oooo thats a difficult situation. if i were you i would probably break up with your current boyfriend because you like another guy. but, if you decide that you don't like this other guy, then i wouldnt worry aboutit. making plans to hang out with guys is perfectly okay.

magzluvscookies on 2/20/2010 8:20:05 AM

I hate it when the guy I like acts all flirty with me and I like him back but he doesn't like me. It makes everything complicated! And omg I feel terrible for u. He sounds like a litttle bit of a jerk but u know how it is with us girls. Anything he does is "cute". Especially when guys tease us. It makes me feel good because it feels like they're thinking about me.

magzluvscookies on 1/8/2010 6:28:04 PM

Omg yes! I totally understand what you mean about how you wish that guys knew what girls go through for them. I mean honestly! All they gotta do is ask a girl out and make her happy. Us girls have 2 get the guy to ask us out by talking/flirting with him. And even then it doesnt work all the time. Lol You know that song "If I were a boy" by Beyonce? Omg it totally sums up everything about guys and how stupid they can act sometimes lol. <3

magzluvscookies on 1/4/2010 4:03:15 PM

OMG I know exactly what you mean with the guy you like. It happenned to me too. This guy (We'll call him Douglas even though thats not his name) broke my heart (Just like the guy you like) but I can't get over him (Just like you can't get over your guy either). Hahaha "Douglas" could rip my heart out of my chest, take bites out of it, spit it up, and cut it into a million pieces and.........I think I would ONLY. LOVE. HIM. MORE.
Thats probably your problem too and the way I dealt with it was like this-
*If theres a slim chance that you could actually get with the guy*-FLIRT. Thats a major weapon us girls have that totally confuses guys/makes guys happy. For me, its COMPLETE AND TOTAL FUN to confuse a guy (Especially one that broke my heart...its like revenge). But ifit doesn't work for you then don't use it.
*If he likes being around you but only wants to be your friend*-Heres where you have to be careful. You don't wanna scare him and act all stalkerish. If he only wants to be your friend then you should act like a FRIEND towards him because otherwise it gets awkward (Trust me.)
*If you love him*-Ok well thats a problem that basically has no solution. Love should be a mutual feeling and he should feel it too. But if he doesn't then dont worry aboutit. Hes not worth you if he breaks your heart. But you can't get over him so don't convince yourself that you don't like him when you do. Its ok to love him. In fact, it can be a really good feeling. While you hate thinking about him allll the time, in a way you love it. Thats how it is for me. I live in my own world where I ignore what he thinks of me and I just LOVE him. Try it. It might work for you.

Hope that helped.
-maggie

magzluvscookies on 12/31/2009 10:32:32 AM

hey!
lol i have NO clue what makes me so shy around guys. i feel like that if i meet them when im shy they expect me to continue being shy for the rest of the time they know me. and i feel that if i change and become more outgoing they think of me totally different! like this one guy at school told me today how much ive changed since the sixth grade. he said that when i was in the sixth grade the every once and awhile id say something it was always funny. haha and he was serious so yay! lol but idk what makes me feel shy?! im not seriously bad but i think its cuz i cant think of anything 2 day because they say it all...and it doesnt help that i get lost in their beautiful eyes when talking to them.
omg HOW DID U OVERCOME UR SHYNESS? HELP ME! lol

magzluvscookies on 12/1/2009 7:56:08 PM

luv shia!!

Angee125 on 11/29/2009 3:42:45 PM

cheerleading. ohh yeah....

Oh My laura on 11/18/2009 9:00:28 PM

lol cool...yea but ive never been on the side tht people feel intimidated of. ive alwaysss been shy which really bites when it comes to guys

magzluvscookies on 11/14/2009 5:19:23 PM

hey,
i saw your comment on the bod squad zit popping advice thing and i got kinda mad. first of all some girls cant control the fact that they have acne and lemme just tell u right now tht EVERY acne medication doesnt treat zits correctly. next time think b4 u speak.

magzluvscookies on 11/2/2009 3:52:28 PM

WOW! Well if i were u this is wat id do. i would tell my friend. i mean u shuld b the 1 to tell her..ya u could wait till a few more days go by and she finds out on her own. But then if she asks u if u knew about it how stupid wuld u feel wen u said yes. i mean wouldnt u feel guilty u never told her and she had 2 find out another way? So tell her. say u told the guy he was an a$$ and she will realize how nice of a friend u are. And wen ppl say ure pretty just accept the compliments and simply say thank u. and for ure friend im sure she isnt all tht bad. and if she is then inner beauty matters more than the outside. hope this helps u!!

blondechica21 on 10/12/2009 7:25:16 PM

Ohh so ure asking if these dudes lke u?? and how to tell if one does?? Ohh okay...well its completly obvious these guys like u...b4 i knew this guy liked me i was really mad cuz i just couldnt figure out if he did or not. But if guys smile and look at u alot thts a good sign! also if they tlk to u and start da convo w a stupid topic starter lol and tease u a little. When guys tease u in a nice way its bcuz he dont kno how to flirt very well. and stuff lke tht. Guys r dumb and sumtimes dont even kno if they r flirting or wat! but good luck w all these guys! And u sound lke a lucky gal cuz but of them seem into u. And just cuz tht guy has a gf doesnt mean he cant still lke u. I kno plently of dudes tht had a gf and still admitted on crushing on another girl. it is actually normal for guys these days which i dont think the gf wuld b happy about hahaha but ya. hope this helps. comment back. and BYE!

blondechica21 on 9/29/2009 3:51:42 PM

hey i just got your comment it is 6:30 and it is Sep.12,2009 i dont know what ur talking about but plz tell ur friends to check out my profile and to leave a comment and i just put an avatar of taylor swift on there u should go check it out

spazzledazzle on 9/12/2009 6:28:10 PM

Aww well first off sry tht my advice didnt much help. I didnt understand to much wat u were asking to b honest. But i mean...wat do u need help with now? Its completly fine tht u like so many guys. After all the heart wants wat it wants. And if u really think ure friends would freak if u told them about ure 10th grader crush then just dont tell them...but mayb they wont react like as u think...haha im sorry! im not entirley sure wat ure trying to ask me..but hey sounds like lotsa guys like ya and thts good! sry if this doesnt help but hey i tryed

blondechica21 on 9/11/2009 3:21:10 PM

thnxs for the info, but i bought a new curling iron and i like my hair wavy better than straight. but ill use your advice if i get a newa one in the future.

andrea95 on 9/6/2009 1:39:53 PM

Well whats he into? like idk is he a sporty dude. Is he on the football or soccer team? if he is then ask hey whens the season start and what team do u thinks the hardest. annd if hes not into sports just start by saying hey howd ur summer go? and whatd u do? and ask questions when he answers to these. Try not asking questions tht could b answered with just a yes or no. Cuz when i text guys i always make sure they cant give me a small answer. Its more of a convo tht way. And another convo starter is like whos ur fav teacher so far? and stuff about skl. If you get stuck while chatting then just do wat u were. Just smile and laff at some stuff he says that r funny...haha but dont go insane with the laffing. Annnd i hope this helps!

blondechica21 on 9/4/2009 3:29:29 PM

ok, im glad u understand. and yes, i'll keep u posted on the club. rite now, we're still on our "Back-To-School" topic where u can post anything about back-to-school stuff. and then probably on either Friday or Saturday, im gonna change the 2-week topic to "Crush/Boys". so thats about it 4 now. if anything else comes up i'll b sure to tell u about it! thnx, and good luck w/ ur crush and school! ♥, Kgirl47(one of the Club*Girl prez's)

Club*Girl on 8/31/2009 6:57:27 PM

Heyyy girls!
Today was my first day of school. I made a huge mistake with my crush, + I passed up a perf oppertunity to be alone with him!
Okayy,so me and a couple of these guys and my bff were at this table,chatting it up. Waiting for our rides, when my crush gets out of this girl (he carpooled with her today) car. Next thing I know he's right next to me and we're talking about something and I was like "I'm hungry" and he said "if I knew you were here I would have given you some of my chicken fries" then I was like "b. Why didnt you" (obvi joking). The later he was like "will yu come inside with me to get my tennis bag?". But I just kept saying no when he was basically begging me. Now that I'm looking back Im like "I'm a retard."

Shopbballbri on 8/31/2009 2:48:12 PM

u should join clubbchicktalk

type in clubchiktalk to the search bar please help me advertise grlie!!!
ANYONE CAN JOIN!!!

staR gazer on 8/29/2009 10:23:42 PM

OMG! i hav ur same prob! my mom owes me lyk $265 and wont pay me bck bc she says tht "she feeds me, clothes me, and gives me a house to live under" and tht shld be enough. it makes me sooooo mad! i tried tlkin to my dad but he says tht "he didnt take my money so he shldnt hav to pay me bck." i told him tht my mom wldnt and it shldnt matter who paid me back since they shared the money but he said i shld talk to my mom if it bothers me! ugh! its soooooo frustrating!

diva_gurl on 8/29/2009 12:04:31 PM

Oh thats tottttALLY a good idea. i hope he still likes u and im sure he will. and thanks!

blondechica21 on 8/28/2009 7:28:54 PM

Hey there. Well whats to say haha. Its pretty obvious hes totally into you. Any guy who says to hold hands is pretty dang special. This guy is totally great for you. He is asking to hold hands in front of people he likes sitting by you instead of friends. You can either wait for him to make the 1st move or you can decide to make the 1st move. You may b scared of doing that but it will make things go faster. And im pretty much 99% sure he will say yes to u. Trust me!!! Good luck!!!!

blondechica21 on 8/28/2009 3:58:25 PM

Hey girl i saw ur post on Anna's profile and i am here to give u my advice. Ok so from what you had explained it sounds like this guy really likes you. It sounds like u two would be perfect for each other. I hope this helps u. Comment back.

JazzyJenn

JazzyJennpartygrl on 8/28/2009 9:23:02 AM

I know I ♥♥♥♥♥♥ Love Story!!!!

CLUB.Room.Redo. on 8/26/2009 11:55:01 AM

heyy!! kewl profile!! luv it! check mine out!!!

Lamborghini on 8/25/2009 7:54:47 PM

Hi

Memesputerpunkin on 8/22/2009 8:00:38 PM