Hey girl! Aw I'm so sorry :-( It sounds to me like you don't want to like him but you sort of do and him liking another girl made you realize that. Been there..haha
Anyway, you can be attracted to someone without really truly wanting to be with them. Keep reminding yourself of the reasons why you told him you didn't like him and honestly thought you didn't like him..if that makes sense.
When someone likes you and gives you attention, it's very hard not to fall for them (if they are at all good looking :p), so I get what you're going through. But take this as a sign...you and him weren't meant to be (at least for right now). Sooner or later you will find another guy.
I know how much it hurts when the guy you like starts going out with someone else. It's happened to me..oh let's see..5 or 6 times haha After the first week, it starts to feel like less and less of a big deal and you get used to the fact that he's dating someone else (and start counting the days until they break up ) no seriously tho..at our age it is SOOO rare that a relationship lasts more then a handful of months.
Soo try keeping that stuff in mind. And maybe now this guy will be more willing to give a friendship a try! Just make sure you're SURE he's worth your time.
Feel free to comment back with anymore questions or anything..good luck!!
xoxo,
maggie183<3

maggie183 on 9/10/2012 8:17:53 PM

Meaning of your color and birthday!!
Don't cheat, If you are honest, this tells the truth. It's pretty good. Write your answers on a piece of paper,


and NO cheating!! The answers are at the bottom.


1. Which is your favorite color out of: red , black , blue , green , or yellow ?

2. Your first initial?

3. Your month of birth?

4. Which color do you like more, b ! lack or white?

5. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.

6. Your favorite number?

7. Do you like Flying or Driving more?

8. Do you like a lake or the ocean more? &n bsp;

9. Write down a wish (a realistic one).


When you're done, scroll down. (Don't cheat!)











Answers

1. If you choose:
Red - You are alert and your life is full of love.
Black - You are conservative and a ggress ive..
Green - Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.
Blue- You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from the ones you love..
Yellow -You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.

2. If your initial is:
A-K You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.
L-R You try to enjoy your life to the maximum & your love life is soon to blossom.
S-Z You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.

3. If you were born in:
Jan-Mar: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.
Apri l-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.
July-Sep: You will have a great year and will experience a major life-changing experi en ! ce for the good.
Oct-Dec: Your love life will not be great , but ev entually you will find your soul mate.

4. If you chose:
Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.
White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.

5. This person is your best friend.

6. This is how many close friends you have in your lifetime.

7. If you chose:
Flying: You like adventure.
Driving: You are a laid back person.

8.. If you chose:
Lake : You are loyal to your friends and your lover and are very reserved.
Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.

9. This wish will come true only if you send this to five people in one hour. Send it to ten people, and it will come true before your next birthday

liamsgirl on 9/4/2012 9:35:39 PM

That's a tough one then..I would just trust your instincts. I don't know him or you so I can't tell you what to do. I still say if he's into pretty bad stuff, he's not gonna be worth it tho. I also have a feeling that this year you will end up crushing on some guys in some of your classes at school and he will probably meet some girls at his school..and that might be just as well. It's your call tho. Did you start school yet?

maggie183 on 8/22/2012 3:53:39 PM

I don't think this guy is worth it..especially because he keeps pressuring you and not taking no for an answer. Any good guys will respect you and your decisions. SO you need to be brave and tell him that NO you won't go to homecoming with him and that you are sorry but you don't feel that way about him and nothing he says is going to change your mind. Be firm, be confident..he will get the message. And then if he keeps texting you don't respond. And if he keeps texting you after you haven't been responding for a week or so..he can now be qualified as a "stalker" who is "harassing" you. And you need to tell an adult.
I know what you mean about feeling sorry for him. He sounds like he has some major issues which is pretty sad but it is NOT your problem or responsibility.
Btw the same exact situation happened to my bff. Well almost the same. This guy in our grade was talking to her on Facebook and asked her for her number. She gave it to him even tho she didn't know him that well and after that he was constantly texting her, saying she was the most beautiful girl in the world and stuff like that. Then he started sharing all his secrets with her..one of them being that he is really depressed and is considering killing himself. My friend then FREAKED out and told her mom who called his mom. He kept texting her long after that, pretty oblivious to the fact that she told his mom he was thinking of committing suicide. She kept texting him back because well..she felt bad for him. But sooner or later she realized that she could feel bad for him and not be involved..and that she wasn't responsible for his problems. She had done her part to help him by telling her mom and so she stopped responding to his txts.
Anyway not the exact same situation..but I think you get my point. You don't like this kid you said it yourself. So WHY would you consider going to homecoming with him?? I'm telling you right now that's a bad idea.
Tell him once and for all that you don't like him and he needs to leave you alone. Texting you 5 times a day after you've already told him this..isn't normal or nice. Good luck!
xoxo,
maggie183<3

maggie183 on 8/15/2012 6:29:24 PM

Well, first, I have to say you might have made him think you liked him. Who knows, maybe that's the reason he likes you, too! I think you should try talking to him in a friendly way(absolutely NO flirting!!) and make it obvious you're NOT interested. Go all the way, even talking about other guys in front of him(?) and saying that he was a really good FRIEND. If that doesn't work, you can start flirting with other guys and ignoring him. If that still doesn't work, step aside with him(NOT awkwardly) and tell him you might've been given him mixed signals, but you are definitely NOT interested. He'll probably get it by the time you start giving him the cold shoulder. Good luck! ;)

pretty123 on 7/18/2012 5:59:22 PM

Hey girlie! First of all I don't think you led him on. You friended him on FB, which is a pretty innocent thing to do. About him constantly texting you, don't feel like you have to respond all the time. Only respond if you want to. And about things being awkward, unless you act like you're really uncomfortable, I don't think anything will be a problem. You can continue to talk to him and just treat him like you treat your friends (since you still wanna be friends with him). Just relax girl! Everything is fine!

kikidee12 on 7/16/2012 5:25:53 PM

Hey girl! Thx for coming to me for advice! I really appreciate it!

Ok, so based on your question, this is what I got:

I think you should wait until he gets back from vacation and have a talk with him. Tell him that you are flattered by his behavour, but you aren't ready for a boyfriend. However, you would still like to be friends. Then he should back off and you guys can remain good friends.

Hope I helped

xXMissBehavedXx on 7/14/2012 12:31:16 PM

No problem I'm more then happy to help!
Ok so this is my take on things (I could be wrong of course but based on experience I have had this is how I see it):
I think Mark has been more openly flirting with Kenzie because of two reasons
a) He doesn't like her in the way he likes you so the pressure is off and he knows she's not available .
b) He is showing off for you, by showing that he can be flirty and fun..although he may not be brave enough to be that way around you yet.

Bottom Line: I think he does like you, and as soon as when of your friends (Kenzie) starts to think the same...well that's always a good sign!

As for should you get over him since you aren't going to same school next year...I would say for the time being no. In a way going to different schools makes it harder to get to know eachother but in another way it can be looked at as a good thing.
For instance you both really connected this summer and sometimes cliques and all of that annoying stuff can get in the way at school. I'm not saying you wouldn't like eachother if you went to the same school! Not at all...but you implied you hang out with a different crowd then him and although that SHOULD NOT matter, sometimes it has it's way of complicating things. Also since you won't be seeing eachother at school the motivation to see eachother elsewhere will be even greater
By the end of gym I would say you should make one final step towards letting him know you're interested. It doesn't have to be asking him out of course but you could ask for his number (if you don't have it) or simply say "It was really fun getting to know you this summer. It made taking summer gym less of a drag" or something like that!
That will leave him the message that you are interested in him..and then I would suggest keeping in contact over Facebook or texting for the rest of the summer and see where that leads!
I hope everything goes well for you Feel free to keep commenting<3!
Oh and thanks for the offer..I don't need advice about anything right now but I'm sure I WILL (knowing me :p) and I'll definitely keep you in mind!
xoxo,
maggie183<3

maggie183 on 7/10/2012 5:24:43 PM

Wow, I never knew anyone posted on my profile, sorry for never replying! Thank you for all the tips, all of you!

LLL328 on 6/30/2012 9:06:26 PM

Potter fan!!!!

Yuliya V on 11/4/2011 6:43:12 PM

Hey! You seem fun! I looove She's the Man! It's so funny! I have never listened to Ellie Goulding but I have heard of her...I always was waiting for someone famous to have my name! NOW I DO! Well technically is isn't MY name but I go by it! Haha! I love chocolate too! SOOOO GOOD! I think it's cool that you are best friends with your sis. I wish that was what is was like with mine but it's more like my two older sisters are super close and then they just leave me out of everything and make fun of me...so I hate it. Haha anyways...how has your summer been?
♥Ellie

topchef88 on 6/19/2011 8:44:58 PM