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Okay so there's this guy I like but I've never talked to him before but i want to get to know him, we have the same lunch and his locker is above mine...what do I do?!
vball lover 14 on 12/4/2011 6:29:14 PM
Hi, I have a question for you. Actually a couple questions lol okay, so my bestest friend and I were bullied badly emotionally/verbally last year. It really knocked down my confidence. It's kinda hard to tell if the bullying is still going on or if I just have a lack of confidence But anyways because I have low confidence, it caused me to have self-worth issues. I have always been kinda shy, but it's really bad now. I feel like my opinions never count at school. Like not really in class but during break when i'm around my peers and friends. I don't talk to anybody unless they start the conversations. This is an exception to my best friends, but my guy friends, and the girls one grade higher and lower than me who I am friends with. I feel like every time I say or do something, someone judges me on it or talks behind my back, which was probably a result of the bullying, when this was how I always reacted, not to say or do anything . Actually, the funny thing is, that I know that all my friends love me and wouldn't talk behind my back or judge me. But it feels like no one understands my problems except my bestie, and they're driving me insane, and I'm just itching to tell someone about them (besides my bestie), but I'm scared they won't care or they'll tell me to grow up or they won't believe me... And to make this whole problem worse, I belong to the "nice girl" group, and people take advantage of me. Like this one girl who I really don't like but don't ever tell her that, and she's not my friend, and she never, ever talks to me unless she needs something, came up to my friends and I today and asked if she could borrow one of our calculators for a math test. She also once came up to me and said hi and just stood by me and texted while waiting for the bus, so that she didn't look like a loner. Actually a lot of people do that to me and my friends. This doesn't really do anything good for my confidence, I just feel like a second friend and i hate it. How do I raise my self-worth, confidence get over these feelings? Also, do you think I should tell someone about it? And what do you think I could do to stop people taking advantage of me? I'm really sick of being in a little slump walking down the hallway cause i think no one likes me at all. If you could help me in anyway that would be so appreciated thanks PS sorry for the long question
marshmelo on 11/18/2011 7:45:14 PM
I'm answering you here for you're profile is set to private.
Hey hon! I'm so sorry for what you're going through! Guy's are really weird, but sometimes they may like a girl one week and move on to another the next. Other times it's either peer pressure or they feel intimidated by an amazing girl like you. If I were you, I'd walk up to him straight up and ask what's going on. If you're nervous to do that, maybe ask you're friend to ask him what's with the sudden change. I'm sure you'll eventually find out what's up and talk it through.
Good Luck! Hope this help! Feel free to ask anymore questions!
inluvwithboyz on 10/15/2011 6:32:54 PM
Sorry to not post on your profile but it says it's not publicly visible so I can't see it.
So about your current stich, you said that you don't have classes but you sometimes pass by him? Whenever you do that you should wave or say hi and smile since he has already said hey you need to return the favor!
And as for crying in front of him, don't be embarrassed, it jus proves to him that you're a real person and sometimes ya just gotta cry. Don't think too hard about that anyway, crying doesn't make you less attractive to guys unless you are crying every second. mmk?
Good Luck! Hope this helps! <3
inluvwithboyz on 10/15/2011 6:21:45 PM
So about two weeks ago, this guy told me he liked me. And at my schools carnival he never hung out with me and i heard rumors SHE (the girl he was hanging out with) asked him to go to the carnival with her. Idk what he said, and one of my bffs( who is friends with the girl whos taking away my guy) is friends with her and told me they liked eachother and were trying to get them together. What do i do? I still like him, and im mad because he told me he liked me first, and didnt have the courage to tell me didnt like me anymore... Help!
Plowell on 10/14/2011 9:43:04 AM
Hey! okay! so im the new girl at school-_- and well theres this guy. hes a jock. just typical jock. ha! well anyways he never noticed me until a couple days ago. but all he said was "hey how are you?" and shot me a smile. well today he didnt say ANYTHING to me.The worst part is today i started to cry because of some family stuff andd i was talking to my bestfriend on the phone and crying to her and he saw me! i was totally embarrassed! i dont know what to do! i want to get his attention! HELP?!?!!(:
lynettee on 10/13/2011 11:57:39 PM
Hey! ohkay well im the new girl at school:b and this guy is football player the normal jock! well he never really noticed me until a few days ago when he just said hey how are you? and noe today he didnt say anything to me. what should i do? to get his attention? i dont have him for any classes i just see him passing classes occasionally but today i saw him alot more. sadly, today i was crying because of famly stuff.. but i cried in front of him! i was so embarrassed!! please help!!
lynettee on 10/13/2011 11:49:55 PM
hey i LOVE Ellie Goulding as well!!! isnt she the best? lol =D
soccer.rox.26 on 8/24/2011 5:26:01 PM
hi! ok well if you guys like eachother thats reat! but tell him over a not or txt or just tell him person to person that he cant flirt with you when he has a girlfriend becuse thats not fair to her and tell him that until they break up you guys are just friends. hope i helped! if you need anymore advice feel free to ask. =)
ALR on 4/22/2011 9:16:33 AM
Thanks for all the kind comments!
@lala2hip178- I can't access your account so I will answer you here.
Hey hon, I totally get your situation, I've been in something like this before. I think the best idea is to let him down easily... Maybe some day walk up to him and say "Hey, I heard a rumor that you like me" and see what he says, if he actually get's the courage to say he does like you, I'd say something like "I'm so sorry, but I think we are better as great friends, is that ok with you?" Hopefully he'll be totally cool with it! GOOD LUCK!!!
inluvwithboyz on 3/6/2011 7:48:10 PM
MODMODMOD!Hey i wanted 2 ask you something i have this guy in my class that used 2 sit by me well i started 2 pick up sings that he liked me well i put it behind me 4 a while intill my bday(which i told him a month befor and he memberd)he gave me a teady bear.this month 1 of his friends that is mine 2 and also my friends bf well hetold me "ur sittin by someone that likes u" and i got the hint cause i knew he liked me.the problem is i dont like him and he has a HUGE crush on me i like someone else well wat i want 2 know is how do i get him 2 stop likin me ive been avoidin him and stuff it seems 2 be workin and he also moved he will some times talkin 2 me but its uncomfertable so wat do i do!
lala2hip178 on 1/20/2011 9:17:19 PM
hey i love your profile pic! so cute! if you need some advice on how to ask out the guy you like, I can help you (I've had tons of experience with that kind of stuff)
ask anju on 1/19/2011 11:40:34 PM
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Hitomi_W on 11/27/2010 4:39:36 PM
COOL PROFILE! I LUV YOUR PIC!
katiekakes8 on 11/25/2010 4:57:36 PM
Oh and I didnt realize I was logged in to my personal account. Haha. This is christiangirlsmusicclub. If you want to comment back please do it on that profile, cause i have this one set to private. Thanks! Hope the advice helps!
stellarsophie33 on 10/19/2010 6:45:51 PM
Hey girlie! Thanks for the question! Soory Im a little late on getting back to you.
Well, I think that you should tell him in person that you like him. That way he knows for sure that, that is truly how you feel and not some rumor that his friend made up. Though Im thinking that yous should tell him after the tutoring session, so you can focus on your studies. ;) I do believe though, that you should tell him how you feel. I had a crush on my guy friend for the longest time, and I never told him. And now he has a girlfriend so I missed my chance and I regret it big time for not speaking up about how I feel. Just remember, that even if he doesnt feel the same way, there are plenty of other guys out there, and you'll eventually find the one that adores you.
Hope this helps!! Let me know!!!
Hugs and kisses, Sophie ;)
stellarsophie33 on 10/19/2010 6:34:02 PM
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