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Hey girl! Aw I'm so sorry :-( It sounds to me like you don't want to like him but you sort of do and him liking another girl made you realize that. Been there..haha
Anyway, you can be attracted to someone without really truly wanting to be with them. Keep reminding yourself of the reasons why you told him you didn't like him and honestly thought you didn't like him..if that makes sense.
When someone likes you and gives you attention, it's very hard not to fall for them (if they are at all good looking :p), so I get what you're going through. But take this as a sign...you and him weren't meant to be (at least for right now). Sooner or later you will find another guy.
I know how much it hurts when the guy you like starts going out with someone else. It's happened to me..oh let's see..5 or 6 times haha After the first week, it starts to feel like less and less of a big deal and you get used to the fact that he's dating someone else (and start counting the days until they break up ) no seriously tho..at our age it is SOOO rare that a relationship lasts more then a handful of months.
Soo try keeping that stuff in mind. And maybe now this guy will be more willing to give a friendship a try! Just make sure you're SURE he's worth your time.
Feel free to comment back with anymore questions or anything..good luck!!
maggie183 on 9/10/2012 8:17:53 PM
Thanks so much!
WinnieGirlie on 9/8/2012 1:10:41 PM
Meaning of your color and birthday!!
Don't cheat, If you are honest, this tells the truth. It's pretty good. Write your answers on a piece of paper,
and NO cheating!! The answers are at the bottom.
1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow ?
2. Your first initial?
3. Your month of birth?
4. Which color do you like more, b ! lack or white?
5. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.
6. Your favorite number?
7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?
8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more? &n bsp;
9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).
When you're done, scroll down. (Don't cheat!)
1. If you choose:
Red - You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and a ggress ive..
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.
Blue- You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love..
Yellow -You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.
2. If your initial is:
A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.
3. If you were born in:
Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.
Apri l-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sep: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experi en ! ce for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great , but ev entually you will find your soul mate.
4. If you chose:
Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.
White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.
5. This person is your best friend.
6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.
7. If you chose:
Flying: You like adventure.
Driving: You are a laid back person.
8.. If you chose:
Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.
Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.
9. This wish will come true only if you send this to five people in one hour. Send it to ten people, and it will come true before your next birthday
liamsgirl on 9/4/2012 9:35:39 PM
Yay that's so awesome, I knew something like that would happen!! I'm hoping to find a great crush this year too..school starts for me on tuesday!
Oh and I'm totally the same way..everyone tells me I'm to nice to people that aren't nice enough to me...I guess we both just need to learn where and when to draw the line lol
maggie183 on 8/25/2012 1:08:02 PM
That's a tough one then..I would just trust your instincts. I don't know him or you so I can't tell you what to do. I still say if he's into pretty bad stuff, he's not gonna be worth it tho. I also have a feeling that this year you will end up crushing on some guys in some of your classes at school and he will probably meet some girls at his school..and that might be just as well. It's your call tho. Did you start school yet?
maggie183 on 8/22/2012 3:53:39 PM
Hey, you! Ravenclaw pride. *virtual fist bump*
OMGabi on 8/19/2012 11:43:06 AM
I don't think this guy is worth it..especially because he keeps pressuring you and not taking no for an answer. Any good guys will respect you and your decisions. SO you need to be brave and tell him that NO you won't go to homecoming with him and that you are sorry but you don't feel that way about him and nothing he says is going to change your mind. Be firm, be confident..he will get the message. And then if he keeps texting you don't respond. And if he keeps texting you after you haven't been responding for a week or so..he can now be qualified as a "stalker" who is "harassing" you. And you need to tell an adult.
I know what you mean about feeling sorry for him. He sounds like he has some major issues which is pretty sad but it is NOT your problem or responsibility.
Btw the same exact situation happened to my bff. Well almost the same. This guy in our grade was talking to her on Facebook and asked her for her number. She gave it to him even tho she didn't know him that well and after that he was constantly texting her, saying she was the most beautiful girl in the world and stuff like that. Then he started sharing all his secrets with her..one of them being that he is really depressed and is considering killing himself. My friend then FREAKED out and told her mom who called his mom. He kept texting her long after that, pretty oblivious to the fact that she told his mom he was thinking of committing suicide. She kept texting him back because well..she felt bad for him. But sooner or later she realized that she could feel bad for him and not be involved..and that she wasn't responsible for his problems. She had done her part to help him by telling her mom and so she stopped responding to his txts.
Anyway not the exact same situation..but I think you get my point. You don't like this kid you said it yourself. So WHY would you consider going to homecoming with him?? I'm telling you right now that's a bad idea.
Tell him once and for all that you don't like him and he needs to leave you alone. Texting you 5 times a day after you've already told him this..isn't normal or nice. Good luck!
maggie183 on 8/15/2012 6:29:24 PM
Based on your convo with Mark, I think ignoring him is your best option if he isn't excepting the fact that you just wanna stay friends. Basically it sounds like he's trying to ruin you..guys like that do that. I mean he's into alcohol..didn't you say you were just starting high school? That's insanely young for all of the stuff he was talking about. He says your innocent like it's a bad thing...ITS NOT. The innocent people are the only ones who get anywhere in this life. Mark may be balancing on the good/bad line right now but give it a year of high school exposure and I think sadly you will find he will clearly be a bad choice.
However I know how hard it must be NOT to fall for him despite everything since he keeps saying such sweet things about you!! But just remember bad boys are BAD.
And trust me, you don't want to find that out the hard way so just take my word for it..I sorta know from experience.
You are going to different high schools...so if you ignore him he HAS to leave you alone!!
maggie183 on 8/14/2012 6:17:24 PM
Well, first, I have to say you might have made him think you liked him. Who knows, maybe that's the reason he likes you, too! I think you should try talking to him in a friendly way(absolutely NO flirting!!) and make it obvious you're NOT interested. Go all the way, even talking about other guys in front of him(?) and saying that he was a really good FRIEND. If that doesn't work, you can start flirting with other guys and ignoring him. If that still doesn't work, step aside with him(NOT awkwardly) and tell him you might've been given him mixed signals, but you are definitely NOT interested. He'll probably get it by the time you start giving him the cold shoulder. Good luck! ;)
pretty123 on 7/18/2012 5:59:22 PM
Hey! If he asks you out, just tell him that you think of him more as a friend, or you could just tell him that you're not really wanting a BF right now. I think that's a pretty legit answer right there.
PS. I wasn't sure what exactly you meant by multiple suggestions, but I hope this helps
kikidee12 on 7/16/2012 10:52:21 PM
Hey girlie! First of all I don't think you led him on. You friended him on FB, which is a pretty innocent thing to do. About him constantly texting you, don't feel like you have to respond all the time. Only respond if you want to. And about things being awkward, unless you act like you're really uncomfortable, I don't think anything will be a problem. You can continue to talk to him and just treat him like you treat your friends (since you still wanna be friends with him). Just relax girl! Everything is fine!
kikidee12 on 7/16/2012 5:25:53 PM
That's awesome! Yeah totally your call...just be honest with him whatever you do
Good luck! And thanks, I will !
maggie183 on 7/14/2012 3:03:57 PM
Hey girl! Thx for coming to me for advice! I really appreciate it!
Ok, so based on your question, this is what I got:
I think you should wait until he gets back from vacation and have a talk with him. Tell him that you are flattered by his behavour, but you aren't ready for a boyfriend. However, you would still like to be friends. Then he should back off and you guys can remain good friends.
Hope I helped
xXMissBehavedXx on 7/14/2012 12:31:16 PM
Hey girl! No problem and sooo sorry I just got this!
YAYYY that is a SURE sign he likes you and now you have his number! I would definitely txt him. Just say, "hey what's up Mark its *insert ur name here*" Trust me, why else would he have given you his number? He wants you to text him! Texting him right after he gives you his number may make you seem desperate tho so it's probably good if you didn't last night..but if you did no worries guys don't usually read into these things too much. But yeah I would jot him a text I have a feeling you will have a bf in no time :-D haha
Comment back if u want!
maggie183 on 7/12/2012 1:51:50 PM
No problem I'm more then happy to help!
Ok so this is my take on things (I could be wrong of course but based on experience I have had this is how I see it):
I think Mark has been more openly flirting with Kenzie because of two reasons
a) He doesn't like her in the way he likes you so the pressure is off and he knows she's not available .
b) He is showing off for you, by showing that he can be flirty and fun..although he may not be brave enough to be that way around you yet.
Bottom Line: I think he does like you, and as soon as when of your friends (Kenzie) starts to think the same...well that's always a good sign!
As for should you get over him since you aren't going to same school next year...I would say for the time being no. In a way going to different schools makes it harder to get to know eachother but in another way it can be looked at as a good thing.
For instance you both really connected this summer and sometimes cliques and all of that annoying stuff can get in the way at school. I'm not saying you wouldn't like eachother if you went to the same school! Not at all...but you implied you hang out with a different crowd then him and although that SHOULD NOT matter, sometimes it has it's way of complicating things. Also since you won't be seeing eachother at school the motivation to see eachother elsewhere will be even greater
By the end of gym I would say you should make one final step towards letting him know you're interested. It doesn't have to be asking him out of course but you could ask for his number (if you don't have it) or simply say "It was really fun getting to know you this summer. It made taking summer gym less of a drag" or something like that!
That will leave him the message that you are interested in him..and then I would suggest keeping in contact over Facebook or texting for the rest of the summer and see where that leads!
I hope everything goes well for you Feel free to keep commenting<3!
Oh and thanks for the offer..I don't need advice about anything right now but I'm sure I WILL (knowing me :p) and I'll definitely keep you in mind!
maggie183 on 7/10/2012 5:24:43 PM
Ok so I definitely think that Mark likes you! At least as a friend but I sense something more. The way he keeps cheering you on and going out of his way to talk to you really implies that he is interested in getting to know you. He probably isn't sure if you feel the same way, which is why he hasn't asked for your number or anything. Also the fact that he told you about how his brother is coming home from the army (which is somewhat personal) shows that he trusts you.
I would add him on Facebook...I think he would definitley accept your request. And adding someone on Facebook isn't as big a deal as asking them for their number so maybe starting with that is a good idea and then if you guys keep talking and getting to know eachother better you can ask for his number.
Oh and if you really like him, I think you should be the one to cheer him on and approach him some of the time (not saying that you don't of course, just make sure you're returning the kind gestures lol) so that he gets the vibe that you like him too.
Good luck girl! I hope summer gym keeps going well...I think it's really smart of you to get it out of the way and free up your schedule Plus you get to hang out with a friend and crush every day so it sounds like it def has it's pluses!
If you need anymore help feel free to comment on my profile !
maggie183 on 7/1/2012 5:18:16 PM
Wow, I never knew anyone posted on my profile, sorry for never replying! Thank you for all the tips, all of you!
LLL328 on 6/30/2012 9:06:26 PM
Saw your situation on the 'Kiss on Cue' post. My advice: Don't try to talk your friend out of her bf. Obviously, for whatever reason, he makes her happy. HOWEVER!! Him being disrespectful, is NOT okay. You shouldn't have to tolerate it just cause he's going out with your bff. So pull you bff aside, and start out saying that you're sorry you keep bringing the subject of her bf up, but say- 'I'm hurt by what he says and it doesn't make me feel good. I'm not sure I can be around him anymore even if that means I'm not around you.' Don't give her the ultimatum of it's him or you, but distance yourself to try and get her to see what her bf is doing to your guy's friendship. Oh, and ignore him as much as you can and tell the teacher if it doesn't stop. Being a tattle tale is worth it
Hope this helps!!
svds on 2/22/2012 9:31:11 PM
Yuliya V on 11/4/2011 6:43:12 PM
Hey! My name is Natalie. I saw your post about your sister and I wanted to offer some advice seeing as I babysit for a girl like that. What I do is...
1. I would tell her that you will acknowledge her, but not engage in any more conversation that you have to, until she shapes up. Most likely she wants your attention, cuz she looks up to you.
2. Tell her for every 2-3 days she goes by without hitting/kicking/biting you (depending how often this occurs) you will do something for her. Like, paint her nails, do her hair, practice a sport with her, play Barbies, i dunno. You know your sister better then I do. Pick something she loves, then offer to do it with her favorite person.
3. Also, tell her that for every time she hits/kicks/bites you, or verbally abuses you, you will ignore her for a day. Only use enough communication to get you through the day without getting in trouble from your mom.
If this doesn't help, sorry I wasted your time. If it does, then glad I could help!
I heart you!
soccerlover99 on 10/6/2011 9:50:24 PM
Hey! You seem fun! I looove She's the Man! It's so funny! I have never listened to Ellie Goulding but I have heard of her...I always was waiting for someone famous to have my name! NOW I DO! Well technically is isn't MY name but I go by it! Haha! I love chocolate too! SOOOO GOOD! I think it's cool that you are best friends with your sis. I wish that was what is was like with mine but it's more like my two older sisters are super close and then they just leave me out of everything and make fun of me...so I hate it. Haha anyways...how has your summer been?
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