Hey again I have another problem, it's not quite as bad as the first one but i didn't know who to talk to and then i remembered that you helped alot the first time.

Okay, so there is this guy, Sean, that I've liked since we were in 6th grade. We are now sophomores in high school. But in 8th grade i started liking him so much more and my feelings have just grown so much and now I am pretty much obsessed with him. it's so hard to concentrate in school because we are in all of the same classes, which I'm not complaining about
But then, in the middle of my freshman year, he started hanging out with one of my friends, Amber. I never really cared because obviously my friends can hang out with whoever they want. And Amber and I have never been like bestfriends, just friends, so she had/has no idea I like him. But then over summer Sean joined cross country, which Amber and I are also in, and we had morning runs with the team, so everyone would hang out. And then I found out that the only reason Sean joined cross was for Amber. I was really upset about that. I just dealt with it though and tried to hang out with him as much as possible.
And then Amber and Sean started going out like a month ago. I just hate seeing them together. And since Sean is in all of my classes I get to talk to him all the time. And I know that it is terrible, but i kind of flirt with him, but it's not like overly excessive. I know that it is so wrong, but I can't help it. And I think that he flirts back, which i could just be delirious and make all of it up in my head and crap, but i really think that he flirts with me. And just a few weeks ago he started texting me.
It started out just things like "where is practice tomorrow?" and "did we have homework in Biology?" but then last saturday, after a cross country meet, he texted me and we had a conversation for like two or three hours. I finally realized that it's probably not a good idea to text him and just ended the conversation.
I have no idea what is wrong with me. I know that it's bad enough to have a crush on my friend's boyfriend, and yet I had no problem texting him for hours. He actually just texted me not too long ago but I ended the conversation short because I feel terrible about it. And it's not like he's cheating on Amber or anything, but I just feel like it's wrong for me to talk with him. But I just can't stop my feelings for him. Anytime I tell myself to forget about him they just get stronger. And I don't know how to just forget how much I like him. But I also don't want them to break up because she seems like she likes him and stuff.. I just don't know what to do.
Please, please, please help.
Thank you

P.S. Sorry it was so long:/

tinyturtle40 on 10/12/2011 10:49:45 PM

I'm more than ready! I've already done shopping so I'm ready to go!

nerdisthewurd26 on 7/22/2011 10:35:21 AM

Thank you! Also, I have a friend that is really nice and popular, but when I sit with her and her friends at lunch, I feel intimidated, should I feel that way?

nerdisthewurd26 on 7/17/2011 10:20:09 PM

Hi! I need help again. You know Kaina and how I've had trouble with her and stuff. I'm back with another problem. In the middle of our softball season, apparently I called Haley dumb and retarded in front of the whole team because she forgot something in her car! I didn't! Then a few days later after this supposedly happened, Kaina sent me very nasty texts about it and was being very rude! She texted me and was like "Why did u call Haley dumb and retarded?" I replied back " I honestly don't know what you are talking about." Then she said " Don't lie, I know you do." Then I said back " I seriously don't know!" Then Kaina said "Last night at your softball game you called her dumb and retarded in front of the whole team!" I told her " No I didn't, we didn't even have a game last night! If I did, the coach would have found out about it and would have benched me!" (we only have games mondays, wednesdays, and firdays. she had texted me on wednesday.) Then she said " Whatevs bye". Then I was in complete tears about it. When I talked to Haley that night, I told her, sorry if I offended you in any way. She said it's alrite. Haley and I are good, well atleast I think so, she had to be nice during softball season otherwise coach would bench her. Softball is over now but I do not know if Haley is mad at me or not. I went to the Ice Cream Parlor with my parents yesterday, and Kaina and her cousin showed up while we were eating our ice cream. Kaina didn't acknowledge me at all and I didn't acknowledge her at all either. Just when I thought it would get better, I saw her at the pool today, she said hi to me and that was about it. Then her mom came to get her. Then a few minutes ago, it hit me hard. I am so excited to go back to school, but I am very worried. Kaina's parents are divorced, and last year, her brother moved in with her dad to go to a different school. That also might happen with her this coming school year. I'm very worried that she is going to school her next year and make my life miserable again! I'm worried that she took my friend Karah away again! I always sit by Karah, Grace, and Mckenna at lunch. I'm really afraid that she took Karah away and I won't be able to sit next to Karah, Grace, and Mckenna anymore because Kaina might be sitting with them! I am so worried that she is going to make my life miserable like it was last year! I am sitting here right now being so worried that I am nauseous and crying right now! PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I am falling apart!!!!

nerdisthewurd26 on 7/14/2011 11:08:23 PM

srry i haven't replied for a long time. i have been busy! i made cheerleading captain (along with another girl) and i made it into advanced choir at school!!!!! anything new happening in ur life? can't wait to hear from u!!!!

CheerleadingCutie on 6/30/2011 10:41:03 AM

Remember to dress in clothes you wouldn't be afraid to bend over in or get all sweaty/ The moves will work your core (abs, back and hips) to strengthen and define them.The moves aren't too complicated. if you have an injury or condition that may cause some discomfort! The steps can be modified for your safety. If you have not exercised in a long time, please see your doctor to obtain clearance to start classes. Zumba can be tough, so go at your own pace, listen to your body! Have fun. -Kat

thetruth on 6/6/2011 1:45:10 AM

I am going to be in 7th grade this year. Also, do you know of any ways to raise money for a trip? Do you know of any websites that you can buy stuff for your bedroom on?

nerdisthewurd26 on 6/4/2011 12:50:59 PM

Kaina didn't end up doing the dog walking buisness. But, Haley still is. It is all good between Kaina and I now, she sent me a text last night that said "Lizzy I am sorry for bein rude i feel horrible, it is hard not to be your friend. So we are good now.
It turns out, Noah gave me the wrong number for his Ipod. I saw him at the local ice cream shop yesterday so I talked to him and told him that he gave me the wrong number. I gave him mine and he texted me yesterday and we texted all day long. He also told me that I was invited to his birthday party. =)

nerdisthewurd26 on 6/3/2011 8:03:52 AM

Hey I'm back with another Haley and Kaina problem. Haley a few months ago was planning on starting a dog walking buisness this summer. Then Kaina goes and asks Haley if she can be in it with her. But, Haley said no because they already had way to many people helping. Now, Kaina decides that she is goiing to open heer own dog walking buisness, she asks if I want to be in it and I say yes but, Ifeel mean if Haley already started hers, I don't wanna cause any drama. (but she said we are going to raise money for charities) She then said, well i was going to do one anywayss and hers is for no reason ours is for lots of reasons. Then I said, well ya I know but I feel guilty about it. Kaina then said, well then u dont have to b in it if u don't want to and if u dont want to then u dont hav to so dont lie and say its fine i want the truth. I said I want to, but I still feel really guilty about it because Haley already started hers. I don't want to be caught in the middle of their argument either. Should I be in it with Kaina? (p.s. I was planning on doing charity work this summer anyways)

nerdisthewurd26 on 6/1/2011 7:31:18 PM

Hey- I have another question now. Would it be wrong of me to have my bestie ask him out for me?

nerdisthewurd26 on 5/27/2011 9:57:38 PM

Hey I need advice on a guy I like. Okay, his name is Noah. He is really outgoing, and I have a HUGE crush on him. I'm waiting for him to ask me out or for me to get the guts to ask him out myself. I just don't know which one to do! Which one should i do? How do I flirt with him? He also doesn't have a fone, but most of the time I can get ahold of him on his Ipod. So earlier, my friend and I were talking to him cuz he asked me to go sit in the shade with him. We were talking about who liked him but we never told him. So I promised to tell him who likes him if he told me who likes me. He also jokes around alot. He told me first, he was just jokin around so he said Santa Clause likes me. We were giving him clues about who liked him. But then i said, Noah it's me. Then he said are you serious? I said no I don't like you even though i do. I really want to go out with him! What do I do? (p.s i was sitting there the whole time with a big smile on my face.) does that give anything away?

nerdisthewurd26 on 5/25/2011 5:17:52 PM

i just liked the star signs: Sagittarius fan page. 12:41 pm west coast time

CheerleadingCutie on 5/14/2011 3:42:11 PM

hey sorry that i havent gotten to talk to u in awhile. u answered one of my questions about a kid named Storm a long time ago.

i just wanted to thank u for helping me out with that. it helped alot. i talked to him about how i he made me feel and lately he has been nicer about it.

thank u again!

tinyturtle40 on 4/28/2011 4:47:25 PM

Thanks girly!
I'm going to make a comforter, one side zebra print and the other purple. Also, I'm going to make pink pillows. I would get some stuffed animals, but I already have a ton of them! =)
Thanks again <3

nerdisthewurd26 on 4/28/2011 7:42:03 AM

4 fb look me up. click 4 more and mine is the 1 w/ the cat as the profile pic

CheerleadingCutie on 4/23/2011 10:59:47 PM

hey! so do u mean comments by messagin? im a little confused on that! and if u mean petite syle as in womans petite, i do 2! i have some lower cut shirts and i LOVE skinny jeans! i have nice legs, if i do say so myself! if u dont wanna list sammie as ur sister then dont. itll clue her in that ur not totally happy w/ her. plus, its ur fb not hers so do wat u want. speakin of fb i just got 1! mayb we can figur out how 2 friend each other... i dont have a utube account but i luv goin on utube! omg! rebecca black SUX in that vid but she is normally an ok singer. cant wait 2 hear from u!

CheerleadingCutie on 4/20/2011 10:27:43 PM

gmoty123- Hey! If you see him in the hall, just say hi. You could always try to start a conversation and say stuff like "you seem really cool!". If you have a facebook, are you guys friends? If so, maybe when he is online start a conversation about a school event, his classes, ect. If you dont, do you have any friends that know him as well? Try to hang out with them when he is talking to your friend. Just make conversation! Byeee!

loveforever21 on 4/16/2011 6:32:38 PM

@ces123
You should show them that your outgoing any fun! Be creative and show them a totally awesome you Dont try too hard because then people can think your desperate. Talk to alot of boys even if you dont have a crush on them because they can start to like you or they might have a friend.. haha. Good luck!

loveforever21 on 4/13/2011 4:36:30 PM

Hi my name is carly boys dont seem to like me. how or what could i do to impress them

ces123 on 4/12/2011 8:41:40 PM

hey i read a post saying you could help answer questions
k this story is long and im going to apologize now. but i have a class where i only have about six friends and about 3 weeks ago we got to sit anywhere we wanted to in class. we all sat next to eachother. there are 3rows of long tables and we are in the middle row. i was put towards the end and i sit right next to my friend Storm. on tuesday i got to class late and one of his friends, Nick, was in my seat. i just went and sat somewhere else. i saw that they would look over and laugh at me but i just ignored them. then on wednesday i got to class early and i sat next in my usual seat. Storm got in and he looked at me like he was mad. Storm is the type of guy who always makes jokes, but his jokes can get pretty hurtful, and everyone knows that he picks on me alot, but i really just get used to him since he's going out with one of my friends. but anyway,he looked at me like he was mad and then he started talking to Nick about me and said "i can't believe i sit next to her. shes so disgusting." and i can tell if hes joking, and he was being serious. i was hurt, but just ignored it. i didnt want to make a scene. then on thursday he acted like nothing happened and tryed joking with me, but i was still hurt from yesterday so i wasnt really talking with him as much as usual. and then today i got to class early again and i said in my normal seat and Storm was so mad. he came in and said "youre not sitting here. move" i didnt move and he got really mad he yelled at me and said "nobody here even talks to you or likes you. let Nick sit here" and Sean, one of my friends who sits on the other side of Storm, said "we talk to her everyday" and Storm just gave me a dirty look and said "youre disgusting and i hate sitting next to you." i said quietly "you never had a problem with it for the last 3 weeks ago" and he sort of heard and asked wut i said and i said nothing and he said "grow some ba**s (slang for some guy parts) and tell me what you said to my face." i got nervous and just sat down. im terrible with confrontations and just froze. i didnt talk to anyone that whole period because he hurt me so much. i even cried while we were watching a video. i just dont know what to do because i thought he was a friend but lately (including a few times before this) he has just made me feel so crappy. i used to cut myself, nobody at my school knows so i dont expect them to feel that bad when they make fun of me, but i am starting to feel like i used to. it hurts so much. please, please, please help:/ thank you

tinyturtle40 on 4/8/2011 10:00:06 PM

thanks for the advice!
lizzy<3

varsityFHplaya141 on 4/6/2011 5:22:50 PM

Question, :
What book should I read next? Got some recommendations?

pansyeyes on 4/4/2011 3:07:10 PM

(Response to what you said on my profile)
Well, I'm having a tough time. See if you can spend more time with another friend. Never act offended or upset, because they will try to fix the prob, which will only make it worse. Say you have a lot of homework and cannot be distracted.
Hope it works out,
Kitty

kittypryde676 on 3/30/2011 3:34:40 PM

Thanks for helping me with the omegle question! I did eventually check it out and found a few decent huumans. xD

LunaLovesYou on 3/28/2011 10:43:10 PM

Bonjour Chicka!
Do you know any make-up companies that don't test on animals? I'm an animal hugger.
Thanx

nerdisthewurd26 on 3/27/2011 2:01:47 PM