Hi, well i have a few things. ok so at the beginnin of the year i liked this guy named Ricky. Then we became fiends, and next he asked me out. I was sooo shocked! None of my crushes ever have liked me back enough to ask me out. so then we fell in love, and we started holding hands, and saying i love you, and hugging each other. we lovedddddd each other soooo much nothing cud get between us. he sometimes said he was annoying and i was like no you arent youre funny and cute. and he missed up a few times wen we were dating and i forgave him. so one day in a class i had with him, i asked my bbf Justine to tell Ricky I was breaking up with him, but i was just kidding. I thought it would be funny, and right after she would tell him I would go over to his seat and teel him i was kidding. So she did it and he got eally depressed and i felt reallly bad and so Justine told him i was just kidding and i didi too. but he just stared in front of him and didnt talk to anyone. I really messed up this time. I didnt mean to hurt him at all.and then Justine told me to write a note to him and give it to her to give it to Ricky. So i did and i was panicking, like REALLLLLY PANICKING, i was afaid of wut Ricky was going to say to me or if he wud tlk to me, so i sed i was really breaking up with him. and i was crying in class wen i wrote the note. i didnt know wut else to do. and then class ended and Justine told me he wanted to talk to me outside. so i waited for my friend Justine inside the class and he just wlked right past we. i was shaking and crying now. so i met my bff Shannah in the middle of the hall nad i told her everything and then Ricky came up to me and Shannah sed so are you guys still dating and Ricky sed it was my desision and i got sooooo ad becuase its not just MY desision its both of os so i ran away to my locker and went to my next class.Ricky and i have been on and off fiends since then and its 3 months later. His fav. song is stereo hearts by gym class hereos and since the break up wenever i hear tht song i strt balling my eyes out becuase i messed up big time and i still love him. i have learned not to regret anything. but i know i messed up pretty bad. i asked him out and he sed no cuz his mom wont let him date right now. which to me sounds pretty mommas boy. but is still love him and right now im trying not to love him. but its to hard to move on. i cant move on. i know somewhere deeep down in his heart he loves me a little. i dont know wut to do? should i be his friend but secretky like him and know that i cant be with him, or not be his friend and secretly like him and know i cant date him, or should i be friends with him and ty to make him like me again? i thought since he messed up, i forgave him, and i messed up for the 1st time and he cant forgive me this only time!? i dont get it!!!! Please help me.

kit7kat on 3/15/2012 4:49:49 PM

Hey where exactlydo u put on eyeliner? Like, on your waterline, or what? On both bottom or top

tigerlily12 on 12/6/2011 12:21:52 AM

Hey. I have a long spill that i have no idea what to do about. There are these guys at my school. One of them, lets call him J, is in a couple of my classes, and he tends to mess with me, and hes nice, but he dated 1 of my friends who still worries about him and he is moving after break. the second guy, D, is also in a couple of my classes. he tends to mess with me A LOT in a flirty way, but he talks to another girl too. he hugs both of us when we walk into class, but he seems to pay more attention to me. The third guy, L, is in like half of my classes. somethimes when we are talking, J will butt in. L and i were talking about something trying to explain something to a friend. it had to do with mairrage, and L used us togerther as an example. Then the 4th guy, S, is in one class, but he always says hi in the halls and the classroom, and always smiles and tends to look in my direction during class.
if you could go to my profile and tell me what you think is going on in their heads, that would be great. I am so confused!!!!!!!!!!!!

lpulley on 12/4/2011 7:18:24 PM

it's awesome that you are a christian.i love your name!(hope i'm not being to weird). haha but i saw you post something on another girls wall so i had to post something! oh andi'm in 7th grade going to 8th.

iceyqueen101 on 6/24/2011 2:42:25 PM

thanks for the advice i will see if it works thanks lots of love

puppie-lover on 5/18/2011 9:33:17 PM

Hey,

so there was this guy that i used to like, but he said something mean to me, and i stopped liking him. but, you see, my friends think i still like him. how can i convince them that i no longer like him?

basketballcutie11 on 4/20/2011 6:07:20 PM

Thanks girl. So they'll mature about 7th- 8th grade depending how they are now? Yeah, I know that, but my mind just won't stop talking about it, lol. Today, also, some guy said, "Hey H, (my name) T (his name) wants you to hold his karate board!" Don't ask why he had one. I know he wanted him actually to do it though, cuz then he said. "dude! I wanted YOU to hold it!" lol. It's just that theyre so annoying!

ImagineGymnast22 on 4/13/2011 3:59:13 PM

thanks for replying. thats exactly what i said to him, and he totally blew me off. he said he doesnt care what i think about it cause i blamed his gf like everyone else is...should i just move on and forget being friends with him? cause he isnt treating me right and he always makes me feel bad about myself. and he is so rude about my friend magnolia just cause his gf doesnt like her. i dont know what else to do... and thanks for your help

girlivinginclouds on 4/11/2011 9:49:30 PM

1 thing any1 can tell about you is that you're chatty.but don't worry;I am too

4everdecember on 4/9/2011 5:07:20 PM

okay so i go to a private school 8 girl 8 guys in my class i dated this guys called Anthony he is funny popular but he moves wayyyyyyyy to fast like he french kisses girls and i dated him 2 times each a week and i am in love with him but is dated my best friend and she is in love with him and i am truely in love with him what should i do obey the girl rule or forget it and hurt my friend?

sierra<3 on 4/7/2011 12:50:02 AM

hey, so sorry this is long,
but i just wanted to ask your opinion on what you think i should do about this. so ive known this guy since 7th grade. im in 10th now, a soph, and he has a gf now. me and him have always been such great friends and best friends for two years. now hes with her, and all of our friends hate her, she is so rude to people all the time calling them loser and stuff cause she thinks it funny, but it not at all. im not friends with her, but my best friend, or i guess best guy friend, likes her alot alot and is so happy theyre together. and i thought thatd be great cause itll make him happy, but he totally changed. he is mean to me and he gets mad at me so easily over things like poking him which he does, or used to do to me all the time.he keeps saying he doesnt hate me, but i dont believe him. he gets mad at me for doing things he does to me all the time.all he seems to care about is that girl he dates now. and i dont know if i should stay friends with him, cause i always feel so bad about myself when im with him and that im just an annoying obnoxious person. and he told me friday i am annoying cause he was just in a bad mood she couldnt hang out after school and i was trying to cheer him up but nudging him and poking his face(which he does to me).he ended up going home and ditching me cause she couldnt hang out. he even did that to me on my bday.he said sorry two days later, but it just cause we made up and it passed. i dont know what to do but i think i should stop giving him more and more chances. he is not a good friend anymore. there are sooo many things i do he hates and then she does it and he's ok with it.sure she's his gf, but still. please tell me what to do. and i cant confront him, he told me he doesnt care what me or the other guys say about him dating her. i dont understand what his deal is. please help.
p.s. jsyk, im not jealous cause i want to go out with him or anything, i just miss having so much fun with him like we used to together and with all our friends. i want my best guy friend back

girlivinginclouds on 4/4/2011 10:03:21 PM

Hey, thanks for the advice... I told one of my friends who is close to him that I liked him and she said that he told her he liked me! So thanks so much for your help (:

balletlova on 3/31/2011 3:41:02 PM

k umm... well my bffl broke up with her bf cause he cheated on her. then that night she got back together with him and told me that he kissed multiple girls for dares then we were like that doesn't matter he still cheated on you and she said that it's not cheating if it was a dare and we were like yeah it is still cheating but she was like okay and she still got back together with him anyway and so my question is how can i tell her that no matter what he says if he did it once without telling her he's gonna do it again without sounding like i like him cause i dont and shes been my bffl since kindergarten 8 years so i cant be straight forward help you said you would by the way this is the only time in my life that i had to talk too someone about instead of figuring it out on my own

sparkle1122 on 3/30/2011 8:15:28 PM

Hey there, I saw your comment on an article saying that you give advice. Care to help me out a bit?

It seems like my best friend never has time for me anymore. Besides school, we haven't hung out in over a month. She's always with her other friend, when she's around, I'm completely ignored. When we do have time to see eachother, we don't have much to talk about. It kind of seems like she doesn't even want me in her life. What do you think I should do, confront her about this problem or just find new friends? Or somethin else...?

spacekitty on 3/30/2011 6:26:08 PM

Hi i need advice on two things..1 my ex likes one of my "friends" and he keeps telling me he does and he says she likes him and shes really mean to me and pretty much everyone. i dont like him anymore im just kind of sad that he would keep telling me that so what can i do to make him stop? btw me and him are still friends and i never see my other "friend" cause i dont like her. 2 my bestfriend always trys to make me feel bad like she ALWAYS reminds me about the other thing i need advice on and she acts like shes way better then me like she says stuff like "im going at a faster paste then you are in school" but shes 2 years older!! how do i tell shes making me sad?? i love her but it makes me feel bad please help!!

neversaynevergirl on 3/30/2011 2:12:43 PM

hey i need advice. i like a guy who lives scross the street from me he is one year older and im nor good friends with him. it started when i hung out with my bgf and my bgfs friend and him and my friend. he made me laugh and stuff and he seems nice. since then i have only seen him once because i asked to borrow a football with the same friend. idk how to get him to notice me because i like never see him. if you have any suggetions that would be great if you dont its ok but anything is helpful. =) thanx

ALR on 3/27/2011 11:42:21 AM

Hi there
so my birthday is in a few weeks and Im having a camping theme party! I'm not really sure about games though. also, my exbff has the same bday and we have the same friends but i asked them all first so theyre coming to my party and shes all upset because shes going to be alone. but i have a track meet on the day of my party too so im not sure if i should give her the date or wait and check it out or what to do about the situation

fired up on 3/26/2011 8:31:39 PM

hi you shld join my club: The Official Fashionista Club! answer me on my profile , i luv yours!

dance911 on 3/18/2011 12:33:59 AM

hey im in 7th grade and my parents dont let me go out with people i mean its not like im gonna marry the kid its just that i really like someone and i was wandering if u got any ways to convince them that im mature enough thanks lots of love

puppie-lover on 3/17/2011 9:40:31 PM

Hey, i got a question, im looking for advice. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. All his friends have told me he waited two years to ask me out (since fifth grade, and I think fifth grade is a little young to have a bf but I actually liked him then too). But since weve been going out its been awkward when we hang with our group of friends but they actually r relived that we are together and want us to hug eachother and everything. But i can count on one hand how many times weve hugged. and weve never kissed either. Is this normal? im in 7th grade by the way. How could i have him show affection towards me more often? im the one that ASKS for hugs
thanks!

karmakarlie on 3/17/2011 7:16:12 AM

I don't hink so but what is it??

XOXO~Courtney <333333

cmn5297 on 3/11/2011 7:48:46 PM

hey girlie!! i read ur comment asking if u are fat. im 5'3 and 107 pounds and i am no where near fat!!! so dont worry! ur totally not fat! oh, by the way, i like ur profile!

ketibbs13 on 2/19/2011 7:36:53 PM

Hey!! It looks like we have a lot in common!! My name is Riley, and I love cheerleading!! I am a Christian too!! I have started a club called God's Girls, where girls can just come and talk about anything Christianity-related they want too! I give advice, talk to you, and will answer any questions you have, no matter what. You can come check out my profile and see more about the club, if you would like. Have a great day and God Bless!! ~Riley

godzgirl on 2/4/2011 9:50:58 PM

hi i love your icon!

j4zm09 on 1/4/2011 2:42:45 PM

yeah if theres one thing about cheerleading its SUPER socail! haha lol its been sooo long. whts up w/ u?

cheerleadrgurl123 on 12/5/2010 6:15:54 PM