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hey! wow ik what u mean for a lot of girls we all have had one of those friends. unfortanly ppl are gonna act tht way, but u should never put up with it. next time she says something controling stand up for ur self in a polite way. ignoring her might not be the nicest. but if she doesnt notice its a good way for ur friendship to fade. make sure not to ubrubtly end the relationship bc itll bite u in the butt.
ibehkate on 8/23/2011 3:02:53 PM
hey! hows everything working out for u?
ibehkate on 8/3/2011 5:30:48 PM
hi girlie! Do you need any advice at the moment? I'd love to help! Despicable me... didnt see it is it a must watch?
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purpleorchid on 7/23/2011 4:32:48 AM
wow! so sorry this is late but im having a busy summer. if u havent told her yet then a good thing to do is to sit her down or aproch her and have a good talk. dont just dump it on her. start out by saying hey mom theres this boy i really like and we have a thing were kinda dating. then ask if u can go over to his house and make sure that she knows tht ur besties will be there. then give it time and ull be able to go by urslef
hope it helped
ibehkate on 7/14/2011 7:59:47 PM
personally i dont feel that its "wrong" for us girls to ask out the guy. it is the 20 1st century. but if you feel that it's weird to ask him out then send some signals to ur guy letting him know that u do want to go out. also have one of ur friends tht is also his friend talk to him about u and ask how he feels. this will give him more confidence to ask u himself. but i think u should go for it! and if u dont then make sure to keep his attention so he doesnt become interested in this other girl.
talk to u soon
ibehkate on 5/30/2011 1:50:36 PM
hey well for the acne i use oil-free acne wash pink grape fruit facial cleanser by neutrogena. im not acne prone but it works great for me to prevent it. you want to wash your face when you wake up and before you go to bed. make sure not to wash it too much because it will dry ur skin out. also mostuiriz with an oil free moustirizer.if you use foundation make sure that its not oily and tht its safe for acne prone people! as for the hair... your scalp produces oil to keep your hair strong and healthy so its good but make sure to wash your hair properly every day. if you use conditioner then avoid using tht on the roots and maybe use it every other time you wash your hair. also there is a product called dry shampoo. its in a spray bottle and you just lightly sray it over ur oil roots and it absorbs it for the day making ur hair look natural. for the acne its a challenge to get rid of but once its gone ull be so happy so stick to the routine and your gloden!
ibehkate on 5/2/2011 5:31:33 PM
so sorry its kinda late....but its is obviouse that he still likes you. and the flirting with your friend is just to get your attention. and about the touching... if he does anything to make you feel uncomfy then let him kno right when he does it, it will make him embarassed and he wont do it anymore. and make sure that you dont tell your bff that he's only flirting to make you jealouse cause that will deff make them upset.
so good ta talk to ya agian!
ibehkate on 4/11/2011 6:16:15 PM
thanks I like yours too so whats up?
therockersofficial on 3/6/2011 11:10:01 AM
deff not. after being in a relationship its hard to forget your normal routine.now for him still liking you and wanting you back, thts how guys try to get closure. if he constantly calls or txts then give him closure by telling him y u broke up with him and you want him to move on and tht you can still be friendly towrds each other, theres no need to fued ( but not bff's). also dont lead him on by hugging him again, i understand when u broke up he was sad and tht was good to hug but dont do it later on ( i dont think u would n e ways) u also need to move on and focus on u time and what matters to you!
oh and number one thing DO NOT TRY TO HOOK HIM UP! this will not go well lol, its best to stay out of his futer love life
ibehkate on 3/5/2011 9:21:55 AM
so glad it worked out! im totally loving giving advise but i only awnser u and one other girls Q's. if u have time or ur ever tlking to ur friends on GL let em kno bout me if ya could! thxs!
ibehkate on 3/2/2011 8:32:58 PM
ok if it isnt obviouse im sooo shocked! last i heard from you he was mad at you? how did this happen? if your not ready DONT DO IT!!!
i dont know about you, but im a christan and we belive that sex is a special thing and you should wait till your married. not only because of my religion am i against it but also because the risks! like you said STD's and pregnecy. and i think that even when your 16 or 17 your still to young, but its up to you. just remeber that you shouldnt do anything if your not comfortable with it. and if you tell him no and he breaks up with you that your not alone and tht u were right to stand up for yourself. be strong, your ur own person. please wait. but if not use protection. i can not stress this enoughf. and not just a condum but birth control too condums dont work all the time.
ibehkate on 2/27/2011 7:22:47 PM
hows the love life going.
havnt heard from ya in a while!
ibehkate on 2/27/2011 1:01:43 PM
ok so u still wanna kiss him but yet u like another guy? well i think u should tell him tht ur sorry and say tht u two WERE being honest and that u r dating him and tht u like HIM. also say tht you just think that the other guy is cute or atractive but u wanna be with him (ur bf).... if u do, but if not then end the relationship if ur not into it.
ibehkate on 2/20/2011 12:58:15 PM
im from Pennsylvania
and i cant blame him for being mad at u. u said to ur bf tht u like another guy? do u? or did u mean tht u used to like this guy? if u do still like another guy then re think ur relationship. if not then repeat to say ur sorry and do a big gesture to show ur love!
ibehkate on 2/17/2011 7:47:30 PM
hahah yup i got it!
soo glad for ya it sounds ahhh-mazing! too cute!
so what state do u live in? bc im wondering if we have the same time zone or not.
ibehkate on 2/16/2011 8:37:45 PM
hey srry i havnt been able to respond right away... my lap top wasnt letting me on GL!
any ways... i would say if u still like him then dont break up with him and to fix the tention problem is to talk to ur bf about it. ask him to please be nicer and to try if he dosent then well u might wanna re consider ur relationship. as for ur gilrs let them kno that ur not picking him over them and that u really sorry hes being mean and tht ur gonna talk to him. also if there really on ur case a bout it then let them kno to ease up a lil. and maybe not talk about it so much
luv ya <3
ibehkate on 2/13/2011 7:24:41 PM
an acident or was he looking for 2nd base? was it like he brushed up agianst it or like poked it not trying it or did he try to grab it and u didnt let him? omg! hahah
ibehkate on 2/9/2011 4:25:21 PM
yay! good for u girl!
ibehkate on 2/7/2011 3:40:11 PM
sounds like a lot of fun!weird wat ur friend was doing...lol
p.s. srry if i posted this twice idk if i did lol!
ibehkate on 2/6/2011 1:15:56 PM
lol yeah so whats up?
therockersofficial on 2/1/2011 4:30:46 PM
ya that would be totally cuteee! u could also have kinda a " pre date " if u want lol. or also u can get ready with ur girlies.
ibehkate on 1/31/2011 5:24:28 PM
if u still are into him then a break up isnt the way to fix things. bc ur at school and on the phone its kinda hard to be huggy kissy. so try to fit in some one on one time go on some dates. now it might be hard if transportation, money, and parental permison is a problem. if not dates will fix it or even just cillen at one of ur houses or at a party!
ibehkate on 1/30/2011 1:52:36 PM
Its so crazy because it premieres on my birthday
therockersofficial on 1/29/2011 11:10:40 AM
wow that sounds like an interesting sitch! but dont stress anymore. his parents sound very protective and nosey. did your bf stand up for u and say that your letter was a joke? pluse y did ur bff give him he note? i think that u might wanna tlk to her about that. also let ur bf kno that u were kidding and theres nothing to worry about ask him to tell his rents that and that ur sorry for the mix up and that u like him a lot. or even better yet in person or on the phone they'll respect u for it! hope it helps1
ibehkate on 1/27/2011 2:38:20 PM
well to answer your first Q i think that in a relationship you should be open and ya other people should know... especially the rents. and y wouldnt u trust them? they are adults keep in mind
and the seccond is tht if hes joking then i wouldnt sweat it unless he makes a move that makes you unconfortable never go along with something tht u dont want. and about the naming of children... it is normall for a deep seriouse relationship to talk about the future but considering your a new couple i would tell him to take it essay (in a nice way) if he does it again.
ibehkate on 1/17/2011 12:01:51 PM
Thanks for the comment i cant wait for Degrassi's new season!
therockersofficial on 1/16/2011 7:20:21 PM
well no relationship is perfect so unfourtunatly fights will happen. but if you still have feelings for him and ur not fighting 24/7 then i think tht u 2 have a chance. you just need to tlk with him about wats bothering him and wats bothering you. also you need trust to have a stable relationship. if you dont mind me asking wat are the fights about ( u dont have to share )
hope this helps!
ibehkate on 1/15/2011 5:22:28 PM
umm i dont think so...weird
wats going on girlie?
ibehkate on 1/15/2011 9:39:38 AM
hey ok so idk if u got my post bc it dosent look like it so ima post it again lol.
for double dates in the winter i would reccomend.(it is winter where ur at right?) going to a coffee shop for some hot chocolate would be delish! or maybe a snow ball battle? or even the clasic bowling date would be great too! ttyl
ibehkate on 1/13/2011 5:34:08 PM
first of all u NEED to get ur friends/ppl u went on a group date thing w/. pull them aside and say something like, "u no guys, i dont like how ur bashing me and (insert guys name here). we wanted it to b kept kinda quite, and stuff, because we were nervous you guys may have got this way. we dont like it and can u plz stop it now." hopefully they will listen to u, but if not, u jst have to b the bigger person and relize theyre being vry imature and to ignore them. eventually theyll stop. trust me
Next. the guy. wat i found works is to talk to him at a quite moment were u KNOW you 2 will be alone. tell him u think hes an awsome friend, and possibly could be more if you talk about whats bothering eachother. it could simply be stress in ur different lives u 2 dont know about. or it could b something totally differnt. u can only find out if u talk. he might actually be relieved u brought this up and u 2 could talk! u nvr no unless sit down and talk!
as for a chance of being a couple, i could totally see it! u two seem to know one another pretty well, and if u sit down and talk u deff' could be togther!
hope this helpss!
erynn14 on 1/11/2011 4:52:22 PM
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erynn14 on 1/10/2011 6:45:19 PM
did your lips work out? and i hope theres a future for u to bc even tho i dont know you ik ur cute together lol
ibehkate on 1/9/2011 5:51:20 PM
so im dying to know how your movie date when or didnt it happen yet? well let me know how it was and give meh all the deets ;) haha.
ibehkate on 1/9/2011 1:40:33 PM
Well since he already knows, your bff cant really take that back, so you are going to have to hope that he'll keep the secret. But in the future just dont tell him things that you dont want the whole school to know about.
chicka678 on 1/8/2011 2:55:24 PM
To get rid of chapped lips, scrub them with a washcloth.. that will get all the dead skin off. then put on some chapstick. stay away from the lipgloss, though. that makes a sticky kiss!
As for how to kiss, it just comes naturally. theres no wrong kiss!
chicka678 on 1/8/2011 1:26:22 PM
hey i heard about your chap lip dilemma and thought id help. heres a sight tht will hopefully help. http://www.squidoo.com/lipscrubs
sorry if im too late! <3
ibehkate on 1/8/2011 12:38:00 PM
If you want a natural look, go for eyeshadow thats pink, and apply it just on your lid. If your hair is light, wear brown mascara, and if your hair is dark, wear black. Add some clear lipgloss (clear glitter lipgloss is great for parties) and your good to go! If you need help on how to apply mascara, etc, just ask.
chicka678 on 1/4/2011 6:54:12 PM
I have been in the exact same stituation. He isn't ready for a relationship, so you should respect that. When he likes you and he's ready to date, he'll ask you out. It just takes patience.
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Cool I bet it was!! So watz up with you lately?? Im luven this amazing warm weather..!!
flower14 on 4/5/2010 10:34:48 AM
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bigblondie123 on 3/29/2010 7:51:48 PM
cool i luv camping !!
flower14 on 3/16/2010 10:12:24 PM
cool never heard of it?? sure sounds like fun though!!
flower14 on 3/13/2010 2:17:37 PM
Wow that sounds like a blast!! No fair haha..So where you going??
flower14 on 3/8/2010 12:25:06 PM
I'm good and can't wait for My World 2.0
17ann on 3/6/2010 8:17:20 AM
oh wow... thats kinda odd... and funny!
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Yeah we've gotten a ton of snow in like the past couple weeks!! And some wierd scientist people are predicting that exactly on March 12th (wonder if they have a time to lol) we're supposed to get 44 inches of snow!! Doubt that will happen..
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