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  1.   Hi!
  2.   Welcome to Tough Stuff Mods!
  3.   We give advice to girls who are going through hard things, serious things.
  4.   We aren't here to answer questions about little things.
  5.   We are also here if you just need to talk to someone.
  6.   Some of the questions we answer are about:
In A Nutshell...
  1.   - One of your parents is an addict
  2.   - Your depressed
  3.   - Hurting yourself
  4.   - loved one passed away
  5.   - Being abused (Verbally or physically)
  6.   I know there are a million other things but I won't name them all!
  7.   The tough stuff mods have gone through tough stuff to. So they have experiance.
  8.   Don't be afraid to ask or talk! We won't judge you, we are only here to help you.
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  2.   Tough stuff mods
  3.   1. Tina (Creator of Tough Stuff Mods) Profile: TinaWiebe
  4.   Tinas area of expertiese: Parents with addictions, Depression. But can answer Q's bout anything.
  5.   2. Have_A_Heart. Her area of expertise: Addictions, Death, Abuse.
  6.   3. facebooker1240
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  1.   Unless the mods name is printed on our pro, she is not a real TSM.
  2.   ***Please put TSM on top if your questions NOT MOD! Thanks! :)***
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I hear this is a great advice coloum I'm am going to start coming hear for advice instead of other advice people TSM rules!

FunParty on 8/29/2011 12:22:52 PM

Hi I would like to have an application for becoming a part of TSM. Will you please explain a little bit about the rules and the TSM itself so I may be a perfect applicant? ThanxSmile actually I've seen the application so I'll just write it down now.
Age: 13
Real (first) name: Cami
Do you have experience dealing with tough stuff? Yes I do! Boyfriends,friends doing drugs, friends, bullies, school, I've seen it all! Don't let my age confuse you I may be in seventh grade but trust me I have experience.
How often do you go on GL? Daily and sometimes even hourly. I've only missed a day twice since I signed up.
Do you have any experience giving advice, and if so what? I give advice to friends,neighbors,family, even my enemiesand on all kinds of things.(relationships,divorce,death,military family members,moving,being the new kid, you name it) before please ignore what I said about needing an app but please do post rules or suggestions so I may be a great advice giver! Smile Thank you! Happy Holidays!
Hugs and coacoa,
Cami

Samlover2247 on 12/16/2010 9:23:15 PM

i'm really sorry for putting mod on the top because i just finished reading that. and i would like Tina to help me if she can

luvandpeace101 on 11/24/2010 10:48:59 PM

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
i'm very depressed. my friend just started dating m ex when she knew i still liked him! it's been a few weeks but i'm still upsetFrown is it normal to feel mad at her and upset? i cry myself to sleep sometimes and i've tried to cut myself. i've only told one other person because she's going through the same stuff. can u help me get throught this? what would be the best thing to do?

luvandpeace101 on 11/24/2010 10:46:42 PM

MOD MOD MOD!! out of no where my mom asked how i would feel if she got a divorce. I think my mom likes her ex-boyfriend from high school that she dated for 3 years. She all like i just wish i had better. She's texting him all secretively and his contact is now ABF. I read the text messages between them when she wasn't looking and they say like, I love you through and through, your a hottie, and lets meet at the library. And today when i was at rehearsal i think she met him at starbucks. She doesn't know that i know this or even think this. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO HELP!!!!!!!!!!

 

Tell her how you feel!!! She is not going to be happy you read her text messages but you will probably feel better if you get it off your chest. Im sorry your stuck in this situation Frown

bfflbrd on 11/23/2010 12:43:29 AM

Hey, can I have an application to be a TSM Mod? I'm really good with advice aand I've gone through a lot of experiences..

kittysaurus on 11/8/2010 2:17:32 PM

MOD MOD MOD
or any one else who can help
so i have a bf named kyle and his bday is comeing up
i ask him wat he wants and all he says is that he wants me
so what should i get him
thanks

sk8chix997 on 10/21/2010 7:11:17 PM

**Message to all TSMS**

I will be unable to go on this site for a few weeks, (Vaction) So if you find any Q's you know why im not answering them.

- Tina Creator of TSM

Sept 13 '10

ToughStuffMods on 9/13/2010 8:25:44 PM

sounds great! Smile

facebooker1240 on 9/7/2010 9:10:44 PM

Hey!

Well, currently I have joinned another club, & have made my own (which i am advertisting) but, since TSM is such a great group I'm going to stick with it!
So, would girls sometimes post questions on my profile or always on TSM profile? just wondering. thanks!

facebooker1240 on 9/5/2010 10:40:21 PM

Hey!

Yeah, well I do a little advice giving already on my profile, and advertising shouldn't be a prob. as long as you give me the advertisment you would like me to use, and I'll post it around GL, whenever I can.
Also, I was wondering would I have to sign up for another GL account for TSM? It wouldn't be a prob. just let me know.. thanks!


Age: 13


Real (first) name: Chelsea


Do you have with tough stuff (ex. parent is an addict, loved one passed away, depression, hurting yourself etc.)?

Yes. Some of my love ones have passed away, and I have been going through some bullying as a kid.


How often do you go on GL?

Daily, but sometimes I miss a few days; but when school starts I won't have as much time to go on the computer..



Do you have any experiance with giving advice?

I do my own kind of advice giving, check out my profile to see for yourself! Laughing

facebooker1240 on 8/27/2010 8:21:00 PM

Hey!

I'd first of all like to say, that TSM is a great help for girls of GL, and what you girls are doing is great!

Is it possible for me to get a application?
Thanks!!

facebooker1240 on 8/26/2010 10:10:04 PM

hi i need advice on siblings and volleyball and boyz and a lot of other things!! please help! i live a very pressured life. i dont have a true BFF currently and my parents always seem TOed becuz of me !! please help! anyone who reads this please comment on my prof with adviiiiiiiccce!!!!!! :,( :{ :[ :/ <:{

cheex13 on 8/19/2010 9:14:54 PM

hey!it's milila again.today i got an even more rude text from that same person who texted me the first time.heare's the convo:
other texter:hehehehehe!ya stupid!ya stupid!
me:i'm not!you wanna hurt me!
other texter!ur sooo stupid!i wanna kill you you're so stupid!
me:oh ya?NOT!!!
other texter:i dare you to have someone take a naked picture of you with NO blurry spots.if you dont do this you will be forsed to give me your gl password so i can learn your address so i can beat you up at home
me:end of convo!i think you wanna kill me!
other texter:i hate you sooooo bad,ugly naked girl who i should definitly beat up and kill
me:i said,end of convo!bye!
now i think he wants to kill me!
milila:3

poptropicalover8 on 8/17/2010 4:56:47 PM

Thank you so much:] I will follow those rule.

have_a_heart on 8/16/2010 9:56:44 PM

Tina, you posted an answer to someone else's post on my profile

bfflbrd on 8/16/2010 12:23:16 PM

hey!i'd like to be a tsm!i already know the app,so here's my app
1.9
2.ashlyn
3.the year before last year,my uncle died,in may,my grandpa's dog died,and right now the neighborhood cat hasnt been around
4.every day
5.i have lots of experiance with giving advice!i have my own club,club girly,i'm a mod and the fashionista in club gl,i'm a mod in the justin bieber fan club,and i'm a mod in MODS CLUB!!!
reply soon!
ashlyn:]

clairinetplayer84 on 8/15/2010 8:28:52 PM

hey!my name is milila.i dont really know if this is tough stuff but i'm worried about my saftey.yesterday i got the weirdest text from i name i dont know.here's our chat:
other texter:hey girl!i'm a really cute boy from your school
me:uh,i dont know you
other texter:you know me!i'm the cute boy you met in school on the last day!
me:uh,i dident meet a boy on the last day of school
other texter:i swer i saw you!you told me your're name was milila!
me:that dident happen!
other texter:anyway,i texted you to say that you where ugly,mean,and stupid.
me:ok you're REALLY creepy!
other texter:can you give me you're address?
me:no way!you're a bad guy!you're not a cute boy!
other texter:i'm not a bad guy!i'm a cute boy who wants to see you and write a book on how ugly you are!
me:aaaaaaaaaaaa!you're waaaaaaaay creepy!
other texter:fine!then i triple dog dare you to take pictures of all of you're privates,one MUST be an up-the-vagina picture!
me:noooooo!you want to sexurally abuse me and i know it!end of convorsation!aaaaaaaaa!
plz help!i really think he wants to sexually abuse me.help!
milila:[

poptropicalover8 on 8/14/2010 11:49:02 PM

My mom got really mad at me and she yelled at my dad saying you can have her she's your daughter. And now she's mad at me and my dad, and now she's in her room reading and eating her dinner while the rest of my family is playing Wii Fit Plus. What do I do ?!?!?!?!

bfflbrd on 8/14/2010 12:29:24 AM

hi!the cat is not and i repete not a stray.it has a collor so it belongs to someone else.just so ya know,the dog that died was not my dog.it was my grandpas dog.the dog died back in may so he's long gone.i dont really wanna have a funeral.i kinda got over it.i'm more worried about the cat.i knw i'ts not stray.it has a collor.the owners chnged the collor but the old collor had a name on it.we can work together on both animal problems and any tough stuff that i go throgh in the future.thanks
ashlyn:[:]

clairinetplayer84 on 8/12/2010 3:21:46 PM

dear tina,
first of all,my profile is now visible!!:]we did not have a funeral.i dont know what grandpa did with jake's[jake was the dog]remains.i got over that one but i now have another problem!the neighborhood cat,who likes to come to my house,hasent been around for a looooooong time.i'm sad and worried.help!
ashlyn:]:[

clairinetplayer84 on 8/11/2010 3:14:45 PM

hey!i saw that a mod changed the tsm app a litle when you where giving an app to a girl in wich whoms profile is not visible.the mod said that she doesent think girls should give out tough stuff experiances on hear.do you think that the change is ok or do you want them to give out tough stuff experiances on hear?comment back on my profile!
ashlyn:]:[

clairinetplayer84 on 8/11/2010 3:00:23 PM

Ohh, I forgot to answer number 4 on my application. sorry. I must have accidently erased my answer, but I go on everyday.

have_a_heart on 8/9/2010 9:44:43 PM

Hey!
So heres the aplication, the only rule for fillin it out is that you gotta be honest!
- Tina (Creator of TSM)
Tough stuff mod's Aplication:
1. Age: I'm 13 years olddd.
2. Real (first) name: Libbyy:]
3. I've been through a lot of tough stuff. I got involved with the wrong people pretty young. My boyfriend dealt drugs and eventually killed himself. I was on drugs for a little bit and used to cut. I have a lot of experience with pretty much everything tough that anyone could go through, even though I'm really young. I've seen every type of abuse, every situation that would possibly happen to a girl on here and I want to use my experiences to help.
4.How often do you go on GL?
5. Do you have any experiance with giving advice, If yes what?
Yess. All my friends come to me for advice and I do the school's advice column in the newspaper, which allows me to assist guidance counselors once in awjile as well.

have_a_heart on 8/8/2010 8:30:01 PM

Hey! Can i get an application to be a MOD? THanks so much! Laughing

dancer4ever518 on 8/8/2010 3:11:45 PM

hey i can be a TSM i hav been through so much in life dude you name please reply i would love to do this job i wanna be a journalist so i would L-O-V-3 this PLZZZZZZZZZ
THNX!

jusmeh_96 on 8/8/2010 12:52:54 AM

To emily/m_n_m Your profile isn't visable yet, so i'll just give you the aplication on TSM hope thats okay! Heres your application:
Tough stuff mod's Aplication:
Age:
Real (first) name: Do you have experience dealing with tough stuff?
How often do you go on GL?
Do you have any experiance with giving advice, If yes what?

 


 

Hey girl, I changed the app just a little because I
don't think people should have to post their tough experiences on here
for #3.
 

ToughStuffMods on 8/7/2010 10:03:07 AM

hii. I'm Libby and I would like an appilcation to be a mod. thankyouu:]

have_A_heart on 8/6/2010 11:52:26 PM

Hey! My name's Emily and I would really like to be a Tough Stuff Mod. I've experienced lots of difficult things in my life, maybe only in small doses, but I was actually a Junior Counsellor at my school.

Thanks for your time,

Emily

m_n_m on 8/6/2010 11:21:27 PM

Mod
so today my great-grandma passed so in a few days my mom my sibs ,my nieice and me are goingdown to alabama to go to the funeral, the only thing is im not ready for the state mt grandma's gonna be in. I KNOW this is NOT oig to be a fun trip and im not sure what to do
also can i have one of those appas
Tabi B




Hey girlie, I'm not sure what appas are, but I don't know if you can ever be ready for the state that your grandmother is going to be in use that time to personally say your goodbyes.  

Bubblez9722 on 8/6/2010 11:20:07 PM

Hi, Tina!Thank u SOOO much for the help! My dad would ant me to be strong and feel good. I've talked to Karen and Nelly (My sister, odviously) and then listen. Were going to call the help line soon. We really need it. Thank u sooo much again!

~Danny

Danny67 on 8/3/2010 12:17:04 AM

hi
i dont know how tough this is considered but im sort of confused.
My parents especially my mom seems to think i have HDD or ADD sometimes.
and it makes me uncomfortable and confused. When i say someting to my mom about she sort of gets a bit mad.
What do i do???
Is there any Mods with add or hdd that can help? thanks

nicole

sk8chix997 on 7/31/2010 3:21:15 PM

Hi my names Daniella, but you guys can just call me Danny. My dad died in a terrible car rash 2 weeks ago. I've been really sad and depressed about it. I've cried myself to sleep every night since he died! I always want to cry, no matter where I am! Sometimes I just want to scream! I really want a councilor, but my mom is already in some grieving group and I don't want to put so much in her place! I'm 16 and I also want to stay strong for my little sisters. There all so upset, too! Can you please help me? My dad and I were really close. And now I feel all empty inside and alone. Please help me get through this time. It's really hard for me.

~Danny :'( Frown Foot

danny67 on 7/29/2010 1:31:02 PM

Hey, I just need someone to talk to. I am very alone sometimes and I would like to talk to a ToughStuffMod about it. (:
Thanks~

<3luvlife<3 on 7/29/2010 12:54:05 AM

Wow. Doesn't look like you have ANY TSM's!!!!!!! That's mean, to just leave someone out!

KatieFrown Frown Frown Frown Frown

Cupcake1999 on 7/28/2010 11:25:48 PM

Dear clarinetplayer84

Losing an animal is hard, I had to go through it recently, x2! It helps if you have a little funeral for them. I was so sad that I just wanted my sadness to end, so I wouldn't let myself think about them, I just forced them out of my mind. It helps not to think about them to much. Hope it gets better!

( I posted this on TSM because your pro isn't visable yet! Sorry!)

ToughStuffMods on 7/28/2010 10:06:06 PM

MOD

Please help! My aunt uncle and cousins are coming over and were going to my faavorite amuestment park EVER! But, my parents will be at work, my twin sisters will be a volley ball camp and my little brother will be at soccer camp! My cousins are 2 boys Rodrick 9, and Tyler whos 5. Im really nervous i mean, how can i make the moment less akward and embarrassing? Please pretty please help me!
~Khloe!!!!!! <3 Smile

cheerrox1111 on 7/27/2010 9:48:07 PM

dear tina,
my grandpa's dog died in may.i loved him soooooooo much.help!

clairinetplayer84 on 7/27/2010 8:02:08 PM

-I'm 11.
- My name is Katie.
- My experience with tuff stuff is: Abuse(but nothing seriously bad!), my BFF died in pre-school, my dog died when I was 4 and I was depressed until I was 8 (about my bff too!) and I cried my-self to sleep every night and sleep walked crying!
- I go on GL every time I go on the computer! I check my profile and the other clubs profiles I belong to!
- And I have a LOT of experience with giving advice! I'm in 3 clubs about it here on GL! One is my own!

Please reply soon!

KatieLaughing

Cupcake1999 on 7/26/2010 10:42:58 PM

Hey! Can I be a Tough Stuff MOD? I've been through VERY hard stuff.... I don't want to say it. But I have an answer even if it hasn't happend to me. I want to help EVERY SINGLE GIRL! I plan to make a book one day on advice on EVERYTHING! Especially stuff thats SUPER TOUGH!

And I can tell people about this club, and could I be a VP?

I want to help, so please reply SOON!

KatieSmile

Cupcake1999 on 7/25/2010 9:41:29 PM


    

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