
8/7/2012 9:48:58 AM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Thank you! I will definately try that! This is always the place i go first when i need some guy help and your advice is always helpful:)
8/7/2012 2:21:04 PM | Report
7714st @tennischic2000-Sorry hun, we're not looking for other officers at the moment.
8/7/2012 9:47:25 AM | Report
7714st My school starts in 8 days...what about you guys?
8/5/2012 10:06:39 PM | Report
MarMar1317 My school starts in 19 days. I'm totes not ready for summer to end though. This has been the best summer of my life! BTW, if positions are open, could I be an officer? I love giving advice and helping people. Thanks! -<3 PLH
8/8/2012 12:41:09 PM | Report
tennischic2000 Can i be treasurer? I am really good at giving advice! XOXO, Massie
8/6/2012 7:42:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @karmakarlie- You're only 14. Chances are, by the time you're 8 you'll barely even remember him, let alone LIKE him. Also.... he's a little old for you, in my opinion. I say just see what else there is available, and if you ever meet again, who knows? There might be sparks after all... :)
7/30/2012 12:24:18 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 (Continued) I don't want to ruin our friendship and i don't want him to think im a total weirdo if he doesn't feel the same. Any advice?
8/6/2012 6:51:24 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Hey can i have some help? I really like this boy and we had a lot of classes together last year in school and we talked a lot but now since its summer we haven't talked a lot and i miss him. I want to tell him how i feel but im not sure how.
8/6/2012 6:48:31 PM | Report
monicaisfabuluz Join my club "Just us girls up in here[:" You can find it on my profile! It's a girls club and we can talk about our needs, etc. Makeup, hair, beauty, fashion, school, friends, whatever you want to talk about! Positions are open! We're always updated
8/3/2012 10:51:00 PM | Report
camigal Hey everyone, I'm looking for officers for my club, Oh, Boy! so please join & let me know
8/1/2012 8:43:31 PM | Report
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7/30/2012 12:24:44 PM | Report
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8/4/2012 6:04:00 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @jojosommars- Classic case of "friend-zoning". You just need to show him how amazing you are and give him a little time to realize it! :) I'm sure he will soon enough!(;
7/30/2012 12:19:57 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! Today is my dad's birthday, so I probably won't be on today as often as I usually am. :p I just want to spend the time with my family. <3 I'll still answer all your questions though, so send them in!(;
7/29/2012 7:46:11 AM | Report
karmakarlie (continued)I dont want to like him as much as I do. Long distance just makes everything complicated. Should I just wait 4 more years for him or see if the relationship goes anywhere when he visits?
7/29/2012 9:46:49 PM | Report
karmakarlie There's this guy. I'm 14, he's 17. He was a german exchange student who lived with my family for 2 months. When he left to go back to Germany, I realized how much I missed him. My parents love him and have given me permission to date him when I'm 18.
7/29/2012 9:36:40 PM | Report
girliegirl1314 Hey all middle schoolers!!Please come and join my club Middle school glam!!Please and thank you!!xoxo:)
7/29/2012 6:40:30 PM | Report
jojosommars hi i am not sure how to make a post so i am just commenting i hope that is ok. i just recently became very close with my crush and his family especially his mom but he doesnt like me the same way i do him but im not completly sure what do i do?
7/29/2012 5:07:11 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @coolgal332- That sounds like an amazing idea! :) There's no need to be scared of 6th grade; it's really not that bad, I promise! <3
7/25/2012 5:31:30 PM | Report
melnkk hi
10/9/2012 12:16:58 PM | Report
7714st @fresnobee-The best thing is to find something you have in common. If you're really shy, you can just start out talking to him by asking what the homework assignment is or if he knows if it's supposed to rain later. Gradually start asking him more things, and eventually you'll get into the pattern of talking to him. Soon you'll be talking to him with no problem at all!
7/24/2012 11:03:39 PM | Report
Zirror Hey guysss can y'all please join my new club talk your problems out I'm ready to give out any advice or just talk thanks much love xx
7/28/2012 8:34:27 PM | Report
coolgal332 Hi, i have a question. I'm going into 6th grade. No biggie, right? Well, I'm going to have braces and glasses!!! I'm thinking abt changing my band colors to purple and black to match my glasses. Is that a good idea??? Thanks in advance!!!!
7/25/2012 11:10:43 AM | Report
MissAbsolution @coolgal332 That actually sounds pretty cool. I think I gatta get some glasses and I already have braces Lol So if I were you, i'd talk to the band about it and go for it!
7/27/2012 1:22:13 PM | Report
7714st @ohsnapitsme8655-Unless she gives you any reason not to trust her (ex: staring at certain boys, talking about a certain guy more than usual, etc), then I would take her word.
7/22/2012 12:43:44 PM | Report
fresnobee Hey, I'm the newest member of the club.... And I really need guy advice... Okay, so I am totally a shy/quiet girl. And whenever I see my crush I just sit there quietly and stare. What do I do to talk to him?
7/24/2012 4:28:07 PM | Report
oliviaayerlove if your in a class with him in school, find an excuse to talk to him. ask him a question on the homework, or classwork. thats what i did to get my crushes attention. then after a while you might know him better and u might just talk whenever
7/31/2012 3:54:31 PM | Report
MissAbsolution @fresnobee If I were you, i'd just find a excuse to talk to him. If I liked someone i'd probably make it obvious, smile every time i'd walk by him, tell my friends, maybe even just bump into him on 'accident' Lol That's what i'd do. :P
7/27/2012 1:14:20 PM | Report
heather99 ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Join my club: Operation: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Our mission is to post anonymous notes in public places for other people to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!! In my club, we will have daily quotes that you can put on post- its to uplift girls. We also give advice on how you can make your day better, and everyone else’s day better! So please join our uplifting club so we can tell everyone that we are beautiful the way we are!
7/24/2012 3:53:39 PM | Report
7714st @awtechnofish-Well, even if he goes to a different school from you, you can work around that! The first thing you could do is invite him to a group gathering. Tell him he could also invite a couple of his friends, so he's not all alone. Go to a movie or hang out at the pool or go to a concert downtown. Something fun that everyone will enjoy. After the gathering is over, or during depending on what you're doing, talk to him alone, ask him how he liked the movie, how summer's going, etc. Gradually make the gatherings smaller and smaller. Finally, ask him if he wants to spend some time one-on-one. Do something fun! If he likes you, it should be pretty obvious by that point. Good luck, I wish you the best!
7/22/2012 12:41:50 PM | Report
7714st @pretty123-Chances are, if he's in the "friend zone," he probably likes you. Most guys in the friend zone do. So flirt! Touch his arm when you talk, do something silly to make him laugh, laugh at his jokes (yes, even the bad ones), and just be happy and upbeat when you're around him. Get someone to snoop and find out if he likes you. If so, why not ask him out? As for our club secrets-There are none! I was lucky enough to be on GL the hour they released clubs, so our club was the 3rd one to be created. So people started joining early, and so we were always one of the top clubs. Because we were one of the top clubs, more people found out about us. Plus, we try to just give real honest advice as often as possible. I know I check this club once or twice a day most of the time, so I can give rapid fire responses. So, yeah. No secrets. Just loyalty and luck. :)
7/19/2012 3:47:06 PM | Report
Becky0507 so like my crush and i are pretty good friends.he knows i like him and all but he refuses to do anything aboout it.i flirt a lot around him and sometimes we even skype for a few hours but it really stinks because i have never had a bf or a first kiss
7/28/2012 11:29:17 PM | Report
Becky0507 so like my crush and i are pretty good friends.he knows i like him and all but he refuses to do anything aboout it.i flirt a lot around him and sometimes we even skype for a few hours but it really stinks because i have never had a bf or a first kiss
7/28/2012 11:29:12 PM | Report
Becky0507 so like my crush and i are pretty good friends.he knows i like him and all but he refuses to do anything aboout it.i flirt a lot around him and sometimes we even skype for a few hours but it really stinks because i have never had a bf or a first kiss
7/28/2012 11:29:09 PM | Report
Becky0507 so like my crush and i are pretty good friends.he knows i like him and all but he refuses to do anything aboout it.i flirt a lot around him and sometimes we even skype for a few hours but it really stinks because i have never had a bf or a first kiss
7/28/2012 11:29:07 PM | Report
ohsnapitsme8655 this is the second time my bff has dated her bf. now she decided that she doesn't like him anymore. she tells people (and me) that she doesnt' like any one any more. I don't know if I trust her. Should I?
7/19/2012 9:37:40 PM | Report
pretty123 Thanks a lot!
7/19/2012 9:05:29 PM | Report
7714st @Rey-Well, you don't want to tell him if he doesn't like you back. So do some snooping! Play truth or dare with some friends and get someone to ask him. Have them tell him they're the only person they have to tell...and then get the asker to let you know what he said later. It may be sneaky, but that's what you need. If he does like you, then tell him - either in person, over email, or in a note - that you like him too. If he doesn't like you, then keep up the flirt factor and hope for the best. Good luck!
7/19/2012 3:40:14 PM | Report
Rey thank you!! never thought of that before...
7/20/2012 1:49:02 PM | Report
7714st @1tiffany1997-Does he have any friends you can talk to? If so, ask them if they could do some snooping for you. If not, maybe you could try email or facebook chat as an alternative to speaking if he's really shy. Just try to get to know him!
7/18/2012 8:32:49 PM | Report
Rey How do I tell the guy I like that I like him? I mean, I don't want to ruin the great friendship we already have (he is my BGF), or weird him out
7/18/2012 11:23:51 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @mcw3400- Thank you! :) We're excited to have you in the club! <3 XoXo- Lexi
7/18/2012 6:15:01 PM | Report
7714st @awtechnofish-Well, if you want, we could give you some advice...is there a certain guy you like?
7/17/2012 2:48:18 PM | Report
awtechnofish There is a specific guy I like but he wont go to my school next year :(
7/20/2012 12:10:11 PM | Report
pretty123 How do you get the guy friend out of the "friend" zone? I also wanted to ask how you got this club so vibrant and popular? It's fine if you don't want to leak the secret- just in wonder!
7/19/2012 12:44:10 AM | Report
1tiffany1997 I like a shy guy but he goes to a different school. He's made like lots of eye contact with me and I have even talked to him a little. (which is real success to me considering how shy he is)But how do I know if he might like me. HE's REALLY SHY!!
7/18/2012 7:48:05 PM | Report
mcw3400 hi i just joined this club so yah it looks pretty cool :)
7/18/2012 1:50:27 PM | Report
7714st Just a reminder that you can ask us anything. If you're too shy to ask it here, you can always contact us on our profiles. Just because we're mainly for boy advice doesn't mean we don't do other things. For example, you're always welcome to ask me for book recommendations, advice on acting, school problems, friend issues, clothing advice (though I'm not necessarily the best person to ask), I can read over your stories for you and give you critiques, etc. So don't be scared!
7/16/2012 12:53:48 PM | Report
Rey How do I tell the guy I like that I like him? I mean, I don't want to ruin the great friendship we already have (he is my BGF), or weird him out.
7/18/2012 9:59:45 PM | Report
awtechnofish I know this is kind of a hard question to answer, I'm not even sure if it is a legitimate question...anyways, I'm going into 9th grade this year and I really want to get a boyfriend, I've never had one before...so um yeah...as i said, not really a ?
7/16/2012 9:13:51 PM | Report
7714st @i<3ariana-Just because you think you would be perfect for a guy, that doesn't necessarily think the same of you. It sounds like he just wants to stick to being friends for the moment.
7/13/2012 9:08:32 PM | Report
may2030 Join the club, Sitters in a Stitch specifically made to help other baby-sitters with any problems they have babysitting the little ones! Ask me about anything, and I'll happily help. You can also post on my profile!
7/14/2012 5:34:02 PM | Report
heather99 ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!! Join my club: Operation: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Our mission is to post anonymous notes in public places for other people to find. The point is that WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL!!! In my club, we will have daily quotes that you can put on post- its to uplift girls. We also give advice on how you can make your day better, and everyone else’s day better! So please join our uplifting club so we can tell everyone that we are beautiful the way we are!
7/14/2012 2:22:25 PM | Report
7714st @potter4ever-You could try making a move. Like if you're sitting together,just keep moving your hand closer. If he doesn't grab your hand, grab his. If you see him somewhere and you want to say hello, why not give him a hug from behind? Also, communication is important in any relationship. Ask or email him to ask if he's okay with doing stuff like that. Good luck
7/13/2012 9:06:37 PM | Report
7714st @bearsfan751-You could ask him. If you're not comfortable with that, then get one of your friends to talk to him.
7/13/2012 9:03:15 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @luvpeacegymnastics892- I agree with Catherine! :) XoXo ~Lexi <3
7/13/2012 7:08:42 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @tink111- No problem, I'm glad I could help and I'm ecstatic that I completed my mission of making the slightly awkward topic humorous (even if only slightly)!(; XoXo ~Lexi <3
7/13/2012 7:07:52 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @i_love_narwhals- I'm here to help when you need it! <3 What's the sitch?
7/12/2012 3:49:16 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @i<3ariana- I know that 7714st is helping you with you're problem and I in no way want to intrude, but I just want to give out my little nugget of advice: don't even THINK about having babies right now. I know you mentioned for when you're older, but still… just enjoy your youth while you got it, I guess. :) Not that I’m saying to stop planning you’re future or something; it’s definitely good to start thinking about your career path and education— especially if you’re in HS (I don’t know if you are or not so I thought I should add it just in case. :/), but I wouldn’t plan on kids anytime soon, thinking of names if fine, just don’t go overboard. Have a stable environment BEFORE you bring anyone into this world. Just my opinion though.(; Xoxo- Lexi <3
7/11/2012 11:55:45 PM | Report
luvpeacegymnastics892
ok I hav a problem I really like this boy in my grade but I am in middle school and at my school boys and girls are seperated in middle school. We talk all the time online and chat and things like that but then at school we never get to see eachother
 
Hey girl!
Since school doesn't seem to be much of an option for a great hangout sesh with your crush, try meeting up with him outside of school. Get some friends together and throw a pool party with a bunch of the boys in your grade! Maybe get everyone to go see a fun movie or go out to dinner. There are plenty of ways you can meet up with your crush, especially since you say that you two talk all the time! 
Catherine C.
7/13/2012 9:26:01 AM | Report
luvpeacegymnastics892 Thanks!! :P
7/30/2012 10:17:11 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @tink111- OK, so this might be a little awkward for our younger members so if you're younger & reading then I would suggest you STOP READING this now. Thank you! <3 Anyways, now that I have posted my warning, I can continue. :) So basically what happens when someone wants to deepen a kiss is they’ll start poking your mouth and licking your lips; you can tell when they’re ready for the next step— it’s kind of obvious, and then if you’re ready (it’s all up to you; DON’T DO IT IF YOU’RE NOT COMFORTABLE JUST FOR THE SAKE OF THE BOY. If he’s pressuring you into anything then you’re better off without him. #Jussaying :p) you just part your lips basically “granting them access” and then… yeah. You’re now tongue kissing. From there the tongues will just… explore the mouth/other tongue, until someone ends it by just pulling away. And it is necessary to pull away at some point— YOU NEED TO BREATHE! Lol :-D Hope that was helpful and not to painfully awkward!(; If you need any more help just comment! We love helping you guys! <3 XoXo- Lexi :)
7/11/2012 11:48:25 PM | Report
tink111 thank you sooooooo very much i was laughing and smiling the whole time but im just so shy n ive tried b4 n it didnt work but ill just keep trying and im going to highschool this year. but ill tel someone im not ready in a heartbeat but thnx
7/13/2012 6:10:43 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @emberland- There's not really a set age (and if there is then I would say it's rapidly decreasing with each generation). :/ Honestly, it's based on your/your families personal morals. You have to wait until you're ready, but you should also consult Your parents to see when they’re comfortable with it before you start doing anything. Hope that helped! <3 XoXO- Lexi :)
7/11/2012 11:36:00 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328- So you're having cramps, discharge, ect? You usually get you're a period a little after your "upper area" develops, so if that's already happened then it sounds like it's almost you're time. If I were you I would stock up on supplies just in case, so you’re prepared. You should also consider telling your mother; I know it will seems awkward and embarrassing, but every girl goes through it and trust me when I say that having someone there who has been through that before will definitely help. Good luck, and if it your time to start, then don’t forget to document it so you can get a general gist of when it will come next time (but also remember that when you first start out it will most likely be irregular, so DON’T FREAK OUT if it doesn’t come exactly at the same time— It’s normal). Sorry for such a long answer. :p If you need anything else, just ask! <3 And don’t worry, it’s not as terrifying as it sounds. Just be prepared! :)
7/11/2012 11:31:30 PM | Report
7714st @i<3ariana-It sounds to me like he's trying to give you the hint that he doesn't like you like you like him. Instead of proclaiming your emotions, try becoming good friends with him. Maybe he'll begin to see what a fantastic person you are, and then he'll be telling others about how he's going to the dance with you.
7/10/2012 9:17:24 AM | Report
i_love_narwhals I have a very confusing boy problem can someone help me it is a very big boy problem with 2 boys
7/12/2012 2:01:02 PM | Report
emberland_1 How young do you think is too young to kiss?
7/11/2012 1:33:06 AM | Report
i_love_narwhals 11 years old but it also deponds how mature you are some 13 year olds havet have the maturity of a seven year old so only kiss when your ready your the most important person cause this won't effect anybody but you and your kisser
7/12/2012 1:49:55 PM | Report
tink111 hi i need tips and help on how to tounge kiss
7/10/2012 10:22:07 PM | Report
bearsfan751 a guy broke up with me and won't tell me why. what should i do? @7714st
7/10/2012 11:59:26 AM | Report
i_love_narwhals well do you have any ideas what you did wrong cause if hes not telling you it might be an embarrasing reason don't hassel him about just try to get over it if he wanted to tell you he would
7/12/2012 1:45:58 PM | Report
i<3ariana ok but 1 thing, we are already great friends and we like the same things... we even have the same taste in our kids names for when were older :(
7/10/2012 11:58:05 AM | Report
Megan328 I think i might have my period cause I'm having signs and my doc said i would really soon but i'm only 88 pounds. I'm i having it or not
7/10/2012 9:42:56 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Personally, I would love to go on a romantic picnic. <3 But that's just me. :)
7/9/2012 8:18:38 PM | Report
7714st @i<3ariana-Fire away girl. What are you confused about?
7/9/2012 3:21:34 PM | Report
i<3ariana ok me and this guy in my class are perfect for eachother, but everytime he finds out that i really like him, he gets a gf and tells me about how he asked her to the dance. i dont know what i should do. should i tell him how long ive liked him?
7/9/2012 8:42:13 PM | Report
7714st @potter4ever-I'm a little bit confused. Does your boyfriend not want to do stuff like holding hands and kissing and stuff, or does he not want to be exclusive?
7/8/2012 4:05:33 PM | Report
potter4ever like holding hands and kissing and stuff
7/11/2012 7:46:56 PM | Report
i<3ariana hey i really need some help. im soo confused!!!
7/8/2012 10:20:15 PM | Report
7714st Would you rather go for dinner and a movie or a picnic?
7/7/2012 9:40:50 AM | Report
algirl4ever dinner and movie
7/9/2012 8:20:22 PM | Report
tqprincess movie
7/8/2012 5:58:35 PM | Report
potter4ever i need help, so i am 12 years old and my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 1 month. i wanted to know what he thought of me and if he was going to make a move. so i asked my friend to text he and see what he thought. the next day my bf texted me saying that my friend texted him saying that i want us to be a total couple and stuff and that he wasnt ready for that. i told him i was totally okay with that even though i am soo bummed! what do i do? do i move on? or just wait?
7/8/2012 10:24:47 AM | Report
tqprincess i say it depend on if you really like him and if he is thinking about other girls
7/8/2012 6:00:45 PM | Report
MarisaMermaid99 girl i totally feel ur pain!
7/8/2012 5:06:13 PM | Report
luvpeacegymnastics892 dinner and a movie
7/7/2012 2:46:31 PM | Report
7714st Headed off to our fireworks too! Hope you all had a great day!
7/4/2012 8:12:38 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Happy 4th of July, girlies!(: How are y'all celebrating??? I'm heading off to eat some funnel cake while I wait for the fireworks display. :3 Xoxo- Lexi <3
7/4/2012 6:16:18 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @bellasocceralpha78- Hey girlie, I'm glad you're interested in this club! <3 Unfortunately, I don't think 7714st is looking for any more officers right now. :p Keep checking back just in case we do need another officer soon though!(;
7/2/2012 3:48:00 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy OK, I don't think any of you guys knew this (why would you? That would be creepy :p) but I'm on vacation in FL, visiting some family and junk. I just want to say that THIS WEEKEND HAS BEEN THE BEST. WEEKEND. OF. MY. LIFE. period. Yes, I got to see One Direction in concert again, except this time it was their own headlining tour and it included OLLY FREAKING MURS. I saw them in Tampa on Friday and last night in Orlando. IT WAS AMAZING! My aunt bought tickets because when I visiting my other family in VA, 1D was there at the same time IN THE SAME EXACT PLACE, but I didn’t know they were going to be there so I didn’t buy tickets. :/ Do you know how painful that was? To know that they were 30 minutes away, singing their hearts out, and I was stuck babysitting. IT. SUCKED. But seeing them two nights in a row totally made up for it! <3 I wish I could go see them in Ft. Lauderdale tonight, since it’s the last stop on the U.S. Up All Night tour and it will probably be epic and all, except it’s like a 3 and a half hour drive (which I do in any normal situation in a heartbeat) but my Grandma is going into surgery today so I can’t. :( But whatever, I’m happy with what I got!(:
7/1/2012 1:54:05 PM | Report
hermione&ron OMG I <333 One Direction!!!!!!!!!
7/4/2012 4:20:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Awesome! <3 Do you have a fav?(;
7/5/2012 8:13:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy July 1st is Canada Day! I'm not sure if we have any fellow Canadians on here, but if we do then #HappyCanadaDay :)
7/1/2012 1:13:05 PM | Report
7714st @honeycakes-Hey! I've been in your EXACT. SAME. SITUATION. Seriously. I met my guy in 2nd grade, and then he went to private school after 3rd. We reunited in 7th, when he came back to public school. Our key to keeping in touch? Good old fashioned email. If this girl thinks he likes you, then there's a chance he does. Just keep talking, and maybe invite him to some group things over the summer, like a pool party or a movie. Once school starts up, just keep on flirting and try to find out if he likes you. I wish you luck!
6/28/2012 6:16:07 PM | Report
honeycakes thank you! :)
7/3/2012 10:03:10 AM | Report
bellasocceralpha78 How can I apply to be an officer in this club?
7/2/2012 12:01:30 PM | Report
7714st @Peetasgirl144- Hey, can I still help?
6/25/2012 9:50:02 PM | Report
honeycakes I need some guy help! I like this guy who is in gr8&I'm gr9 so he's coming to my school next year. He used to go to my public school in like gr2 but he switched schools so I haven't seen him in yrs! I've talked to him only once but now I have a crush because he was cute, tall&genuinely interested in me! a girl from my soccer team goes to his school too&says she thinks he likes me, but now its summer&I won't see him+he doesn't have a cell phone+I don't have facebook! What if he forgets about me? or if he likes me doesn't like me anymore?!
6/28/2012 9:17:43 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MusikRox1999- Do a little research to find out what you want to know; ask around, talk to his friends to see what his interests are. Even if you don't have a show you can still run monologues to strengthen your skills. They have all kinds out there!
6/22/2012 5:09:16 PM | Report
Peetasgirl144 Hey need some guy addvice ASAP please!!!! Im exsepting addvice from anyone PLEASE
6/24/2012 9:23:14 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MusikRox1999- Use what you know to your advantage. If he's interested in learning something that you know about then casually offer to text him about it later, kind of like a mini tutoring session. Once he realizes he doesn't have your number he'll be eager to swap! If that doesn't work then you could always ask him to run through monologues later (since your both into drama) and ask for his contact info to set up a time. :)
6/21/2012 11:36:28 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Thanks for the advice, but we’re not putting on a show or anything so I can’t run lines with him. And how would I find out something that he wants to learn about?
6/22/2012 1:36:38 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @heartbreakinsyd- It all depends on if you like the guy in your Tae Kwon Do class. If not, then you have nothing to worry about; go ahead and get back with your ex (if that's what you really want— I wouldn't recommend it if he did something bad) and slowly his crush should fade out of the picture once he sees you're unavailable, especially if you rarely see him nowadays. If not, then come back and we would be happy to help! <3
6/21/2012 11:30:49 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @dramaqueen865- Welcome to the club; we're happy to have you! <3 I have an account on figment as well, my book is titled Conflicted Feelings.(: If you're interested in writing a real-time story, we're still looking for 1 more author here: http://www.girlslife.com/Club.aspx?id=4614
6/21/2012 11:25:09 PM | Report
7714st How're your summers going girls? Having fun?
6/20/2012 12:49:32 PM | Report
pretty123 It's going pretty smoothly... I barely walk out the door, though. :)
7/23/2012 12:23:06 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 I saw this really cute guy in my summer drama class and we’ve had 2 convos (but about these games we were playing). The class is only 2 more weeks and I need some way to get to know him and get his #. Any ideas? I’m really shy and unconfident!
6/21/2012 8:15:51 PM | Report
heartbreakinsyd anymore in my Tae Kwon Do classes likes me. What do I do?? I'm so confused!
6/21/2012 4:21:54 PM | Report
heartbreakinsyd Hey guys just joined! I need some advice. I broke up with this one guy but we talked and now we r getting back together after the summer's over and school starts! but I heard from one of my friends that another guy who has a GF and that I hardly see
6/21/2012 4:20:11 PM | Report
dramaqueen865 Hi! I'm new to this club and fyi i LOVE to write! If anyone has a figment account, please check out my story Bunk 5C! Just look for it in the summer reading contest entries or search it! Thanks! HEART IT UP! ♥
6/21/2012 12:18:01 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @7714st- You're so lucky to start summer vacay so early! :D We go back on like the 28th of August, but I'd rather let out in May and go back early August like you do. :/
6/14/2012 1:47:57 PM | Report
7714st @lcagirl-That's awesome! Congrats!
6/14/2012 12:26:53 AM | Report
7714st @lcagirl-That's awesome! Congrats!
6/14/2012 12:26:50 AM | Report
7714st @lcagirl-Sorry for the late reply. Just be friendly! Invite him to group things, ask him if he wants to bike around the neighborhood, that kind of thing. He'll definitely remember that you were the one that helped him get settled.
6/11/2012 12:25:25 PM | Report
lcagirl Thanks i did take that is just being friendly it worked!!!my bday and he ran up 2 me and started singing happy birthday 2 me and we got 2 hang out it was sooo awesome
6/12/2012 3:48:39 PM | Report
7714st @Lex-Hope you have a great break! Mine started on the 29th, but we go back August 14th. :(
6/9/2012 5:42:56 PM | Report
7714st @sweetpea1190-Sorry sweetie, only officers can make posts. You can comment on anything though!
6/9/2012 5:41:39 PM | Report
7714st @TaintedAngel-First off, ignore the girlfriend. If the guy isn't happy, talk to him. Ask him what the point is of being in a relationship that makes him unhappy. Be prepared to counter all of his excuses. If he isn't happy, then you're doing the right thing. You should be able to help him see the light, which is just what he needs from the sounds of it. And if the girlfriend asks? You and the guy are just friends, and you were giving him some advice on something else, like school work or his siblings. Good luck!
6/9/2012 5:40:08 PM | Report
TaintedAngel Thanks. I'm gonna need that wish of luck.
6/10/2012 3:55:33 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @drama_mama12- Easy, whenever I feel stressed out and worn to the max (like this past month with finals and competition and auditions and junk!) I have a spa day with my girls. We all gather up at one of our places and paint nails, do face masks, ect. while chatting, listening to music and munching on snacks. We <3 to check out DYI recipes for great ideas! GL actually has a couple of articles you can check out in the "fun stuff" section! :)
6/9/2012 11:01:05 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy My last day of school for me; I can officially start my summer vacay! :D Bittersweet moment... <3
6/8/2012 3:11:38 PM | Report
sweetpea1190 im sorry i posted this onto your post but; IDK HOW TO EVEN MAKE MY OWN POST!!!! SOME ONE HELP!!!
6/9/2012 4:14:02 AM | Report
7714st @TaintedAngel-There's not much you can do at the moment. If he has a girlfriend, then you're right, let him be happy. If he breaks up with her? Then he's fair game, and your ex best friend was probably right. Patience is a virtue, girl. Wait it out.
6/8/2012 1:10:36 PM | Report
TaintedAngel But he also told me that's he not happy with her. Forgot to mention that. Now his girlfriend thinks that I'm flirting with him to get him back. I want him to be happy but he's not even happy with her..
6/8/2012 9:56:30 PM | Report
7714st @TaintedAngel- Go ahead and ask! I'll answer any questions you guys need answers to!
6/7/2012 11:31:21 AM | Report
MissAbsolution Er...I've been talking to this guy over the internet for a few months now. He seems really nice and sweet but...I'm afraid he like me...I don't want that to happen because I don't do online relationships. I'm not sure what to do. Any advice?
7/27/2012 1:20:21 PM | Report
drama_mama12 How can I rid myself of some of the pressures of boys and parent-just take a break from it all?
6/8/2012 10:48:02 PM | Report
TaintedAngel with him now and he talks to me instead of her. He doesn't even look her way. I've told myself to back off and let him be happy. Now his ex girlfriend and also my ex best friend is telling me that she thinks that he wants me back. What should I do..?
6/8/2012 1:08:16 AM | Report
TaintedAngel Um well,.. He broke up with me out of nowhere with no reason whatsoever. Then 2 days later he's going out with a girl in the 7th grade. To clear things up here, we met in church. (Also the only time we get to see each other.) He brings her to church-
6/8/2012 1:06:05 AM | Report
7714st @lcagirl-I'm sorry, I'm a bit confused. Is this guy moving back next door, or is he moving away from you?
6/4/2012 3:52:29 PM | Report
lcagirl back next door dont know what to do!!!!!
6/9/2012 8:01:54 AM | Report
TaintedAngel @7714st I have a bit of a dilemma that I am very eager to solve. It's and ex kind of problem though... Don't know if you want to spend your time on one of those -.-'
6/7/2012 1:04:10 AM | Report
7714st @lilmissamazing-Keep up the convo. Talk to him. That's most important. Invite him to group things, email, text, ask for advice. The closer you can get to him, the easier it will be to get him to like you.
6/2/2012 10:36:18 PM | Report
lcagirl Help!!! I am in a really awkward situation! For the last 5 years the guy I like has lived in Colorado while his family still owned the house next door!We used to be BFF's. He had to move back, they couldn't sell the house. I really like him!
6/4/2012 7:37:33 AM | Report
7714st @snoopgirl-Tell him you're glad you're friends-but you're just that. If you can't do it in person, give him a note. He should get the message loud and clear.
6/2/2012 10:33:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @edupin- Ooh, sounds like a tough dilemma. :/ I'm thinking that maybe he doesn't want to ruin your friendship so he's distracting himself with other girls. Plus, he just broke up with a girl, so I think you should give him a little space in the romance department until he gets over her and focus on being a good best friend. :)
5/30/2012 8:03:40 PM | Report
edupin LexillicousCady- but they broke up at the very beginning of the school year and its almost over now... I get what ur saying about the whole friend thing and i am doing my best! thanks for the help -edupin
6/1/2012 12:51:10 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Glad I could help girl! <3
6/4/2012 7:44:41 PM | Report
lilmissamazing ok COMPLETELY scratch what i said. i like a popular dude, and i talk to him a TON, but im new at skool and he mainly talks to the poular girls that hes known forever and had lots of fun moments with. how can i make him notice me more?? im not popular
5/31/2012 5:37:54 PM | Report
snoopgirl A guy at my skool likes me and I don't, he asked me to a dance a month ago and I said only as friends he didn't act like that thou. He asked me out a week ago and I said no but he acts like im his gf. I want him to leave me alone though. HELP!! PLZ!!
5/30/2012 8:52:19 PM | Report
snoopgirl A guy at my skool likes me and I don't, he asked me to a dance a month ago and I said only as friends he didn't act like that thou. He asked me out a week ago and I said no but he acts like im his gf. I want him to leave me alone though. HELP!! PLZ!!
5/30/2012 8:43:24 PM | Report
7714st @LOVE DANCE 27-If he has a girlfriend, it's less likely that he likes you. Just keep watch. If he's still staring at you, and he breaks up with his GF, it's more likely that he likes you.
5/28/2012 1:20:24 PM | Report
lilmissamazing just puttin this out there, but any girls who think ur a nerd cuz ur crush wont notice you, that is kinda ur fault! u need to talk to him more and stop being shy. just pretend he is one of ur friends and be natural with it! boys like confident girls!
5/29/2012 5:24:54 PM | Report
edupin hey
5/29/2012 12:46:07 AM | Report
edupin I like my bgf but he still likes his ex a lil. after they broke up he showed signs that he liked me but then asked out this random girl. I want to like him and want him to ask me to our grad dance. the ex is going to a dif school but we rgoin2thesame
5/29/2012 11:49:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MusicRox1999- I think if he just gave you his number today, wait a day or two to keep him interested (and so you don't seem desperate) but not long enough so he forgets about you. Good luck! :)
5/24/2012 4:22:44 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 so there is this guy who is kinda new to our school and he is staring at me nonstop sometimes.he always is glancing at me and i dont know if its because he likes me or what. the problem he has a girlfriend that i HATE! but o well so do thinkhelikesme
5/26/2012 10:28:44 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @lexshe- Nice username! ;) It sounds like he could possibly like you, but who is this "her" he likes? Is he taken? :o
5/24/2012 4:19:09 PM | Report
lexshe Thanks!(: Lol my name is Lexie too! But I spell it Lexie(: And the "her" is his ex. Lol I was typing too fast! But her name is Tristan and he used to really like her and i dont know who he likes more.. Should I ask?
5/29/2012 10:35:49 PM | Report
7714st @Crista is Awsome-Give him your number and email and ask if he wants to hang out over the summer. If he likes you, he'll jump at the chance. Plan something fun, like going to the pool or a backyard barbecue...something you can invite other people to.
5/23/2012 3:21:25 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 When my crush signed my yearbook today he wrote his #, said we should talk more, and ended it with “hit me up :)” How soon should I text him? We have finals all next week and school ends June 1st. When should I text him?
5/24/2012 1:17:45 AM | Report
sparr1 Weel dont act despret trust me i have the same problem my BGF gave me his number and im not aloutd to date or even text him
5/26/2012 1:28:09 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Everyone! Please listen to @7714st and take the survey! It will benefit not only you, but the club as a whole! :D http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HPH8BR9 Love you all! <3 ~Lexi(:
5/22/2012 7:07:25 PM | Report
lexshe Hey!(: Ok I need some advice there is this guy who i REALLY like and he likes me too. He always calls me pretty and he always compliments me, but he never talks to me around his friends and he said he still kinda likes her. what shuuld I do? HELP!!!!
5/23/2012 4:44:54 PM | Report
7714st Okay, I KNOW more than just three people saw this-but I only got three responses. If you could PLEASE follow the link and take the survey, I would really appreciate it. It'll help us help you. :) http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HPH8BR9
5/22/2012 4:01:15 PM | Report
Crista is Awsome I need some SERIOUS help. There's this guy that my friends say likes me, and I like him too, but it is almost the end of the year. If I ask him out now, it might be too late, but if I wait until next year, he might just forget about me. What do I do!
5/23/2012 12:13:37 AM | Report
DramaDudette you could get his email or video chat! Or just ask him out. If worse comes to worst, he will still remember you. No way he can forget you if he really likes you!
6/29/2012 6:16:58 PM | Report
lexshe You should just ask him out! If he really likes who he wont forget about you and the worst thing he can do is say no so take the chance ! (:
5/23/2012 4:50:12 PM | Report
josie12 well..i started secondaary school last september..and everything was greeaat until my group of friends spilt apart :( i only have 1 friend left and i have trouble making more i don't want to come back being the girl with 1 friend what should i do??
5/29/2012 12:52:15 PM | Report
7714st @soonrthnl8tre-Can you be more specific honey? I can't help you without details.
5/22/2012 3:56:04 PM | Report
7714st @volleyballgirl7799-Go ahead and text him! If the number exchange was mutual, it could be that he's waiting for you to text him. So hit him up! A quick "Hi, what's up?" should do.
5/22/2012 3:55:15 PM | Report
7714st @awtechnofish-If you don't have the guts to ask him in person, a cute note should do. Keep it simple, without too much decoration or girly things. If you do ask him in person, a simple "Will you go to the dance with me?" should work. Good luck! :)
5/22/2012 3:53:58 PM | Report
7714st @2cute2btrue-It sounds to me like it's just a crush-though one that won't go away. Try broadening your horizons. Make new friends, join a camp, hang around downtown. Find a guy who won't just use you.
5/20/2012 11:02:49 AM | Report
soonrthnl8tre hey could someone help me im head over heals for my crush but im pretty sure i doesnt even notice me i rlly need some advice
5/21/2012 4:23:54 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 So should I text him first? Or would that seem desperate?
5/20/2012 9:11:34 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 hi! So I have an important question. While avoiding my ex at a dance, I asked a really cute guy to slow dance with me. He was really cute and nice, and we exchanged numbers. It has been a few days since the dance and I am scared he won't text me...
5/20/2012 9:11:03 PM | Report
lexshe You can always just text him first if hes the right guy he'll text back and he is probably not texting you cause he is thinking the same thing just text a friendly hello and see if he is "the one" (:
5/23/2012 4:53:56 PM | Report
soonrthnl8tre maybe this dude is just scared he is going to do the wrong thing try making the first move
5/21/2012 4:25:10 PM | Report
awtechnofish I really want to go to an upcoming end of year dance with my crush but I don't know how to ask him
5/20/2012 2:27:52 PM | Report
7714st @potter4ever-I hate to say it, but if what his friend said is true, then you need to open your horizons. This summer, look for guys around your hometown (or not) who will like you as much as you like him.
5/18/2012 11:31:29 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @puppielover- Girl, don't let your race stop you from asking the guy you like out! Your skin color and your heart have no connection in this matter. Personally, I think that if he rejects you solely on your ethnicity, he isn't worth it. :)
5/18/2012 7:32:37 PM | Report
puppie-lover Thanks so much love ! This is some great advice. xoxo - Cici
6/8/2012 12:31:43 AM | Report
2cute2btrue Also my friends hate him because he kinda used me as a popularity device. They tell me that I should get over him, but I still like him! Am I in love?
5/18/2012 8:52:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @PoohBear:)- (adorable name! <3) Like with #kathapple17 this guy is showing signs of being a player, and the fact that you don't know him that well is also a factor. If a guy openly admits to having another date, I wouldn't go out with him.
5/18/2012 7:25:36 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @kathapple17- It's possible that he's just shy and not certain of his feelings, or there's the more reasonable prospect that he is a player. I think the best you can do is go straight to teh source and confront him on his erratic behavior.
5/18/2012 7:22:43 PM | Report
7714st @madie5480-If they broke up he's fair game-but only if your BFF is ok with it. It's kind of an unwritten rule that you don't date your BFF's ex without her permission. So lie low for awhile. Introduce her to new guys, and cross your fingers that when she finds out she'll be happy for you two.
5/14/2012 5:31:53 PM | Report
PoohBear:) omg. i like this guy. but, we talk not lotz also i asked him if he wanted to go out he said yes then two days later he said he had a date to prom what should i do
5/17/2012 12:04:23 PM | Report
madie5480 Thanks! And she already likes one of her ex's again so i hope it goes well. I have a feeling that i should wait for a while. ( iM texting him now!!! ;) Wish me luck! :)
5/16/2012 10:05:47 PM | Report
kathapple17 ok so im in 7th grade & there is this boy & he is older than me by an day or so. so he flirts with me all the time. the problem is that he gives me mixed signals to though. its drivin me crazy cause he trys to hold my hand & the next day ignors me!??
5/15/2012 9:34:47 PM | Report
7714st @gleek18-Well if you like him, start flirting! Leave subtle hints that you like him and that you think you guys would be a cute couple. If he likes you, you should have a BF in no time. :)
5/14/2012 5:27:46 PM | Report
7714st @girlyschoolchik-Wow, asking you to marry him? It sounds like he REALLY likes you. Why don't you give it a shot? If after a couple of weeks you still feel like he's a player, than break it off. If he turns out to be a great guy, then well, great!
5/14/2012 5:25:57 PM | Report
7714st @potter4ever-Some people just aren't very comfortable using email. That could be why his responses are short. Try hanging out with him in person-sit at his lunch table, invite him on a movie date, whatever! He should make it official in no time. :)
5/14/2012 5:22:48 PM | Report
potter4ever today at school some of us were on our emails. and my crush,s bff said "wow u guys are still talking about that?! why dont you just tell her you dont like her?!" i didnt here what my crush said. i want to move on but there're only 9 guys in our class
5/15/2012 5:44:02 PM | Report
mlshay Ok im new to gl and i need some guy help her is my story: ◕‿◕ cg9xhXK Ok my crush and i have been dating for about a week now and i have a crush on his older brother and hes about 23 and im 18. ( im gonna have more to right in a min)
5/14/2012 5:26:57 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls... sorry I've been MIA :( but today's my birthday (woo-hoo! :D) so I have been crammed full planning my party, not to mention Finals are in like 2 weeks so I have gone crazy studying! :/ I will be back on Monday though! I promise! <3
5/12/2012 11:41:58 AM | Report
madie5480 well they say were perfect for eachother. we refer to each other as brother and sister and hes so sweet and caring. I cant even imagine him ever hurting someone. i dont to offend my friend (she doesnt know yet)by liking him. What if were meant @ B?:(
5/13/2012 7:34:58 PM | Report
madie5480 Ok. So my friend recently dumped this amazing guy because she liked someone else but being the psychologist wanna be i am, i kept texting him trying to get over her. And then it all went down hill. I think i like him, my friends think i like him, and
5/13/2012 7:32:04 PM | Report
lilliebeans happy late bday to you!!!!
5/13/2012 7:14:35 PM | Report
potter4ever so i asked him if he wanted something to be going on between us and he said ahh well sure.then i asked if he wanted us to be together.and he said okay.(btw this was all over email)i'm very happy. but y r his responses 2short?wat should b my nxt move?
5/12/2012 3:01:04 PM | Report
girlyschoolchik (continued from last comment) .....if he wasn't a popular dude (and a major player) so what do i do?
5/13/2012 5:27:56 PM | Report
girlyschoolchik ok, so im really confuzzled. back in the 5th grade (2 years ago, almost 3 now) a guy wrote his phone number in my yearbook. Last year, he asked me out. last september,, he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. i would be totally stoked.....
5/13/2012 5:26:39 PM | Report
gleek18 I like this guy and it looks like he likes me too hes always looked like he liked me even when he had a gf he broke up with her and is flirting hes also relly nice 2 me what should i do?
5/12/2012 5:33:48 PM | Report
girlyschoolchik well, if ur at least an appropriate age, ask him out or ask him if he likes you. He probably does though, if what you said about him is true!
5/13/2012 5:33:29 PM | Report
potter4ever hi! so i am 12 years old and i have liked this guy forever and he asked me out last summer. i found out recently he likes me and another girl i dont know. i have been so confused lately that i finally asked him what was going on between us.he saididk
5/12/2012 2:54:49 PM | Report
7714st @EGJplay-Sorry hon, I can't tell off of just a few glances...can you fill me in more?
5/9/2012 9:41:45 PM | Report
2cute2btrue How can we ask questions on this thing again?
5/18/2012 8:46:50 PM | Report
7714st @JuStSmIlEaNyWaYs-It could be-or not. If he rarely asks for advice from anyone, it could be a sign that he trusts your opinion. If he's constantly asking for approval from other people, probably not.
5/9/2012 9:40:57 PM | Report
7714st @EGJplay-Just start talking to him! Ask him how his weekend was, how his basketball game went, or really anything!
5/7/2012 7:19:41 PM | Report
EGJplay It is SOOOO nerve racking tring to talk to him. I have tried. DO you think that he likes me? He already knows I like him so... But thanks
5/8/2012 3:26:44 PM | Report
7714st @dawnbreaker-If HE gave you his number, than that's a good sign. If he gave it to you the same day you texted him and he hadn't replied yet, it's likely that he just hadn't checked his messages yet. The next time you see him, just ask if he got your text.
5/6/2012 6:51:25 PM | Report
JuStSmIlEaNyWaYs Hi well today this guy in my class texted me asking which shirt had looked better on him, is this a sign that he likes me? Plzzzzz respond!!!!!!!!
5/7/2012 2:30:04 AM | Report
EGJplay I dont think so SORRY! Guys are just strange and probally just tring to impress another girl and thinks of you as a friend. But you never know!
5/8/2012 3:28:57 PM | Report
7714st @roarcupcakes-Hey girl. I know you REALLY like "Bob," but don't you think you're a little young for dating? I have a sister in fourth grade, and I wouldn't want her dating anyone. Plus, at your age, even if you do date (like my twin sister did), a year older can be a lot older. If you like him, try to become his friend first. If you barely know him, i's not likely that he'll want to date you. Also, just so you know-the people in my grade who started dating in 4th and 5th grade were making out and having sex by 8th grade (other than my sister-she would never do that at that age.) So take it slow. Just because you like a guy doesn't mean you have to date.
5/6/2012 6:45:35 PM | Report
7714st @lilmissamazing-If he's in your class, that's great! It gives you even more chances to talk. Just tell him that your parents want you to have the phone numbers of a couple of the people in your class in case you forget the homework. He should hand it over. Good luck!
5/1/2012 4:49:31 PM | Report
roarcupcakes hi um well lets see... i am in 4th grade and i REALLLLLLYYYYYYYYY ♥ love this hot 5th grader (i wont mention any names so lets call him "bob") so yea bob is very popular and like practically EVERYONE LOVES HIM and i also rlly badly want a bf..simple
5/5/2012 1:24:27 PM | Report
EGJplay How do I get 2 know him? thx
5/6/2012 7:43:51 PM | Report
EGJplay There is this guy that I really like from school,I dont really know him but he is sooo cute. My BFF's BF told him that I llike him and he hasnt done a thing about it. But somtimes(not 2 often) I hav caught him looking in my direction. CONT....
5/6/2012 7:41:55 PM | Report
dawnbreaker hey my crush gave me his phone number out of the blue today. He told me to text him. I did, and he never replied! How can I ask him if the number was a fake?
5/3/2012 5:30:08 PM | Report
faythlund18 just simply ask him if he has got your txt but if you think he likes you back pass a note to him.
5/15/2012 12:51:46 PM | Report
krysha Ask him straight out. But if you are too shy then try this: a)Hey, um, can I have your # again I think I got it wrong b)Maybe someone else has his # if they do, then compare Best of luck, tell me what happens
5/4/2012 7:31:20 PM | Report
lilmissamazing Unless he is a person who always plays jokes and is never serious, that number is real. Sometimes boys can get sidetracked and forget to check their texts, but he’ll probably reply soon.
5/3/2012 6:04:12 PM | Report
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5/1/2012 8:05:09 PM | Report
Cutie:) how do I put up my own comment
5/28/2012 4:42:30 PM | Report
7714st @Lex- Totally Harry Styles for me. I'm a sucker for guys with curly hair...I just can't help it! (Good thing my boyfriend has curly hair!)
5/1/2012 4:45:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy OK guys I have a really important question that I really need to your help with!Here it is: Who's your fav. One Direction guy? Why/What characteristics make him your favorite?
4/29/2012 7:39:08 PM | Report
DaiJahnaJohnson Hey girls I really love this club!! and I would really love it if you all would join my club BeautyNotebook!! (: please and thank you(:
4/29/2012 9:54:12 PM | Report
7714st @lilmissamazing- You say you talk to him at the library, right? Is he in any of your classes? Or is he really great at a certain subject? There's your ticket! Tell him you're envious of his great math skills or his super grades in science- and ask him if you could have his number if you ever need help on an assignment. He should hand it right over!
4/29/2012 9:26:30 AM | Report
lilmissamazing Weird…I commented on this 2 days ago and it didn’t show up…anyway what I said was hes pretty regular in evry subject, and Im not in high skool yet, so we only have 2 groups of classes and hes in my class. so got any other creative ideas? Thanks! ♥
4/30/2012 3:18:56 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Awkward... but I agree with #7714st; there's nothing wrong with dating a nerd! I find them quirky & adorable. :) 100% lovable! <3
4/28/2012 1:04:42 PM | Report
7714st @taytay3299-I know I'm not thinking it. I've been dating the "nerd" for a year and a half.
4/28/2012 12:40:23 PM | Report
Yellow5253 me too!
4/28/2012 8:49:26 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @lilmissamazing- Welcome to club! :) Do you mean posting a status (aka update) like I am right now? I'm afraid you can only post them if your an "officer" for the club (i.e.: VP, Secretary, Custom Officer, ect.) however you can ask your question in the comment box and we'll gladly answer it! <3
4/27/2012 7:05:40 PM | Report
lilmissamazing Thanks for telling me! Well I have this crush, and I want to get his number, so I modded this question. The mod person answered that I have to talk to him about things that we have in common or something to get his attention to get his #. Well that’s hard because hes really popular and always around his friends so idk when I can talk to him. Sometimes in library I can flirt with him, (and even though im unpopular and hes popluar flirting works!!) but I cant get his number then. I need tips on getting his number!! Thanks!
4/28/2012 5:57:09 PM | Report
lilmissamazing Thanks for telling me! Well I have this crush, and I want to get his number, so I modded this question. The mod person answered that I have to talk to him about things that we have in common or something to get his attention to get his #. Well that’s hard because hes really popular and always around his friends so idk when I can talk to him. Sometimes in library I can flirt with him, (and even though im unpopular and hes popluar flirting works!!) but I cant get his number then. I need tips on getting his number!! Thanks!
4/28/2012 5:49:10 PM | Report
7714st Would you rather have a bad boy or a nerdy guy for a BF? Spill!
4/24/2012 6:28:40 PM | Report
taytay3299 bad boy. who watns to be known as the one dating the nerd. i know that sounds bad but i think we are all thinking it
4/27/2012 9:03:42 PM | Report
lilmissamazing i just joined my 1st advice queen club!! but one thing...idk how to make a comment! not like commenting somewone elses like i am now, i mean comment like my own comment. i have a million questins to ask and it would b helpful if someoe showed me how!
4/27/2012 4:34:12 PM | Report
bailtr nerdy
4/27/2012 7:57:35 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Like hipster glasses nerdy or AP classes nerdy?
4/27/2012 7:02:47 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Nerdy guys are cute! Plus I hate bad boys! They act way too cool and will probably treat you badly. A nerdy guy has more sensitive feelings and will be nicer and more considerate to you.
4/26/2012 9:39:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Yeah... you definitely don't need a guy that doesn't treat you right. :/ The thought of some of those guys out there sicken me. -.-
4/27/2012 4:59:27 PM | Report
cutiepie14231 hii im ur new mamber and ima hav to say bad boy
4/26/2012 1:37:02 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Welcome to the club! We're glad to have you here as a new member! :) If you need anything or just want to chat just comment and someone will be happy to provide assistance. <3
4/27/2012 4:57:32 PM | Report
KermieBooBear Bad Boy! :D Im not sure why though.
4/25/2012 10:23:40 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Haha it seems like everyone is always drawn to the bad boy! :) I think it's the air of mystery they have around them; girls find that intriguing... and usually there smoking hot. ;)
4/27/2012 4:55:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @iluvhungergames- It sucks whenever that happens, :( but you need to see if your BFF returns the feelings. If she does, then I'm afraid your going to have stop your pursuit. It's hard to hear, but I'm sure you can easily snag someone else! :)
4/22/2012 11:23:17 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MusicRox1999- Have you tried the quiz in the description bow below? In case you missed it, here's the link: http://quizilla.teennick.com/quizzes/17946061/does-he-like-you Hope it helps! :) I've heard it has amazing results! <3
4/22/2012 11:16:51 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy My Spring Break ends this Tuesday. On Wednesday it's back to school for me; which unfortunately also means waking up at 5 in the morning. :/ Fun right? :P I spent it at Busch Gardens with my BF & his family so that was good. :) What about you?
4/15/2012 6:24:48 PM | Report
iluvhungergames I really like this boy and turns out he likes my best friend what should i do???
4/20/2012 5:23:55 PM | Report
taytay3299 Tell your best friend. That way she knows. And if he asks her out then she will know that it will hurt you. But if she also lokes the guy then dont stress there are plenty of other guys out there.
4/27/2012 9:09:09 PM | Report
bailtr omg idno (i dont know)
4/27/2012 7:59:37 AM | Report
MusikRox1999 Help! I don't know if my guy friend likes me. His friends tease him about me and he’s really nice to me, but when my friend asked if he liked me he said “nah.” Is he lying? I'm so confused! Please help!
4/18/2012 7:08:34 PM | Report
josie12 hey if you have questions write them on my wall and i'll answer them as soon as possible!!please keep them nice if you can!!
4/21/2012 6:43:13 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @HoopsGirl99- I’m guessing you were probably caught staring at him from across the lunchroom or in the middle of class, right? Don’t sweat about it too much, just back off a little and give him some room for a while. He’ll come around soon. ;) Good luck! <3
4/15/2012 6:21:33 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Thanks for the advice, I'm already using it and I hope it works!
4/17/2012 3:56:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! I don't know if it's just my internet connection, but every time I try to go on GL it takes forever to load and says that a script has to stop running or something. Is that happening to anyone else? :/ For example it's Taken me about 10 minutes just to write this post! :P I really miss answering your girls’ question. :( Any techy people know what’s happening? I will be forever grateful if you can help! <3
4/15/2012 6:16:41 PM | Report
7714st Hey girls! I made a survey for y'all, and I'd be super happy if you would take it! http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HPH8BR9
4/15/2012 12:18:31 PM | Report
DaiJahnaJohnson Hey girls!! I really like this club everyone gives such good advice!!(: and i would love it if you guys would be willing to join my club BeautyNotebook
4/15/2012 5:39:00 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 My crush thinks im a stalker , HELP!!!
4/15/2012 4:29:10 PM | Report
7714st @kewauneegal-Sounds to me like he was just being a jerk. Someone who starts a convo by saying your sister isn't good at something? That's definitely a red flag.
4/14/2012 11:09:57 AM | Report
Nina2901 Hey guys! Love this club? Well, check out my Advice 4 Everything club too PLEASE. I'm my only member... :(
4/17/2012 6:27:44 PM | Report
kewauneegal Thx @7714st
4/17/2012 7:30:47 AM | Report
7714st @HoopsGirl99- Check this quiz out: http://quizilla.teennick.com/quizzes/17946061/does-he-like-you
4/12/2012 8:26:19 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Thank you for the help!
4/15/2012 4:28:01 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Thank you for the help!
4/15/2012 4:21:41 PM | Report
kewauneegal So this guy and i had 2 do a job. we wern't talking and then he says my sister isn't that great at track. Was he trying to say he was a better runner and impress me? Or something else?
4/13/2012 8:27:24 PM | Report
7714st @ChloBear234-Just start by asking him about classwork, and work from there!
4/12/2012 8:15:36 PM | Report
7714st @honeycakes-Answered on your profile sweetie! Also, just giving plain old good advice helps. :)
4/11/2012 10:03:18 PM | Report
honeycakes thanks so much!!
4/14/2012 1:49:04 PM | Report
7714st @Esparkle-Let your friends know how uncomfortable it makes you, and ask them to avoid the subject if possible for awhile. They should back off the subject.
4/8/2012 8:16:35 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Hey im new, i have a question, can any of you help?
4/11/2012 6:30:48 PM | Report
kiyah123 hi ill help you
5/25/2012 2:22:49 PM | Report
josie12 hey whats ypur question @esparkle??!! :D
4/12/2012 11:35:45 AM | Report
HoopsGirl99 My crush seems kinda interested in me, but I dont know if its just because he knows I like him or because maybe he likes me back, can you help me?
4/12/2012 5:29:26 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 Hey im new, i have a question, can any of you help?
4/11/2012 6:02:53 PM | Report
honeycakes heyy I just joined, and I posted a question on your profile could you please answer it? that would be great! thanks so much!
4/10/2012 8:00:24 PM | Report
7714st @*sTaRsTrUcK*-Just try to pretend he's a normal guy. If that doesn't work, tell him that when you get nervous, you start acting kind of strange when you're nervous or tired. He should understand.
4/8/2012 8:07:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy If your in on EST right now, Happy Easter!! :) I swear to answer your all questions later on today, but considering I have church today, I really need to get some sleep. Plus my brain is fried right now so any advice I dish out may not be so good. :P
4/8/2012 12:07:45 AM | Report
heather99 Happy Easter everyone!!! HE IS RISEN! May the true meaning of the holiday be in your heart today and everyday
4/8/2012 4:36:14 PM | Report
7714st @divaday5-If you see yourself as tomboy, go tomboy! There's no problem with being who you feel like you are. If he doesn't like you for who you really are, that's his issue. He's not worth your time.
4/6/2012 9:47:45 AM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* I like this guy, but whenever I'm around him I tend to get more annoying, like making lame jokes and saying stupid things. I really regret it afterwards, but I just can't help it! Do you have any tips for me?!
4/7/2012 7:58:51 PM | Report
Esparkle every one should join my club friends all around we are also in need of officers so if you would like to be one just let me know!!!!! :)
4/7/2012 7:29:57 PM | Report
Esparkle i am super jelous of all my friends with boyfriends me and my bf broke up we had a super good relationship and i miss it i dont know what to do i get mad and jealous around my friends and their bfs
4/7/2012 4:49:03 PM | Report
7714st @alana G. hass-First off, let your BFF know that what she did totally wasn't cool. Don't be rude, just tell her softly that what she did wasn't cool. As for the guy-He doesn't know what he's missing. If he doesn't appreciate you, find a new guy.
4/6/2012 9:45:28 AM | Report
alana G. hass thank you :)
4/6/2012 12:20:54 PM | Report
7714st @kaylynlovesu-Just ask him what he's doing over spring break...it's a great convo starter!
4/5/2012 1:21:54 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy 1:50 AM. I just finished writing. :P Sorry I've been gone lately, but a word to the wise DO NOT TAKE ALL HONORS CLASSES UNLESS YOUR SERIOUSLY COMMITTED! Seriously, it's so much extra work. Luckily, I'm willing to do the extra work to get into a greatcollege. :) But anyways... It's officially April 1st; so Happy April Fools Day to you all! Have fun pranking everyone. ;)
4/1/2012 1:53:31 AM | Report
Dani143 Thanks for the advice. I got into all honors. Def dropping one.
4/4/2012 7:49:59 PM | Report
kaylynlovesu sameeeeeeeeeeee sooo tired of school im only in 7th grade so yeahh i need some advice before spring break ends so i like this guy (obviously) and i have his number but have NO idea wat to text him i dont want him to think i like him!!! Wat do i say??
4/4/2012 6:00:24 PM | Report
*Twifan.Vball.Chic* HEY Girlies!!!! Check out my club, Run, Run, Run. Its for all those fitness-loving chickas and it will be sooo much fun! JOIN!! I need members! (:
4/4/2012 3:32:24 PM | Report
alana G. hass iv liked this guy for 2 years but i get to see him once a month, and thats at church and then his family comes over for lunch so i still cant talk to him, so my BFF text him and told him i liked him! he said he probably wont go out with me. :(
4/5/2012 1:15:41 PM | Report
alana G. hass iv liked this guy for 2 years but i get to see him once a month, and thats at church and then his family comes over for lunch so i still cant talk to him, so my BFF text him and told him i liked him! he said he probably wont go out with me. :(
4/5/2012 1:15:39 PM | Report
7714st @melly2-You're welcome hun!
3/31/2012 12:40:21 PM | Report
alana G. hass can someone help me please? i cant figure out how to post a question?
4/3/2012 2:00:54 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Just comment your question on one of our posts! For example here's my question: I like this boy what do I do? And then we answer it in a post. :)
4/3/2012 6:57:49 PM | Report
alana G. hass thank you! :)
4/4/2012 2:27:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy My pleasureee.(:
4/4/2012 7:44:59 PM | Report
alana G. hass can someone help me please? i cant figure out how to post a question?
4/3/2012 2:00:52 PM | Report
booknerd1999 same here.
4/13/2012 4:21:49 PM | Report
7714st @Dani143-I'm taking that as a full on flirt. What he said means he wants to be close to you, which is a great sign. Keep on flirting and I'll bet that he'll be yours in no time!
3/31/2012 12:39:39 PM | Report
Dani143 okay(: Thanks!
4/2/2012 4:51:46 PM | Report
7714st @awtechnofish- These are my FAVORITE flip flops in the world-comfy, don't give you blisters, great arch support, a variety of colors, and you can wear them in water. AND they don't break the bank. http://www.teva.com/womens-olowahu-stylish-flip-flops/6840,default,pd.html?dwvar_6840_color=YAOR&start=1&q=flip%20flops
3/30/2012 5:23:56 PM | Report
7714st @annalulusmiley-You have to be assertive and non-traditional here. Why not ask him out, if it's been so long that you've both liked each other? Trust me, I know, waiting for the guy to be traditional is no fun. So go ahead, ask him!
3/30/2012 5:09:49 PM | Report
7714st @melly2- Try this: http://quizilla.teennick.com/quizzes/17946061/does-he-like-you
3/30/2012 4:57:21 PM | Report
Dani143 Can you give me some guy advice? I like on of my best guy friends who I hung out with a lot over the summer. One day in class he said, "Remember at the bonfire when I sat on your lap? We should do that again." What does that mean? Is that flirting?
3/31/2012 12:40:48 AM | Report
melly2 Thank you so much! It said probably!!
3/30/2012 6:37:31 PM | Report
7714st @allthelittlepieces- Fire away. :)
3/30/2012 4:54:31 PM | Report
7714st @divaday5- How about trying neither, but instead, just being yourself? If there's one thing I know guys are attracted to, it's confidence in yourself and your personality/style. So just be you!
3/30/2012 4:50:23 PM | Report
divaday5 7714 it is just that people say that i'm the nice sweet girl but i see my self as a tomboy and when i don't say hi he never comes to talk what should i do????
3/31/2012 5:48:29 PM | Report
7714st @divaday5-Tell him that you want to see it just because it looks like a good movie-not because of Josh. It also wouldn't hurt to mention that another reason you want to see it is so that you could spend some time with him!
3/25/2012 3:46:22 PM | Report
allthelittlepieces I need advice.....Comment if you can give me some and I'll hit you with my question....I'm 13 and it's about a REALLY awesome guy. <3
3/27/2012 10:39:48 PM | Report
hottie1250 hey if you need advice i can give you some and btw how do you post question?
3/28/2012 9:06:51 PM | Report
annalulusmiley
3/27/2012 10:22:13 PM | Report
heather99 Hey! Thank you so much LexiliciousCandy! Because of your advice, me and Zack are now friends, and I think I might even ask him to the dance! Thank you so much, you are the best advice giver ever!!
3/27/2012 5:31:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy No problem girlie! It's what I'm here for. ;) And I enjoy helping you girls out.(: It's a win-win situation for all. <3
4/1/2012 1:55:12 AM | Report
divaday5 so i was wondering if i should try cute geeky girl or tomboy angle to get my to like me more?????
3/26/2012 7:17:57 PM | Report
divaday5 hi i was wondering if i should try cute geeky girl or tomboy angle?????
3/26/2012 7:15:55 PM | Report
melly2 Hey I'm new in this club I was wondering how to tell when someone has a crush on u cuz I think my crush likes me back but I'm not sure :p
3/26/2012 1:44:24 AM | Report
melly2 Can I be secretary?
3/27/2012 2:43:40 PM | Report
awtechnofish Hey I need new flipflops for the spring/summer, and I absolutely HATE rubber ones but I cant afford rainbows. Do you know of anywhere or any other brands I could look for.
3/25/2012 6:11:22 PM | Report
7714st @Lex-That's fantastic! Awesome for you!
3/24/2012 10:44:44 PM | Report
annalulusmiley my friends say that i should get over him and start liking someone else but i REALLY like this guy! im not sure if i should keep on liking him because we have liked each other for at least the past 6 months and havent asked me out yet. what sould i d
3/27/2012 10:45:26 PM | Report
divaday5 So my parents have no you can't go see the hunger games movie and they finally said yes and i want to ask my crush to go with me but he thinks that i just want to see it because my celeb crush is in it josh hutcherson what do i do
3/25/2012 2:17:56 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Kay girls, sorry I haven’t been on in a while, but midterms just ended yesterday, so I have been busy studying. Don’t you just LOVE studying? *Sarcasm* Anyways… you girls were right; the reason I was so happy did have to do with boys. The boys from Big Time Rush to be more specific. Here, let me elaborate: Not too long ago was my best friend’s birthday and she is OBSESSED with One Direction. (For all you One Directioners out there don’t hate me for this) but I myself am not so crazy about them. However, I will admit that they are good singers. But my friend is completely and utterly in love with Niall. Like her tumblr is the ultimate fan page for One Direction. So for her birthday we went to see the Big Time Rush/One Direction concert and while we were there the most amazing thing happened. Logan from BTR came and hugged me while he and Carlos sang Cover Girl to me & my friend. Logan had his arm around me the whole time (he even kissed me on the cheek!) and Carlos was standing on the chair in front of us, and then he gave us high-fives and told us they loved us and that we were beautiful. It’s not like I really like Big Time Rush or anything, but the fact that a famous person did that to me and my friend was just WOW. I couldn’t believe it, I always hoped I would be the lucky one at a concert that something would happen too (like the way Justin Bieber and Enrique Englesias sing to a girl on stage) but it never did until then! I was so excited. Plus to add to it, my friend got pictures with One Direction (she nearly fainted) and the mom of Jackson Guthy (the opening act) sat right behind us and asked us if we liked her son. At the end of his performance he came over and we got to personally meet him and hang out with him after the concert. IT WAS AMAZING. Sorry that was so long. :P But I was excited.
3/24/2012 11:23:33 AM | Report
annalulusmiley ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we only text. i mean we talk at school, a lot and we kinda flirt with each other but nothing bond that. My friends have tried to get him to ask me out but he aways says that hes to young or something and all
3/27/2012 10:37:49 PM | Report
7714st @camijam-My advice? Tell them both that you can't be in the middle of this, and until they work it out you just have to keep your distance from them. In the meantime, hang out with other friends, do things you love, and just relax!
3/22/2012 3:47:04 PM | Report
7714st Lex: Spill!
3/11/2012 6:45:55 PM | Report
camijam MOD my best bff K doesn't like my other friend L and L's mom accused K of bullying. Then K's mom and L's mom put me and my mom in the middle of this argument. L is a bully and i try 2 avoid her im not sure if i should b friend w/L anymore. any help?
3/18/2012 5:20:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy (: (: (: <3 <3 (: <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 (:I am freaking out right now, I am SO HAPPY!!!! <3 <3 <3 :) :) :) :)
3/7/2012 10:00:25 PM | Report
emilyar215 i always catch my crush staring at me but i heard he kissed this girl who kind of looks like me whaats going on??
3/14/2012 6:21:54 PM | Report
oreolover123 I gave advice on your profile :)
3/17/2012 10:22:34 PM | Report
heather99 OMG ME TOO! THE ADVICE YOU GAVE ME WORKED! ME AND ZACK ARE FRIENDS NOW! WE HAD OUR 1ST SOLO CONVO ON FRI!!!!!!! THANKS SOOO MUCH!!!!!!!! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
3/11/2012 7:13:30 PM | Report
emmef101 thats good!!
4/10/2012 7:31:44 AM | Report
heather99 OMG ME TOO! THE ADVICE YOU GAVE ME WORKED! ME AND ZACK ARE FRIENDS NOW! WE HAD OUR 1ST SOLO CONVO ON FRI!!!!!!! THANKS SOOO MUCH!!!!!!!! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
3/11/2012 7:01:36 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 what?? does it involve boys?
3/9/2012 6:10:54 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 hey i have a question, can any of you peeps help me?
3/9/2012 6:09:15 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 @HoopsGirl99 I’d be happy to help!
3/11/2012 12:47:28 AM | Report
HoopsGirl99 well they'res this boy at school that i like but i dont know him very well and everybody knows i like him and they are saying some untrue things to him about me and im afraid he thinks im a big weirdo, obsesser
3/14/2012 4:43:06 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 well they'res this boy at school that i like but i dont know him very well and everybody knows i like him and they are saying some untrue things to him about me and im afraid he thinks im a big weirdo, obsesser
3/14/2012 4:22:20 PM | Report
HoopsGirl99 well they'res this boy at school that i like but i dont know him very well and everybody knows i like him and they are saying some untrue things to him about me and im afraid he thinks im a big weirdo, obsesser
3/14/2012 4:10:23 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* What happened?!?!? TELL ME! I'm guess it's something involving a boy, because of all the <3s!
3/8/2012 7:36:18 PM | Report
7714st @steff12345-Can I have more details? If you're not sure how to phrase it, try this: It's not perfect, but it should give you a little hint: http://quizilla.teennick.com/quizzes/17946061/does-he-like-you
3/4/2012 9:51:05 PM | Report
7714st @MusikRox1999-Tell him you need someone who you can call for homework purposes. He should hand his number over pronto, and you have a reason to call him!
3/3/2012 6:18:44 PM | Report
7714st @Esparkle-You need to confront him and ask him about his behavior. What he's doing isn't cool, and you need to let him know that.
3/3/2012 6:15:21 PM | Report
SarSar:) I have a crush yet hes dating another girl...what should I do?
3/8/2012 6:38:44 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 @SarSar I was in that EXACT stich! My advice is to wait. You can still crush on a guy while he’s dating another girl. Don’t be waiting on their every move though. They’ll probably break up fast and then you can step in. Good luck :)
3/9/2012 1:53:27 AM | Report
SarSar:) Thanks :)
3/10/2012 8:46:43 PM | Report
SarSar:) Thanks :)
3/10/2012 8:46:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328- Assuming that you're reading at your grade level and that you like the Hunger Games- I'm halfway through Mockingjay; it's so sad :(- I would suggest the Harry Potter Series. Everybody loves 'em. ;)
3/1/2012 3:52:35 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* So..my kind-of-crush/prom date texted me this weekend, but our conversations are SOO boring! I'd like to ask questions to get to know him (e.g. "What's your favorite band/food?") but I don't know how to lead into these questions without scaring him off. Do any of you girls have any ideas/experience with the situation? I just don’t want him to be creeped out by me or anything.
3/4/2012 11:24:34 PM | Report
klause10 I always make a joke of it and say something like " hey i want to get to know you betteer so want to play questions"" good luck
5/27/2012 9:21:04 PM | Report
klause10 I always make a joke of it and say something like " hey i want to get to know you betteer so want to play questions"" good luck
5/27/2012 9:21:02 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 @*sTaRsTrUcK* You could just start off saying, “I think we should get to know each other more.” Then you can ask a question. He’s likely to answer and ask a question about you. Good luck! <3
3/6/2012 12:40:59 AM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* The only problem is that whenever I ask him a question he answers it, and then I have to ask another question to keep the conversation going. How can I make it not seem like a Q and A session?
3/6/2012 11:33:28 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 There’s really nothing wrong with a Q&A session if u think about it. It’s kinda like a game. Just asking questions back and forth. It’s fun! :)
3/13/2012 12:40:00 AM | Report
steff12345 I need advice i think my crush likes me back but i am not sure. Any advice....
3/3/2012 8:05:26 PM | Report
hottie1250 if your crush likes you he should be suddenly like whispering and claming up when your around and you will probably hear some rumors around school.
3/28/2012 9:01:56 PM | Report
steff12345 I need advice i think my crush likes me back but i am not sure. Any advice....
3/3/2012 8:02:33 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* If your looking for some more options, try the Maximum Ride books by James Patterson, or the Maze Runner trilogy by James Dashner, or the Alex Rider series, even though they're "boy books".
3/3/2012 4:10:58 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 I really need advice. I want to get my crush’s cell # but I have no idea how to approach this subject or without letting on that I like him. Also my friends don’t know I like him. Please help! I’m really shy.
3/3/2012 2:52:50 AM | Report
steff12345 i need advice to i dont know if my crush likes me back, i think he does but i am not sure.
3/3/2012 4:43:59 PM | Report
kaeliestar i really need guy advice.i have a crush on this guy and he knows and i dident have to tell him,im fine with that but i want to know how he feels about me... how do i figure this out?
3/3/2012 1:42:22 PM | Report
Esparkle the guy i like is also my neighbor and one of my guy friends we hangout every once in a while but one day he can be super nice but then the next day he is super mean to me and calls me names what should i do why cant he just be nice or mean to me?
3/2/2012 11:29:50 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 @Esparkle Could be he’s nervous. But that’s just like boys at my school. Nice one second, then stupid the next. It’s a mystery really…
3/3/2012 2:50:44 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @714st- Thank you so much! It's just that I really love this club, it's really relaxing to just come home and log on. Help with problems, share advice, and just chat. :) I'm really grateful to be a part of this club. <3
2/26/2012 4:25:53 PM | Report
Megan328 i REALLY need a book with like 200 pages for a sixth grader!! i already read the hunger games
2/28/2012 4:11:57 PM | Report
Featherr.♥ Hey(: I just wanted to know if there is an ultimate test to see if you like a guy. Like, I don't know if I like this guy or not so I was wondering if there was a way I can find out for sure. Fabulous club BTW!(:
2/27/2012 10:51:20 PM | Report
gymbabe hey im a newgirl so please like me u guys seem cool .
2/27/2012 7:57:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girlie, welcome to the club! We are glad to have you! :) If you need anything, just ask! <3
3/1/2012 3:35:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girlies! So since Prom is coming around the corner, I want to ask you, are you going? Do you go all out with the limo and 5 inch heels, or just chill with your girls? I'm genuinely interested, so comment below and give me all your thoughts! <3
2/26/2012 4:23:43 PM | Report
GT23 I go all the way with heels and a great dress but not a limo
2/28/2012 7:35:31 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy That's great! I probably won't get a limo either... at-least not until my senior year ;)
3/1/2012 3:34:14 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @ccjoker16- If you both like eachother and you know it (for some reason that made 'I'm sexy and I Know It' by LMFAO pop into my head :P LOL) then you should just ask him! Girls can make the first move too. We can't trust the guy's with everything. ;)
2/26/2012 4:20:24 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @heaher99- So you like the guy even though you hate each other? Alright, don't fret! Having mixed feelings at our age is totally okay! It's all in the hormones, girlie. Try slowly rebuilding your friendship then moving from there. Good luck! <3
2/26/2012 4:13:38 PM | Report
heather99 I know, its confusing... but thanks sooo much you are a life saver!
2/27/2012 7:26:17 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy No problem, girl! I love to help out <3
3/1/2012 3:33:31 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @phelpspug- I suggest you use the same advice I gave #coldplay but I also want to add in this: If you don't like him, then you should (gently!!!) let him know that you don't feel the same way, but you still want to preserve your friendship. You don't want to lead him on, because then when everyhting collapses, it would be way awkward. :/
2/26/2012 4:10:43 PM | Report
7714st Gosh, Lex, I was all worried 'cause I've been so busy lately, but you're holding up things well! I've got to say, I think I chose a good VP. :)
2/25/2012 11:11:03 PM | Report
ccjoker16 i have a question what do u do if there is a guy that you like and u both like each other your dads are friends how would u ask each other out ??? pleas help me
2/26/2012 3:07:10 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 I just have a little tip that I learned from experience…if your crush is taken you shouldn’t just forget about him. People break up like *that* all the time. You don’t wanna wait around desperately, but don’t throw away your crush for nothing.
2/26/2012 3:42:06 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @coldplay12- Do you like him? If your feeling bold, you can just march up to him and point-blank ask him about it. Just say that are some rumors going around and you want to know if you should squash them, or not. ;)
2/21/2012 8:06:40 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @*sTaRsTrUcK*- Yes, I am going to Prom, and since this is my first time I am SO FREAKING EXCITED!!!! <3 I'm still browsing for dresses though, I have a few tough choices to make. :P
2/21/2012 7:59:05 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* It's my first time too, and I am way nervous! But excited at the same time!
2/25/2012 10:12:03 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @heather99- If your not sure if that girls his GF try this: The next time you see them chatting in the hallway, wait until she leaves then approach him. Say something like "I love your girlfriend's bag (scarf, earrings, etc. you get the picture :P) do you know where she got it?" and he should striaghten things out.
2/20/2012 6:30:20 PM | Report
heather99 Um idk if I can because we kinda hate each other... but i don't <3... Anyways, how can I get him to be my friend again?
2/24/2012 4:00:46 PM | Report
heather99 idk if I can because his possible GF is one of my friends so he would ask me "Why didn't you ask her?", and... we are kinda enemies... how can I be friends wit him again
2/24/2012 3:56:51 PM | Report
coldplay12 My best guy friend had or has a crush on me and i dont trust his friend because they all say he doesn't. I really want to know because he flits with me all the time. What do i do?
2/20/2012 6:56:59 PM | Report
phelpspug @Coldplay12- same thing here...he would always make fun of me until he said he like me and now i don't know what to do!
2/25/2012 8:46:59 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @1han44- You can get your best wing(girl) to send him a note that simply says would you like to go out with ____? and then a yes and no box that he can check. That should clear things up. :)
2/20/2012 6:26:56 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @*sTaRsTrUcK* Congratulations girlie! I'm so happy for you! <3 If your looking for a cute gown I love AnnaProm.com ;)
2/20/2012 6:24:56 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* Thanks, but I've had a dress since July (my mom bought it on sale for $99!) so I'm set! It's fuchsia with some pretty sparkly stuff. It's hard to explain, but I really like it :) Are you going to prom? or, are you old enough?
2/20/2012 10:34:49 PM | Report
ccjoker16 just asking how is $99 on sale my mom would think that is outrages
2/26/2012 3:02:16 PM | Report
cutiecayley333 its actually a pretty good price, considering its a dress, and what the original price might have been.
2/28/2012 4:47:21 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @*sTaRsTrUcK*- Sorry I'm just now seeing this! :/ But anyways... does your friend know how you feel about D? If not, you should try talking to her and sorting things out. <3
2/19/2012 7:37:14 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* It's all good now. He talked to me twice this weekend and asked me to prom...and I said yes! I was really happy when he asked me, so maybe I liked him more than I thought! <3
2/20/2012 10:10:45 AM | Report
swimmergirl36 omg congrats
2/22/2012 9:44:26 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* Thanks!! :D
3/3/2012 4:09:55 PM | Report
1han44 So, this guy likes me, and I like him. I've been to his house, met his fam, exchanged flowers of v-day, but we are still just friends. I'm to shy to ask him to be my bf, but is there anyway to ask me without me making it obvious?
2/20/2012 1:11:51 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @geeklychic_avalon- I'm glad you want to be a larger part of this club, but I don't think we're looking for any officers right now, sorry! But whenever 7714st needs more help, she'll make an announcement! :)
2/18/2012 10:33:38 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @NancyDrew1997- It sucks whenever your crush is taken, but if he is not available then you should definitely start keeping your eyes out for the next cutie. :)
2/16/2012 4:09:50 PM | Report
geeklychic_avalon can i be treasurer?please!
2/17/2012 6:51:31 PM | Report
geeklychic_avalon can i be the treasurer????? please!!!!!!!!!!!
2/17/2012 6:49:54 PM | Report
7714st @N001-You did the right thing. Go with him, and have fun! But don't act like you like him if you don't. Just be friendly.
2/14/2012 9:55:37 PM | Report
heather99 I ud to like ths one guy in 4th grade, and now i think i might like him again.... but idk if he has a GF... we kinda ad a fall out with each other when we hated each other... what should i Do? I thnk i might like a few guys though... HELP!
2/20/2012 4:03:44 PM | Report
NancyDrew 1997 I recently found out that my crush is going with a girl i know. im heart broken,should i move to someone else?
2/15/2012 8:28:16 PM | Report
kewauneegal kind of the same problem i have...
2/17/2012 7:34:19 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy ♥ ♥ ♥ I just wanted to wish y'all a happy valentine's day! :)♥ ♥ ♥ *Luvs, Lexi*
2/14/2012 8:25:50 PM | Report
7714st @*sTaRsTrUcK*- If D doesn't ask you first, find out what the girl who E asked decided. If you know whether or not he's going with her, your decision will be a lot easier. If D does ask you first, you should accept. You don't know whether or not E will eventually ask or not, so would you rather be dateless, or go with D? If E does ask you, answer whichever way your heart is telling you to. I can't decide that for you. Good luck!
2/13/2012 11:29:36 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* Well, E is going with the other girl. And I'm hoping D will ask me (so I don't have to go with someone that I don't really want to go with), but one of my friends might be talking to him about going to prom, and I don't know what to do about that....
2/17/2012 1:58:44 PM | Report
N001 um, i have a question but i dont know where to put it, theres this guy and he's like me since grade 5 and im grade 7 now and at the vday dance today he asked me to dance and i didn't wanna be mean and since hes kinda my fdriend,i said yes
2/14/2012 7:33:55 PM | Report
7714st @piggy99-It's totally normal. Although if he has a GF, I would advise looking for a new guy.
2/10/2012 6:41:32 PM | Report
kewauneegal ok i like this guy and my friend told him, and he likes her, but i like him and now he doesn't talk to me at all and when he does, he is a little rude. wat should i do?
2/12/2012 8:23:31 PM | Report
volleyballlovergirlie Just be nice to him even it he is being rude. He may just being trying to get you to not like him. It's okay though there are plenty or other guys!
2/13/2012 6:07:34 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 kewauneegal: u can’t make your crush change his mind about whom he likes, but the best thing u can do is try to be as polite as possible. u might also want to try finding a new crush. If he likes your friend and is rude to u, he’s not the right one.
2/13/2012 1:58:52 AM | Report
kewauneegal thx tommorrow eill be a really fun day its <3 s day
2/13/2012 7:23:10 PM | Report
7714st Sorry I've been absent recently...I'm back now!
2/9/2012 6:11:37 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* I’m in high school this year, and at my school freshmen can go to prom. If you remember from my other question about the guy who my friends were trying to set me up with (let’s call him D), well, they’re also trying to get me to go with him to prom. They’ve talked to some guys who were friends with him and they made it sound like he was going to ask me. But here’s the thing: I don’t know if I want to go with him! I was maybe hoping to go with someone else (E), but E already asked a sophomore to prom, and she said maybe. So what should I do? I know E a whole lot better, and I think it would be more fun and less awkward to go with him, but the sophomore he asked might say yes, and then D seems like my only choice. There are really not that many guys at my school? So, advice?
2/12/2012 1:19:22 PM | Report
volleyballlovergirlie E already asked someone so you know that it would not be right to ask E,because it would hurt the girl he asked. But if your uncoomrotalbe with D, then go with friends! You don't need a guy to have fun! And who knows maybe a senior will ask youtodanc
2/13/2012 6:12:37 PM | Report
Bbforever Ok I li
2/10/2012 2:15:19 AM | Report
Bbforever I like this boy at school and sometimes I catch him stare at me but when we were younnger we talked but now we barely talk dose he like me?
2/10/2012 7:37:08 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Bbforever-Look for more signs. Maybe he likes you, but maybe he wants to be friends. Try starting a small convo during free time @ school & see if he smiles, looks into your eyes, etc.
2/12/2012 3:54:44 AM | Report
volleyballlovergirlie He could! Try messaging him on Facebook or texting him. Flirt a bit!! :)
2/11/2012 9:26:15 PM | Report
piggy99 question. Is it bad to be nuts about a guy who has a girl friend? Even though she's a year younger than us?
2/9/2012 8:08:07 PM | Report
volleyballlovergirlie It's not bad, it's normal! I don't think it really matters that's she younger, she's still his. So just don't flirt because she may get mad
2/11/2012 9:28:38 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @madie5480 It sounds like he's trying to flirt but because he's shy he might not be the best at expressing it. If you encourage him by responding positively most likely he'll get braver and amp it up. :) Good Luck! <3 ~Lexi
2/7/2012 8:45:23 PM | Report
madie5480 wow. Thanks alot lexi! that totally makes sense <3
2/9/2012 3:41:25 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy No problem! That's why I'm here ;)
2/9/2012 6:25:04 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Esparkle Don't think of a boy as 'WAY out of your league' because that will just lower your self-esteem and that's never good. You shouldn't change just to impress a guy, be your awesome self and he will probably be able to spot your unique spark and apprecaite it. :) Good luck!
2/6/2012 9:42:14 PM | Report
madie5480 i REALLY like this guy.hes super nice really smart athletic and a bonus good looking.the problem:hes also really shy.idk if this is flirting but he does small stuff like high fives and plafully tries to trip me.we talk some and he stares at me.help!
2/7/2012 3:38:17 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Keybug566 If your not allowed to date in the first place then you shouldn't worry about dating and potentially ruining your friendship. If you date behind your parent's back it will most likely strain BOTH relationships and fill your life with tension. So tell him the truth and say that your parents are just not to comfortable with you dating at the moment, and that you don't want this to change anything in you rfriendship. Then when your parents finally give you their belssing, you'll be guilt-free and your relationship can prosper properly.
2/6/2012 9:39:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @hellokittyhasissues I love what #bdarrough commented, it's really good! However, in my personal opinion, he acted like a first class jerk. But I still <3 what #Bdarrough posted. :)
2/6/2012 9:33:52 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328 Lately, everyone seems to be infatuated with the Hunger Games, especially with the movie coming out in a matter of months. Personally, I have not read any of those books so I'm not certain how amazing they are. But you can check out my club Bookworms & Writers for good reads and book discussions. :)
2/6/2012 9:29:06 PM | Report
memedesigner7 i know whay its like to like someone but you cant express your feelings to him that happend to me once and i actually started dating him and found out he was a total jerk
2/9/2012 4:58:18 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Aww, I'm so sorry, memedesigner7! :( That must have sucked. :/ But on the brightside, you're now available and can find a sweet, caring, guy! <3
2/20/2012 11:49:28 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy You need to sit down with your chicas and express how you feel about your crush. See if they understand and maybe you girls can work something out, but that's really up to you girls. I don't get what your talking about with the nickname, sorry!
2/6/2012 9:26:11 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @RadKid985 Amp up the flirting, SHOW him your interested. But don't get caught in a cat-fight with your friend. You guy's will probably have to have a little chat (heart-to-heart) before either of you get serious with Mr. Studley. :)
2/6/2012 8:57:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @LoveYouMonkey There's an easy solution to this: start chatting him you whenever you can. The 5 minutes at your locker between classes, during lunch, after practice. Just find some time to chat and catch up. Don't forget to add that flirty smile. ;)
2/6/2012 8:49:12 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! I absolutely LOVE answering your girls' questions and I'm sorry if we have not yet gotten to your question but I spent all of today filming and it's pretty late where I am but I promise to get to all of your questions by tomorrow night!Thank you for understanding!(: XoXo- Lexi <3
2/5/2012 9:31:44 PM | Report
Esparkle the boy i like is wayy out of my leage what do i do
2/5/2012 9:56:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @*sTaRsTrUcK* I wouldn't date him just because all your friends are pushing you 2. If he's drinking (which is NOT GOOD) and that scares u (IT SHOULD) then that just proves my pint that he's probably to the one for u. U need 2 tell ur friends that ulike the gesture but you would appreciate it if they could tone it down.
2/5/2012 9:22:40 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @NewBoyxfan4ever Sorry but I don't really know how to respond! I would love to help you with anything else you need however! :)
2/5/2012 9:18:14 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @LoveDance27 Welcome back! Do you ever find him catching your eye and holding your gaze? Or maybe even just continuously glancing at you? Eye contact is a surefire way to see how someone feels about you. Try winking at him and gauge his reaction.
2/5/2012 9:16:50 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @westijm At our age you don't really have to worry about falling in love. Don't stress over it, we all have a natural spark for flirting. Just say hi and go from there. Just KNOWING he likes u should make things easier! :)
2/5/2012 9:14:05 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @10012740 He definitely sounds like he's interested in you but are you interested in him? Because he's definitely showing signs of affection towards you! <3
2/5/2012 9:10:14 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @jules0428 Confront him and tell him you'd really wish he'd stop spreading rumors about you. For the second part just read the advice I posted for #Esparkle's question.
2/5/2012 9:08:36 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy !ilovemyBF Ask her what's up with her, it sounds like you two need to have a serious conversation. If she's your best girlie she shouldn't be proclaiming her love to your BF. But talk things out with her and figure out what's up. Good luck!
2/5/2012 8:56:20 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Esparkle We get tons of questions asking how to get a guy to notice you and I always say the same thing. FLIRT! Casually bump into him, ask 4 help with your HW, just find some way to talk. Sometimes you have to take the first step and go from there.
2/5/2012 8:53:49 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @ilovemyBF That's not right. How do you know he likes them? Because if he's expressing affection to other girls then you two shouldn't be dating.
2/5/2012 8:50:34 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @izzygirl13 Well just because you two aren't sitting side by side that doesn't mean all contact has to cease. Take the initiative and strike up a convo in the halls or during lunch. Laso, don't be afraid to subtly flirt, show him u like him. :)
2/5/2012 8:44:09 PM | Report
7714st I just want to remind you all-never be afraid to ask a question. We are always here for you. (>'')> <(''<) Here's a hug for you all!
1/29/2012 3:58:06 PM | Report
IlovemyBF My boyfriend sometimes sits with 3 other girls that he likes at lunch
2/5/2012 1:05:17 PM | Report
Bitter_sweet How can you just sit there and let him do that to you? I'm not advising you to be pushy or do anything too drastic, but I think you should let him know your not too comfortable with his behavior. From there it really all depends on you.
2/5/2012 8:33:54 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 @IlovemyBF Ask your bf why he sits with these girls. If he likes them, why is he your boyfriend?
2/5/2012 1:40:24 PM | Report
IlovemyBF Well ik he loves me he says it multiple times a day
2/7/2012 8:54:56 PM | Report
Esparkle i have many problems about my crush first he way out of my leage 2nd he treats me like one of the guys 3rd he goes to a different school and is just my neighbor and always likes girls just from his school what should i do to get him to notice me
2/5/2012 2:02:26 AM | Report
MusikRox1999 @Esparkle Since you’re neighbors you can come out at the same time he does. If you’re good at, say, soccer you can dribble for a bit and see if he watches you. Believe me, a lot of guys like sporty girls.
2/5/2012 1:44:00 PM | Report
IlovemyBF One of my best friends told my boyfriend that SHE loved him. what do I do?
2/4/2012 5:37:56 PM | Report
jules0428 i have a huge issue! so the guy i like is friends with this other guy who thinks my friend and i stalk him and he is telling everyone!!! also my crush barely knows who i am!! what should i do?!?!?!?
2/4/2012 11:41:08 AM | Report
10012740 Their is this boy who i have known for a long time, and he stays across the street from my gran-dads. I heard that he has had a crush on me for 3 years, and he has stares me down, wrote me sweet love letters,and has sent me gifts in the mail.
2/3/2012 11:40:40 PM | Report
westijm I'm totally messed up when it comes to guys right now. I've never loved anyone before in my life, I've been afraid of love. I have a huge crush on a boy in my grade who obviously likes me and I don't know how to talk to him...HELP!!
2/3/2012 11:38:44 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 Hey im back !!!!! and dont know really what to say . Well there is this boy whos is kinda my friend and always comes to our parties but im not sure if he likes me. He only comes to my school every thursday because he is in gate please ask me more gtg
2/3/2012 11:00:43 PM | Report
NewBoyzfan4ever I have a crush on 3 guys. L, W, and K are all in my science class. I see L in my gym W in my humanities and math, and K in my humanities and english. I can talk to K but not to W or L. W lives nearby and L wont even try to talk back to me. To be cont
2/2/2012 7:55:34 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* So one of my kind-of friends is trying to set me up with this guy. I kinda liked him last year, but never enough that I would date him or something. She said that he might drink sometimes, and that really scares me. But now all of my friends (except my BFF) are in on trying to set us up! One gave him my number and made him text me, but he hasn't texted me since then. She goes over and sits by him at lunch and tells him to text me, but he says that he would if I would text him first. But I think the guy should be the one who texts first. She says he's nervous though, but so am I! What should I do about everyone trying to set us up, even though we barely ever talk during the school day? We sit by each other in two classes, but we still don't really talk. And yeah, he's kinda cute but I don't know if I'd actually want to date him just cause of other people's opinons. So help?!
2/1/2012 9:03:52 PM | Report
Selena Gomez1848 you should ask your friends if you can talk to them privately and tell your friends that you don't want to date him and that it was nice of them to try to help you but you can handle your life for yourself, thanks though!
2/2/2012 8:27:44 PM | Report
LoveYou Monkey I need some help :/ I have been friends with this guy since 2nd grade. I think it was love at first sight, i know i shouldn't be thinking about love or anything. But i really like him we used to talk a lot but we don't. I want him to be my boyfriend
2/1/2012 8:54:15 PM | Report
Selena Gomez1848 go up to him and ask him if you can talk to him. tell him that you want to be friends again like when you were little. then slowly work your way into his heart and you will be together in no time.
2/2/2012 8:30:35 PM | Report
LoveYou Monkey I need some help :/ I have been friends with this guy since 2nd grade. I think it was love at first sight, i know i shouldn't be thinking about love or anything. But i really like him we used to talk a lot but we don't. I want him to be my boyfriend
2/1/2012 8:54:12 PM | Report
radkid985 I've been texting a hot guy for a while. We both like to write songs. Another of my friends likes him to. Let's just say, being liked by girls isn't new for him. How can I show him that I'm different from other girls and that I'm the one for him?
1/31/2012 9:42:46 PM | Report
Selena Gomez1848 write him a love song that expresses your feelings
2/2/2012 8:33:35 PM | Report
kndixon72 I like this guy and He told me to call him Pit Stop 1ce but Is that the begning of a thing? I have liked him for a while now and I found out that my 4 BFFs like him too I liked him first but I don't want to tell him I also don't want 2 hurt my BFF's!
1/31/2012 6:39:13 PM | Report
Megan328 i need a good book for a 6 grader
1/31/2012 6:05:55 PM | Report
egarst4dogs Def. Hunger Games!!!!!
2/17/2012 10:55:29 PM | Report
Selena Gomez1848 read the boy project
2/2/2012 8:34:36 PM | Report
Megan328 so i didn't make her a card cause i didn't want her to come we ride the same bus and i would REALLY LOVE to sit with other people and she even told me i don't like ur friends! i don't want to be her best friends be friends9continue on to other comment
1/31/2012 3:52:39 PM | Report
Megan328 i have a friend and we have been friends for 4 years !But her family REALLY religious like no saying god or dating till there 17! I just had my party i didn't want to invite her and she had something going on 2 days before she told me she had nothing
1/31/2012 3:49:32 PM | Report
hellokittyhasissues I asked a guy if he liked me through a note and he repleied no and said that it was "sour" news and gave me a sour patch kid. we used to b friends but now he won't talk to me and I think he hates me what do i do????
1/29/2012 9:16:54 PM | Report
bdarrough98 id ask him when does it get sweet? hate is very harsh try working up the friendship and go from that! who knows maybe ur the sweet that comes after the sour in the metaphorical sour patch kid called life
1/30/2012 10:01:14 PM | Report
keybug566 I need advice on what to do!!! My friend told my crush to ask me out he said he would and he is going to tommorow BUT im not allowed to date! and he is a really good friend what if we break up we will never get that friendship we had before back!
1/29/2012 6:56:43 PM | Report
bdarrough98 mods b fast! tell him the truth that ur not allowed 2....if its meant 2 b he will understand
1/30/2012 10:02:59 PM | Report
coldplay12 hey keybug566, just tell the guy the truth. Blame it on your parents. don't worry i had the same problem but the guy never asked me out. hope this helps <3 coldplay12
1/30/2012 9:00:23 PM | Report
keybug566 I need advice on what to do!!! My friend told my crush to ask me out he said he would and he is going to tommorow BUT im not allowed to date! and he is a really good friend what if we break up we will never get that friendship we had before back!
1/29/2012 6:53:35 PM | Report
izzygirl13 and i'm just wondering how do i sort a talk to him without freezing up?Plus how do i even flirt with him?
1/29/2012 6:35:34 PM | Report
bdarrough98 um... try name dropping, hugs, smiles, changing up ur look, homework! anything to be close to him trust me he will notice ;D
1/30/2012 10:05:15 PM | Report
hellokittyhasissues If you get nervous about talking to him take a deep breathe and count to 10, B4 talking to him.
1/29/2012 9:22:34 PM | Report
hellokittyhasissues tell him you need help with the homework and say that your bff dosn't understand it or isn't there that way you are talking AND flirting, on the nxt assignment as to b his partner and say he's the smartest in the class.
1/29/2012 9:21:08 PM | Report
izzygirl13 Hey wondering if you could give some advice?I have this crush on this guy who i've known for my whole life.We used to be like BFFS when he sat next to me in a class but ever since we had to move seats he acts like we are just acquaintances.
1/29/2012 6:34:19 PM | Report
7714st @*sTaRsTrUcK*-Been there, done that. Do you have any common interests? Bring them up! Bugging about the amount of homework? Ask him about his load. It's always going to be hard to start a good convo, but the more you have in common, or the more you talk, the more likely the conversations will be less boring.
1/29/2012 3:28:36 PM | Report
7714st I'm not addressing anyone in particular here, but guys! I keep on telling you we're not looking for officers, and you keep asking. I'm not mad, I'm just saying that I'll let you know when I want officer applications. Please, I'm not trying to offend anyone, I promise.
1/27/2012 12:43:51 PM | Report
cutiecayley333 sorry...
1/29/2012 10:09:02 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* I could use some advice. So my crush FINALLY texted me, only it is about the most boring conversation I've ever had. I can NOT think of anything to talk about. HELP!?!?
1/28/2012 6:42:35 PM | Report
bdarrough98 right up my ally! take turns asking questions to get to know each other thats what i did with my bgf and we know all sorts of random things about one another lol try fav color or subject or food lol the possibilities are endless!
1/30/2012 10:07:46 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* Okay, thanks for the advice. I was having a major mind fart, but hopefully our conversations will become more interesting!
1/30/2012 10:49:46 PM | Report
7714st @lovelyhanali-What I'm hearing here is that you're with him because he's "hot." Really think. Is that the reason you're with him? If so, it's time to end it. If you're with him because you truly like him, then stick with it. I know it might be nerve wracking, but you could also make a move. I know my BF is kind of nervous when it comes to making moves, so take a step up, girl! Good luck!
1/27/2012 12:39:43 PM | Report
7714st @missycats22-As far as I can tell, he likes you. But the only way to tell for sure is to ask him, or get someone else to ask him. I hope everything goes well!
1/27/2012 12:35:48 PM | Report
7714st @LOVE DANCE 27-Let me tell you, my sister has the same problem. She's a pretty girl, and she has a great personality. But guys just don't seem to be attracted to her. Or if they are, they're not the kind of guy she would ever be into. Really think. Have guys not ever liked you? Or have guys liked you, just no one you had any interest in. A lot of girls feel like no one likes them, but in reality, there are people who like them, just not the kind of person they would be into. What you might need to do is be more open to different types of guys. If it's true the no guys like you, then they're missing out. Look around. What do guys around you like? If it's something you absolutely hate, then maybe you just need to not bother with guys. If they don't care about you, you don't kneed to care about them.
1/27/2012 12:27:01 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy My boyfriend is over and I'm texting my BGF. I am happy. :)
1/23/2012 7:47:27 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Are you assigning jobs? If so, I would love to be Secretary. Please let me know ASAP. Thanks <3
1/26/2012 8:50:29 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 to say !!! Boy r nice to me and make me laugh sometimes but never actually LIKE me . I dont want to flirt to much .
1/25/2012 8:26:51 PM | Report
missycats22 hay can u answer my question its in comets
1/25/2012 3:35:13 PM | Report
lovelyhanali MY boyfriend is super hot and all but I;m not sure if I still like him because he is getting all boring and won;t make a move what should I do?
1/24/2012 7:30:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @bdarrough98 Sorry but I didn't get your question! :P
1/23/2012 4:24:24 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 Hey :) !!!! I NEEEEEEEEEDDDD HELP !!!! A boy has never liked me before and i dont know why . I mean ya one of my kinda friends is a boy but he doesent actually LIKE me.I am pretty ( i think ? ) and talk to them but i guess sometimes i dont know what
1/25/2012 8:24:47 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @PrettyPig09 It sounds to me like he could like you, and what do you mean by out of your league? You are probably an awesome girl and he should get the chance to know that! :) ~<3 Lexi
1/23/2012 4:22:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @jmtkwalshgirl There are some questions that only YOU can answer. 1.) Do you like your GBF? and 2.) Are you willing to take the chance and potentially ruin your friendship? Do you think that if you 2 break up your strong enough to still be close? No I'm definitely not telling you to not go for it, I'm just stelling you to consider some importnat aspects. <3 Lexi
1/23/2012 4:20:32 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy *Now and *important sorry my typing's so bad today! :P
1/23/2012 4:23:55 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @ESparkle If that loser got some random dude you don't even know to dump you, and THROUGH THE PHONE, then I bid him adieu. He clearly doesn't deserve you. So catch the eye of that cutie in math, because Hun, you are available. ;) ~Lexi <3
1/23/2012 4:17:39 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MyRoses101 Try 'accidentally' bumping into him, he can't ignore you then! Then once you have his attention spark up a convo. Good Luck! :) ~Lexi <3
1/23/2012 3:58:39 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328 Alright so every girl has the whole period talk at some point in there time and I guess now's your. So for some background: girls usually start puberty in between the ages of 8-13. But each girl is unique so if your a little early or late that's fine. Usually about 2 to 2½ years after girls' breasts start to develop; they get their first menstrual period. So your weight doesn’t really affect when you get your period, someone can be 8 years old and weigh 80 pounds and get there’s or a 14 year old who weighs 120 pounds can get hers for the first time. Everyone’s cycle is different. :) As long as you’re at a healthy weight for your age then it just takes some patience. (And trust me, it’s nothing to get excited about :P) ~Lexi <3
1/23/2012 3:55:17 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy I tried to make this as un-awkward as possible! If you have any other questions that you feel are too personal to post on here, leave them on my profile and I will answer them personally. <3 Lexi
1/23/2012 3:58:30 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @tamara2012 If it's already set that the feeling is mutual than YOU ask HIM out! If you feel feel like you aren't ready to spend V-Day with him then plan something casual AFTER so there's no pressure. You got this ;) ~Lexi <3
1/23/2012 3:42:29 PM | Report
7714st Okay, I'm joining the bandwagon. A little about me: Do I have a boyfriend? Yes, his name is Hank, and he's wonderful. How long have we been together? 14 months. :D Pets? 14 of 'em. Siblings? four of 'em. I'm the middle child. Have I had my first kiss yet? Yes, and it was with Hank. Definitely awkward, but not too bad. It was 7 months ago, and it kind of was the fairy tale kiss I imagined. Not what I was hoping for, but still great. I'm his first GF. Another thing: I'm thinking of going to boarding school next year. If so, we're going to try long distance. Any other q's? Just ask either here or on my profile, and I'll do a weekly question answer or something. As long as it's not too personal.
1/20/2012 10:15:48 PM | Report
PrettyPig09 Ok i need advice. My friend says this guy always stares at me and smiles at me and tries to make me laugh. I feel like he likes me but I'm not sure. He hasn't made a move but i don't know if i should make one because he's outta my league. Any advice?
1/22/2012 4:50:40 PM | Report
jmtkwalshgirl My BGF and I are really close. He's dated a lot of girls and those girls hate him now... what should I do? he's been wanting to go out but I deny him.
1/22/2012 12:25:16 PM | Report
Esparkle my boyfriend and i broke up and he was like my best friend and i did everything with him and talked to him all the time how can i get over him and also should i be mad he had his friends that i dont even know dump me over the phone
1/22/2012 10:53:40 AM | Report
bdarrough98 i really have a thing 4 my bgf.we text all the time, he gives me hugs,and pinkie promises,and always tries to make me feel better. today i told him i missed him earlier and he pinkie promised to text me as long as he possibly could and to play his fa
1/21/2012 3:40:50 PM | Report
tamara2012 My crush told me that he likes me and I told him that I like him. But he hasn't officially asked me out or asked me to be his girlfriend of anything like that, and it's valentine's day and a school dance in less that a month. What should I do?
1/21/2012 3:37:09 AM | Report
cutiecayley333 Could I please have a position? here's a little about me: 1) I LOVE giving advice! 2) I'm part of Many clubs and post often;multiple times a day. 3) I get on GL about 2-3, if not more times a day (yeaa...im a little obsessed lol) 4) I specialize in giving advice, art, fashion, beauty, dancing, and cooking. It would mean SO much to me if you gave me a position :D thx so much! XOXO - Cayley
1/20/2012 11:36:38 PM | Report
7714st @camijam-This girl is obviously looking for attention. But don't give her it. Ignore her. Tell other people, not her, that she's a liar, and acting like a jerk. If this continues, please see your school counselor.
1/20/2012 10:06:19 PM | Report
7714st Hey, sorry I've been MIA...back now!
1/20/2012 10:03:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @starrywolf It seems like he's having mixed feelings. So he's super sweet out of school but totally ignores you in public? You should try approaching HIM in school because no matter what any gender-bias male says guys don't have to do everything. GIrls have a vioce to! :) But be careful becuase you don't want to become to vulenarble and end up getting hurt!
1/20/2012 3:24:13 PM | Report
camijam My former best friend keeps gossiping about me. I tried telling her but she just ends up telling everyone I'm a liar and a meanie. It has been going on for years and i am fed up, What do I do?
1/20/2012 5:19:16 PM | Report
starrywolf well, theres kinda a reason. im in 8th grade and he's a year older than me (in high school)so we dont see each other much in the first place but still.....
1/20/2012 3:59:01 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Did anyone watch the new Jane by Design last night? Would you keep your relationship a secret like Lulu or Billy or do you not care what people think about YOUR love life, I mean it is yours, right? Blog about it below babes! (LOL the GL people say that all the time. <3)
1/18/2012 4:34:47 PM | Report
starrywolf I see my crush everyday after school when we're waiting for our bus, he always seems really comfortable around me and we're always joking with each other about the stupidest things. in school he never even acknowledges me. do you think he's into me?
1/19/2012 9:33:27 PM | Report
missycats22 PART-2:he asked me if i was going to this dance(but not with him)he asked me if i wanted it sit with him (with his friends) but also he did'nt seem to pay attention to me ...that much do u think he likes me?
1/20/2012 4:28:00 PM | Report
Esparkle my friend is flirting with my boyfriend and its making me mad what should i do
1/18/2012 7:55:38 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @LoveDane27 Hey girl, sorry I'm just now getting to your question but I just now saw it. So sorry! But you can always try the good old fashioned "accidental" run-in. Maybe your books slipped out of your hand at his feet, or you were pushed into him. You decide; either way would definitely help you catch his attention and start conversation. Just don’t hurt yourself! ;) XoXo- Lexi
1/17/2012 4:10:46 PM | Report
missycats22 PART-1:I have this crush on this boy we're really close firends when i was geting out of the car at school he said hi when i embarrass in front of class he wisbers in my ear its ok he asks me if i want to do homework with him...
1/20/2012 4:06:42 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Alright girls I guess since you all tell me about your lives I should clue you in on my love life (especially since I keep getting comments and requests from you girls- in the most random of places/clubs! lol :D) with a quick Q/A session! So the Question I always, always, always get asked is do I have a boyfriend? Yes, I do have a boyfriend, his name is Daniel and we have been going out for a little bit over a year and a half now. <3 Another common question is what do I look like? I’m just going to cut to the chase: everyone says I look like Audrey Hepburn so if you know what she looks like there you go… if you don’t, then Google her. ;D For some reason everyone asks about my dog. I do have a toy poodle who will be two years old in March. Let me just get one thing straight right now: he is not a “toy” toy (like a stuffed animal), he is a toy as in the fact that he’s miniature! However he is a toy poodle, not a miniature poodle, there is a difference. Yes his name is Yoshi, no I did not name him; my Dad did. :P Now for the last question- Have you had your first kiss? Do you have any tips on how can I have mine without it being to awkward? Yes I did have my first kiss (with Daniel) not too terribly long ago and no I’m not going to say it was magical, and perfect, and felt like I was kissing a chocolate covered angel (or something ridiculous like that!) because truthfully, it wasn’t. We were a little awkward but it was my first time, so how could I be a pro? But I believe that if it’s with the right person at the right time then it will be pretty awesome… and a lot awkward. :) SO that’s the end of this short questionnaire and if I didn’t get to your question in this session I’m sorry, but I will try to get to it in my next one! If you want to submit a list of questions, please, please, please, leave them on my PROFILE, not in one of my random clubs! XoXo- Lexi
1/17/2012 3:58:07 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328 There's no need to freak out, it's just your hormones, sweating at your age is totally normal! You just have to find the deodorant that works for you and you have to take showers daily as well. Applying it after you get out of the shower works best! :) XoXo- Lexi
1/17/2012 3:23:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy (cont'd) conversations and smiles your way? If you feel like your getting a good vibe from him then amp up the flirting and see how he responds to your message. :) Good Luck! <3 XoXo- Lexi
1/17/2012 3:19:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @GET99 First off I wanted to thank you for your comment on my profile but since your profile is not visible I'll put it on here :) Now to answer your question: Do you ever catch him looking at you or find him constantly around? Does he start (cont'd)
1/17/2012 3:18:27 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @LoveDance27 No problem, I love to answer your girls' questions! :)
1/16/2012 11:11:46 AM | Report
GET99 hey im 12 and i really like this guy. how do i know if he likes me?
1/16/2012 7:38:29 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 Hey i have one more question for ya , how should i get his attention ?
1/16/2012 3:29:22 PM | Report
Megan328 I'm 12 and i sweat SO much i have pit stains there really noticeable I'm NOT nervous!!!! how can i stop sweating does putting deodorant on at night really help?!?!?!
1/16/2012 2:30:57 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @LoveDance27 There seems like there could be some potential there but before you get into anything and get hurt does he do that with all the girls? Does he has a reputation? (Is he a player?) If not then he seems like he's into you but u need to flirt And gauge his reaction on your own. If you send the signals and he responds, amp it up a little. Before you know it you’ll be sharing popcorn at the movies! :) Good Luck! XoXo- Lexi <3
1/14/2012 10:54:06 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 thanks for the advice !!!!
1/15/2012 11:00:21 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Megan328 I usually take night showers like #cutiecayley because I love feeling clean in bed (lol :D) and I'm not a good morning person, so I don't like to wake up early to shower, dry my hair and everything when I already have to wake up at 5 AM :(
1/14/2012 10:50:08 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! Sadly I'm grounded for 12-14 days so I might not be on that often for the next 2 weeks but I'm trying to sneak on whenever I can! :)
1/12/2012 3:27:28 PM | Report
LOVE DANCE 27 so there is this guy at my school and i think he likes me but im not sure he smiles at me makes me laugh and is always comes to my desk but i dont know if he likes me.He likes to talk to me but during break at school he plays football does he like me
1/14/2012 3:26:51 PM | Report
Megan328 day showers VS. night showers i take my showers at night because I'm not an early bird and its easier to take my showers at night my hair is really thick and it would take forever to dry but still night VS. day PS please answer!!!
1/14/2012 9:56:44 AM | Report
cutiecayley333 I take my showers at night because i don't want to feel dirty when i got to sleep, just think about it;you're nice bed is covered in your dirt and you're sleeping in it...:/ lol
1/14/2012 5:25:04 PM | Report
Megan328 thanks for the advice i see we are lacking a TREASURER can i please be it?!?!?!?!?
1/15/2012 9:00:56 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @abbiefaith If you really like him and he likes you back, why not? Go for it! But first, do you think you two can handle something like a long distance relationship? And think about *why* you broke up with him in the first place. ;)
1/11/2012 8:59:08 PM | Report
7714st @aqua27036-Glad to help!
1/10/2012 6:45:50 PM | Report
abbiefaith I need help :P so I went out with this guy last year I still had feelings for him when I broke up with him and then I moved we havent seen each other for a year and now we are back in touch I really do like him and I think he likes meshould we go out
1/10/2012 9:40:08 PM | Report
Lilester22 Only ask if you c eachother often :)
1/12/2012 1:27:20 AM | Report
7714st @aqua27036-The only way to know is to try. If you don't ask him out now, he might move on. I don't know your relationship with him, so I may be wrong, but good luck!
1/9/2012 5:47:56 PM | Report
aqua27036 Thx for the advice :) I really needed it :) i was unsure of what to do and your advice made total since so thank you for replying so quickly :)
1/9/2012 5:54:00 PM | Report
7714st @MusikRox1999-He could just be friendly. Get a friend to confront him-it's the best way to know for sure!
1/8/2012 9:32:17 PM | Report
aqua27036 I have this best guy friend and we both like each other and have told one another but he is on a seperat campus so im not sure if we should start dating because i get super jealous and im afraid it will ruin our realtionship. Please help ASAP thx :)
1/8/2012 9:41:14 PM | Report
7714st @Esparkle-Then make one yourself! I'm a believer in girl power, and you need to take things into your own hands here. Peace, love, and good luck to you!
1/8/2012 9:28:46 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @bdarrough There are tons of people who go around hugging others without really meaning anything other than friendship. I know I get hugged all the time in school but I don't take it as anything serious. It's up to you to determine if he might like you or if he just thinks you’re a great friend. Try flirting and see how he responds. Drop subtle hints and try holding his gaze. You never know ;) Good luck!
1/7/2012 12:57:27 PM | Report
USAChick23 I need help! This cute guy asked me out and I said yes. we broke up a year l8r. 3 years from then he asks me again and I say yes bc I still like him. Then his Best friend told him a lie and he broke up with me! I still like him n Ik he still likes me
1/13/2012 7:13:37 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Please help! I think my guy friend has a crush on me. He’s always so nice to me, more than any other girls, he always seems really happy when I’m around or talking to him, he makes it a point to say hi to me every day, he likes to tease me in a fun way, and last week when I passed him in the hall, he smiled and waved, even though he was with all his friend. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? If anyone has an opinion, please tell me!
1/8/2012 12:30:53 AM | Report
Esparkle my boyfriend will not make a move
1/7/2012 10:54:01 PM | Report
bdarrough98 im gonna do ok i know it
1/7/2012 8:42:45 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @jmtkwalshgirl I agree with #bdarrough98 but eye contact and showing him you interested as well is also important! :)
1/6/2012 3:29:33 PM | Report
bdarrough98 otay so u know how y'all told me to go 4 it well two of the girls in my class say that he hugs them too i really really love hime but idk wat 2 do
1/6/2012 11:12:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! Are you trying to snatch that cutie in your class this new year? Check out this link: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/27/Make-2012-your-year-to-have-a-BF.aspx
1/1/2012 4:11:30 PM | Report
bdarrough98 @jmtkwalshgirl- honestly you need to just ask him out if you already know he likes you you shouldn't have to worry about rejection my advice JUST GO FOR IT!!! GoOd LuCk!!!
1/4/2012 10:47:27 PM | Report
jmtkwalshgirl Thanks so much I'll give it a shot! :)))))))))
1/5/2012 4:50:45 PM | Report
jmtkwalshgirl I know a guy likes me. How do I ask him out? :(
1/4/2012 8:25:33 PM | Report
7714st @bdarrough98-Girl, all you need to do is make it official! I know the guy is supposed to ask the girl out, but unconventional may be the way to go! My advice: Just ask him out. It may be scary, but do it! I asked out my guy, and things are going great-this will be our second new years together! I wish you peace, love, and good luck!
12/31/2011 5:54:19 PM | Report
bdarrough98 sigh ok but I'm chicken he's pretty popular especially with the girls I'm really afraid of rejection what if he were to say no id feel so stupid for hoping for so long any ideas on how to do that?
1/1/2012 3:02:49 AM | Report
bdarrough98 I'm too afraid my best bud said so to but i'm very traditional and he's really popular especially with girls in my class but i think i may try on the fifth its my birthday so maybe... thanx :D
12/31/2011 7:43:25 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @7714st I'm with you on that one! :)
12/31/2011 3:48:42 AM | Report
bdarrough98 at can i do. we already hug before and after school and promise to text each other on his way home because we can't later 'cause he doesn't get service where he lives please help if you could answer sometime before january 3rd i'd be so grateful :)
12/31/2011 10:44:39 AM | Report
bdarrough98 hey can i ask a question? i like my bgf and i've tried to make it get past friend zone for almost 3 years now. i don't know what to do people are frequently asking us if we're dating and since we aren't we say no but i can't help but think i wish. wh
12/31/2011 10:41:50 AM | Report
7714st @LexilicousCandy-Yup :) Going over to a party in my BF's neighborhood for New Years. :)
12/30/2011 9:30:14 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @novalesko I know how you feel, and I still have a whole other week of Winter Break left! It seems endless and as dorky as it sounds I can't wait to get back to school! But don't let it get you down! You can still invite your friends on a fun GNO! :)
12/30/2011 9:28:18 PM | Report
novalesko I am so excited for tonight! My friends are coming over. We hang out EVERY new years eve. We watch barbie movies and put on plays for fun. Its a big joke.
12/31/2011 10:30:04 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Anyone have someone to kiss on midnight on New Years?
12/30/2011 12:06:29 AM | Report
novalesko no. I don't even have a boyfriend right now. It's such a bummer. Bored out of my mined because i'mm on winter break and don't know what to do.
12/30/2011 9:39:17 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! It's midnight so my groundings officially over :) So what's up with everyone? What are you doing for New Years?
12/30/2011 12:06:00 AM | Report
7714st Do you all believe in fate?
12/27/2011 3:38:04 PM | Report
lolsmileyfaceri Yeah how else do you think you would have found out about cute boy.
12/29/2011 10:28:07 PM | Report
kittycat45689 I f ur crush gets a bad grade on a test, don't tell someone else when he is right next to u. i speak from self experience
12/28/2011 9:36:32 AM | Report
kittycat45689 no. only some things happen for a reason like, a party, the world being created, weddings, stuff like that. i don't believe in fate.
12/28/2011 9:34:50 AM | Report
hermione&ron Yeah! I mean we were all put here for a reason and everything happens for a reason!
12/27/2011 4:53:12 PM | Report
kittycat45689 that may be true,but most likely not. everything happens a different way. some things do, but others don't.
12/28/2011 9:32:55 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Awww my Christmas tree came out wacky! :P
12/25/2011 12:24:32 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Merry Christmas girlies! Hope y'all have an amazing day &&& may all your holiday wishes come true! :) *Holiday Cheer* ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨★ ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨** ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨*o* ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨¨*♥*o* ¨¨¨¨¨¨¨***o*** ¨¨¨¨¨¨**o**♥*o* ¨¨¨¨¨**♥**o**o** ¨¨¨¨**o**♥***♥*o* ¨¨¨*****♥*o**o**** ¨¨**♥**o*****o**♥** ¨******o*****♥**o*** ****o***♥**o***o***♥ * ¨¨¨¨¨____!_!____ XoXo- Lexi <3
12/25/2011 12:24:01 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy (: Me too :)
12/23/2011 9:13:56 PM | Report
7714st I came here to check on you guys, but then I got distracted by the fact that we have 1111 members. It kind of made me smile. :)
12/23/2011 6:53:16 PM | Report
7714st @GirlyGirl4455- Sorry, girl, but we're not looking for any more officers at the moment. If I ever need more, I'll send out a notice. Peace, Love, and Holiday Cheer- 7714st
12/22/2011 3:22:10 PM | Report
7714st @Esparkle-I swear, it's like some of you girls have the exact same q's as I do-just a couple of months later. One way to make it happen is to stand in front of him, face to face, and tell him you're gonna miss him. If he agrees you could hold out your arms in the international "hug?" gesture. He should pick right up on the hint. Good luck, and Happy Holidays!
12/20/2011 10:11:26 PM | Report
GirlyGirl4455 Hey 7714st! Can i be treasurer? I am great at giving advice on guys and middle school! I am in middle school and have a bf. My bf and i have been together for 1 month. we are perfect for each other! Yay! <3 I've also gone through many breakups:(
12/21/2011 1:08:29 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @7714st Thanks! It's just that I'm on Winter Break and my BF is gone so I've had nothing to do so I check GL like every 15 minutes... LOL You can have the next questions if you want :)
12/19/2011 5:56:43 PM | Report
purpleiluv k' i have a question for you! I like one of my guy friends and he comes over like at least once a month i think he likes me and i really like him how do i know for sure? And if he does like me how should i ask him to be my Bf!
1/13/2012 7:46:54 PM | Report
Lissa10 Ok guys if you are looking for another club to join, I have one called "Got Problems?" You can write about any problems you have or just talk!! Please join ( It has no members yet)
12/20/2011 5:28:04 PM | Report
Esparkle my christmas break starts on wensday and i want to give my boyfriend a hug because i already know i am going to miss him but i never have before how should i ask him or do it at the end of the day without it being aqward my lockers by his
12/19/2011 6:01:30 PM | Report
Lissa10 Well one way is to run up to him from the back and giveh im a hug. you can say guess who or something... or maby you could hug him from the front. you could say something like im going to miss you
12/20/2011 3:38:35 PM | Report
7714st Hey Lex. Thanks for being concerned. :) Some of my friends have just been having issues lately, and it's been affecting me too. I'm feeling much better now though! And thank so much for being so fast with your responses! I swear, I'm not even needed! :) <3
12/19/2011 4:53:31 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Agrin12321 Hello! Welcome to All Girls Club, we're glad to have another member! (Only 6 more until we reach 1100! Spread the word!) You can just post if you have any questions or situations you need help with and we'll help you! :)
12/19/2011 4:16:19 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Lissa10 I'm not sure, it sounds like there's mixed signals. It's highly likely that he likes you but maybe you had something on your face that day? Either way you need to straighten this out and talk to him.
12/19/2011 4:14:22 PM | Report
Lissa10 what do you mean i might have had something on my face?
12/20/2011 3:40:49 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @hotbhelleraelover (Sorry if I spelled that wrong!) Try "accidentally" bumping into him in the hallway, talking in between classes, and then start flirting! :) Don't forget to smile ;)
12/19/2011 12:02:39 PM | Report
Agrin12321 Hey Im new here and wat do we do here
12/19/2011 4:01:21 PM | Report
Lissa10 at me. And the other day I was talking and he said I don't care sarcastically and his friend who was sitting next to him said "yes you do." So does he like me or not? Let me know if you need more info
12/19/2011 3:45:39 PM | Report
Lissa10 I don't know if this guy likes me... So I catch him staring at me and he catches me staring at him. My friend catches him staring too. We both catch him staring from across the lunch room. And every day when he passes me to go to his table he looks
12/19/2011 3:43:50 PM | Report
pepper444 OMG! Same thing happens, about the staring part, but he cuts my conversations with friends and says hi to the ones he know. Well, he doesn't look at them when he says hi, he looks at me. He does that a lot.
12/26/2011 6:09:57 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @koalamaruboo If you problem is longer than 250 characters (I seriously hate this limit! :P) you can type it up on word document (or whatever else you have like pages, email, ect.) then just copy and paste it as a comment! :) XOXO- Lexi <3
12/18/2011 7:16:56 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @christineah111 + too_cute_cute_for_you Check this out: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/12/02/10-awesome-gifts-for-your-guy.aspx or you could always just bake him some delicious brownies! :)
12/18/2011 7:14:22 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Esparkle Maybe he just misses you and is jealous that your going out with his best friend. You have 2 options: 1.) Confront him and ask him WTH(eck)is his problem. or... 2.) Try your best to ignore him & see if he stops.
12/17/2011 10:36:14 AM | Report
koalamaruboo How do i post a question?!?!?!
12/18/2011 11:00:00 AM | Report
too_cute_for_you so i need some help..the guy i like recently asked me out, so now i have a boyfriend..and i have NO IDEA what to get him for christmas! i know hes getting me something, so i would feel bad if i didnt get him anything.
12/17/2011 3:25:03 PM | Report
christineah111 I'm going thru the same thing right now! My mom said to just knit him a scarf (I'm a fairly decent knitter) and he'll like it because I made it. I didn't have a better idea so that's what I'm doing! Get your BF something small but symbolic.
12/17/2011 11:44:51 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you i still have no idea what to get though. like as of today we've been going out for four days. by christmas, it'll only have been like 11 days or something like that. i don't want to get him something he won't like.
12/18/2011 11:36:53 AM | Report
too_cute_for_you so i need some help..the guy i like recently asked me out, so now i have a boyfriend..and i have NO IDEA what to get him for christmas! i know hes getting me something, so i would feel bad if i didnt get him anything.
12/17/2011 3:25:01 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy OK I need help like right now! I'm FB chatting with my crush and we were friends when we were really little and we're just now meeting each other again and we were talking about childhood memories of us together but IDK what to say now! What can I say to keep the conversation going? Please help ASAP!!!!
12/16/2011 9:58:13 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you tell him those were good times, or something to show you like him, but in a subtle way.
12/18/2011 11:35:04 AM | Report
Esparkle my boyfriends friend is super mean to me and that friend is the boy i dated before my boyfriend and when i tell him he is being when i nicely tell him he is being rude to me he just says i am the mean one when i am super nice whats his problem
12/17/2011 12:30:30 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @7714st I wasn't talking about you! I was talking about how I have been loaded with HW and projects but now it's Christmas Break! :) P.S. What's wrong?
12/16/2011 9:53:58 PM | Report
7714st Sorry I couldn't reply to you guys. I've been having a rough time lately, but I should have a lot more time and energy now.
12/16/2011 7:43:13 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Sorry it took so long for you girlies to get your answers and I promise I will try hard to fix that! :) But I want to know do you guy's have any complaints???
12/14/2011 3:48:00 PM | Report
hotchelleraelover there is this boy who i really like and he looks at me 24/7 which is creepy because he never talks to me what does that mean? whats my next move?
12/18/2011 12:02:53 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @piggy99 I'm sorry to day this but if he has a girlfriend then there's really nothing you can do. You DO NO want to be a boyfriend stealer!
12/14/2011 3:45:21 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @*sTaRsTrUcK* Does or does he not have a girlfriend? This is something you need to find out. He could just be a player and playing a player's game is not fun at all. "Don't the player, hate the game?" No! If the player wants to play that kind of gamet’s his problem. :) If this is confusing just say so and I’ll reword it! <3 Lexi
12/14/2011 3:44:18 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* No, I know exactly what you mean, but he is about the total opposite of a player. I don't even think he's had a girlfriend before, to be honest. But I'm thinking that I might like him...but we've been really good friends since 6th grade and I don't want to make it awkward or anything, so should I just not do anything or what??
12/30/2011 6:22:04 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Oops! It's supposed to be "Don't HATE the player hate the game" and "game it's" not gamet's sorry! :)
12/14/2011 3:46:30 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @singingintherain Like I told #hemoine&ron and many others: FLIRT! :) Your never going to get anywhere if you don't try and you have his number so just send him a quick text and move from there. :)
12/14/2011 3:40:04 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy p.s: I <3 your pic! Go Gir :)
12/14/2011 3:40:46 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @mermione&ron Definitely! If you like him and it's confirmed that he likes you too, Flirt!!! :) It's simple: 1+1=2 :) and me+you=? see send him a note like that if you want 2 be sure he has feelings. Or you could just flirt! :) Your choice ;)
12/14/2011 3:38:00 PM | Report
hermione&ron thx
12/18/2011 8:24:24 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @the_girl_in_goal Forget about him! He's mean and doesn't have any right to be- especially if it's not even in a flirty manner. He doesn't sound like crush-worthy material (sorry if offends!)so find someone who suits you and will treat you right! :)
12/14/2011 3:34:30 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @meaganballs What is the problem? Sorry but I don't understand that...
12/14/2011 3:32:19 PM | Report
7714st @Esparkle-Whoa, back up. You shouldn't even be CONSIDERING going out with this guy if you're with his friend. Take a step back and evaluate the situation. Write back when you're sure of your feelings.
12/12/2011 8:45:44 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Esparkle For your 1st post what exactly is your problem? You're sad your friend moved? Or it's uncomfortable between you and the other guy now? As for your 2nd post just brush your hand against his and casually grasp it. See how he reacts. :)
12/6/2011 9:51:28 PM | Report
piggy99 The guy i like has a girl friend and honestly, she's a HUGE snob. I'm not sure what to do cuz she's really snobby about the fact that i like him (yes, unfortunately,she knows.) What in the world should I do?????
12/12/2011 6:35:15 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* Yesterday on the bus ride home from a basketball game I played Never Have I Ever with some other girls and guys in my grade, and I found out one of them has a girlfriend, and it made me really sad. I never really thought I liked him, but does being sad when I found out he has a girlfriend mean that I liked him? I have really never thought about it at all, but I guess he is funny enough and I felt like I wanted to be sitting next to him and holding hands…but what should I do about this? His girlfriend lives really far away and I’ve never met her, but he also said that neither one of them officially asked each other out. He also flirts with me a LOT. What are you girl’s thoughts? What should I do?
12/11/2011 7:39:40 PM | Report
singingintherain i liked this guy last year and i thought he liked me too, but this year we are only in chorus together and we almost never talk anymore. my good friend is dating his best friend, and she gave me his #. What do i do to get back to him?
12/11/2011 6:47:50 PM | Report
hermione&ron My Q: My BFF has a twin brother (they look nothing alike) I have crush on him and I told her. I gave her permission to ask him if he likes me. He does. He knows I like him... But we're not BF/GF should I say something to him?
12/11/2011 5:46:11 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you that same thing happened to me! he finally asked me out, after knowing we both liked each other for like a month. eventually he'll realize that if he doesn't ask you out, you may move on. just be a little patient! good luck! (:
12/17/2011 3:27:58 PM | Report
the_girl_in_goal i like a guy named fort. he used to have a girlfriend but i heard they just broke up. we have ISEE prep together and we were partnered up. i commented on how bad i think my handwriting is. then he said, "yeah, it sucks cause its yours." what should i
12/11/2011 5:45:22 PM | Report
Esparkle my ex boyfriend asked me out over the weekend but he asks me out as jokes alot he said this one was for real i dont know what to do i am dating his bestfriend but still have feeling for my ex what should i do
12/10/2011 11:08:54 PM | Report
ABCazares101 hi so i need advice on how to start a conversation with a guy and how to get his number with out making it sound creepy but casual any ideas? :)
12/10/2011 1:25:37 AM | Report
bubblerain OK my advice is way worse than others,but......try talking to him a few words a day then more as time goes on.Have a phone?Give him it after a month.Done
12/11/2011 5:01:16 PM | Report
ABCazares101 thank u ;)
1/11/2012 1:51:01 PM | Report
meganballs though, im proably over reacting but i dont want to to mess this up i like the guy, and hes so nice and he was talking about some of the girls at his school and how their all well, short shorts and he said that he would rather kiss a fish than go ou
12/9/2011 10:38:46 PM | Report
meganballs ok problem, well my bf and i have been friends for like.. well a long tome anyway, the whole time ive known him he allways talked about this girl, he says that hes moved on, i dont want to mess this up what do i do he has stoped talking bout her tho
12/9/2011 10:34:30 PM | Report
Esparkle it is very uncomfotable between me and the other guy bt i dont want ti to be cause he is one of my good friends what should i do
12/7/2011 3:39:33 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MusikRox Unless you have a friend or wingman(woman) who can deliver the message (ouch!) you'll probably have to do this one face to face. Just be gentle and straight forward you don't want to accidentally lead him on if you know for a fact you're not Interested. Hope this helps! :) Luvs, Lexi <3 <3 <3
12/6/2011 9:48:33 PM | Report
7714st @bubblerain- Sorry, not looking for any more officers at the moment.
12/4/2011 6:40:44 PM | Report
libstaa so, I had a bf and 4 the story ill call him Q and he broke up with me cuz he thot i was annoying. I was going to break up with him anyways cuz i liked a new guy lets call W. The day after Q and I broke up W asked me out and I said yes,2 b continued..
12/21/2011 5:50:25 PM | Report
bubblerain OK
12/11/2011 4:52:45 PM | Report
piggy99 So, There's this guy that i really like. He acts like he likes me too but, he has a girlfriend. I'm not sure what to do because she knows I like him, and she is really mean about it. What should I do?????
12/7/2011 2:25:50 PM | Report
Esparkle i have a boyfriend we are in eachothers classes and we talk aton but we dont hold hands hug or anything but i want to hold his hand but i don't want to make the first move what should i do to show him i want to hold his hand
12/6/2011 8:48:02 PM | Report
Esparkle i have neighbors that are boys i hangout with them all the time but the one just moved away and i still want to hangout with the other one cause he is my crush but he thinks it will be to wierd with it just being us two wat should i do
12/6/2011 8:40:05 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 hey i just found out this boy in my grade has a crush on me. but i don't like him back! how do i let him know i don't like him without actually saying it to his face?
12/6/2011 1:08:42 AM | Report
bubblerain STAY LOW & AVOID he's bound to lose intrest at some point(right?)
12/8/2011 6:00:43 PM | Report
7714st @Hootowls- Just see how it goes. If you keep on liking the other guy more, it's unfair to be with the guy you're with. If that happens, you'll have to break up with him. Sorry!
12/4/2011 6:39:38 PM | Report
7714st @kenzie cakes- Your friend may be mad, but it's not your fault. Neither you nor the boy can help who they're attracted to. Remind her of that. And whoa-telling you he loves you? That's really sudden. It's great that he likes you, but you might want to take a step back so it doesn't go too quick between you guys. Slow relationships are proven to last longer and become more caring.
12/4/2011 6:28:34 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @cosmicpuppy Flirt! If you feel like your getting the signals from him you definitely need to send them back so he knows your interested! You don't want to leave a guy hanging for long. :) Hope this helps! :) Luvs, Lexi <3
12/3/2011 10:41:47 AM | Report
love2bbritt I have this really huge crush on this boy and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. i get mixed signals. how can i tell if he likes me or not. I also texted him and he never texted me back. it's been like 4 or 5 weeks since i texted him,
12/3/2011 4:12:10 PM | Report
bubblerain hes either not into you or just doesnt know how to answer to these problems
12/3/2011 7:09:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey! A good tip for flirting with boys is to just be yourself! Don't change to please someone because if you feel like you have to for that person then he's probably not the right one for you! :) Luvs, Lexi <3
11/28/2011 5:07:11 PM | Report
kenzie cakes So, I told my friend who I liked, but I didn't know she dated him last year! She went off and told him, and it turns out he likes me back. Now she's super mad! Whenever she plays on my phone and he texts me, there's always an "I love you" after it.
12/4/2011 5:07:25 PM | Report
CosmicPuppy My crush is really shy, and so am I, but i think he likes me. We don't really talk in school, but we text pretty often. Somethimes i see him looking at me at lunch. Last week, his best friend told me that my crush likes me, but I'm still not sure...
12/2/2011 6:00:48 PM | Report
7714st @volley_ball2341-At this age, going back and forth between liking different guys is totally normal! Just try to hang out with both of them, and figure out your feelings. :) <3
11/25/2011 1:35:25 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hope everyone had an amazing Thanksgiving! :)
11/25/2011 10:25:50 AM | Report
7714st Guys-just thought you should know- We are over 200 members above the second most popular club!
11/21/2011 7:59:09 PM | Report
7714st @MusikRox1999- Your friend is right. If he's dating another girl, it's time to get over him. You can start my looking around you and seeing if there are any other boys you're interested in. Keep in touch about how things are going! :) <3
11/21/2011 7:57:56 PM | Report
7714st Hey everyone- I want to know: If we have given you advice, did it work? Or did it just make things worse?
11/19/2011 2:04:56 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 Hi so this boy I really like started dating another girl. Im kinda upset about it. My friend told me to move on but I dont know how and I dont really wanna. Do you think I should move on just cuz hes dating another girl? If so how do I get over him?
11/21/2011 12:28:52 AM | Report
813393 maybe you should move on but not for good, when he dumps the girl he's with make sure he notices you, and maybe flirt with him once and a while. BUT NOT WHEN HE'S STILL DATING THE OTHER GIRL!
12/6/2011 6:48:12 PM | Report
volley_ball2341 got over luke. liked a guy named james. sweet, cute and absolutely funny. but then luke drew a heart in my locker and then it went back to him. well its back to him. now what?
11/22/2011 6:31:35 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @MyRoses101 Welcome to the All Girls Club! We're happy to have you! :) Is there anything we can help you with? Xo- Lexi <3
11/19/2011 9:55:20 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @klause10 I agree with #MusicRox Just start chatting and gradually kick it up a notch every day or so and try flirting. You have to show the boys your interested! ;) Good Luck! Luvs, Lexi
11/19/2011 9:54:18 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @GiraGira13 A couple weeks ago I got asked out by this guy and I had no clue who he was when my friend told me. The thing was he was in my orchestra class and I never really noticed him but it wasn't self-consciously. I would recommend to try to talkto him and get to know him. Show him how awesome you are and maybe something will spark! God Luck! :) Luvs, Lexi
11/19/2011 9:52:19 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Over 1000 members!!!!! WOOH! :) Your girls are amazing! :)
11/18/2011 4:03:01 PM | Report
klause10 Hey i have a crush on a boy in homeroom and dont know how to aproch him i think he digs me to but i catn tell.HELP!!!!!!
11/18/2011 11:01:00 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 i have the same prob! my suggestion is to just maybe casually ask him a question about homework or something if you have classes together. see how he reacts. if he seems friendly about it, he might like you. good luck <3
11/19/2011 3:24:36 AM | Report
klause10 Hey i have a crush on a boy in homeroom and dont know how to aproch him i think he digs me to but i catn tell.HELP!!!!!!
11/18/2011 10:58:18 PM | Report
luv1515 Come on!!! If you like him, ask him out!!! The worst that could happen is him saying no!!! I can do it, why cant you???
11/19/2011 10:11:09 PM | Report
giragira13 The next day, that guy told me what my crush said afterwards: "Really? I don't even know her! Can I see her?!" The sad thing is... I sit right in front of him in Band... And we lock eyes sometimes... But how does he not know me!? WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW
11/18/2011 9:01:24 PM | Report
giragira13 This guy overheard me talking to my friend on the bus one day.. I was talking about my crush and saying how nice he looked today, and the eavesdropper said he would tell my crush what I said! D: I begged him not to, but as boy's, he did..
11/18/2011 8:58:46 PM | Report
luv1515 OMG!!! Thats so embaracing!!! Now that the word is out just ask him out babe!!!
11/19/2011 10:07:56 PM | Report
MyRoses101 Hey! I'm the 1008 member here!!!!! lol!!! :)
11/18/2011 6:46:36 PM | Report
7714st @piggy99-I'm not an expert on fashion myself, but here's a makeup club: http://www.girlslife.com/Club.aspx?id=17 And fashion clubs are here: http://www.girlslife.com/Clubs.aspx?cat=Fashion volleyball514 is really great with this stuff. :)
11/17/2011 1:48:55 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Sorry to get all soft & squishy on all you poor innocent people but I am just so proud to be part of this club! To think it's gotten this far in 8 months even getting members of the Official GL club is just... WOW! :) I seriously <3 you girls! Luvs, Lexi (Vice President)
11/14/2011 4:42:18 PM | Report
piggy99 Hey, to every one. I'm looking for a good fashion blog so if you know one please let me know the name!!!!!!!!
11/16/2011 8:30:35 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Only 11 members until we reach 1000!!!!!! :) We only have YOU girls to thank for this club's success! Thank you to all of you who have supported this club through it all, even when we gave some pretty weird advice you listened and stayed! Even if we Never reach 1000 members I just want to thank you and say that you are amazing! Though reaching 1000 would be a HUGE milestone. ;) Luvs, Lexi <3
11/14/2011 4:37:26 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @volleyballgirl If they all turned on you for stupid reasons then you're better off without them, so try talking to other girls around you. Start after-school activities,community service and such where you mingle with other girls your age. :)
11/14/2011 3:06:40 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @peanutk It seems like he's sending you mixed signals. I say confront him and ask him how he feels about you and how his mixed signals are confusing & hurting you. If he really cares about you then hopefully he'll make it clear, he's probably shy. :)
11/13/2011 8:09:03 PM | Report
peanutk1618 he doesn't like me. I got one of my guy friends to ask him for me. oh well
11/18/2011 3:29:40 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 help... i had friends but they all kinda turned on me for different reasons. i have 2 really close guy friends but i kinda like one of them and the other likes me... i feel really lonely and have no chances to make new friends at school... help..
11/13/2011 8:20:57 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @beaglelover Just play it off, maybe he hasn't been on Facebook to see your request. But don't keep sending him requests, it might make you appear desperate. If he doesn't want to add you, that's his problem. You did nothing wrong. :)
11/13/2011 8:05:33 PM | Report
7714st @dancingqueen96-Just talk to them equally. Don't act like you favor one of them more than the other. Just act like everything is normal, and it will be. I wish you luck in helping your friend. :) <3
11/13/2011 1:08:53 PM | Report
7714st I also forgot: wasn't on here yesterday, so a late happy 11/11/11, and a GINORMOUS thank you to all of our courageous veterans for keeping us safe and protecting our families. <3
11/12/2011 1:25:09 PM | Report
beaglelover27 i friend requested i guy that i no on facebook but he wont say yes.What should i do
11/13/2011 3:32:15 AM | Report
dancingqueen96 My bff and i were gonna go to dinner with our dates before the dance tonight. now her date cant go. this is gonna b so awkward, me and my date and her. I invited more ppl to come but they already had plans. How can I fix this?
11/12/2011 2:11:10 PM | Report
7714st Lots of exciting news! First: We are just 21 members away from hitting 1000! Second: Well, it's really only exciting for me... but I'm happy! Anyway, second is that on the first, my boyfriend and I celebrated our 1 year :) <3 Love that boy to pieces. <3. Third isn't exciting, exactly, just thought y'all should know. (and yes, I am from the south). I know people have been asking questions on my advice queen page, and I don't know if they're members of this club or not, but this is just a general shout out. I wasn't getting anyone's questions over there, so I transferred ownership to spazzysarah, who is not a member of this club. Anyway, she's been kind of lax there, so I'm trying to get ownership back. In the meantime, if you've been trying to get help there, just ask here. I'll let you all know if I get ownership back and then you'll be able to contact me there. Hope everyone is having a great day, love y'all! <3 :)
11/12/2011 1:23:25 PM | Report
peanutk1618 ...the other day he sat on the couch next to me(my dad was not happy about that one, lol) we talk about everything: height, teachers, parents and other kids. hey thanks to anyone who comments, ~peanut
11/13/2011 8:52:03 AM | Report
peanutk1618 ...we still joke ALL the time and it is so much fun. But then at the next dance he didn't ask me to dance and felt like a idiot. He didn't dance with an another girl, though. but sometimes I think he really likes me and other times not so much......
11/13/2011 8:48:51 AM | Report
peanutk1618 ...the next three practices he stayed far away from me. But when I asked a question to the person helping us sing, he stared at me. then the next practice we joked around and he played super tux on my laptop and life was great......
11/13/2011 8:46:22 AM | Report
peanutk1618 hi! there is a boy in my class that I really like. We are in the district play together. We talked every once in a while. But then I asked him to dance. He said sure, so we danced................
11/13/2011 8:42:55 AM | Report
7714st @kitsywo- Boys will always be confusing. You say he's your BGF. And he said he didn't like you. Well, there's your answer, unfortunately. He probably just things of you as a BG(irl)F. If you really want him to like you, up the flirt factor! I wish you the best of luck in getting your guy. :) <3
11/12/2011 12:57:12 PM | Report
7714st @squigglegiggle13- So what if you're not popular? If you're friends with him, it's likely you've at least crossed his radar, which is a good first step. As for the other girls: Forget about them! If he ends up liking you a lot of girls are going to be jealous. Which, of course, isn't fun. But first things first: Flirt! Do your best, and maybe he'll realize what a wonderful person you are. Good luck. :) <3
11/12/2011 12:53:59 PM | Report
7714st @pandavolleyball- Ah, an age old question. It has a simple answer though. Be their friend! Just like you would with a girl, being friends with a guy can tell you loads about him. It also gets you closer to him, which will get him thinking about you.
11/12/2011 12:49:55 PM | Report
7714st @HootOwls- About the boyfriend thing. It's no big deal. If you don't really like a guy, don't ask him out, or it'll just end badly. As for the skating thing: Don't be jealous. Just find something else that's fun to do, and see if they want to try it with you! It could be fun! :) <3
11/12/2011 12:47:38 PM | Report
7714st @angelicjade- You don't have to do anything about it. If he asks you out, great! If not...well, he doesn't deserve you anyway. As for the frenemy: if he does ask you out and she gets upset, just try to remain calm about the situation and calmly tell her that you like her, but you also like him. It's not your fault if he asks you out and not her. Asking him out is just looking for trouble with your frenemy. <3
11/12/2011 12:45:38 PM | Report
7714st @elliemaeve- What your friend is doing is so not cool. Tell her that you're tired of her making fun of your crush on a guy right in front of him. It's mean and underhanded, and it's just not something friends do. If she continues, give her 3 strikes. Strike one: you don't talk to her for a day. Strike two: You don't talk to her for 3 days. Strike 3: You don't talk to her for a week. If she still keeps up with it, then just try to ignore her as long as you can, or get another friend to intervene. Good luck hun. <3 c:
11/12/2011 12:42:45 PM | Report
7714st @torak2598-Unfortunately, we aren't looking for any more officers right now, we have things under control pretty well. But if I ever need someone, like if we get super busy, I'll make sure to remember you. :) <3
11/12/2011 12:39:02 PM | Report
7714st @beatles127-Teenage girls can be jerks. It's just a fact of life. Tell them the truth: It's not your fault they like you. You can't do anything about it. You're not paying them. They just genuinely like you. Nothing wrong with that. Okay? As for your so called 'friend'. If she was really your friend, she wouldn't mind hanging out with you in public. Tell her that. She'll probably be mad, but it's better to not be friends than to be friends with someone who doesn't want to be seen with you. As for the boy thing: Congrats girl! It sounds like you're on your way with this boy. :) Also, hun, you are who you are, and who you are is wonderful. Don't ever let some jealous girls let you think otherwise. <3
11/12/2011 12:37:28 PM | Report
7714st @ecogirl1-If he's just a year younger, and you really like him, it shouldn't be a problem. But it also depends on your age. Like if you've just entered middle school? Probably a no.
11/12/2011 12:32:20 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy If you asked a question or need advice and did not get a satisfactory answer or any answer at all please leave it under this post to make things easier and we will get back to you. :) X0- Lexi <3
11/12/2011 10:48:41 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girls! I'm writing a story on my profile and I would love for any of you to join! Just fill out the application! :)
11/11/2011 2:10:34 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @ashtray Two Words: Wing-Man! Send your girl(s) over and see what they can dig up from his friends or straight from the source. Good Luck! ;)
11/10/2011 10:27:16 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @ashtray We've all been in that sticky sitch when you don't know how 2 turn a boy down. Of course you want 2 do it gently and polite, guys have feelings too, though you also want 2 be straight forward! Luckily GL has the perfect article. :) http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/08/06/de-crush-that-boy.aspx
11/10/2011 10:24:48 PM | Report
7714st @perulima-Okay, this guy is not worth your time of day. Tell him that you're not interested whatsoever. As for your friend...try to patch things up before things get too bad.
11/7/2011 7:05:08 PM | Report
torak2598 heyy i love your club! you give great advice! can i be seretary of this club please? that would be sooo cool!
11/10/2011 9:05:43 PM | Report
ashtray8180 Hey um this guy asked me out and i dont want to go out with him wat should i say i dont want hurt his feelings also i like this guy and i think he likes me too how do i find out
11/10/2011 8:38:26 PM | Report
ashtray8180 Im having major guy issues im super popular but know one has asked me out... plz help
11/10/2011 8:36:40 PM | Report
Hootowls Most of my friends go on dates like ice skating and I am not allowed to should I feel the slightest bit jealous?
11/8/2011 8:50:49 PM | Report
beatles127 Ok, thanks for the tip. Two things happened to me today. One was good, one was bad. The good thing was, the boy I actually like invited our family to come with his family camping this weekend, and I was allowed. Bad thing...my friends got even more jealous. Right now I only have one true blue friend and she is lesbian, so she doesn't care. I don't feel uncomfortable around her because she says I am not her type anyway, ha. Anyway, I saw my so called BFF today at the store and I went up to her and said hi, and she looked around and whispered, "Could you not talk to me? I do not want people to think we are friends...I still like you though." I was so angry and I yelled at her, "but I am your friend, even you betrayed me!" The guy I really liked saw me crying in my back yard, we are next door to each other, and he comforted me...I feel so depressed.
11/8/2011 9:23:11 PM | Report
beatles127 I am home schooled and last summer I blossomed and came out of my shell, and all the boys started wanting to hang out with me and they got me little gifts and said I was pretty. Sweet right? Nothing is wrong right? Wrong!!! All of the girls are getting super jealous and they keep putting me down like they will say the only reason they seem to like me is because I probably paid them or something mean like that. They cLl me fat and stupid and even though my admirers defend me, they still do it and it still hurts because they are always in the spotlight never me and I cannot believe they would do this to me when it's my time to shine. Help!
11/8/2011 8:49:01 AM | Report
HootOwls Jealous girls can be mean and hurtful if it starts to hurt your feelings tell someone but if not good for you they are not worth you worrying about it, I mean how cares the only things that matter is that you know who your real friends are.
11/8/2011 5:44:22 PM | Report
ecogirl1 Hey! Would it be weird to date a guy who is a year younger?
11/7/2011 7:44:50 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:39 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:38 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:36 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:35 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:34 PM | Report
Hootowls Sure if he is mature
11/8/2011 8:52:29 PM | Report
7714st @volleyballgirl7799-Okay, so let me get this straight. Your friend is a jerk, is always mean to you, and is trying to steal your recently broken up ex? Girl, dump this friend fast. She is nothing but bad for you. Just stop hanging out with her. Warning: she'll act like a total and complete jerk to you. But just ignore her. She's obviously just jealous or has low self esteem.
11/4/2011 7:28:06 PM | Report
elliemaeve I need help- my BFF for years now likes the same guy I do and always makes fun of me for it right in front of him. He knows i like him, but i always feel so akward around him and my friend. I tell her to stop over and over, but nothing works. HELP!
11/10/2011 12:08:26 AM | Report
HootOwls All my friends have so called boy friends but it never lasts long, should I ask someone out or lay low
11/8/2011 5:35:23 PM | Report
angelicjade Hi! I don't know where else to but this. So, I have a frienemy and she likes the same guy I like. I think he likes me, though. What should I do?
11/6/2011 6:01:52 PM | Report
HootOwls You should ask him and if he says no he is not worth it any way
11/8/2011 5:39:29 PM | Report
perulima My boyfriend dumped me for my best friend and then my best friend started to act all mean to me because my ex broke up with her. Now my ex is begging me to take him back. But i've moved on what should I do?
11/6/2011 8:45:17 PM | Report
HootOwls Don't take him back if he went off with your best friend he is defiantly not worth it.
11/8/2011 5:47:22 PM | Report
squigglegiggle13 (cont) and not very pretty. He is one of those guys that like a lot of girls like, but I doubt anyones liked him as long as I have. I don't know what to do about this. Any ideas?
11/5/2011 11:53:57 PM | Report
squigglegiggle13 I have a question if you have time to answer: So i've liked this guy for 2 years now and I don't think he even knows. I know he probably wouldn't like me because he's really popular (but still nice, and we talk and stuff) and I'm pretty unpopular
11/5/2011 11:52:17 PM | Report
7714st @too_cute_for_you-I think he honestly doesn't want to hurt you in any way, but you need to be up front about it. Say "Okay, I know you like me, and I like you too, so why is there any reason we shouldn't go out?" He'll probably try to protect you,but be adamant. Say that you're tired of just being friends, and you want to go out with him. He'll either outright refuse, in which case you should wait it out, or agree, in which case...well, yay!
11/4/2011 7:23:35 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you sorry to be so high maintinance, or however you spell that:) but i'm kind of a shy girl on the inside. i am totally outgoing until it comes to talking straightforwardly to a guy. i mean i know he probably won't refuse, but still...its just not me.
11/12/2011 6:12:42 PM | Report
7714st @marla1321-It is possible he still likes you. Not all guys are the kind that like a girl for a day and then move on. I say get a friend to ask him for you to see if he still likes you, or if you have the guts, ask him yourself.
10/26/2011 3:44:00 PM | Report
pandavolleyball How do you get to know guys better?
11/4/2011 6:54:55 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you d his ex girlfriend. i'm nothing like her and he knows it, so why wont he ask me out? and how can i get him to tell me what happened between him and his ex girlfriend? any advice? i really like him.
10/31/2011 12:03:14 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you es in the popular group and so am i, so everyone is always telling him to ask me out. hes really sweet, and he cares about me. we talk like weve known each other all our lives and we hang out every weekend. even his twin sister wants us to go out, an
10/31/2011 12:01:46 PM | Report
too_cute_for_you as bad because when he told me likes me he said he didnt want the same thing to happen to me, and that he wasnt sure he wanted a girlfriend right now because of that. and plus everyone at school knows we like each other and are always bothering us. h
10/31/2011 11:59:34 AM | Report
too_cute_for_you okay so the guy i like is kind of confusing me. see re recently (like 4 months) ago broke up with his girlfriend, who he had been with for like two years on and off. now the girl has a boyfriend and he is still single. apparently their relationship w
10/31/2011 11:57:43 AM | Report
Kchan JOIN MY CLUB WHO KNOWS FASHION!!! JOBS ARE BEING ASSIGNED.
10/30/2011 2:34:21 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 r every day. she also likes my (well OUR) ex... any help? and she always leaves me out of everything
10/29/2011 1:07:18 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 hey so i got a friend problem... so i have this ex that i still really like and my friend thinks he likes her. she also always says bad stuff about me and tells me that i do everything wrong. she tells me that im fat and that i should feel bad for he
10/29/2011 1:06:28 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy That is called a "toxic-friend" or a really bad friend that is a bad influence and always putting you down. Most likely she's jealous and unsure about herself. End this friendship fast, it will only get worse in the future. Good Luck! :)
11/10/2011 10:31:54 PM | Report
GummGirl2011 JOIN MY CLUB "CRUSH ADVICE" SECRETARY, VP, AND TREASURER NEEDED APPLY NOW!
10/28/2011 5:37:17 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @IAmIronMan First off how much older is he??? You DO NOT want to get into something with a guy wayyy to old for you... also if he's just now noticing you since you started caring about your looks I don't think you should really get involved with him.
10/25/2011 6:32:35 PM | Report
marla1321 I really like this guy and he told me he liked me a few weeks ago but idk if he still does we IM almost every night and joke around and walk home together sometimes. i just dont know if he likes me???? And how do i get him to?
10/25/2011 10:00:58 PM | Report
GummGirl2011 when a GUY says Yes he means YES,most of the time,unless he is a true jerk, but trust your own judgement,if you like him, he most likely is not a jerk And its ok to ask the guy out if u r a girl, i say go fo it the worst that can happen is he says no
10/27/2011 7:18:28 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @1Blackat First off do you still want to be on his radar or have you moved on? After you had that in mind then u can start. He's probably just flirting with ur coach because she's older but that's nothing serious so just flirt, smile and be yourself
10/22/2011 2:00:35 PM | Report
kitsywo my bgf i have known for four years now and have always liked him we have a ton in common and he alwayys does these really sweet things, but when his friend asked if he liked me he said no
10/27/2011 3:01:21 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @Janie1398 Whenever he's online just drop a hey or hi and then start chatting about whatever... ask him if he's going to the next game or if you guys can meet up and study for a test. Pretty soon you'll talking back and forth! Good Luck :) XoXo- Lexi
10/22/2011 1:49:20 PM | Report
7714st @Janie1398-It's possible. Try talking to him and find out more about him. If he continues to show signs of liking you, it's probably a pretty good bet.
10/19/2011 6:03:46 PM | Report
IAmIronMan Kayy, I'll try to make this short.(: but there is this older guy ive known sence, well forever, and lately sicne i have gotten rid of my acne and acually start caring what i look like he has been talking to me more and "flirting" hes shy. Advice.?(:
10/22/2011 7:29:25 PM | Report
IAmIronMan Kayy, I'll try to make this short.(: but there is this older guy ive known sence, well forever, and lately sicne i have gotten rid of my acne and acually start caring what i look like he has been talking to me more and "flirting" hes shy. Advice.?(:
10/22/2011 7:28:44 PM | Report
1blackat Ok hi I need serious advice Me and my almost bf used to hang out all the time But now hes cutting me off, even flirting with one of our coaches at the gym! I need to get back on his radar but im noticing other guys and the cutie who joined the team.
10/20/2011 9:40:45 PM | Report
Janie1398 okay well I don't see him at school alot but im friends with him on facebook. whart a conversatioin with him?
10/19/2011 8:14:22 PM | Report
7714st @volley_ball2341-Just because she's pretty and popular doesn't necessarily mean he'll go for that kind of thing. Just keep being your wonderful self and try to figure out if he likes you too!
10/18/2011 5:55:20 PM | Report
Janie1398 hey. so i like this guy and i think he likes me to but im not sure. He danced behind me at a party when i wasnt paying attention and my friends say he glances at me a lot. We don't really know each other. What should I do or say to him?
10/18/2011 7:33:24 PM | Report
volley_ball2341 thanks. im not really sure i like him anymore. and this girl brianna put a not ein his locker which is right next to mine, said what would u say if katelyn, riley, or morgan asked u out? and im katelyn by the way. and he said wednesdays and fridays
10/22/2011 10:56:59 AM | Report
volley_ball2341 and so i dotn like luke anymore anymore cuz the 2 girls r gonna ask him out and 1 more girl likes him. and i didnt want to ruin our friendship if he said yes. so now my friend kaili might b going out with my bgf so i feel weird about it. help u guys!
10/23/2011 12:31:07 PM | Report
7714st @MusikRox1999-You just answered your own question! Look back at your response to toadie101-You'll see it right away. :)
10/10/2011 5:08:02 PM | Report
28angel99 Hey guys! I want to know if 6th grade is too soon to have a bf? Plz answer quick! Thx!
10/14/2011 3:21:34 PM | Report
toadie101 what do you mean by boyfriend? I'm in 6th and i have a "boyfriend". I think lots of girls want to know a good age for a bf. If you are just liking each other, maybe holding hands, just hanging out it's not bad at all.
10/16/2011 12:39:49 PM | Report
volley_ball2341 ok so i need help from you guys. i like a guy named luke and luke knows, like everybody knows bu tim cool with it cuz it doesnt matter. but now my friend valerie like luke and shes really popular and pretty. and i feel like he will like her? help
10/12/2011 5:31:09 PM | Report
7714st @MusikRox1999-You just answered your own question! Look back at your response to toadie101-You'll see it right away. :)
10/10/2011 5:03:35 PM | Report
7714st Hey guys. I'm not looking for any more officers right now as the load is pretty light. Sorry! If I get a lot more problems, I'll need more helpers.
10/4/2011 7:43:33 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 hi i need advice on how to talk to boys. i'm sorta afraid of talking to my crush but my friends say to just start a convo with him. but i don't know how and i always wimp out when i say i'm gonna talk to him. please help-how do i talk to him?
10/10/2011 1:54:14 AM | Report
grace337 sometimes joking around with them and finding something to "pick" on them about is really good!example..his shoes..then when you see him in the hall you can always point and smile at his shoes to him:)idkkk:P
10/11/2011 5:19:19 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 hi i need advice on how to talk to boys. i'm sorta afraid of talking to my crush but my friends say to just start a convo with him. but i don't know how and i always wimp out when i say i'm gonna talk to him. please help-how do i talk to him?
10/10/2011 12:53:34 AM | Report
SwimGirl945 talk about stuff ur both familair with... like ur dorky subsitute teacher or the school field trip coming up
10/18/2011 5:29:11 PM | Report
kakes6416 i can help u out if u need anything :D
10/6/2011 5:27:37 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 hi do you think having date to homecoming in 7th grade is too young?
10/5/2011 12:31:42 AM | Report
toadie101 I don't think so, but try to dance with your friends too. It's ok to dance with him and stuff but make sure to save time for friends!
10/16/2011 12:23:57 PM | Report
squigglegiggle13 well if they have a homecoming dance in middle school... i guess not. That's odd, homecoming in MS :P
10/9/2011 7:01:08 PM | Report
chloe617 It's not to young but it might be a bit awkward. Just focus on him and if you get uncomfortable, tell him your really want to dance with your friends.
10/8/2011 7:39:42 PM | Report
kakes6416 depends on ur age cuz even if ur just a freshman than it might be awkward just assess ur situation hav u known him long hav u dated... if so thanits not weird
10/6/2011 5:37:20 PM | Report
toadie101 hey so i'm in 6th grade. i have a kind of "boyfriend" but i'm not really sure what to talk about? what are some good ways to break the ice?
10/4/2011 11:52:54 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 you can talk about anything you want. there's no end to what you can talk about. just be friendly and open to him and try to be friends first. it will make him feel more comfortable if he's treated like your friend instead of a boyfriend. good luck!
10/10/2011 1:52:22 AM | Report
toadie101 thanks! this helped a lot. i didn't really see it as like a friendship before
10/16/2011 12:25:38 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 you can talk about anything you want. there's no end to what you can talk about. just be friendly and open to him and try to be friends first. it will make him feel more comfortable if he's treated like your friend instead of a boyfriend. good luck!
10/10/2011 1:01:07 AM | Report
chloe617 Be funny! My friend had the same dilemma. I told her to tell him cheesy jokes and don't act to obsessive. But remember to twirl your hair or give him a flirty smile once in a while! I hope I helped! -Advice Queen Chloe617
10/8/2011 7:33:06 PM | Report
kakes6416 i think u shud really try 2 c him everyday make an attempt to stop at his locker and sit w/ @ lunch but dating in middle school isnt as serious as high school so dont sweat it too much... k? but u can still hav a bf in 6th grade
10/6/2011 5:31:58 PM | Report
toadie101 I'm just worried that I'll do something stupid around him and he won't like me anymore
10/22/2011 11:53:31 AM | Report
MusikRox1999 hi do you think having date to homecoming in 7th grade is too young?
10/4/2011 11:03:48 PM | Report
7714st @bubblegum731-If they're dating, chances are he likes her. She may be jerky, but don't try to talk to him about how she's a jerk. If she really is a jerk, he'll realize it and let her go.
10/4/2011 7:34:27 PM | Report
7714st @best1981- You've known each other a long time, right? Just keep doing what you're doing and try to get your friends or his to find out if he likes you too. If you can't date until you're 16, the best you can do is just hang out. Just keep flirting.
9/29/2011 6:35:08 PM | Report
cutiepiez101 hoow do youu ask a question? I just joined. please answer as soon as possible! thanks
10/29/2011 2:58:35 PM | Report
bubblegum731 How do you ask a question????? Sorry im new but I have some serious GUY PROBLEMS :(
10/3/2011 6:57:53 PM | Report
bubblegum731 Okay, so i REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy but he has a girlfriend, but she's really mean and idt he likes her.....HELP!
10/4/2011 6:31:13 PM | Report
toadie101 You don't have much control over this situation. Your opinions might not be the same as his opinions. If she is mean to him then maybe he will wake up, but for now, just try to be friends with him. You can be nice, but while he has a gf, don't flirt!
10/16/2011 12:31:55 PM | Report
chloe617 Bubblegum731, Try becoming friends with him first so the girlfriend doesn't get mad. Tell jokes, play sports together, stuff like that. Then every once in a while throw in a flirty smile, or twirl your hair. He'll realize your the girl for him!
10/8/2011 7:36:59 PM | Report
meg1219 i would really like to be treasurer, because im good with money and math
10/2/2011 2:10:43 AM | Report
missballetchic Hi! I am really organized and i was wondering if i could be secretary. p.s. i would invite a lot of people.
10/1/2011 5:07:02 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 I would love a position if you wanted to give me one 1 (; i am good at and love giving advice, plus i am on here a lor! I totally understand if you can't give me a position. xoxo (:
10/1/2011 10:12:12 PM | Report
BuBbLeSbUbBlEs Can i be secratary or tresurare im smart and good with numbers but i also have tons of friends on here
10/3/2011 7:10:37 PM | Report
7714st @gymgirl1998-What about lunch? Gym? Walking to classes that are near each other? The bus? There are tons of places outside of class you can talk. If there really isn't anywhere you can see him, try asking for his email and sending him a "we never get to talk, so I thought I would just say hey! :)" email.
9/29/2011 6:32:21 PM | Report
7714st @Cyclone Girl- Just because you like him, doesn't mean you have to tell him. You can just be nice and flirt. He should realize you like him and figure out if he likes you too.
9/29/2011 6:28:03 PM | Report
7714st @SarSar:)- Unfortunately, only officers can do that.
9/29/2011 6:26:43 PM | Report
SarSar:) Ohh okay :)
10/1/2011 4:42:49 PM | Report
SarSar:) Ohh okay :)
10/1/2011 4:42:47 PM | Report
7714st @FashionistaFreak-I won some awesome red flip flops from Etnies. :)
9/29/2011 6:25:41 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy wow 790 members! That's so awesome!!!!! Remember I'm here to help you with anything. :)
9/25/2011 3:58:13 PM | Report
dramaqueen122 hey lexi, for your club guys are a mystery could i have a position? cuz then i could post since you arent there anymore :(
9/29/2011 8:05:47 AM | Report
gymgirl1998 hey im new in this club and i need some advice on how to talk to my crush. he isnt in my class this year and i feel that if i dont get a chancce to talk to him then he wont know that i really like him!
9/26/2011 9:43:18 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 U cld try texting him or emailing him! And how about lunch? If you have that together try to go over with some of ur friends to his group. since ur not in his classes u can ask him all about them. xoxo
9/30/2011 4:30:34 PM | Report
best1981 i need some advice because i have a big crush on this guy and we have been in the same class since 3rd grade and now we are in 6th grade but i am not allowed to date till i am 16 and i am 12 what do i do and i dont know if he feels the same.help!!!
9/26/2011 11:02:22 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 But if ur parents still say no, talk 2 him and be friends with him. chances r if u show him how nice and fun u r he will like u back and u can just be great friends!! xoxo
9/30/2011 4:28:31 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Talk to ur parents about "dating" as in just being a "couple" but u dont go on dates u just hang out at schl 2gether and txt a lot but u say u r going out im sure a lot of people in ur grade do tht thts wht its like at my school.
9/30/2011 4:26:40 PM | Report
gymgirl1998 maybe you could just try to casualy talk to him. make a joke and hey if he doesnt feel the same you could always just be really good friends!
9/27/2011 4:26:15 PM | Report
SarSar:) Thanks! How do you post without clicking comment under someone elses post?
9/26/2011 6:39:50 PM | Report
frenchblondie Haha! I'm the 800th member! Yay! @SarSar:) you have to be a club officer.
9/26/2011 9:58:03 PM | Report
7714st @NYCGURL28-When you say he's always surrounded by girls what do you mean? He could just be curious, or he could like you.
9/24/2011 10:22:50 PM | Report
7714st @kakes6416-Just keep your eyes open. The right guy will show up. <3
9/24/2011 10:20:46 PM | Report
7714st @SarSar:)-Hey, welcome! He could like you, or he could just be shy. Just keep watching for signs, and keep me updated. <3
9/24/2011 10:19:54 PM | Report
SarSar:) Bad news and good news Bad news: I think my crush likes my friend... Good news: I have two other crushes Bad news: I still like my first crush the best
9/29/2011 7:56:02 PM | Report
Cyclone Girl I like this new kid at my school but I don't know how to tell him.
9/25/2011 5:26:41 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Don't worry about telling him yet for now just focus on smiling and talking to him, and see where it goes from there. ask him questions bout his old school! showing ur interested is agreat way to get him interested in you! xoxo
9/30/2011 4:24:16 PM | Report
SarSar:) Thanks Swim Girl and 7714st :) I will! And one question about the clubs. How do you post a new comment without replying to someone else?
9/25/2011 3:02:12 PM | Report
7714st @SwimGirl94-Maybe he's just been busy. Also, with the other guy, that's a little strange. He may like you, he may just be a strange guy.
9/24/2011 10:17:51 PM | Report
7714st @SwimGirl945-It sounds like he could like you. Keep watching for signs that he's into you, and it'll become apparent soon enough.
9/21/2011 5:23:20 PM | Report
SarSar:) Hi, I am new here, can I have some help around gl?
9/24/2011 9:37:33 PM | Report
SarSar:) Hi! I am new here, can I get some advice???
9/23/2011 9:35:45 PM | Report
SarSar:) Hi! Sorry if I post things more than once my computer is bein weird lol. Well I have this crush and he is really nice funny and cute but when he talks to me he is shy, does this means he likes me back?
9/22/2011 7:04:05 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 It could! Keep watching for signs! How does he act around other girls?
9/23/2011 6:50:01 PM | Report
SarSar:) Hi! I have a question about my crush, hes really nice funny and cute. He talks to a lot of people but when he talks to me he acts kinda shy. Does this mean he likes me?
9/22/2011 7:01:04 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Join My club *Girls Who Like Boys* tellme a reason why they should be an officer and whoever gives good reasons and advice will give one! Also, 7714st and LexilicousCandy, you guys give super good advice and I would luv if 1 of u bcame VP!! xoxo
9/22/2011 5:15:03 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 (Cont) me on my way to class even though he has to go past HIS classroom to do it what do u think tht means?? p.s. this is a different guy than the one i like
9/22/2011 5:07:32 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Ok thnx but for the past two days he hasn't been talking to me that much, a few times a day, but not as much as he usually does. what's up with that?? any ideas? and also one other guy keeps following me saying no and then my name and he does it to
9/22/2011 5:04:11 PM | Report
kakes6416 omg u know that guy i like he is such a jerk... i dont like him anymore time 4 a new crush or a new friend to hang with cuz all boyz r kinda jerks idk what im gonna do
9/22/2011 3:08:05 PM | Report
NYCGURL28 I need major help this boy i like always stares and smiles at me but hes always surrounded by girls. My friends have talked to him and he asks about me(sience im new)but he will never talk to me. What do i do
9/21/2011 10:05:31 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 He prob seems intersted in u, but i bet he wants 2 get to know ya better before. Try smiling back at him and saying hi. Also, if he talks to ur friends, try talking to him when ur with them. good luck! and tell me how it works out! xoxo
9/30/2011 4:21:53 PM | Report
BuBbLeSbUbBlEs My Crush asked me to go work on "school work" at the starbucks coffee in the barnes and nobel by our school. Do you thinks hes intrested or really just wants to work on our ca homework?
10/3/2011 7:09:02 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @7741st I agree with #fireworks though I don't know how deep ur relationship with ur BF you should definitely take this opportunity & apply because in the future u can really benefit from it where as eventually you'll break up with your BF (most likely)XOXO- Lexi
9/20/2011 5:38:47 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Heyy so if you heart 2 swim but hate the hair damage that comes with it i would totes reccomend the Ion brand of hair products_they have tons of products especially 4 swimmers!! xoxo I HEART YOU!!!
9/20/2011 9:02:03 PM | Report
kakes6416 thats cool cuz i'm a swimmer too!!!
9/21/2011 2:28:32 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Seriously? COOL! U shld try tht i think it works prety well! XOXO
9/22/2011 5:02:05 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Ok sorry I haven't really been on that much but if you have a problem or something has not been respond to yet post it right here underneath this and I'll try my hardest to answer every single 1! Thanks and Sorry 4 any inconvenience! XOXO- Lexi
9/20/2011 5:34:48 PM | Report
ashtray8180 OMG this guy that i kinda like just broke up with his girlfriend do you think i should wait or ask him out also how do i get him to like me first?!?!?!?!? ;) thanks
9/27/2011 7:58:44 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Hey i just happened to notice though. that there is an opening for secreatary and i thought that if you ever want somebody to fill that position i would totes heart to!
9/20/2011 8:47:21 PM | Report
7714st Hey guys. Every now and then, even an advice giver needs advice herself. So for the first time, I'm asking you all a question. I'm applying for boarding schools that are hundreds of miles away from where I am. There would be nothing to hold me back, if it weren't for my boyfriend and my twin sister. I love them to pieces, but I also want to go to these schools. So for those of you who have tried long distance: Is it worth it? Or should I break it off with him before I leave next year?
9/18/2011 10:56:17 AM | Report
SwimGirl945 Hey i hav a q. I think my crush likes me bcuz he asked my bff 4 my #, he always says my name, sometimes i can see him staring at me in class, and he always talks to me!! what do you guys think?? xoxo (:
9/20/2011 8:55:48 PM | Report
fireworks1071 (C) but that's just me. I don't know how close you are with your boyfriend or how long you've been together though. I would say, keep him around & if you make the decision to break up with him once you've been away, he'll most likely feel it too. XO
9/18/2011 5:51:06 PM | Report
fireworks1071 I guess it depends on how much he means to you. These are the years you want to have fun, not be tied down to someone in another state. Especially when you start to develop crushes on new guys - and it's bound to happen! I would break up with him (C)
9/18/2011 5:49:08 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 I agree this is a once in a lifetime oppurtunity, and you can skype, txt, and email your sister! Going to a private school could get you into a good college and you could get a great job! I know that seems far off, but this could affect that!!! xoxo
9/20/2011 8:49:41 PM | Report
7714st @opeagles6-Check this out, ok? http://quizilla.teennick.com/quizzes/17946061/does-he-like-you
9/18/2011 10:52:16 AM | Report
7714st @kk<3theBiebs-Girl, he likes you. It's 100% obvious. He didn't deny it. If he didn't like you, he would deny it. Still, give him a note, like from elementary school. "Do you like me? Check yes or no" It's cute, and it'll let on that you like him too. I say, go for it!
9/18/2011 10:47:57 AM | Report
7714st @kakes6416-Glad I could help. :)
9/18/2011 10:43:55 AM | Report
dramaqueen122 heyyy how do i know if my crush likes me? if u need info about him i can tell you
9/18/2011 10:47:55 AM | Report
SwimGirl945 Cont. really well and he would ask you out if he likes you, which he mite. Can you tell me more info?? xoxo good luck!! (:
9/20/2011 8:53:05 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Your crush qill talk to you a lot and he will probably text you a lot or if he odesn't have youl ask you for it. He mite ask your friends about you. If you think he likes then you shld ask 2 of ur friends to tell him 4 u It could work out really
9/20/2011 8:51:35 PM | Report
kakes6416 give me some info and i can help you k?
9/18/2011 11:15:58 AM | Report
7714st @volleyballgirl7799-Hey, sorry I didn't reply sooner. First off, you just need to try and schedule things like doctor/dentist appointments after school or on weekends. Wash your hands often and keep hand sanitizer with you so you won't get sick. Also, try not to take any trips that could take away your valuable 3 days left-you want to save those for when you're actually sick. Second, congrats to you for getting rid of a horrible BF! Third, and lastly, you kinda sorta like one of them? It sounds like you just want a guy to like and don't really like him. I say, keep your distance. Be friendly, but not flirty. And don't lead them on. I know I sometimes do that (totally not on purpose) when a guy likes me, and it always turns out bad. Basically, be on the lookout for guys who you might be interested in, but don't ground yourself with one before you look at all the others
9/18/2011 10:41:41 AM | Report
7714st @kakes6416-It seems like you have a lot going on. First off, you want a guy to like you as a person, but not have a crush on you? Just do what you would do when you make any friends! Self Conscious: Look in the mirror and tell yourself every little thing you love about yourself, down to the last freckle. Walking down the hall like you own it doesn't hurt either. :) Fitness Tests: They're no big deal. Everyone will be a sweaty mess, but you can look like less than one. Try to get a stronger deodorant, put a head band on, tie your hair up, and just try your best! An athletic girl is great in a guy's view.
9/13/2011 6:20:15 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Also, try washing your face afterwards to make the redness and sweat go away!!! and seriousleh, every1 will be worn out snd probs look like it2 so dont worry bout it!
9/20/2011 8:58:33 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Also, try washing your face afterwards to make the redness and sweat go away!!! and seriousleh, every1 will be worn out snd probs look like it2 so dont worry bout it!
9/20/2011 8:58:22 PM | Report
kakes6416 omg!!! 7714st today i was at the fair in my town and i saw my crush there and he said hi to me!!!!!!! YAY ur advice really helped!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/17/2011 3:10:30 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 Heyy does anyone wanna join my advice queens page?? its new! positions r open! would heart it if u joined!! xoxo
9/16/2011 11:25:30 PM | Report
kakes6416 sure i'll try to find it and i'll join if i do!!! good luck recruiting others too!!! :)
9/17/2011 9:35:28 AM | Report
kakes6416 OMG IT WORKED!!!!!!!!!!! I <3 U!!! Thx sooooooooooooooooooo much 7714st!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
9/16/2011 3:34:20 PM | Report
opeagles6 Gotta question: I like this guy but idk if he likes me back! And sometimes he can be a jerk but other times he is really nice. What should i do?????????
9/15/2011 4:23:13 PM | Report
kakes6416 hes prob just confused just keep on puttin on that charm you've gotta hav in ya and he'll come around
9/16/2011 3:33:37 PM | Report
kakes6416 Thanks sooooooooooooooooooooooo MUCH 7714st!!! That advice helps i'm gonna test it out tomorrow thx!!! :D
9/14/2011 9:43:08 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @acutiebookworm That is not silly! It's very creative and guys love creative girls!!! Why not just give it to him? I'm sure it will be fine and a sweet gesture. :)
9/8/2011 3:47:26 PM | Report
kakes6416 i really like this guy and hes in my homeroom but my friend likes him too :( and im not allowed to date but how do i get him to like me without like likeing me?
9/11/2011 8:17:12 PM | Report
SwimGirl945 That sounds tough. thats happened to some of my friends too. r u allowed 2 "date" where u just hang out at lunch and text each othr and stuff?? xoxo
9/16/2011 11:20:32 PM | Report
kakes6416 omg ive been feelin kinda self concious lately and like, it feels like everyone hates me idk wats happenin? can anyone help?
9/12/2011 7:34:43 PM | Report
kakes6416 omg im a sweaty messs!!!!! my crush is in my gym class and tomorrow is the fitness test so im training and im kinda worried cuz today my deodorant failed YIKES!!!!!!!!! kinda (scratch that) REALLY nervous!!!
9/12/2011 7:14:29 PM | Report
kakes6416 i really like this guy and hes in my homeroom but my friend likes him too :( and im not allowed to date but how do i get him to like me without like likeing me?
9/11/2011 8:14:28 PM | Report
ACollins I'm right in the same boat as you and so far it seems to be sinking faster and faster. I like this guy and we're really good frenamies/friends but he likes one of my so called friends who is really pretty but she can tend to be kind of nasty and mean
10/8/2011 8:20:50 AM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 of getting into one of the harder programs if didnt have many abset days, i dont know what to do! also, i just broke up with my awful bf and now both of his best friends like me and i kinda sortlike one of them back! HELP!
9/10/2011 10:56:48 PM | Report
lalalandisin2468 if you like this guy and he likes you try getting closer to him. He's probably not like your ex.
9/30/2011 7:18:34 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 helpp, im trying to get into the best public school in the state but i cant haveany more than 5 sick days and i have already had 2 and its only the beginning of september! im stressing out1 one of theteachers at the school told me i had a good chance
9/10/2011 10:54:52 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 i just started middle school 3 days ago and i already have a HUGE crush on this guy i dont even know! hes only said 1 thing 2 me so far, but i want 2 get 2 know him better and talk 2 him. how do i do that without being too obvious? also i'm rlly shy!
9/9/2011 9:16:56 PM | Report
kakes6416 Do the flirt in the hallway trick. Day 1: make eye contact, day 2: make eye contact with a small smile, day 3: smile and eye contact, day 4: say hey and smile w/ eye contact (if comfortable), day 5: the guy will most likely talk to you!!! Hooray!!!
9/10/2011 2:41:22 PM | Report
MusikRox1999
thanks so much, this will b rlly helpful. he's only in 1 of my classes which is art, so do u hav any ideas how 2 get his attention there? p.s. i'm a rlly good artist :)
 
You could act like you're having trouble with something the teacher has explained, and ask him for help. You could also ask him to borrow some of his paint and ask him for his feedback on some of your work. Hope this helps and good luck! :) :)
Lynae P.
9/10/2011 7:26:29 PM | Report
dramaqueen122 this is strange. ummm a mod commented???
9/18/2011 10:46:44 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy @pupaya I totally agree with #MousaayLove u should confront him and maybe after you've known eachother longer and you see you have feelings with him you can go out. :)
9/8/2011 3:46:14 PM | Report
7714st @chocolateworld12-After a good conversation, when you have to leave, you should say: "I would text you, but I don't have your number." They should offer up their number pronto. :)
9/5/2011 1:23:55 PM | Report
kakes6416 How do I join the club I'm kinda new to this website
9/10/2011 2:18:44 PM | Report
chocolateworld12 thanks! That's a great thing to say! I bet he can't say no to that!
9/8/2011 7:24:50 PM | Report
pupaya this guy asked me out and ive only known him for 3 weeks. i said no but then i felt bad because he got extremely red faced! but now when i talk to him he looks down so i cant tell if hes ashamed or looking at my boobs!! what should i do?
9/6/2011 6:51:30 PM | Report
toadie101 he could be looking at your boobs (ugh sorry!) but he's prob just ashamed. don't feel guilty for turning him down! you have a right 2 your feelings for someone. don't let him change your mind unless you develop "those" feelings for him. Good Luck!
10/16/2011 12:36:21 PM | Report
kakes6416 hes prob. just ashamed thats all don't judge him he must be sooooooooo oooooooooo embarrassed so don't even think about it just ignore him but if he says something then be polite and answer... remember it must be awkward for him!!!
9/12/2011 4:23:51 PM | Report
MousaayLove You Should Just Talk To Him Face To Face.Ask Him Whats Wrong. If You Only Knew Him For 3 Weeks, I Think You Made The Right Decision.
9/7/2011 7:54:49 PM | Report
pupaya thanks!!
9/10/2011 3:20:00 PM | Report
MousaayLove Welcome!! (:
9/11/2011 10:47:04 PM | Report
AcutieBookworm for how I could do something less silly!
9/6/2011 5:25:32 PM | Report
AcutieBookworm Hey 7714st, I made this adorable little card to day with a really cute drawing of girl on it and on her t-shirt it said "Text Me" and on her arm it had my number, but I chickened out before I gave it to him! Ugh! do you have any ideas for how (cont.)
9/6/2011 5:24:54 PM | Report
7714st @potter4ever-I hear ya. I've known my guy since second grade, and we started out that way too. Just go with the flow, but if you really want something to happen, grab his hand while you're walking, or hug him when you have to leave. It should kick start things for you two.
9/5/2011 1:21:46 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Sorry I wasn't on the last couple days but I'm on vacation... :D I can answer anything right now though! :)
9/4/2011 9:36:12 PM | Report
dramaqueen122 ppl plz check out my advice queen page xoxo Maria
9/5/2011 11:32:20 AM | Report
potter4ever So i have known this guy since preschool and now his is my boyfriend but we don't really do couple stuff, it is just like we are good friends. Should i try to talk to him about it or just go will the flow? HELP!!!!!!
9/5/2011 9:56:42 AM | Report
chocolateworld12 hope you had a good time. I have one question for really anyone to answer. How do I give my crush my cell number without being awkward?
9/5/2011 7:11:28 AM | Report
dramaqueen122 say something like hey text me later and slip him a cute note after having a nice conversation in the hall or on the bus
9/5/2011 11:33:48 AM | Report
7714st @LexilicousCandy-Yeah, I have that one bookmarked. I also have http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/17/confusing-guy-behavior.aspx and http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/guy-friends-must-have.aspx bookmarked.
9/2/2011 5:12:03 PM | Report
7714st @paramorebabe-Yeah, I would wait until school starts and see how the chemistry between you is.
9/2/2011 5:09:54 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy Ok girls if you haven't checked this out yet I definitely recommend it! Just go to this link: http://www.girlslife.com/post/post/2008/08/18/guy-secrets.aspx ;) XOXO- Lexi
8/31/2011 8:48:33 PM | Report
dramaqueen122 omg i saw that! i nearly died at how amazing this post was...for SURE the best I've seen on GL yet!!! xoxo Maria
9/1/2011 12:41:33 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* I don't know if I need advice or not....anyways here is the situation: There's this guy (isn't there always?) in the grade below me who I have kind of a weird history with...we never dated or anything but in 7th grade he asked me out, and I said know because I didn't know who he was at the time, and then it was all awkward but last year (8th grade) he texted me non-stop at the beginning of the year, but after January 39 (don't know why I remembered the exact date!) he stopped. Cold turkey. No texts at all for about 9 months! Then out of the blue, on Monday, he texted me! We didn't have a very long conversation, but I had to wonder what caused him to text me....and we've never really talked that much, its always been kinda awkward between us, we were locker neighbors last year but we still didn't talk too much, so that's just how it is! Do you guys think he likes me and afraid to talk to me? And why would he just stop altogether? Oh, and today at a game me and my BFF bought lollipops from him (as a fundraiser) and I don't know what he thought of that. So what are you girls' thoughts?
9/8/2011 9:27:48 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @volleyballgirl7799 Why not try making friends elsewhere? Who knows you might just find your best gal pal at the Starbucks or the bowling alley. Nobody said your bestie has to go to your school ;)
8/28/2011 9:34:14 PM | Report
7714st @paramorebabe-Wow, you're a wanted girl! You currently have a BF, right? If you really like him, then none of these other guys should matter. But if you find yourself preferring someone else, maybe you and your BF aren't meant to be. Think about it, and write back.
8/28/2011 1:45:28 PM | Report
paramorebabe idk in the beginning me and him were in love no questions asked but this summer we have grown apart, we havent seen each other or anything. Should I wait til school starts and go from there? I really dont want any drama tho
9/1/2011 1:13:36 PM | Report
dramaqueen122 @paramorebabe-yes, i know how you feel.too many guys to sort out,too little time!I agree with 7714st.try to break it to your boyfriend, not by saying hey i like another guy.like, you're really great but I just don't feel in ln love. xoxo Maria
8/29/2011 2:02:31 PM | Report
rdorrow i agree!
8/28/2011 6:18:37 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @volleyballgirl7799 If you are being bullied because of this then you need to tell a teacher, parent, someone you trust, your safety comes first! There are tons of girls that like music and Broadway and being catholic has nothing to do with it so be Yourself keep listening to whatever music you want (don’t change 4 A-N-Y-B-O-D-Y!) there’s probably other girls there that feel the same way you do so be friendly and others are sure to too! Good luck and to anyone who lives on the East Coast (Especially Eastern North Carolina) and is on the path of Hurricane Irene, be safe! XOXO-Lexi
8/26/2011 1:56:45 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 ... girls and i have no one to hang out with, what should i do with no friends that are girls and i cant really hang out with all guys they dont really accept me hanging out with their group...
8/27/2011 7:57:31 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 well i have known every single girl there since i was like 4 or 5 and im just so much different from everyone else and no one accepts that and im kinda lonely cuz i have no girlfriends, im just left out and i dont really click with any of the 25...
8/27/2011 7:55:47 PM | Report
flutechick101 Thanks! Were getting the hurricane tomorrow- the eye is supposed to go right through our state! I'm kinda nervous, but were stocked up on supplies and stuff. upper new england isn't used to this weather either! haha thanks!
8/27/2011 11:31:20 AM | Report
flutechick101 Hey girlies!! If you need any advice, please post on my profile! I'm offering advice on anything. Thanks! flutechick101 xoxo
8/29/2011 6:28:14 PM | Report
paramorebabe helpp please!! Ok so i currently hav a bf but i hav a few other guys its all confusing...so this guy i hav history with wants me back and another guy ive been friends with forever likes me and ive always like him and another one who is older and wants me to go out with him and ANOTHER one is like BGF and likes me what do i do????
8/27/2011 6:40:44 PM | Report
paramorebabe helpp please!! Ok so i currently hav a bf but i hav a few other guys its all confusing...so this guy i hav history with wants me back and another guy ive been friends with forever likes me and ive always like him and another one who is older and wants me to go out with him and ANOTHER one is like BGF and likes me what do i do????
8/27/2011 6:40:34 PM | Report
paramorebabe helpp please!! Ok so i currently hav a bf but i hav a few other guys its all confusing...so this guy i hav history with wants me back and another guy ive been friends with forever likes me and ive always like him and another one who is older and wants me to go out with him and ANOTHER one is like BGF and likes me what do i do????
8/27/2011 6:39:54 PM | Report
paramorebabe helpp please!! Ok so i currently hav a bf but i hav a few other guys its all confusing...so this guy i hav history with wants me back and another guy ive been friends with forever likes me and ive always like him and another one who is older and wants me to go out with him and ANOTHER one is like BGF and likes me what do i do????
8/27/2011 6:38:19 PM | Report
kakes6416 WOW girly!!! uv got a llot of stuff going on but my choice would be the guy who uv been friends with forever who likes you. just my opinion it just seems right
9/16/2011 3:49:10 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy 702 members? Wow just a couple days ago we had like 500! Great job girlies! :)
8/24/2011 12:14:29 AM | Report
abbyglow500 Can I maybe have a posisition? I give great advice on boys and I'll post often! Pls consider!!!
8/25/2011 7:18:50 PM | Report
7714st I was at school when the earth quake happened, and I didn't feel a thing, but some of the other classes did.
8/23/2011 6:53:32 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 hey soo i like a lot of random music and i love broadway but i got to a small catholic school with 50 people in my grade and no one accepts that i like that and every one calls me weird ill be outta this school next year but could u please help me?
8/25/2011 6:26:23 PM | Report
hoppswimmer10 ya I was at home and felt it, and im all the way in nj!
8/24/2011 9:56:17 AM | Report
LexilicousCandy Hey girlies so school starts on Thursday, cheer-leading practice is starting up again on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays. Tuesdays & Thursdays I tutor 8th grade and younger, and everyday I have private orchestra sessions not to mention I also Babysit, am working on my novels and having meeting with the lovely models who do my covers for me. So I am so sorry if I don’t get on every day or stay on as long but you can see how busy my schedule is… however that won’t stop me from helping you girlies out with anything you need! I also have some exciting news… I got a letter from “People to People Ambassador Programs” and next summer I get to travel and study around the world to places including Italy, France, Switzerland, and Austria!!!!!!!! I am so excited I cannot even put it into words!!!!! :) I haven’t really been out of the USA so I am so freaked! So is your schedule packed full too? Did something awesome happen to you? Or maybe you’re in the program too? I would love to know! Also there was supposedly “the worst earthquake on the East Coast of the century” but I was taking nap believe it or not when it happened and I didn’t feel a thing so if you’re on the East Coast (or any of your family) like me I hope you’re all alright! Comment below! Bye! XOXO- Lexi ♥
8/23/2011 5:48:23 PM | Report
*sTaRsTrUcK* NO WAY!! My friend got accepted to People to People program too! I wonder if you'll meet her!
9/8/2011 9:19:58 PM | Report
baconlvr711 abbyglow500:basically what 7714st said:wear an awesome outfit,smile,and b confident!!Also,if u meet a potential friend,be nice!Also if u see a guy u like u can ask where ur next class is and start a convo with him!!But the #1 thing is B URSELF!! <3
8/20/2011 11:08:33 AM | Report
hoppswimmer10 Come join my club the randomistas club! Positions are availible. And this all girls club is great! Congraz on 700 members!!!
8/23/2011 1:45:57 PM | Report
7714st Whoa...685 members...guys, I seriously can't thank you enough, and I try to help you guys as much as I can in return for your faith in us. Thank you so much!
8/17/2011 8:07:04 PM | Report
littlemissy226 hey girlies, come join my clubs
8/19/2011 2:58:22 PM | Report
7714st @volleyballgirl7799-Tell your BF straight out-you don't have feelings for your ex anymore, and you're just friends. He sounds like the jealous type though, so be careful. Tell him that you deserve to be able to talk to whoever you want, but say it gently so he doesn't get mad.
8/17/2011 8:05:43 PM | Report
7714st @abbyglow500-Impress them with a rocking outfit, a fantastic smile, and a confident attitude. Most of all, be yourself! You want friends who like the real you, not a fake one. I am a personal believer in natural beauty, so if you feel comfortable with it, go make up free. I find it makes me feel so much better about myself, but some people feel more confident with make up, so it's up to you!
8/17/2011 8:03:36 PM | Report
7714st @loganabanana03-The "Walk like you own the place" thing? I started doing that last year, and it gave me tons more confidence, and made me feel better about myself. Also, If you're confident, more people will like you!
8/17/2011 7:58:17 PM | Report
LexilicousCandy @bbaconlvr711 Thank you for the kind words and your absolutely right! We will all really try to give you great advice! :)
8/16/2011 8:48:33 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 oh and i forgot to mention my ex that i always talk to still likes me and stares at me all the time and its kinda creepy. we went out twice he broke up with me the first time then i broke up with him. hes kinda also my bf's best friend
8/17/2011 6:13:04 PM | Report
volleyballgirl7799 hey so my bf is mean to me because i talk to my ex b a lot and he is really getting annoying about a lot of stuff and complains that i yell too much (i hardly ever yell) i dont want to break up with him because i REALLY like him help me please
8/17/2011 6:09:43 PM | Report
abbyglow500 hey im starting a new school and i want 2 impress everyone including the boyz oh and btw ur an officer @ my club heart stoppers:)
8/17/2011 6:07:09 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 hey luv this club! everyone plz check out my profile i'll give advice on anything and everything u can think of! <3 xoxo
8/17/2011 1:29:16 AM | Report