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Can I call you jayjay?? Thanks for asking more q's! Alright, you love him, he's your one and only. I am so sorry about your mom and WOW he must be a fantastic boyfriend to help you get through that timeline of finding yourself again. The big picture is that if you could get through the above together, pffft, you can get through anything, chica! Try to make time for him if your so worried. Try taking a yoga class with him! It takes stress off your relationship and your lifestyle. Try talking to a trusted adult or school counciler to help you find some "me" time. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Do you love yourself jayjay? Do you still feel sorry for yourself? Has the hurt from your mom gotten better or worsened? That's probably whats making you so stressed and feel like you won't be a good girlfriend. Cuz your perfect the way you are, but you must believe that before you get confused into the sitch with your boyfriend. You guys will be fine though
I hope i didnt get too off topic
good luck jayjay
leelayla on 3/17/2011 2:32:44 AM
THANKS SO MUCH EMMIECANDY!!
leelayla on 3/17/2011 2:16:57 AM
Welcome back!! Number one: He didnt say anything cuz he likes you, girlie! He's definately shy and was to scared to tell you his true feelings, chica! He might actually have "other plans" or he might well of been yet again shy to ask you or afraif of rejection. It seems like your friends were crowding him quite a bit, maybe thats why he said he wanted to sit with his other friends. Don't be mad at him. Pretend you have a friend in Saskatoon and shes asking you what to do in this situation. So look at the big picture. He really didnt do anything mean, and if it did seem offensive, it was because of his shyness. Trust me, he definately likes you and I bet feels horrible right now for treating you like that. So, make the first move and write him a note explaining why you took it as offensive. Give him a "PS: I hope we're still okay". And then if all goes well, take a leap and ask him to the dance. But do it in private, without your friends, he'll feel more comfortable that way
Thanks again for asking
Hope I helped and good luck!
leelayla on 3/17/2011 2:13:13 AM
Well....that sucks! But first, I wanna say don't be so quick to say that you LOVE him. Have you discussed these feelings with him yet? The most important thing you need to do first is talk to him! Ask him:
1. How do you feel about me? About our relationship? Was the promise you made to me ligit?
2. How do you feel about long distance relationships? Can you handle the separation?
If your scared of him breaking up with you, you must not know too much about how he feels about you. So communication is key (before and after the distance).
You mentioned he has broken up with a few other girls because of distance. Did he "promise" them that he would stay with them no matter what? That might of been his way of trying to cope with the distance....hmmmmm?
So use communication, if he seems uncomfortable or avoids the questions, doesn't try to stay in touch at all or makes excuses, it may be tough, but I would start thinking about letting him go.
Hope I helped!!
xoxo and goodluck
leelayla on 3/16/2011 11:45:13 PM
I had the same sitch! Is the gal shes with when she ignores you popular? She probably is trying to look cool by having the "i dont care about anyone" attidude. Good for you for wanting to stick up for yourself. This most be really bugging you, so say what ya feel! For instance "I feel like you ignore me when your with ______. It makes me feel less of a person than her and your allowing it. I know your still my friend because as soon as she leaves, you talk to me like nothing ever happened. I just want to know you'll treat me the same with anyone else who is around".
Hope this helped, queenie!!
Good luck and just remember if she continues with this seriously immature attidude, you dont need her. Find a girlie who doesn't care who she's with when your around. You deserve it.
leelayla on 3/16/2011 11:29:55 PM
Alright Missy... #1 I AM in love with him... he's been my best friend since 3rd grade... and he knows me better then anyone and has gotten me through the hardest time in my life (my mom left and I ALMOST committed suicide) #2 Niether me or my boyfriend beleive in sex before marriage... not even close... ugh yuck... wrong.. sick... #3 I mean emotionally ready... I'm still dealing with the afteraffects of my mom leaving... and I'm an emotional mess... and I don't have time to be a good girlfriend and be there for him like I should... I don't want to be a crappy girlfriend... no one can handle that... it gives off the illusion (even if it's not true) that you don't care for the person if you don't have time for them... I just... don't know...
jaybird94 on 3/16/2011 9:44:09 PM
leelayla ur amazing
emmiecandy on 3/16/2011 8:42:47 PM
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emmiecandy on 3/16/2011 8:40:18 PM
Hi again! Can I ask a few more questions? I hope so because here I go:
My crush has been sitting with me and my friends at lunch, so I was happy. But then, today, he didn't. I asked my friends what happened and they said that he had said he knew I liked him and he had known for awhile. Why didn't he say anything?! Also, they said that they said he should ask me to the dance and he said he had 'other plans'. One of my friends went to talk to him and he said he had other friends to sit with. So he basically dissed us. I was mad at him and confused. I got out my book to read and he came over to our table and asked why we wanted him to sit with us. I don't really know what my friends said, because I got up and walked really fast into the bathroom. One of my other friends was in there. All of me and my friends are mad at him. I spent the rest of the day really sad with my nose in my books, not looking at him except to glare every once in awhile. I have no idea what to do tomorrow and I don't know if I'll ever be able to be his friend again. What do I do?!
imnotarainbow on 3/16/2011 7:21:03 PM
I NEED SOME HELP
I'm 13, and I'm in love. I know what your sayinq, 13??? IN LOVEE? ITS CRAZY! Yes it is, and im positive that I love him. Im 1000000000000% Positive, but i need some serious help. Next year, he's qoinq to his freshman year of hiqh school, and im qoinq to eiqth qrade. Since were both in 2 seperate qrades, im afraid that when he qoes to hiqh school, he miqht break up with me. Althouqh he promised me he never would and were very much in love, he's brokin up with a few qirls before just because he didnt see them enouqh. Im positive i love him, but i dont want that to happen to me! HELP
alyssarose on 3/16/2011 2:36:39 PM
thanks for ur advice! ur literally the only person ive ever told. and when i read what you told me i looked back and remembered a boyfriend i had and the way i felt with him. Now im convinced im straight. thanks again!
sassykitty60 on 3/15/2011 8:47:30 PM
Hi! So i have this problem. My best friend is totally ignoring me around her other friends. Ive noticed she does it when shes around this one girl mostly. but once her friend leaves, she talks to me constantly! Whats her deal? Is she embarrassed by me or what? She's treating me like dirt andi dont like it. My mom noticed it once it first started and weve talked about it a lot. Its getting on my nerves. I asked her one time (thanks to my moms advice) wat was going on and she made up some lame excuse. What should i say next time. Im gonna say something later this week, but what should i say? im pretty shy but i dont want to lash out at her. I just want this to be over with!
thank you soo much! I appreciate it! Plzz comment back on my profile.(:
dramaqueen92798 on 3/15/2011 2:42:50 PM
Hey, your in love. At 16? Ask yourself are you "in love with him" or are you ""seriously attracted to him"? If you've definately fallen for each other, nothing will tear you apart. Sure, something might happen, a bump in the road, but that's why you fell in love with him in the first place right? Because he would always be there to catch you. Tuck those fears away and confide in a close friend, she may be able to relate. Your boyfriend said he'd wait for you to be ready? ARE YOU READY? If your talking about being sexual active, than I would hold off, your boyfriend sounds very supportive and cares about your feelings, he must really want to know how you feel and if your writing to me about this, you seem worried and uncomfortable. Don't do something you OR YOUR BOYFRIEND doesn't want to do!
Hope I helped!! Good luck!!
PS: You'll know the right decison when the time is right!
leelayla on 3/15/2011 1:43:25 AM
leelayla on 3/15/2011 1:40:06 AM
Don't worry! Your hormones are totally wacky right now, but you might also be born that way!It's probably not that you hang more with girls than guys. Next time your with the girl from maths, check in with your feelings, then talk to the dude on the soccer team and check your emotions then. They may change day to day and thats definately normal, all you need to do is explore yourself. Just remember love is love whether its boy and girl, boy and boy or girl and girl!
Stay strong, Sass
leelayla on 3/15/2011 1:29:24 AM
Don't worry. Your going through a wacky phase of hormones, so you could blame it on that. Or you could actually be attracted to girls, which is nothing to be ashamed of! Love is love whether its boy and girl, boy and boy or girl and girl. It's probably not because you hang more with girls than guys. Unfortunately, all you can do is explore your feelings. Check in with your thoughts when your sitting beside the girl in language class or the guy on the soccer team. They may be totally different feelings one day to another, that's your hormones working up a storm. And you can't decide that you want to like guys if you weren't born that way (and you can't settle for being bi-sexual either, that's life). Talk to a trusted adult or school counsler about your emotions. You'll figure it out in the end!
Stay strong, Sass
leelayla on 3/15/2011 1:20:38 AM
Always biting your nails, eh? Try to go a day without biting, then try a little longer. You could get you friends in on it by telling them to snap twice if they catch you biting. You could also invest in a drugstore product, that stops you from biting your nails by applying a nasty tasting polish. It's clear, so you wont have to worry about others seeing it!
Hope I helped!! Good luck!!
leelayla on 3/15/2011 1:09:47 AM
Hey! So I need some serious help. I'm in love. I'm 16. I have no time for a boyfriend. My boyfriend is supportive and oh so perfect for me. My church believes in no dating, just courting. I feel like if I go forward with my boyfriend it'll destroy our realationship... but I can't be apart from him... It hurts to much... I don't know what to do... he already said he would wait for me to be ready, and I have this strong gut feeling if we don't step back for a moment, something will tear us apart... it's true love... but I feel like SOMETHING will tear us apart... I don't know what to do.... help me
jaybird94 on 3/14/2011 11:20:37 PM
hey i need advice. ive never told anyone this, but i think im kind of attracted to girls. but i dont want to be! I want to like guys and guys only. Im just confused. is it my hormones being weird or something? is it that i hang out with girls at school more than guys? I dont want to be a lesbian! ill settle for bicurious though. and can you respond on ur profile plz? thanks
sassykitty60 on 3/14/2011 9:52:50 PM
love your profile and picture. tehe u give good advice
emmiecandy on 3/14/2011 1:15:33 PM
im always biting my nails !
emmiecandy on 3/14/2011 1:15:01 PM
Your welcome, girlie! Mom always has the answers, right? Sometimes we get all stressed out about asking and then when we finally do, we wonder why we were so worried!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 8:43:30 PM
Thanksies! I think she's just so beautiful and an awesome role model. Successful, intelligent and gorgeous.
leelayla on 3/13/2011 8:32:06 PM
Thanks for visiting back here! That question has multiple answers. Here's a basic understanding of it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex
It's best to discuss this with your mom or close family member, you'll get more of a modern understanding of what exactly it is.
Hope I helped!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 8:19:55 PM
u look soomuch like alexis bledel but dirty blonde hair instead of brown
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 8:17:07 PM
i need some advice.
what is sex?
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 8:01:56 PM
Your parents probably have a good reason they dont want you to date, whether it's age, maturity or responsibility. I don't want to be the one to burst your bubble but you should respect your parents decison. It'll will be the right thing to do and when the time comes that you CAN date, it'll be that more special! Remember that boys come and go but your parents trust stays forever. And as it seems, you think he might like another girl? It's not a safe bet to ask him out. Also ask yourself if you TRULY want to date him, or are you trying to "win" him over the other girl he might like... Check in with your feelings first, then make your decison, just know that respecting your parents will most likely be the one you wont regret in the future.
leelayla on 3/13/2011 7:49:45 PM
Here's a link that explains what it is:
Discuss this further with your mom or close female family member. It's normal that your curious, girlie!
Hope this helped!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 7:40:11 PM
thanks so much! at first i was kinda embarassed, but my mom helped me ALOT. THANKS!
doedoenet on 3/13/2011 7:36:37 PM
Sure, everyone wonders what its like and girls are curious about it, they want to know more. Dont judge yourself, but why dont you talk to your mom about your toughie. Of course, its embarrasing but everyone (including your mom) has been there. I suggest waiting longer until you know what your getting into and are a bit older and have more knowledge and an understanding about what it really is and means to do it.
Hope this helped! And thanks for asking!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 7:35:20 PM
OH and comment on my profile for ADVICE ON EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING ! i will reply there unless u tell me u want me to reply on your own . I ANSWER UR MOST CONFUSING EMBARASSING ODD OR NORMAL QUESTIONS.
p.s LEELAYLA is awesome as well <3<3<3
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 7:30:24 PM
i really lik a guy i think he liks me too but he liks another girl too! even tho my parents dont want me to date yet should i ask him out????
starathlete on 3/13/2011 7:27:42 PM
That seens really odd. Consult your mom first, see what she has to say and dont be embarrased about it. Go see a dermatologist for a quick second look to make sure its nothing serious!
Good luck, girlie!!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 7:26:36 PM
ok so this is kinda weird but whats a condom?? nd cud u answer on here cuz my profiles not visible thanks
onetwothree on 3/13/2011 7:22:19 PM
I have a few embarassinq questionsss.....
I love to masterbate. but i always feel dirty and wronq after i do it. It feels qreat in the moment. But so wronq after that.
Where can i buy a qood vibrator?
And is there any other ways to masterbate without a vibrator?
alyssarose on 3/13/2011 7:03:40 PM
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 7:03:11 PM
It doesn't hurt, it doesn't itch, I dont wax, but its been there since Feb. It will NOT go away.
doedoenet on 3/13/2011 7:01:45 PM
Hi again Emmiecandy!
That sounds like a tough sitch. When your a teen, your hormones are totally all over the place and so is your body hair but please dont wax or shave it, the sensitive skin and hair will forever be ruined. Trust me though, your the only one that notices it. Everyone has flaws and if thats your biggest one, than your lucky, so dont fret. Instead, FLAUNT IT! Wear bikinis, because you can! Consult a doctor if the hair appears suddenly or if you see hair appearing where there was no hair before. This can be a sign of a serious medical condition or a symptom of a chemical imbalance. If it's from "down there" you can shave some of it, but it's absolutely normal. Everyone has hair on every part of your body except for your palms of hands and soles of your feet, and that's a well-known fact. All over your belly, there's not much you can do. But remember, your beautiful!
Hope I helped!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 6:55:15 PM
Hmmm... a red line above your lip. First ask yourself these questions:
1. Does it hurt? Is it itchy or does it peel? It could be dry skin, if thats the case, apply a moisture cream such as "Aveeno Positively Nourishing". It works wonders for your skin
2. Has it been there for a while? Or did it just appear? It could possibly be a scratch that you never felt. It happens more often than you think. Don't stress, just wait it out for a day or so and it should disappear.
3. Did you wax? If so, it's almost definate that your skin's just a tad irritated from the pull and tug. See above.
Hope this helped! And good luck!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 6:40:13 PM
thanks so much u give detailed long answers.
I love it !!
I have a prob. I have hair on my stomach, i want it to be less visible but i dont want to shave it ! HELP !
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 6:29:55 PM
I have this wierd red line right above my lip that looks like I got smeared my lip gloss. It's soooo ugly. HELP!
doedoenet on 3/13/2011 6:22:58 PM
Thanks so much! And I love your username, so original! So there's a dance and your shying away from the dresses which is totally fine! What should you wear? I've got some pretty cool ideas:
Number one is a pair of basic dark wash skinnies. They work well with any kind of outing! Make sure you can move though! These jeans can be found anywhere! But the perf dancing bottoms are jeggings, the look of a jean, the feel and movement of a legging! Check it out--->
To go with it add a shirt that reflects the fun side of you!Find something that fits your curves and has a flowy feel. I love this chic shirt from American Eagle Outfitters, heres a link----->
Also, lace shirts are edgy and flirty so rock something like this from Forever 21---->
Shoes...the classic ballet flats are your best choice. Any colour like black, cream or white works awesomely with a zangy outift.
Next question: If someone asks you to go and you DO want to simply agree, then relate to the dance like this: " Sure, I'd love too, I hear the decorations are pretty cool, It'll be really fun going with you"
If you want to say no? Politely say no and add a reason why like this: "Oh, I'm really flattered but I'd like to go solo, sorry".
But maybe you want to go with someone else instead? Say "I've been thinking that ____ was going to ask me, I picutred myself going with some else. Thanks but I'm really sorry".
Hope this helped! Have a fun time!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 5:55:58 PM
Anywhere! Forever 21, H+M, Urban Behaviour and vintage stores arre full of these classics! So instead of the brand name clothes you want, try out a vintage store in your town or city!
PS: Your welcome!
leelayla on 3/13/2011 5:26:43 PM
omg ! u dont look a thing like alexis bledel
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 5:24:29 PM
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emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 5:23:46 PM
Hey, I love your profile, you seem cool! I do need advice though. I have my first dance coming up on the 25th(4th thru 8th grade, I'm 7th) and.... I'm clueless. If I don't wear a dress(I'm Not a big dress person), then what should I wear? If someone asks me what should I say(Both if I want to go with them and if I don't)? And really, what should I expect when the night comes? Thanks so much if you answer!
imnotarainbow on 3/13/2011 3:36:12 PM
hi leelayla !
thanks so much so u can get thesee items fromm which stores??
emmiecandy on 3/13/2011 2:45:26 PM
The best date outfit, huh? Well, It all depends what your doing! The typical movie and dinner date? Rock some dark washed skinnies with a floral, flowy, flirty shirt. A cute wedge shoe fits it all. Here's an example of a perf shirt:
Hair and makeup? Try a side braid like Leighton Meester's with some peachy shadow and coral lips!
Ta-da! You'll be shimmering the whole night through!
leelayla on 3/12/2011 6:40:50 PM
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ASK AWAY ON MY PROFILE!
Nothings too personal!
SO GET THE ANSWER YOU WANT.
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