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teardrops on my jazz shoes @QuietChica that is good that you spoke with your school guidance counselor...adults are usually the best ones to help with these kinds of things :) <3

8/6/2011 9:40:42 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @xXpokemonsterXx That must be tough. are you still having suicidal thoughts? <3

8/6/2011 9:39:07 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @spunkygirl03 are you still getting urges to cut?? <3 :)

8/6/2011 9:34:54 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @jdizzle09 I like the quotes you've been posting! :)

8/6/2011 9:32:56 PM | Report

jdizzle09 thanks :) i would've been putting them daily but we had to evacuate our house for the summer cuz about 1/3 of my city flooded :/ and i didnt have any internet access but we're okay now :) wish i could say the same for others tho..

9/19/2011 8:07:32 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @gymnastchic19 good for you for stopping...you are strong. congrats <3 :)

8/6/2011 9:31:50 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @jillian111398 sorry I'm responding way after the fact....I was working at a camp. Have you started feeling better?

8/6/2011 9:30:49 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @sarahdevil123 Have you been feeling better? Have you reached out for help?

8/6/2011 9:27:40 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes There is no such thing as fun for the whole family...haha too true!

7/21/2011 8:10:14 PM | Report

jillian111398 I just had the time of my life during a family vacation in Greece. Now, I'm back home, and I'm really depressed and missing Greece. This has been going on for a week. What should I do?

7/23/2011 9:53:26 PM | Report

maeugeniap Think about the good things about your home like that you have your friends, internet, ... ;D

12/31/2011 6:48:32 PM | Report

brietta42 Has anyone else cut themselves?

7/22/2011 12:38:46 AM | Report

twihard432 I have, but I got help... but there are still scars on my arm. I hate myself everyday for it.

9/3/2012 4:25:21 PM | Report

the new me :) yupp. I've done it. Still dealing with it too.

12/20/2011 7:43:54 PM | Report

the new me :) yupp. I've done it. Still dealing with it too.

12/20/2011 7:43:53 PM | Report

Lissa10 I have once. I was really mad at my parents for yelling at me for nothing! It hurt and everytime i saw the cut I would remember how they make me felt. I talked to my best friend and i haven't done it since them. Remember you are strong and beautiful.

12/18/2011 11:31:48 AM | Report

SmileyGal7 I have...it's wrong and bad i don't know why i did it either :(

11/21/2011 4:10:00 PM | Report

Pumpkinbabby101 I was really angry at myself one time and took a pencil and scraped up my entire leg. That was the only time i ever made myself bleed purposeley. I will never do it again.

9/14/2011 9:19:31 PM | Report

gymnastchic19 i have.i stopped a few months ago

8/1/2011 6:50:47 PM | Report

jillian111398 no... dont cut yourself! It wont make your emotional pain go away....get help!

7/23/2011 9:59:24 PM | Report

animefreak16 but my best friend has

7/22/2011 1:55:53 PM | Report

animefreak16 i have accidently with a raspa machine!! but not purposely

7/22/2011 1:55:28 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Hey I just wanted to let everyone know that for some reason the site won't let me comment on your comments...so if you ask a question or say something then I will respond on your profile. Love and Hugs <3

7/15/2011 2:07:54 PM | Report

animefreak16 its because u HAVE to put a status EX: say i ask a ? like "what shud i tell my mom to make her let me wear makeup?" and u can put @animefreak: "let her know ur old enough or whatever" like that!

7/22/2011 1:59:31 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.

7/7/2011 12:39:36 PM | Report

ElenaRide7 This is very truu

7/24/2011 4:09:55 PM | Report

lovemybeau1994 i dont' like to be like this but HaloAngel99 needed help and didn't get advice. she had a really long story and no one sent a comment to her. that's really crappy. if you are gonna have a page to help then HELP!!! It's ridiculous!!!!!

7/13/2011 12:18:56 AM | Report

jdizzle09 Never look down on anybody unless you're helping him up. ~Jesse Jackson

7/8/2011 3:08:14 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Not all who wander are lost

6/29/2011 7:12:25 PM | Report

jdizzle09 An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind. ~Gandhi

7/5/2011 2:46:53 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Hope you all have a great summer! Get out there and have some fun! We deserve it after working hard this past school year! SUMMER WOOHOO!

6/21/2011 8:24:33 PM | Report

LexilicousCandy Hey Girls! Could you please go check out my clubs *TogetherForever* and "Bookworms & Writers"? There are still positions to fill in both so join and spread the word! You will not be disappointed! Thanks! :) Luv Ya~ LexilicousCandy

6/24/2011 3:34:21 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Love is the condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own. <3

6/21/2011 8:23:22 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes I don't really care if my glass is half full or half empty....I'm just glad to have a glass.

6/3/2011 4:40:25 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes @HaloAngel99 I posted my responses to your posts on your profile. Check it out. :)

6/3/2011 4:19:11 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Every flower that ever bloomed had to go through a whole lot of dirt to get there.

5/27/2011 6:58:28 PM | Report

QuietChica Nicely put!:)

6/29/2011 12:39:23 AM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Chocolate won’t solve anything but it’s a fine place to start.

5/21/2011 12:43:55 PM | Report

animefreak16 YES IT IS!

7/22/2011 1:53:57 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes See the good all around you, even if you have to squint.

5/21/2011 12:42:03 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes If you have no regrets you need to get out more.

5/21/2011 12:41:17 PM | Report

jdizzle09 hey people! just went to the "doctor" or whatevs u wanna call it aha and apparently i have major depression and g.a.d. and im a bit nervous cuz im getting an anti-depressant today or tomorrow and i don't wanna get the possible side effects of it...

5/27/2011 5:41:56 PM | Report

rockinmagz you should find something interesting to do, like, drawing, or playnig on this site!! i also get american girl and they have huge murals to color thats pretty fun.

8/23/2011 12:00:44 AM | Report

jillian111398 dont worry, youll find the med thats rite for you

7/23/2011 9:55:22 PM | Report

spunkygirl03 I really need help. 3 times in the last year I've been depressed. The second and third time I started cutting. It's been almost a month since I last cut, but I still get the urge to sometimes.

6/11/2011 8:21:25 PM | Report

Lissa10 I once cut because my parents yell at me all the time. Talk to a good friend through it! Talking can really help even though it doesn't seem like it will. Remember that you are strong and beautiful

12/18/2011 11:34:59 AM | Report

jdizzle09 ..i have found helpful is distracting urself by doing something else. i do this and it proves 2 b useful. even hangin out with a friend could put u in a mood of where u dont even wanna do it. but then again..we're all different. anyways good luck! :)

6/13/2011 6:40:57 PM | Report

jdizzle09 @spunkygirl03 i can definitely relate..! honestly i think it's really hard to stop cutting (i have cut and still am) if ppl tell u that u should see a counselor..it may help but for me it doesnt. it just makes me more guilty when i do it. but what...

6/13/2011 6:37:01 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Half of doing is believing you can. <3

5/15/2011 3:30:30 PM | Report

MusicIsLove123 Milton Hershey, who brought chocolate to America. failed 2 times, but he kept going. If he had given up, we wouldn't have chocolate. Walt Disney failed multiple times, too, but he never gave up. Imagine a world without anything Disney.

9/2/2012 10:25:25 AM | Report

HaloAngel99 hey i really would like some help from all my posts from 2 weeks ago would someone give me some advice

6/1/2011 6:48:31 PM | Report

lovemybeau1994 hey girl why don't you visit my page its lovemybeau1994. ill help you since no one here will. id be more than happy to help you

7/13/2011 12:15:48 AM | Report

HaloAngel99 hey i really would like some help from all my posts from 2 weeks ago would someone give me some advice

6/1/2011 6:37:59 PM | Report

rockinmagz Wow. I'm so sorry. You should talk to a guidance counselor or another trusted adult. Surround yourself with people who will only push you up, not bring you down. I also want you to know God loves you, and cares for you so much.

8/23/2011 12:07:40 AM | Report

HaloAngel99 .......1.everyone thinks i'm really smart(i am)2.everyone except for my BFF and my BGF thinks I'm crazy3. some people don't care about me at all. what can i do to make things better for my life status and relationship status??? Plz help

5/18/2011 6:57:59 PM | Report

HaloAngel99 .... who's a lesbian, and her gf who calls me very,very unkind names. I really feel like everything tht causes probs is 1 person. Me. I'm veerrry sensitive and I don't get the chance to speak out. I really want a bf but i can't get 1 because .......

5/18/2011 6:53:37 PM | Report

HaloAngel99 ... I felt a little relief when she said it was a stage that she went threw because of my aunt and uncles divorce. I really only have the prob of going to school and dealing with peer pressure, being blamed for tons of things, dealing with a mom ....

5/18/2011 6:49:40 PM | Report

HaloAngel99 ......county central health center and have me locked in a white padded room with a straight jacket on. I was freaking out because I had a music program to perform in in a half hour so My loving aunt told me about my cuz tryin to do the same thing...

5/18/2011 6:46:53 PM | Report

HaloAngel99 .....involved and my aunt. She works at a juivenille correctional facility and said tht most people who talk about suicide don't commit it, it's just a cry for help.My dad said that if he felt that i needed medical help he would take me to the ......

5/18/2011 6:44:01 PM | Report

HaloAngel99 Ok I'm not mental or bi-polar or adhd or any of those but I have a serious prob. Yesterday I got so upset about my mom telling me tht I couldn't wear make-up to my program I pulled a mom what would you do if i commited suicide. I got my dad.........

5/18/2011 6:40:32 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes She believed she could so she did.

5/14/2011 12:17:46 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

5/1/2011 4:36:43 PM | Report

jesusfreaksaroundme what do you do when you have wanted to cut yourself and then have had suicidal thoughts and dont want to tell your parents?

6/20/2011 3:39:09 PM | Report

xXpokemonsterXx I understand how you feel. Well I USED to understand. I've almost actually commited..*ehem* suicide. But I now have to.....I'd rather not talk about it. :/

8/3/2011 8:07:09 PM | Report

QuietChica I talked to my school guidance counselor about my problems. She was very understanding and gave me lot's of advice. It felt like a weight was lifted off of me.I don't know if you still have school but if not you could always call an anonomous hotline

6/29/2011 12:38:16 AM | Report

sarahdevil123

OMG, I'M DEALING WITH THAT TOO! Um, I am emo so I do cut myself and do get suicidal thoughts, but I can't let any adults know.....

(Psst...sorry to butt in girls, but you don't have to go through this alone. I dealt with this stuff when I was younger and I got help and am fine now! Please talk to someone you trust. There are people who love you and want you to live happily.)

mary h.

6/28/2011 11:46:22 AM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Here is a quote for you guys "It’s up to you whether you will be shaped by your choices or by your circumstances."

4/2/2011 3:56:32 PM | Report

teardrops on my jazz shoes Hey. I hope everyone is doing well. :) Hope you all have a great Saturday!

3/19/2011 10:45:42 AM | Report

BSC98 hi..

4/10/2011 1:17:56 AM | Report

1010gurl oh yea saturday is going good. Im so glad to join!!

4/2/2011 1:22:40 PM | Report

Twilighter134 I had a good saturday! How was everyone else's?

3/23/2011 2:37:06 PM | Report

giruiz hey thanks you too and join my 2 clubs GabbyGirlAdvice and Mrs.Cody Simpson!!thx

3/21/2011 7:23:45 PM | Report

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