Hey girl! I'm really sorry your mom doesn't respect your privacy. I know it will be hard, but you really have to try to talk to her. Even if you can't do this to her face, write her a note or send her an e-mail. Try not to get too angry. Although it is understandable that you would be mad, you will want to deal with this in a calm, mature manner. Tell your mom that you feel really betrayed by her, and that it hurts to think that she doesn't respect your privacy. Tell her that if she thinks something's wrong, she should just ask you, rather than snooping through your things. Explain to her that you're getting older, and writing a diary is how you get your feelings out. It doesn't mean your life is in ruins or you can't be trusted. If you gently try to help her understand that you deserve privacy and personal space, she will probably understand. Tell her that you forgive her, but that you really would appreciate it if she stops reading your diary. Good luck, girl!
~Shannon

supersingershannon on 8/1/2010 9:40:47 PM

o wow, lol. and no!! i havnt checked out the makeup!! man, i rly need 2 find that, haha. and i no, sometimes popular friends change alot and they get too caught up in this generations language, like how friends r always telling eachothr stuff like shut up!! ....jk, lol. but, i no every1 talks like that now ( and lots of kids cuss now, its kinda upsetting me, lol) but i dont think friends shood say it anywa, i mean, theyre friends 4 a reason, right? theyre there 4 u, and shood treat u nicely. maybe u shood talk 2 her about it, and ask her about wat her sister said, but if she denys it, look close, and u can totally tell if shes just lying her butt off, cuz some popular ppl just lie alllll the time, like my friend mckenna, almost every1 nos her, sop shes rly popular, and shes kind of mean, and snooty, but then othr times we get along, but 1 time she told me, " i think ur ugly," in math and i just like freaked out and stared at her, then shes just like juuuuust kidding!! but i didnt think it was funny, tho she was laughing a bit ):

sophielew2 on 7/29/2010 1:24:50 AM

and yea i no!! i really like the othr girls life layout

sophielew2 on 7/17/2010 9:41:56 PM

oh lol yea that happend 2 my friend 1nce too. like i totally love summer bcuz i get really tan!! o and im like a brunette but i have like light brown hair and in the sun sometimes the top turns blonde!!!! its sooo cool lol

sophielew2 on 7/11/2010 1:23:57 AM

Oh wow that's tough. The Maclay Finals you must have heard of them. Is showing in that competition something you could do, I mean are you that good? Or are you more into Pony Finals? I think that's equitation however I think it may be just hunter-jumper.

pupellie on 7/10/2010 8:26:42 PM

omg thats awesome!!! my sister used 2 do that but put them all on 1 of her walls. 1nce, she got so many, it COVERED the entire wall!!!

sophielew2 on 6/28/2010 8:36:26 AM

haha thats so cool! Equitation...is that walk-trot-canter in front of a judge or is that a hunter-like jumping course...or both? lol. Dressage just takes lotzz of patience but I'm learning it...slowly lol

pupellie on 4/14/2010 9:56:24 PM

hey don't feel bad u r short my friend is 13 and is like 4 ft hey btw i have a QH and i can jump up to 3ft i was wondering what stable do you ride at??? comment back on my profile!!!

horstout on 1/9/2010 3:00:27 PM

heLLO i lIKE hoRSES TO cHeCk oUT me pROfilE

freestuff on 11/5/2009 5:27:50 PM

lol. im glad i got comment :o) lol ive been having growing pains. im like 4'8 too!

purplenay on 8/12/2009 8:59:45 AM

lol I am short too! 5 feet and 1/2 of an inch at 14 years old! yesssss

sparklestar4ever12 on 5/31/2009 4:47:42 PM