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livver on 4/17/2011 2:35:26 PM

hey, can you help me out? i have a really close guy friend who i met a few years ago. he's in the popular crew, however, and since everyone knows i like him(he knows too but he doesnt mind) he can't really show that we're close friends(he does sometimes. i get why he doesn't tho, lots of peer pressure) but i get jealous whenever he talks to some other popular girl and teases her or something(he teases a lot of people). what should i do? thanks.

xdsmileyface on 4/15/2011 12:45:24 AM

my boyfriend recently is just being crabby, cause i talk to other boys, and he's all jealous, and he is being mean to me!! recently he has started abusing me, i told a teacher, but he hasn't stopped leaving me alone..... HELP!!

livver on 4/13/2011 8:23:40 PM

Okay. I need some tips. First of all, I need some ways to make a little extra money. I'm only 13, so I can't get a job. I'm having my birthday in a couple weeks and I'm inviting like 20+ people, so I'll get some money then.
Second, I really like this guy at my school. He's a grade younger than me, and taller then me. How do I tell him I like him? I am really shy

Thanks,

Caitlynn

CaitlynnLovesSomeoneSpecial on 4/4/2011 8:50:20 PM

Hey! I need some help again, hope you don't mind!
So I have a really cool guy friend(let's call him Avan) and I met him about 2 years ago. We're really close and we do all this stuff together in school w/o people knowing, like race each other after 2nd period, talk to each other on the way to 3rd period(we have diff. classes though except for 1st&2nd period)and stuff. He would tell me his secrets and we would joke around. He knows that I like him cuz I told him before(he knows that i still do) and I also asked him out before.(that time he liked some girl from his old school, but he said that i can still like him and that nothing will change, so im still trying) . Once when i said that I'm tired of faking a smile he even said that he would make me smile for real.
In our school, there are people considered "cool". They're athletic, wears the cool brands, and is well known in out grade. They're really nice, but it seems so, well, fake. They're so close together that it's hard for you to fit in, and it's like they're perfect or sumthing. So Avan has these 3-4 friends of his who are in this group, so Avan is now, too. (He's really popular also; some of the "cool" girls like/liked him)But now he's getting closer and closer to the "cool" group people, and he's changing slowly. He doesn't talk to me as much (except online and during 1st&2nd period; except w/o the same closeness)and race me anymore either. Like, before 3rd period, he would talk to those girls now, yet he would still talk to me. It seems like there's no difference in what we do but Ik that there is cuz I can feel it. He doesn't listen as much and he's turning into those "cool" people.
I WOULD talk to him about it like we usually talk, but everytime I'm sad about him and we talk, I can't help but feel that I'm bothering him. I asked if I was a bother before and he said no, of course not, but I don't want him to think that he should CHANGE or something just cuz I think he's "different" now. I don't even know if he notices. My friends told me to just give it a rest maybe(cuz I do my best to "run into" him; since we're not in the same classes anymore and i feel left out. The cool girls r in his class too) but Idk. What should I do?
(This is super long, I'm sry!)
oh and something totally diff.:
we're having new electives next year (the school added a bunch of new ones) and now I have to choose between band and chorus. I love to sing and I write my own songs all the time, so I would love to go to chorus, but I've been in Band for two years and I feel so close to them that it's like family. I play the drums, and ik it won't help me for wut i wanna major in a lot, but band is the COOLEST and the BEST nxt year cuz it's the final year. I don't want to miss out, and band always cheers me up. what should I do?
Ik this is super long; so thank you so much! I totally appreciate it!

ixfinally on 4/1/2011 1:57:28 AM

TheFlamingPopsicle-
Hey! Well, first of all, good for you for trying to be healthier. But also realize that your BMI isn't everything, and this doesn't necessarily mean that you're not at a healthy weight. BMI charts don't take into account other things that can point to whether or not you're healthy. That being said, if you see that you aren't being as healthy as you should be and are trying to improve, good for you! However, binging and purging is never the way to go! That can lead to bulimia and have some nasty side effects. If you are seriously considering doing this, you need to tell someone immediatly so that you can get help. And there's nothing wrong with eating a treat every once in awhile. But if you do and you feel guilty about it, don't throw it up! It's not worth it. If you want to make up for it, eat healthier at your next meal or exercise a little more than you normally would. And like I said, if you really can't fight the urge to binge and purge, you need to tell a parent or other adult so you can get help! Good luck! And if you have any more questions, don't hesitate to ask!
<3 Shannon

supersingershannon on 3/29/2011 6:27:12 PM

I know I'm not fat but I also know that I'm not at the weight I should be. I'm about 14 lbs over, according to my BMI. I've been trying a new, healthier lifestyle but I don't know if I can do it. I have those days where I'm seriously convincing eating that little treat I want to eat and then just purging it back up. I don't want to become bulemic. I'm getting to the point where I really need help.

TheFlamingPopsicle on 3/28/2011 8:01:09 PM

OMJB than you so much I've transferred around 8 times and I'm going to do it fr a 9th time for seventh grade so I'm prepared but I love that you were trying to help thank you sooo much. I also love your profile

isa19dance on 3/25/2011 7:45:52 PM

okay, awesome! thanks!

Quince_playa on 3/23/2011 5:27:34 PM

hi u have got 2 join my 80s fan club i love crosby stills and nash plz join my club you will b VP!!

tabbycat627 on 3/21/2011 4:59:28 PM

Hi hi okay, so there's this really cute guy in my class that I like a lot. We hang out, i laugh at his jokes and such. My friends tell me that he likes me too and I sorta believe them. But what throws me off is when he hangs out with this other girl(which btw every boy has a crush on) more often. He always smiles around her and laughs at her jokes. Im not usually the jealus type but now im raging with fury!!! Please tell me what to do :/
<3 SecretHottie

SecretHottie on 3/20/2011 7:37:41 PM

i really wanna get abs, easily.... any ideas for abs??

livver on 3/20/2011 6:10:24 PM

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Hey girlie -- your body isn't ready yet

pinkerona on 3/19/2011 11:30:48 AM

Hey supersingershannon! I love dancing, singing, and playing my trumpet! But acting is by far my favorite! I had the lead role in my last school play! I think it would be great if you could accept me as your vice president! Let me know what ya think!

dancenow

dancenow on 3/18/2011 8:38:34 PM

hey, i need some help. I have decided to let loose my old friends because they made bad decisions. how can I get new friends now because everyone is in there own little "clique" right now because school is so far into the year? thanks! also, i am kind of known as the wierd and awkward kid.. how can I change my image? thanks again!

loveforever21 on 3/17/2011 2:00:25 AM

Hi, I have a probleme with this clique of girl`s in my class. they r pretty mean. Like today in gym class, we played bastket ball and were cheating about every way you could possibly cheat in basketball. me and my team told on them 2 times and the coaches didn`t do anything about it!! they weren`t ever watching or caring! and then the girls went and told this super popular (and cute) boy everything. help with teacher`s pet and student`s pest?

kpianoplayer on 3/16/2011 6:22:04 PM

hey another quick question! so my DC trip is comin up, and i found out there may be a pool, and besides i wanna look great for it anyways, but i am 5 and im 115-120 ounds, i gained A TON over winter, and i wanna shed it and tone my body back uo again. Any tips on how to stay away from junk food, get exercise (that actually helps, not makes me MORE muscular) and how to eat right would be great! Thnx sooo much! <3 Mackenzie

mackenzie.dineen.xox on 3/15/2011 10:57:19 PM

Thank u very much for responding! I don't think I could or want to ask him out. I'm not at all shy but when it comes to that, I guess I am He has had gf's be4 so idk I guess I'll just wait it out

CYTchick on 3/15/2011 7:13:40 PM

You like Panic! at the Disco AND The Young Veins?! I love you!

CupCakers3 on 3/15/2011 12:23:35 AM

HELP!!
so i have really red acne on my forehead, and it's kinda oily. i use a toner 2 times a day, but it doesn't seem to work.
2) so what face wash do u use, does it work?, and how much does it cost??
3)what's a good mineral powder ( cost too, please)!
4) how can i tone my butt and legs??

livver on 3/14/2011 5:07:27 PM

Umm, well this is embarressing but if you shave "down there" will the hair grow back like leg hair or armpit hair?

cuddles on 3/14/2011 12:23:55 PM

Those are some great ones! You're right, it's SO hard to list favorites! That's why I just went the easy way out with U2 and said "all of them"...and also because that's true!

futureauthor19 on 3/14/2011 7:41:43 AM

ggdroxx-
Hey! First, I suggest talking to your parents about it. Say, "I know you guys really wish I would give up my dream of being a famous singer. But I love to sing! It's my passion, and it makes me really happy." Then, ask them why they don't support your decision. If you can ease their fears, then they'll be more likely to support you. Are they worried that you're going to skip college and not worry about an education in order to pursue their dream? Tell them that you'll still get an education, but pursue music on the side. Are they worried that you'll never make it? Assure them that it's something you want to try for and that you know it's difficult to become famous, but it's your dream and it's worth a shot. Whatever their reason, try to reassure them that they shouldn't worry about it. Tell them how much you really want and need their support, and how important it is to you that they are OK with what you are doing. Then, show them that singing isn't going to completely take over your life, but that it is your passion. Take voice lessons if possible, and get involved in choirs and musicals and any other opportunities that you can. But keep your grades up, and continue to spend time with your friends and family. If you do this, they will be more likely to take you and your dream seriously. Good luck! And if you have any more questions, you can always come to me!
<3 Shannon

supersingershannon on 3/13/2011 10:17:38 PM

Shannon!!!!!!!!
Need help need help need help!!!
My parents and my friends think i am reeeely good at singing
But....When i told them i want to be a singer and be famous and travel and tour...my dad just blurted out "WHERE DID I GO WRONG?"
Neither of them support me...BUT...i KNOW i am lucky because i have friends who support me more than my parents.How do i get over my parents and show them who i am and what i can do and what i want?XXX
-Georgia

ggdroxx on 3/12/2011 5:01:25 PM

samtoad3-
Hey! I suggest trying Frizz Ease by John Frieda. It's a collection of shampoos and other products that fights frizz. I'm not sure if that's exactly what you're looking for, though. But John Frieda has good products, so I suggest looking on their website and finding the products to help with what you need. Good luck! If you have any more questions, feel free to ask!
<3 Shannon

supersingershannon on 3/12/2011 3:00:22 PM