I need help! i really like this guy and he said he liked me too. The only thing in the way is my BGF went up to him multiple times and said that i hated him and when i go to talk to my crush he looks at me and asks why i hate him. i don't hate him. When i talked to my BGF he looked at me and was all flirty and he leaned in to kiss me! i kissed him back and everything! i really like my BGF now and we kinda are together. my crush though is like ticked at me because of everything! When my crush acts all flirty i just fall for his green eyes. am i cheating. i feel like Katniss in the middle of Peeta and Gale

Drelan07 on 3/28/2013 7:26:58 PM

@12abs Hey I'm sorry that I'm replying so late and you probably wont need this advice AND you probably won't even see this but I will reply, haha.

Anyways, most guys these days can't help but flirt - it's part of their nature. Once they see a cute or a decent looking girl, watch out because they're about to do some serious flirting.

I think that maybe he IS interested in you but he's also interested in others at the same time making it seem like he's kind of like a player.

Player means trouble, so you don't want to get involve in that.

Another reason why he flirts with a girl is to maybe make you jealous. Trust me, a lot of guys use this method to know if you like them or not. The thing most guys would want is for you to have a tantrum and have a fit about him. But the best thing for you to do, is to play his own game. Instead of him making you jealous, YOU make him jealous.

How could you do that? There's PLENTY of ways you can. By just hanging out with other guys will make his blood boil.

But other than that, I suggest you give him some time to clear up his mind. If he continues to flirt with other girls, then he's not worth it. Clearly, he doesn't like you as much to stop flirting with other girls. But if he did stop and just flirts with you, then you have yourself a guy.

Another way is to confront him about it. Go up to him and ask why is he flirting with girls when he's suppose to like you. Warning, this method is not the best in situations like thse but in some cases it works.


Well I wish you the best, I'm sorry I didn't reply.

ladyshen on 8/19/2012 5:29:42 PM

hey I really need some help!

I wanna break up with my bf cuz its pretty much going no where i never broken up with any one so its like kinda new to me so... i dont know how to break up or what the right time to do it? help please..

sabirose on 1/16/2012 11:44:21 AM

Dear LadyShen,
I have a friend, let's call her Sam. She lives an awesome life. She has a great family, her mom spoils her with new clothes whenever she gets good grades, and she gets awesome grades. But she flaunts it off to me whenever she can.
I don't have any of that. My family never gets along, I can never go shopping, and I am having trouble with school. But that's not my problem!

The thing is: I have another friend, let's call her Liz. She has a great family, and great grades. But she never flaunts it off. She may be excited at times, but she never shows it off. She always makes me feel better when I'm sad. Let's just say, she is All Around AWESOME BFF!

Should I ditch Sam and stick with Liz???

Love,
Haley <3

fungirl123 on 11/25/2011 9:59:00 AM

I need helpppppppp! Ok heres me problem:I the guy like is kinda my guy friend but not and we flirt and all but thats as far as it gos. But see thats not the actual problem the actual problem is that his not as hot brother that i barly know is like in love with me! HELPPPPPPP!!!!

tweety2238 on 9/9/2011 7:25:14 PM

I have a real problem! I have a friend who talks about me behind my back and was pretending to be my friend and over all is just really mean to me. But she is also very physical and i am afraid that she will give me a bad rep. since i m starting 7th grade-we dont have a middle school-and im wondering if i should continue our friendship? ANY advice would be welcomed!!
Thanks

bookworm1499 on 7/25/2011 7:47:52 PM

hey i need advice bad!
ok my friend went on our class trip to d.c. and when they went to the zoo she started making out with her ex. He said that he moved on when they broke up and he went out with another girl,I think that he just wanted to make her jealous.But now He isn't speaking to her.And I didn't even get to the worst part......I like him a lot

rebmaa on 6/13/2011 3:32:48 PM

like ya know Jeremiah 29:11 and verses lik that. mines Jeremiah 33:3 but my fav book is James

heysoulsister225 on 5/16/2011 7:55:59 PM

I need advice,
My sister's friend has been coming over for MONTHS now and they go in her room.I walk down the hallway and her friend litterally barks "GO AWAY!' to me.I dont know how to really stand up for her because shes 16 and im 12.

Sincerely,
Jenna

magiccall1 on 5/12/2011 10:38:45 PM

heyyyy names hannah love ta smile.... just saw that you love vollleyball lik me

heysoulsister225 on 5/11/2011 9:03:24 PM

hey i have a question, theres this dance that we have at my school, it's kinduv like a mini prom. Lots of people ask people to it. i want to go with this one guy, but i'm not sure how i could get him to ask me. any suggestions.

gymnastics111 on 5/5/2011 6:43:01 PM

I used Blogspot to start my blog! It makes it really easy! You just pick the name, design it and start posting! If you have any further questions you can come to me with them!

pinkypi26 on 5/4/2011 5:52:59 PM

Yup lol It's supposed to rain all week tho :-( ugh I hate rain

maggie183 on 5/2/2011 3:29:37 PM

@forever&always_ Yes i do! I love Halo reach! I like playing Action sack and that community slayer-the thing i dislike the most is campaign and firefight! Also, im addicted to Black Ops!

Ladyshen on 5/1/2011 2:45:23 PM

nooo! sorry I didnt reply to your other comment, I've been so busy my parents dragged me to Washington for 2 nights..SOOO COLLDLD THERE. I dont have school on Monday so I'll probably start my blog there so excitedd. I'll make sure to send you a link!

bella0sky on 4/30/2011 10:53:57 PM

@Mz.Fresh<3 Sure no problem you don't have to ask! Unfortunately, you're account is private so i can't talk back to you! I hope you can see this!

Ladyshen on 4/28/2011 9:30:49 PM

Yeah I know what you mean...I never really noticed that before but they do resemble eachother! Justin Bieber is cuter tho...:-D Sooo whats up?

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Mz.Fresh<3 on 4/26/2011 7:55:43 PM

Thanks! That helped alot xD Im planning on starting my blog today or tomorrow and guess what? Today is the qualifications for cities in track, aaahhhh!!! So nervous!! xD

bella0sky on 4/26/2011 11:04:30 AM

lol thanks!! xD your profile rocks too, and I already had two track meets with the relays and your really nervous at first but then when you start running and you just focus on passing everyone else and its soo much fun! When I finished I felt like doing it again good luck though!!

bella0sky on 4/25/2011 12:27:36 PM

hey! i made you my music expert, whenever you wanna post something about music, just do it (:

ifreakinloveeyou on 4/24/2011 5:40:28 PM

Join my club, The Vacation Club! (Not Vacation Club, but THE Vacation Club)

oceanlover69 on 4/22/2011 9:04:39 PM

Because your casual and girl but have brown wavy hair and are medium height I'd try mini-dresses! They're girly but comfy! If the mini-dress is dull wear bright leggings under it. Also capri shorts would look good on you! Any more tips ask me on my profile. (:

hermione&ron on 4/22/2011 12:51:20 AM

i know but still lol and thx

Princess Keziyah on 4/21/2011 11:33:34 AM

hi ladyshen i would like 2 know if i could be vp of ur Katy Perry Fan Club??

Princess Keziyah on 4/20/2011 11:16:50 AM