Hey girl! I know it's probably not the advice you want, but honestly the best advice I or anyone else could ever give you is that you don't need a boyfriend or anyone else to make you happy. I know it may not seem true, but trust me, it is. Often, boyfriends only cause more problems. Enjoy being single. No one always has a boyfriend. Everyone is single at some point. Like I said, I'm sure that's not the advice you were looking for, but please try to take it to heart. Now, I can give you a few tips for getting a boyfriend, but please please please try to understand that you don't need a boyfriend! First of all, try to talk to guys who you know are nice guys. Join clubs and do things that interest you, and you'll have more luck meeting a guy who shares your interests. And if there's a guy you like, smile at him when you see him in the hall, and try to talk to him! As for the guys who ask you out as a joke, there were guys who would do the same thing to me when I was in middle school. I know it's hard, but tell them to stop, and other than that, ignore them. If it really becomes a problem, you can always tell a teacher or another adult who works at your school. But please know that they will outgrow this immature behavior. Good luck, girl! If you have any more questions, I'd be glad to answer them!
<3 Shannon

supersingershannon on 1/26/2011 3:51:10 PM