Hey girl!

I saw your mod. My family does the same thing to me (not about Justin Bieber, but I'm sure they would). My mom and brother just start to gang up on me! When there is something important that I am getting upset about, they start mocking me. They just both start talking at once and they imitate me and sing little mean songs and make what I am worried about sound stupid and they don't stop until I start crying. When i ask them to stop, it gets worse. Then, when I get really mad, my mom yells at me for overreacting. I can't stand it.

PLAN A- What you should do is sit down and talk to your family about it, but the key is, don't do it after they have made fun of you. Do it when they haven't been talking about Justin or making fun of you- just when you guys are in the car or eating dinner together. This way you will show them that it bothers you all the time, not just when they do it. They might think that it's harmless teasing, but you need to let them know that it really bothers you. Tell them that they need to respect your taste in music if they ever want you to respect theirs. Say that what they're doing offends you and that they need to stop. Speak in a serious tone of voice, and whatever you do, don't cry or get mad. I don't know about your family, but if I did that to mine, the teasing would start.

PLAN B (my preferred plan)- Next time they start teasing you, stand on the couch and scream "Baby" at the top of your lungs. When they all quiet down, which I'm sure they will, tell them, "I respect that you have an awful taste in music, but it's about time that you respected my awesome one, especially if you want to be in my wedding with Justin Bieber." Okay, well that might be a bit extreme, but I think that would end the problem right there. I wish I could watch that. Your family has been able to run over you and make you upset all this time and now you are showing them that you don't care what they think. You are your own person who can make your own choices, and your family needs to respect those choices, whatever they are.

I hope this helped! I had a lot of fun writing this, and I think that this plan will work for me, too.

pinkandpurple14 on 6/30/2010 8:19:46 AM

Hey girl, can you please not put those chains on my profile. They're not real, and they get annoying, thnks.

purpledancer733777 on 5/15/2010 1:22:41 PM

omg idk i wonder why it's closed!!

luv4evasw on 5/13/2010 5:11:59 PM

hey for sticking to a plan
-reward urself u deserve it!!
-dont overwork urself
-and only exercise 3 days a week at the most

tatertot71798 on 4/22/2010 6:22:59 PM

i think they say thats funny after laughing because maybe that the person that they are laughing at didn't get that by laughing it was funny ha ha lol
or maybe so they know that it is funny thats why they are laughing and they aren't laughing because it was stupid

luv4evasw on 4/10/2010 9:49:58 AM

Yo!!!!!! Lucky ur tall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm a shortie

Purpleboo on 4/4/2010 1:30:56 PM

that would be great you are the vp!!

luv4evasw on 3/27/2010 8:07:31 PM

thank you! <3

mizlizbiz on 3/27/2010 10:27:08 AM

hey madison,

omg...well..here is what i would do if i was in your position.
i would talk to conner and brandon. alone. i would ask them that pamela was just not ready for a relationship just yet, (well, she kind of was, but to be polite, we'll just say that) and that she wants to be just friends with B. i would tell them that i didnt hate (C and B) and that u want to be friends agian. even though pam doesnt...just let them know how u miss them. but u dont want to lose pam either. so if pam was like a sister to u, im totally shure she would understand that u miss the guys, and u dont want to be agianst them because of what happened with B.
i hope this works, and if u have anything else u can defiantly ask me, i just hope i answered this b4 things went wrong, i wish u goodluck!

gossipgirlfan101 on 3/7/2010 2:05:54 PM

great 1st post!!!!!!!

fashionalpha on 3/2/2010 9:15:33 PM

can u be a hair and makeup mod??? that would be kool!

thanx for joining!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

<3 <3

fashionalpha on 3/1/2010 8:37:48 PM