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Hey, I need help. Okay so about 6 months I got in a HUGE fight. She traded me off for someone else and just forgot about me. She hurt me really bad and so I found a new best friend. Now since the person she thought was her "best friend" told her secrets to everyone,she wants me back. And since I decieded I wasn't going back to her, she's trying to steal my now best friend away from me! What should I do?
sammie3381 on 4/18/2013 9:28:13 AM
MOD MOD I'm stil n love with my ex! I'm only 9 though! He killed a bird with his bibi gun and i pushed him he pushed me back and tried to hit me with his gun! Then he broke up with 5 minutes later like he didn't care. But after everything weve been through when he was nice and charming, I can't let go! We were on and off again 6 times! Help
misstomboy1 on 7/1/2012 10:19:50 AM
Okay, Thank you for helping me with my twin problem. (The advise you gave me was good, one had nothing in common with me and the other is already dating.) Now, there is a guy who teases me (in a nice way) like every day. He is cute, funny, and nice. Only thing is he does this to quite a few girls. Does this mean he is interested in me or not? What's your advise? Can you post this on my page again, i check it more often. Thank you so much!
littlebookworm98 on 2/5/2012 12:14:11 PM
I am gong on a school trip in may and my crush will be there and i will probably be with him alot cuz his best friend s dating my bff and i have no idea what to wear we r going to great america and i am so worried!! i know it is really early to be worrying but i forgot last year FASHION DISASTER!! and i have short blond hair by then t will be like short medium so what should i do and i need relaxed makeup
Payton K on 2/2/2012 10:08:20 PM
No problem, anytime
kayla9 on 1/8/2012 12:18:27 AM
That's cool that you like Vampire diaries and acting too! I totally understand how you feel! ( I'm really flat-chested and hate it --' ) I'm actually quite tall also! Since you can't really do anything about your size, why don't you make the most out of it? You could wear clothes that are flattering for your body type ( both mini and maxi dresses as well as skinny and flare jeans look great on tall girls so we've got lots of choices ) Do you wear braces? If you don't, maybe you could look into that because they really helped my teeth. I think that you can wear really cute small heels on dances anyway. Just tell yourself that you have tons of great qualities and people tend to judge themselves much harder than other people really do. Hope this helps! Cool profile, by the way, we've got a lot in common ;)
kayla9 on 1/7/2012 12:07:57 AM
i like 2 guys. guy#1 likes me i told him i liked him because my friends want me to go out with him. Guy#2 is his bestfriend.Guy#1 told my friend that guy#2 likes me but he wasnt going to do anything because he wanted guy#1 to "get me" but i like guy #2 please help!!!!(p.s. i would tell guy #1 i dont like him but i sit next to him in 2 classes HELP
jordy123 on 11/17/2011 11:44:05 PM
Caraton0202, Hey i have a big problem a couple days ago in my school it was library period right? then by ''accident'' i guy took my bag and said he opened it and saw my pads and somthing else (like u know spare under wear just in case i have my period not knowing) at lunch all the boys wanted to know what was in my bag so they started crawling on the floor under the tables to get my bag they wanted to know so badly so i just said it was pads and the boys kept saying is it a diaper and blah blah blah and they wouldn't stop so i just showed them and Thats it they left me alone but now my teacher knows about it and she told me the boys were just immature and then she gave me a look like i was one of the boys and told me that the boys said i was encouraging them to keep asking them she said that the boys didn't even want to know and the did't even care what was in my bag??!!like Thats such a lie???! Now i think my teacher is on their side just cause i should them the pads (not the other thing) and now i look stupid what was i supposed to do? Please!!! help!
mozilla10 on 10/27/2011 6:56:18 AM
Hi there, I have this one thing that has always been nagging me. I like this one guy at my school but other people dont and they say mean things about him. One of my friends said that she heard him say that he "only likes me as a friend." and im okay with that but I dont know whether to ask him directly or not, because I'm really shy. and one other thing. in class, i always notice this one guy staring at me and he sat next to me in class today, I feel like I also like him because he's funny and sweet and amazing. But it's the same way with the other guy. I'm so confused. I just want to know if they like me or not, but I don't want to ask them directly. Any tips? thanks so much!
bekedorz on 10/25/2011 8:23:50 PM
I am going to be a musician for halloween- I have long brown hair and tan skin- some freckles and I am 5' 2"- I need ideas. Thanks!!
hkmmorgan on 10/22/2011 4:02:33 PM
Hey chica, I came for some advice. So there are these 2 super cute boys in my classes and I like them both. Sounds like no prob. right? The only problem is that they are IDENTICAL TWINS!!!!! This isn't something that you here everyday. Have any advice on how to go with this? They are both smart, funny, athletic, and (obv.) same amount of cuteness!!!!! Thank you so much. If you could also leave an answer on my profile page, just because I check that more often. Thanks!!!
littlebookworm98 on 10/20/2011 4:00:55 PM
Hi, okay so there's this guy who's my boyfriend and we're really close and we really like each other. But um, recently we got in a LOT of trouble getting caught fooling around on school property. As I said, we still really like each other but I don't know if we're going to be super awkward or what because I go back to school tomorrow. People are going to think I'm a slut because of what I did. Plus, somebody started an AWFUL rumor and I've already been getting a lot of calls and e-mails asking if it's true. I have no idea what to do, although the obvious step is breaking things off with him, I can't really think of a reason WHY I should. I can't exactly explain that last part of the sentence before but I think of it as what would I say if he asked why I was breaking up with him. I can't ask a person I actually know because I don't want to tell anyone the story so PLEASE help! Thank you!
princess-bobo on 10/16/2011 8:52:17 AM
Hey girl! It's totally your own choice! Don't worry about what others think! I used to have thick, cut across bangs, but I find they get super annoying, and I grew out my bangs, and got my hairstylist to cut my bangs (sideswep) I find that they're easy to handle, and on days where they won't go right, you can always just twist/braid them back, or bobby pin them. Also headbands, (I love lulu lemon!) If you really really don't like them when you get them done, you can always pin them back, until they grow back ;p (I've done this before) But, when you get used to having them, I'm sure you'll like it! Hope this helps, girlie!
facebooker1240 on 9/2/2011 10:05:55 PM
No problem!
facebooker1240 on 8/28/2011 10:06:56 PM
Hey girl! I know how you feel, I get super nervous about everything! Just take a few deep breaths, and practice, lots! Try singing for your family, and friends to get used to singing in front of people! I'm not really a good singer, to be honest, but just keep trying, and eventually you'll get it! (or you could always change songs, so that you can get one to fit your voice!) hope this helps!
facebooker1240 on 8/27/2011 11:41:44 PM
hey gurl bout ur coment on how u like a guy that is sooooo popular! i can help ! so i had to do the same thing (it worked!) all i did was when up to him was i went up to him and ask if i could talk to him for like 10 seconds of he very busy life , and he said yes so then i told him as u may no i can be very blunt at many time so i'm going to be blunt for what i need to tell u . he just stood and nodded his head , then i just told him , and it turned out he likes me (or he did he dumped me today for some 12 gader chic w/ made me sad :-( ) and then yay guys like u to be blunt hope i helped. love smexyactress
smexyactress on 5/25/2011 9:45:04 PM
hey could you post some tips for hair? Like mine is super thick, frizzy and curly. I love the curls but hate having to blow dry it all he time. Any tips? Oh and how to get your hair to grow faster? Thanks!
Navy Brat on 1/21/2011 10:00:38 PM
It is FREEZING where I live, any ideas how to stay warm but look amazing?
bitingwriter on 1/10/2011 5:56:30 PM
hey um i like this guy but i only get to see him at the end of the day and i never talk to him and he never talks to me and idk if he is single. i NEVER have the guts to say anything to him and i dont flirt anything to help?
dramagal2222 on 1/5/2011 9:12:07 PM
TIP 4 JANUARY 4, 2011 FASHION AND MAKEUP CLASHES!! yes. it's two hours before your next formal, and you scored a total hottie. also you got a killer hot pink dress half off just for the occasion. and your nails and eyeshadow and lip gloss and shoes are also hot pink.NO!!! STEP AWAY FROM THE MATCHING PINK EVERYTHING! i am here to balance out colors so your dont end up looking like a pink balloon or red strawberry at the dance. ok so it doesnt matter what dress color you pick. you want your eyes to flatter them. so here are some really cute collisions: blue dresses would usually go great with golden are silvery eyes. black dresses also go great with golden and silvery colors. i would prefer silver with black, but thats my personal reference. now for pink i would suggest bronzy colors. or warm colors. purple dresses= silvery tones. red= golden. now you can go and rock that dance away!! any questions you can just post on my profile and i will gladly help!! oxox, claraton0202
claraton0202 on 1/5/2011 1:02:04 AM
dear squiddylover, im so glad that you like the advice that i give!!! don't worry more will come up very soon!!
claraton0202 on 1/5/2011 12:50:07 AM
love your website.... oh and chickas if you want to BRIGHTEN up your hair color...lemon juice works great but, girls dark hair for the winter is in style right now!!!
lildancer9876 on 1/3/2011 7:47:39 PM
thanks for your advice! you are reeaaaalllly good at giving it. I tried to open up my profile but it says it is still being moderated... would you mind giving me some more advice about something else since you are so good? thanks!
squiddyluver on 1/3/2011 7:19:20 PM
TIP 4 JANUARY 2,2010 DARK CIRCLES! yes dark circles are those things that make you look older and make you look super sleepy. you may think that sleeplessness is the main cause for them but actually it's nasal conjestion. so thats way in winter it's more common thanks to the flu. a way to prevent these is to drink at least eight glasses of water a day. cheesy but true! and try to avoid water right before bed. and in the morning dont put ice under your eyes. it will break the tiny blood vesals under your eyes causing bruising. also you want to try to get eight hours of sleep. and if you want other information look it up. i hope this helps!
claraton0202 on 1/2/2011 10:54:58 PM
Hey . I HEART vampire kisses too!! lol any ways do you mind giving me some advice? My ex and i broke up in April and i didn't speak to him again until September and for the sake of our friends , we became friends again and it was like old times. I began to realized that i had feelings for him again but not as strong because i liked some one else to. My ex began to ask me out again and kept telling me how much he loves me. He always followed those comments with comments about his sex life and his huge sex drive. He told me that i was the only girl he'd ever said he loved that never slept with him ,in fact im the only girl he's ever dated that hasn't screwed him. I was asked out by my crush and i said yes and i told my ex that and now he's pressureing me to have an open relationship and my bf doesnt know about my ex and what my ex wants. My ex is also dating a girl two grades younger than him. So how do i deal? I want him to stop taking girls virginites and im a small way i like him. But i love my boyfriend more than anything . WHat should i do? xoxoxo thanks Maddie
maddie95 on 1/1/2011 8:40:18 PM
Heyy! You could do light brown lowlights. Ask your stylist what colors would work best on you xoxo Megan
chicka678 on 1/1/2011 2:31:22 PM
ok this is the advice that i give. =D: boys(ex- bf's, bf's, and total pests!) girls mean girls friends emotional issues(WARNING:remember im not a doctor.) periods( again im not a doctor.) school teachers grades anything else! luv ya girlies!!!!!!!!!!!!11
claraton0202 on 12/31/2010 7:45:24 PM
hey tasha.x, i can't answer this question on your profile. can you open it up? well i'll still answer. ok so if your the flirty type and want to make the ask out sweet and girly then send him a text or pass a cute little note. if you are shy then you need corage for this one. WAIT! before you do these steps make sure that you know he likes you. or then it will be kinda awkward. and make sure that he's ready for a gf or wants one. if you want to be upfront about start like this: 1. walk up to him and ask him little questions. like how is your day? what did you do over hte weekend? that kinda stuff 2. then shoot him some really nice compliments. I like your shirt, it llooks really nice on you. or i like your hair. 3. then let him talk for a couple minutes. or when he stops talking. 4. ask him if he's interested in anybody. or if he has his eye on someone. 5. ask him if he likes you. if he catches onto the flirting and compliments usually he will ask you then but if he doesnt just ask him out then. i really hope this works out for you guys. he seems like a nice guy. oxox, claraton0202 keep your courage.
claraton0202 on 12/31/2010 3:21:00 AM
hey, I have a crush on this boy, my secrete came out and I denied it all! And now I see him staring at me all the time and I don't know how to ask him out! He's good looking, smart and fun to be with. He has got dreamy eyes! Anyway, how should I ask him out?
tasha.x on 12/30/2010 1:54:47 PM
hey squiddylover, i really hope that you get this message because i can't get onto your profile and answer there so i am hoping that you comeback to mine. =D ok so telling you friends no can be difficult if they are determined to just drag you around. ok so start skating like normal and if they come up to drag you along really fast just pull away and tell them that you not the best at ice skating and that you want to go at your own pace. usually this will work. (or) you can kindly ask them to go slow with you so you guys could talk and chat. it's like making an agreement. if they drag you around you girls wont be able to talk. and if they leave you they STILL won't be able to talk together. point that out if all else fails. i hope this helps girlie, oxox claraton0202
claraton0202 on 12/30/2010 3:18:25 AM
hi. I heard you could give advice. I am going ice skating with my friends tomorrow, and I'm not very good. I am fine with shuffling and tripping slowly around the rink, but my friends always try to drag me and help me go fast. It really scares me. How can I tell them I just want to go slow and don't want to be pulled.
squiddyluver on 12/29/2010 10:05:34 PM
Hey claraton0202! I would just leave things as they are, seeing that he has a GF. But when they break up, you know what to do. ;) XOXO~Courtney <333333
cmn5297 on 12/27/2010 7:52:20 PM
so theres this guy i like and im not sure whether he likes me but what do u think? so im on the girls soccer team and hes on the boys, and he often asks me to sit across from him on the way to soccer. also, me and my friend listen to music on the way there and we hav this song that we always sing and whenever we sing it he always sings along with us, and he always smiles at me while were singing. and then in math class he always asks me to help me instead of anybody else and then when i lean over his book to help him and start talking, he always looks into my eyes and smiles a lot! and then whenever were in math he always asks me to sit at his table even tho were not allowed to switch tables. and now hes been talking to me even more than he used to and been asking me a lot of questions about what i thought of him when he first came to our skool (he is new this year) wat do u think do u think he likes me??? Thnx so much!!!
evsportsgirl98 on 12/24/2010 12:33:57 PM
i saw a post that you give advice! thanks in advance! lately i have just been plane sad. my dad is in afgan and i never talk to him. my bro is always mean and cold. my mother judges me all the time and i'm just a screw up. i literally break everything that isn't mine so she tells me i'm selfish when i'm not. i mess up ALL the time even though i try so hard. i act happy around my friends so they don't know this. i'm failing english and its too late to get a tutor because we have one week left of this semseter, EOCs, then our schedule changes. i'm not excited for christmas and i just wish high school was over. everyone says it's supposed to be the best years of your life but it sucks. i try so hard to make the most of things and feel happy but i'm not. i don't do self injury. i've thought about leaving. i've been thinking about what it would be like to be dead because then i wouldn't have to deal with anything. i've considered suicide but i'm not strong enough to do so. i feel so weak and that i can never do anything. advice? TY
♫RockOn64♫ on 12/22/2010 10:42:44 PM
heey girly ! i do NOT think you're too young to love, im not your mom so if you arent very close with this guy, you might wanna work your way up to being a 'popular'. Then strike up some convos with this guy. Make him feel comfortable around you, and then see what happens ! You might end up perfect for each other, or you might realize he isnt the one for you ! ~Claire$$ Let me know how it goes!
chewcharm on 12/4/2010 8:14:40 PM
ok well for a good pedicure you could go to a day spa- but that could be kinda expensive so to get a good one at home, well, try this: RIGHT AFTER A SHOWER, CLIP/CUT YOUR TOENAILS, THEN GET YOUR FAVORITE COLOR OF POLISH AND START IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR TOE AND GO TOWARDS THE EDGES. so basically just take a shower, cut your toenails, and when your polish is ready, you start in the middle of the toe and go outward. I know its not the best advice, but try it. Hope it works!! *ROSIEROSIE*
rosierosie on 11/23/2010 9:18:49 AM
Can you help with with something? There is this guy who i used to go out with. I stil like him. He is a complicated person cause he has like 2 different personalities... like he is nice around me and tries to be all cool when he is with his "possy". but i wanna ask him to my church dance.. do u think i should? even though i only like one of his personalites?
mandy1734 on 11/6/2010 10:10:29 PM
no problem! and thank you!
rosierosie on 11/2/2010 7:07:58 PM
of course i'll help! always! ok, well what i would do is probably: 1) just" happen" to stand in line next to him 2)ask him what he got for a question on a homework assignment or quiz. if you got different answers, more things to talk about- plus, you can ask him to help you study! (if you got it wrong) 3) ask him about halloween or halloween parties- costumes, characters, and all of that stuff! if you need more ideas or advice on anything else, send me a note! sincerly, *rosierosie* PS: sorry if this was late! my computer was all spazzy!
rosierosie on 10/30/2010 7:29:12 PM
oxox I'm completely open in helping wiith any issues you guys feel comfortable in sharing. i would never tell anyone about your problems. i will keep it in confidence. OXOX, claraton0202 luv ya hons
claraton0202 on 10/26/2010 9:52:33 PM
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