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Hey! I saw one of your comments that said you would answer any questions and I have one that I really need an answer to!! So I have a big crush on my brother's best friend and drummer to his band. My brother knows I like Adam, the boy I like. When Adam and I are together, he seems to like me and I always try and show him that I like him. I really want his number so we can text and get closer but there are a few problems 1) I don't have an excuse to ask for his number 2) I'm two years younger than him and 3) I'm not even sure if he sees us as friends. HELP!!!!
kayla99 on 3/3/2013 12:31:03 AM
Thanks SOOO much! And have you considered getting an advice queen page? Everyone's saying you give good advice! And I'll bet lads will join!
pretty123 on 7/19/2012 12:30:45 AM
I like this guy- I'm not even kidding he's perfect. I've caught him looking at me 2 times in the whole school year- but get this... So before I liked him, me and my BFF used to be my other frenemies "messenger" to him since she likes him too. She wanted us to ask him out for him, and we did. He said no, and next period, he says yes when this other girl asks him out. Maybe he's just getting my frenemie(let's call her "Kathy") out of his hair or something, but I really truly like him. He's popular, and I'm kinda lowly... But he's really nice. I actually think they "broke up" after he said yes, since when the other girl(lets call her Miranda) asked him out, it was on a dare. Kathy is really annoying, and I don't think my crush(let's call HIM Todd) likes her, and I don't think Todd really likes Miranda either. She's really mean from what I hear(I don't know her) and I don't think she's his type. I've said about 10 sentences to him in my life, and he has said about the same to me. I have my doubts... He doesn't seem to like me, can u give me your opinion on EVERYTHING? Like if Todd likes Miranda.... Or if Todd likes me...
pretty123 on 7/18/2012 6:18:39 PM
You reassured me for like two minutes, I seriously LOVED your advice! and then he texted me this: I've been kinda wanting to ask you a question but idk if its the time to ask it Me: It may not be the right time Him: How bout tomorrow biking? Me: Okay. Him: What's up? Me: nm u Him: unpacking from vacation, i cant believe i made it back intime to see you today. Me? I haven't replied yet! But now I know he's going to ask me out, I KNOW. I don't want him to, I don't want him to!!!!!! I don't know whattt to doooooo!?!!!!!!!! Can I friendzone him really quick before he asks me out or what? Please help me, multiple suggestions would be appreciated! AND REPLY ASAP PLEASEEE!!!!!!!!!
LLL328 on 7/16/2012 10:19:28 PM
Heya! Few things you need to know for this to make sence: I go to summer gym class everyday (week days) for 6 weeks, I have two weeks left. I will be a freshman next year and am going to a private school, not the school I'm taking gym at. I hang out with a girl who'll be a senior at the school I'm taking gym at. We click and she's awesome! So I liked this guy (Mark)...a lot. But then I started to not like him because I realized I simply liked the idea of him, the idea of having a boyfriend or crush whatever. Anyway I liked him because I had this little thought that he liked me. And he does. So it started with him asking me to be his partner for activities and it turned into me adding him on fb (I still liked him) and him messaging his number to me. As stupid and naive as I am I texted him. This happened last Thursday. Thursday text messages: we talked about our interests and it was a good conversation, I got to know him a lot better. Friday texts (he wasn't at gym, he was on vacation): Idk how but we started talking about our family and I told him I'm not close to my dad and he said something like 'all a dad wants is to be close to his little princess' and he called me perfect at some point...I called him sweet twice (should not have done that...) Saturday texts: He began the conversation with hey princess.... I got weirded out right then and there. I replied to his texts with very monotone answers, maybe he wouldn't be interested anymore... Then when he asked me what's up I replied I was drawing and then he asked me if I was drawing him. I said no. He said I should. I asked why. He said it'd be cool and then said he would draw me and I'd draw him. I said no, I suck at drawing guys. I told him I had to go a few texts later. I think he said hey two other times, to which I did not reply. The drawing thingy was really weird. I figured I'd friendzone him, but it's not working! Sunday messages: Short casual convo, what's up and stuff. I was kinda busy. So today we did bowling and Mark came late and didn't talk to me. He smiled at me, I smiled back. Tomorrow is biking and I'm freaked out because it's going to be so weird! Oh and Mark and I will not be going to hs together he is going to the one that gym is at. I stopped liking him just a while ago...I don't want a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Help me? I was going to advice pages to see if he liked me a week ago!!! Did I lead him on? I didn't mean to! Please tell me how to get him to stop texting me all the time (no joke he does...I texted him first once to let him get my #)! I don't know what to doooo....? I don't even know why he likes me...gym is grosss! How do I make it unawkward, he's a really sweet guy no doubt! And I want him to be my friend still! Thanks I just need someone else's opinion!
LLL328 on 7/16/2012 3:34:50 PM
Hey Ezzy! Your profile wasn't public so I wasn't able to post on it, so hopefully you'll check back on mine. Anyways, I think you should think about how you feel when you're with him. Do you get butterflies in your stomach when he's around? Does your heart start to race? Do you find yourself daydreaming about being with him as more than friends? Do you find that you get very tongue tied around him? I think you have to figure it out for yourself. If one or more of these apply to you, then I think you've got your answer.
kikidee12 on 6/2/2012 7:05:12 PM
Hey girl! I'm in need of some advice! So, there's this guy that I like who's one year younger than me, but thats beside the fact. I don't know if I like him but we are super close, like we walk to school together, eat lunch together, and hang out sometimes out of school. My friends all are convinced I like him but I'm not so sure myself. I'm not sure if I actually do like him and I'm just ignoring it, or if I really don't like him. If you could post this on my wall that would be awesome. Thanks! ~Ezzy
ezzyperdomo on 6/2/2012 4:58:02 PM
Thank you so much! I told them that and I am waiting until Monday to go back. I went to my stomach doctor and it turns out I have really bad anxiety which was making me feel worse. Thank you for the advice! Also, do you have any awesome sleepover ideas for just 2 people?
nerdisthewurd26 on 1/20/2012 11:08:29 AM
Hi! I need some help again. I have been sick for 4 months from school and I am really behind in school work. I have a tutor that is helping me get caught up with all of my schoolwork. Each time I get ready to go back to school, I absolutely freak out and basically have a meltdown and cry and make myself sick because I'm so worried. My parents said I'm going to school on Tuesday and I am absolutely freaking out because I don't feel good and I started throwing up because freaked out. How do I not freak out on Tuesday or convince my parents to not make me go to school? I don't feel good at all and my parents don't seem to care, how do I make them see that I am very sick? Thanks, xoxoxxo
nerdisthewurd26 on 1/12/2012 7:45:33 PM
kedbear1218 Hey girlie, Why do you want to make your ex jealous? It's not going to make him stop doing what he's doing and it's not really going to do anything. Finding a BF just to make your ex jealous isn't going to be fair for the guy you're using and you may end up feeling kind of bad. How about wait for a guy to come along who you really do like, and see where that goes. Or if you already like someone else flirt and get to know him better 'cause you want to get to know him. Relationships are a whole lot more fun if you really like somebody, what's the fun of having a BF you don't like all to make one person jealous?
kikidee12 on 12/28/2011 5:10:31 PM
I need boy help! I broke up with my bf now he hates me he's acting like a jerk and calling me name si want to make him jealous without being mean. !!!!! Help!! -kedbear1218
kedbear1218 on 12/27/2011 11:47:13 PM
Hiya! Thank you for your help!!!
nerdisthewurd26 on 12/3/2011 2:02:15 PM
Thank you so much! Also, I need some help. It has been a dream of mine to go to a college I've been a huge fan of all of my life. Lately I realized that I only have 5 years until college, which isn't a lot of time to save up because the college I go to is $80,00 a year not including housing and etc. For four whole years of college it would cost $320,000. How can I save up without being overprotective of saving my money? I have $100 in saved in my savings account at the bank.I get $2 allowance a week. How should I save up? Thanks! Cya!
nerdisthewurd26 on 11/24/2011 11:58:50 PM
Thanks so much! I'm home sick today so I'm going to clean up the floor, do the laundry, fold the laundry and put away the laundry because I feel good except the fact that I'm throwing up every hour 2 hours.
nerdisthewurd26 on 11/18/2011 9:54:59 AM
Thank you! I have this secret jar that is now called the fluffy kitty fund, so I'm saving up. The name sounds kinda stupid but when I was little, I'd always call cats fluffy kitties.
nerdisthewurd26 on 11/4/2011 9:39:13 PM
Hello again! Okay now I have 3 problems that I need help with. I apologize in advance if this is to long! -My friends think I'm a goody-two-shoes because I give people compliments, say please and thank you, and make good decisions. Should I ignore there comments about it? -When I was little, we had 2 cats. Then one died of diabetes, and the other one died of old age. My dad doesn't like cats so he said we will never get cats. I really want a cat to love and cuddle with, my dad keeps saying no when I bring it up. I told my parents I'm going to save up money and for my 14th birthday (next year) I am going to buy myself a kitty, food for the kitty, a litterbox, litter, and food bowls. One problem is I don't think they believe me! How do I get my point through to my dad that I want a cat? Please help!
nerdisthewurd26 on 11/2/2011 10:58:52 PM
Thank you so muchh! It helped a lot!
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/26/2011 10:47:18 AM
Thank you so much! I'm selling some things that I don't need/want anymore because they are not needed. The reason I am needing so much money is because I am redoing my room and I don't want my parents to buy all of the little things I want and I don't want to blow all of my parents money. I need a second opinion on this, I have the biggest room in my house, like bedroom, but I don't have a lot of room in my room with my bed. I was wondering if it would be a good idea to sell my dresser and then get a big closet organzier to put all of my clothes and shoes in. Is that a good idea? Because it would give me a lot of room in my room and I am considering it. Also, do you know of any websites that sell bedroom stuff besides Wake Up Frankie, and PB teen?
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/25/2011 1:55:45 PM
Thanks for the advice! I can't wait to talk to L!
Head in The Clouds on 10/21/2011 8:20:07 PM
Thank you so much! Also, I need some money making ideas I need $300-$400 so I can go swimming during the winter. Any ideas?
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/21/2011 12:34:56 PM
I noticed that your good at giving out advice, so I was wondering if you would give me some... There's this guy I like L and he likes me back. He's going to ask me out except this other guy, N, likes me too and won't leave me alone! I don't know how to make him leave because he's my BGF and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I want to talk to L alone! Any ideas? Plus do you think it's bad to invite L to the movies with some of my friends if he brings a few friends? I'm in 8th grade...
Head in The Clouds on 10/21/2011 11:48:34 AM
I meant last year, sorry.
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/20/2011 4:38:46 PM
Hi chicky! I need help again, and fast. I have been sick from school for a long time, and my "friend" has started to freak out on me about it again. I was sick last Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and last Friday, this Monday, this Tueday, this Wednesday, this Thursday, and possibly Friday too. There is this girl in our class, her name is T. She just came back to our school this year because her dad wanted her to move back in with him. She has problems, like mental, and she left for two weeks to go to a mental hospital to get help. The problem is, everyone has assumed that I'm there to, and I'm not. My "friend" K keeps sending me rude texts, then being nice again and I'm fed up and mad about it! The text she sent to me last night said "People are wondering where you are and I'm not going to stick up for you much longer." I started crying and I was so upset about it. I keep telling her that I'm sick and she doesn't believe me! Then I told her I'd be back Monday and she then said "If you cannot be at school we should not be texting." I was sad and upset even more. I called my best friend M and told her everything and she said and M said it was totally uncalled for and made me feel better. Later yesterday when I was trying to fall asleep, I cried myself to sleep because I was so worried about it. I hid my fone this afternoon because I am afraid K is going to send me rude texts so I'm just not gonna look at my phone. I did not show my moms the texts. I didn't show my mom the texts last night because last year K made my life at school a living hell. Sorry if you are offended by me saying that. We had so much drama last year each substitute teacher we had was involved, so was both of our two teachers were too. She started the drama when she called A and H a skank. Should I tell my mom about the texts? Should I de-friend her? What should i do???? Please please help! I am sitting here crying while writing this.
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/20/2011 4:33:25 PM
Thank you so much!
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/19/2011 5:21:17 PM
Thank you so much for answering all of my questions!!!!
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/7/2011 6:36:27 PM
Thank you so much! Also, There is this girl in high school, who looks like a boy, and I didn't know she was a girl and I thought she was hot before I knew she was a girl. I'm completely freaked out now! Should I worry about this?
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/3/2011 9:44:27 PM
Thank you very much! I also need some more advice. I always worry about what people think about me. I constantly worry! Earlier, I was at a after party for our school's junior high and I meant to say this girls eyeshadow was pretty but I accidentally said your eyes are pretty (I said your eyeshadow is pretty after I accidentally said your eyes are pretty and now I'm really worried that she thinks I'm gay. Also, I have to push my glasses up on my nose alot because I broke them, I worry that people think I'm a nerd for that. Also, my mom sometimes smokes with me in the car, and when I get out I always worry about smelling weirdly. I constantly worry about smelling or about how bad my breath smells. I am constantly worrying! What should I do to fix my over worrying? Please help!
nerdisthewurd26 on 10/1/2011 12:44:28 AM
Hey Girl! I need some advice and fast because I am literally freaking out and I'm really upset! I have a friend, M. She has became my best friend and she always tells me everything and I tell her everything! Recently, she was invited to a sleepover and and girl that I thought was my bestie was invited and her name is K, was invited too. M really doesn't like K because she has had a history of making M and me feeling terrible about ourselves. At that sleepover, K told a lie about me and I feel completely worthless now because there were 10 girls there. M told me what K said about me. K has a crush named Blake, and we both used to like him at the same time so she made up a bunch of lies about him. She told all of those 10 girls at the sleepover this lie. She said that one night when she had me spend the night one night, we were on the phone talking to Blake, she said that she asked him if he had started puberty, and then she said that I told him that I did because I wanted to get preagnat! I'd never do that! Now all 9 girls except M believed K and now I'm really upset about that! I'd never do that! Ever! I'm now really upset and crushed. I am sitting here crying about it! What should I do!? Please help!
nerdisthewurd26 on 9/16/2011 10:10:11 PM
please help I am FREAKING OUT!! okay so tomorrow we start swimming in p.e. I am nervous because we have to change, like naked in from of like 25 other girls. Also there is only one bathroom stall and our (girl) teacher has her office in the locker room so she said if she saw anyone changing in there we would get in trouble. Please help I am dry self concience and I am so nervous. What should I do???? HELP!!!
heatherhere101 on 9/15/2011 7:44:32 PM
dixiecowgirl Hey, so I think that somehow you should causally bring it up. And just say " I heard that you smoke and I wasn't sure if it was true". And then just listen to what he says. Don't judge, just listen. If his answers yes, don't make a big deal out of it. Maybe ask him why he smokes and then maybe you'll get a better understanding. And even tell him that you care about him and that you're worried about him. If you're calm about it all, you're most likely going to be the person he'll talk to when he needs to talk to someone, 'cause he'll know that you'll be there for him and you're trustworthy!
kikidee12 on 7/15/2011 12:25:23 AM
Thanks for posting the answer on your page and sorry this has taken me so long! Anyway, my question is about my cousin. He's a really cool person and I love hanging out with him (I just recently discovered that!) but I'm kinda worried about him. A couple people (adults) that he and his mom were temporarily staying with told me that he smokes. Now, these two people have a tendency to exaggerate and one of these two people would lie (the other wouldn't). I kinda do believe them. I mean, I DO believe it happened but it could've just been once or maybe it's all the time. I don't know because these people exaggerate and they are kinda mad at my cousin at the moment and love complaining about him. I'm hoping to have him and his sister come down to my house in a few days. I want to say something to him about it because he's only 12..... way too young to be smoking. He would at least listen to me and not get mad.... I know he would. But I don't know what to say or how to bring it up..... especially since I don't know how much it even happens or if he even does it anymore. I'm really worried about him because I know he can become addicted to it and it can cause cancer. I don't know what to say to him. I don't want it to come out as "You better stop smoking! That's so stupid!" because I tend to be rough and sometimes I come off as mean when I'm not trying to because I'm just kinda dish-it-out-and-get-to-the-point. I've already done it once to him over something else and although I was just playing with him it came out as kinda mean even though it wasn't supposed to. I just have a big mouth. So how can I do this? Please help and thanks in advance!
dixiecowgirl on 6/23/2011 9:13:46 AM
Hey again. I have more advice you can answer. There's this girl in school that no one likes. She used to be popular but all of her friends ditched her to hang with better friends. (Guess she over-ruled the school little to much) well..The problem is she used to be my best friend. I hate to see her like this..but at the same time i enjoy watching her suffer...After all she is my Worst-Enemy...What do I do? Be friends with her and deal with MY friends ditching me? or leave her alone...After all she Isn'y my problem.
jazziesgirl on 6/13/2011 7:39:48 PM
FloridaGirl Hey girlie, I've never used a cream before so I don't exactly know. I don't think it would grow back darker. Try it and see and if it does, stick to shaving. xoxo kikidee12
kikidee12 on 6/7/2011 10:12:39 PM
If I use hair removal cream on my legs will the hair grow back thicker and darker like it would with shaving?????
FloridaGirl:) on 6/3/2011 7:56:43 PM
dixiecowgirl Ok... so what was your question?
kikidee12 on 4/24/2011 11:39:00 PM
Hey well could you just post the answer on your page and I'll just check back in a day or two till I see the answer? Like don't tell me it's there I'll just check it myself? I'd like that.
dixiecowgirl on 4/24/2011 10:19:21 PM
Hey. I got another question and since you were so good at answering the last one.... I thought I'd ask you! First do all comments on your profile eventually fall off or what? That's not my question I just need to know that first.
dixiecowgirl on 4/23/2011 8:26:55 PM
Hey, I'm going on a school trip to Disney World, and we fly on a plane there. I'm packing a carry- on, and I'm mindblanking about what to take to do on the plane. We're not aloud to have iPods... any ideas? Thanks- and you're awesome btw
Goldengirl113 on 4/22/2011 10:39:45 PM
MODMODMOD my friend said because i'm so skinny and i haven't had my period, that i can't have a baby. I don't want to be the only out of my friends (in the future) who can't have a baby. Is it true???
starrynight1616 on 4/19/2011 7:04:02 PM
cupcakek99 Hey girlie, I was thinking for your wavy hair some hair up- some hair down is really pretty. For your friend's, maybe she can curl her hair. Makeup. For you I suggest black eyeliner on the inner rims (it looks fab on chica's with eyes like yours) mascara, and a neutral lipgloss. For your friend, maybe a little bit of blush, a little bit of eyeliner on the top and bottom lids (not much though) and mascara, and clear lipgloss. To wear. Well, you wanna come off as yourself. Things that are cute comfortable that I suggest are: Capri leggings with a blouse and flats, skinny jeans, a tee shirt and boots, or jeans, a cami, a cute cardi over, and flats. Sounds like it'll be a ton of fun! Good luck! Love always, Layla
kikidee12 on 4/19/2011 12:07:25 PM
What would you recommend for a night at the movies? Because me and my BFF are going to the movies with my crush and his friend and we have no idea what to wear and how to do our hair or makeup. If it helps we look a lot like Taylor Swift only my hair is wavy my friend's is straight her eyes are sky blue mine are hazel. Thanks a bunch!
cupcakek99 on 4/18/2011 9:56:25 PM
hey thanks ur awesome at giving advice!
girlsliferocksss98 on 4/13/2011 8:08:16 AM
okay i like this guy and my friends all think he likes me too, he always stares at me and when he sees i noticed he starts blushing like crazy, he sits in the seat nxt to me on the bus and he always tries to walk nxt to me in the hallway. I want to go out with him but i want him to ask me. All my friends wanted to ask him out for me but its seemed really immature to me. What should i do? P.s. sorry its long.
girlsliferocksss98 on 4/12/2011 9:03:58 PM
sel1fan101 Aw thanks so much, girlie! That means a lot!
kikidee12 on 4/12/2011 8:43:31 PM
Thank you! You are the best you know that!
sel1fan101 on 4/12/2011 5:49:04 PM
Ou, lucky! I've only been to Oahu. ;p I want to go to all the islands some day.
spacekitty on 4/10/2011 8:32:03 PM
sel1fan101 Hey girl! I don't exactly know what the "in" styles are right now but I'll tell you some of the styles that I think are super awesome and make a statement. Jean shorts (the short ones that aren't too-too short) and ankle boots and a tank top, flowy tops that don't fit perfectly and fall off the shoulder a little bit with skinny jeans with Converse or boots, a tunic or long blouse and capri leggings and flats, a jean skirt over capri leggings and Converse, a camisole with a cardi over and jeans and mid hight boots! Love Alwyas, Layla
kikidee12 on 4/5/2011 9:31:01 PM
Hey! I am so depressed! I really have no idea what style is "in" and have no idea what to wear to school for spring! Please help me!
sel1fan101 on 4/5/2011 4:56:57 PM
Yeah, thanks. ^^ I'll probably do that anyway, we get in fights a lot. Thanks ^^
Bri loves you <3 on 4/5/2011 9:27:03 AM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD So this guy likes me but he has a GF. He texts me all the time and gives me compliments like how cute I am, how pretty I am, how funny I am, how sweet I am and he tells me he loves talking to me, all the time. Well on Saturday I texted him for once 'cause I was really bored and I thought maybe he was with his GF but that he wouldn't let her see who it was. Well apparently she took his phone and texted me from his phone with a hate message saying she doesn't like me, she thinks I like her BF (which is not true anymore I did but he's way different then I thought he was) and she never wants me to text her BF again. Well of course I was pissed and the next morning he texted me say hi and I told him I had nothing to say to him. He kept blaming her and her jealousy issues but of course he had a part in it. I told him that it wasn't all about her and he's not being honest with her 'cause he's acting like the all innocent guy who has nothing to do it. She also doesn't trust me 'cause she thinks I wanna start something with him. And he's letting her think that! Personally I think he's being selfish because he's very clingy and all he's thinking about is how to not lose me as a friend and not lose her as a GF and he's not thinking about making her happy or anything! He wants me to be his friend but I mean that was betrayal in my opinion and he isn't being a good friend. I told him he should either be honest with his GF or stop texting me altogether. What should I do? What should I tell him? Sorry this is sooooo long!
kikidee12 on 4/4/2011 1:10:58 PM
Truth or Dare?