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kay, btw I just realized my advice was kind of off since I forgot about the "all is fair in love" rule.
i_luv_devin on 4/29/2010 10:18:44 PM
What changed? Why do you like him now, when you just wanted to be friends before? Its not fair to the people who like you or your ex-bf to go into a relationship on and off with him. You go ahead try things with him again and you might end up in the same or a worse situation as now. You don't go ahead and try things with him again you might move on and find someone new to love and you might always wonder or regret not trying things again. You really like him, and he likes you girl, go for him if you want. Live in the now. What do you think your alternatives are? I'm not really the right person to take advice on this from since I haven't really dated anyone before, sorry, but hopefully I'm helping. Comment back.
i_luv_devin on 4/24/2010 5:57:58 PM
how are ya?
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peace<3 on 4/22/2010 10:18:16 PM
hey! aww, thanks, i'm feeling a lot better now. i'm glad that my advice helped, though! and that's great that you're starting to move on from him-i hope that this new guy is a lot better!
good luck! oh, and if you need any more help, just ask!
sunflowerlicious on 4/16/2010 7:40:20 PM
yea well i watched the first half and it was good, but then i fell asleep cause its on really late here .
but what i watched was good !
olivia13 on 4/16/2010 3:14:48 PM
did you watch the season two premiere last night ?
olivia13 on 4/14/2010 8:24:20 PM
i have too many favorite songs to name !
and i guess i like solid patterns ...? idk
do you like glee ?
olivia13 on 4/14/2010 11:41:36 AM
yeaaa, pretty much ;p
olivia13 on 4/13/2010 3:52:39 PM
umm , i like pretty much anything !
pop, hip hop, rap, rock, classic rock, a bit of country... top 20 stuff ;p
olivia13 on 4/11/2010 6:27:42 PM
yep, so what kind of music do you like ?
olivia13 on 4/9/2010 4:19:27 PM
hey girl! i am so sorry that i didn't get back to you sooner-i'm a little sick right now, and i've been sort of busy lately, but here's my best advice for you-i hope it's still relevant!
i do remember what you told me about your ex, and everything about that situation...and i'm sorry that you still have feelings for him. i hate to say this, and i really feel bad about having to tell you this, but....i do think that you should move on. it's probably been about 3 and a half weeks since you've talked, because i'm answering so late, but 3 and a half weeks is a LONG time, especially in terms of not talking or directly flirting. if you were directly flirting and talking, then i would have said stay with it....but since you aren't, i think it's time go. he may like you, he might not, but the important thing is that you stop wasting your time. life is too short to be brooding over him! he might start directly flirting with you again sometime, and then you can take that as it goes, but for now, i think it's time to let it go.
i know it's going to be hard to let go of him, but remember-rome wasn't built in a day, and this relationship is going to take longer than that to forget, because you're so emotionally tied to him. but trust me, it will get better. right now, the best thing that you can do for yourself is to pretend that he's not there, and that he doesn't exist. right now, it's not about being nice to him, it's getting over him.
good luck girl, and i hope you're okay!
sunflowerlicious on 4/9/2010 1:16:02 PM
yea I know his hometown is just 45 minutes from where I live !
did you see him in the olympics ?! that game against USA was amazing . !
especially when he scored the winning goal !
olivia13 on 4/7/2010 5:23:19 PM
ahaha, I actually dont know much about hockey teams . but i like the penguins (sidney crosby's team ;) )
i pretty much just watch it ;p
thats kinda embarassing . lol.
olivia13 on 4/6/2010 8:51:17 PM
YEP! U heard right! I write fanfiction twilight stories! If you want to read the first twilight(after breaking dawn)story I wrote the website for all the chapters is in where you would find my star sign on my profile! I will also have two more stories coming about soon 1. is twilight books in Alices point of view and the other is 2. Nessie's Journal which Alice and Jasper give her for her 5th birthday! Those two should be coming out soon so if you would like to read them just comment on my page and once i get those out I will let you know! THANKS!
annaelizabeth on 4/6/2010 7:04:00 PM
i think i found my prince charming he's my bf he just doesnt know it yet lol
sebringobluestreaksgirl on 4/4/2010 7:22:54 PM
I cant wait to see the movie!! I just have to finish the book first!!!! I saw the movie the Last Song!!! It was sad!!! lol!!!
penguinfan on 4/4/2010 10:10:14 AM
I wish I could
meet him that would
redsoxlover on 4/3/2010 8:48:09 PM
I love Taylor Swift
and American Idol
redsoxlover on 3/28/2010 5:19:12 PM
OMG i love pasta too!!!!!!!!
chocolatelover13 on 3/28/2010 9:12:27 AM
cool profile i love the movie gogp
sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/26/2010 10:11:52 PM
I wish it would be sunny for more then one week at a time!!! lol!! Are you reading any books now?? im reading Dear John!!! im only on chapter 7 because i am reading it at the same time as a pen pal i met on here!!!! haha
penguinfan on 3/25/2010 6:10:52 PM
ooo i like it!!!! are you a member of any clubs on GL?? Its raining
penguinfan on 3/23/2010 6:43:59 PM
haha yW! so wats ur fav fooooood?
chocolatelover13 on 3/21/2010 9:34:15 AM
oo where is that?? i love coach!!! you should set ur profile image to the coach logo!!!
penguinfan on 3/20/2010 8:08:01 PM
hey girl! i'm so sorry that you're having such a hard time getting over this guy. i know it must be hard to be reminded of him wherever you go, and i feel for you.
okay, first off, what's happening is completely normal right now. it's a horrible feeling, but it's kind of inevitable whenever a breakup like this happens. songs, books, and even that moment you have before you fall asleep are times when your brain thinks of him because you associated stuff with him. it's painful now, but trust me, as time goes on, you'll be able to listen to songs, read books, and close your eyes without thinking of him and those painful memories.
second of all, since there's nothing you can do to change what happened, there are a bunch of things that you can do to stop feeling horrible and move past him. since guys aren't really that high on your list of priorities right now, this is a perfect time to spend with your friends and family. hang out with your friends more, find out what's up in their world, and try to do activities as a group, so you can forget about it. talk to your family and set up a fun thing for everyone to do, so you can have fun without anyone bringing up what happened. get involved in some kind of sport at school (badminton and track are two sports that are coming up at my school!), or just exercise yourself to take your mind off things. writing out how you feel, talking about how you feel with a friend, or even just crying a little to get it out of your system works too. really, just do whatever it takes to have fun and enjoy yourself.
and don't worry, if you need to talk about it anymore, i'll be happy to listen to you . hope you feel better soon!
*assistant to head of guys*
sunflowerlicious on 3/20/2010 3:35:34 PM
hey! no problem, giving advice about guys is what i like to do . i'm sorry it didn't work out for you, though. it's good that you're trying to move on, because there are definitely more guys out there that are going to be better than he was.
if you need anything else, just ask!
*assistant to head of guys*
sunflowerlicious on 3/19/2010 9:08:55 PM
This guy probably was just nervous to ask you out. Next time you see him, strike up a conversation to break the ice and make him feel more comfortable, then he won't be so nervous!
Hope this helps!
Club MOD President <3
ClubMOD on 3/18/2010 12:16:36 AM
hey girl! first off, are you sure that getting back together with this ex is a good idea? if you're prepared to make it work out, and if you're interested in making it work, then it shouldn't be too hard. but first, just think about why you broke up with him in the first place, and think about whether it was a legitimate reason (i.e. he was cheating) or if it was a simple reason (i.e. conflicting schedules). i'm not saying that you should or shouldn't date him, i just want to let you know that before you get back together, you should just make sure it'll work .
ok, now that that's out of the way, the thing with your bgf! i know you really want to date this guy, and i know how you feel-waiting for someone to ask you out is a painful thing-feels like it takes forever! still, i think in this case, waiting is really your best option. the guy might have gotten nervous, not been able to pull you aside, or your bgf might have mixed up the date. if i were you, i would wait until the end of the week. if he still hasn't asked you out by then, i would text your bgf, just to ask him what's up with the deal. it'll seem like a long time, but in reality, you're just giving him time and space so he can ask you without being pressured .
hope it works out!
*assistant to head of guys*
sunflowerlicious on 3/17/2010 11:16:10 PM
o wow!!! i live in NJ!! my family was born and raised here too!!!! i like 7 miles from the beach!!! have you ever been to the beach??
penguinfan on 3/17/2010 4:04:45 PM
Shoes are my friends! lol!!! i want MORE!!!!! lol!! What state do you live in??
penguinfan on 3/12/2010 5:06:32 PM
haah cool! ROFL NICE ICON.
chocolatelover13 on 3/12/2010 4:40:27 PM
i have only heard her song tik tok and take it off!!! i love her!!! I love my shoes also!!! 53 pairs baby!!!! lol are you like really religious or something??
penguinfan on 3/5/2010 7:39:17 PM
haah thx! sooo how are ya??
chocolatelover13 on 2/27/2010 7:29:37 PM
Yeah, and she was so cute!
So what's up, need any advice, just wanna spill something hilarious thing that happened at school? Just tell me/
i_luv_devin on 2/26/2010 12:50:56 AM
well, I did raise a baby snow tiger once ,but now it's in a zoo,... so no I don't have a snow tiger, but it is my fav. zoo animal.
i_luv_devin on 2/24/2010 7:55:03 PM
Hey what should i do??? this guy....?
ok... My heart is in a million pieces and i cant find them all to put myself together. Okay so the story... Cassidy is the guy. him and i have been talking for 8 months and i guess you could say we have been dating since october. Everything has been great until feb 5th. his best friend zach dated my best friend chelsey. Chelsey and zach had started talking again so we all decided to hang out at cassids house. So i drove my friend chelsey to their house. Bc cassidy and zach live in the same neighborhood. so anyhow we got there and we all played some wii games. Then cassidy and me left and went to another room and chelsey and zach went to talk. well that night was great... they made us leave bc suppose cassidys parents didnt know we were there... so chelsey and i left. We go back home. Saturday i wake up and get on facebook and guess what i find... Pictures of cassidy and zach with other girls from a college near where i live, It killed me to see them.
Well then chelsey started questioning zach and come to find out... they spent the night there.
Cassidy will not speak to me. I have tried soo hard. I just want to talk to him about this. The last thing he sent on feb 10th was... "can we not date but still just have our little get togethers bc thats all i want" that exactly what he sent me. I sent back "our little get togethers..and it was obvious to me that you didnt want to date me... then he sends nvm. I tried to talk to him later that night, but he never would respond to me. This has left me so hurt. I find myself sitting at home with tears running down my cheek. He meant so much to me. 8 months. I dont know what to do
I just want to talk to him and when i try... he ignores me. and i dont want to send too much bc then he will think im obssive and stupid..
Im sorry for the crazy long lengh=]
mizlizbiz on 2/22/2010 7:26:34 PM
"1st of all,"
'1st of all' please don't post on my wall if you're going to use chatspeak. I grew out of that before my tween years and I'm sixteen now, and in AP English, so don't comment if you can't be bothered to write out your words correctly.
" that was mean what u said on the taylor swift locket thing."
Really? That was pretty much the point. And besides, according to the Consitution of the United States of America, my country whom I'm born and raised and this magizine is based in, I have the freedom of speach/press which means that I can say or write what I want. And since Miss. Swift is in the public eye, she is not excluded from whatever I chose or not chose to say about her.
How? Because I have an OPONION. Because I dodn't worship TSwift at her very feet?
"maybe some1 might want that."
Bad grammer, but still, so what? I want it for the purposes that I've described.
"if u win that, u don't deserve to."
Yes I do. If I win it I deserve it because I did in fact WIN IT. Say whatever you want and blah, blah, blah, BUT if someone wins something fairly (like the random draw Girl's Life system) then they deserve it.
"(sorry if that was rude, but u were rude)"
Trust me, aplogey not accepted. Rudeness because I have an opionon that's diffrent then yours? Yes, that's always lovely. I'm glad to see that we're tolerant here.
Rin on 2/13/2010 10:41:56 AM
hey i saw you give advice.. so..
Me and my bf have went out and broken up a couple times. total, we have dated almost a year. our most recent break up was almost 3 weeks ago, and we broke up cuz.. idk.. we just wanted a break. but this really was supposed to be "a break". We started talking completely like normal like 2 weeks ago and he was gonna ask me out a few times but he chickened out (so his friends say...) the thing is, the past couple days he hasn't been talking to me at school and we have only texted like 8 texts over the past few days, when usually we text constantly. something is up. i had my friend ask him how me and him are and he said he didnt know for sure if he still liked me. UGH! so i want to tell him something, like how i think this should be a longer break or something, but idk what exactly i should say.. cuz i want to tell him before he tells me, cuz i think one of the main problems is that i'm not in control enough. he thinks he can have me whenever he wants.. So i kinda wanna break it off here.. what should i say?!
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