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  1.   Virgo
  2.   Outgoing, Spotry and Girly
  3.   7
  4.   Pink
  5.   Older Brother, Zach annoying
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  1.   spanish
  2.   Volleyball
  3.   Volleyball, Hockey and Baseball and Field hockey
  4.   chillaxin
  5.   Doggies
  6.   Mexcican, Pizza, Ice Cream,
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  8.   California, Spain or Italy
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  2.   Twilight and New Moom
  3.   Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, Demi Lovato, All Time Low, Fall Out Boy
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  5.   Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez
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  2.   Aeropostale, Icing, American Egale, and Vanity
  3.   None just give me a shimery pink any day
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Cool profile, check out mine!(:

tennis! on 1/9/2011 1:03:41 PM

Hey ur welccome. maybe one day youll get ur chance. =D

chicka678 on 9/20/2010 12:39:04 AM

Then i would say take on every singing oppertunity that comes up. The talent show, a local singing contest, or if you live near a big city you could audition for a tv show. I hope these are more doable!

chicka678 on 9/18/2010 7:56:13 PM

Hey chica!

I want to be a singer to! so bad! I suggest posting some videos of you singing on youtube. Producers and other people in the music biz are lookin for ppl all the time!

Good luck!!

Love,

~Megan~

chicka678 on 9/14/2010 8:21:35 PM

Dear toby1,
I'm starting middle school this year and I don't know what to do! Help me please?!?!?!?!

kissyface258 on 8/14/2010 6:21:52 PM

they are both right because depending on your symptoms you might eat more or you might be feeling really nautious and have ketones and not want to eat and loose weight (thats what happened to me)

books4ever on 7/22/2010 1:17:37 PM

Omg I just heard that Justin Bieber will be in the sequal of Valentines Day called New years Eve not for sure yet but theres talk of a whole new cast that means NO SEXY Taylor Lautner

toby1 on 7/21/2010 5:17:30 PM

hey i saw ur comment on the diabetes thibng and eating sugary stuff doe NOT increase your risk of diabetes any doctor will tell you that...thats what they told me when i was diagnosed anyway...

books4ever on 7/18/2010 10:52:18 PM

ok, well, first of all, will you be able to see him this summer? it would be a great time to ask him again, when youre alone. if not, you could ask him at the beginning of the year. it may seem a bit stalkerish but just ask when youre both alone, away from his friends.if he says no, maybe you should just leave him be, unless you really REALLY like him. im all for fighting for love! i really hope this helped and if i misunderstood tell me. paix! (peace), clarabunny Smile

converse.revolution on 6/20/2010 5:45:27 PM

i think i'm pretty good @ advice(: ask away

converse.revolution on 6/12/2010 7:29:30 PM

Just white! But we're getting new carpet and leather furniture! YAY!
~peace, love, HAPPY EASTER!!!!! Laughing

tennismvp on 4/4/2010 1:21:42 PM

Thanks!!!! Yea, Taylor awesomeness!!! What are you doing today?? I'm painting my family room. Ok, ok, my PARENTS are painting!! Laughing
~peace, love, PAINT Laughing

tennismvp on 4/3/2010 1:20:39 PM

I think your icon is SUPER cool! And I also like your profile!!!!
~peace, love, HAPPINESS Laughing

tennismvp on 3/31/2010 10:25:21 AM

lautner is soooooo hawt and swift is unreal pretty. do u watch glee,vampire diaries,degrassi or secret life of the american teenager? i love those shows. i love twilight its sooo good. comment back

Hannah

sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/13/2010 9:08:44 PM

lautner or swift? i really like them both. i think they should still be together but they broke up

sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/13/2010 4:13:28 PM

i dont like miley cyrus she dresses weird and is a slut i only like party in the usa and one in a million.comment back

sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/12/2010 9:07:06 PM

justin bieber is really hawt. i love him i like his voice. Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile

sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/11/2010 8:57:54 PM

love ur icon i think taylor lautner is hot too hes my celebrity crush. i love demi lavoto, selena gomez and emily osment. i just started listening to justin bieber and hes pretty cool. comment back.

Hannah

sebringobluestreaksgirl on 3/10/2010 5:09:04 PM

hey girl-oh my god, again, i am so, so, so sorry that i didn't answer sooner! i really spaced out on this one. i don't even know if this advice still works for you, but i'll tell you what i think. Smile
i agree, talking to this guy is what's going to get you two together in the end. i would try to get to know him a little better before you go in for the kill and tell him how you feel, though, because you sort of just started liking him after you stopped liking his brother. just say hi, ask him what's going on, and just let the conversation develop from there. if you can, and you're not too horribly nervous, then just flirt a little bit with him here and there. smiles and eye contact, as always, go a long way!
and when it comes time for you to tell him how you feel? the best thing to do is to just go for it. don't think about it for too long, because then you'll chicken out, and you'll never get your chance. instead, just tell him when he's not surrounded by his friends, do it quickly, and see how he responds. trust me, you have nothing to lose! Smile .

hope i helped! Smile

jess

sunflowerlicious on 2/17/2010 9:22:35 PM

hhhhhheeeeeyyyyy in know that guy, the one in your picture thing! He is an awesome friend!

superblok12 on 2/15/2010 5:27:19 PM

Nice profileSmile Smile WHat's ur icon

bumblebree on 2/13/2010 10:39:02 AM

who is that on ur icon???

mightbeme95 on 2/7/2010 10:53:09 AM

i love ur profile!!
i want to be a vet when im older too!!
anyways u seem pretty cool
comment back!!

verenice<3 on 2/6/2010 1:11:50 AM

yea... its my fave!! Smile

crazy runnah on 2/4/2010 6:23:21 PM

hey! i like Aero too!!! Smile

crazy runnah on 2/3/2010 10:54:50 PM

hey girl! no, it's not weird at all that you ended up liking his brother-things change, and so do our feelings for people. it's completely normal. and i totally get where you're coming from, because i just started crushing on this guy that i've known for three years, but barely ever spoken too, except in groups and stuff. but now, it's completely different, so, yeah Smile .
if you need any help with this guy, let me know!

jess Smile

sunflowerlicious on 2/2/2010 6:14:47 PM

im SO sry but i HATE justin bieber........ugh his voice annoys me!!!!!!! lolz im sry but its mi opinin

<3

hottgrrl2 on 1/29/2010 9:55:33 PM

Luv ur icon!
PLAN A
*Jumps on stage during Justin Bieber concert with colored Sharpie*
"OMG! OMG! OMG! Can I sign ur cast???"
OR, PLAN B
*Jumps on stage during Justin Bieber concert with colored Sharpie*
"OMG! OMG! OMG! Will you sign my invisible arm cast???"

kclove on 1/29/2010 10:07:27 AM

hey girl! it will be hard to forget this guy, especially if you've liked him for so long. even if he is in some of your classes, it is doable. this might seem like a mean thing to do, but if you pretend that he doesn't exist, then you'll be able to move on. just treat him like you would treat any other guy you weren't interested in. and don't worry, i know how you feel Smile .
good luck!

jess

sunflowerlicious on 1/28/2010 11:14:40 PM

hey girl! no problem about the fashion advice-that sounds super cute, if you ask me!
yes, i do remember the guy that was your grade 7 love. Smile . unfortunately, i think i have to agree with your friend on this one, where she said “just forget him”. see, when you described him to me at first, he sounded sweet and just perfect, but now, i just don’t think that he’s the guy for you, especially if he pretty much ordered you to take a break from him. no one can tell you what to do like that, and if he thinks he can boss you around, well, he’s wrong.
it sounds like you still have feelings for him though….and that’s ok. just know that he probably won’t change his mind. instead of dwelling on him, though, some ways to get your mind off of him are hanging out with your friends after school, joining a club/sport to get active, and stuff like that. just remember what he said to you and how that made you feel, if you ever think about wanting him. even if he is your grade 7 love, it’s a lot easier to try to find a new guy that loves you for who you are than try to change a guy like him.
good luck! Smile

sunflowerlicious on 1/26/2010 8:45:21 PM

hey girl! i am so sorry i didn't reply to you earlier, i had high school applications to do and stuff like that, so i've been kind of stressed this entire week. but now i have time to answer your fashion question, so here goes Smile .
combining tomboy style and girly-girl style is pretty easy if you think about it: tomboy styles usually have more of a grunge look to them, are a little more worn, beat up, and baggy, and as far as embellishments go, more of a stud/metal type thing going on. girly-girl style is more of a lacy, lighter, somewhat tighter fitting style, with brighter colors and flowy styled clothing. (i'm actually pretty happy you asked this question, because this is my style exactly!).
to mix them together, just put worn, ripped up pieces of clothing (so ripped knee skinny jeans, or a beat up t-shirt) with a lace camisole underneath or a pair of nice boots (if you have Uggs, those would work really well). paint splattered t-shirts (american eagle has a few) with lace camisoles and battered jeans are a good starting point, and you can go from there!

hope i helped! Smile

jess

sunflowerlicious on 1/23/2010 5:28:06 PM

sure, of course i can! what do you need fashion advice on? Smile

sunflowerlicious on 1/17/2010 9:39:14 PM

hey girl! no problem, i'm glad that i could help you out Smile . and that's not weird at all-i just started re-crushing on this guy that i had a crush on a couple years ago too. so don't worry about it, it's all good Smile .
if you need any more help, let me know!

jess Smile

sunflowerlicious on 1/15/2010 7:07:11 PM

ok well if you don't wanna diet i would suggest eating healthy because that isnt dieting...and another thing that really helped me was doing 100 crunches every night! its the best old fashioned way to drop a few pounds on you stomach.
Dont forget to fill out a resume if you want a job!
Ray

Club*Akward on 1/14/2010 8:05:17 AM

hey girl! well, if you didn't talk, or you did, at least he explained to you why he doesn't like you back in that way, which i think is pretty decent of him. most guys that i know wouldn't do that, note or in person, so i think you got lucky there Smile . and, again, it sounds like you have a good, decent friend in him, so it's all good on that front. i hope you aren't too down about this, but it doesn't sound like you are, so that's good Smile . if you want to talk, just post it on my profile.

hope everything's okay with you! Smile

jess

sunflowerlicious on 1/13/2010 7:36:16 PM

I know exactly how you feel!! Ok well I am actually on a diet right now and if you are SERIOUSLY commited to losing weight you can lose around 10 pounds a month if you stick to this diet and excercise a little every day. OK this diet I am on is called the Daniel diet (why it is called this I do not know). It can be challenging to stick to it, but it will work I promise! I have been doing it and I have lost 20 pounds in about 3 months! So i promise it should work if you really stick to it. OK on the diet you can't eat any meat(a little fish or chicken every once in a while is ok but no beef or bacon or anything), you can't eat dairy products (no cheese, milk, eggs..), and all you drink is water. So pretty much your diet would consist of fruits, vegetables, water, and whole grain breads and pastas. If you are totally serious and think you might wanna do this diet let me know and i will give you more deets about it Smile
Ray

Club*Akward on 1/13/2010 3:05:15 PM

hey girl! first of all, i have to give you credit for letting your crush know how you feel about him Smile . i don't think that i would have the guts to do that! even if he doesn't like you back in that way, it sounds like you have a great guy friend in him, though. it's good that you guys are going to talk it out, though, because i'm really not sure what he might have meant by saying that it was "complicated". let me know how the talk goes! Smile

good luck!

jess

sunflowerlicious on 1/11/2010 11:22:19 PM

OK i'm so glad you have decided to join! What do you need advice on? I'll answer your advice question within 24 hours!
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Club*Akward on 1/11/2010 8:48:25 PM

sweet okk..go to my profile and u will see a comment from club*awkward..click on that and ull see everything bout the club! =D

breeezy on 1/10/2010 2:43:55 PM

hey u wanna join club awkward?? =D

breeezy on 1/9/2010 8:17:55 PM

hey girl! first of all, are you absolutely sure that your mom doesn’t like your friends because they’re black? there might be other reasons there too, because if that’s the reason, that’s discrimination right there (i don’t mean to be rude or anything, that’s just a fact).
i think you need to talk to your mom about your friends, because i highly doubt that that’s the only reason. she might explain to you more about what she thinks about your friends, and that’ll help you understand a little bit more. but if that’s the real reason, then try explaining to her that people of all different ethinicities can hang out with one another. it might not change her perspective, but it’ll show her what you think, and that you’re an accepting and kind person (which i know you are Smile ).
good luck!

jess Smile

sunflowerlicious on 1/8/2010 7:19:31 PM

hey girl! just asking him is a good move, and if he says no, well, his loss-he doesn't know what he's missing out on! sounds like a great plan, though, and sounds like it'll work with your mom, since you live near the park, so she won't be too worried Smile .

and how did i get my mom to let me hang out with the friends she didn't like? well, first, i sat down with her and just asked her what it was that she didn't like about my friends, and then i explained to her how the things that she was worried about wouldn't affect me. then, i brought them to hang out at my house, and i kind of gave them the heads up to be super polite around my mom, and stuff like that. so, after my mom met my friends and saw that she didn't have to be worried about them. i would just say give that a try, and see how it goes! Smile
hope everything works out!

jess
*assistant to head of guys*

sunflowerlicious on 1/5/2010 9:24:21 PM

hey girl! just because break's over doesn't mean that you have to shut down all plans to get together with this guy. in fact, it's a lot easier to arrange a time to hang out, because you can actually talk face to face, and it's easier to make plans.
and trust me, my mom wasn't a big fan of a few of my friends a little while back, so if hanging out at her house isn't an option, then sledding at the park would be a really good idea-it's easy to do, fun, and everyone can do it! all you have to do to arrange something like that would be to talk to your mom about it, and then ask this guy, his brother, and any other friends that you want to come along. it doesn't matter if you don't have his number-just ask him when he's by his locker if he wants to come to the park over the weekend to go sledding. easy as that!

good luck!

jess
*assistant to head of guys*

sunflowerlicious on 1/3/2010 4:44:35 PM

cool profile

sixteengirl93 on 1/3/2010 12:27:25 PM

hey girl! trust me, i know exactly what you mean-my mom was like that for a while too. since i really don’t think that lying to your mom is the best idea in this case (or in any case, in that matter), you can try asking her when she’s in a good mood if she will let you and a few friends go to the mall for a bit over the weekend. if she says no, then ask her if she would be okay with it if your friend’s mom came along and shopped there with you guys.
if all else fails, then maybe ask your friend if she can have some kind of get together with this guy and a few of his and your friends at her house. that way, your mom won’t worry about you, and you’ll get to know this guy better. or if that doesn’t work out, then just going to a park for some sledding, or hanging out together after school works too. just remember that when talking to your mom about this, ask her when she’s in a good mood, and be prepared to make a few compromises if things don’t work out.
good luck! Smile

jess
*assistant to head of guys*

sunflowerlicious on 1/2/2010 5:14:46 PM

hey girl! that’s okay if you don’t have a facebook-facebook sometimes makes it even harder for you two to communicate, because you don’t see how the other person reacts to what you say (and vice versa)-and sometimes things can get really screwed up and blown out of proportion (i should know!).
i think your friend had a great idea with inviting him and his brother to the mall to hang out! i know how you feel about your mom (mine is kind of like that too), and it’s okay for her to be a bit protective of you (after all, you’re her daughter!). just ask her if she’s okay with you and a few friends going to the mall after school or on the weekend to hang out. maybe invite one or two other friends that you guys have along, just to keep that promise to your mom. after all, this isn’t exactly a date, it’s a chance to get to know a guy outside of school.
and about your mom working at your school? yikes, i feel for you...if possible, keep the flirting with this guy and stuff like that to a minimum when she’s around or close by. if you end up flirting, then keep it just to laughing and talking about stuff-things that you think your mom would be comfortable with.
hope everything works out!

jess
*assistant to head of guys*

sunflowerlicious on 1/1/2010 12:55:45 PM

Hey guys! Need advice? We will give you adivce on anything and everything at Club*Akward! We are looking for staff! If you are intersted you can apply on this profile or on RaygyBaby profile! We will give you advice on anything and everything no matter how akward! Thanks! Come apply for a staff job!

RaygyBaby on 12/26/2009 6:05:11 PM

justin beiber... what a joke

lizzierox1 on 12/26/2009 1:20:10 PM

CALLING ALL JUSTIN BIEBER FANS MY ICON IS SO SAD IT IS JUSTIN WITH A BROKEN ANKLE POST THIS ANYWHERE TO SHOW HIM THAT WE CARE

toby1 on 12/21/2009 10:00:29 AM

hey, about your guy problem? i know EXACTLY how you must feel, because that’s what’s happening to me Smile . i agree, it’s hard not to feel like you’re going insane without seeing him/talking to him, so here’s what you can do!
do you guys have facebook or something similar, and if so, are you friends with each other? if you are, then just saying hi to him over chat or sending him a message is a good way of feeling connected even if you can’t see each other. if you don’t have facebook, or if you aren’t friends, then maybe try organizing a get together with your friends and extend the invite to him and a few of his bffs over break (sledding, anyone?).
if that’s not possible (he’s out of town-my crush is in australia Frown ), then you might have to just wait this one out until school starts. the best way to get your mind off him is to just enjoy the holiday season as much as you can (bake cookies with your family, go sledding/skating/skiing), hang out with friends, and take this time to relax. think of it as a chance to catch up on everything you’ve missed over the past few weeks, and a time for you to focus on yourself for a bit-you’ve earned it! Smile

happy holidays!

jess
*assistant to head of guys*

sunflowerlicious on 12/19/2009 5:29:48 PM


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