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Thanks so much for the cellphone advice! But I have another problem now! So the guy I like just graduated but since we are on swim team together I've gotten to see him all summer... until now. We just had our district meet which means all we have left is state if we qualify. Well I didn't qualify and he did so last day of district I was like ok I have to talk to him today because it might be the last time I ever see him again! In between events I went to the practice pool to warm up a little before my next event. I noticed him walking around like he was looking for something but thought he might be looking for our coach or something. Well I kept swimming and got out a little later. When I went back he was gone.... he had to leave early. I think it might be possible he was looking for me because it kinda seemed like he liked me back but now I might never know. Should I go to state to watch him and tell him how I feel? I don't want to live with the regret of never letting him know! Please help I'm so confused right now!
swimmergurl4444 on 7/18/2011 5:00:00 PM
Hey! So I finally got a cellphone! How exactly do I get a guy's # and start texting them??
swimmergurl4444 on 7/1/2011 5:03:55 PM
This is tricky and you want to proceed with a tactful response. Meaning, you can say something to him about breaking up with his girlfriend but in a nice sort of "sugar coated" way. So instead of saying "JUST BREAK UP WITH HER ALREADY!" which is probably what you feel like saying, you have to be a little bit smoother. So when it is just the two of you, no audiences, let him know that 'you really care about him and you understand that he really cares about you. But, its not fair to the other girl that he is still with her when the two of you really like each other. But you also understand that it is going to take some time to break down a relationship as you dont want to hurt the other girl's feelings.' You can put that into your own words, just make sure you say it nicely and when you are alone with him. Good luck girl!
Lots of Love
hugatree95 on 3/21/2011 10:07:16 PM
HELP HELP HELP
so there was this guy i liked, i soon got over him cuz he got a girlfriend, i learned to be happy for him and his gf
we were closer then ever
then one day me and him were joking around and i said i had a boyfrined ( and i really dont) he freaked out and said who is this and got extremly got over protective
i told him it was a joke, and asked him why he cared so much
he told me its because i'm the type of person who cant shouldnt have a bf
and i knew tht wasnt a reason so i said "is it because you like me"!
he said yea and i told him i liked him too. but he has a gf so i asked him why are you with her and he said becuse someone said that i didnt like him so he asked her out.
i still like him now but i dont want to say BREAK UP WITH HER! what shoud i do
he is amazing and i dont wanna be friends, i want more..
wen your done giving me advice can you please post on my wall that you did thanks so much <3
talkative233 on 3/18/2011 11:20:27 AM
Thanks so much for your help!!! I have been talking to him lately.... but what's the next step?? I don't have a cellphine right now.... I will be getting one soon though! But until then what should I do? Also, when I get a cellphone how do I get his number and start texting him??
swimmergurl4444 on 3/15/2011 7:50:19 PM
Ok so I need help with this guy!!! Ok, so I started liking this guy that I thought was totally out of my league... until it started to seem like he liked me back.... every time I would look over at he would be staring back at me! But since he never actually came over and started talking to me, I decided to take the first step, and said hey to him! ever since then he has started noticing me more! But he is really shy so he still hasn't come over and talked to me! Should I just randomly walk up to him and start a conversation?? Please help!!! Thanks!!
swimmergurl4444 on 3/1/2011 8:59:45 PM
hi! i've always been known to do very well in school, but this year I have a math teacher that really cannot teach. I mean, she teaches something really hard and has a test on it one or two days later. I've been freaking out about my grades, and today I just got so nervous that I'm almost positive that I got a less than stellar grade on my test. I've asked for extra credit, but I think, with my latest grades, I might have a C or D. I don't want that on my report card. How can I deal with my teacher and feel more confident in her class???
HyperTea on 2/17/2011 6:00:05 PM
Yes! you are perfectly normal! everyone grows at different rates and that includes you (:let me know if you have other questions!
Lots of Love
hugatree95 on 2/5/2011 10:33:33 AM
Hey, I was wondering if you could give me advice on a friend situation.
Well, I have the most best friend in the world, and we have this class together. She sits by me and talks to me but she always gets bullied, and when I hang around her, I am afraid that people won't like me either. I really HATE girls who think they're better than everyone else. Anyway, I would like some advice on what I should do?
Aime on 2/2/2011 6:30:48 PM
Hi, I need help I am 11 and wear a size 30AA(UK) bra is the size normal for a girl my age?
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shopaholic2000 on 1/7/2011 6:00:41 PM
thanks for the advice!!! i think it's really going to help
You rock btw ;)
i love ur profile
shopaholic2000 on 12/30/2010 8:00:44 PM
hey, i noticed to give really great advice and i just wanted to know if u could give me advice on boys.
I like this boy, but we broke up and I NEED to get over him!!1
How do i do that???
Please answer A.S.A.P.
shopaholic2000 on 12/29/2010 6:33:36 PM
Thank you so much for your advice!! I actually do need to be much more organized. Well, exams went well(I didn't fail any) and my math tournament went well too(our team placed first). So I am just SO glad we get a break, finally! So yesterday this package got delievered to our house and it was some Christmas presents my mom had ordered off the internet. She decided to give me one of them now as an early Christmas present, and it was a book. It is the most amazing book I have ever read! I don't know if you are a Christian or not, but this book was written by Christian authors. It completly changed my view on guys. If you ever get the chance to read it, it's totally amazing. It's called The Young Lady in Waiting by Jackie Kendall and Debbie Jones. To tell you the truth when my mom first gave me this book I was like that looks stupid, I'm not actually going to read that! But, now I'm glad I did! Merry Christmas!(:
swimmergurl4444 on 12/22/2010 11:03:53 AM
Hey! I really think I'm getting over him! Thanks so much for your help! The thing is, I was afraid that I would never get over him. I have tried multiple times in the past, but I think the reason I could never get over him is because I was doing it more for my friends. They all wanted me to get over, they told me he wasn't as amazing a guy as I thought he was, and they didn't want me to get hurt by him. So, I tried to get over him for them, but it never worked. Now I realized he was hurting me, so I decided to get over him for me. And now it's actually working. I feel much better without having to worry about him and what I look like to impress him. See, I never really wear any makeup, just some coverup and mascara, but I stopped wearing any at all, because I dont have to impress anyone. This saves me a lot of time in the mornings, so I have time to do much more important stuff. My grades have already started to go up! I am so glad that I decided to do this! But right now I have another huge problem. This weekend we have our first math tournament! The thing is, it is also our hardest. I have SO much to do! I have this huge folder of lots of formulas I have to memorize(it's 22 pages of like 20 formulas on each page) and I have to memorize it by this Saturday. Also, we have exams next week! I'm gonna be gone ALL weekend(math tournament, christmas party I have to go to, church, and math tutoring) so I have like absolutly no time to study for exams this weekend, which means I have to study all this week. Also, I have to work past tests and ciphering, so I can be ready for the math competition! And on top of that, we are still doing work in all our classes, so we have our usual amount of homework, too! I have no time for all of this! What am I supposed to do!!! Even my science teacher told me I look really stressed, and like I haven't had enough sleep. I don't know how to get all of this done on time! I wish I had a good memory, and could memorize stuff easily! Do you have any tips for me? Thanks so much for all your help! And sorry this is really long!
swimmergurl4444 on 12/7/2010 6:47:31 PM
PLEASE RESPOND SOON.
thanks for your time
megsta123rox on 12/3/2010 11:34:20 PM
To tell you the truth that is not at all what I wanted to hear. But it's probably time someone told me something truthfully instead of just something that will make me feel better. I need to get over him. My grades are going down and I can't concentrate on anything. I just keep daydreaming about him. And it will seem like one day he likes me and I get all happy and excited, and the next he doesn't and I get all depressed. And I know that isn't good for me. The thing is, for a while there I seriously thought he would be different and I felt differently about him. But if he is "the one" we'll meet again eventually, right? I won't lose someone i've always dreamed of having if I forget about him until I can date, and he goes of to college, will I? These are the questions that have been bothering me the most. I keep having these weird dreams where i'm at graduation, crying, and he goes off and I never see him again. Maybe that's why i'm hesitant to let him go. Please help, I know that was really depressing, but to tell you the truth it felt good to get that off my chest! (:
swimmergurl4444 on 12/2/2010 8:55:08 PM
Hey! So when he said he wanted me to be more outgoing he meant so that he could get to know me better. He didn't mean I have to change anything for him. The thing is, I don't have any classes with him and I only see him in the hall sometimes. The only time I could actually talk to him is during his bible study in the mornings, and my brother refuses to wake up early enough so I can go. So, what if he ends up liking me and asks me out? What do I say? Sorry, I can't go out with you until i'm 17. What if he finds a new girlfriend in college until i'm old enough to date?
swimmergurl4444 on 11/27/2010 9:01:06 PM
HI! I can't tell if this guy likes me. He lets me wear his necklece which is something couples typically do at our school. We talk and laugh alot when we get the chance and everyone always says we should go out. But he never talks about anything like that...and if his friends are around he ignores me. I always catch him looking at me but I can't tell if its because I'm looking for him too?...hes really thoughtful though like I told him I had a test I was worried about and he walked me to class and yelled good luck....what do you think?
rmr16 on 11/27/2010 11:01:19 AM
Hey! Im almost 13 (December 8th) and I need birthday ideas? What should I do I can't think of anything...what did you do on yours? Thx in advance! ~Jojo
lilmizzjo on 11/25/2010 11:37:27 AM
Hey! So I haven't posted on here in forever because I have been SO busy. So the guy that I liked I've been talking to. Not like "talking" to him, but just getting to know him better. And just last weekend he was talking to my friend on the way to the football game, and they were talking about me. So he knows that I like him, and he said that he didn't want to go out with me because of the age difference(remember he is a senior and I'm a freshman), but he said he would make an exception if I was more outgoing. So yesterday at church we always play some kind of game first. I never really participate in those games because I don't like getting up on the stage. Yesterday, though, I went in an attempt to be more outgoing. Afterwards, when we were having the greeting time he came right over to our group and shook everyone's hands, but when he got to me he goes hey, sarah. It was great because he had never shook my hand before when we had the greting time. Do you think this might mean he likes me? Also, I have another problem. See, I had never really talked to my parents about if I was allowed to date, because I never really needed to. But, I talked to my mom about it and she said I can't date until I'm seventeen. If he ends up liking me back what am I supposed to say? Thanks for all your help! (:
swimmergurl4444 on 11/18/2010 8:29:12 PM
yep she's now in mt speech class- lol- and we are talking about relationships.
vk.kelsey14 on 11/17/2010 3:33:06 PM
hey you were right he wasn't for me we broke up the friday. He cheeted on me with a girl that is now a friend. Power in numbers I say!!!!
vk.kelsey14 on 11/10/2010 3:26:44 PM
Hey thanks but we got together yesterday !!!! lulas
vk.kelsey14 on 11/2/2010 10:19:42 AM
Hey u helped me when I first started out hopping u can help me again. I have 2 guys that I like one goes to my school and has asked me out, the other works and lives about a fourty five min. away we like eachother but we are afraied of what might happen if we date (he has a reputation of hurtting girls) HELP!!!!
vk.kelsey14 on 10/27/2010 10:53:09 AM
Hey everybody!! I've finally decided to keep a "healthy you" journal. So if you feel like getting in shape,(or staying in shape) just post a note on my profile. That way I'll know if I'll have a workout buddy. Just make sure you keep a journal too so we can see each others progress.
Sheltie_Lover on 10/19/2010 6:26:05 PM
hi...so i need a little help.
there's this guy i like. he always calls for homework help, and then the other night, at the homecoming parade he patted the seat next to him. he also asked my guy friend if i was going his homecoming party like he was. what do you think this means?
kennygirl on 10/10/2010 11:55:25 AM
Hey thanks for the advice! The interview went pretty well! I have another problem now though. So the other day we were sitting there at church and he walked by. One of my friends said hey to him, turned to me, pointed, and said she's in love with you!!!!! I was SO embarrased! He turned to me, smiled, and goes of course, everyone loves me then walked off. He's not cocky or obnoxious or anything, he was just kidding. I don't know if he took it as a joke or not though. I'm not sure how to act around him now or wether to bring it up! I'm also confused about what his reaction meant? Please help I'm so confused!!!! Also, this saturday I'm working with him at the fair so please help soon!
swimmergurl4444 on 9/30/2010 6:31:48 PM
Hey! You were totally right! I guess there was just something wrong with him that day. We talked twice today, and it was pretty great! I am just so glad that we are finally talking! So in one of our classes we are doing this project where we make a video. I want to do a video where we interview some of the people on yearbook staff because he is on yearbook staff, and then I can interview him! The problem is I have to come up with a list of questions to ask him and I have no idea! Could you please help? Thanks so much!
swimmergurl4444 on 9/27/2010 7:01:07 PM
Hey girl! It's me... again. Ok so lately we have become really good friends. We've talked to each other more, sometimes when I look up he'll be staring at me, and I was pretty convinced that he likes me. Then today he did this bible study. It all went well while he was talking, he kept glancing at me while he was talking like he usually does. Then after he was finished he totally ignored me. We usually just sit there and talk, and today we were talking about a math test I have today. He commented on something we were talking about and I turned to say something to him and he seemed to totally ignore me. While I was talking he was looking around, didn't say anything back, and then said he needed to go while leaving so fast it was like he was trying to get away from me. He's usually really nice and friendly and I don't know why the sudden change? Please Help! I'm so confused
swimmergurl4444 on 9/20/2010 7:39:24 PM
Hey, so... I really like this guy (he used to be my best friend). But I transferred schools for two years and now I'm back and it's awkward between us. So, I for now I don't really want to be anything more than friends but we aren't even that. I was wondering if you could dish some tips for getting our friendship back. I really care about him.
idiscoverog on 9/12/2010 12:46:31 PM
Hey thanks so much for your help! I really do like this guy a lot and I usually don't care what anyone thinks, but it worries me that so many of my friends are convinced we wont work out. Well I talked to him for the first time yesterday at the football game, and it was amazing! He is so sweet and funny. I was nervous about talking to him at first, but once we started talking he felt like an old friend. He is really easy to talk to, and I felt so comfortable around him, it wasn't akward at all like it usually is when I talk to guys I like. Now that I've talked to him I'm confused as to what I should do now to show him I like him? If you could help me out that would be great! Thanks!(:
swimmergurl4444 on 9/11/2010 4:12:51 PM
Hey thank you so much! Unfortunately, I can't have a sleepover. But I can still use some of your ideas, without having a sleepover. Thanks again!
crazyshortie13 on 9/9/2010 4:49:52 PM
Hey it would be great if you could help me with my guy problem! So I'm a freshman in high school and I like a senior. Yes, I did just say senior. All my friends think I have absolutly no chance with him! He really doesn't look like one and when I started liking him I had no idea he was a senior. Also, he isn't the type of guy that would look at me and be like there is no way I would go out with a freshman. I REALLY like this guy. He has eveything I could ever want in a guy, the problem is next year he is going to college. Which means I have to make my move as soon as possible. I'm sure that if we like each other enough we could keep the relationship going even while he's in college. Every time I try to talk to him I can't find the words to say anything, I can't think of ANYTHING to say! I just stare at him stupidly. I really want to be able to talk to him do you have any tips? He is doing this bible study Wednesday morning and it would be great if I could talk to him like a normal person. Also, do you think I'm crazy to like a senior? I don't think so, but by the way my friends have reacted when I told them I'm starting to have doubts. Do I have a chance?
swimmergurl4444 on 9/7/2010 11:45:29 AM
Hey I'm in need of help...and please URGENTLY!!! So yesterday my boyfriend said "Maybe we should just be friends." So I asked why and he said "Cause we don't talk much and he doesn't want it to be awkward and he still wants to be friends." Which i love cause he is my best friend. So school starts tomorrow and we're gonna be seeing each other a lot and everyday. And I want to at least be friends with him cause he is the one person i can trust with anything. how can i not be sad around him without just ignoring him all year.???
Also! My friends are gonna come up to us and be like "Aww, You two are so cute!!!" How can I tell them without being sad? Thank you SOOOOO much and if you could respond by tonight I'd appreciate it A LOT!!
bellagml on 9/7/2010 8:49:58 AM
Hi! I saw u gave advice sooo:
My friend (G) is not potty trained. G has to wear diapers... pull-ups, huggies, pampers, goodnights. anything, but mostly just plain baby diapers. G really hates it. G is also treated like a baby around ppl G knows (baby food, high chair, crib, toddler/baby clothes and toys, bottles, etc). It's really embarrasing for G. G even has to be changed/fed by other people. Help please! And, yes, i know this is strange! Thanks!
dina22464 on 9/5/2010 10:09:55 AM
Hey, I saw that you give advice. I need ideas of what I can do for my 14th birthday party. It has to be really inexpensive and easy to set up. Thanks!
crazyshortie13 on 9/4/2010 9:55:42 PM
So i had a huge fight with my friend back in the beginning of summer. I was ignoring her till i texted her pretending to be my/her other friend. I don't think she knows it was me (even though i told her)!! I felt kinda bad but then i remembered how mean she was to me. Do you think that was mean? Then Yesterday we had our small group kick off at church and I found out she is in my small group!!!!! You can pick who you would like to be in a group with. Do you think she picked me or it was just a coincidence that out of 200 students she got put into the same one as me?? I need multiple answers!!!!!
What if she tried to get into a group with me and wants to make up? We were a group of three (me, her, and my other friend). Now my other friend doesn't want to be her friend either and we added a new girl to our group..........What if she tries to be her I'm not sure I want to be her friend again!!! Should i tell her or ignore her?? What if she wants to be apart of our group?!?!?
normmcke on 8/28/2010 2:52:37 AM
It's ok. I understand completly. No inconvience. I've always said u can't miss something u never had. But thanks anyway.
EgirlH.97 on 8/27/2010 10:51:00 AM
It's okay. I took them to the zoo and then we went to their house and set up a cherry juice stand ( we made $1.50) I got pain $13
Sheltie_Lover on 8/26/2010 1:10:20 PM
Thanks so much for telling me. Since so many girls ask u for advice can u advertise my club? Or do u not do that either? If not it's ok.
Funstuff4girls on 8/25/2010 9:56:11 PM
Hi, it's me again. I'm babysitting these two kids today, two girls (6 & 5) I'm going to take them to the zoo but I don't know what to do when we go back to their house. The job is only for and hour and a 1/2.
Sheltie_Lover on 8/25/2010 1:38:59 PM
Hey girl!!! I saw where u said you've been giving advice on GL for four years and I thought I'd come over and ask u to be in my club. It's a seperate profile than this one. This is my profile but my club is a seperate one. It's Funstuff4girls. There are TONS of jobs open so ur almost gauranteed to get which one that's listed.
Thanks, EgirlH.97 and Pesident of Funstuff4girls
EgirlH.97 on 8/22/2010 3:10:47 PM
Thank you SO much for the fabulous hair ideas!!! I'm going back to school September 9th. (I'm canadian) Amd now I have great hair styles to try!! What's really awesome is I'm going to a high school now, so my hair won't be "blah". You are SOOOOO awesome!!! <3
Sheltie_Lover on 8/16/2010 5:56:00 PM
I need help! I fall fast, and I fall hard for people. And I've never even been in a relationship before!! How do I know when I actually like someone, and when I'm just crushing for a few days?
Smooth Criminal on 8/15/2010 3:48:09 PM
hey i need your help!!!!
i don't know how to talk to my crush! we always text and the convo flows as smooth as anything, but in real life it's just so awkward. we usually ignore each other or just give a small smile. we only see each other at church, so i don't get very many chances to talk to him anyway. help?! thanks so much!!!
lovemuch on 8/14/2010 10:30:07 PM
Hey Girlie!!! Guess what? I'm an irish dancer too!!!I compete in the Arts Festival. Do you know what I could do with my hair?
It's blonde, curly, layered and down to my shoulders in the front and down to my shoulder blades in the back. I wear it natrually a lot, but I'd like to wear it up more. Thank you SO much!!!
Sheltie_Lover on 8/11/2010 4:52:49 PM
Thank you for the advice! Me and my bf are not taking it any farther than kissing. We are not stupid haha...anyways thanks for the advice you rock!
LilMizzJo on 8/11/2010 6:28:00 AM
Ok thanks so much for your advice!
CoolGal389 on 8/10/2010 5:34:39 PM
My birthday is in early september, but i always have a birthday party in late august, before school startes. I have a deck with a pool and a wii at our house, but i;m not sure what activities we should do. I will be inviting seven girls to the party, and i was planning on having a cookout/ pool party. What if we get bored?
Please leave your response on my pro.
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