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Hey, spazzysarah. I transferred my advice queen page over to you. There are some people there who need help, and I know I don't control that page anymore, so I thought I would alert you. If you don't want the responsibility anymore, you can go to the Clubs FAQ and transfer ownership back over to me. Hope you're having a nice day!
7714st on 11/12/2011 1:04:43 PM
Spazzysarah- for the club Dear Lizzy, could you please post some TOTD's? I ran outta ideas! Thanks
nerdisthewurd26 on 6/22/2011 9:27:45 AM
Hi, you seem like an awesome person, maybe you'd like my website at mlaam.weebly.com
crowellgirl2 on 6/15/2011 3:44:11 PM
Oh my goodness! I'm so jealous! I've always wanted to live in the forest and wake up to that. Oh cool! I'm in 8th grade too...one year ahead :] I doubt you have to worry about high school all that much. Haha I love Sims. I play it on my ipod all the time I Swim every weekday usually and since it's summer it starts at 5:30 (yuck) then I have baseball/softball spread out through the week then on the weekends I hang with friends and go to Church or sometimes I have swim meets.
*Sigh* on 6/6/2011 11:11:54 PM
Hey girls! I made a blog for advice for you! I will have regular blog posts, question answering, and advice giving! (with pictures!!) the website is http://starsr.xanga.com/ please please please post this on any page you have acsess to, visit the site, and tell your friends! If you can't join xanga to comment, comment on my profile, ask questions by liking me as an advice queen and joining my club advice for all!
spazzysarah on 6/5/2011 7:16:59 PM
hey this is Gabbby! are you looking for a new advice club? if the answer is yes join GabbyGirlAdvice! (if the answer is no, join anyway you can find the club on my profile. i give out the best advice on all categories! by the way i love ur profile JOIN NOW!!, Gabby
giruiz on 6/1/2011 6:36:09 PM
I've never tried tennis (on a team) but it sounds so fun! haha geeks are amazing! It's good that you have so many great friends to talk to, very good, very good. You're so lucky to live in the woods!!!! I ♥♥♥♥ the woods and pretty much any place that's quiet and nature-y-ish (like fields and stuff) my favorite subjects are math and english. they're also my best subjects hah. You're a really good at writing (from what I've seen on here) keep it up! I play the piano (and have been since I was about 7) and I sorta know how to play the guitar. So what grade are you in? 8th? What do you usually do in the week?
*Sigh* on 5/29/2011 3:46:15 PM
well, I ♥ sports (especially baseball/softball) I'm kind of introverted and I'm 13....I'm constantly trying to get closer to God and that sorta half-way covers it what're you like? (I want Catholic friends too cause there aren't many around where I live)
*Sigh* on 5/24/2011 11:11:08 PM
hey! so you're Catholic eh? that's awesome!!!!!! I am too
*Sigh* on 5/19/2011 5:03:19 PM
Hey Chicky! Just letting you know, that your are the VP of Dear Lizzy now. Thanks!
nerdisthewurd26 on 5/15/2011 11:40:20 PM
Written by a guy! <3 It's true We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you; but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned... Nothing is that important at 2 am. That it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you otherwise. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me... Don't be mad when we hold the door open Take advantage of the mood im in. Let us pay for you! Dont "feel bad" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you". Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. Or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"? I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I woulndn't like it ether ; ) Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change!!! Ditch his sorry ass, HE is a disgrace to the male population. And find someone who will treat you with utter respect!!! Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes and say "I love you" ...and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance. ADVICE: *Holding Hands Girls: If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times. *Movies Girls: During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder. Guys: Lift her chin up and kiss her. *Loving each other Guys: When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it. *Laying below the stars Girls: When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat. Guys: Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Guys repost this if you agree. Girls repost this if you think it's cute. Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this. so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this. Girls repost as: written by a guy. Guys post as: girls need to realize
spazzysarah on 5/15/2011 1:30:05 PM
I love ur story! Keep going wit it!
amdc101 on 5/11/2011 4:09:02 PM
there is no such thing as "upper" and "lower" abs, but you should try running or jogging or swimming along with leg lifts to tone up your "lower" abs. exercise 1: if you have an exercise ball you can do crunches on them. exercise 2: Sitting on a flat bench with your hands behind your but or grab the sides of the bench. Extend your legs straight out, bending your knees. Begin by bringing your knees into your midsection. Slowly return to the starting position and repeat.
i_luv_devin on 5/11/2011 5:45:19 AM
Hey all, this is the story I am currently working on. Please comment with either criticism or complements!! I knew that when I left home I would be different from my parents and sister. I would live in Florida and my dream was to be more of the snobbish and wealthly class. All I really wanted was a status and a job in Disney world. I never thought this would happen though. It all first started in college. I kept to my beliefs of no sex before marriage, because I believed in that as well. When I turned 21 I turned into both the life of the party and the top of my year. My grades sky rocketed because I was in such a good mood. I was in such a good mood because I was always partying half the time. I had taken to bleaching facial hair and waxing my legs and brows. I was one of the most popular, and I have to say, beautiful, people in my school. When I left, I secured a job at a software engineering company and became the CEO. I only became the CEO because he was retiring and I made out with him, but, there are upsides to being a slut. Sometimes things change for the worse, but mine changed for the better. I plopped my keys down on my nightstand and looked at my iPhone to see if I received any texts. My best friend had sent me an invite to a club. Our favorite, for smoking was not allowed. I walked into my closet and found the perfect outfit for boy hunting; a black sequined tank that hugged all my curves, a short white skirt, 3 inch black strappy sandals, and my hair in a messy bun. I slicked on a coat of red lipstick and mascara and headed out. Time for fun. When I walked into the club, the bass of the music shook my body and the smells of perfume and cologne intoxicated my mind. The whole room was in a smoke from all the heat radiating off of peoples bodies. Strippers came around with drinks, leering at anyone who might follow them into a room where they could fuck. I walked to the counter and sat down on the stool. “Martini,” I commanded. A familiar voice found my ears over the voices and music. “ I didn’t know you drank.” If this was a cartoon, my mouth would have dropped and my eyes would have bulged. My best friend, well, use to be best friend, was sitting on the stool next to me. “I would say the same for you. I’m surprised an athlete like you could even think about ruining his liver, Alex.” He was still as hot as ever. His beach blond hair just hit the top of his eyes. His skin was golden, and he still had his muscular physic. His gold and green eyes still sparkled. “Sarah, did you hear anything I just said?” Even in the dimly lit club, I could tell he was talking serious. “Why do you not come to my house? We can talk there.” I received a text when I got home. Ari was freaking out because she could not find me at the club. I shot her a quick, I went but I have work to do and poured Alex and I both pineapple juice. “Pineapple juice?” he asked. “Just like at your house when we were young.” I walked into my bedroom. “I’ll be out in a sec.” I came back out with my make-up off and in grey sweats and a pink cami. “Well there’s the old Sarah. Welcome back to earth.” “Oh, shut up” “No it’s true. You are so different now. What happened to the Sarah I knew who got what she wanted by her intelligence and wit and charm rather than by her lips.” I sighed. “I liked that Sarah better.” He said softly. “Well, I got rejected in Disney World, and I guess I just gave up. Why work hard to get nothing when you can slip through that cracks and be successful?” “That is what I want to talk to you about. I work for Disney, and there is an opening as another Imagineer in my group. I told the rest of the guys in the group that I had the perfect girl for it. I finally convinced them that it did not seem that bad. Having a girl in the group would help us understand what your gender would want from movies to rides. So…” “Wait. You are offering me a job for Disney?” “Ya.” I jumped up and hugged him and shrieked. I was acting like a little girl but I didn’t care. He got up from the couch and held me on my shoulders. “Calm down, Sarah. Calm down.” I jumped up and down and hugged him. He pulled me down onto the couch. I lay against him, happy to have gotten my friend back. We talked until we found ourselves asleep in each other’s arms. That night my dreams consisted of us working side by side, happy together. That didn’t mean anything though… Did it? The next day I woke up at 5am and went for a run around the local park like every morning. When I came back, Alex had started to make us coffee, and looked me up and down. I wouldn’t blame him. I had gotten much thinner and toned, my figure more defined, and my skin, more tan. I had on only a cami and short shorts, so I was dressed in a bit of a provocative style, well, as provocative as you can get when in clothing to exercise in.
spazzysarah on 5/10/2011 5:45:43 PM
Kay, I'm gonna try that!
i_luv_devin on 5/9/2011 3:33:36 AM
thanx!
nerdisthewurd26 on 5/7/2011 9:53:47 AM
Any tips you can give me that lead to weight loss, that you have tried or a close friend has tried that works...
i_luv_devin on 5/7/2011 2:53:42 AM
sorry, i was on vacation and then my internet was down:/ anyways, definitely sit ups, lots of them, crunches, throwdowns, and running haha, but throwdowns i think will help the most (they're REALLY hard though!) throwdowns are when you lay down in sit up position, but with your legs up (so i guess crunch position) and then somebody throws your legs down, but you cant let your feet touch the ground
sarah.sjworm on 5/3/2011 4:46:46 PM
Um, Are you up to being a workout buddy too? How much do you go on GL? I go on maybe daily.
i_luv_devin on 4/28/2011 11:31:54 PM
Yes I'm up to it!!! Sarah, call me Kalie or K.
i_luv_devin on 4/20/2011 5:43:41 PM
Hey girly! Why would your mom freak if she saw you working out, there is nothing bad about it, you're just trying to get/stay healthy? Here are some great workout moves: Plank: start in pushup position (not the "girly" way) , lower down onto elbows while keeping abs and body really tight and hold for 1 minute, take a break and repeat once. Three Part Crunches: Start on your back with your hands clasped behind your head. Raise your legs up in the air, so your body forms a 90 degree angle. Lift your shoulders off the floor and then lift your butt off the floor. Hold that lifted position for two breaths. Lower back down to start. Repeat 10 times. Mountain Climbers: Start off in pushup position (not the "girly" way tho) Jump and move one leg forward, jump and move the other leg forward, and keep doing this for 30seconds to a minute. You can also try running, rollerblading, rollerskating, or jumping rope to get in shape! There are lots of great workouts here on GL under the Health&Fitness Tab that you should checkout! Thanks! Hope this advice helps! If you need any more advice you can come to me!
pinkypi26 on 4/20/2011 12:39:45 PM
Heyy! Well, I go to a private school (all girls, unfortunately ). You said that you need to get away from the distractions at home, how would switching schools help? Unless you are talking about a boarding school, which are VERY expensive. Most private schools offer scholarships for people who can't afford to pay the whole tuition, what also helps is if you get good grades. You should tell your parents that. If they still say no then I guess you just have to push through. I don't really know what problems you're experiencing, but if you need any help just talk to me
sarah.sjworm on 3/5/2011 7:07:48 PM
ok, so from my own personal experience i think tht u should start to flirt w/ him and kinda "test" him. touch his arm while u talk and stuff like tht. also do u have his number? if u do send him a quick random "hey" sometime like after school.if he responds start a convo, and say something flirty or add a ;) to the end of a txt. i do this w/ guys who i like and it seems to give them the hint tht i may want to more then just friends w/ them. hope this helpss! lovess erynn
erynn14 on 1/10/2011 6:44:04 PM
heyy, sorry i didnt answer sooner! well... maybe just sit her down sometime.. dont be rude just say something like "i want to be your friend still, but, well, you act immature sometimes, and it bothers me..." but also, maybe you are acting too mature as well, maybe try joking around some more, instead of being serious all the time, and try to be nice to her still okay hope this helps!
sarah.sjworm on 12/12/2010 4:31:31 PM
I love Baseball and Chocolate Kayla xoxo
redsoxlover on 11/25/2010 6:27:34 PM
thnx
katzrock112 on 2/21/2010 5:08:50 PM
hey! i saw that u ride horses!!!!! so do i, i have 6 horses how many do u have???
kevluver4 on 2/11/2010 6:14:57 PM
I love showing, but just trail riding can be the most fun of all. I guess I'm just a competitve person I like it so much because I can see how good of a rider I am compared to others, and improve myself. I love the feeling of a well trained show horse, love the forward trot and how they feel when they're collected and working through the back. I've got goals for myself and I'm working toward them. I want to get a Top 10 at Arabian Horse Youth Nationals someday. Unfortunately, it's far away from where I live, and expensive. But I'll find a way to get there. They say if you dream of it, you can do it. That's what I'm banking on.
kclove on 2/6/2010 5:21:48 PM
great! ur in! Have fun posting links, advice, etc.
club listen and talk on 2/4/2010 6:49:34 PM
Do you show? I love riding bareback! I have a Quarter pony named Carmel, and I ride her bareback all summer long-through the fields, in the woods, wherever. She's awesome but because of lameness problems she can't canter. Oh, and I also ride her brideless. She responds to my cues SO well, it's just great. That's the best feeling in the world, jogging around on her (she has the most AMAZING jog-collected and smooth as glass) and being able to control her with my weight and my legs, no hands needed. You should try it sometime.
kclove on 2/4/2010 5:44:34 PM
I ride western, but I actually do more bareback! I love arabs but I love PSH just the same
spazzysarah on 2/3/2010 7:03:07 PM
Cool! Do you show? What do you ride? It's awesome you have Arabians too, they are just the best horses ever, aren't they? I am a diehard Arab girl! ☺
kclove on 1/30/2010 6:18:41 PM
Nice profile! Do you have any horses? I have 4: a pony named Carmel, an Arab gelding named Kansas City, an Arab mare named Sweet Pea, and an Arab gelding named Emi. I show Carmel walk/trot. I will be showing Kansas City this year (got him for Christmas) in hunter and western pleasure. Except for Sweet Pea, they're all bay (she's chestnut). Anyway enough about my horse obsession let's hear about yours! (Oh, just post it on my profiel).
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