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Star Sign: Libra
Three words that describe me are: caring, driven, sassy
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My sibs: one older bro, Matt
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MOD MOD MOD MOD 1. can you please aprove my nnew icon? 2. There is this guy, I like him and I have his facebook. He is hardly on and I wanted to invite him to go to the movies or get ice cream or something. We don't talk much so I hope that is ok. How can I ask him? - Esther

1) I'm sorry, I don't approve them myself, so I can't! But be patient, it should be approved soon.

2) I think that's totally fine! You could send him a message on Facebook, or ask him next time you see him in person. Go for it, chica!

BrainSlushieex3 on 11/22/2010 5:44:18 PM

hey i saw on one of ur comments on a work out page that you were wondering what the normal weight is for a 5 ft 1 girl. Supposedly that would be around 105 pounds but everybody's bodies are different so just eat healthy and exercise

snowysgal on 11/22/2010 5:38:13 PM

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how do u make girlslife your homepage?
thx!

Hey! I think you should ask a parent to help you with that since most computers are different. good luck!

@import url(/admin/css/common.css);

SecretID on 11/21/2010 3:01:37 PM

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im getting my own netbook rly soon so i wanna no how u can make girlslife ur homepafe
thx!
SecretID

SecretID on 11/15/2010 4:50:58 PM

MOD MOD MOD!!!
ok, so my bff has a boyfriend, A. so i like A as a friend but not as a bf. but whenever hes around me i feel strange, like my stomach gets weird feelings in them if i do like him, how can i do that whithout hurting my bff's feelings? and what if he asks me out on a date?!
thx,
SecretID

Hey girl,

This is your BFF's boyfriend, so if you don't think you like him, then you don't need to find a reason to like him. I'm not sure why you're getting the weird feeling, but it could be because you're nervous around him or feel weird around him. Since he already has a GF, and it's your BFF, you should look for another crush. He shouldn't ask you on a date because he has a girlfriend already - if he did that now, you would have to say "no" because he's dating your friend. Sorry! -Vanessa J.

SecretID on 11/13/2010 12:43:57 PM

hey can i start a club with just one the same email address as my profile??

Hey girl, You have to start a club under a different e-mail address, because you can only start a club as another profile page. Sorry! -Vanessa J.

titanicfanaic on 11/13/2010 9:19:32 AM

Thanks for the advice-btw i love ur profile
lady gaga is awesome and how to be popular is a personal favorite-icarly rocks!

titanicfanaic on 11/8/2010 8:56:05 PM

Hey I wanted to thank you so much for you r advice!

lilmizzjo on 11/8/2010 5:52:54 PM

MOD*MOD*MOD my dad got a new job it required him to be deported to Afgan for a year(he left saterday). i'm tired of my family and friends asking me everyday if i'm alright. i love that they care but still, it hurts. also i told one of my friends and told her NOT to tell anyone, but she told her parents and everything. thats not the first time shes told ppl my secrets. how can i confront her? theres a guy i've liked for awhile and just found out he has a girlfriend. this isn't the first time this has happened. i would never cheat so thats that. before we knew, my friends said they thought he liked me and that we should go out. we are good friends so i can't just ignore him. he would know somethings up. once a guy broke up with his girlfriend cause he liked me but i NEVER flirted with him and we never went out. i felt so bad about it even though it wasn't my fault, at least i don't think it was. even before all of this i have felt depressed. no thoughts of self injury. any advice? please and thank you!

Hey girl, I know it is frustrating that your friends aren't dealing the way you would like. But you're right, they're just doing it because they care. Tell your close friends and family how you're feeling about their constant questions, but let them know other ways they can help- even if it's just being there but not saying anything. They just want to know they can be there for you. As for the friend dishing secrets, I would talk to her about it. Try not to be mean or angry about it, but let her know how you feel.

As for the guy, you're right - ignoring him would be way hard, especially since he's a friend. But you don't have to do that. The important thing is that you don't purposely try to sabatoge their relationship (which you obviously aren't!). Other than that, it's totally fine to have feelings for him, and it's also okay to keep hanging out as friends. You don't know what will happen down the road, but for now, just continue the great friendship.

♫RockOn64♫ on 10/25/2010 9:34:08 PM

MOD MOD MOD i was talking to a guy on facebook about halloween. And i asked him if he still trick or treats he said he wasnt and he would be around the town. I told him i was taking my sister. And he told me that he was gonna find me and walk with me. I like him. Alot. And he likes another girl suposably but i never see them even glance at each other. But we have theese fights were i say you love me more and he'll say no you love me more. what should i do?(: please help

Hey girl! I am just beginning my mod shift now. I know it can be so confusing (and frustrating!) when you aren't sure exactly where things stand with a guy. But it sounds like you've got a great thing going! If he's making an effort to hang out with you (and have "fights" about who likes who more), that's def a sign he likes to be around you. If you're interested in him, keep finding times to hang out with him and get to know him better.

alexis♥♥ily♥♥ on 10/25/2010 9:02:05 PM

Thanks so much Marie!! It's been so stressful and tomorrow I'll talk to him to make sure we are ok. And I'll take the time to explain to my mom the whole situation. Thanks so so much!!

swimgrl911 on 10/11/2010 7:23:46 PM

thanks!

TheSmartie on 10/9/2010 12:34:19 AM

MOD!!! thanks so much! do you think that exsersing more often would reduce the sweating??? thanks!

Hey girl! So far as I know, exercising more doesn't necessarily affect it. However, I just read that using a thin layer of deodorant is actually better than thick, so keep that in mind!

TheSmartie on 10/9/2010 12:24:33 AM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD I KNOW YOUR SUPPOSED TO GET DISCGARGE BEFORE YOUR PERIOD BUT IM IN 8 GRADE AND HAVE BEEN GETTING IT SINCE 6 AND STILL DONT HAVE MY PERIOD. I WEAR A BRA AND SHAVE MY ARMPITS. IS SOMETHING WRONG????? HELP!!!!!

Hey girl, I understand your concern, but don't freak out just yet! Every body is different, so it could be that you are just growing at your own pace. Still, this is a great question to ask your doc. If you have a check-up coming up, you can ask him/her then. I know it can feel awkward to bring that kinda stuff up, but you will feel a lot better when you get an answer!

babysa511 on 10/8/2010 9:16:47 PM

MOD MOD MOD well whenever i shower like 10 strajds of hair fall out! rite now i have really thick hair but my mom has really really thin hair like its not even funny! i follow her hair and im worried that since i wash my hair a lot my hair is gonna get ruined and fall out!!!!!!!!! all my fam thinks i spend too much of my life on my hair each morning but i wanna look my best!!!!! HELP!

Hey girl,

You should definitely read this article: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/08/10/am-I-going-bald.aspx. As it says, it's actually normal to lose up to 100 strands a day! You can rest assured that it's probably totally normal. But if you're still concerned (or it seems like a lot more than usual), check in with an adult and make an appointment with your doc. xoxo

Marie H.

laughlots on 10/4/2010 11:06:56 PM

mod mod mod! kids at my school are talking about an age limit. is it true that if a 12 year old was to date a 14 year old they can get put in jail?

Hey girl, I'm not sure what they are talking about - I haven't heard anything like that! Some parents or teachers may consider 12 too young to date, but as far as I know, there are no laws coming out anytime soon about how old you have to be to just go on a date or have a boyfriend.

Schoolgirl1998 on 10/4/2010 7:04:31 PM

MOD MOD MOD I found on this one site that b4 u get ur period, u get vaginal discharge (true!) pubic hair, and underarm hair (uh-huh!) but u also get a growth spurt, and u need to start wearing a bra. First of all, my mom told me that she needed to wear a bra wen she was in university but i am getting discharge now and i still havent hit my growth spurt so does that mean im not gonna get it until i need to wear abra? 2. as i said my mom needs a rab (Wat i call 'em bra spelled dif.) wen she was in univer. but she skinny as atoothpick so means u need fatcells so does that mean i need one wen im in university? Thanks! You MODS rock! SecretID

Hey girl! This article has the general stages of puberty like you're talking about: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/02/02/period-puberty-advice.aspx. Of course, every body is different, and there is no way to know for sure when or how much you will grow. You just have to take care of yourself, and it will happen when it's supposed to! When you decide to wear a bra is really a personal decision. I encourage you to talk with your mom, and your doc as well - they can give you a better sense of when you might hit those growth stages. xoxo

SecretID on 10/4/2010 5:29:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD Im so nervious about friends i used to go to a private school last year and for seventh grade (this year) im going to public schools. i made losts of friends but i find it really awkward to talk on phones and asking them to stay over night. I dont know how to ask them because i didnt have many friends at private school because its so small. I dont even know what to talk about either. Most of my friends are so popular and i dont know how to stay there friends. Any tips and/or sugestions?

Hey girl! I can totally understand being nervous about making and keeping friends, especially if you are going to a new school. The good news is, the things it takes to be a good friend - listening, being there for them, and reaching out - are actually pretty simple. If talking on the phone is difficult, you could always try sending a text or e-mail instead. Thankfully, there are lots of things to talk about when you're new to someone - what kind of music or movies they like, what their hobbies are, or things that are happening at school. Try setting small goals for yourself, like talking to one new person one day, or inviting a new friend to go shopping. Be positive, and have faith in yourself - you can have an awesome year! xoxo

selenarocks411 on 9/28/2010 6:05:24 PM

MOD MOD MOD I have two things... 1. A BIG thanks to the GL people who answered the email 'bout school I sent... I read it today (after my first 2 days of school) and I actually made friends (party on with face masks - totally girly ) 2. (This is a Q) For vaginal discharge, it's kinda wet and sticky - well, since it's wet, wouldn't that mean u will get an infection?

Hey girl! I am so glad we were able to help with your school sitch. As for discharge, you might want to read this article about what it's like: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/03/16/dealing-with-discharge.aspx. It also has some info about how you know if it could be an infection. Discharge isn't a cause of infection, but there are certain signs that can indicate you might have one. Also check out this for more info on how to prevent infections: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/02/04/period-qa-discharge.aspx. And never hesitate to check in with your doc! xoxo

SecretID on 9/21/2010 5:50:57 PM

what does MOD MOD MOD mean or stand for ?

Hey! Mod stands for "moderator." Moderators help out on the site and answer questions for all you lovely GL girls!

haleighhhbabyx3 on 9/13/2010 9:37:37 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!! Hey I really need advice. So I really am falling for this guy. I was with him for 3 hours a few nights ago, till 10pm. We we're at a high school football game, and we hung out the whole time. He hugged me 3 times that night... And I just cant stop thinking about him.. What should I do? I already told him I liked him and he said he already knows that. Please dont say "Ask him out", it'd be really wierd. Thanks(: -Alex

Hey girl! If you don't feel comfortable asking him out, that's totally understandable. The best thing you can do now is just continue to enjoy spending time with each other! It's awesome you have such a great guy in your life.

alexsoccer23 on 9/13/2010 8:31:31 PM

Okay Hey Mod! 1st. I usually don't wear make-up and i'm really good with washing my face before school and before bed. But lately i've been noticing patches of lighter colored skin on my lower cheeks near my ears. (I'm half african american and half white btw) I bought this tinted mousturizer to cover it but it's done nothing and i don't want to wear full on foundation and even if i did it doesn't cover the spots. I don't know what to do...

They're embarassing and i have no idea what to do with them??? Thanks 2nd. Since i go to school i eat breakfast at around 7:30 or 7:45 if i'm running late.. problem is that i don't eat lunch til like 1:30 or 1:45. i can't eat anything inbetween then and i get to the point where i'm soo hungry that after i start eating lunch i feel kinda sick and don't wanna eat anymore. What should i do? Thankyou

Maddie Rose ♥

Hey girl!

1) It's great to hear that you take such good care of your skin! If you don't want to wear lots of make-up, don't feel like you have to. Remember that you are beautiful just as you are. But if the spots are bothersome or get more noticeable, think about talking to an adult who can help you decide if you need to make an appointment with a doctor or dermatologist. They might be able to give you some help with the patches.

2) I totally know what you mean about getting hungry before lunch! I know you said you can't eat, but if it's really bugging you, think about talking with a teacher. Maybe they can let you bring a snack to eat between class. If you are getting hungry by lunch, I bet you aren't the only student who is! xoxo

Sports4Life44 on 9/13/2010 8:23:12 PM

MOD MOD MOD marie can u plz tell me if im bothering u with my Qs?

Hey girl, You're totally not bothering me at all! I love to help all of you girls with your questions.

SecretID on 9/9/2010 3:59:13 AM

hey thx for answering my help!!!! ur helpful

izzyzing65 on 9/8/2010 7:35:24 PM

Thank ya! ;)Now I know what to do!

TheMentalistgurl on 9/8/2010 7:25:04 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD! Hey Marie(: So I dont wear much makeup, only eyeshadow and mascara. I really want to wear cover up (I think thats what its called) to hide my acne. Its only really bad on my forehead. I clean it twice a day, but how do I let my mom know I want some? And where is the best place to buy it? Thanks soooooo muchhh.

Hey girl! Yep, it's called cover-up or concealer. I would just tell your mom that you're having some skin troubles, and would like to buy some concealer to help ya out a little bit. The good news is, concealers like the one in this article: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/04/08/beauty-tricks-makeup-tips.aspx are pretty affordable and can be bought at drugstores or places like Target or Wal-mart. xoxo

alexsoccer23 on 9/6/2010 5:21:07 PM

MOD MOD MOD Sorry I'm asking soooo many Qs, but you're soooo good!

(And quick!) Ok, I have a lot of Qs... so here goes. 1. I've been getting discharge for a loooong time now, but no period? How come? 2. Is your period related to getting a bra, and "developing"? If it is... 2a) When you get your period, does that mean that you're ready to fill out a bra? 3. How come I can't fill out a bra? I have "breast buds" and my chest... area hurts whenever it is hit now more than ever... But what is happening? 4. And what's a good gift to give to your BGF, that you have a crush on, but don't wanna seem liker you "like like" him? Thanks soooo much! And I would LOVE it if anyone else can post answers on my prof., rather than Marie! And THANKS A TON! Especially you Marie, just 'cause I ask soooo many Qs (Sooo many hard times up ahead) but you don't seem annoyed or anything! Thanks! SecretID

Hey girl! I'm just finishing up my mod shift now. I think this article will help you with the first Qs: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/02/02/period-puberty-advice.aspx. It kind of explains how all the changes are related. But every bod is different, so we all develop a little differently. But don't be afraid to ask your doc if you have any concerns or Qs!

As for the guy gift, the best thing is something that shows you know him. For example, you could get him something related to his fave hobby, or a movie or cd you knew he wanted. You could also think of making him something - like his fave cookies. Any gift will show you care. xoxo, Marie

SecretID on 9/2/2010 4:48:05 AM

hey i read a lot by Meg Cabot and ur 18 huh?

pinklol56 on 9/1/2010 1:59:25 PM

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I have this great BGF, but I was wondering if he should be my BF, or ask me out. Is it still to early to be BF/GF?
Thanks a ton,
SecretID

Hey girlfriend! It's always hard to decide whether or not to take a best friend relationship to the next level! I'd try finding out what he thinks about the idea, no need to rush into anything! He's obviously already into you if you're close friends, but may need to look at you as a GF instead of his best friend! Try shifting your relationship from just friendship to something a little more "friendlier." Instead of just hanging around with him, try going out with him alone to a movie or something. See how it feels when you guys are on a date! If things don't work out, don't be disappointed, just remember that having him as a BGF is better than nothing at all!! Check out GL's "Ask Bill & Dave" articles. As guys, they can give you a different opinion! http://www.girlslife.com/category/ask-bill--dave.aspx

SecretID on 8/30/2010 8:53:06 AM

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I want to post something on this website - in the section "Your Bod; Down There". But how can I posst something there? It's something that might help girls withsensative skin...
Thanks!

Hey girly! Unfortunately you cannot add content to those areas of the website!! If you want to give out advice you could try posting things on your own profile! Head to you're profile and click edit profile. At the bottom of this page, you'll see a section that says "Shout Out To Other Healthy You Girls!" Here you can get advice and give advice! Just let girls know what to ask you about!

SecretID on 8/30/2010 8:14:37 AM

Hey, Mod!
I went to camp this summer and I met this girl who is the best friend I've ever had--she's so amazing, it's perfect except for one little detail...she lives on a different continent! Hence, we are in very different timezones. I miss her so much. We love each other like sisters and we have a special connection to each other. Since I have school, and she's 8 hours ahead, I can only talk to her for a small period of time (although she does stay up very late). So my question is, how can we keep in touch like this when it's far from guarateed we'll ever see each other again, or at least in the next couple years? Thank you!!

Hey! email or send letters

bluedogn14 on 8/28/2010 3:03:25 PM

Oh well i haven't been on GL 4 that long that' probably why

Princess Keziyah on 8/27/2010 9:20:39 PM

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Why does my hair fall out so easily? I tried shampoos, but they don't help at all! Help!

SecretID on 8/27/2010 1:03:59 PM

hey! i have an older brother named matthew! whts up??

txterluver77! on 8/26/2010 11:40:04 PM

Hi i luv ur profile r u a new mod????

Love,
Princess Keziyah

Princess Keziyah on 8/26/2010 8:54:30 PM

MOD MOD MOd! Could u help me? I've never thought of myself as "pretty" even though i try to be so. My friends say I am but i never believe them because they're my friends and they have to say that. When guys talk with me alot of times it seams like they flirt, but i really quite certin they think of me as a friend. The whole pretty thing is really harshing my mellow, u know? I don't want to go to school because I'm afraid I'm not pretty enough. it makes me really sad that i'm not pretty. i don't think i'm ugly, but i'm not as pretty as my friends when i see myself in the mirrior. what should I do? And also, there's this guy I'm friends with, let's call him M, so we've been friends for about a year and he has just recently started trying to convince me i'd be great with this one guy I've known forever, let's call him K. So M is convinced K and I would be amazing together but i don't like K that way and i know for a fact that we BOTH just think of each other as friends. I kind of like M a bit and he smiles alot at me and jokes around with me alot. Does this mean he likes me too? It's really hard to tell, especially since I'm not to confedent in myself. PLEASE HELP!!!! Thanks a million! <3 Katie <3 P.S could you please post ur advice on my profile? thanks!

Hey girl, I'm sorry that beauty troubles have been making you feel less than great. But consider this year the year to gain confidence in yourself. Try to recognize the things you love about yourself - inside and out. Find things to do that you are really passionate about, and take good care of your body. And don't be afraid to reach out for help when you are trying to work on feeling better about yourself. As for the boy troubles, let M know that you just don't think of K that way. It's hard to say for sure if he likes you, but keep talking to him and getting to know him better, and see where it goes from there.

bluues on 8/26/2010 8:05:29 PM

MOD I want the cutest guy in school to like me... Because my EX BFF Addie likes him! I like him Addie dosnt know. How can i get his attention? I want to do it tomorrow so can you please respond soon please? Thanks!

Hey girl! The best way to get his attention is to talk to him! Be friendly, smile, say "hey" and strike up a convo when you see him between classes. But make sure you truly like this dude for who he is, not just because another girl likes him - you don't want anyone to get hurt. xoxo

twin57 on 8/26/2010 4:55:33 PM

MDO MOD MOD
My friend says that the roots of her hair are weak, and that the hair always falls out. She tried shampoos, but they didnţt work - do you know anything that can help her? Thanks!
SecretID

SecretID on 8/25/2010 5:40:27 AM

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I was wondering - what age is the "official age" to have a boyfriend, or start dating?
I'm going into Grade 6 this year, and if I get a crush, I just don't want to seem to take things too early, or too late.

Thanks,
SecretID

Hey girl, I don't think there's really an "official age" — I think it's more about what the relationship is like, what you feel comfortable with and what the guy feels comfortable with. You could always have a BF but take things realllllyyy slow, so that you never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If you have a BF that you just really like hanging out and almost treat as a BGF that might be the best kind of BF to start out with. - Vanessa

SecretID on 8/21/2010 8:54:35 AM

Hey, I just stopped by to say thanx sooooo much for the advice, you're awesome!!!

fashionistachica on 8/13/2010 3:02:57 PM

Hey i just wanted to say thanks for all the great advice you've helped me with sooo many problems ive had and your such i great MOD i really appreciate you guys

ur profile says ud like to live in NYC? i lived there when i was ages 4-6 and i remember it being amazing and so thrilling, but if you life there for too long, something changes and you just feel the need to get out thats why we moved

Thank you so much! I love to hear that, and I am so glad I've been able to help! Thanks for the tip on NYC!

mkroberts96 on 8/12/2010 8:57:50 PM

Yeah really! I don't know if I would want brown????

Katie

Cupcake1999 on 8/12/2010 2:31:38 PM

Hey Marie, thanks for all of the advice you'd given me...
And I just got my hair cut today, and I found a layered haircut that is awesome - cool, chic, while still a hint of edgy-ness is in my 'do.
I just LOVE this look!

SecretID on 8/11/2010 4:50:05 PM

Thanks! What color do you think I should get them in? I was thinking black, silver, white or gray?

Katie

Cupcake1999 on 8/8/2010 7:11:17 PM

Thanks! <3

SecretID on 8/8/2010 1:49:56 PM

What are those short boots that are pointy called? Please help me! I'm trying to find them for back to school shopping! PLEASE HELP!

Katie

Cupcake1999 on 8/7/2010 10:57:40 PM

ok thank u very much! cute icon btw.

luvshorty5 on 8/7/2010 9:07:28 PM

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Marie, I need a back-to-school haircut that's different than bob haircuts - they're the only haircuts that I find! I have almost-shoulder-length hair, and I need a pic or two! Can you plz help!

SecretID on 8/7/2010 6:41:10 PM

Thanks! Your AWSOME! And a life Saver!

Katie

Cupcake1999 on 8/7/2010 3:07:15 PM

MOD! sixteengirl93 has been asking EVERYONE for info. can u make her stop, i've reported her 2 times already.

luvshorty5 on 8/6/2010 1:58:01 PM

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