Hey girl, I saw your post about your BGF/crush. I just wanted to let you know that I have a similar situation, except that he is my bf. sometimes I doubt our relationship and wonder if its even worth it. he has really bad depression and it's really hard because people with depression tend to go through cycles. Like he's always so happy but then something will trigger his depression and he just snaps into a totally different person. But I love him, he is such an amazing person when he is stable and I would never want to leave him. So I guess im letting you know if your willing to go through it with him then do it. But just be careful because you also have to follow your dreams. Don't be to caught up in helping him that you forget about you. I remember one time me and bf discussed breaking up, and it really crushed him and he was a wreck after that talk. i felt like i had to stay with him to keep him happy. So in a way I feel like he's holding me back from living my life. But im willing to go through it because I love him.. But just be careful, figure out what you want in a relationship and figure out if you really want to go through all of it. I did alot of research on depression and it helps when you understand it and grasp what he may be feeling when he goes through the cycles. Also from my experience, never tell him that you don't like his depression(because there is nothing you can change about it) instead listen to him and hear him out. Give him positive advice and most of all be there for him. If you need any advice about it just visit my profile, im here and I know what your going through. Good luck!

becca<3's you on 4/24/2013 10:35:06 AM