hey i totally understand you on how you tend to get louder, cause i did the exact same thing! Nerves are always there no matter how old old or where you are, but what i always remember that to avoid coming off as obnoxious just be aware of the vibe the people you are talking to are off. For example if they are talking about happy, positive high spirited things then its alright to have high energy too. Its when the people you are talking calmer and have a more casual conversation you need to be careful. Also if you are nervous because you don't want to be judged by what others think of you, you have to know that when you find true friends they will think what you say is important and cool not silly and annoying. Hope i helped! Comment back on my profile if you need anything!

purpleorchid on 7/19/2011 5:48:19 AM