i <3 your pic, its so cute!

darbie_95 on 3/16/2010 8:20:05 PM

Oh okay. Sorry but what was your question again for the mods. Then i can answer it.

sweetliksugr23 on 3/12/2010 4:08:41 PM

Hey Girly,

What kind of style do you like? Maybe with that i can answer your question complety!

sweetliksugr23 on 3/10/2010 7:50:46 PM

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crazy runnah on 2/2/2010 8:07:09 PM

I know exactly what you're going through. (well, not exactly, but close.) Me and my BFF both like the same person. The thing is, she barely knows him, and he's like my BGF. Of course, being the drama queen she is, she won't stop talking about how he "brushed against her shoulder in the hallway" or how he "looked at her in science". I know he doesn't like her, and I cry over him every few days because it really hurts me that she knows I like him and belong with him, but she won't stop making a big deal about it. I've never gone to such extremes as cutting, but I've thought about suicide (never was ACTUALLY gonna do it, but just thoughts). It's been a few weeks since these incidents, but I still haven't gotten over it. It would be best to leave Courtney and become closer with your real friends who don't create unnecesary drama. Sry this was so long, but if you wana talk, comment my profile.

sandydandy37 on 1/27/2010 10:09:46 PM

hola chica.
So sorry about ur friend, but cutting is NEVER the answer. I know u've probably heard this a million times, but it's true. talk to somebody about it and try to stop. Ur parents will understand. Also, talk to Cameron and tell him how u wish u could be friends again and it's really hurting u that it's so akward. Once ur friends again, there might be hope for a relationship. I know I'm sounding all grown-uppy (stole smurns phrase ) but trust me here, cutting won't solve ur problems. Ur only hurting urself. If u really wanna feel better, turn to ur REAL friends. but please consider what i've said, i've been in ur situation (not cutting though) and gotton through it many times. life always goes on. if u need to talk, try talking to the mods, they give great advice! Good luck!

chicklet3395 on 1/24/2010 7:07:08 PM

thanks, I just love your profile!
So wats up?

i_luv_devin on 1/23/2010 3:50:39 PM

hey gals! i really need help, so if u can, post a comment about what u think.

so this is a really long story but i really need help...
it all started one day in 6th grade. me and my bff "courtney" both started to like the new kid, "cameron." we started to fight over him. the whole class knew what was going on except for cameron. one of my guyfriends decided to be a jerk and tell cameron what was going on. so cameron knew. then me&courtney were making him choose who he likes more. he said he didnt know and he'd have to think about it over the weekend. so on monday he never really said who it was. courtney assumed it was me and convinced me it was me, too. so i bugged him and bugged him until he went out with me. (i know, i know. i've changed.) we went out for about a week. then on a monday, we came back to school and looked at eachother and knew it was over, without saying a word. we were really good friends before this whole thing and now, its all awkward. he'll start to open up and be the old cameron again, and then someone will walk up or he'll realize whats happening, and he'll walk away. i never got over him.
now in 7th grade, my other friend "angela" started to go out w/ him. she didnt really care that it was hurting me. some friend. they broke up. she cheated on him. he never knew. it bothers me that he went out w/ her and she never really loved her, and then there's me, who cries over him every night because i dont know what would have happend if me and courtney hadnt done what we did that friday. i cry over cameron every night. some nights i cry all night. i cut myself, too.
my other friend, "laura", is in a really similar situation. (thats a whole other story.) i feel like she's the only person in the world who gets what im feeling. we only became really close in the last week bc i finally opend up to someone. that someone just happend to b her. on friday, she was talking about committing suicide. i made her promise me that she wouldnt. then after school, i called my friend, "haley," who i had been kind of a jerk to lately. she said she never wanted to talk to me again. she hung up. i laid down on my bed and started to think. i thought too much. i called laura and said, "i need u to talk me out of something stupid." i was thinking about suicide. she made me promise i wouldnt. we talked for a while.
then she told me something. she said that courtney had told her that she needed a break from her friends. again. this isnt the 1st time courtney has abandonned all her friends fo no aparent reason. so i tried to call her and she didnt pick up. so i emailed her. this is what i said,
"the definition of insanity is doing the exact thing over and over again and expecting a different result. i guess im insane. i kept coming back and forgiving you and expecting you to change. you haven't. i need you right now but if you're just going to leave and not talk to me, then i guess you don't need me. i need to stop being insane. i can't do this anymore. i can see that you're not going to change, so i guess i have to. i don't need this right now, courtney. i am already going through enough without you and the cloud of drama that surrounds you. i know this sounds weird, but i need you. this is so hard for me but i think it's best if we're not friends. i am hurting enough without you being like this. goodbye, courtney."
so my question is, WHAT DO I DO?

HeartsGetBroken on 1/16/2010 7:45:47 PM

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i_luv_devin on 12/19/2009 12:03:51 AM