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sfluv on 9/16/2012 10:04:39 PM
Hey girl! No it's not confusing at all...I've felt the exact same way. And I would say it kind of depends on how old you are for whether or not he would ask you out right away or not. Maybe try not outright telling him you like him but just flirting with him and making it sorta obvious?? A couple years ago when I liked a guy who liked me back we just flirted and smiled at eachother for like an entire year and never went out...we were both totally cool with that lol
Hope this helped!! Please let me know if you have any other questions!
maggie183 on 11/4/2011 4:52:45 PM
There is a club called Story Writing!
It's basically a club that we write stories in as a group.
The president makes an application for you to fill out about your character and if it's interesting enough you become an officer and we write together.
My application is on the club if you want to see what I wrote!! WE REALLLY NEED MEMBERS!
Hope to see you writing SOON! ~Haley
fungirl123 on 8/22/2011 9:07:33 AM
Hey! I have a serious case of writers block! Can you help me with my story and get me back on track.
Plot: A girl named Charity, 14, has a twin brother named Nash. Nash dies when getting hit by a car when walking home. Charity's family starts to fall apart and she is suddenly bitter and mean to everyone.
Here is what last happened in the story:
“NASH, don’t leave me!”
The whole world started to shake.
“Charity, wake up!”
I opened my eyes and my dad was standing above me.
“Relax, it was just a nightmare!” he said.
“OK, I’m fine…” I said.
I looked at my clock. It read “4:55 a.m. July 18th”.
I lay my head back down onto the pillow. My brother died yesterday. I sighed. I dug my hands under the covers.
Lay on my right side…NO! Lay on my left side…No! I kept moving around in my bed until I realized that was wide awake. I got up.
I walked to my door and pulled it open quietly. I walked to the kitchen and turned on the light.
I opened the refrigerator.
Could you please help and answer on my profile!
fungirl123 on 8/12/2011 2:18:37 PM
hi girlie you seem super fabulous! (honestly you do no joke). Twin? How cool! Check out my clubs! & comment back on my profile!
purpleorchid on 7/23/2011 4:59:05 AM
There is a club for writers called "Born Again..."
It's a very long name...so I didn't write it all!
Anyway, it's a club for writers (That's YOU)!
What you do for the club, you ask??? The Prez. has you fill out a application for a character and then if it's approved, it goes into her story!!!!!!
We need people so I am doing some ading for the Prez.!!!
Can't wait to see you writing!
fungirl123 on 6/20/2011 6:58:33 PM
I absolutly positivly love your profile!
your icon is cool too, I had to do a project like that in art.
frenchblondie on 5/8/2011 4:51:02 PM
Hey Girl Cool Profile! I Need Some Advice On A Guy Here is the situation lol we work together And we went to these events and we danced together At one and I always have so much fun with him when were not with his other friends who Are girls he acts so sweet he offered to drive me home he makes funny faces and I laugh at him once he just stood there and stared at me while I was working and one night after work I asked him where his favorite place to eat was and he told me somewhere he liked so I said I'm gonna take you out to eat there one day okay? And he said okay... So he hadn't said anything about us going and I asked him when we were gonna go and he said I don't know and I said you want to? And he said we'll work something out ,,, and that was about the last words we spoke about the subject this other girl who knows I like him. Is all over him in front of me and she said he doesn't date anyone but he said one night that he went on what he thought was a date with this other girl ,, so my Questions Are do you think he does or doesn't wanna go out? And if he doesn't why doesn't he just tell me? And what do I do know I still like him but I don't want to bug him if he's not into me thanks so much sorry it was so long
Colorful1 on 5/5/2011 3:00:25 PM
Hey, I need some advice can you please post your answer on my profile? OK so I really, really like this guy and he knows I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me. It's hard to read the signs because he is one of those people who never really opens up to anyone and is really shy and quiet and stuff. Also, his family is very strict about letting him date girls. How can I tell if he likes me?
lip_gloss12 on 5/5/2011 2:00:24 PM
Thanks again! I hope to get one published in the next few years, but none of them are very far.
imnotarainbow on 4/30/2011 9:30:38 AM
Hey! I would hold up a little while longer if I were you, if your 'fraids he'll say no, wait for a bit and catch the signs. Does he blush when you talk to him? Super nice? (check). Trys to impress you? Get a friends opinion and you'll be extra sure, girlie. If it seems he doesn't like you that way, stay friends! Good luck!
leelayla on 4/29/2011 8:02:56 PM
hey its kailee
bout the LGBT issue ur welcome fyi i posted some more comments on that article if u wanna check it out
Luv the haters!
loveTC247 on 4/28/2011 6:48:35 PM
I have a guy friend That I really like and he is nicer to me than any other girl but I dont want to ask him out in case he says no what should I do
hollie98 on 4/27/2011 9:45:31 PM
Dont worry, I would never call someone a jerk or hater when all your doing is expressing your opinons! Thanks again so much for replying. It helped me understand other peoples thoughts. Even if mine is different.
leelayla on 4/22/2011 9:40:18 PM
Hey! Thats amazing! I'd love to read one of them! If you havent already, think about joining my VP club WRITERS WORLD. And about your question, I would definately go on a walk. Sounds simple but it really gets your mind buzzing full of ideas when you sit down and people watch. Take in their expressions and movement to see whats going on. Also, try looking at art, all types of it! Dancing, singing, painting, drawing, acting. Everything. Use your imagination and you'll be spilling with bright ideas!
Hope this helped!
leelayla on 4/22/2011 9:36:09 PM
Hey its me Kailee also know as loveTC247
i voted nay to the LGBT question because well i am catholic i am not disrespecting anybody but i just dont feel thats the right way 2 live plz put urself in my shoes i was brought up that a girl shud love a guy i no some ppl who are LGBT and i still interact with them i dont think they r below other ppl or anything like that but well....i acknowledge that there r ppl other than me and i am ok with that but talking about this stuff wud just cause more teasing and other problems at my skool do u get what i am trying 2 say? plz dont call me jerk or hater like some other ppl
Luv the haters!
loveTC247 on 4/20/2011 6:10:21 PM
Thanks a lot! Now(for the first time since the first question) a query not about a boy:
I'm a writer, and I'm in the process of writing several books. Problem is? I have writer's block in like three! Have any ideas for getting over my brain-stump?
imnotarainbow on 4/19/2011 6:01:44 PM
Believe it or not, guys kinda like some sweet stuff. Especially when their from a gal like you with a ligit apology. That letter is perf and if it doesnt work, HES the one who has the problem. Go for it!
leelayla on 4/18/2011 7:49:48 PM
emmiecandy on 4/18/2011 5:19:24 PM
Hello again! More on the Boy-I-Used-To-Like. He stayed away like e was told. Thank god. Then again, I do want to go back to being friends again, but he doesn't acknowledge I exist anymore. At least, he doesn't talk to me. He looks at me sometimes with a confused expression on his face. I was thinking of giving him a note like this:
Daniel?(that's his name) I'm sorry. I know you think I over-reacted, and I did. It was easier to be mad than hurt. I really want to be friends again though, can you forgive me? I'm so sorry.
But I think a note like that would be really sappy and he would think it was stupid. What do I do?!
imnotarainbow on 4/16/2011 1:38:37 PM
DONT WORRY. BE YOURSELF!! Wear some cute dark skinnies with a flowy floral shirt. Do you want to get kissed? If he tries, let him. Trust me, its not as worrysome as you think. Be yourself and you'll be fine!
leelayla on 4/14/2011 8:51:34 PM
thanks for answering
sorry i posted the question twice, i thought it didn't go up the first time i posted
silviec4 on 4/6/2011 10:46:05 PM
leelayla on 4/4/2011 6:47:22 PM
Hey Lee! So I'm going on my first "real" date on Friday... and I'm about to freak... me and my bf are just gonna get icecream and hang out at the park.. anyway I'm about to panic... what if he tries to kiss me? what do I wear? how the heck do I act????? I have no idea what to do and feel in over my head... HELP ME!
jaybird94 on 4/4/2011 6:47:03 PM
i have a lot of belly fat. do you know any workouts that can get me toned up really fast? (besides the one on this site) is it possible for me to have a six pack or lose most of it by june 16?
also, i have 2 chunks(?) of fat right under each boob. they go to the end of my rib cage. do you know how i can get rid of them?
silviec4 on 4/3/2011 1:39:22 PM
do you know any ab workouts that help you tone up really fast? i want to lose 20 lbs of belly fat by june 16. is it even possible? do you think i could have a 6 pack by then?
also, i have these to chunks (?) of fat right under each boob and they go until the end of my rib cage. do you know how i can get rid of them?
silviec4 on 4/3/2011 1:25:59 PM
Hey, hold up. I hope this info about your BMI was tested by your doctor, not your Wii Fit or your Aunt. There is NO such thing as a "should be" in your weight when your growing. From when your born to around 16 or 17 our weight will change dramatically. You are perfect the way you are, trust me! Now, if your doctor DID say your BMI is a little high AND that you should start a healthier lifestyle than do just that! Eat a rainbow every day (orange, green, yellow etc.) This has all of your veggies and fruit. And your thinking about purging? Please, dont do it, you are SO much stronger than that, your beautiful. Got some more concerns on preventing it? Check out this site its all about exactly what it is:
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Hope I helped!
leelayla on 3/30/2011 3:55:42 PM
I know I'm not fat but I also know that I'm not at the weight I should be. I'm about 14 lbs over, according to my BMI. I've been trying a new, healthier lifestyle but I don't know if I can do it. I have those days where I'm seriously convincing eating that little treat I want to eat and then just purging it back up. I don't want to become bulemic. I'm getting to the point where I really need help.
TheFlamingPopsicle on 3/28/2011 8:02:06 PM
Hmmm seems tough. Think over your feelings first. Do you really want him to stay away from you? If you do, then hopefully he will and you wont have to worry. If you think that you were just caught in the moment, the best thing to do is to NOT avoid him. Talk him up. Arrange something as a set time to get some things cleared up, you'll feel alot better once you know where you both stand!
Hope I helped!
leelayla on 3/26/2011 7:42:25 PM
Hi! So, just when i thought the drama was over....
The dance was yesterday. My friend and the boy-i-used-to-like didn't end up going, she kinda dumped him the same day. I was having a great time, but suddenly i got sooooo mad at the boy-I-used-to-like(who was there). I started glaring at him from across the room. He noticed and came over and asked if he did anything wrong. I said 'yep' and ran into the bathroom, taking several friends with me. Then, I started crying. One of my friends asked if I wanted her to tell him to stay away from me and I said yes. So she did. I cried for awhile longer before my mom got there and took me home. I don't know what to do on Monday when we go back. There's no way to avoid him when our middle school only has 60 people and we have the same homeroom and close lockers. So....What do I do?? Please reply soon, it's urgent...
imnotarainbow on 3/26/2011 4:13:56 PM
Hey! Sorry it took me so long! Thanks for the advice.... I REALLY appreciate it! I'm gonna try to help him out. He's only 12 (I'm 14). I <3 him. Never thought I'd say that LOL!
dixiecowgirl on 3/24/2011 6:45:21 PM
Hey, looks dont matter. at all. trust me. apoligize to him and say that you just werent used to the knew change. Tell him you still have feelings for him and that you hope this situatuon didnt change his for you.
Hope I helped! Goodluck!
leelayla on 3/22/2011 8:24:07 PM
Ok lee please respond asap!!!
This dude i liked liked me back and is extremely athletic and cute.then he got a weird haircut and it totally made him look alot less cute!!well like his friend was with us and he was listening and i said to my friends that his hair looks weird.well his friend to him and now he says he doesnt like me!!!!!!!so i asked is friend to ask him if it was cuz of what i said(he ended up not asking him)do i need to apologize?or do i tell him i still like him?doez that sound desperate!?HELP!!
i<3vollyball!! on 3/22/2011 2:54:03 PM
Stay strong is all i can say. Life has bumps, this is obviously one of them. You'll get through it with your friends and family
leelayla on 3/20/2011 9:01:04 PM
Awwwe, that must of really hurt. Its good that your happy for her though! Thumbs up for that!
My suggestion? Stay strong. Support her and dont ignore her. Make sure your feeling okay though
Give yourself a spa day ;)
leelayla on 3/20/2011 8:58:19 PM
Hey girl! OK just a little update on MakeupAdvice- I need you to post answers to some of the girls makeup questions. I have tried writing comments to some of the girls posts, but I can only write updates. Thanks!
forever12 on 3/20/2011 1:22:35 PM
Okay now I have a problem! I want to host a huge spring break with all my friends but I have a couple of probs #1 My ex is still my close friend so I wanna invite him... but I don't know any other boys... other than my cousin who hates him... I don't want him to be the odd man out... but I want him to come #2 What on earth do you do at a party like this????? I honestly don't have many friends who would be willing to host a random party... so I've never been to one... but I think it would be fun! but what do we DO?
jaybird94 on 3/19/2011 6:06:54 PM
Yes we talked yes i discussed my feelinqs for him and YES we both love eachother. I said i was positive of that. Yes I am afraid of him leavinq me even if we love eachother its a common feelinq because for me a quy like him is a lot to loose.
alyssarose on 3/19/2011 3:13:21 PM
Hey! I don't really have another question, just thought I'd tell you how today went:
He asked my friend out, and she said yes. She's SO happy, so there's no way I can be mad at her. And anyway, I told her to say yes if she wanted. SO I was happy for her, but still really sad inside. My other friends started to notice that I was still sad and she did too so that made her feel bad which made me feel bad....
So that's what happened, thanks for giving me such good advice, even if it did turn out this way.....
imnotarainbow on 3/18/2011 4:42:14 PM
Great! Thats an awesome decison! I think you'll do fine and so will he ;)
I'm glad that you love him so much that your willing to take a break, it's a really smart choice!
PS: Make sure you have "me" time now!
leelayla on 3/18/2011 11:24:30 AM
Thank ya dear... your very helpful, and it sounds like you have quite a bit of experience under your belt... I think it's time for a break... if he honestly loves me... he won't date anyone else... he'll wait for me... thank you... it's a lot more clear now... <3
jaybird94 on 3/18/2011 12:26:36 AM
Hm. You guys have busy scheds! How about arranging time to study at your local library? You dont need a test to get together just say to your dad that you need time to get out. He should understand. You could walk to the local park and meet him there. If you seriously dont have ANY time for him. You might wanna think about why your in this relatiopnship. Just a thought, if you broke up with him and parted separate ways, woudl your life be less stressful? A boyfriend should be something you love to be around because it relaxes you. I'm sure your not stressed around him and you feel totally relaxed but it's the time right?? Maybe think about taking a break??
Hope this helped!
leelayla on 3/17/2011 11:37:00 PM
THAT SUCKS!! Errrgh. Boys can be totally frustrating so dont fret. Give yourself two minutes to overthink the problem and your feelings. Then stop and push the thoughts away, dont start hating him though, call up a couple girlfriends (preferably not the ones that were asking him all the questions) because you want to talk to someone with a fresh mind. Tell them the whole sitch and ask for an opinion on how to deal. Cook dinner or stir up a new dessert! Make crafts with your lil sis or bro. Do something to get your mind off of it. Anything.
Hope this helped sweetie and good luck!!
leelayla on 3/17/2011 11:31:17 PM
OH MAN.... HAHAHAHAHA I haven't been called Jay-Jay in YEARS! anyway... umm... lost my train of thought let me grab it... oh right! well it's not so much about finding a minute of me time... it's us time... whenever I'm busy he's not... and when he is I'm not... we haven't even talked in the past two weeks our scheds are so crazy... He has track (so hot) and I have college prep (I go to the local community next fall) and it just doesn't work... I'm homeschooled and he goes to a private school. He can drive... but I can't... we just never can arrange to meet up... my dad doesn't have time to take me anywhere and both of our rents won't let us spend time alone either... it just doesn't work... I spend every spare second watching my sibs and sleeping... I just don't have time... my bf knows this... and he doesn't mind... but I know if it goes on for to long he'll doubt me... it's just human nature... anyway... some serious stuff... I just can't figure it all out...
jaybird94 on 3/17/2011 7:46:28 PM
I got your answer a little too late and it doesn't matter anyway because today he said sorry, but he likes someone else. My friend found out through his friend that he likes my other friend(a new girl who's a lot like me in personality) and he's gonna ask her to the dance. I told her she could say 'yes' if she wanted but she still feels super bad and I don't know what to do! I want to just get over him and start hating him like I hate almost every other boy I've ever met. What should I do?? I'm so confused and hurt and my chest feels full of broken glass. Sorry if this is a complicated question....
imnotarainbow on 3/17/2011 6:50:29 PM
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sassykitty60 on 3/17/2011 12:20:32 PM
Thats a toughie! I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that at (im guessing) such a young age, and so is your cousin. You should lightly bring it into a convo when your waching tv (but make sure your alone). Don't say "I saw you smoking". Just confidentaly ask "Have you been smoking". He'll feel more open to talk to you about it. But, he may deny it . If he denies it, send him an email about why you love him so much and how worried you are for him and that he knows the downsides of smoking. If he openly says he smoking just say the above. He may say he's been trying to quit for a while now..who know's? If he's serious about quitting, poke at him that he should see a counciler first. And a counciler is completely confidential.
Hope I helped! Goodluck
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forever12 on 3/17/2011 9:34:36 AM
Hi I have a question. OK here it is:
Recently I started hanging out with a cousin who used to get on my nerves but now he's like the best cousin I have (espec. on that side of the family LOL)! I don't want you to think he's a bad kid because he's not I promise he's sweet, funny, and cares about animals but he's been through a lot in his life and I mean a lot! And I found out he smokes. I don't think he smokes a lot or anything just when he can sneak a cigarette. I don't know if he knows I know he smokes so I don't know, how to bring it up to him. I want to talk to him because I love him to much to see him get addicted to those cancer causing things at this age (or any age really )! So how can I talk to him? He's an awesome kid, treats me just like one of the guys and doesn't mind at all when I hang out with him and his friends.... But he does that and it just hurts 'cause I know if he doesn't stop he'll be addicted.
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