i tried asking for mod help on this but no one actually responded... here goes!

so theres this guy i really liked for a long time, and he really liked me, too. he finally asked me out about a week ago, but we cant talk! we chat on fb alot, sure, but in real life? we both clam up! my friends help sometimes, but when they are constantly telling me "talk to your boyfriend!" and telling him "talk to your girlfriend!" we both clam up! how do i talk to him (dont just say talk about what we talk about on fb, cuz it doesnt work!)

pandagirl21 on 9/20/2010 4:05:29 PM

Hi Cool Profile!! And I Need Some Advice On A Guy,, Well He Seems Really Sweet,And I See Him sometimes But I'm Having trouble Talking To him Because I'm Shy And The other Day I Was Out somewhere And He Comes Over And Asks Hows it Going And he Had His Hand Raised Up And I High Fived Him! That Seems So Weird And Dorky DO U Think he will Think That ???? Thanks

colorful1 on 8/23/2010 11:43:52 AM

thank you so much!!!
can u help me with something else too? I would really appreciate it.
I like this guy named Dan. Well he is my BGF's best friend so I got Dan's cell number from my BGF. I started texting Dan a lot and we started to be good friends. Then, i asked my BGF to found out what Dan thinks of me but it turned out that my BGF just told Dan that I like him. I was mad but me and Dan just never talked about it and stayed friends. We never actually talked irl (we only text) because it's summer now and he wasn't in any ofmy classes last year. My BGF thinks I should ask him out but I don't think he likes me. I always give himhints that I like him but we never talk about it at all. Is he just shy or does he just notlike me? Should I ask him out>
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Thanks a bunch!!!

glamgirlteen on 8/22/2010 2:16:24 PM

Hey lexieluv im not shure wat you ment but if you want some pointers on how to be a perfect girlfriend your asking the wrong girl but my bgf here says there are ways to be a good gf.he says just be yourelf.and dont cling to himlet him have time with his budds and dont EVER lie about something big or small. be fun flirty funny smile and leav the drama out .guys hate drama (well mabe gay guys like it)dont hide secrerets and just be a good friend dont be to girly or to boyish just be you cuase if he really likes you its for wjo you are not who you try to be luvs♥

luvs13 on 8/21/2010 11:20:46 PM

okay so i really like this guy he knows it but doesn't really care because i don't really show it. well he is really nice to me and all of my friends think that he likes me back. so 1 of them asked him out for me against my will and he said ew thats nasty even though he was acting like he liked me. about 3 weeks later when he knew i wasn't mad at him anymore he was being nicer than ever and constantly teasing me everyday. in a nice way. and towards like the last month of school he asked one of our mutual friends if i still like him but told or friend not to tell me. then i had that same friend to ask nick if he liked me and he said maybe i don't know. well we had band camp this year before school started and he was holding the door open and it seemed that if i was ahead of him he would try to get next to me. and almost every time i looked at him he was looking at me. or my way. so do you think he likes me or not. it has been like this for 2 and 1/2 years so i really want to know.

catlover09 on 8/21/2010 7:40:58 PM

Oh and to glamgirlteen my bgf says hi hes really kinda into this edvice stuff awh love him.(hes so imature)

luvs13 on 8/20/2010 11:50:04 AM

aw sweety im sorry dont worry about her .trust me this popular stuff really doesnt matter.TRUST me a was the exact same way you must have a gpd guy friend cuase hes right why would she care and expeshily if she treated you and your friends like crap. she not worth it.but if you would like to and i probally would say your sorry and if shes a jerk about it and then say wat your best guy friend siad hope this helps if not you can ask me some more other that thats wat i would do LUVEZ♥

luvs13 on 8/20/2010 11:37:55 AM

I have a huge problem. Well, I have a formspring (a site where you can ask people questions annonymously) and lots of my friends do too. There is this one girl who is popular so I went to her formspring. She has treated me and my friends horribly since she thinks she is better than us. So, I checked the annonymous box and said that I thought she was stuck up and mean. Little did I know, my BGF approached me and told me I didn't actually check annonymous and the popular girl knew that I said that! That was yesterday and today I have been ignoring her hoping that she forgets. Should I apoligize or ignore her still. My BGF thinks I should just say "why do u care what I think now if you never have before?" So what should I do?
Thanks!

glamgirlteen on 8/19/2010 10:59:13 PM

Hey girl, i saw you had a question that the mods didn't answer. My advice for you is this:
i think you should spend a LOT of time with your friend/crush, and enjoy the time when you guys are just friends. If he doesn't ask you out, there is a reason. And its going to be one of these four.
1. he doesn't like you
2. he doesn't want to ruin your friendship
3. he is afraid you'll turn him down
4. he isn't brave enough
No matter what the reason is, i think you should still be friends no matter what. Boyfriends come and go, but best friends are forever. So enjoy the time you spend together as friends. And if you're brave enough, ask him if he wants to take it to the next level. I hope the best for you!! Good luck!!

Infinite xoxos,
♫♥Violet♥♫

thevanillaviolet on 8/10/2010 2:11:13 PM

cool profile, I love new york too. name, age?

sixteengirl93 on 6/14/2010 3:35:52 PM