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I'm so sorry, I wrote to you like last weekend and just realized now that it never posted!! :-(
Anyways, I'm so sorry about the tough situation you're in right now!
I can't believe that kid had the nerve to say something that cold and mean to you and your friend. He just came over and randomly said that?! It sounds like you're being a great friend to this girl since she clearly seems to trust you over other people to tell her problems too. But I think she's reached a point where she needs more help then you can give her. No matter how much you comfort her or stand up for her..I think she's still going to be depressed. She sounds like she's going through a lot right now and has become pretty upset to the point where she won't even talk to her parents about it.
Do either of your parents ever talk to her parents? If so, I would recommend you tell your mom that your friend has been depressed lately and then your mom pass that on to her parents. She might be really mad at you for it at first but she would have to understand that you were only trying to help her.
A rude and heartless comment like that could effect someone pretty badly. It's just filled with such hatred..I could imagine it would make you feel pretty bad about yourself. It sounds like you are smart and strong enough to know that there was no truth in one this kid said and that he was just being a jerk. But your friend sounds like she was already dealing with some difficulties (OCD and ADHD) so it might have effected her a bit more.
Anyway, just ignore this kid when he's staring at you. He is NOT worth any more of your time or thought. You're right, what he said was unforgivable. I'm hoping he at least had the decensy to apologize. He may not be a very happy person himself right now too..hurt people, hurt people. Of course there probably were some ways you could have reacted better then getting physical..so you were right to apologize for that.
Anyway so I think you need to find a way to help your friend by making her parents aware of what's going on..or a guidance counselor (some adult who has more power to change things for her). And seriously, just ignore this boy. Don't even tell him to stop staring at you or anything..just act like he doesn't exist. He lost all respect from you and your friend and he should become aware of that.
Good luck girl! Feel free to keep commenting! Sorry again my initial comment didn't post!!
maggie183 on 10/18/2012 1:39:51 PM
Yay that's so great!! I have a feeling he wont try and push it..especially since he knows he could get expelled! Yeah people who are really touchy for no good reason, are pretty bothersome lol
maggie183 on 9/17/2012 12:24:26 PM
No problem!! Good luck handling this annoying kid..he reminds me of this weird kid that used to pester my friends and I...SO not fun. But if you handle it right, everything should go fine
maggie183 on 9/10/2012 8:10:19 PM
Yay congrats that is SO awesome about you and your friend BOTH getting great positions on thew newspaper staff!! (: I'm sure that will be such a fun part to this year!
And ugh this guy sounds so annoying and weird. Most people know to respect people's personal space and acting so impulsively (especially at school) is not acceptable. Tyler however, doesn't sound like he's grasped this concept yet. If he is not listening to you and your friends when you tell him to stop..it's time to tell an adult. I know nobody wants to be the "tattletale" but in some cases (like this one) the consequences of telling will greatly out-way the consequences of not telling anyone. Tyler's behavior is classified as sexual harassment (whatever his attentions are) and this sort of thing really has to be reported as it is pretty serious. I would start by talking to your teacher privately after class. As soon as you tell just one adult the matter is out of your hands and it is their job to fix it and make sure Tyler leaves you alone.
Whatever you do RESIST THE URGE TO HIT HIM!! And tell your friends to do the same. Because if just one of you lays a hand on him..this whole issue will become a MILLION times more complicated. You will then be blamed for the same thing as Tyler and be equally guilty (trust me..nobody will care who started it). And that it turn could turn into a very bad scene in which parents may need to get involved, you may have to meet with the principal or guidance counselor. So if you think hitting him will make you feel better..just remember that it will hurt you more then it will help you. Better to remain clearly the "good one" in this situation if you want anything to get resolved.
GOOD LUCK!! I would take action soon since it doesn't sound like this kid has any intentions of improving his behavior.
Feel free to comment back!! (:
maggie183 on 9/5/2012 6:50:53 PM
Princess Keziyah on 7/10/2012 2:29:22 PM
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Princess Keziyah on 7/2/2012 4:16:04 PM
Aw thanks so much!!! No problem, happy to help (: If you ever need advice about anything else..just comment ;)
maggie183 on 6/28/2012 5:04:41 PM
Hey girl! Omg first off I am SO sry it's taken me days to get a response off to you. BELIEVE ME when I say I've written back to you twice on two different days and both times my replies haven't posted!! It is the most ANNOYING thing and it better have worked this time!!
Ok so anyway I'm SO sorry to hear your relationship with Dylan took a not so good turn. First off I would talk to him. He promised he wouldn't go out with anyone else and he went back on his word...so he owes you some explanations! Then I think it's important to realize that if you two care about eachother enough to be in a relationship it really cannot matter what your friends and other people think. Unless one of your friends tells you Dylan's done something really bad and they are honestly trying to protect you....don't listen to them. And he shouldn't either. That is your friends problem that they are being that inconsiderate and insecure about your relationship. Talk to Dylan about this.
Why do you think you should get over him? If it's because you don't like him as much as you used to or you now feel like you can't trust him...then try to get over him, those are legit reasons.
But if it's because of your friends influencing your opinions...remind yourself that YOU like Dylan and that's all that matters.
Oh and also talk to your friends..not just talk to them STAND UP to them and tell them that enough is enough. Say that their opinions do matter you because they are your friends but they really got in the way of your relationship with someone you really liked.
If they are really your friends they will feel bad and want to help you fix things.
Good luck girl! Post back with any more questions or comments you have!!
Sry again for the delay..if you got this then YAY IT FINALLY WORKED!!!! haha
maggie183 on 6/26/2012 5:07:43 PM
Sweet! What grade are you going to next year? I'm going to 8th.
Princess Keziyah on 6/25/2012 9:27:05 PM
That sucks. Since I'm home schooled, I'm lucky enough not to have extra homework on summer break haha
Princess Keziyah on 6/24/2012 4:04:40 PM
Sweet! Yeah I am. Yesterday was my last day.
Princess Keziyah on 6/23/2012 9:38:31 PM
Pretty good. Are you on summer break already?
Princess Keziyah on 6/22/2012 9:37:27 PM
Hey I haven't talked to ya in a really long time (Music's #1 Fans was my other account). How's it going?
Princess Keziyah on 6/21/2012 4:14:47 PM
Hey girl! Yeah it's been a super long time :-(
What do you need help with??
maggie183 on 6/20/2012 1:33:53 PM
Oh cool that's so great you're going to get to spend time with him!
maggie183 on 10/19/2011 3:51:14 PM
Wow that's so cool he was in Japan! Does he live there? coool
maggie183 on 10/15/2011 10:06:59 AM
Omg wow that's terrible! That girl sounds awful...just randomly trying to wreck your friendship. It's great you two figured out what she was up to tho so you can go back to being friends
maggie183 on 10/14/2011 3:27:50 PM
That's great you two are friends again! yay! And that's really funny about your uniforms
Yeah I REALLY want to know...what was her reason??
maggie183 on 10/1/2011 5:09:38 PM
No problem! Ok, I hope everything works out
Hmm I never given school uniforms much thought since I go to public school but I think they could be ok! I guess it sorta depends what they look like :/
maggie183 on 9/24/2011 11:07:30 AM
Wow this girl has not been acting like your friend lately. It's ridiculous that she is mad at YOU about HER hair when it was her choice to dye it in the first place! Have you tried pointing that out to her? Make sure you don't let her in your house when you are babysitting again seeing as the way she is acting/talking around the little kids is very likely to interfere with your job since the kids will tell their parents and then they won't trust you since you were in charge. Is it possible she likes Dylan? Or maybe she is jealous that you are spending more of your time with him? Either way something is obviously bothering her if she is constantly trying to get rid of him. Don't let her make you feel bad about yourself. Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for you are and are nice to you. I would confront her about all of this. If she has some good explanations (they betr be VERY good lol) then you should try and talk it out with her and explain how you value your friendship but can't stay friends with someone who is abusing you. If she can't find it in herself to get over whatever it is that is bothering her, I wouldn't stay friends with her.
maggie183 on 9/22/2011 1:32:47 PM
Lay it on me
maggie183 on 9/19/2011 5:39:01 PM
Let me know if you ever have another question about anything!
maggie183 on 8/17/2011 5:48:53 PM
Aw thanks! No problem I am SO happy I was able to help you!! I just know you and Dylan are going to work out great together
maggie183 on 8/11/2011 7:35:39 PM
haha your the best thanks so much coundlnt of done it without you
peaceandlove1010 on 8/11/2011 4:13:27 PM
WOW I'm so happy for you!! I'm so glad I could help that's so great yay!! haha
maggie183 on 8/6/2011 3:25:46 PM
That's great Thanks!! Let me know if you ever need anymore help with anything!
maggie183 on 6/24/2011 6:53:49 PM
Awesome! Now if one of them likes you (which I'm sure they will), you will know they like the real you which is great
maggie183 on 6/21/2011 2:56:13 PM
Good You shouldn't have to change for them to like you though...if you don't want to wear makeup don't!
maggie183 on 6/14/2011 6:13:29 PM
Hey! Ok first of all, you are NOT a terrible person. The fact that you've been busy doesn't make you terrible. If you're afraid they are getting the message that you don't want to hang out with them, try inviting them to hang out. It doesn't have to be a one on one date type of thing it could be totally casual, just to show them that you still want to be friends. Hope this helps!!
maggie183 on 6/2/2011 6:13:27 PM
maggie183 on 4/18/2011 5:34:28 PM
No problem! Ok, well feel free to explain to me what you mean and maybe I could help you better.
maggie183 on 4/15/2011 7:21:33 PM
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peaceandlove1010 on 4/13/2011 10:18:39 PM
Never having had a bf isn't a big deal at all. Guys really don't care whether you've dated anyone before...often times they're glad if you haven't! It makes them feel like they r the only ones on your mind. And as for not asking for advice that doesn't really matter either. Sometimes its best to keep things to yourself and other times telling people about things makes them easier to handle. It doesn't mean you can't handle things alone...just that you want another opinion.
maggie183 on 4/13/2011 8:56:39 PM
First of all I want to apologize for this advice being so delayed!!! I actually wrote back to you about a week ago but for some reason it didn't post...hmm haha
Anyway I think you should really try to think about which one you care about the most. Try picturing all three of them holding hands with another girl...which one made you madder/sadder when you pictured?
It's possible Ben thinks of you as just a friend but you could start dropping hints that you like him as something more and see how he reacts!
It sounds like Dylan might really like you...its great you guys laugh a lot together...that will definitely bring you closer.
As for jj, it might be harder to have a successful relationship with him since he is 3 years older but if you really like him i say go for it!
This is the first time you had a what?
I hope this helps!
maggie183 on 4/12/2011 11:55:48 AM
ik right ,i like all animes and mangas hahahaha but some r well dumb
peaceandlove1010 on 4/7/2011 8:41:03 PM
I love the twins, too! I don't like Inuyasha and Haruhi though. The Hellsing manga is AMAZING
brooklin175 on 4/6/2011 7:15:48 PM
I LOVE DEATH NOTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well im into Inuyasha and fruits basket and the melochy of harui sumioky (i thinks thats how u spell it)and alot of other 1s i cant think of right now
peaceandlove1010 on 4/4/2011 10:54:17 PM
I LOVE ANIME AND MANGA TOO! there's actually no real reason we don't have a vp lol. so what animes and mangas are you into right now? At the moment I'm watching Hellsing, Higurashi No Naku Koro Ni, and Hetalia. One of my favorites is Death Note, and I own all of the books.
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peaceandlove1010 on 3/31/2011 8:36:03 PM
i saw your post on how u hate bieber. peace out, friend, you are not alone, lol
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well thats nice
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