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The Step-By-Step Guide For Getting That Guy!!

1. start by just saying hi, asking about what sport he likes or whatever. maybe you two can gripe about mrs so and so together, or how insane your school's new rules are getting. basically just short little bits of small talk. after you both become more comfortable doing this, its time to go to step two.

2. start integrating your two groups of friends. its easy, talk to him with a few of your friends, and if possible a few of his friends there too. this is a great time to make long lasting inside jokes!! keep this up, and you two can now exchange numbers. time for step 3.

3. start to hang out with him in a group out side of school. this means that you have an excuse to call him. and who says you can only talk about what everyone's doing this friday?? step 4 comin up!

4. alright, you'v gotten to know eachother pretty well, and you feel totally comfortable around him, and your friends get along with his and vice versa, so its time to let him know. this step consists of one thing alone. SUBTLE flirting. remember catching a guy is no 50 meter dash; its more like a 3K run. you have to pace yourself. you dont start out at full speed right? i mean, if you did, you'd be out way before your even close to the end. so take it slow. start flirting, but dont change yourself inthe process. remember this guy has gotten to know the real you, and a sudden change might scare him!

5. more obvious flirting. kick it up a notch, but not too much. this is when he might start to catch on. observe his reactions, but dont go to in depth. hopefully, he'll start flirting with you, and you can proceed to step 6.

6. ASK HIM!!!!

remember this isnt intended to last a week. its more like a month long process.you've got to be super patient, and super calm. its worth it in the long run, especially if you arent very well acquainted with the guy. Good luck!

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by dd on 3/17/2007 8:29:51 PM

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by FARMGAL on 3/3/2007 5:09:35 PM

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by DAYSHA on 2/10/2007 11:45:05 PM

oops meant :-(;-(;-:-D (i'm just expirimenting w/ all the different faces to see what i can figure out)

by guitargirl on 2/3/2007 4:30:28 PM

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by guitargirl on 2/3/2007 4:25:10 PM

by TotallyGorgeousandLovely on 2/2/2007 7:35:49 PM

Hye this is for the moderators. My two friends have boyfriends and I don't. The wierd thing is today one of my friends got in an arguement with her boyfriend. It was something about how he betted her in a poker game(my other friends boyfriend did the same) and she totally over reacted. But then they made up at the end of the day! My friend threatened to dump him and that wasn't cool. She also says how the coach at our school is hot right in front of her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is kinda my friend now and I'm kinda the one he comes 2 once in a while and asks me to talk to my friend for him. Why am I telling you this...because I might like my friends bf. I don't know if i do or not. I mean, he is 4'10' and I am 5'3' plus he is not super cute but he is so nice. What should I do?

by Shy Girl on 1/30/2007 10:32:54 PM

I hav a problem. U Know when u really like this guy but he hates u or thinks your stupid. I've tried not likeing him, but it's not working. HELP!!!!!!!!!!

by Anna on 1/30/2007 6:15:33 PM

How come moderaters never answer me....?

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by Sweet_Heart on 1/29/2007 11:11:39 PM

To Blakliker:
I think wre in the same time zone!! do you live in Wisconsin?

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