hey I hope yuu can help me!! (this miqht be lonq but i hope yuu can help!!;;)
There's this guy named Evan that I have a major crush on, and he has known ever since the beginning of the school yr, since my friend named Melody(who went to elementary with him)told him. But we're(me & evan) friends now. He said that we were, but he keeps teasinq me & lookinq at me in class. Once in a while he would do a wink and stuff, and his friends would say "Make your move!" to him every once in a while(since every1 knows I like him now) When I asked him to the dance he said yes, but when i asked him to the end-of-the-yr. dance he said 'no.' & when I told him that i miqht be transferrinq, l8r on he sent me an email(we've been sendinq emails back & forth, thts how we bcome friends)sayinq "I have to admit...I dont want you to transfer." i asked him out b4 & he said that he thinks of em as a friend only sicne he likes some othr qirl who qoes to anothr school tht was with him in elementary. but he said tht he wants me to keep likinq him tho bcuz it was fun. IK he's not shy so i quess he doesnt like me?Another time sum1 dared him to huq me & he wouldnt stop mentioninq iht to me, like he WANTED to huq me or sumthinq. (In the end, he did huq me lol) & once in class we had to do this thinq where our teacher would say a question & we would list facts about it in qrps & earn points 4 it. When he mentioned sumthinq and then my table added sumthinq to it, the teacher said that Evan already mentioned it. But Evan said tht he didnt and looked at me. Was it jsut bcuz he was beinq nice? Whenevr I feel liek he miqht like me, he always talk to 2 othr qirls & if eel all sad aqain. Like this othr qirl named Serena who is jealous tht I'm best friends with Sheralin (since sheralin & serena used to be rly close) keeps flirtinq with Evan. She knws him bcuz she knows his friends, Stephen & Alex. Once Evan shoved a piece of seaweed in her mouth & then Serena told my othr friends tht i looked hecka jealous. Which is true. Sheralin told me tht serena always lies. Also once Stephen told me that Evan likes me & tht Evan said 'we miqht liek each othr, but we arent rly girlfriend or boyfried yet". But when i told Serena(this was bak wen she didnt rly flirt with Evan, well she did, but not as much) she said that Alex said that he was abotu to ask her(serena) to the dance(the dance where I asked Evan & he said yes) i wanna find out how Evan feels about me but everythinq is jsut so complicated!! Plz help!! & thx for readinq all of this ><

Summer1234 on 6/12/2010 1:55:09 AM

heyy i saw ur post... what advice do you need?
xoxo

kata8888 on 6/7/2010 8:39:45 PM

like my guy friend (we're not super tight) who i talk to sometimes, mostly over msn (we only have one class together and we dont sit near each other). on msn he seems nice and talkative...it disconnects a lot though ruining our conversations. in person he doesnt usually start conversation first, when we sat close he used to make jokes like once in a blue moon and if he did he'd look to see if i was laughing. when i talk to him first he does talk, seems interested, even asks questions to keep it going. yet he always seems really shy or awkward, like he doesnt know what to do, like hes stunned or something...it makes me feel horrible cause i want to be his friend more than anything else...but he always seems so serious and tense around me. yet ill see him with his guy friends, or even other girls and hes smiling lauging and stuff. he sits beside this girl in the class we have together (seating plan) and when she talks to him he'll talk back and he seems totally comfortable and into it, laughs and jokes. and then i'll look around and our eyes will catch...like were looking at the exact same time and he'll look away or glance away SUPER quickly. im really shy too (i know hes shy..if not just socially awkward...people HAVE to talk to him first usually) and when i see him like that around everyone else and then with me he's talkative but really tense and stuff it hurts...
should i keep trying to push through to him? or leave him be?

Cooldudette! on 2/7/2010 1:22:50 PM

hey dianaaaa11
hey gurl srry abt the guy but if he doesnt like uu.. then the only thing u can do is either get him to notice u more or move on cuz if he has a gf then his off limits..so either try 2 get his attention but no flirting for example since u say ur "popular" stand with ur friends and when or if he walks by start laughing like ur having the time of ur life! so gurl give him wat u got!!
hope i helped!
soccergirlie!

soccergirlie on 1/15/2010 6:37:23 PM

EVERYONE HERE PLZ CHCK OUT MY PROFILE AND ASK/GIVE MOI ADVICE!!!!

popularbubblygirl16 on 1/15/2010 9:16:10 AM

Hey, so i need some help..
My crush was totally flirting with me. I'm pretty popular at school but he is the most popular boy in the grade. I was planning on asking him out but i was 2 nervous so my BGF told him i liked him. two days later i found out he was going out with this girl who..well lets just say shes got a reputation of going out with all the guys at my school, not at once or anything but well A LOT OF THEM. I feel so bad, ive pretty much curled up in a ball and cried ove rmy diary idk wat 2 do.
Help please!thx so much!

devilishJ on 1/13/2010 11:05:50 AM

hey soccergirlie:
Umm i just joined this site and i've noticed you've been giving out awesome advice so i was wondering if you can help me out plz?
So i like this guy and he already knows that but he still treates me the same. But the thing is, he likes calling me Ricky instead of Vicky and once in a while we talk. I have a friend of mine that was in the same middle school as him named Melody but recently I think he likes Melody. But i don't think he particulary really notices, and it's weird to me if i walk up to him to say "hey" or something. Like my crush asks melody stuff and walks with her a lot. (Melody doesnt like him tho) So i wanna see if i can try getting him to like me but you got any tips?(when we get assigned a seat next to each other, we talk a lot. But i cant get to ask him his fav. color or something, especially his phone num. since melody tried that 4 me already. but once our seat changes he only talks to me once in a while, like an occasional"what do we bring to class?") plz help me out if you can and thanks a lot!!!!!

SeasonalHolidays98 on 1/9/2010 12:45:50 AM

Haha I love your icon! Lol my one friend actually says that all the time, wierd. I luv soccer, I play offense. Yay I'm starting soccer on...Monday! Sooo excited!!!!

CutieWithGlasses on 1/7/2010 12:03:22 PM

ello! thanks for commenting on my profile! love urs!!!

pearlnagem on 1/3/2010 7:58:39 PM

hey ea2797
hey gurl srry abt ur bf. here r my top 5 ways 2 get a bf:
5. be outgoing: be the person u want 2 be..not who other ppl want u 2 be.
4. be brave: dont be afraid 2 talk 2 tht cutie..besides, if u dont, when r u?!
3. flirt: show ur cute side and show 'em wat u got gurl!
2. do something: u wanna get noticed rite? then do something 2 get noticed..like join a club or do a sport!
1. BE URSELF!: this is the most important cuz if a guy cant accept who u really r, then he isnt a true guy. no guy wants a fake. believe it or not...guys like gurls when they r themselves instead of someone else! SO GIVE IT UR ALL! (but dont try 2 hard cuz the u'll creep them out and u'll look fake!)
hope i helped!
soccergirlie!

soccergirlie on 1/2/2010 2:47:50 PM

hey Cooldudette!
hey gurl i think tht if he barley responds 2 ur txts and MSN messages.. then its time 2 call him if tht doenst work ask him wats up. and i think flirting is an fantabulous idea! u should ask him who he likes. or ask him if he ever did like anyone. but dont ask 2 many questions cuz then ull just creep him out but tell him tht u like someone and end it like tht. tht will make him desperate 2 know. so then he wont stop thinking abt u or who u like and maybe maybe he might wish it was him...
hope i helped xoxo
soccergiirlie

soccergirlie on 12/31/2009 2:31:14 PM

Hey, Thanks for the advice!
Do you think the fact that he doesn't usually reply on MSN and that he hardly resonds to text is a bad sign, could he just be bad technically lol?
I was also wondering how I could flirt with him on MSN without being too out there (if he does respond)
Thanks for any future advice!!!

Cooldudette! on 12/31/2009 10:26:41 AM

People say you give great advice. I kind of have this problem with this guy cause i cant tell if he likes me. could you give me your opinion? So theres this guy at my school in my grade. hes like super cute and really nice. he usualy sits next to me at lunch and sometimes he like carries my stuff for me which i think is sort of stupid but still really sweet. hes in all my classes and calls me em which alot of peopel don't even tho i hate my whole 1st name and we always kind of make fun of each other. is he just being nice or does he like me? and if he likes me, how can i get him to ask me out cuz i dont want to make the first move.



thanx, Em

individualgrl on 12/30/2009 11:20:47 PM

hey Cooldudette!
so i think tht if he talks 2 u and not as much 2 other ppl then he might have a thing 4 u!! he might like u but if u show him the real u..(meaning 2 flirt) then he will realize tht he is missing out on something speacial. so show him wat u got gurl!!
hope i helped! xoxo
soccergirlie!

soccergirlie on 12/30/2009 10:59:06 PM

ya i do actually give good advice!! do u have a question 4 me? thhnxx

soccergirlie on 12/30/2009 3:29:50 PM

hey i heard you give good advice?

tennismvp on 12/29/2009 6:29:46 PM

thnxx!!!

soccergirlie on 12/28/2009 12:55:41 PM

haha nice pic!;D

sunshine123 on 12/28/2009 3:01:28 AM

hey i cant decide to break up with this dude or not he is propally cheatig on me but i dont know fo sor he always has his leg wrapped around a another girl

elizana1 on 12/26/2009 10:57:41 PM

hey vana903
okay tht kid has to be lying becuz if it didnt come from ur bgf's mouth..then u cant really believe wat other ppl say if u dont know 4 sure if its true and gurl if u like him and he likes u.. then u guys should totally go out!! but if he becomes a player then dont go out with him anymore!!
hope i helped! xoxo
soccergirlie

soccergirlie on 12/26/2009 9:20:08 PM

i have a question....well situation

okayy so im totally in love with my BFG, and he likes me too (he told me!). he told me friend that he was gonna ask me out after winter break. well anyway i was looking at him myspace (i dont have one but i serched his name and stuff and its was public) anyway he hasnt been on since like the middle of november. and there was this comment from a kid he used to go to school with (he moved to our school last year in the middle of the year) and the comment was "your little player a** has to have a girl don't ya?" and my friend said that he had like 20 gfs last year before he came to our school. so do you think hes a player? should i stay away from him? (like just be friends) or should i give him a chance and leave the past behinde? and i mean hes never actually said that he had like 20 gfs or that hes a player...and hes only had one gf since hes been at the school.

thankss!

vana903 on 12/26/2009 7:17:53 PM

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redsoxlover on 12/25/2009 8:35:24 PM

its ok, we figured everyting out. thanks for trying to help tho
Wolfie

deathwolf13 on 12/19/2009 11:26:32 AM

Hey, i saw one of the posts u made to a mod, the one about u being mad and ur friend and stuff, well thats happening between me and a friend except im on the other end of the spectrum, and idk if i should forgive her, cuz we've had huge fights the past 3 years that have always ended in the counsler's office, so i know how u feel.
plz look at my profile and comment!
wolfie... wolves are AWESOME!!!!
... so is ANIME...lol

deathwolf13 on 11/26/2009 2:22:06 PM

Hey soccergirlie!

Sorry it took me so long to write back, but I posted my answer to your guy probs on my profile. Check 'em out!

Luv, purple5698/Lauren

purple5698 on 11/15/2009 8:23:59 PM