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All About Me!
  1.   Sagittarius (but I don't believe in that stuff... I just think reading them is fun) =p
  2.   insane... athletic... friendly... funny... can't count.. nerd 8)
  3.   2,396,284,922 (all my fave numbers put 2gether) ;)
  4.   lime green & orange... and blue!! And sometimes black haha
  5.   3 sisters, but I have a lot of friends that seem like sisters!! =)
  6.   mix between Alyson Stoner and Demi Lavato and maybe some emma roberts... idk haha :p
In A Nutshell...
  1.   english or math (when I get it).......(which is hardly ever)....... and sometimes science!!!
  2.   sports, eat, shower, facebook, facebook, homework, facebook, ipod, bed.
  3.   soccer, track, basketball, golf, softball, paintball, ultimate frisbee, handball. ANNNDD i think lacrosse and/ or hockey would be fun 2 play
  4.   playing sports, reading, hanging out with my bf, friends, or family =)
  5.   Simba (orange cat) He thinks he's king of everything... haha
  6.   I can be myself with them :-)
  7.   veranica (it's german) oh, and I absolutely LOVE puffy cheetos!!!! I eat them till my fingers are orange!!
  8.   a mess
  9.   Colorado, skiing hiking and camping or going to a lake and tubing!!
My Faves…
  1.   survivor, the bachelorette (I LOVE Frank!! <3 ) Dancing with the stars, So You Think U can dance, the amazing race, american idol, america's got talent, Mythbusters! =) GHOST ADVENTURES!!
  2.   Ocean's 11, 12 , 13, Eagle Eye,Bourne Identity, Get smart, Stepfather, Paranormal Activity...I like the action adventure/horrror/thriller stuff :)
  3.   RED, Daughtry, and Kris Allen, Thousand Foot Krutch, Group 1 Crew, Family Force 5... and TONS more!!! I like current music
  4.   Twilight, The hunger games, Maze runner, the Gone series, Escape from Memory, Incarceron. (If you have any books that are super good, please suggest them to me, cause I think I've read half of my school's library :)
  5.   Dance Dance Revolution, Mario Kart wii, Just Dance... oh... and.. im TOTALLY obsessed with rockband!! go drums! :)
  6.   don't really have one... lol
Style Sense
  1.   I like hmmmm.... haha idk what 2 put here so I'll just go with... TACOS!!!! (I hate tacos....)
  2.   Hollister, American Eagle, Aero, PacSun
  3.   MANGO!!!!
  4.   eye liner!
  5.   prob my hoodies, t-shirts, and jeans
Guyville
  1.   yeahh... 3 and a fouth...and yeahhh haha... i am mentally dating a celebrity that does not know i exist!! jk jk... Orlando Bloom totally knows me!! Haha jk i actually do have a bf
  2.   um. not counting celebrities? then like 2. maybe 3. haha
  3.   Smart(ish), Funny, HOT, athletic, Christian!!! =)
  4.   Kris Allen, Orlando bloom, drew roy, hough dancy, Frank off the old bachelorette.. and like a TONNN more heehee
Daydreams
  1.   life sucks then u die. hahaha jk jk “You can't just beat a team, you have to leave a lasting impression in their minds so they never want to see you again”-Mia Hamm
Either…Or
  1.   night owl! unless u give me an energy drink in the morning... or i have to much coffee..
  2.   mostly chocolate!
  3.   Righty... one time I tried to shoot an arrow with my left... and as I said before... I am a righty....
  4.   definately a dvd...that way u can be loud... and its not so formal... haha and if u get scared u can put the popcorn bucket over your head and no one will ever look at u like ure weird... not like i've ever done this or anything.... pshhh hahaha :)
  5.   haha... u obviously havent seen my room...
My Healthy You Profile
  1. Fitness Faves
      running or playing sports, this isn't really a work out but I do Dance Dance Revolution on the Wii a lot
  2.   soccer and track. In track I do long jump, 400, and the mile relay. My position in soccer is forward :)
  3.   music that inspires me to do my best
  4.   push yourself
  5. Goal Girl
      to eat better
  6.   Well, the whole summer I'm going to be working on building up my endurance.
  7.   female athletes
  8.   Mia Hamm
  9. Tasty Eats
      apples
  10.   veranica
  11.   think about how much running I will have to do if I do eat something unhealthy.
  12.   anything, I'll try to see if I can help ya out!
  13.   new books to read!
  14.   SURE!!!!! I mean, why not??!?!!?!
  15.  
  16. My Healthy You Journal  
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Hi! I see that you play the trumpet. I am starting a trumpet players club, and I would love it if you could join!

christineah111 on 1/13/2012 9:33:34 PM

Help! I need boy advice. A guy knows i like him and homecoming is in a week and a half but i don't want to ask him i want him to ask me and he's really friendly towards me. Any tips n how to get him to ask me please help!!! Please respond to my profile thanks girl Smile

hrsrider27 on 9/23/2010 10:43:44 PM

Naw dude randomness is amazing so dont worry about it it my best shqoulityhaha sorry teacher calls it that so any time you feel like having a random convo just go to my profile .oh and love soccer i dont play but i watch it a lot and my crush in soccer so im more intress in it then ever HAHA .

luvs13 on 8/18/2010 4:31:51 PM

Hey... on my profile it says that I adore frank from the bachelorette.....

and I DON'T!!!!

....I'm just to lazy to change it..... lol....

Cuz I mean who would like him after what he did to Ali??? No one!!

He is cute tho.......

haha i doubt anyone is reading this.......

......so I guess that means I should probably stop typing......

...haha..... well if u did read this i'm sorry u are so bored as to read this post and this if a very run on sentance becuz i am just adding on to it so I make it an even MORE run on sentence just to confuse u!!! ;) Dang.... the sentence ended..... *tear* Did I mention that........

I am sorry you had 2 read this? I think I have......

*ANYWHOOO***** I'm talking to myself..... and my therapist says thats unhealthy.......

Lol JK JK JK!!!! I don't have a therapist.... just my special teachers at school.... ya gotta love em rite??

***haha that was radom***** If your reading this you probably think I am not sane.... To prove to you that I AM sane... I will do... something.......

*there*!! I did it!! But you did not seee it becuz I am a Ninja!!! Yes a Ninja!! Hmmmm.... well.... I'd better go b4.......

soccer28q on 7/26/2010 12:58:02 AM

HEY GIRLIE!
I see a lot of people had great advice for you about this guy of yours. When you're not with him, find something to do. Play soccer or basketball, go for a run, read a book, call a friend, etc. etc.Since it has only been a few days, don't get obsessed by him. My bff always does that and then gets her heart broken. It may not seem that way, but don't get carried away!
Love,
jewels101
P.S. You and I have soo much alike, it's almost scary!LOL <3 Smile

jewels101 on 7/10/2010 1:43:57 PM

Hey,
I probably have NO buisness giving advice on this since I've never even been in a relationship (LOL) but whenever I feel lonely, I find it helpful to get busy. Don't just dwell in your sadness. Realize you'll see your BF again and guys aren't everything. Hope this helps!

kclove on 7/9/2010 4:13:11 PM

OMG! I LOVE the hunger games too!

bluedogn14 on 7/9/2010 12:01:18 PM

Hey, girl! i saw your comment on one of the blogs. I think that it's fine, you just like your boyfriend very much which is so sweet. Smile But when you're not with him, try distracting yourself with things like girl friends, or do your favorite hobby. working out helps, too--it's good for your body, it keeps your mind off your boyfriend and who knows? Maybe he'll notice you've been working out! Good luck!

bluedogn14 on 7/9/2010 12:00:03 PM

Hey girl! saw ur comment and heres some advice: its great to like ur bf (oh and congratz on ur first bf)but try not to get too carried away- its great tht u like him so much and u guys have a good relationship but be sure to make time for urself and ur friends. as much as u like him, i think u have to make sure ur ok to be on ur own, without him.
HOW: make some time to be with ur friends. talk to them about other things and try to forget ur bf for a lil while. its time for some bonding with ur gals Smile
OR make time to bond with the fam.
try to do something u wanna do tht doesnt include him and try not to spend the whole time sad, thinking about him. u have no reason to be sad- ull see him later Tong
life is about being ur own person. u have to learn how to be by yourself for a lil while in order to be able to really appreciate this new relationship! Tong
xo
good luck, hope this helps.
J
check out my profile! if u ever need advice u can come to me.

devilishJ on 7/9/2010 11:14:10 AM

First of all love the profile! check out mine...as for your stitch I agree with puppyaddict13. You could txt him or call him but make sure you don't let him be the only thing in your life. If you're missing him and he's busy call one of your girlfriends and go to the mall or to see a movie. I saw eclipse a little while ago and loved it. Good luck and hope this helps! : )

emandem on 7/9/2010 7:55:45 AM

hey i have some advice 4 u...
ok u kno its normal 2 b practically obsessed with ur new bf the first week. so next time ur NOT chillin with ur brand new bf and u really wanna talk 2 him shoot him a cute text complete with a heart and kissy smiley face hes bound 2 text back!!! he doesnt txt back, call him!!! just dont try 2 contact him like 24/7 that will just scare him away. hope this helps!!!
be strong,
*rissaroo*

puppyaddict13 on 7/8/2010 10:29:16 PM

if a wood chuck could chuck wood, how much wood would a wood chuck up chuck?

Lissie526 on 7/8/2010 9:08:13 PM

wow your lucky number is... interesting.... lol. how is that your lucky number? Smile

cliquechica97 on 7/8/2010 7:26:53 PM

Hey girl!!
Here's some advice for you're situation about your bf. My idea is take a picture of you two together and frame it. That way, when you miss him, just look at the picture and feel better. Also, there's a song called "When You're Gone" by Avril Lavigne that totally describes you. That song might make you feel better. Best wishes!!
xoxo,
Violet <33

thevanillaviolet on 7/8/2010 7:14:08 PM

hey i love reading too
i like pretty little liars its an awesome book Smile

honeyb4 on 7/8/2010 7:07:56 PM

Im here to give u advice Smile
well u should judt try to do the things that make you happy like reading or whatever your hobby is
hope i helped

honeyb4 on 7/8/2010 7:05:54 PM

heyyyy(:

i'm just giving advice to your post on the nail polish story...

i'm so happy that you love to hangout with your boyfriend...thats good because that means he must be a keeper! Smile

anyway you should really focus on friends as well because a high school bf is just temporary. friends will have your back through all the heartbreaking breakups so when you aren't hanging with your guy, you should be chilling with some friends. that should help you not be so sad when you guys are apart.

Smile

allieloveee on 7/8/2010 6:46:36 PM

hey thanks for the advice on trying out for the play! one of the things i'm scared about though (for some reason) is that people will make fun of me for like trying to do good and stuff. Tong

BeatlesROK101 on 6/20/2010 6:59:10 PM

k i saw ur girl crush prob thingy and i wanna help since no MODs evidently did. ok, watever u do, don't confront sam. it wasn't her fault. I would call him first. people will type in texting wat they wudnever actually SAY. if he doesn't pick up, stay busy. DON'T let a guy who is totally rude to you take over your life. after a while(like, a week or so), text him 'hey wat's up? please reply.' remind him u want a reply and DON't bring up last week's incedent for a day's worth of texting or so. he probably feels a little guilty but mad about it, he doesn't need a reminder. if he still doesn't talk 2 u, contact a couple of his friends that u want to talk to him. not NEED to talk to him, that'll make it seem urgent or like you're mad. he may think you're pregnant or something. if he STILL doesn't respond, let him go. any guy that ignores you for that long doesn't deserve an awesome cutie that i'm sure you are ;).

hope that helped!

singsongsat_449449 on 6/7/2010 5:22:36 PM

hey! so, i think that he likes you... but he might like the other girls too. he kinda sounds like a player. ask him if who he likes, or have someone else ask. if he says you, take advantage of it! but tell him that if he's gonna invite you to something to hang out, tell him that he really should, and not ditch you. if this happens again, maybe he's not a good guy to like... but i think he likes you, he just might like other people too. try to get some 1 on 1 time with him, and ask about it... or text or something haha... hope this helps! Smile (sorry if it doesn't...)

-Chloe<3

chlojo98 on 6/6/2010 1:49:12 PM

Hey girl! you said you needed some advice and here is mine: I think you should keep talking to your crush like you normally do, but maybe take it more slowly. He may be confused about his feelings right now and a little time to think might help your relationship. Hope this helps!

-Raina

rainaelise on 6/5/2010 9:18:02 PM

cool profile, I love chocolate and movie theaters too. how old are you? what's your name? advice for you: you and the guy your texting should talk about your families, and who your friends with, what kind of movies, and music you listen to.

sixteengirl93 on 5/31/2010 2:12:59 PM

Hey! Smile You sound really cool!
If I ever need adivce on anything, I'll ask you you're opinion, defentily! Smile
Have an awesome day! <3
God Bless

malgal22 on 5/31/2010 1:06:52 AM

Hey I really like this one guy and he knows it, we r friends but I really want to go out with him. We have so much in common and his family is really nice, he stares at me but doesn't say hi rely but then when he's by himself he waves to me bt only sometimes he returns my texts. I'm confused I really want him and no one else can anyone please help???

hrsrider27 on 5/30/2010 10:20:36 PM

*BEACHGIRL#1*
It says your profile is not publicly visible, so I'll just comment on here.
That sounds like a tough sitch!! You say that no one talks to you at school! I bet if you try to talk to them, that they will talk back to you!! Just be friendly, and be social!! As for the person who ditches you, she doesn't sound very nice. Frown When she ditches you for the other girl, ask if you can come along. If she lets you, just be cool with the other girl. Don't be annoying or do anything that she thinks is stupid. Be yourself!! When you go to your psychologist, tell her why you think you need to switch schools. Psychologists are all that bad really. If you have trouble talking to people, or are shy, try to journal about it!! Journaling helps me a lot!! If your problem doesn't go away eventually, I would keep asking your parents if you could switch schools. Tell them why you think you need to, and if they say no again, ask them why you can't. Just remember though, going to a new school might not be the right solution, because what if you have the same problem there? I would just try to be nice to everyone at your school, and see how it works out.
Hope I helped!!!

soccer28q on 5/30/2010 8:41:32 PM

kay i really need some advice. so every day at school nobody talks to me and every1 even the boys act like im the weirdest person ever and theres only 1 person whos actually nice 2 me but she ditches me ALL the time for this mean girl who hates me. ive tried talking 2 her about it but it doesnt work. i really want 2 switch schools and i told my parents this and wats happening and they just got me a psychologist. this is putting A TON of stress on me and i just want 2 get away from it!! i really do beleive i need to go 2 a new school so i told my mom again and she says that i need 2 stop worrying about it. i have a couple of possible schools but my parents STILL wont give in! plz help!!!! Frown Frown

BEACHGIRL#1 on 5/29/2010 9:02:08 AM

Heyy, I dont mind that its long Smile ahah, I'd love to help.
I think this guy's definitely into you, but maybe he has some feelings for this girl, Sam as well. He's acting like a bit of a jerk though, so maybe you should ask him whats going on. If you plan on pursuing him, he cant have feelings for Sam. But, people do change their minds, and by asking you out and saying that he wanted to see you, he probably really likes you. He may have just gotten nervous when you went to the game. I know I find it easier to talk to guys friends rather than the guy I like. Ask him if he likes Sam. You dont necessarily have to wait for him to text you, but you could hold off for a day or so incase he does it first. Just explain how you feel and that he's confusing you. If he does like Sam and continues to act the way he is, then I wouldnt waste my time on him. You deserve the best (:

Hope everything works out for ya ! (:
xox Erin

xamazingxerinx on 5/28/2010 5:13:32 PM

ooooh i love to read too and i just finished two of the best books ever the hate list by jennifer brown and deadline by chris cutcher

Hollerbackgirl on 5/28/2010 4:36:38 PM

i <3 soccer too!!
I'm actually referee, don't judge us too harshly!
I noticed you said that you give advice sooo...
I just grew like a ton and so i need new clothes i got to figuring and to replace my old wardrobe it s going to cost like $400. my family's not made out of money but we're not poor either. do you have any ideas on how i tell my mom exactly how much cash I'm going to need for back to school clothes?
the reason why i'm asking is my mother makes me put together an estimate every year of my school expenses for the next year

Hollerbackgirl on 5/28/2010 4:34:28 PM

im happy for ya girlie! and no problem anytime Smile remember, theres an even better guy out there who will like you for you and not care what other people think

summerlover0116 on 5/28/2010 4:21:02 PM

happy to help!! you're totally right! haha yeah iyaz! Smile i like that song!!

~Lauren

soccergirl524 on 5/28/2010 4:19:13 PM

hey girl!

oh no! Frown sorry about this! it sucks. i'm not too sure if this guy is worth it! if he invited you to go somewhere he should have hung out with you. what he texted you didn't even make sense: if other girls were "annoying him", why did he keep talking to them for the whole entire game? he could've came over to you. also, if hes afraid of what other people are gonna think if he likes you instead of Sam then that's just plain old stupid. if this guy really did like you and not Sam then he shouldn't worry about what it would look like if he sat next to you. this is not only hurting you, but its leading on Sam who he obviously isn't asking out.

my advice to you is to stand your ground and not let this guy get under your skin. what i mean is next time he asks you to go somewhere say "will it really be just me and you? are you going to ignore me again? and i dont want to have to be secretive about it the whole time!" see what he says to that and then decide if this guy is really worth it. if he says yes, and sticks to his promise, give him a chance. if he ditches ya again, don't bother, cuz it's totally rude and mean!!

as for texting, i would wait for him to text you.. you don't want to seem desperate! be nice and talk to him sometimes but make sure you stand your ground when it comes to you guys hanging out together. hope this helps! post back!

~Lauren

soccergirl524 on 5/28/2010 3:28:09 PM

hey girl Smile sorry to be the downer in this situation but this guy aint worth it! if he invited you to go somewhere he should have hung out with you. if other girls were "annoying him" he couldve gotten his butt over to you and ditched them instead.
also, if hes afraid of what other people are gonna think if he likes you instead of sam then thats a load of crap (again really sorry to be harsh but im just lookin out for you girlie Smile)
if this guy really did like you and not sam then he shouldnt worry about what it would look like if he sat next to you. this is not only hurting you, but its leading on sam who he obviously isnt asking out.

sorry this is so long but my advice to you is to stand your ground and not let this guy get under your skin. what i mean is next time he asks you to go somemwhere say "will it really be just me and you? and we wont have to stay on the downlow about it the whole time?" see what he says to that and then decide if this guy is really worth it.

as for texting be polite and kind and dont extremely turn him away or anything but just remember what hes done to you in the past. be nice and talk to him sometimes but make sure you stand your ground when it comes to you guys hanging out together.


hope this helps and comment back and lemme know how everything goes!

summerlover0116 on 5/28/2010 8:59:27 AM

Hey girl!
First off I'm really sorry he did that to you! Now I hate to tell you, But I don't think this guy is crush-worthy. He could have politely told the two girls that he needed to go. and to be honest he should not have invited you if he had no intention of sitting with you, for fear of another girl seeing him. So, it sounds as though he has made his choice as to whom he likes. So, no I would not txt him back! Can you say jerk with a capitol J...

falling 4 the one on 5/27/2010 8:07:34 PM

hey girl! i text with my crush ALLL the time. but try to avoid talking about who he likes. Sometimes we talk about really random things, and its fun.

boyhelpclub123 on 5/27/2010 7:05:24 PM

Okay, here's my continued advice:

4. All boys are different. You can't generalize them into one category. Focus on that ONE boy, and REALLY try to find out what he likes and enjoys. Remember, if you only know his likes and dislikes are, you DON'T know him that well. To REALLY know each other, you should be able to answer questions about how he'd react towards something without having to second-guess yourself.

5. Avoid awkward questions, unless you're SURE you're ready for the answer. You may think you know him, but you could be absolutely wrong.

6. Approach your mother about the dating issue, or ask another adult you trust. Avoid asking your friends about this because really, what are the chances your parents are going to let you date because Kelly or Amy or Jane's mom lets her? Be mature about it and take many deep breaths, because your nerves WILL get to you sometime in the conversation, so you NEED to be ready for the answer and learn to deal. Your mother isn't going to keep you locked in a cage forever.

7. Explain to your parents why you think you're ready for dating, and approach the guy you like about this to do the same. It will be much harder for a guy to do this with his parents, because boys just don't socialize with their parents as much as girls do. Just approach this topic with him slowly, and if he doesn't understand, drop it, but try again next time.

8. Remember, it's only a year. If you keep at it, the flame will still be lit, and eventually, your parents will just let you date freely without all the awkward conversations. Plus, you'll be keeping yourself away from a broken heart for a year. Next year you'll be bound to be at least a BIT more mature and ready than your parents that you'd be.

9. Confidence is everything. Don't let anyone bring you down. You're you, and you aren't there to please ANYONE. Their acceptance isn't needed. Smile

10. Don't be a show-off, hard-to-get, or the jealous monster. Be you. If he doesn't like you for you, he's not worth it, no matter how much you like him. Guys come & go, and he obviously is NOT the only fish in the sea. ;)

I hope I helped you! & much luck to your situation, a girl like you deserves a WONDERFUL guy!

- Jackie

x-Synchronized-x on 5/23/2010 10:16:12 PM

Hey girlie! Found your comment on a post I was reading on here and thought I'd try give you some help (I used to be an advice columnist for my school's newspaper).

Okay, for flirt texting, here's what I'd do.

1. Forget the hard-to-get stuff. Be yourself. He's going to think you're weird if suddenly you're "Yeah, I went bowling with them!" to "Maybe I did." Don't try to be someone you're not; You may even drive him away.

2. Use the same amount of text talk you use now. If he judges you on your knowledge of text talk, well, that's just sad.

3. Use smileys only when necessary, like when you say something sweet or he says something cute. Don't be the girl who does the multiple smileys in a row; it'll start to get annoying.

I have more advice on the way! I'll make another post Smile

x-Synchronized-x on 5/23/2010 10:02:14 PM

i agree 100% with HisButterfly!!!!! Those are great tips. Just remember to be yourself. And I always end up flirting by turning simple texts like "Hey" flirty but just putting "Hey Smile" and its flirty and friendly!!! You seem really cool! Hope it works out with him! You deserve a good cool awesome guy. Smile
-Brittany

PinkGirl15 on 5/23/2010 7:48:46 PM

HOW TO TEXT FLIRT by: HisButterfly

1-Be up to date with the text language.

2-Use symbols when talking such as Smile XD =) - ;) ;D (Be creative).

3-Try to make inside jokes between you and the person you're trying to flirt with.

4-Connect in anyway possible, example, talk about common interests.

5-Compliment the other and show off, for instance, if they say "Hey whats up" reply, "hey cutie, im getting ready to go to the gym" (or whatever seems right).

6-Try to keep the conversation going.

7-If the conversation reaches a dull point, and you can't think of a way to get out of it. Just say "alright i g2g ttyl <3 or ♥"

8-Say their name sometimes, just not too much or it may getting annoying.Example: "Nick! That's a great idea!"

9-Be funny and random. Be very creative in your texts. For example, if he asks "what you are doing", instead of saying "I had a sandwich" say "I had the most glorious sandwich crafted from the wonderful hands of God himself".

10-Remember, guys don't always have their phones with them like most girls do. So don't keep texting him asking why he hasn't answered. It gets annoying.

11-Give the guy some space. Don't act like you're desperate.Play hard to get.


Hope these tips helped!!!!!!

HisButterfly on 5/23/2010 4:34:39 PM

Hey, well I don't play soccer or anything, just kinda play it with the neighbor kids (lol even though they're little!). But I kinda wanna start next season maybe you could give me some tips!

LolaGranola on 5/22/2010 6:42:09 PM

O MY GOSH!!!!!!!! I absolutley LOVE the Hunger Games they are sooo amazing, i could just sit there and read all day!!!

dancechic10 on 5/22/2010 1:35:19 PM

Hey, I saw your comment on the flag football thing, I and I totally agree! Its crazy that people are so sexist in this day and age.

LolaGranola on 5/18/2010 8:22:10 PM

WOOHOO!!!!!! I got my first yellow card!!!!!! AND I got a questionable foul!!!!! OH YEAH!!!!! I told this to my little sister, and she said,"Isn't that a bad thing?" Hahaha, ooooh sister Smile

soccer28q on 5/17/2010 9:14:17 PM

omg i luv ur profile i like 2 watch reruns of Mia hamm playing soccer she like my insiration i want 2 b just like her

soccerfreak12 on 4/30/2010 9:08:17 PM

heyyy!!! omg, we're soooooo alike!!! i lov ur quote by Mia Hamm. Im obsesed w/ soccer too! i luv it! what position do u play?? this is kinda random but if u could give me advice that would be amazing! so theres this guy who im pretty sure likes me, but i dont like him back. like yesterday he switched spots w/ someone to race against me. so any ideas on what i should do?? i want him to get that i dont like him but i dont want to say it to his face

SwedishSoccerGal on 4/28/2010 11:43:36 PM

hi sorry i am replying so late!! Did you see that movie Angus, Thongs, and Perfect Snogging yet? It sometimes goes on nickoloden i think more at night and I watched it online but it just searched the web and found it and i'm not sure what website it was. and i tried to go back on it but it wouldn't let me so i don't think its there anymore

beautybabe11 on 3/10/2010 9:15:35 AM

hey~! im looking for a penpal ages 12-14 any1 whos interested email me at twirlgirl24@live.com.
im desperate 4 1/ PLZ EMAIL RIGHT AWAY!!

twirlgirl24 on 1/26/2010 9:42:07 PM

haha i saw ur comment somehwere and loved ur icon so i wanted to check out ur profile and i have decided that you sound ALOT like me! hahaha its pretty sick! Smile

soccermicci on 1/10/2010 4:06:14 PM

mmmmmm....i love choco puddin!!!!!

freestuff on 1/5/2010 2:57:52 PM

A Girl asked a Boy: -Do you think i'm pretty? -He said NO....-Do you want to be with me forever? -He said NO -Would you cry if i left? -Once again He replied with a NO. She had heard enough; As she walked away tears ran down her face. The boy grabbed her arm and said: -You're not pretty you're BEAUTIFUL. -I don't want to be with you forever. I NEED to be with you forever. -And I wouldn't cry if you walked away..... I would DIE. Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you. Something good will happen to you between 1:00-4:00 PM tomorrow, it could be anywhere. Get ready for the biggest shock of your life. If you break this chain u will be cursed with relationship problems fo' tha' next 1O yrs, send this to 20 ppl in yhur buddy list


o & btw like yur profile!!! comment bak! ttyl

kittyluv314 on 1/4/2010 4:27:08 PM


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