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makeitshine21 Hey everyone! Quick reminder, we still have two openings for leaders of the club! :) Leave a comment below if you think you'd be up for the job and why.
2/3/2012 5:01:27 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @sparkle and shop Go with your gut, does it seem to you like he's kidding around, or is it for real? If it really bothers you tell him to stop. If he doesn't tell a counselor or your mom.
2/3/2012 4:58:30 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @100%smiley using you how? i recommend telling an adult you trust about your situation. Talk to your mom, dad, school counselor, or anyone who you're comfortable with.
2/3/2012 4:57:10 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 any questions? comment here!
9/1/2011 1:28:06 PM | Report
abigail11 i have 3 friends, rachel, valerie, and allison. one day val told me all this stuff about allison. i told allison all about it out of anger. then val found out and now shes super mad. she and rachel r getting way to close and leaving me out. HELP ME!
4/21/2012 8:41:56 AM | Report
sparkle and shop so theirs this guy and he acts like he hates me but my friend says he likes me but he only pays attention to me in one class because i sit in front of him in one class and didn't know but he could have been kidding what do think does he hate me ornot
1/14/2012 5:47:18 PM | Report
100%Smiley my friend is useing me what can i do ony advice please thx
11/12/2011 6:02:05 PM | Report
guineapiglove143 ...more information please?
12/23/2011 10:48:41 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @bostonbaby: btw, cute gift idea :)
8/27/2011 11:57:37 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @bostonbaby: sorry that he's making it hard for you...try talking to him about it?
8/27/2011 11:56:45 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999: If she likes him back, that's probably not the best idea. Maybe find someone else?
8/16/2011 11:18:55 AM | Report
bostonbaby im in 7th grade and there is this semiformal 8thgrade dance i want to go to. i was going to get one of my brother's friends to go with me but he is telling them all they can't. i want to go and with someone i know but my bro is making this imposssibl
8/18/2011 9:22:44 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 ok thanks for the advice maxie843, emmaisawesome225, and guineapiglove143 :) <3 xoxo
8/16/2011 8:45:31 PM | Report
maxie843 @MusikRox1999: oh, ik the feeling. (having ur crush like ur twin). but, as for just one dance, i think its ok. as long as ur sis doesnt like him back.
8/15/2011 7:20:58 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 well she really likes him too, but would it be too big a deal? we're only going into the 7th grade and are way too young to date. is it still a good idea even if she likes him back? <3 xoxo
8/15/2011 9:12:26 PM | Report
guineapiglove143 @MusikRox1999: maybe you can if u ask ur sis if its ok with her. or you could find someone else that you could ask to dance with you.
8/16/2011 11:20:31 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999: if u reaaally like him, then just go for it! don't necessarily ask him to the dance itself, but for just one song it shouldn't be an issue. if u want things to go further, start hanging out with him a little more. show him how cool u r
8/15/2011 2:58:47 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @bostonbaby (part3): il idea is a gift card to a book store. almost everyone likes a good book. :)
8/14/2011 7:25:01 PM | Report
MusikRox1999 plz help! i rlly wanna ask my crush to slow dance at our school dance, but he rlly likes someone else, and that happens to be my twin sis! should i still ask him to dance? plz answer ASAP! thanks <3 xoxo
8/15/2011 2:49:40 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @bostonbaby (part2): having a friend that acts younger and less mature. if you really want to give her something older maybe try something like lipgloss/makeup or a cool accessory as well as something you know for sure she'll enjoy. also, a never-fa
8/14/2011 7:24:17 PM | Report
bostonbaby Thanks i ended up getting her a mini perfume set and 2 cute lip glosses thanks a bunch!
8/18/2011 9:18:24 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @bostonbaby: i have a friend who acts pretty young too. but, instead of buying her a "older" gift ask her what types of things she wants. getting her something she really wants instead of trying to make her older. sometimes it feels a little weird
8/14/2011 7:19:30 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie Have any questions on friends, mean girls, popularity, guys, family, growing up stuff or anything at all? Just ask it right here!
8/11/2011 5:07:17 PM | Report
bostonbaby So I have this friend Alison, she is 12 and acts about 7 its her mom's doing. In a week it's her birthday. Since she acts young everyone always gets her young gifts. Me and my mom want to get her an 'older" gift but we want her to like it any ideas?
8/14/2011 5:13:53 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @MusikRox1999(part3): So, basically just find something you love to do. It really can't hurt to do the things you love, and it'll help ya find some new buds. :) Also, don't forget: guys can be great drama-free friends. Good luck!! <3
8/11/2011 5:05:10 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @MusikRox1999(part2): can become anyone i want when i'm on stage. I met a girl who completely understands me and i completely understand her. it's really nice and we bonded over our love of singing and being on stage together.
8/11/2011 5:03:46 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @MusikRox1999: i'm not too outgoing either. but it helps me to break out from my shell by being with people that like the same things i do. last year i met lots of new friends in my drama class because i discovered that drama is something i love. i
8/11/2011 5:01:52 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds: i'm glad to know i'm making a difference :)
8/11/2011 4:59:26 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999 (part4): friends you'll have nothing to worry about.
8/11/2011 4:58:31 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999 (part3): friends from your old school. it's not the same as seeing them at school everyday, but they're going to want to hear from you. trust me, 2 of my very close friends are going to private schools this fall. between new and old
8/11/2011 4:57:54 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999 (part2): that is definitely a conversation starter. after a while you can invite a couple of new friends to go to the mall with you, or go see a movie. soon you'll have some really awesome friends. also, still keep in touch with your
8/11/2011 4:56:30 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @MusikRox1999: well, since you're going into a new school it's a chance to try new things, like join a club you've always wanted to do but have been scared. or, you could join a club you were in before. you can meet people with similar interests and
8/11/2011 4:54:34 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @Head In The Clouds (continued): ound other people, even teachers, until you get back on track. :)
8/4/2011 10:49:23 AM | Report
MusikRox1999 hey i need advice! i'm going to a new school next year and i'm afraid i'll have no friends because i'm super shy! how can i make new friends? thanks so much!
8/8/2011 1:08:39 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @Head In The Clouds: That really sucks that she's telling all your secrets, but in my opinion if you act like it doesn't get to you she might stop. Also, about her acting super mean and mad that's a signal to probably stay away from her. just hang ar
8/4/2011 10:48:28 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds(part5): with her. Did you do anything that could have been upsetting?
8/4/2011 10:42:41 AM | Report
Head In The Clouds @emmaisawesome225 and heyheyitslexie, Thank you guys sooo much, I will definitely take your advice.
8/7/2011 8:09:11 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds(part4): lot to hear it from someone like you" in a kind but slightly sarcastic tone. When she gets mad at you, chances are you probably didn't do anything wrong. But if you really think that you did, walk through your interactions
8/4/2011 10:42:03 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (part3): younger sibling begging for attention out of boredom. It's best if you keep calm and act normal. She storms up to you and says something really mean? Act like it doesn't hurt. Say something like, "thank you, it means a
8/4/2011 10:40:13 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (part2): know you or really care enough to retain the information. you like dylan? they don't know you or dylan so they don't care. As for her getting mad at you, maybe it's best to ignore it. She probably wants a reaction, like a
8/4/2011 10:38:22 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (contin.): friends don't go to the same school, at least if some of them don't. because, it then prevents the possibility of this happening again. the worst case scenario? your friend tells all your secrets to people who don't
8/4/2011 10:35:54 AM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds: one of my close friends had someone telling all her secrets, but not only that she had her mom helping her. it's really awful, but the best thing you can do is talk to a counselor and some new, better friends. it's okay if your
8/4/2011 10:34:35 AM | Report
makeitshine21 @mermaidg12: ok, you know what? from what i understand from your comment, which isnt a lot (srry!!!!) i think that you should try to branch out and get to know other friends a little better and take a break from this mean friend. hope this helps...
8/2/2011 6:01:36 PM | Report
maxie843 Hey everyone! We're looking for specialists to help run our club. People like a guy help specialist, fashion specialist, friendship specialist or something. Just leave your idea for what you want to be in a comment. Only 2 will be chose for use. Thnx
8/2/2011 5:48:29 PM | Report
sugarandspice14 I could be a fashion consultant person maybe but i dont go online that much.
8/3/2011 10:43:10 AM | Report
guineapiglove143 I could be a friendship specialist...
8/3/2011 10:42:04 AM | Report
heyheyitslexie @Head In The Clouds awww :) i'm happy to help
8/2/2011 5:39:26 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 continued: it really hurts. You feel alone, but you're not. I just realized that. You might feel like you don't have a real "best friend" anymore. I didn't. I still don't. But deep down I know that things will get better. For both of us.
8/2/2011 5:37:13 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds Continnued, Getting over it. I just wish we had more classmates. And sometimes she gets mad at me and won't tell me why, and I can't figure out what I did! It drives me crazy!!
8/2/2011 8:51:10 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds The thing that bugs me most is she tells everyone my secrets, even though I've kept hers from everyone. All my close friends go to other schools. My BGF moved to a different school and I only get to see him once or twice a month. But I am slowly
8/2/2011 8:50:01 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds: OMG I KNOW EXACTLY HOW U FEEL! In 5th grade my ex-bff met a girl she thought was cooler than me. (She's basically just closer to being in the "popular" group). She's been stalking her ever since. :-P I guess all I can say is yes
8/2/2011 5:35:06 PM | Report
makeitshine21 ANY NEW QUESTIONS???? ASK THEM HERE!!!!!
8/2/2011 2:07:48 PM | Report
guineapiglove143 Like, I'm seriously terrified of High School, college, futures and such. i just wanna stay a kid forever!!!!! :( :( :( :(
8/2/2011 6:07:53 PM | Report
guineapiglove143 I'm starting HS this fall and I was wondering if anyone at all has any tips for high school? (not necessarily the club leaders but anyone visiting this site in general.)
8/2/2011 2:09:12 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @Head In The Clouds (part2): what they're doing, and let the other targets know that you will always be there for them no matter what the other girls do. I really hope this makes a difference for u. good luck!
8/2/2011 1:58:25 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds To heyheyitslexie and emmaisawesome225, thank you guys so much. you have no idea how good it feels to be able to tell this to people and know they are supporting
8/2/2011 3:23:40 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @Head In The Clouds: Ouch. Like emmaisawesome225 said, I think you should sit down and have a talk with your friends. Both the ones talking behind your back, and the targets. Let the girls that are talking about you know that you're not okay with
8/2/2011 1:57:25 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (part 5) in your group? Talk to him. Guy friends are awesome because generally they're drama-free and super fun to hang around. I really hope this get better for you this schoolyear. :)
8/2/2011 1:55:18 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds Plus, I've tried talking to them but they deny it and call me a jerk and a liar. I only have one year left with them though, so I hope it's better.
8/2/2011 3:22:35 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds Thank you guys! I am pretty close with these other two, but I will take your advice and become closer. The worst part is that one of the girls talking about me is that she was my Best Friend. So it kinda 'stings'. Thank you guys SOOOOOO much though
8/2/2011 3:21:15 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (part 4): friends and found that some people had it even worse than me. Anyway, moving on was really a challenge for me but I did it. I found new and better friends who will always be there for me. Also, you said there was a guy
8/2/2011 1:54:09 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (part 3): will start to feel better. During the schoolyear last year was my worst year ever. Basically, my two best friends stopped talking to me. So, I was very lonely as you can imagine. But, I branched out to not-as-close
8/2/2011 1:52:49 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds (continued): so try to get closer to those 2 other friends. it'll feel a lot better. As for the girl who is depressed, is she in need of medical help? How bad is it? Maybe if you make sure that you're always there for her when she
8/2/2011 1:51:38 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @Head In The Clouds: You're friends are mean? I'm really sorry and I'm sure you've heard this from anyone else you've talked to but you either need to talk to them or find some new friends. It looks like you already have 2 other friends,
8/2/2011 1:50:06 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 @sirwagsalot I think you should sit down and have a talk with this friend. if that doesnt help then start to branch out and spend more time with other friends instead of her. hope this helps ;)
8/1/2011 12:24:55 PM | Report
Head In The Clouds Hey, My friends are kind of mean. They constantly talk about me and my other 2 friends behind my back. This other girl is depressed and Idk how to help. We only have 6 girls and 1 guy in our class. 3 of those girls are in the clique. any ideas?
8/2/2011 11:16:59 AM | Report
heyheyitslexie hey everyone! we have to more positions left on here, so if you think you could dish awesome advice when we aren't avalible, then please comment on emmaisawesome225's profile :)
8/1/2011 12:22:03 PM | Report
makeitshine21 srry i meant @emmaisawesome225 :) :) :) haha shes the owner :)
7/31/2011 1:00:27 PM | Report
makeitshine21 @heyheyitslexie thanks for adding me!!i know i didnt apply the right way...i emailed u but yeah thnx u know how much it means to me to get practice like this..
7/31/2011 1:00:03 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 Hey everyone! I know that I'm the one who is supposed to be giving advice...but I was hoping that you could help me with tips for starting high school. Like...things you wish you had done freshman year. Plz comment!!!! :)
7/31/2011 12:57:39 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie But there are things you can do to help. You can start talking to another friend, you can talk to a guidence counselor, or a parent/guardian. It's important to talk to people who you've known for a while and you know you can trust.
7/31/2011 12:56:15 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @116276 it's really tough when a person that you've known for a long time turns on you. it happened to a really close friend of mine and her ex-bff. She turned all her other friends from her except me and one other girl. It was really tough.
7/31/2011 12:55:02 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie hey guys! we're looking for a secretary to help answering questions....please comment to apply.
7/31/2011 12:52:48 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie @mermaidg12 what exactly did ur friend say??? :-/
7/31/2011 12:52:09 PM | Report
maxie843 @sirwagsalot i had a friend like that. we're still friendly but i've moved on and made new friends. it really helped a lot.
7/31/2011 12:46:43 PM | Report
maxie843 @116276 no. that's wrong and you need to talk to her. either that or find a new friend...
7/31/2011 12:45:41 PM | Report
maxie843 @mermaidg12 wait can you please explain more about the situation?
7/31/2011 12:44:53 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 if anyone needs advice just comment on this post.
4/10/2011 10:20:00 AM | Report
mermaidg12 ok hey, my friend said she forgave me but she keeps hinting that im fake because i had talked about her. but on facebook she wrote three long statuses about me. and i commented. what do i do if she keeps doing it and wont forgive me ever?
6/8/2011 2:28:22 PM | Report
sjz2016 HEY EVERYONE!!! you got stuck in a problem with guy, friends, or just have something funny to share? Well I am your gal to come too!!! That's right I am an advice queen! come check me out!!!!! Just hit my link and click the BASKETBALL on my profile
5/20/2011 6:28:48 PM | Report
sirwagsalot I really need advice about what to do about my "Friend". She is always trying to be better than me. She will act like she doesn't know us one day and then be super friendly the next day. She always lies and I dont know what to do.
5/7/2011 11:22:23 AM | Report
116276 This girl and ive been friends for years and shes muniplitive, bratty, and selfish person. She got a BF recently, got possessive, and threatened my other BFFs. All the while her BFs been hurting me. But shes been doing nothing. Do I forgive her?
5/14/2011 7:47:43 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 yeah sure :)
4/5/2011 7:50:59 PM | Report
maxie843 hi its max :)
4/5/2011 8:09:54 PM | Report
heyheyitslexie thnx for making me vp :)
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emmaisawesome225 @soccergirl524 i didn't mean to add anybody do you want me to take you off?
4/5/2011 4:46:53 PM | Report
soccergirl524 nahhhh i'm happy to be VP :)
4/6/2011 6:39:58 PM | Report
emmaisawesome225 thats so weird i just made this club but i didn't think i added anybody... :\
4/5/2011 4:45:43 PM | Report
soccergirl524 hey.... i was never asked to be a part of this club! :P
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