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Hey, SwimGurl It sounds like you are really into this guy so I can't blame you for wanting to tell everyone! If someone asks you "Do you like *his name*" just smile and say "Yeah, we're friends". Don't worry about him knowing; he might just think it is gossip. Don't be scared to talk to him if he is any of your classes. I know it is hard, but just remember how you got to know him at camp and how he must have liked you (or he wouldn't have been so nice to you). It can be about anything- school, camp, sports, things you have in common. As for playing it cool, try to keep yourself from talking about him all the time to your friends. Treat him as you would one of your friends and when you are more comfortable with him, flirt a little. Oh, and don't worry about him being popular. If he's really a good guy, it won't matter to him.
I hope this helps!
bff111111 on 8/2/2011 5:45:00 PM
Heyy, so this may be long but you may be the only help for me right now. So I have had this crush for lets just say 4 months. Whenever I go out in public I either see him or his friends. By mistake I had realized that I told a lot of people that I liked him. So that kinda got around pretty fast. My grade went camping and he was placed in my group. We got to know each other a little and I started to like him even more. He is really popular in my grade if not the most popular guy. All the girls go for him. Over the summer I think he found out that I liked him but....I am not quiet sure. He was really nice to me at the camp but I am not sure if he knew which makes me get even more scared. School is starting soon and what if I am on his team? Or sit next to him in some classes. I can't even talk to him how nervous I get. What do I do? How do I play it cool and not drool over him all day?
SwimGurl28 on 8/1/2011 10:32:40 AM
i need help about a crush.well i was talking to my crush and i asked him what he did today any he told me and i told him that i went to the aquarium with my family and it was kinda fun then he says that the aquarium is only fun when you go wiyh someone fun and jessica told me(i told my friend she could tell him) and then he asked my why i dint tell myself and i told him reasons and ya oh ya he talk to me more after he found out i liked him soo i think he like me but i dont know if im just reading into it too much do think he likes me or is just me wanting him to like me??
chassity1995 on 7/24/2011 11:47:13 PM
Hey i need advice on how to talk to my crush can u help me please?
monica_23 on 7/23/2011 3:00:19 AM
I like this guy but he just started dating one of my Bffs who just broke up with me bgf. although my crush is kinda mean to me and my bgf is really nice to me. should i like my bgf instead?
Tres R on 7/14/2011 9:47:39 PM
hey girl well this guy is trouble! and well personally i hate guys who swear! they think they r cool but theyre not! hes mean and he probably just wants a gf! personally i say just avoid him or anything to do with him! if he asks u out say no! he should not threaten or sware at you! when u date a guy u should feel like a princess hope i helped if u need anymore advice post it on my profile <3
lildiva on 9/27/2010 10:53:17 PM
hey gurls check out my profile and if ya need advice than i'm u'r gurl!!
kaylagirl898 on 6/27/2010 12:04:03 PM
Thanks for the advice!
bluedogn14 on 6/18/2010 9:15:10 PM
My dad is so mean to me all the time! Today, we were walking to my guitar lesson, so of course I'm carrying a somewhat heavy guitar and we're, like 2 minutes late and he starts walking fast and tells me to keep up. I say I'm walking as fast as i can, with emphasis, but not rudely and he shoves me off the sidewalk and tells me how rude I am and literally asks me who the hell do i think i am? i hate him! and a couple months ago, he called me some form of 'wise @$$' THREE times in one week. I'm so jealous of girls who can talk to their dads about anything. What do I do? thank you!
bluedogn14 on 6/15/2010 9:10:57 PM
hey girly, if you can try and write me back asap! ok so there is this fella i really really like and have a big cruch on. He is a a grade older than me and idk if he even know my name! haha but, the last say two months of school is when i started crushin on him. Then at lunch he would actually stare at me ALOT and in the halls we would make lotsa eye contact! but now the school years over and i really miss him! i was such a big chicken and i didnt talk to him on the last day of school, and now i really really regret it. What should i do. My friend is friends with him on facebook, but i dont have one. should she say anything, or ask for his number, or would that be totally wierd?? well thanks girl, answer as soon as ya can thank you!
autumn88 on 6/14/2010 8:00:10 PM
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Hi, okay so recently i became kinda close to this guy and i really really like him, and everyone thought he liked me, and my friend talked to him and he said he did. but his friend talked to him and he said he doesnt! what does that mean??? some people think hes lying or was just kidding when he said he did to my friend, but i dont know what to think! and if he didnt like me, is there a way to change his mind??? please help!!!!
ilovemypetz on 6/14/2010 6:39:46 PM
What should you do when you and your BFF like the same guy?
viasia21 on 6/14/2010 6:17:43 PM
cool profile, I love chocolate, and movie theaters too. name, age?
sixteengirl93 on 6/14/2010 6:02:22 PM
ur so welcome
thanks for enteringg !
rayray45 on 5/4/2010 7:01:24 PM
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U WONNN ! congrats ! i wish i could give u a prize.. but idontthhink thatll happen :/ . lol . but congratss again!! ur story was very funny and original! thankyou for entering !
rayray45 on 5/1/2010 1:07:23 PM
ok so i am having a contest! the theme of the contest is boys...not just boys but...BOYFRIENDS! even if u dont hav a bf , thers still a way to b in the contest. ur story has to be about how ur boyfriennd asked u out. or if u hav been in a relationship, but currently r not, u can still tell how ur ex askd u out. so thats the theme: how ur bf askd u out. ther ends May 1st !will b 2 winners!..a winner for cutest story, and a winner for funniest story.
the contest starts April 9th, and
please post ur story on my profile (as a comment)
GOOD LUCK TO EVERY1 !
rayray45 on 4/10/2010 9:12:17 PM
Soo I “REALLY” like this guy…for probably one year and 4 months …. 2-3 weeks ago, I told him I liked him…but the thing is he liked me a last year and I think I broke his heart……. When I told him I liked him, he said he’d accept and that he liked me and he even asked me to be his girlfriend! I said yes but we don’t even do anything! We went out once but it was all awkward and weird!! I do “TRY” to talk to him but whenever I do, he just gives me short answers like he doesn’t care……. Hes like sooo confusing and all he cares is play games at home all day!!! I try to talk to him sometimes and doesn’t even talk much. At school he just ignores me and doesn’t even try to talk!! What should I do?? This is sooo horrible!! Im suffering!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please reply on my profile~~~
dontlolmeplz on 3/28/2010 10:13:23 PM
hey!! ur advice is amazingg! tnx so much cuz u really helped me!!
rayray45 on 3/25/2010 10:45:00 PM
Well....my parents would make fun of me and probably wouldn't let me date. He's going to ask me out any day now... not kidding. it was supposted to be today but he couldn't find me after school...i have an older sister who is 16 and hasnt had a bf yet so they still don't know what its like to have their little daughter grow up!
balloonluvr on 3/25/2010 9:38:33 PM
Hi SuperT If he is rlly shy, he cod just b unsure if u want hom 2 hug or kiss u. He also mite like u a lot, and doesn't wanna make u feel uncomfertable. Guys r very mysterious, so yeah I'd definately make a move and hug him. C how he reacts, and hopefully he'll get the message tht ur ok with hugs and kisses. Hope this helps
bff111111 on 3/25/2010 5:32:36 PM
hi XxChicaLuvxX... i get wat ur saying, guys can seem impossible. B4 u get seroius liking a guy, just befriend them first. U will get 2 know them better and u wont b just another gf. not evry1 is trustworthy so just see how it goes in the friendship and u'll find some guys tht can b. if u dnt know how 2 strt a conversation, just ask about the hw, or bring up a topic u know hes into. and remember- u can also meet new guys at the mall or on vaca. hope this helped
bff111111 on 3/25/2010 5:29:15 PM
Hi! I need some advice pleaseee(:
I recently started dating this sweet shy popular guy...He hasnt hugged me or held my hand or anything tho! He's dated some of my friends and he hugged tem on the first day! He also kissed them...does he just not like me as much?? Or should I make the move and go ahead n hug him?
Thanks so much!!
SuperT on 3/25/2010 3:32:34 PM
im all happy and eveything, the problem is that there are NOOO guys that i know that would be eligible for me to go out with... its depressing!! how do i meet guys that i can trust??
XxChicaLuvxX on 3/24/2010 10:32:44 PM
I love ELA
redsoxlover on 3/24/2010 8:34:18 PM
ask me 4 any advice!
bff111111 on 3/24/2010 7:17:21 PM
Hey! ur advice was really good last time so i have another probblem that i hope u vcan help me out with....
i have been crushing on my guy friend for a while and my bff told me that she thinks i mite b in love with him and i think shes rite! so for the past week ive been telling myself that i love him (which i hav noo problem with). he recently just broke up with his (former) girlfriend. so my other bff askd him over text if he liked me and he said no. i feel sad and just really bad!! i dont know what to do because now he knows that i like him! i dont want it to ruin our friendship! im so confused and just hurt!! any advice at all??
rayray45 on 3/19/2010 10:33:50 PM
hey! i just wanted to tell u that ur advice workd! ur amazingg! lol <3
tnxx soo muchhh!!
rayray45 on 3/19/2010 10:25:08 PM
ok.... So I previously had a GIANT crush on this guy in my class for such a long time! I'm finalllly getting over him and I moved on to a guy who moved to my school at the beginning of the year. I ha never talked to him in my life but I added him on facebook. To my suprise, on Sunday, he started a chat with me we only talked for a few minutes and he logged off...Monday he started a chat with me again and got my number. We started texting and talked about random things and it was fun. we finally got Talking about who we liked and after like 10 min I finally found out that it was me!!!! (he said he liked me when he first saw me but now he likes me more than ever..also he just broke up with his gf few days ago...after he accepted my friend request on facebook) 1st problem: we are both shy.... I'm not shy around people iv known for a long time but I'm quite shy around ppl I don know long. Yesterday, we just smiled in the hallway before school cuz I had to go to regional science fair. His smile made my heart nearly melt. -texting him after school while I was still at science fair... He asked me to to to a movie on sunday...this would ny first date and *I'm realy nervous and I wouldn't know what to tell my parents.* They don't want me to date yet because they don't want their "little girl" (btw im in 8 grade) growing up. One of my friends volunteered to come with with my other friend...I was constantly texting him last night and he asked me can I say somethng? I said go ahead. He said "I'm fallin for you." I said" " he said " I can't stop it either. I am happy that I can't cuz I don't want to. I'm falling for you and I'm loving it." ... I'm just so nervous talking to people when I haven known them for a looooong time!! And should I tell my parents that I'm going to the movie(If I go) with my friends? My parents are sooo embaressing!! And I hate when they talk bout guys! .... Ps I am sick I have been since like Monday and it stinks cuz my birthdays on saturday...
Thankkk youuuu soooo much!!!! It is EXTREMELY helpful!!!!
Balloonluvr on 3/17/2010 12:38:46 PM
you said to ask for advice ..well..I NEEDD advicee!! my bff wont talk to me at all right now. we were texting and we were playin a birthday game..i asked her about this girl we knows birthday.. she cheated because she texted her and asked her when her birthday is, but i didnt care about that. then she asked me when another persons birthday was and i told her but i also told her that i cheated because i didnt know her bday off of the top of my head. then she just said ..i hate you dont ever talk to me again! now shes all mad and her reason douesnt make any sense to me! please help!
rayray45 on 3/9/2010 6:31:25 PM
u just got back 2 talking 2 him so i should think to wait a bit more if he keeps acting like he likes u then go for it.. but to tell u the truth guys ARE always confusing
they could just be flirting for fun or just thats their personality or they really like
dig up some more bones before u find the whole skeleton
linalolo on 3/8/2010 9:38:35 PM
well you gotta find out whats going on talk to him or his friend
wednesday1408 on 5/12/2009 6:39:08 PM
Truth or Dare?