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omgsh yay(:
That's soo great !
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igiveadvice3 on 4/24/2010 8:57:46 PM

lets see, it might look like im copying "igiveadvice3", but i just realized that we have a couple of the same views. b4 you go after W, give A some time too heal. talking about W around A will kill her, and the rule i share with my friends is wait at least 2 and 1/2 weeks b4 dating a bff's ex. after A is over W, tell her how u feel about him. hopefully, she'll support u!!! as for j, i quote igiveadvice3: "it doesn't hurt to flirt a little right?"..............Just remeber through all of this that it will all work out in the end and that you always, no matter what, put your best friends b4 your boy friends. good luck!!!

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strangechick37 on 4/24/2010 4:10:01 PM

hey girl!

this is tough! First you need to clear things up with your friend A first. Since the breakup only happened a few days ago, I wouldn't bring anything up quite yet. After a week or two, you should GENTLY, KINDLY try to talk to her about it. Let her know that you really like him, but won't let anything happen between the two of you if she's not okay with it. And of course, if she says she still likes him, don't go for him, you could lose your friend, which is WAY more important than a bf in the long run, trust me!
As for J, it wouldn't hurt to flirt with him a little more! Just try to talk to him more, and spend more time with him, and make an effort to get to know him better, then see what happens. that way maybe if things don't work out with W of them, you have J to think about or vice versa.....
If you really want to just pick one to ask out, that's basically your choice. Just remember that if you're going to ask out W to remember your friend and her feelings!! but if i were you, i really wouldn't ask out W for a while until things settle down! if you can make things work with J, i think he would be a much better choice so you don't have drama and tears! hope this helps! post back!

~Lauren

soccergirl524 on 4/24/2010 9:39:41 AM

Okay, well this is a tough one(:
Let's start with W. You need to clear things up with your friend A first. Since you said the breakup only happend a few days ago, I wouldn't even bring anything up yet. After a while (like say at least 2 weeks), you should try to talk to her about it. Let her know that you really like him, but won't let anything happen if she's not okay with it. And of course, if she says she still likes him, don't go for him, you could lose your friend..
As for J, it doesn't hurt to flirt a little right?! Just try to talk to him more, and see what happens. Because maybe if things don't work out with one of them, you have the other one to go for..
If you really wanted to just choose one, that's pretty much up to you. Just remember if you're going for W to remember your friend.
I hope that helps!
Good Luck
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ps: yay track!♥

igiveadvice3 on 4/21/2010 9:35:12 PM

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