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Hey Laughing
Since you're not supposed to know that he likes you, I suggest you just act like you normally would around him. Just try not to do anything he could see as flirty or he might think you like him back Frown So just be normal! If he does end up asking you out, turn him down gently: tell him that you really appreciate him as a friend and that you don't want to ruin your friendship. He should understand! Don't worry much about the dance... if he wants to dance with you go for it, just keep it friendly Smile You don't need to say anything to him, act like you have no idea he's interested in you.
Hope this helps! <3 (don't hesitate if you need advice, I'm always here!)

kayla9 on 4/16/2012 10:22:21 PM

Hey!
You could approach him when he's hanging out with his friends, that you also know, and say something like: " Hey guys! My phone broke down and all my numbers got deleted... Wanna add yours? " If you ask several people at the same time, it won't be obvious Smile Or if you have classes together and he has a facebook, send him a message saying: Hey! Did you get the math homework? I didn't have time to write it down... Can you call me ( insert your number ). Thanks!
Be creative and you'll eventually get his number Smile
Hope this helps!
XOXO, Kayla

kayla9 on 3/7/2012 6:52:50 PM

Hey! Laughing
Since you only see him as a friend, you need to make that clear: If his flirting is REALLY obvious, you could try hinting at how he is such a great FRIEND ( just try to gently make him understand that you don't feel the same way about him ). If it's just a little flirting, you don't really need to do anything, just act normal. He might not even be flirting but just teasing or being himself Smile
Hope this helps!

kayla9 on 1/14/2012 6:54:36 PM

Hey MusicRox1999!
Cool profile by the way. It sure does look like this boy has a crush on you Smile
He also seems like a really nice guy. Do you like him? If you do, you can start flirting back and ask him out! If you feel that you only like him as a friend, just wait to see if he asks you out, if he does, you have to explain to him that you would rather stay friends. Make sure you don't hurt his feelings by saying nice things like how he is such a great friend Smile
Good luck, hope this helps!
XOXO, Kayla

kayla9 on 1/10/2012 1:57:53 PM

So cool that you have a twin sis! I have a twin brother but I always wonder what it would be like if he was a girl instead!

ellie hills on 12/22/2011 10:57:34 PM

Hey girl Smile

First of all, thank you! I love giving you girls advice!

Guys are super confusing. I know lots of guys that are really nice to girls all the time, and joke around with them, and hug them and stuff, and they girlfriends. That's just their personality, and them being nice. If he has a girlfriend, it's really unlikely that he like-likes you. I think you should just stay friends with him, and try not to "fall for him" or anything. (so you don't get hurt). Always keep in mind when he's being nice or silly around you, he has a girlfriend.

Stay in the friend zone Smile

Good luck!

facebooker1240 on 12/1/2011 5:44:52 PM

Hey girlie Smile

Sorry to hear about your crush! But, I totally know how you feel, I was in the same situation and regretted losing my chance after. But, later I realized that I could live without him, and that I love the single life! He turned out to be a total jerk anyways...
To get over your crush, take your mind off him!! Join a club, a team, or learn a new instrument (I'm learning guitar, for example), reading, or catching up on school! Change your bedroom around, or paint!
Good luck girl!

facebooker1240 on 11/21/2011 6:27:46 PM

hey guys ik this is a lil random BUT.... ( intriguing i know..) if you really want an email pen pal ( like me) but dont want to pay im your girl! i want one soooo bad! so check me out and leave a comment on my page! thanks!

Selah6398 on 11/9/2011 6:55:50 PM

oooooooooooo!!! that is sooooooooooooooooooooo sweet!!!

koolkat567 on 10/24/2011 9:32:08 PM

i LOVE that song Someone like you!! NOW THAT WAS MESSED UP, that your best friend's crush turned her down!!! Frown BUT I'm glad you had fun!!!Smile

koolkat567 on 10/17/2011 2:22:50 PM

i LOVE that song Someone like you!! NOW THAT WAS MESSED UP, that your best friend's crush turned her down!!! Frown BUT I'm glad you had fun!!!Smile

koolkat567 on 10/17/2011 2:18:13 PM

you're welcome girl! that sounds adorable! so glad i could help! if you ever need any more advice just ask! <3

sparklysydafrid on 10/14/2011 4:00:38 PM

that is sooo true what u said about your age.. and how they're going 2 die first!!! If ur not to scared to ask your crush to slow dance then GO FOR THE CHALLENGE... i know i would be toooo scared!!!! GO FOR IT!!!! Smile

koolkat567 on 10/13/2011 6:25:45 PM

hey girl! ok so i know this question wasnt intended for me and im so sorry if this is weird or you dont want my advice, but i saw your question about homecoming on facebooker1240's profile, so i thought id give you my advice too! so im in 7th grade also, and a lot of girls at my school wear makeup but a lot dont. either way is totally normal! if you normally dont wear makeup you definitely dont want to go all out because you will look really different so itll be hard for people to get used to it and you could look like you're trying too hard. mascara would definitely be fine, but like you said dont wear too much because i honestly think it looks weird when you can tell a girl's wearing a lot of mascara, so 1 or 2 coats would be perfect! definitely do a lip gloss (if you like that kinda thing), just a lightly colored one with a little sparkle (preferably flavored Smile). i love the ones at bath & body works, or lipsmackers is great too! i also think nail polish that either matches or compliments your outfit would be adorable! i personally love nail polish, but not really matchy matchy. for example, if your dress is blue, dont go with the exact same shade of blue nail polish. go with a mint blue/green, or a silver or gold if that ties into your accessories. or, if your dress is neutral but your shoes are red, you could do red nails because it ties into your shoes! you could do eyeshadow if you want but not too much... i would say a light white sparkly or a light gold sparkly or one that matches your skin tone. last i think you should wear blush! i always wear blush and it really makes you look prettier and warmer and healthier... the color depends on your skin tone but usually a coral looks great! you can do a sparkly blush if you want, but if you do eyeshadow thats sparkly i wouldnt do sparkly blush. hope this helps! sorry it was so long! and sorry again if you dont want me to post or dont want my advice since you didnt ask me the question. just trying to help! good luck & have fun at homecoming! <3

sparklysydafrid on 10/13/2011 4:35:36 PM

hey girl i just got your question, ive been swamped with school! I dont think its too weird to date in seventh (i did) , but you might regret it later. To get to know them just ask about their intrest and see if you two have things in common. Hope this helps!

selah6398 on 10/12/2011 10:44:03 PM

ur homecoming sounds fun!!! If i were u i would do the whole shirt thing... if ur crush isn't already taken and he see u with the not taken shirt on then maybe he will ask!! Smile


My birthday is October 22!!! I'm gonna be 13!!! YAY!!! LOL!!

koolkat567 on 10/11/2011 9:03:43 PM

Hey girl! Smile

Personally, I don't like wearing makeup at all. I only wear it on special events! I think that a layer of mascara would be fine, and some flavored lip balm or gloss, which would be fine too. I'd wear some nail polish that would match your dress (i always do!), and you probably won't need too much eyeshadow, but if you want to you can.
I think what you have sounds pretty good!

Have fun! Smile

facebooker1240 on 10/11/2011 6:30:40 PM

lol how romantic!! .. it really does sound like he likes u!! My friend told my crush that i like him and all he did was smile!! .. idk if he believes my friend or not though.. but when she told him she said i turned red!! :O

koolkat567 on 10/10/2011 9:01:43 PM

Hey girlie Smile

Just say "you know what? I like his personality" or "I think he has a great personality, you probably just need to get to know him better". If you like him, then it shouldn't matter about what your friends think of him! Smile

facebooker1240 on 10/8/2011 6:50:43 PM

Ke$ha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love her!!!!!! LOL

koolkat567 on 10/6/2011 4:16:57 PM

Hey!! Today my crush needed a pencil... so i was like i have one. he took it and we shared a little smile with each other!! Laughing

koolkat567 on 10/5/2011 10:12:08 PM

KOOL!!!! u have a twin sista... i wish i had a twin sister.. me and mi sista look alike and ppl at mi school ask me ALL THE TIME r we twins!!

koolkat567 on 10/3/2011 10:17:34 PM

Hey girl!

No way! I think that's a great age to have a boyfriend, as long as it's ok with the parents! If you really like the guy, and feel like you're ready to date, it shouldn't matter about how young you are. Make sure you don't take things to seriously, or fall too hard for this boy, because you're only young!

Good luck! Smile

facebooker1240 on 10/1/2011 1:40:53 PM

hey come by my pageand leave ur questions and ill give advicd RIGHT AWAY! xoxo karson

selah6398 on 9/18/2011 6:48:29 PM

Hey girl! Smile

That's super hard to help you with. If you really want to ask him, then just do it! (or maybe get a friend to do it for you), if you don't ask him then you'll have no chance! The worst thing he could say is "no"! So, give it a shot! Start talking to him more, and get to know him before you do it! And if you're too shy to ask him to the dance, ask him to dance with you instead Tong

Hope this helps, good luck!

facebooker1240 on 9/17/2011 4:25:43 PM

Maybe you don't really like them, you could just think you do but in reality you just think there cute and little things like that you can choose one and get to know that one too! (if your up to it) hope this helps

bubbly107 on 9/13/2011 11:05:08 PM

Hey!

Just because your friends are all getting boyfriends doesn't mean you need one! Honestly, I like being single rather than being in a relationship. But, if you find the one that you really really like, and (he likes you back) that's when you should start dating. If you don't know him that well, you really shouldn't want to date him first thing. Get to know him first, and then let things fall into place.

Enjoy the single life girlie! Smile

facebooker1240 on 9/11/2011 12:07:13 PM

Hey!

Sorry that my advice didn't help ya! Um, this is a pretty tough advice to solve. I think you should start by just being friends, and doing the normal friend stuff, like talking, texting, hanging out, picking on eachother(playfully), etc! If you can become good friends with this guy, then you'll get to know him better, and know whether or not he's 'the one' to date! Try flirting, or flirt-texting.. haha! Um, strike up a conversation in the hall, and ask him to come over sometime to help ya with some homework, or just ask him to go to the park for a walk, or walk home with you after school(if possible). He'll think you're just being friendly! If you don't fall all over him, or studder when you're talking, or try to kiss him, he probably won't get the "liking him" vibe from you. Just be overly friendly, and try not to act any different around him than you would with your other friends!

Hope this helps a bit more! Good luck! Smile

facebooker1240 on 9/10/2011 8:54:34 PM

Hey girl!

The only thing that you really can do is, talk to him! You'll never get to know him if you don't strike up a conversation! Just meet him in the hall and say "hey, how are you?" or "what classes do you have?" (or something like that). Later when you get to know him better, ask for his phone number, or add him on fb! Tong

hope this helps!

facebooker1240 on 9/10/2011 10:41:04 AM

Thanks for the advice on changing! But how do I "control" my period? Is there a pad I could wear all day, becuase I'm not sure how often I can change. Please write back.

basketballcutie11 on 9/3/2011 6:08:31 PM

thanks i'm 14 now!!!!

Jesbat97 on 8/27/2011 11:08:42 AM

it's my birthday the 27th of this month.

Jesbat97 on 8/21/2011 6:04:42 PM

join my club advice bees! you can the v.p if you join first!

Jesbat97 on 8/16/2011 10:49:04 AM

typo do NOT compare yourself to your friends

Jesbat97 on 8/16/2011 10:46:41 AM

you are only 12 and 100lbs for the age of 12 is good. If you were to loose 10-20lbs you be under weight and that would be healthy and around your age you are still growing and are going to gain more weight as you get older because your muscle mass will grow.i am 13 going on 14 this month and i was your weight at 12 and i was the same height now i am 5 foot three inches and weight 121 lbs because my muscle mass and height increased do don't compare yourself to your friends. Also i have friends like that and they wish the were my height and weight.
-jessie

Jesbat97 on 8/16/2011 10:45:28 AM

hey girl your normal you are not fat you will grow into your body your only 12 also dont compare youself to your friends your awesome for the pretty girl you are! Smile always there for ya!

bubbly107 on 8/9/2011 9:37:48 PM

hey be patient i had this issue too but they will show up just keep trying it seemed to work on mine and also if you scroll down theres a bunch of neon colored links that say join clubs! go to the red one and click it and search a club your interested in then click it and join it its that easy

bubbly107 on 8/9/2011 12:24:24 AM

Thanks so much! guys may be cool for a while, but girls always got ya back! Smile

MusikRox1999 on 8/8/2011 12:27:19 PM

oops i thought it didnt post lol so you get two things of advice! haha sorry bout that good luck!

bubbly107 on 7/18/2011 1:17:34 AM

Hey girlie! Heard a guy was giving you mixed signals! Well I just have one question: Do you really want to date a guy that is a fake around his friends or even you? Just consider it! Sadly it could mean that he just doesn;t think your good enough for him or hes a "two-face"and do you really want to date that? I would be careful about him, and you may want to find someone else who love you for the beautiful girl you are!Smile

bubbly107 on 7/16/2011 3:44:36 PM

Hey chica! So a guy giving ya troubles? Well, if he's a jerk around his friends to you then he doesn't want to himself around them. Now one question, Do you really want a guy who can't embrace that he likes you? Think about that and consider finding someone who is kind, open, and has space for you in his mind! Just think about this too, Does he really like you? Good luck!
~Monique<3

bubbly107 on 7/15/2011 2:31:01 PM


    

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