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I am so sorry fr taking so long to reply!
Thats really tough and Im sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately you will go through things like this in life and you camt just avoid your problems. Im not saying you should confront him but dont avoid him. Being constantly worried about seeing him will make your life miserable. I think the best thing to do would be to try to get over hik akd maybe just smile at hik in the halls but dont try to become friends again because obviously that would be awkward. Most importantly try to find a jew guy to crush on that will take your mind off of everything!
Hope this helps sweetie!
pinkypi26 on 1/29/2013 7:47:24 PM
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Princess Keziyah on 1/14/2013 10:30:21 PM
oh it's ok! lol ive been super busy myself. the second semester is right around the corner, so it's total chaos. yes maximum ride is one of the BEST SERIES EVER! it's a sci-fi, fiction, romance twist. very good
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samo11 on 10/7/2012 5:12:31 PM
I did read about your story a while ago(Your summer is my winter. I live in Australia)and I remember most of it. I'll go back and read it. What I never got was that you told that girl about your crush because she told you some deep stuff about herself. Was that the only reason? And I may not know exactly how you feel but I understand that you would be hurt. I've read that if a crush lasts longer than four months it's considered love.Even if he never really liked you that way, he's missing out. You're a scorpio. Us scorpios are gorgeous ;)
Lanibananii on 9/24/2012 11:13:58 PM
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samo11 on 9/24/2012 5:38:27 PM
You are NOT dumb. People can't help the way they feel. It just sucks that you two used to be friends. Getting over someone isn't exactly easy. Whenever I think about something that hurts I usually try to change my thoughts or put all my concentration into doing something. Whenever you pass by him don't change directions or avoid him. Just walk on like nothing ever happened. If you let on that your still affected by what happened then he will mostl likely steer clear of you. And the thing about having many personalites....I don't think most peole have just one. Your personality depends on who you're around.I am pretty much the opposite of you. I have so many people around me that being alone is a blessing. I LIKE to be alone, I just don't want to be lonely. I know you want to fit into somewhere but think of it this way. You're different.Unique. you're not an outcast or a loner. Hell, I was once in the same positon.Find someone who is either like you or the complete oppsite (for both the boy problems and friends thing. Opposite is so much more fun).
If you ever need advice you can come to me. Remember that people who have it the hardest come out the happiest. One day you're gonna look back and be thankful for what happened.
Lanibananii on 9/12/2012 2:59:12 AM
Thanks for joining my Twilight club!!
samo11 on 9/11/2012 8:32:14 PM
Hey, i read on maggie's profile about that guy you had a crush on for a couple of years. The one that got a girlfriend. Do you still like him or have you moved on?
Lanibananii on 9/11/2012 3:49:19 AM
Not everybody knows the real me, I'm not sure if I even do. I feel like I don't have one personality. I have MANY personalities. I like act differently towards certain friends. I don't know. I just feel, alone. I don't want to feel alone but I do. I try to give advice, and I'm good at it, but I need it too, just as much. Sorry for sounding so depressing, :/.
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myfatsquirrel on 9/8/2012 6:09:31 PM
Meaning of your color and birthday!!
Don't cheat, If you are honest, this tells the truth. It's pretty good. Write your answers on a piece of paper,
and NO cheating!! The answers are at the bottom.
1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow ?
2. Your first initial?
3. Your month of birth?
4. Which color do you like more, b ! lack or white?
5. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.
6. Your favorite number?
7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?
8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more? &n bsp;
9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).
When you're done, scroll down. (Don't cheat!)
1. If you choose:
Red - You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and a ggress ive..
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.
Blue- You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love..
Yellow -You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.
2. If your initial is:
A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.
3. If you were born in:
Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.
Apri l-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sep: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experi en ! ce for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great , but ev entually you will find your soul mate.
4. If you chose:
Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.
White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.
5. This person is your best friend.
6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.
7. If you chose:
Flying: You like adventure.
Driving: You are a laid back person.
8.. If you chose:
Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.
Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.
9. This wish will come true only if you send this to five people in one hour. Send it to ten people, and it will come true before your next birthday
asw14 on 8/22/2012 6:27:37 PM
Hey! Aw sorry That stinks, I am the complete opposite haha. People literally always tell me that I never talk which is annoying becuase I do just not to them haha. Really you shouldn't change yourself at all but if you want advice on how to be quieter and a slower talker I am here to help haha. So before you start talking you should do that thing that people always say, count to three. Or you can do what I do...before I say something I plan out what I am going to say exactly in my head. Like the whole sentence and everything and that seems to help to make things clear. To be quieter I don't really know what to do haha sorry. Really just tell those people who are rude to you that that is just who you are and they need to except it. I have never changed no matter how many people have told me I never talk. It's just something you can decide Sorry about the friends. That stinks, well to make new friends the easiest way is to give someone new to you a compliment. Trust me it works sooooo well. My best friend that I love so much( I mean I am so close with her, I am probably like you and your cousin with her) I gave her a compliment and then she started sharing her snacks with me sometimes haha(sorry this was when we were in sixth grade) And all of my other friends basically start off like that. So in one of your classes, say to someone hey cute shirt...and then casually start a conversation like did you have a nice summer? Share you schedules to see if you have any other classes together and then ask when he or she has lunch. If they have lunch with you, tell them that your friends aren't in you lunch and that you would really appreciate if you could sit with them. They can't really say no and they will probably be surprised on what a great decision they made after to getting to know you a little more. This year I was lucky enough to get my best friend, but last year I only had one semi friend and one person I didn't know at all. We became really close. So just find some stranger ask nicely and they'll let you in and you may end up getting closer then ever! I hope this helps and good luck btw, sorry for any typos haha
topchef88 on 8/11/2012 8:25:48 PM
Hey I am soooo sooo sorry I didn't get back to you fast enough! What kind of advice do you need? I am happy to help, sorry again. Super busy
topchef88 on 8/6/2012 11:25:37 AM
Aw yeah I know people like that. That see what they are doing wrong but then sorta refuse to change. That and the fact that you aren't very attached to these girls anyway seems like a sign that you are ready for some new/better friends. I know you can see that and it's the WHO and HOW that's the prob. For that I would say try to have a fresh start this year..I'm not saying change who you are but maybe become a better or a little diff version of yourself so that you really get the sense that this is a new year with new opportunities and possibilities. So maybe start the year with a new hairstyle or a few new outfits/makeup..and definitely a whole lot of optimism.
I know a lot of the people at school aren't people you see yourself becoming best friends with. That's just how school is going to be until college when you are around a group of people who share the same interests as you. But until then just take away the pressure and strain to find people who have the potential to become life long friends (I'm telling u..that is RARE) and instead have the goal to find some nice people who will make at least good temporary school friends.
But I know what you mean..what girl doesn't want a super close bff who feels more like a sister then a friend? That happens WAY more on TV shows and in books then real life tho. It's rare that the girl you have playdates with at age 6 is the same person as the girl you tell everything to at age 16....life just usually doesn't work that way. I was always SO jealous of my younger sister because to this day (she's 13) her two best friends are the best friends she had in Kindergarten. For me friends have come and gone quite a bit more. As you grow up and change and loose common interests that just naturally seems to happen. I've been close friends with who I call my best friend since 5th grade which was 6 years ago now but it's not like we are BFFs just us..we're part of a group of friends sorta and although we know eachother the best, she has other friends that she is really close with and that's just how it is.
SO don't put to much pressure on yourself to fit in with a certain group or find that long lost BFF/soulsister...because things happen when you least expect them to. With guys/friends/lots of stuff...sometimes thats a good thing sometimes bad but I think if you just lift the pressure a little bit not only will you be happier but people with be drawn to you by the recognizable fact that you aren't trying to hard.
Feel free to keep commenting (:
maggie183 on 8/4/2012 12:21:30 PM
So first of all, I don't think you should feel like you need to change who you are just because some people at school don't accept that you talk loudly or whatever. If their reactions really bother you just try and keep it in your mind to try and talk slower and quieter. But really, those friends don't seem like they deserve or appreciate you. I get your fear about not having anywhere to sit at lunch..(i think everyone sorta worries about the caf scene when starting a new school year) but I think you should just try to stay positive and imagine the best cased scenario instead of the worst. Appear confident and approach some other people you have been friendly with in the past in the caf and say, "hey, can I sit with you guys?" That first moment in the most akward so its good to get it out of the way early (aka first day of school) so that you can just relax come lunch time everyday, knowing that you have a place to sit. Oh but one thing..if you do want to distance yourself from your current friends for a while (which I recommend), don't just ditch them out of the blue like they did to you. Be the bigger person here and explain to them how much they have hurt your feelings and self esteem and how they act like they don't want you around. The rest of what happens really depends on how they reply to that and what kind of effort they make to keep you in their group of friends.
Good luck girl..and remember a lot of the fears we have end up being for nothing. I have a feeling everything will work out fine for you and you will end up having a great year (: Just may need to give it a little time. But DO NOT loose your confidence in yourself! Honestly that is SO key.
Goodluck, feel free to keep commenting back (I'm always around to talk or answer more Qs)
maggie183 on 8/3/2012 12:49:12 PM
Hey i posted my answer to your question on my profile! Hope i helped!!
swimmergirl14 on 7/30/2012 2:20:33 PM
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p.s im not petite in fact im 5'8 but my bestie is 5'0 so ik where she likes to shop! xoxo -c
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rainyseattlegirl on 7/28/2012 2:25:26 AM
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marggieluv on 7/26/2012 6:34:25 PM
Yeah I know what you mean :-( Just don't try so hard. Crushes come naturally..like it's really true that we don't control who we like. So just relax and try to put your mind on other things like your friends, your schoolwork (once school starts), your hobbies/sports, your fam..etc. Sometimes it feels like our lives revolve around guys but it's so not true. And as for not being able to get over this guy..just let that be too. I mean who knows what the future holds right?! You guys could suddenly click and something may change that motivates both of you to give a relationship a try. Or, you may be better sooted to other people.
It's REALLY hard to get over guys tho I know. I'm still not fully over this guy I liked for about 3 years and used to be my BGF. But now he's a total jerk, so I know a relationship or even a friendship wouldn't be best or possible anymore. People change sadly :-(
I'm sure you will have plenty of great luck in terms of guys in your future tho! Just let it be--things happen when you least expect them too.
Feel free to keep commenting! ;)
maggie183 on 7/19/2012 2:33:55 PM
Hey girl! I've never had a bf so I may not be the BEST person to give advice but based on my friends relationships and my "could almost call it relationships", my main advice is the just let everything come naturally. Everybody has a first relationship, a first kiss...etc and of course you aren't going to be an expert. When it comes to talking just ask him about his interests or the most safe/common ground: talk about school and classes.
Don't worry the ice will be broken in no time. Once you are dating someone the covos stop being so awkward and you feel more like you do when you're talking to your best friend.
Oh and don't forget that you are not the only one who will be nervous...the guys always are too no matter how great they are at hiding it!
I really hope you meet some great guys next year! When it comes to getting over this guy, don't try so hard. It's hard to get over guys, especially when you've been crushing on them a long time. Like in a way they are always going to mean something to you. But over time your feelings for them will lessen and you will find you are thinking about them less and less. The main thing that helps this is meeting a new crush!
Comment back if you want!
maggie183 on 7/18/2012 2:14:01 PM
i know my church has PRP classes, but those only go up to 8th grade. i still attend church, which is good
myfatsquirrel on 7/15/2012 8:37:15 PM
asw14 on 7/15/2012 5:14:22 PM
oh it's ok! thanks! i'm coming from a catholic junior high school and i'm going to a public high school, so i won't know anyone....eekkk
myfatsquirrel on 7/13/2012 12:23:08 PM
i won the false prince
asw14 on 7/10/2012 6:20:20 PM
lol i'm guessing by ur username that u r a twilight fan;)
myfatsquirrel on 6/28/2012 1:26:21 PM
I'm so sorry it took me a few days to write back...I posted back 2 days ago but it didn't work appariently. I hope it works this time!
Ok so anyway, I TOTALLY agree with your aunt that this would make such a great story. Why not try looking at the whole situation like that? Separate yourself from what happened and think of it as if you were reading about this happening...what do you think the main character should do? If you don't want to text him that's ok and totally your call. But it may be worth risking him being a jerk or ignoring you or whatever else you are afraid of happening for the sake of having a conversation in which the two of you are able to clear things up.
Oh and try not to let the fact that he's popular and doesn't realize how amazing you are make you feel bad about yourself. I did the exact same thing last year...actually I had sorta the same problem as you. I REALLY liked a guy who was SUPER popular and used to be my best friend but sorta forgot I existed. It made me feel so bad about myself that he didn't like me and I started thinking like "oh my god I must be so ugly and such a loser since he doesn't like me and he likes all of these other girls instead". Try not to think that way...you know it's not true and it will just make you more miserable trust me.
So if I were you right now I would stop and think about why I care so much about this guy still...if the reasons are legit then I would text him. And if he's mean or doesn't respond I would MOVE ON..take that as a sign.
Hope I'm helping!! (:
maggie183 on 6/25/2012 3:44:41 PM
I LOVE your profile picture! Is it a famous painting?
timekeeper on 6/25/2012 1:58:36 AM
timekeeper on 6/25/2012 1:57:45 AM
Omg I'm SO sorry, that is one of the saddest stories I've ever read :-(
That girl was really wrong to text your crush like that..like REALLY wrong, and I hope you let her know that. Anyway, I'm sorry your crush didn't save your # and hasn't been treating you like your important to him..I know how awful that feels. The way he responded to your telling him who you were tho makes me think that he does still care about you. After all he did remember that memory right?! I think he probably hasn't been talking to you since you revealed yourself not because you revelaed yourself but because of what you said about him only dating popular girls. I know that was probably 100% the truth as I know guys like that too but he probably took that as an insult like you were saying he's dumb or only cares about popularity. I'm sure you didn't mean in that way in which case you should DEFINITELY either text or call him. Say, "look I know you have a girlfriend and I'm not trying to get in the way of that at all but can we please talk because we need to clear some things up and I hate how everything ended between us".
If this boy is a decent person, he will respond to that, and give you a chance to explain.
If he doesn't..MOVE ON, because he is not worthy of you or your time.
Good luck girl!!!
Any more questions, comments or feedback comment on my profile! ;)
maggie183 on 6/20/2012 1:52:00 PM
Hey I read your question on 'Cougargirl's' profile. Sorry it didn't work out for you and that guy. I think it would be best not to push the issue to much, and just move on. His actions tell us that he doesn't have the same feelings for you. But if you feel like talking to him I suggest in person so he can see facial expressions and body language. It's important that he knows you're serious. If you're not comfortable with that I suggest calling not texting. Feel free to ask me question on my profile or on my club Dear Clo Clo. I'll answer ASAP.
flowergirllova on 6/19/2012 6:32:22 PM
Hey sweetie! Im so sorry it didnt work out very well with this guy, but would you really want to be with a guy that made you feel like you werent good enough for him? I agree that that was a bad way to end the year off, and you should probably text him and say that you are really sorry and you would like to just be friends. I really hate to say it but i dont think he returns your feelings since he hasnt made an effort to talk to you, im sorry.
Someday you will find a guy thats is perfect for you amd wont make you feel inferior. Just keep your head up and try to "get over" this guy. And most importantly remember that you dont need a boyfriend to he happy!
Thanks for coming to me for advice!
pinkypi26 on 6/19/2012 3:00:18 PM
Well it cann be awkward being around a group of guys that are not necessarily friends of yours. Keep in mind that u dont have to join in on all of their convos. If u dont feel comfortable around his friends ask him to hang out with just the two of you or with some of your friends and some of his
Hanging out will also help u two get closer so mayne u can become more than just friends.
Hope this helps!
pinkypi26 on 12/31/2011 10:54:55 AM
OMG i love twilight too! Who is your favorite character? I love the werewolves but Alice is so nice!
basketballcutie11 on 12/22/2011 9:53:46 AM
I really wish I could tell you what was causing that pain, but unfortunately I'm not a doctor. I would definately talk to your parents and see if they could take you to a doctor because this could be something serious. If your parents don't think its serious enough to take you to a doc try talking to a school nurse or your health or PE teacher to see if they have any advice
pinkypi26 on 12/13/2011 5:37:36 PM
Hey girly! Thanks for coming to me with your Q!
1) When your parents say something you don't agree with, before blowing up about it try discussing it nicely. Before you say something that could potentially get you in trouble, take a deep breath and think of the consequences of your words. And like my parents always say, "pick your battles" You don't need to argue about everything you disagree about. If the topic doesn't really make a difference either way just avoid the arguement. Also try to understand why you're parents do what they do. I know rules can be frustrating sometimes, but they really do want what is best for you!
2) GL has some awesome workouts under their Health & Fitness section so check those out! Also try fitting small workouts in. For example on commercials you could do sit-ups, pushups, or some sort of cardio! You can also try going for jogs/runs or getting a group together for a game of volleyball (or any other sport) if the weather is good.
3) Sounds to me like you need to have a discussion with your P.E. teacher again. Ask her what you could do to improve your grade, because you honestly don't understand why you have a C. You also need to remember that it is her class, so you need to respect why she grades the way she does (in other words, if she thinks talking is disrespectful and lowers your grade for it, then stop talking) Make sure that every day you make a very good effort to play the best you possibly can!
Hope this helps and if you ever need more advice you can come to me!
P.S. I don't mind long questions!
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