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hey girl,,
i saw your problem and couldn't help it not 2 post something on your profile ,,
when u r saying that u r feelin guilty it means u r a GOOD person !!
trust me girl,,we all go through such things ,,we all have our ups and downs ,1 of my friends had SX ,in real,,she was only 12,,but nw she regret it .simply pry god 4 4givness-tho it is not that big thing-,god will 4give u and u will feel better ...

i think that u r a real & a nice girl !!
i am new here on the set ,,wanna b friends ??
i am 13 ,u ??
feel always welcomed 2 ask me about anything,,and i'm gonna help!!

bye
haneen
x0x0x

haneen.pop.princess on 2/22/2010 3:48:52 PM

Okay girly....

So, still feeling guilt?? Yeah, it is not gonna go away too quickly.. so give yourself some credit and know that you are trying. Do not be mad at yourself for doing something you didn't know was wrong. That is like a mom getting mad at her one year old baby because she broke something... and then the mom doesn't forgive the baby. You didn't KNOW what you were doing, so you should live on THAT fact, and let go of the fact that you actually did what you did.... if that makes sense.. :/ God is long past forgiving you... He has forgave you and has nothing whatsoever against you because of what you did... so neither should you. Forgive, and forget... you can do it.

<3 Ali

lemme know if this helps

christiangirlsclub on 2/11/2010 6:49:31 PM

Hey girly.

Sorry its been soo long since I have helped. May I ask whats wrong?? what do you need help with...

God bless-
ali

christiangirlsclub on 2/7/2010 12:56:36 PM

Hey girly!!

Again, SO happy you are better. And I am so happy you realized you had no idea what you were doing, and that your not blaming yourself.

Lucky you for having things go well with your crush!! As for telling your parents, just maybe bring it up when they're asking "how are your friends" or "how was school". It doesnt have to be to big of a talk or anything, since its just a crush (for now!!) Your parents should accept that you have a crush and you are maturing and growing up. But if your mom/dad is like mine, and teases you about it, just laugh it off. haha

lemme know if this helps!! I love to help!!

~ali <3

christiangirlsclub on 1/23/2010 2:13:38 PM

Hey girly.

Okay, first i am happy you are doing better. that is very good news.

Second, it will be hard to move on. I know this from expierience... you do something your not happy with and you think its TERRIBLE and you cant stop thinking about it. It will take time to move on. But to speed it up, every time you think about it or feel guilty, say to yourself "I didnt know what I was doing, God forgives me, so I should forgive myself" and then redirect your thoughts into something happier. Just because you made this little mistake does not make you stupid or a bad person in God's eyes. He forgives you COMPLETLEY so you should forgive yourself. IT WAS AN HONEST MISTAKE> Remember that.

lemme know if this helps....

<3
ali

christiangirlsclub on 1/20/2010 9:26:30 PM

I'm thinking of quiting club penguin. Im 14 and i think im too old. Ill still go on for like the parties but just not to play and chat with people. I wanna share my account with someone. I dont know who. If i do pick you, i dont know how I would give you my username or password since everyone can see comments.

vampiremariah on 1/12/2010 11:15:49 PM

hey there

emygirl11 on 1/12/2010 3:11:24 PM

Hey girly!

I am so happy you feel better... mainly because you did nothing wrong. To join this club, just go back and type SIGN ME UP!
I am so glad I could help you out and put you at ease. If you ever need any more help, please do ask.

xoxo
ali

christiangirlsclub on 1/11/2010 11:02:02 PM

hey pghpens! sorry about the wait i responded this morning but the comment didnt go through i guess...
First of all you are not a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes; they're a part of life and they're how you learn. Through all of this its important to remember that no matter what happened this summer you are still YOU. And it is normal for you to be curious, most girls are! So, what to do here. Its important to tell a trusted adult about your situation. This doesnt mean that you necesarily have to tell your parents right away, you could tell an aunt, neighbor, guidence councelor, or bffs mom. Just make sure you feel comfortable with the adult you choose because it may be kind of awkward. Make sure that when you two are together that it is Just the two of you (without an audience) and let them know how you are feeling. A great way to break the ice is to write them a note telling them what the topic is so you don't actually have to SAY that part. Then, let them know what happened over the summer and that you feel insecure about the conditions for the vow of chastity and purity ring. He/she should be able to help you with that part. It would be a good idea to tell your parents at some point however, whether its just the parent that you feel most comfortable with, or both of them. Lastly, always remember that if you are still curious on "girl stuff" like puberty guys periods or sex, feel free to come back and talk to me and ill answer any questions you have about anything. Or even if you just need someone to vent to i'm always here and ready to listen. Also remember your trusted adult if you have those questions, but i'm always here if you would prefer to ask me first. I know it will all work out for you girlie.. it always does! Good luck and talk to you soon!
Lots of Love,
~ellie~

hugatree95 on 1/11/2010 9:04:21 PM

Hey girly.

Okay so I read your situation on the articles and I read the advice the mods gave you and I think you should listen to them. But I also saw how you were worried about purity rings and everything... so I am taking that as your Christian. If not, sorry but I still hope this advice helps.

Doing what you did on clubpenguin does not make you not pure anymore. I have a clubpenguin, and I don't see how you could possibly do that... because all you can do is stand next to each other. But still, (this is advice if you are a christian) pray to God asking for forgiveness and say you had no idea what you were doing. Which, you didnt. He will forgive you. You did nothing serious because it was virtual.

Yes, you are still pure and chaste and you can still get a purity ring. This was something that happened ONLINE and nothing serious came out of it. I know this will be something hard to forget. But you must know that you didn't know what u were doing. God has forgiven you... and you have nothing AT ALL to worry about.

I hope this helps. Please respond with any more questions. Let me know if this helps.

God bless!

~ali

christiangirlsclub on 1/11/2010 5:03:26 PM

Ya its fine to have a bridge pin come out. I changed my strings recently and had to take them alll out then put them right back in so no worries!

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skichick95 on 7/1/2009 6:34:39 PM

Hey Girlie!
I play guitar and take lessons, so I can help you out. Strings breaking are totally normal, especially if they're old. Since you've had the guitar for about a year, it was about time you replaced your strings anyway. Just go to a music shop and buy some new strings (I like Elixar) and I can pretty much say for sure that they'll put them on for you (most shops do). And your guitar is fine, don't worry! The bridgepin popping out or breaking is not a problem. (You have to pop all the bridgepins out to put on new strings anyway!) You can buy new bridgepins at a music shop, too! If you've got any more questions I'll be happy to help!

CurlyBlonde8684 on 7/1/2009 5:58:34 PM

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