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CATEGORY: Guys/Dating | CREATED: 3/16/2011 | MEMBERS: 167

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jazmine ann @JessicaAnn i have been in klthis situation before. What we did is my friends boyfreind friend josh(also my friend) had his phone in his sweatshirts pocket and recorded what he said. so we knew he was saying bad things.

7/8/2011 7:26:22 PM | Report

myfatsquirrel sry guys but i'm leaving this club

6/28/2012 1:23:05 PM | Report

myfatsquirrel ugh i like my ex. help!

4/7/2012 11:33:55 AM | Report

treschicchick I like this guy since 5th grade and in 5th grade we would always have inside jokes and he would kid around with me, but now he ignores me like I never existed, also he is a jerk with his friends ! I dont know should I tell him I still like him or..??

2/7/2012 10:02:16 AM | Report

AznDreamer I have a really great BF. Thing is that whenever we see each other we dont say hi, or even hang out. He's over seas right now, and is coming back in a week. I want to get him a something special. Im not that rich. But he is. What should I do?

12/17/2011 8:26:46 PM | Report

armygirlnat101 Hey i say give him something he will never forget, something that reminds him of you. :)

5/21/2012 2:40:03 PM | Report

wingsfree i think you should make something like a card or some kind of craft for him

3/8/2012 8:04:30 PM | Report

rainbowsparkle98 HELP!!ok so me and my boyfriend go to different schools and my parents wont let us go on a date unchaperoned...we text and stuff but i was wondering what are some ways we could see eachother?!?

9/1/2011 6:38:48 PM | Report

treschicchick Go on a group date with your friends and text him to get a couple of his friends to go to a go see a movie together! Group dates are so much better with parents. Also you might be able to hook up some of your friends with his :)

2/7/2012 9:48:15 AM | Report

cicibooh123 you can say you are staying with your friends but actually going to see him so somebody can give you a ride up there with out your parents noticing

10/12/2011 2:28:25 PM | Report

paramorebabe heyy!! please please please join my club Advice911 i just made made it a couple weeks ago and no members yet :/ i love giving advice about anytopic i even have my own advice columm in my school newspaper. Im on a lot to answer any questions ASAP! :)

9/1/2011 1:03:52 PM | Report

groovergirl and not tell my parents or ask my parents if i can, or just stay friends with him until 9th grade?? i need an answer asap!!

8/5/2011 10:06:47 AM | Report

moonieisepic ASK PARENTS!!!!!!

11/21/2011 6:25:55 PM | Report

kakes6416 u should soooooooooooo tell ur parents or just stay friends do NOT risk your parents trust for one little crush

9/21/2011 2:14:13 PM | Report

brook4368 @groovegirl, Do NOT go and date him behind your parents back! It will definetly back fire on you. Parents are smart and can find things out easily. They sometimes know you better than you know yourself. Please don't go behind your parents back.

9/5/2011 12:17:40 AM | Report

Sadie594 I need some help! So a while ago, I had a bf behind my parents back, and I think they know! (we broke up) I'm REALLY scared! Can I please have some help?

9/26/2011 8:53:12 AM | Report

groovergirl help! so i REALLY like this boy and he likes me back and we both know that we like eachother. But i cant date until 9th grade and im in 7th. But the thing is my family doesnt no i even like anyone cuz i am scared to tell them. should i just date him

8/5/2011 10:05:33 AM | Report

cutie00 no i tried that once and i couln't take it. just tell him if u like me u can wait until at least the summer between 8th and 9th

2/24/2012 9:06:11 PM | Report

treschicchick In 7th grade you really can't "date" someone just hangout at school with him give him hugs in between classes and see what happens after, maybe you guys wont even want to go out anymore

2/7/2012 9:51:09 AM | Report

cutie00 thats truuu

3/15/2012 8:35:45 PM | Report

moonieisepic So I danced with this guy and the first thing he asks while we were dancing was 'Do you still like ____?' I said 'I think so. Small problem, I think I like the guy I danced with. What Do I Do Without Asking Him If He Likes Me/Telling Him I Like Him?!

11/21/2011 6:38:12 PM | Report

idaluvgirlzlife This boy asked me out today. He's smart, a little nerdy. but i am a nerd too. he was my BGF. my shy friend, who has never liked anyone told me the day before that she liked him. i like another boy, but he will never like me back. what to do????

9/28/2011 7:16:36 PM | Report

treschicchick Give him a chance, sometimes the best BFs are your guy friends because they already know you so well. If it doesnt work out tell him that you have had some feelings for someone else and you not sure about your feelings about him. end of story.

2/7/2012 9:58:02 AM | Report

idaluvgirlzlife also i have to think of an answer by tommorrow. sorry about the double post.

9/28/2011 8:51:11 PM | Report

9/28/2011 6:44:03 PM | Report

Laurenw23 I've been begging my parents for a facebook forever. They keep saying that they'll have a serious talk about it but they never do. I know what im doing on the computer and how to be safe on facebook. How can i show them that im responsible?

7/27/2011 8:34:11 PM | Report

treschicchick Ask them! There is no hurt in asking them what will it take to show your responsiblility to get facebook. Sometime just asking what you need to do shows that you a responsible by wanting to try to be more responsible. JUST ASK THEM!!

2/7/2012 9:54:03 AM | Report

hellogoodbye15 I've got a question: the other night my crush and I went to see a movie and... ended up making out. But at church this morning he acted like he always has. Idk, I thought things would change. Now I'm feeling kinda used. Advice?

7/24/2011 6:10:54 PM | Report

brook4368 I think you should talk to this boy! If he had the guts to kiss you he should be able to talk to you and answer some simple questions. He might just be worried he pushed things too far. Find a quiet place to talk to him and find out what's up asap!

9/5/2011 12:34:37 AM | Report

espaces14 Boy Drama! Ok so i met this boy at a dance, and we stayed together for the whole night, we talked, and texted forthe next few weeks.It wasnt anything serious, just puppylove. We went out a coupletimes, and then he asked me to be his gf. I accepted. his mom is protective and told him no gf's, but he dated me anyway. His mom found out and he broke up with me, he has no facebook now, and i am sort of afraid to call him. My friends wont listen causethey think this is stupid. I am just really confused on what to do b/c i still really like him!and rumor has it he still likes me please help.

7/23/2011 5:56:25 PM | Report

brook4368 @espaces14, I'm sorry to hear. Sounds like a tough situation. I think you should give this some time to sort through on it's own. Whatever you do, don't go behind his parents back. I think you might be better off friends.

9/5/2011 12:22:12 AM | Report

Sadie594 hi I just joined this club (I'm new on GL) and I have a problem so how do I comment without commenting on other peoples comments? (I hope that makes sense it's the best I can explain)

7/21/2011 3:18:15 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 @ChocoChica, You should ask him a "trivia" question. Say who do u like like better- me or (insert name here)? Before he answers u have 2 get ur bff to say that whoever he says will be te dated!:)))

5/14/2011 10:05:13 PM | Report

sugarpixie Omg there is this guy in my pe class and we see each other every day. I sorta have a crush on him. The thing is that we see each other ALL the time. (After school,lunch,etc.)what do I do?

10/15/2011 12:49:35 AM | Report

paramorebabe and ive always liked him and he just recently said tht hes always liked me a lot more than a little. And last but not least theres this older guy I met at our summer cabin who im going to see this weekend who wants us to have secret summer fun. HELP!

8/12/2011 9:53:31 AM | Report

paramorebabe HELPP!! ok so i currently have a bf and i think i love him? but theres also this guy i have a lot of history with who says he fell in love with me and now he can't get back up and moves. Then there's this other guy..we've been friends for like ever

8/12/2011 9:48:18 AM | Report

loldancer23 help!! i like this guy a lot and we are pretty good friends but today i found out that he knows that i like him because my friends are super obvious! what do i do not to make it awkward?? and how will i know if he likes me back?

5/31/2011 4:46:26 PM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 and i know its uncomfortable but there is no way to make it not awkward. tell him "okay well this is kinda awkward but (state the situation and tell him the truth about how you feel)" it will be awkward but it will get better

7/13/2011 5:03:20 PM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 hey i have been there and i did the wrong thing. do not lie and say that you don't like him. You should talk to him alone like in an unused hallway at school or on the phone and talk it over with him. good luck!

7/13/2011 5:01:37 PM | Report

mangomaniachic volleyballgirl7799> hey can you help me...i cant read guys....and i never get to see my boyfriend and we arent at any stage yet, really...i want to kiss...but i dont know how to get him to make the move...not me

8/5/2011 2:38:45 AM | Report

MrsRova Make sure .. that one day he will know .. it's the time to be honest wiz him .. if he likes u back he'll say it .. if dont .. try to forget ! .. hope i helped =)

6/24/2011 7:39:27 PM | Report

bratie08 I meet a boy at a party and I really like him but I'm changing schools but I heard that he dose not date girls from his school and he's single and aborable and I really really really really like him. Please Help Me Advice Queen's

6/7/2011 11:34:06 AM | Report

breezybree Help... I lyk dis guy Billy, But I dnt know wat he thinks of me!!! Should i tell him wat i think?

6/15/2011 3:24:21 AM | Report

MrsRova If he cares about u .. Tell Him ! ..

6/25/2011 9:31:55 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 HELP!My parents wont let me date bad boys. My BGF is a bb. He invited me over to the pool. We kindasorta started making out. When we were kissing, I truly felt he was he one. What do i do about my parent

5/14/2011 10:00:34 PM | Report

matkins8 hey if hes the 1 and you have a connection then i think you should talk to your parents and tell them how u feel

7/8/2011 4:34:13 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 I JUST GOT HOME FROM PIRATES DINNER ADVENTURE, BUENA PARK WHERE RADIO DISNEYS ROAD CREW WAS!!!! IWON LEMONADE MOUTH TEE SHIRT, FLORAL SKIRT, LEMONADE MOUTH BRACELES, A COOL MOUSEPAD, AND WE LEARNED A LOT OF COOL DANCE MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/14/2011 9:59:25 PM | Report

lovemag7 misspurple204, sounds like a guy in my grade ask around.. not be like,"do you think he likes me".. but ask,"do it seems he acts different around me" just ask and see the responses

5/14/2011 11:17:47 AM | Report

lovemag7 volleyballgirl7799, okay here's the thing.. you have to realize that the reason she might still be hating on him is because she still likes him. And with dating a friend's ex's can be trouble.. so choose now date her ex or still have her as a friend!

5/10/2011 5:47:24 PM | Report

misspurple204 I need help!Ive liked this guy for a really long time,and this year espesially we have been flirting ALOT with eachother.But,a lot of girls like him and talk to him alot.I cant tell if hes being any different with me then he is with other girls.Help!

5/13/2011 10:57:33 PM | Report

love2343 just go up to him and ask him what he thinks of the other girls than ask him what he thinks of you thats what i did to my friend damien and now me and him are really close know Casey L.

6/14/2011 4:05:39 PM | Report

lovemag7 steph201347489, okay here's what you do, its the 21st century. so you gotta ask him to do stuff maybe a double date or hanging out at a park, but ask him first, sooner or later he'll get used to it.

5/9/2011 6:07:07 PM | Report

lovemag7 campcormorant, maybe if you catch him looking don't look away look him right in his eyes then maybe glance down. But dont look around it makes him think ur eyes happened to graze him while loooking around the room

4/28/2011 8:22:14 PM | Report

ChocoChica okay so i really like my best guy friend. he is amazing and super funny. sadly, my other best friend likes him and she liked him first and she had dibs. I know that this guy likes me back but I dont know what to do!!!!! please HElp!!!!!!!

5/3/2011 4:41:26 PM | Report

brook4368 You can make your own decision but whatever you do make sure you do not hurt your friend. She will be there for you wayyy longer than this boy ever will. It's not worth the fight if you will end up with a broken heart AND no friend in the end.

9/5/2011 12:26:00 AM | Report

Beca:p Hi! Please, if anyone needs advice, go to my profile, or my club Ms.Advice!

2/12/2012 4:51:51 PM | Report

lovemag7 lizziemarie, Yea ask him cant hurt i told the guy i lke him now we r dating

4/28/2011 8:19:56 PM | Report

angirlq102394 if you like him sleezle12 go for it but take one step at a time that is what i say.

4/22/2011 9:29:24 PM | Report

lovemag7 Anyone have questions???????????????

4/22/2011 8:03:44 PM | Report

kksmiles So there's this guy that I'm like IN LOVE with. We'll call him bob. We have one class together and he sits across from me at my table. He's super shy. I think he likes me too, but I'm not sure. My friend keeps assuring me he does. What should I do?

10/13/2011 11:25:01 AM | Report

DreamingCorpse I have a problem.so my boyfriend&i have been dating for a month.Now there is this girl i know for years who steals everyguy i likeordate on purpose.lately they have been talking alot on facebook&he gave her his #&told her to call smetime.Shld i worry

8/4/2011 4:24:27 PM | Report

6/27/2011 5:09:36 PM | Report

volleyballgirl7799 can u date your best friends ex? its been like almost a year and my bff is still hating him. i really like him and i know he likes me, help me please!

5/9/2011 8:20:07 PM | Report

steph201347489 hayy, can ya help me? i gota bf and hes super nice, cute and all that but im his first real girl friend and he really doesnt no how to act its been a month ago and i havent hung with him sence then how do u make him not shy? :( plwz help

5/6/2011 9:35:00 PM | Report

lizziemarie ok so i have a gigantic crush on this guy that used to live on my street and ive known him since i was born. Were sorta friends but not really. he became really popular when we started middle school and all girls love him but je doesnt realize it. he

4/27/2011 8:43:09 PM | Report

lizziemarie is perfect but hes really nervous and wont make a move. should i make the first move and whay should it be? btw my friend said that i should ask him to go on a ride with me at the amusement park were going to.should i?

4/27/2011 10:29:52 PM | Report

4202_luver if u really like him make the 1st move. just relax and act natural. u can def ask him 2 the ride, if he doesn't like u its all in good fun

5/22/2011 7:38:59 PM | Report

4/27/2011 10:10:50 PM | Report

campcormorant ok so i really reall really like this guy and im 99.9% he likes me too but i hav no idea how to show that i like him without being TOO obvious! any ideas???

4/27/2011 6:37:46 PM | Report

lovemag7 quags22!Have a talk with them ask the one thats likes him if she would go out with him asked her, does she want to ruin ur friendship over him same thing is happening to me,me and her r still friends but they r dating but she dont like him anymore :/

4/20/2011 5:22:07 PM | Report

spleezle12 this guy,(I'll call him Dan)He is my enemy and we fight alot.But,he has been showing some signs that he likes me.He says he "LUVS it when I h8 him" and says he knows i luv him.he made a play and when i had 2 go 2 band he was sad cuz he wnted me in it

4/22/2011 5:38:12 PM | Report

lovemag7 Anyone want to be Treasurer

4/20/2011 5:15:26 PM | Report

nikkistarr10123 Can i b trez

5/10/2011 8:15:02 PM | Report

5/10/2011 8:14:25 PM | Report

estellablackxoxo It will only get you in trouble, and you'll loose their trust. The don't let you date "bad boys" cos they don't want you to get hurt... Try to think of it from their point of view, would you want your future daughter dating a "bad boy"?

5/24/2011 11:36:40 AM | Report

angirlq102394 any one have ??????????

4/19/2011 8:45:44 PM | Report

theatergeek789 I havea problem. I like this guy (I'll call him Billy) And he's the most popular guy in school. He invited me to his house once for a party and we text sometimes. One prblem is, he's in the "popular group" so there are girls who he is always talki

5/1/2011 6:34:36 PM | Report

trinitycapps this would be bad, so I should tell you that my mother would KILL me if she found out I kissed ANYONE. So, what do I do? Kiss him and possibly suffer the consequences? Or do I tell him I can’t? Keep in mind, I am a 12 (almost 13) years old in the

4/21/2011 1:07:43 AM | Report

trinitycapps thinks I am too young. Anyways, recently he told me that he REALLY wanted to kiss me. I told Jake that I REALLY wanted to kiss him, as well. Jake decided he was going to kiss me the day after Spring Break. Now, you are probably confused as to why

4/21/2011 1:07:18 AM | Report

trinitycapps Okay, I need advice. My best friend is a guy. We have known each other for quite a while. To make this easier, let’s call him Jake. So, Jake and I admitted to liking each other as more than friends, but we can’t actually go out because my mother

4/21/2011 1:07:02 AM | Report

angirlq102394 ask lovemag7 if you want to be are money maker quags22!!!

4/17/2011 5:43:36 PM | Report

angirlq102394 OK but do it where your alone so nobody can start rummer get started and do it a good day like on the weekend. lovemag7

4/16/2011 11:24:49 PM | Report

angirlq102394 hey, if any members need advice just ask me i can help. we need a treasurer so that is open?

4/14/2011 5:00:31 PM | Report

quags22 i can be a tresurer

4/16/2011 11:32:21 PM | Report

lovemag7 chocolatenut111 try setting her up with another guys she likes or maybe just talk it out and confort her

4/4/2011 9:03:38 PM | Report

emmiecandy not enjoying this club anymore :*( gonna quit. sry !

3/21/2011 5:29:55 PM | Report

designgirl hey do u know any nice cute guys that r 14 or 15, im kinda boy crzy lol

4/3/2011 9:38:38 PM | Report

choclatenut111 Okay i need advice! here are the charaters in my story: Zach Eve me and eve both have a crush on zach.me and zach are really close friends,but i think we are gettin more serious.serious meaning bf gf.eve is sorta jealous. how can i cheer her up?

4/3/2011 4:59:31 PM | Report

4202_luver Talk 2 eve and ask her how she feels about u guys getting 2gether. if shes jealous, she should be a more supporting friend, but if she likes him 2 then neither of you should have zach because freids come b4 boys.

5/20/2011 8:39:00 PM | Report

savyv123 OH! I had that problem, only I was eve. The truth is-you cant-itll be hard n i know this sounds stupid but its true-if you want to keep them both-you need to keep it so you guys are all just friends-her hearts not shatterd(mine was)u keep both frnd

4/15/2011 7:53:30 PM | Report

angirlq102394 show here other guys. maybe she will like them more and she will thank you for it.

4/3/2011 8:00:50 PM | Report

choclatenut111 Hey! Plz join my club,"DO YOU LIKE WAFFLES?" its super fun and its about anything you can think of! Luv, Dani D.

4/3/2011 12:31:52 PM | Report

quags22 i like waffles i even learned how to say it in german its wafflen

4/16/2011 11:34:54 PM | Report

designgirl hey do you know any nice cute guys that are 14 or 15 yrs old? im kinda boy crazy lol

4/3/2011 3:47:06 PM | Report

brook4368 Don't blind date. It's unsafe and the person you date should be someone you truly like.. not some random person.

9/5/2011 12:37:12 AM | Report

quags22 i need advise i like this boy a lot but he only likes me a little bit but my 2 besties are liked by him the most one of them likes him too but the other could care less what should i do

4/16/2011 11:38:23 PM | Report

lovemag7 emmiecandy is now Vice President

3/19/2011 10:44:39 AM | Report

angirlq102394 can i be vice president please!!!

4/3/2011 8:01:57 PM | Report

jazmine ann can i be VP or Secretary please

4/3/2011 8:53:09 PM | Report

emmiecandy can i be the vice president? please? i am awesome at giving advice on anything and everything <33 and i reply ASAP. im looking forward to working with u (if u choose me) please consider me and check out my profile for some of my examples. thank you<3

3/16/2011 8:25:48 PM | Report

4202_luver Hey, sorry i had to go through all the people that wanted to be vice prez, you got it!! Congrats!

1/14/2012 11:07:37 AM | Report

llamaglitz I kinda need advice cause our school had a youth group retreat Friday nite and usuall my crush never goes but the one time I don't go he did and now I can't get over it a feel like I'm missing something and I need advice in how to get a bf

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