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I have a crush on this one guy and so does my friend. My friend is friends with him and talks to him, but every time I try to talk to him, my friends try to embrass me. Can you please help???

Hey girl, next time it's just you and your bud, ask her to please stop doing that since you'd never do that to her and it hurts you. She should respect that or at least explain why she is.

Alyssa B.

by wesdelwarrior on 10/29/2012 6:48:38 PM


I am offering up all of my clubs to other people, because I am not in a position to keep them running. Instead of deleting them, I would like to transfer ownership. Here are the ones that are up for grabs:

Helping Out Club
Girl 2 Girl Talk
Performing Arts Club
The Trauma/Drama of Middle School

by basketballcutie11 on 8/21/2011 9:24:16 PM


Mod,mod,mod,mod,mod,mod!I really like this boy and I think he likes me!! But his bff said that he is in love with another girl that doesn't like him! Oh,and that girl is one of my friend that I known her 4 so long.He shows-off in front of her his bff said.I think he shows-off 4 me!!! I ** grade(I'm going 2 **)he always wanted me 2 play with him.ALWAYS!I tried 2 give him hints that I like him but I don't want 2 spell-it out 4 him! The guy I like tell everything to his bff(his bff is a boy). I am really close to his bff we're good friends.Anyway............HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey babe! There's probably no reason for his BFF to lie to you, so maybe just listen to him and suggest that your crush's BFF tell your crush that the other girl doesn't like him. Maybe he can even hint to your crush that you're cute and totally his type. Check out this post to see if he really likes you! 

Jess W.

by BTW1102 on 6/23/2011 8:26:42 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Okay, so I stutter a lot. Not badly, but the words just kinda get caught in my throat, and sometimes the stuff I say comes out weird and mushed up, and I half to correct myself multiple times! Its super embarassing! Help?



Hey girly girl! I totally hear you on this. I've found that it's best to pause for a moment and take a breath before starting to speak. It allows you to calm down and gather your thoughts!


Becca G.

by smileitsjulia on 6/18/2011 9:45:25 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! So I'm a freshman in high school and I've liked this guy ever since 7th grade. We were good friends in 7th grade and we flirted almost everyday. Then the next year, I became so nervous around him because I dreamt of him all summer long. My growing curiosity led me to ask my friends to tell his friends that I liked him. So he found out I liked him in 8th grade. We didn't talk much in eighth grade, but in freshman year he started flirting with me again. This doesn't happen as often as seventh grade due to the fact I am nervous around him. I was fortunate to be in his classes for three years straight but I know for a fact we aren't going to be in the same classes next year. I get REALLY nervous around him because I've liked him SO MUCH for the past three years and the feeling keeps growing. Should I say anything to him about my feelings because I don't want to move on with my life knowing I could tell him something especially when I think he likes me back?

hey!  just let your friendship keep growing that's the best way to start a relationship naturally. If nothing happens then at least you two can still be friends Smile 
Helen S.

by xoxojbs1224 on 6/8/2011 6:20:14 PM


I have this crush on the guy I sit behind in science we flirt everyday but he still hasnt asked me out what do I do?

by sam4397 on 5/30/2011 5:06:54 PM


mod mod mod
I REALLY like this guy a grade ahead of me (he's in 7th), but since he's ahead of me, I hardly see him, except occasionally in the hallways. But when I do see him, I always look at him, and sometimes I smile. He usually looks back too. Do you think that he thinks that it is creepy I stare at him? I don't know if he likes me or not.........

Hey girlie -- I doubt he thinks your creepy Smile Try saying "hi" next time Smile

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by alkrox17 on 5/28/2011 9:29:45 AM


mod mod mod
what should you carry in a purse??

Hey girlie. I like to carry lotion, chapstick, my wallet, my phone, a pen, and makeup if I'm going out. Put whatever you use often in there!  
Marly Z.

by ☮Dreamlover on 5/25/2011 7:17:42 PM


i am in 7th grade and the guy i like is in 8th grade and in one class we sit across the room from eachother and one day we had a project where we were interviewing for jobs and i interviewed him and he usually makes eye contact with people and he was to shy to look me in the eye Smile and i think he likes me because he had to write a letter to me for a project and his said: i have never wanted to work for someone this much before i had an amazing interview and alot more sweet stuff! i dont know how to get his number or talk to him because he is really shy! I NEED HELP!! and thank you in advance

Helen S.

by textinggirl10 on 5/20/2011 5:17:12 PM


I wanna get my crush number, but i don't wanna ask him!!! It sounds to okward! Pls hel!!! How can I get is cell phone number without feeling so weird! Pls help!!!!

Hey girl, I think the best way is to ask him but have a purpose behind it. Maybe it's so you can invite him to a study group you're planning for your class. Maybe it's so he can keep in touch with you about RSVPing to an end of the year party. Get creative!

Alyssa B.

by Jinxycharms on 5/5/2011 11:32:02 PM


I REALLY like this guy and we always do homework together. But I'm am super shy and he doesn't seem interested in me. I would like to date him, but i can't seem to see him dating anybody!
-Stuck in a Rut

by HannahJL on 4/24/2011 4:15:54 PM


I like this guy, but he barley knows I exist. We're not in the same class(but same grade) He is tall, cute, athletic, funny.. any tips?

by scissorluv101 on 4/19/2011 5:54:03 PM


MOD MOD MOD *Please answer!*
Okay so I REALLY like this guy, I'm in grade 6, and I want to tell him I like him, I'm kind of a shy girl, but he's my friend, and he knows I'm an outgoing person when you get to know me. But he still thinks I like this other guy which I do do I tell him I like him, and how should I tell him I don't like the other guy. Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOO much! I really appreciate it girly! xoxo

Hey girlie. Try asking him who he likes. When he asks why you want to know, say that you were just wondering. That should hint that you like him. Then, he might ask who you like, in which case, you can be flirty and say "guess!" or just tell him that you like him. Good luck Smile
Marly Z.

by dolcecupcakes on 4/18/2011 5:55:07 PM


There's thing guy in my homeroom he's really cute and nice and I kinda like him. He's flirts with all the time, say hi to me in the halls and has even completmented my facebook pictures before. My friend noticed him flirting and knew that I liked him. So she told him he should ask me out but he said "nah, she's just a friend". Does he like me or not?!


Hey girlie. Your friend may have caught him off guard. It sounds like he may have a crush on you, too. Try to show him that you are interested by flirting back or asking what his plans are for the weekend. Good luck, girlie.

Elizabeth P.

by kazia7 on 4/18/2011 12:25:26 PM


how do i ask a guy to the movies?? ive been texting him non stop and i think he likes me! hes in my photography class and he does this:
-at an assembly he sat next to me
-wishes me good luck on all my sports things (and is interested in them)
-puts his arm around me
-goes out of him way to talk to me
-gave me his number (it was unexpected)
-does anything to talk to me
-and constantly trys to get near me
-been flirting with me all semester

Hey girlie,

You can always talk about a movie you've been wanting to see or an activity you've been wanting to do..and see if he wants to join!  He will make an effort to spend time with you if he is interested Smile
Ruth S.

by DrAmAxQuEeNx202! :) on 3/26/2011 10:49:34 PM


My crush lives in a city about 3 hours from where I live so he can't come down that often. But he did come down to go see a concert with me b/c it was hosted by my school (his previous school, he moved) and when we were in the car and at my place, I would start tickling him b/c he's really ticklish, and he'd always end up having me pinned down, straddling me w/ hands pinned down or leaning over me, and start tickling me. Then at the concert, when he ran into some of his friends from last school year, he would completely ignore me. Why do guys do that?

by beagles4life on 1/29/2011 10:51:43 PM


My crush is an 8th grade drummer i reallyyyyy like him but there are a couple of problems.... im in 6th grade hes in 8th, im 11 hes like 13 or 14 and finally i dont think im pretty enough to catch his eye. I play flute so i see him during band sometimes, im extremely shy and have crooked teeth. i want to talk to him but last time i did i made a fool of myself. He is chubbyish and im skinny b.t.w.

Hey chickie,

Ok, first off we have to get rid of all these preoccupations with appearances. Sure, we're more attracted to certain people than others, but at the bottom of that is one thing: personality. An exciting, sweet, compassionate personality will do way more than a set of perfect teeth! (And by the way, I bet yours are NOT that bad!) So try to dress in a way that makes you feel confident, carry yourself with pride, and speak up after band to talk to him. You can talk about anything - the upcoming concert, his fave sport, whatever! Being social and warm will definitely get you in the right direction with this guy Smile

Lauren C.

by xxxEmilyxxx<3 on 1/24/2011 4:37:33 PM


My crush is a football player. He sits next to me in one class but even then, he's stuck in his groupie. I've asked him questions like,"What time do we get out of this class?" or "What'd you get on that quiz was it hard?" ETC. I want him to notice me more cause he's super sweet and has a great attitude and smile. HELP ME CATCH THIS HOTTIE! Smile


Hey girl! If you go to class looking fab then I'm sure you'll catch his attention! Just remember to be yourself!! Maybe next time there is a game make sure to tell him goodluck! Just let things happen naturally! Hope I have helped! XOXO

Blaine D.

by howcutegirlccd on 1/18/2011 10:43:32 AM


Great advice! But I have one thing, I'm one of the shyer people in my group of friends. So all my friends know how to talk to guys, but me. I've never had a real conversation with a guy. And text my crush all the time, but never talked to him in person. So my question is- how do I talk to him with coming off as awkward?

Here's the trick girlie. Try talking to him in a group situation. Then, the more you're around him with friends, the more you'll feel comfortable with him. Then, it will be easier to talk to him one on one.  
Marly Z.

by Emma1313 on 1/15/2011 10:12:52 PM


ok thanks i will try that! but one more question: if we are not talking and I want to strike up a conversation what could I talk about? I know he plays football, but i truly do not know much about that sport. I was thinking about asking him how his weight lifting is going because he lifts weights after school. And whenever we work together after school he always has to leave after like 45 minutes and hes like "i gotta go lift weights now", and during class he tells me that hes sore from lifting weights. is he trying to show off to me or is he just speaking his mind?

He may be showing off! You should def ask him about it. Ask how much he can lift and act impressed when you talk about it. That will make him feel good Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by livelaughlove888 on 1/5/2011 11:09:06 PM


thanks! and also are there any other techniques that you can think of to have him notice me more. cuz alot the times when i try to talk to him its not that good of a conversationalist. like i have a good sense of humor, but its hard for me to think of witty remarks whenever he playfully teases me. thx!

You dont always have to have playful remarks! Just say what comes to mind. Tease him back! Just keep the conversation fun and interesting and youll be fine Smile xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by livelaughlove888 on 1/5/2011 10:59:57 PM


ok so there is this guy that i REALLY like. and i mean REALLY REALLY REALLY! so we have this one class together and he usually is there early to finish up homework he didnt get so i go early too to see him. for the past week he has been asking me alot of questions about hw and i just go work with him then. the thing is that he never used to talk to me at all. we dont talk much beyond schoolwork, but my friend thinks he likes me because he talks to me way more than he talks to other girls. he also playfully teases me and when i got something right that the teacher asked he said "Good Job, "my name""Do you think that he might like me? and also what are some good conversation topics that i could use with him? thanks! Smile

Well if hes giving you some extra attention he may like you. As for things to talk about with him you just gotta get to know him and find things you have in common. If he is wearing a band tshirt comment on it and find out about his music tastes etc. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by livelaughlove888 on 1/5/2011 10:06:22 PM


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by lolandpeace987 on 1/4/2011 4:27:36 PM


My friend realyyyyyyy likes this guy and she wants to know how to ask him out, and she will ask me for suggestions but honestly i have NOOOOO idea how to ask a guy out! ): and suggestions?? Thankss(:

Hey girlie! Don't worry cause GL's got you covered. You can find a great article with tons of advice on dating we have posted here: 
Jessica W.

by syddakidxo on 12/29/2010 10:27:28 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!! Sorta, sometimes. One time, we were sitting at a table (with two other girls), sharing stories, and he looked around at all of us and said, "Im going to share with..." and he looked at me "You!" (This was the answer to the question Helen S. asked. Look below)


Hey girl, I see what you're saying.  It's hard to say for sure (the only way to know is to ask him!).  But you should also check out this article -  It's got great (sneaky!) tips for telling if he's into you.  xoxo

Marie H.

by LittleMissRandom on 12/6/2010 7:02:02 PM


@Helen S. from my 1st question:
Sorta, sometimes. One time, we were sitting at a table (with two other girls), sharing stories, and he looked around at all of us and said, "Im going to share with..." and he looked at me "You!

by LittleMissRandom on 12/5/2010 8:33:38 PM


Sorta, sometimes. One time, we were sitting at a table (with two other girls), sharing stories, and he looked around at all of us and said, "Im going to share with..." and he looked at me "You!"

by LittleMissRandom on 12/5/2010 5:18:47 PM


A guy I like makes great eye contact with me. It's firm and almost never moves. But does that mean he likes me?

hey!  it's hard to tell, does he also go out of his way to be around you? 

Helen S.

by LittleMissRandom on 12/5/2010 3:04:41 PM


i know my crush likes me!! (he also pretty much does all the stuff suggested here) i'm a really fun person that guys like to joke around with, but whenever my crush talks to me, i get nervous and am really quiet and kinda boring. how do i get out of this habbit?? he's really sweet and i want to date him!!

Hey girl, just dare yourself to be yourself. Treat him like a friend. Dare yourself to ask questions to get to know him and don't think of him as BF material yet.

Alyssa B.

by lovin*da*sunshine on 11/30/2010 8:17:23 PM


I've done all these things to the guy like, but touch him. I don't know how to get comfortable enough to touch him and I don't know how he'll take it. Oh and the guy does a lot of this stuff back to me, but is really mean to me. My friends say he just likes me but I don't know... HELP!!!

by sjbrown333 on 11/28/2010 11:17:18 PM


I have done looking at him but when he looks back he smiles at me an we both smile.

by Pinke22 on 11/27/2010 2:37:52 AM


These sound like great ideas, but I don't think I could smile at him if I caught him looking. I have caught him looking before, but when I do I just look away without even smiling or anything. It feels like my first instinct is to look away. How can I get myself to smile at him?

Hey girlie, the key is to not feel like you've been caught staring at him. If you like him a lot then smiling when you see him should be natural. Just think about how much you like him and how great he is. 

Lauren T.

by aubrey31 on 11/26/2010 11:09:44 PM


****MOD MOD HELP MEEE*** So i like this guy, and i think he likes me too but the problem is is that he is really shy and he's always with his friends or playing floor hockey in the gym, how do i talk to him?????



Hey there girly girl! Does he play any sports? If so, you could always compliment him on how he played during the last game. Or, is he involved in any activities or clubs? You could always ask him how to join Smile


Becca G.

by poppymarsh on 11/24/2010 8:25:58 PM


***MOD*** I don't think I would be able to pull off any of these flirting techniques. When I look into the guy I like (Adam)'s eyes, I melt and have to look away even if he is trying to stare deep into my eyes. He hasn't had a gf yet but has had a crush. I get so nervous when I'm around him, I would never be able to even compliment him. I have talked to him with a smile, but he sorta looked at the ground and didn't smile back. UGH! I really want to go out with him and since we are in 8th grade, there is a dance in January, but idk if he will go. Also, I really want to get his email (he tutors me and I need it for that but I also want it to chat), but am WAY to scared to ask him. *sigh* what should I do and how can I flirt with him so we are not in the "friend zone"? Thanks!



Hey girly girl! Maybe you could invite him over to your place to study. And, ask for his IM or e-mail addy in case you need to switch plans Smile


Becca G.

by inluvwithboyz on 11/24/2010 8:22:13 PM


well i like this guy and i asked him if he had a GF and he said yes 45 do u want 2 be 46 and i said yes but #1 and then he laughed and i said 4real and then he said he really has one and i said ill wait and he said ok with laughter what should i do next and does he like me????

by whit245 on 11/24/2010 8:17:51 PM


MOD MOD MOD ive liked this guy for about a year... we were in the same class last year (he sat in front of me) and this year we dont have any classes together. During a pep rally i was talking to my friend about what classes we had last year and he was in back of me... He turned around and said "we had art together" i said " Yeah, you sat in front of me" hes like "thats rightttt" . . . he's friends with a few of my friends but i want to talk to him more . . . what should i do?


Hey girl just spark up a good conversation and dont be shy!!

Lindsay S.

by Aeri1209 on 10/12/2010 1:40:09 AM


mod mod mod mod! Okay, so there's this guy right? We sit next to each other in Spanish and we chat all the time. I think he's kinda cute and I'd like to get to know him a little better. I want to ask for his cell number , but I m not sure how to ask him withouth making it to awkward . Any tips?


That's awesome that there's a guy you'd like to get to know!  It may not feel right, but one thing you could do is tell him that you might have a question with an assignment, and ask if you could have his number to text him about it later.  Or, you could just tell him that it's been fun talking to him, and ask for it.  Do what feels right to you.  Chances are, he will be flattered that a great girl wants his number! 

Marie H.

by Dancerox12653 on 10/4/2010 6:42:31 PM


MOD MOD MOD I really like this guy, i want to talk to him, but i can't find an excuse and i don't know what to talk about. I know he's into sports, but i don't know what teams he likes... please help

Hey girl, why not ask him about a class or just compliment him on something he's wearing. Just a little ice breaker.

Alyssa B.

by pandagirl12 on 9/28/2010 8:19:31 PM


ok so me and my friend likes the same guy in our class!! we fought over him and i really want to ask him out to homecoming but i dont want my friend to be mad at me. wat should i do????? Frown


Hey girl,

I would talk to your friend first to see how she feels about it. You wouldn't want her to ask him out without talking to you about it first, right? Try to put yourself in her shoes and see if she'd be OK with it. If she is mad and doesn't want you to ask him, you probably don't want to risk losing a friend over a guy. However, in that case, she should also agree not to ask him if you agree not to because of her. I'm sorry — that's a tough sitch!

Vanessa J.

by luvergirl15 on 9/25/2010 7:54:41 PM


I am good a dis I am near guys a lot and so I can talk to them come to me to advice on love

by cre8tive_2114 on 9/7/2010 8:17:34 PM


How do I know if I like a guy?

Hey girl, you'll know, trust me. You'll think about him more, he'll start to get in the way of other things and you'll just feel good around him. Enjoy not liking a guy though because there's a lot of ups and downs with liking them.

Alyssa B.

by *sTaRsTrUcK* on 8/29/2010 5:38:31 PM


OPMG these tips are SOOO helpful! I've been puzzling ober how to flirt with guys, and now i know!!

by lalacookie114 on 8/6/2010 9:50:56 AM


last summer i got to be really good friends with this guy. we were more than best friends. we kinda drifted apart during school then got in a fight and made up but then we drifted apart again. he wont talk to me no matter what. whenever i try to talk or text him he barely replies. what should i do to tell him im still into him without going over the top???? thanks

Hey girl, I think you need to let him know that when he wants to talk to you, you're ready to talk to him and want to be friends. For now, however, give him some distance. He just may need some time apart.

Alyssa B.

by letanglvr58 on 7/5/2010 9:34:16 PM


MOD MOD! i am broke and have no money. do you have any ideas for jobs for people in grade 6(im 11 yrs old). thannks Smile


Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes

Marie H.

by swimclick on 5/26/2010 8:13:05 PM


MOD MOD!! do you have any suggestions on how to impress a guy without looking like your trying?


Hey girl, My best tip is to just be confident.  Be willing to approach him and strike up a convo.  If you can give him a friendly smile, and really listen, he will see what an awesome gal you are to chat with, and that's a great start. 

Marie H.

by swimclick on 5/26/2010 7:16:54 PM


MODMODMODMODMOD!!!!!!!!OK so theres this cutiei class and he glances at me and i glance back and laghf if its funni and he lafs 2 ad at pe he talks abot me when i walk past him and his group but he already taken but he does the eye thingie i like him...but does he like me!!!!!?????

It seems like maybe he was flirting with you, but maybe not if he has a girlfriend.  
Kayla C.

by reblerocker on 5/20/2010 7:05:02 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! How do you flirt without looking REALLY weird? & Still be super confident?


Hey girl!  The important thing is to just show the guy that you are interested in him as a person.  If you can hold your head high, ask him questions about himself (and then really listen!), he will see that you are a fun, friendly girl that's great to talk to.  If you want some other GL-approved tips, try this:

Marie H.

by Smile_if_U-want on 5/19/2010 5:41:55 PM


thanks MOD

by MJrules on 5/9/2010 2:51:50 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD thanks! is it similar with texts? cause i cant call him every night cause my parents will hear and they think im asleep. and how do i tell him i like him, with out like actually saying "i like you." i kinda more want him to get the idea that i like him


Yep the same with texts. Give him little compliments to let him know you like him. Say things like "Aww you're so cute" or "You're really funny we should hang out more" . Eventually he'll get the hint. Smile

Lynae P.

by Glee Obsessed on 5/9/2010 2:09:33 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD cool tips, although i am already flirting expert!!Smile how do you text flirt? or flirt through the phone? see my crush doesnt go to my school so i dont see him that often. i think he likes me but i want him to ask me out. we text till late every night or talk on the phone. thnx in advance!


Hey girly, flirting over the phone is the same as flirting in person. Give him little compliments and ask suggestive questions. Laugh a little, and make fun of him sometimes. It's a little easier to flirt over the phone because you can be more relaxed, so just have fun with it. Smile

Lynae P.

by Glee Obsessed on 5/9/2010 1:07:06 PM


So I really like this boy in my class. I want to flirt with him but I think he thinks of me as more of the queit girl. Any tips on how to show him Im really more then that? Please help! Thank you!

Hey girl! Maybe you could just try to find other ways to talk with him in class and stuff. Or before school/after school. Once you start talking with him more regularly, it would be easier to flirt with him. But make sure he starts to get to know you first, otherwise I think it would seem a little random! 
Kelli S.

by PrettyinPinkox on 5/8/2010 12:14:20 PM


i really like this guy and i think he might like me too. we eat lunch 2gether and he makes me laugh and he is always really sweet (except for when he's teasing me but i still think its funny). sometimes after class i spend a long time packing up and he never has a lot to pack up but we *magically* get out of class at the same time. he walks with me to my classes sometimes and whenever i'm in a class he always seems to be standing near me. but he is also my bgf and i sometimes see him talking to other girls. does he like me? does he see the other girls as *just friends*? i really really really don't want to ask him or anything b/c i don't want him to know i like him unless i know for sure he likes me. plz help!!!

He might like you! I can't really tell you about the other girls though.  
Kayla C.

by kayal124 on 5/7/2010 8:31:20 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD i really like this guy in 8th grade (in in seventh grade). i take a higher level math class and i sit next to him in it so we talk alot. i havent really flirted with him(i think). i dont even no if i should go for him or not. HELP!!!
PS i've never had a bf

Hey girl, why not? 
Kayla C.

by FBM013 on 3/27/2010 11:13:50 PM


MOD ok so umm what i ment is that the 8th grader lets call him bob. Well me and my friends went to this football game and bob called me over to tell me he liked my BGF"s GIRL FRIEND So he started tring to put his arm around her and flirting with her. So thats why i was mad. i DO NOT LIKE my best guy friend. sorry for the confusion. do you mean i should just let him go or still be friends with bob.HELP!!!!!

 hey girl, oh sorry misunderstood the first question. I think it would be best to talk to your guy friend because if she's taken, that's not cool for him to move in. But if he keeps asking like this, I would probably move off from him for a bit. 
Lauren R.

by luvs13 on 3/27/2010 6:37:31 PM


MOD MOD MOD PLEASE HELP ME.I need girl advise on this one guy any one can help. Ok so at our school dance i waz just dancing with my friends untill this hot 8th grader came and wanted me 2dance with him naturally i siad yes and we danced the whole dance i even had my guy friends want to dance with me and he grabed me and told them shes my girl get ur own. He made me cumfterbul coplemeted me and never let me leave his sight whithout him running up and grabing my hand. I felt rel speacial consedering ivc always been the guy friend like one of the guys. So its been 9 weeks from then and well the next week and he flirted with me and now after spring break and after i have gooten rel atached to him and his friends he never asked me out.To make matters worce he has just recentlly told me right now he just wantes to be friends. I am still not shure he wants to always stay friends or be friends for now and posibly go out later. But wat really got me mad was when my best guy friend told me he likes his girlfriend. Now i am not shure if we still be friends or if i should never speak to him again. I am best friends with his they all like me and say im perfect for him and he cant see wats in front of him. They are so sweet to me not like most crushes best fiends. WHAT SHOULD I DO MOD PLEASE HELP ME.

Hey girl! This sounds really complicated. The 8th grader totally led you on to believe that something would happen. It's really unfortunate, but if he really does just wanna be friends, maybe you just need to let it go. His actions and his words clearly don't match up, and you don't wanna be stuck with an inconsistent guy. I'm a little confused 'bout your second question ... your bgf likes WHOSE gf? And why are you mad? Do you like your bgf now? I think you really need to sort out your feelings before doing anything else.  
Kelli S.

by luvs13 on 3/27/2010 12:34:52 PM


There's this guy who likes me but I don't like him. He's so obvious that my hall knows that he likes me. He sometimes stalks me. And he is not my type because he draws all the time in class and tries to talk with me but I don't even like his attitude. I want him to back off but in a nice way. What can I do ?

Hey Girl! Try not to be mean to him in any way, that will repel other guys! Try writing a secret note, and when I say secret, don't tell your friends. As much as you think you can trust them, they will def tell other guys and make this sitch blown up into a big deal. Write him a note, telling him he's a nice guy but you don't think of him in that way, you hope you two can remain on good terms but will wait for him to compose himself to establish a friendship. Hope this helps xo Lizzie  
lizzie n.

by 4yah101 on 3/24/2010 12:55:26 PM


I have a total crush on my BGF but i have no idea if he likes me cuz we used to text constantly but after the middle of the valentine dance where we had a moment where he sent away his friend while my friends were getting their photo taken he asked who liked him (i've been holding over his head who likes him (me)) but i said that i would tell him on v-day. he has been avoiding me ever since. BTW i'm pretty sure he likes my friend tessa if that help figure things out. I REALLY LIKE HIM (since 4th grade)HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!


Hey babe,

I really wish I could answer your question, but us mods are super busy right now.  Definitely take advantage of all of the awesome chicas on GL to answer your question!  I'm sure many of them have been in your tough sitch before.  If you still need some help later on, feel free to come back and post again <3 Lots of love!
Lauren C.

by kno0063 on 2/26/2010 6:44:30 PM


MOD!!MOD!!MOD!!MOD!!MOD!! I REALLY like this guy(Jacob).How do I show him or tell him I REALLY like him whithout making my friends do it for me????????? HELP!!!!! THANK YOU!!


Hey chica, let him know through your flirty ways. Try sitting next to him when you get the chance. I know it seems cheesy, but gently hitting him on the arm will work. Give him compliments and say little things to let him know you're interested. You could say something like "I can't believe you don't have a girlfriend. You're so sweet." or "We should hang out more." Give him your cell number too and when you're ready ask him out! Hope this works for ya! Smile

Lynae P.

by SelenaMariefan2498 on 2/24/2010 6:10:06 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!! i really like this guy, but i know he doesnt like me. i am really shy so that doesnt help. plus it seems no one in my class likes me, im not that attractive. im smart and kind. but it seems whenever i say something, someone gets upset. HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!


Hey darlin, you need more confidence in yourself.Your kind and smart, two very valuable qualities. Start saying hi to people, This will help you gain confidence in talking. Once you become more confident in your social interactions, you will start to hold your head higher and people will notice. xo JANA

jana k.

by catsrule450 on 2/23/2010 9:30:55 PM


I liked this guy and we were texting. At first it was really cute and flirty and he even asked me to come watch him at a big game. All the signs were there that he liked me. Then, he got all cranky when I texted and always ansewr with whatever. I just texted him and his statues was i love Sarah g. I asked him who she was and he said nobody. Is he already over me. I rwally like him. Frown

Hi darlin, it doesnt sound like he likes you. Give it a break for a week and maintain radio silence unless he talks to you. He might just be overwhelmed right now. xo JANA
jana k.

by Katherinexx3 on 2/8/2010 9:48:22 PM


I always find that being kind of "mean" works really well esp. in outgoing guys. With my crush i try and steal his pencil (he now has my pencil, i have his) and play "footsies" underneath our desks. Just kick him under the desk when the teacher isn't looking. It works like a charm. Hope this helps!

by solosinger7 on 2/7/2010 3:24:50 PM


MOD- So there's this guy at my school, and I've liked him off and on since the beginning of the school year. But I've decided that I don't need to like him anymore because he doesn't like me. I don't think he's ever dated someone his age, yeah, he likes older girls. We're both in the same grade. He does things sometimes that makes me think he likes me, but them I see him go off and to the same things so other girls. How do I get over him? I can't stop thinking about him...

Hey Girl! Getting over guys is a difficult task, been there done that! Start doing things that make YOU happy. Think back to something that you used to do before you liked this boy because you thought he would judge you. I changed my whole entire schedule around because of my crushes. Keep busy and you'll be sure to move on eventually Smile best of luck! xo Lizzie 
lizzie n.

by hannahbanana64 on 1/29/2010 4:18:24 PM


Wow This is like the opposite of what I do. But my ideas worked! Abbie Zane Couch does Like ME!!!

by LottyDa on 1/27/2010 9:24:09 PM


Thank you sooo much for the advice MOD!

by dancingkween220 on 1/22/2010 11:01:25 PM


so i like this guy and he sits across from me in reading and he goes on my bus. I don't know if he likes me or not. Every once and a while i quickly glance at him and he looks at me then we both look away. Sometimes he kinda tuns in his seat in the bus and quickly looks at me and it just happens to be the times when i look at him. It kinda feels weird because every time he looks at me i've been looking at him so he notices. We never really talk to each other that much because i'm shy and he's quiet anyway. Idk what to do! HELP!
p.s. Can someone tell me what MOD means?? I'm new to this site so i don't have a clue. THANKS!


Hey  babes,  I think it just happens youre looking at eachother at the same time. I have a staring problem myself. It is hard to like someone if you have never really spoken. Iif you are interested in him take advantage of the fact that he sits across from you. That is the most opportune spot!  xo JANA

jana k.

by Bieberluva12 on 1/21/2010 10:09:02 PM


~MOD~ these are great tips! but I still have trouble flirting! I don't text the guys in my grade like at all ... But all the other girls do. I'm sick of being the only one who seems, well, completely socially awkward around boys! How do I get their number and start texting them(it's a small grade, so I've technically known them all since like first grade. Also, it's not that they think I'm weird or anything, I've just never gotten to know them even tho all my friends have.)? And once I start texting them, how do I keep the conversation going? because the guys tend to say "yeah" and "cool" as replys to the texts, and my friends all know what a cute and flirty thing to say to that is, but I can never think of anything. Please help!


Hey babes, I am akward and I am 24. Texting should never be conversational. You drop a line every now and then but texting full conversations that you could just speak to each other is obnoxious, atleast in my opinion. If you are ever aroung guys whose number you want just say " We have known each other ofr song and I dont have your number!" Play up the fact that you are familiar with each other. xo JANA

jana k.

by dancingkween220 on 1/21/2010 10:06:26 PM


OK. So this is kind-of long so sorry Smile Well, I'm in the sixth grade, and I've had 3 boyfriends this year (this grade i mean) and i like this guy but he won't go out with me. my friends say I'm really pretty but I scare every boy cuz I am too hard with rejections Frown And I'm not. Its just that all the boys that ask me out are really weird and I don't like them.
Thanks! XOXO Mycah

Hey doll!  You should talk to the guy you like and ask him why he won't go out with you.  Let him know you like him and that you're not as harsh as people think you are.    
tyler j.

by mycahgurl on 1/15/2010 9:01:20 AM


i just be totally random

like with this guy i like this other guy yells FREE CANDY!

amd i was like, did he just say candy???

and the guy i like was like, yeah i think spencer just said that

i took off across the room. Smile

by Gale4ever on 1/10/2010 7:22:58 PM


ok so how do i let a guy who has a girlfriend but doesn't want anyone to know that i like him? btw he is a year younger than me. he always talks to me when he gets a chance, already nicknamed me,and makes me laugh all hour and asks sbout me when i'm not there. (we only have one class together because i'm in high school and he is still in middle school) would it work even though we are in different parts of school? if he doesn't want anyone to know about him and his girlfriend does that mean he really likes her? should i flrit back when he is flirting? does all this mean he likes me and is trying to show it?


Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. ?, Your Blog Patrol Babes

Sammy d.

by corkybob on 1/9/2010 4:12:58 PM


mod mod mod
thx. for the ideas. but what should i do or say if he simmply says no. should i say somethingback or walk away. and if i should say something back what should i say. You guys are the best. N i got to a Catholic School which does not have lockers so that is a problem. What should i say if everyone finds out that i asked him out??? They will be laughing at me for days. Thank you once again. You are saints.

Hey babe,

Don't just walk away. If you guys are friends simply tell him that you just wanted to tell him how you feel and you hope that it doesn't affect your friendship. Not everyone will be laughing - and if they are, who cares. You did something bold and brave and life is about taking those kind of risks.

xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

by cheertta1 on 1/8/2010 10:04:23 PM


hi, i no this guy (well not rlly i nevr talked to him in my life but he is the teachers assistant in one of my classes, we just no each others names) who i think is kinda cute, and if i pass him in the hall, i give him a one second glance with no smile or anything and just look foward in the hall. either im making it too obvious or tense cuz hes always returning those identical glances. now tht i no tht i messed up how do i stop those awkward glances? i dont think i can start adding a smile to them cuz ill look like a freak he doesnt know smiling at him for no reason, if u no what i mean.

Hey babe,

He's not going to think you're a freak if you smile at him when he's made eye contact with you. It's just like saying hello without the words. 

xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

by isabella1997219 on 1/8/2010 9:54:13 PM


mod mod mod mod
Sry for bothering you again, but I was wondering what intimidated means and when i looked it up in the dictionary it said frightened. I am really smart too and that is why they say that boys are intimidated. Thx. for everyting you moderators do. and i was just wondering what is a cute and funny way to ask a guy out, without being romantic????

Hey babe,

Intimidated means someone who is  filled with fear by something or someone. Or that a boy feels timid around girls. Intimidation is not necessarily a bad thing. Joke around and flirt with the guy and then just ask him. Close his locker while he's using it, or steal his notebook or something like that. 

xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

by cheertta1 on 1/8/2010 9:45:08 PM


i really like this guy and he rides my bus. Me and him are really good friends but im in the grade where people dont go out but if we get to close of friends we will never go out. he also told all of his friends that i liked him and it really got on my nerves and he always tries to guess who i like and i just say u will never know. i havent told anyone who i like but since we hang out so much one of my friends asked me if i liked him and i lied and said i didnt so she said i think he liked me.i used to hang out with him to much but then i i kinda disticed myself from him and he started comeing up to me. i would make a move but i dont want his friends or my friends to make a big deal what should i do?

Hey babe,

Just because you're in the grade where people don't really go out doesn't mean that you can't. Why not just go for it you do really like him?

xoxo Keltie 
Keltie E.

by jkwar11 on 1/8/2010 9:09:38 PM


mod mod mod
i never had a boyfriend, but if i say im ugly toone of my friends they laugh and say yah right. The I ask them why I do not have a boyfriend and they say that boys are intimidated by me. What dooes that mean? thx.


hey girl,


maybe they are intimidated because you aren't making the moves to talk to them. it's all about personality!!! if you are the great girl that you seem to be now to boys in person, they WILL be lining at your door to ask you out!



Sammy D

Sammy d.

by cheertta1 on 1/8/2010 8:31:13 PM


mod mod mod mod mod all my friends say me and one of my best guy friends should date. but we dont like each other!! its really frustrating! how do i get them to stop??????


Hey girlfriend, tell them that you are your bgf are just friends. Let them know you both enjoy spending time with each other and anything romantic would just ruin your friendship. If they keep teasing you, ignore them. You guys know you don't like each other and that's all that matters. Smile

Lynae P.

by declaration on 1/6/2010 6:43:23 PM


hi, well basically i liked this guy for like nearly a year, not fully but i did like him, then it got relli like intense, but we're relli close friends, and his sister is one of my close friends, and my sister is her friend too. so things are complicated. well we like flirted and he told me things like ur unique, and stuff, then told me he liked me, and i said i kinda liked him, but i didnt know what happened then, and we needed to talk more. i was supossed to go to his concert but got lost and never got there, then a few days later he asked me to forget wat he had said because it wouldnt work. we didnt talk for about a month, and then i talked to him to see if he was going to his sisters party,he was. when i saw him there, i was nervous it was the first time i had seen him since, and i went over to him and he moved across the room, we didnt speck the whole time at the party, i looked at him and he looked away, i said hi he like walked off, he laughed at me, because i kept falling over but we didnt speck. then a week later he deleted me on facebook, and wouldnt add me again, so i went on my sisters account pretending to be her, and talked to him, he said he felt like i depeneded on him, which i dont, that he felt responsible for my life, and stuff, and he needed a break from me, that he wanted to sort things out but in his time. i told him it was me, and apologised for making him feel like that, but i dont feel like were friends, like at all. i had to drop his sister home becasue she had stayed at our house, and he was the only one in, so he had to answer the door, but i said hi and he looked away so i was just like yh bye, he looked relli nervous too, i mean he said he doesnt know anything at the moment and doesnt know wats going on, but i feel like he is being stupid, i dont know if he likes me or not, and the way he is acting is pathetic, i think anyway so i should like him, but i do, so bad. i dont want to talk to him at the moment because he said he need space, so if he ever talks to me again wat should i do, i mean i want to know if he likes me. should i just say that i still like him? or leave it? and just try and be friends? help me, i like him so bad, i like dream about him, and all i ever think about is him, but i dont know wats going on. help please x

by monkeyismyname on 1/6/2010 3:07:19 PM


Those are great tips, I want to try them out, but the guy that I'm in love with has a girlfriend. What do I do? I am really really truly in love with him! Help, please!


by angelconflitti on 1/5/2010 3:19:58 PM


these are really good, but the only problem is there's no guy to use them on! what sucks is that there is never any guy to like in my school/friend group!

by volleypl1 on 1/2/2010 10:12:39 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD This might be kinda long sorry!!! OK . . . I've tried 2 post this a couple times now, but it never works! So here's my story:
I was @ an Xmas party, and there was this guy there. He went 2 my school in kindergarten, 1st grade, and 5th grade. I think he liked me in 5th grade but I'm not sure. (We're in 8th grade now) He doesn't go 2 our school anymore, but he lives over in the next county. Sooo . . . @ this party he was the only guy our age there and surrounded by girls but gave me all the signs he kinda liked me . . .
1) copying my movements
2) staring @ me
3) only laughing @ MY jokes
4) smiling @ me
I'm trying not 2 blow this out of proportion but yeah. The problem is, 2 other girls from my school STILL like him. Honestly, and I'm not trying 2 be mean, 1 of them doesn't have a prayer (if you knew her you'd understand) and the other just doesn't seem like his type.
Anyway like all the girls were asking him 4 his # and he was giving them lame excuses not 2 give it 2 them, but he looked kinda sad when I said I didn't have a phone . . . : (
The other problem is that . . . HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. That's right, a GIRLFRIEND. I know I can't flirt with him until they're over, but how do I know? None of the girls @ the party got his number!!!
Anyway, I know I should get over him, but I just can't. I don't want 2. He's my dream guy. So what should I do?????

You can like him if you want, especially since it does seem like he kinda likes you. You just cant do anything until him and his girlfriend break up. so i suggest you talk to him and get to know him, but wait until him and his gf break up (if they break up). good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by hollywoodgirl37 on 1/2/2010 5:55:15 PM


There is this guy that I text all the time and talk to a lot. We have been friends for about a month now. He knows that I don't like him because I told him that I like his friend. Now I don't really like his friend-so i told him that. My friend told me that I was on his list for people who he likes. Now he says that he doesn't have a list anymore, but I think he sort of likes me. He is really fun to be around, and I told him that I want to hang out sometime. I want him to come over to my house to see my new puppy, but would it be weird to have him come over? I don't want him to get the wrong idea, but he's one of my good friends...HELP!


Hey girl,


You should invite him over, for sure, but let him know that you're excited he is your friend. You have to slip it in somehow. Like, "I'm so glad we're friends now, and you're the only friend I have who hasn't seen my new puppy! Want to come over and see him?"


good luck!



Sammy D

Sammy d.

by eNVy1023 on 1/1/2010 4:05:40 PM


mod mod I like my bgf and I dont know if he likes me too, but we flirt a lot and its mostly him who does the flirting. On the weekeds when I text him sometime he just doenst want to talk so he wont answer and when we are face to face he wont stop. WHat should I do. I don't think I am ready to tell him I like him becuase I dont want to ruin anything and I know that bffs last longer than bfs. Do you think he might like me, and do you think I shouldnt risk our relationship? Thanks


Hey missy, he may like you. Talk to him and let him know how ya feel, who knows he could be feeling the same things about you? Some friendships suffer because of relationships but not all of them, so give him a chance. You guys could become better friends if you went together, but you'll never know if you don't try, so call him up. Smile

Lynae P.

by soccergirl95 on 12/30/2009 6:02:38 PM


luv the ideas, but i cant really ask him to help me with my homework cuz most people know me for being pretty smart and i dont want to act all dumbed down for him.

by aparnad98 on 12/29/2009 10:46:38 PM


Ok I like this guy but I think I heard some other girls say that he liked someone else in my class but yet he stares at me a lot still. What should I think?


Hey babes, staring doesnt necessarily mean someone likes you. if it is combined with flirting or accidentally "bumping" into you then I think you have something to work with. If there are rumblings that he likes someone, it is probably based on some sort of fact. Instead of waiting to see what he does, why dont you make a move to be around him more. xo JANA

jana k.

by Tiger Lily on 12/29/2009 10:44:02 PM


That's genious! I love all of them! These will def work!

by dina22464 on 12/28/2009 4:02:49 PM


ok, so i rly like this guy. when i almost told my friend she was like ew u dont like him do u? so i was like no. i just figured out he has a gf in high school (we r in 8th), but im not sure if it is true or if its a rumor, and im too afraid to ask him. i only talk to him at skool, since im not aloud to have a facebook, or myspace or stuff like that, and im way to afraid to ask for his number. also i have 2 classes with, one of which is science, and my science teacher doesnt rly like him and she is friends with my parents. so bottom line im confused and dont know what to do! please please please help! thx!

Hey girl! I would just keep doing what you're doing. If he does have a gf then you def want to respect that but chances are they won't be together forever, so you can decide then what to do. Keep trying to talk to him and just keep your options open!

Taeler L.

by horsenerd411 on 12/27/2009 10:29:52 PM


hey! i just wanna say that the tease-flirt,WORKS!
my bgf (also my crush)has sorta long hair and i tease him about him looking like a turtle! he always blushes and giggles.

by kiclove4 on 12/27/2009 10:24:17 PM


im in the friend zone with the guy i like but i cant "be physical" because he hates to be touched, what can i do that will get his attention without touching him??

Hey girl! You could try to flirt with him more and tell him that you like him. 
Eryn G.

by blackprada563 on 12/27/2009 7:42:23 PM


Get Physical:
No not like that!


by tjacobbabe on 12/27/2009 5:33:00 PM


This is sorta several questions at once (and off topic), but if you have any advice 4 me at all plz plz plz help!!! One thing, another girl likes him 2, and we r the only 2 girls he EVER hangs with!!! I dont know wat 2 think.

So i tried to tell him i liked him, but i lost my nerve so it came out sounding like a joke. He said "really?" but tat was all he had time 4 cuz some1 walked in. Frown I cant figure out what his tone was... but the rest of the week he kept brushing her off 4 me.

Its been three weeks since then, and he looks at her, smiles at her, talks 2 her 24-7... And gets as close to ignoring me as he can get (we have all classes 2gether+ friends). He still waves and says hi wen he passes me in the hallways, but about 5 secs later i c him throwing a piece of paper at her 2 get her attention. Idk what 2 think. I ever catch him looking at me, but i c him look at he more, and he smiles wen he does.

Now im on Christmas break and i miss him like actually getting depressed Frown Wat can i do 2 help that?

by Asaine14 on 12/24/2009 5:12:02 PM


MOD MOD MOD i really like this boy. i want to talk to him after school and on the weekends but he doesn't have a phone. when i asked one of my guy friends to ask him it was a week later and he hadn't answered my texts or talked to him! what do i do? BTW, this crush went out of his way to bump into my desk five times one day just to say hi. what do i do?


Hey missy, check to see if he has a Facebook or Myspace account. If he does, friend request him and chat that way. Smile

Lynae P.

by jf4eva709 on 12/23/2009 4:42:31 PM



by MissSarahGrace on 12/12/2009 9:55:56 PM


I have before and he does flirt with me too. He will smile at me and he will say something funny and then look up to see if im laughing. He will tell me things in class but he will hide it from other people. Im still confused though.

Hey girl, sometimes flirty signals can also be friendly ones too. Pay attention and see how often (if ever) he references an interest in you or dating. If he doesn't, it might just be the sign of a great friendship.

Alyssa B.

by MissSarahGrace on 12/12/2009 9:44:01 PM


HELP! I wrote in before and i said that really like a boy named Chris but Chris really like Jamie. Well now Jamie admitted she doesnt like Chris anymore so they have stopped liking each other. Well I still really like Chris and he tends to stare at me, but then he can be a little mean, so im kinda confused. At our formal dance he said my hair looked nice and compared me to this pretty girl off a movie.(he has also done a lot of other things like pretened to kick my chair just so i will look up at him etc...)Do you think he may like me? What should i do? Please help! Thanks!

Hey girl, it's hard to say. Try flirting with this Chris character and see how he reacts. There could be potential but there could also just be the sparks of a friendship.

Alyssa B.

by missSarahgrace on 12/12/2009 9:04:57 PM


If anybody here knows what greyhound raceing is, then you should probaly also know it kills 1,000 of grey hounds each year.And that is just the puppys.

by chipmunkchick on 11/29/2009 4:14:15 PM


We appreciate that you girlies wanna post on GL, but we’ve received tons of comments about spamming with chain letters. To keep everyone happy we’ve decided to take ‘em down. Thanks again for posting. Smile

Lynae P.

by strawberry_kiwi_ on 11/8/2009 1:23:25 PM


ok, there is this guy andwe ran xc together.he always compliments me and teases me. and wen we text he always likes to ask me who i like.and at the one party he was being so nice and wen we were eating him and his friends were all whispering and looking at me but idkk. and telling him just to ask not really sure who "her" was... i always catch him glancing my way.. if isay something lik, oh i hate wen people are so lazyy, he'll be like oh i dont do that... or he'll be like i can change.. and im like no be yourself...
one downfall hes kinda into himslef sometimes
sorry so long just confuzzled =?

by lalaworld321 on 11/4/2009 7:18:29 PM


MOD MOD MOD!!!! i desperately need help. my bff likes this guy, but he's taken. by my other bff. i told her that, but she wouldn't listen to me and continues to flirt with him. my other bff is really mad at her and now they're asking me whos side i'm on. HELP!!!!

Hey babe! Let them know you love them both and want to be both their friends, but you hate how a boy is getting in between their friendship. It's not right for your friend to keep flirting if the boy is taken! That is disrespectful and wrong. Try to stay out of their fight, and remember to be a good friend to both the girls. Remind them that boys aren't worth ruining friendship.  
Megan R.

by Asian Princess on 10/18/2009 7:29:19 PM


Okay, so I really like this guy and I've liked him since maybe fifth grade. We're in eighth grade now. I've known him since first grade (we're both in our school's gifted program--harder classes now, but it used to pull us out of regular class to do extra stuff). My friends all say that he likes me but I'm not sure. How do I get him to see that I like him? My only class with him this year is math so i can't really flirt because I never see him. I can barely even talk to him because of a seating chart i don't sit by him. We aren't allowed to walk around at lunch so going to talk to him then is out--we have to sit at the table we chose at the start of the year. I can't ask him about math because we have a stupid homework hotline and I'm pretty good at math (I'm just a geek...). There's an annoying seventh grader who heard me tell my friend that I like him and now the seventh grader always tells him that i like him, but I don't think he believes her. Would it be awkward if I told him she was right? Or that I liked him in general? what should i do, how do i get him to notice i like him?

If you tell him the truth, it will be very brave and it will solve alot of your confusion. Let him know how you feel, and maybe he'll be brave enough to let you know how he feels too! If you let him know how you feel, then he'll be more likely to make an effort to hang out more outside of school! 
Megan R.

by justanotherwriter on 10/18/2009 7:03:46 PM


I would do these except im kinda stuck between the popular people and the 'normal' people so he'll probs go for someone more popular.

by skijumper4life on 10/18/2009 4:11:59 PM


get physical... no not like that! lol!

by doasw on 9/20/2009 10:45:24 AM


When it said "get physical" I cracked up, and my best friend (sitting on the floor next to me) pretty much jumped out of her skin. Guess I startled her. lol

by BubbaleeEmalee123 on 8/25/2009 11:26:46 PM


oh, on my last comment i left out that we go to different schools.

by sharonopal on 8/20/2009 9:41:56 AM


MOD MOD MOD MOD I have a huge crush on my bgf and i have known him since 3rd grade. I will be going into 8th this year. I told him how i felt in 3rd or 4th grade and he said he likes me back. I don't know if he still feels that way though. He has invited me and my Bff over to a couple pool parties over the summer. At the first one he wouldn't come in the pool to much but when i told him that i had to leave early and he checked the time then got in the pool. At the second pool party it was a birthday party for him and i got him exactly what he told me he wanted, a camp rock CD, which he immediantly started playing. Also when he kept jumping in the pool i would swim under to watch him and on the way up he would always smile and wave at me. Do you think he likes me or knows i like him?


Hey girl! Hmm..not sure.Try talking to him more and you should be able to feel out the situation a little better!



Taeler L.

by sharonopal on 8/20/2009 9:40:51 AM



ok so in response to what you said before, i see him in the summer for swim team...and thats already over.


by mileygirl2 on 8/5/2009 4:05:14 PM


***********MOD!!!*********** OK, so I like this guy who is a grade older than me. I almost never get to see him (except in the summer) because I go to an all girls school and I don't know what school he goes to. I'm friends with his 9 year old sister, but his 12 year old brother I don't think really likes me. By the way, I am 13 and he is 14. I live right up the street from him. PLZ HELP! xoxo, mileygirl2♥

Hey girl,

Make use of the time you have left in the summer and get to know him! Get to know him to see if this is the guy you want to be with!


Melany T.

by mileygirl2 on 8/4/2009 3:32:32 PM


HI BI bob

by bsfl123 on 8/2/2009 8:41:18 PM


I need help my bgf and i have crushed on each other since grade 5 and now we are going to two tatally different jr. highs and im one of the guys but it won't be the same without him. Anyway i thought i was so over him and he is dating someone but as it turns out i still like him and i think he still like's me but he dates all these other people that he has nothing in common with. He is always asking me before he dates them and i can never tell him what i think because i don't want him to think im jellous.But i don't want things to be weird between us and all of our friends try to get us together but i always think that if it ends badly our group will split and i don't want that I need help

by 4evertiger on 7/24/2009 2:59:39 PM


i love most of the

by prettyprincess202 on 7/22/2009 2:56:52 AM


Okay, so theres this really amazing guy that I really like and all of my friends say that he likes me too, and on the forth of july he asked my BFF for my number and called wanting to meet up with me and w hung out some, and now his number is saved into my phone and my friend said that I should call him back but I called him yesterday and it went to a message saying 'this caller is out of calling distance' osomething like that and im not sure if that would count as a missed call and if he would see it or not... Oh yeah, one other detail. Hes one of the popular kids, and since im new at this school im climbing my way to the top but if he saw the calls, and then I called again he might think that im annoying and stop liking me and tell the whole school so Im kinda scared to call and I dont know what to do! Ive worked so hard to get this social status and the tinyest little thing could knock me to the bottom again...

Hey babe,

Try sending a text or something letting him know that you want to talk to him so it's not as pushy as a call and then wait. He might just be on vacation or something. don't stress about it too much and give him a chance to call you back before you go too dial-happy.

xoxo Allie
Allie S.

by artist4liiife on 7/21/2009 12:33:20 PM


I have this best guy friend, ive liked him pretty much since 5th grade now were going into 9th. anyways we went out like 4 months ago and i still like him! ive been trying extremely hard to get over him. My friends don't want me to go out with him again because he's friends with all the girls and a player. i still really like him even though he's always into the other girls and he always is afraid of ruining our amazing friendship but it wasnt ruined last time anyways ill stop blabbering.
Suggestions? HELP?! thanks


well the good and the bad news is that you'll both be meeting people in ninth grade (high school, right?? or maybe your high school starts at 10?) Anyways, he might become more of a player, but at the same time you might be meeting a lot of guys who treat you a lot better than this guy. So you decide: do you really want to be with a guy you can't trust to be devoted to you??

Katie P.

by alieyourpalie on 7/18/2009 5:20:19 PM


I've been with my bf 7 almost 8 months. We are both in our first serious relationship. I kinda want to kiss him but I don't f he wants to kiss me! what can I do to find out? Help!!!

Hey Girl, I say just go for it. You can always try with his cheek first. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by scribblez_27 on 6/16/2009 6:46:12 PM


I always just make ppl works pretty well for me! Wink

by bustarhythm on 6/12/2009 9:00:05 PM


Dear GL,
I'm really afriad to flirt now bc whenever I flirt (even a little) the guy gets freaked out and calls me a creep. For example, this guy I don't even like was by my locker,so naturally we walked by eachother. Well, he started spreading a rumor about me that I was a crazy stalker! Then with my current crush, I occacionaly look him in the eye for a split second and now he thinks I'm "patheticly inlove". Then guys I don't like or dont even try 2 flirt with ask me out. I'm getting really bummed! =( Any advice?


Hey girl, obviously that guy at the locker does not know what flirting is. As for your crush, he isn't worth it if he is so full of himself to call you that. As for the flirting in general, just keep doing your thing. if you know that you're not "desperately" flirting with someone and you keep that in mind, you'll be able to know how to act so that you don't give the wrong impression. Also, you can always give the other guys a chance (like maybe one casual date) because who knows? One of them just might be your prince charming! <3 Jeannie
Jeannie L.

by mandypandyroxs on 6/10/2009 7:24:08 PM


i really like this guy in my group of friends. i am ALWAYS flirting with him, and i feel like he is kinda too, but i really can't tell. i have def done all the things on the list many times!! idk if he likes me, but i think he might. im dropping hints like crazy, but he doesnt seem to be getting it. i asked one of my best friends about it, and she said that it seemed like something was happening between us, and that he was probably just too scared to ask me out. what else can i do? i really dont wanna hurt our friendship if he doesnt like me the same way i like him, though! im so confused! i really want to know if he likes me too, and if he does why wont he ask me out. please help!


have you asked him yet? i bet he's too nervous to ask you, so why not try it yourself? odds are, he'd love to spend more time with you and get to know you! hope it all works out!

Katie P.

by livelovelaugh53 on 6/7/2009 12:52:56 AM


**************MOD HELP ME!************************
Ok, so today, 2 of my BFF's told my crush that I had a crush on him. I would have been fine with it, but one of my friends who told him is has GF! You heard me GF! I am totally freaked out when I'm within 10 feet of him! I don't know what to do, because I want to flirt with him, but I'm afraid of getting the evil eye of my friend, HELP!!!

Hey babe, since he has a gf there's not really much you can do. Wait and see what happens with their relationship until you make a move. 
katelin s.

by NittanyLion123 on 6/2/2009 9:32:50 PM


I haven't ever talked to this one guy but I have kind of noticed him from afar for a whole year, but i don't know how to go up and talk to him! He isn't in any of my classes and he doesn't hang out in the same group so I don't know how to get to know him! He probably doesn't even know my name. To top it off my friend just told me she liked him, and I said that I didn't like anyone cuz I don't know him. Help!!!

Hey Girl, Start at the first step, with a lil flirting! See if he notices your hints and take it from there. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by dancr4life13 on 5/24/2009 9:23:27 PM


hi i like this guy who i think flirts with me?
well 1)he calls me my nick name name nina
2)He likes to hung me then spin me round and round
3)he invites me over to his house to go swiming
how do i know if he likes me or if i am just grilled cheese?

Hey girl,

Watch out - this guy sounds like a typical flirt! It's okay to enjoy the attention but don't take it too seriously if he does this with every girl.

alexa e.

by zayzo on 5/20/2009 2:17:59 AM


ya...i totally am gonna use it...if i don't already! but i do have some questions. how do you reject a guy if he asks you out...but u only like him as a friend? cuz this dude asked me out...and i said no, and he started cutting himself! i feel so bad...but not wanted to risk our friendship

by dncr4evr on 5/18/2009 8:45:24 PM


none of that stuff really works , trust me. guys respect you much more if you can become a friend and than progress.

by prepygal13 on 5/17/2009 9:55:29 PM


ooh flirtatious!!!!!!!!!

by wntw319 on 5/16/2009 3:21:05 PM


I have been single for a year now Frown ! I really like this guy and i cant tell if he likes me back, we are pretty good friends. i REALLY want to go out with him but... i dont want to get rejected and every time i think about asking him out i think of him saying EWW NO! and me being too embarrassed for life! Also he used to like my other friend which isn't really like me. Plus i really just want a guy to ask me out! How can i get him to notice me more and start to like me!?!?! WOW thats a lot lol HELP!!

Hey Girl, I would go ahead and give flirting your best shot. It'll signal to him that that you like him and encourage him to make the best move. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by LilCuteness123 on 5/14/2009 9:16:42 PM


thats helpful!

by ViolinGirl12 on 5/4/2009 9:24:59 PM


**MOD*** Thanks in advance for reading this. Hope you are having a good day!! A few weeks ago, the boy I've liked for pretty much all of this year asked me out on a date! We went to see a scary movie and then just 'toured' the old part of our city for a while. He held my hand and said all the right things (and my parents LOVE him!!! yay!) But he didn't kiss me at the end of the night. He is 16 and at the high school building (he's a sophmore), and I'm 14 and at a different 9th building. Which makes it hard for us to see each other a lot. (Oh, and he never uses his phone, so we really only have face-to-face time to talk.) I think he might just be afraid to scare me off because I'm younger than him. That def won't happen. Smile What can I do to let him know this (and maybe get him to use his cellie more)? Thank you!!


Try to hang out after school or during the weekend as friends. Make a lasting friendship with him and invite him to stuff you do with your besties. Be confident that this could work and tell him that upper classmen date under classmen all the time.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

by voicememos on 5/2/2009 11:43:44 AM


Oh, also, other friendly teasing works. He was missing some of the math problems (circumference. easy...for most people), so I leaned over my desk (I sit right behind him) And I was all, "[His name], did you double the radius?" And he was all "Whaaaaa? What do you mean by double?" And I said, "TIMES BY TWO!!" and he said "Ooooooooh! I get it!" I tease him abot it now. (He doesn't care how much I tease him; he really really likes me. As long as I'm talking to him, he's happy.)Lol. So, yeah, teasing.

by polkadotz97 on 5/1/2009 10:30:49 PM


Hey girls! Nice, teasing name calling or nickname making is effecive too! Today my crush was wearing a bright yellow shirt and pants with yellow flowers on them (not girly). I started by running up to him and screaming "YOU LOOK LIKE A RUBBER DUCKY!" then laughing and running away. He didn't mind, even though all his friends were all there. (Note: I am friends with him and I know he likes me)(I honestly thought 'rubber ducky' when I saw him) He looked kinda sad, so I said, "Hey, I never said rubber duckies were a bad thing! They're cool." He looked sooo excited that I was flirting with him.
P.S. If he doesn't like it, stop. I could just turn him off. Hope I helped!!

by polkadotz97 on 5/1/2009 10:24:32 PM


wow this is really old, but a good one. thx!

by sparklestar4ever12 on 4/24/2009 4:25:47 PM


ok great tips, but i already do all that stuff!

check out my profile! leave commonts!

by kellarox on 4/23/2009 9:12:03 PM



by Cutie_Pie_72 on 4/22/2009 12:24:54 AM


MOD- Ok, well I really like this guy in my social studies class. He's really funny and blah blah blah... but I don't know how to flirt with him I've texted him once about "homework" but it really wasn't a long convo. I'm scared to text him again because I don't want him to think I'm just another annoying girl. We aren't really friends but when I'm in a group with him we make jokes. I do have a good chance with him though but I don't know how to get him to realize that I like him. What should I do?


YOu should text him random stuff and get him to talk to you after school. Try asking him to hang out with you and your pals whenever. Also, get his sn and try to chat with him whenever. Do not try too hard but let all of this happend naturally.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

by Cutie_Pie_72 on 4/22/2009 12:09:42 AM


MOD- alright i need adivce everybody! so ive liked this one guy for a long time. a couple months ago he liked me and everyone said he was going to ask me out, but he asked out someone else, and broke my heart. i still like him but we're not that close; definitely not as close as we used to be. we used to flirt majorly, but now only a little. also, one of my friends talked to him, and said he didn't really want to go out with me cuz he didn't know me well enough. i know i need to get his number, and become better friends with him and stuff, but how can i do all of that? and how can i get him to like me again?


babe, you do not want to go there. Don't try to steal him from his girlfriend. You don't want to be the other woman. Just respect what he has with her and if you see him, just chat about stuff. Good luck! <3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

by allie v on 4/21/2009 8:33:02 PM


Ok so i lik this guy alot and i talk to him sometimes but he dosnt really notice me how do i flirt w him???

Hey Girl, Check out the link below for flirting tips. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by spikiest on 4/19/2009 6:48:38 PM


MOD Do you have a page on reading flirting signals? I realy like this guy (shock!) and I think he used to flirt with me but I didn't like him then, but now I do and I don't know if he still does. I have no classes with him now, and I used to have 3. Help


We did awhile back but you can tell if a guy likes you if he smiles at you alot, gives you more attention then other girls. Try inviting him to a group basketball game or an activity with pals. Be friends with him first and then go farther from there.<3 Sherryn D.

Sherryn D.

by volleyball_grl on 4/18/2009 9:48:28 AM


oh btw this flirting stuff is pretty good i might use it lol like the look at him for a second then smile and look somewhere else thing GOLD so using it lol but wait..if i do he might ask me out(and my renst say i hav to b 16 to date!16!):o or he could tell his sister and she'd tell everyone then they wouldn't leave me alone!!!maybe i won't use it...maybe i will...aghhh!!!maybe someday lol i'll tell my friends to do that lol

by BrownEyedGirl10 on 4/17/2009 9:16:20 AM


Wow, these people haven't commented since ... 11/18/07! Wow, ummmm anyway.


I like my BGF! He's great, funny, and awesome(: And of course; ah-dorable! He's flirted with me (I think) a couple times...I've flirted with him a couple times (at least I've tried tooo!) I don't know what to do though, he KINDA SORTA likes my best friend (my best friend really likes him). I asked him if he would go out with my best friend and he said; IDK. And that he only likes her 25 out of a 100. But I'm just really sad! Help please!


by JennyLoveYou on 4/7/2009 8:01:23 AM


I need a advice! There's this guy in 8th grade i like. I'm in 7th grade and his brother's in my class. Well, his bro hates me and i think tht might affect my crush's opinion of me. What should i do???
if anyone has advice, i'll take it!

Get to know your crush well so that he can learn to like you himself.  If he knows you, he'll be less likely to listen to his brother's opinion. -lauren
Lauren H.

by i♥b-ball on 4/4/2009 5:46:28 PM


OK this is my story:

my BGF found out that i know that he liked me about a few weeks ago. hes been okay with it. but what he didnt know that i liked him back, i know i know i shouldve told him but i was chicken. anyways, he went out with this other gurl for just about a week and she broke up with him. and my BGF started to catch glimpses at me( even when he had a gf). now he knows that i like him. now whenever im around with his guy friends, he keeps on talking about how pretty she is and how pretty that girl is and YADDA YADDA. then when hes done talkking he looks at me to see if i'll react! is he playing hard to get? dont get me wrong, hes really nice and funny(not just the looks) but he really encourages me. hes not a snob, but u know how guys are. i know deep down he STILL likes me, at least i think. what should i do? help!!! i want him to my bf so bad!

SO HERE ARE my questions:

is he playing hard to get?
do guys really get over a girl so fast(in other words does he still like me)?
should i make the first move or wait till he does(im scared of rejection!)?

by Candy_Maya16 on 4/4/2009 3:01:13 PM


when you finish holding eye contact, do u think the boy will think ur daydreaming if u turn to talk to a friend?

Hey babes, I would make sure the eye contact is looking at him, not staring off into space. Then take a few seconds to pause looking down or something before chatting. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by luvya444 on 3/26/2009 11:06:28 PM


i think this guy might like me, and i really like him, but how do i get him to ask me out??

Hey babes, Check out the link below for some sure fire flirting techniques. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by bllgirl95 on 3/26/2009 9:35:19 PM


Ok He sits behind me in almost every class. He always talks to me and my friends and tells funny jokes. I try to flirt with him and he smiles back and we are like best friends. I've only known him for like a year now but it seems like forever. I kind of like him but one of my on and off friends is his ex. He completely hates her now and I still know a little about his personal life athome. Do u think he likes me and I should ask him out or his he just being friendly and if I ask him he'll take it lightly and my friend will be pissed?

Hey Babes,

Sounds like he likes you on one level or another, just talk to your friend and see how she feels about you guys dating.

Xo Lori
lori S.

by tagandrun on 3/22/2009 8:41:21 PM


i really like one of my guyfriends. he is really funny and nice wen hes around me. alot of ppl say he likes me but they only think tht they dontKNOW.
also he has a temper but he doesnt get mad atME. hes also one of my newer friends ex bf. should i ask him out and how i should or if i shud let it go and be just friends?

Hey babes,

I would have a chat with your friend and make sure she's ok with you guys dating.  Be careful of his anger problem, that could def cause some big issues.  If your friend doesn't mind then flirt with him a little and see where that gets you.

XO Lori
lori S.

by tagandrun on 3/22/2009 8:18:33 PM


MOD there is this guy that i kind of like and we ride the bus together... so i was talking to my sister and all of a sudden i saw him staring at me. I had no idea what he was doing and didnt find out until after he got off at his stop. I looked at my backpack and saw duct tape on it that said something very innapropriate. Does this mean I don't have a chance with him? Help!!

Hey girl, you still have a chance.  You just have to not worry about the duct tape.  Laugh it off like it's no big deal and you'll be fine. -lauren

Lauren H.

by herky2960 on 3/22/2009 3:11:40 PM


thanks for the advice! i could really use it. i heard that one of my friends told someone that I freeze up around boys and now that I think about it, she's totally right! I sometimes dont say a word to my crush and i feel soo bad about it because I konw the only way he'll have any chance of liking me is for me to talk to him.

by Sydney on 3/22/2009 12:00:31 AM


thanks for the advice! i could really use it. i heard that one of my friends told someone that I freeze up around boys and now that I think about it, she's totally right! I sometimes dont say a word to my crush and i feel soo bad about it because I konw the only way he'll have any chance of liking me is for me to talk to him.

by Sydney on 3/21/2009 11:59:59 PM


i have a problem. i really like this guy and we r even friends (he sits next to me in to classes and we talk the whole time)... i went on to facebook today and I was about to talk to him and noticed it said he was in a relationship. do u think i should wait for him and keep being his friend? ... i like him that much...
ps- his last gf lasted like 6 months... do u think that this means he is a long relationship kind of person and it will be a while?

Hey girl, I def think you  should be his friend right now. Keep eyes open for other guys but you never know, this relationship might last a day, a week, or a year. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by cocopuffs27 on 3/11/2009 11:47:06 PM


thanks.. you too,

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 12:02:52 PM


********MOD!!**** thanks U so much! your the best.
and one more thing How long will you be MODDING??!?!
thanks SOOO MUCH!!! (:

You are totally welcome. I will modding until 1 p.m. today. But, I will be back on Friday 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Enjoy your Sunday, sweetie! 
Paulette W.

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 11:58:09 AM


*********MOD!!**** i cant do that though i get soo nervous and shy around me!
help! thnxs so much! (:

You could ask one of your friends to do it or you could write him a letter about how you feel.  
Paulette W.

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 11:53:49 AM


*******MOD!!***** ! are you sure?? i mean what should i do? i kinda like him,,i guess..
help!?!?!? (:

I think you should find someway to tell him how you feel, and then, he should feel more comfortable to tell you how he feels.  
Paulette W.

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 11:46:58 AM


*******MOD!!***** theres this guy he used to be in one of my classes, and used to watch me. one day i was sitting on the bleacher, and he was making these weird voices, but like making fun of me ( in a nice way.) and he smiles at me when im in the hall way.
help! what does this mean?!?! (:

I'm thinking he likes you, but he just doesn't know how to tell you.  
Paulette W.

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 11:41:00 AM


bahhaa. Get physical, No! not like that, lol. (:

by mluver17 on 3/1/2009 11:35:41 AM


Thanks, Katelin! I'll try that!

by lovesmusic9 on 2/22/2009 1:13:16 AM


Thanks, Katelin, but I'm kinda quite and it's really hard for me to start a conversation with a boy that I like. Do you have any tips on that? Thanks!

by lovesmusic9 on 2/21/2009 9:29:18 PM


MOD can I get some advice please? There's this boy that I really like, I've liked him for a few months now, and I think he knows that I like him. I've smiled at him, but he never smiles back. I don't think he likes me, but in the past he has walked right near me in the hallway and it seemed too coincidental, and he would sometimes look at me real quickly, either out of the corner of his eye, or just when we pass each other in the hall, and idk if that means something, or if he's just seeing if I'm looking at him or not (which I do so I could catch his eye to smile at him). So I can't really tell if he likes me or not, but I'm pretty sure he already knows that I do, and I don't want to make it awkward for him by starting a conversation. Does anyone have any advice?

Hey babe, yeah I'd say just up the flirting. Why not start a convo with him? Talk to him about what movies he's seen or what shows he watches. You'll be surprised how not scary it'll be. The only way you'll get to see if he likes you is to get to know him better. Good luck!
katelin s.

by lovesmusic9 on 2/21/2009 2:53:06 AM


Ok, so the guy I like is really active in school activites and this morning I had an early morning band practice and he had to leave early. My mom works with his mom and she said that his mom was talking about how he had to go to three different things this morning. If I talked to him and said something like, "How many things are you in?" Would this be flattery or does it sound mean? Any more ideas for flirting?




Hey Chick,



If you say it with a smile and wink afterwards it would def come across as flirty.  Another simple way to flirt is to catch his eye, smile and look away.  Check out this link for more simple and flirty techniques




Xo Lori

lori S.

by pinkie0209 on 2/18/2009 9:38:14 PM


***MOD, I have a QUESTION***
I've been through major boy trouble lately, I am able to help everybody else's realtionships, but my own. I just turned sixteen and I feel like I should've gotten a date by now. But I go to a small school and they've all known me since kindergarten. For the longest time I have liked this guy, but something happened, I just don't like him how I used to. And now there is this new guy to our school, and I think I like him. I feel like I've met him, but I know I haven't and... I feel like I'm completely nuts. My question is, should I gather up my courage and flirt with this guy like there is no tomorrow? And tell my over-protective dad that I'm asking a guy out? Please, this is driving me nuts.

I say, go ahead and flirt with him.  If things go well, then worry about talking to your dad. -lauren
Lauren H.

by werewolf77 on 1/31/2009 11:00:18 PM


Oops, forgot to mention in my previous post that I am in high school, so if anyone has any advice on talking to a crush that is appropriate for a girl my age, I would greatly appreciate it! Laughing

by lovesmusic9 on 1/29/2009 7:05:43 PM


This boy I was talking about before, he was walking by me in the hallway again today and when I passed by him in the cafeteria he was looking at me out of the corner of his eye. I want to catch his eye so I can smile at him, but sometimes he looks away too quick and I'm afraid he thinks I'm creepily looking at him, which I am not! I really hope that I can get to know him, because he's my brother's friend, and he seems really nice, plus he's cute, and I don't want to miss an opportunity.

by lovesmusic9 on 1/29/2009 7:00:11 PM


okay, ummm... why does it say that my profile is n't publicly visible if i didn't check the box?
i haven't edited it for a few weeks and i really want people to be able to see it!!!!!!!!
please help meTong

Hey babes, All profiles need to be approved by us Mods before they are visible and every time you edit, we have to approve. If thats already been done, remember that chicas under 13 need permission from the 'rents. An email was sent to them. They just need to approve it. xo Annemarie
Annemarie D.

by ShannonElizabeth on 1/29/2009 6:12:33 PM


heyy everybody!!!!!!
i'm sad.
my bff says my crush and bgf matt looks like a spider!!!
i think he's the cutest ever cuz his hair is like really dark brown and his eyes are bright blueSmile

by ShannonElizabeth on 1/29/2009 5:57:56 PM


^^Mods, other members, anyone have advice on my above post? I would also like to add that I think this boy might know that I like him, and I'm afraid that if I start talking to him (even though I wouldn't know what to say!) it would be totally obvious that I like him. I'm so confused, 'cause I KINDA want him to know that I like him, but then I don't 'cause if he knows, it might be awkward for him when we talk. I'm really not good with this kind of stuff, 'cause I'm quite, so if anyone has advice I would greatly appreciate it! Laughing Annemarie D.

by lovesmusic9 on 1/27/2009 6:39:46 PM


I like this guy who is in my brother's class, but he's also a grade above me, which means he isn't in any of my classes. I see him a lot in the hallway, and sometimes he would walk near me, and I know that was the perfect opportunity to talk to him, but I just didn't know what to say! Does anyone have any ideas?

by lovesmusic9 on 1/21/2009 12:13:03 AM


~~~~Mod please read~~~~~~~
Um well... I like this really hot guy that i get to see every monday because of this church thing.
I have multiple problems.1.)4 (yes COUNT EM) of my friends like him 2.)he might like my friend lets call her mancow because he stares at her alot 3.) he goes to some catholic school 4.) last time mancow found out and she might bring it up to him 5.) MANCOW LIKES HIM TOO!!!
Well theres been a rumour that he might like me or mancow but.. WE DONT KNOW. He also stares at me alot but.. None of us are entirely sure..
Please help/
Warm Regards,
PRestige Worldwide




Hey girl, What a crazy name for a friend! Why not have someone just ask him if he likes you or mancow? You're gunna ruin your friendship if you fight over it; it's better just to find out once and for all. xo Annemarie

Annemarie D.

by prestige worldwide on 1/18/2009 5:51:50 PM


this girl is a major jerk though...she is mean to everyone and gossips

by tap_dancer on 1/1/2009 2:42:42 PM


MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!!!!! ive been friends w/ a guy since kindergarten. in 3rd grade a new girl came to our school and they are now going out in 6th grade. the thing is, i told my friend i liked him and he was cool about it which is so not like him. i told him it was on and off but on again and he texted back a smiley face. also, i sort of, well, despise the girl hes going out with. they both ride my bus so theres barely any way to avoid the situation. one, do you thoink he might be realizing this girls a mean one and two do you think he might like me back bacause of number one?? PLEASE ANSWER


I think the reason that you don't like the girls that hes with is becauese shes kind of stepping on your toes and steeling the guy that you like. But you have to realize he has a girl friend now and it's not you. I keep telling all of you girls that are to afraid to ask out guys that you have crushes on if you don't ask them out hile thier single it your own fault when they get asked out by someone else. Im sure he does like you but he might just like you as a good friend and doen't want thinks to be wierd. your just going to have to wait until hes single again . hiting on a guy that is taken isn't cool. It makes you look desprite and unatttractive.  good luck see ya tobie

Tobie E.

by tap_dancer on 1/1/2009 2:32:55 PM


MOD, GL, Girlies, anything!!
ive been friends w/ a guy since kindergarten. in 3rd grade a new girl came to our school and they are now going out in 6th grade. the thing is, i told my friend i liked him and he was cool about it which is so not like him. i told him it was on and off but on again and he texted back a smiley face. also, i sort of, well, despise the girl hes going out with. they both ride my bus so theres barely any way to avoid the situation. one, do you thoink he might be realizing this girls a mean one and two do you think he might like me back bacause of number one?? PLEASE ANSWER

by tap_dancer on 1/1/2009 1:40:27 PM


Ok, so my ex-bf has a twin bro (identical), and my bf, who I'll call AJ, broke up with me on Dec. 2, but now I like his twin who I'll call Gabe. I think my exbf is over me, cuz my bff is his sister and I heard her say, "Does AJ like Ally?" and I'm not Ally.... I really like Gabe and I wanna go out with him, but idk how this will make AJ feel.
Thx alot!

by Binji on 12/22/2008 4:04:36 PM


Do you have any tips to knowing if guys are flirting with you or like you?

by cutecatz74 on 12/16/2008 8:28:15 PM


I like this guy (shocker!) a lot. I've like him for prob 4 years. He is also one of my BGF's. Anyway, I am trying to figure out if he likes me. When we talk it really seems like he does (some of the usual things, like not looking me in the eyes), but I'm the one who always walks over to him to strike up the convo, or the one who notices he's on IM and chats with him or the person or sits down by him. (He isn't really shy around his friends, like me) I even got the courage up to invite him to some group party. He was already going to some other thing that night, but he seemed interested and was kind about it. We even talked for a total of 2 hours on IM yesterday. (I loved every minute of it)
Knowing if he liked me wouldn't change any part of how we hang or anything. It's one of those things that would be really nice to know.(so, i don't think that I'm wasting my time, or so I know that he could be thinking about me when i'm thinking about him, which is all the time) I'm afraid that if I ask, he'll be weirded out, and we'll never got to hang again. Are there any hints to be able to tell if he likes me, or do you think he does?
-Hopelessly In Love




Hey girl, I think you've pretty much picked up all the hints, like chatting and not looking in the eye, but maybe a mutual friend can ask if he likes anybody and then you can take it from there to see how he feels about you. xo Annemarie

by cutecatz74 on 12/16/2008 7:37:45 PM


My Crush Flirts with me all the time according to these flirting tips.

by Roethlisbergerfan7 on 11/18/2008 5:32:20 PM


OK!! so my best friend and i go to a private school and we play b-ball We play with boys and girls but its like no biggie, u get used to it. So there is this guy that we both liked tis one team we play. So we got on facebook and was lookin around and we found him on it! we were so excited!! she dared me to call him and i did..i linkedhim and started talkin. After we did we all talked lyk everyday! So one day he told me that he lyked my friend!! i was so sad and angry! but i told her. That weekend i invited him to go campin with my dad and brother wit all the peeps from my class. He came and they got hooked up there. So about 2 weeks after they started goin out.. she broke up wit him!! i was lyk why?? she didnt have a very good answer to my question... jus stuff that didnt matter much! now she is callin him a jerk becase the people at his skool told her that he was after they had broken up!I still talk to him as a friend.. but my bff doesnt like him even as a friend ne more! I still kinda want to go out wit him but he can sumtimes be a jerk but has never been to ne of my friends or me! my friend says she doesnt care but i still think she likes him...she always askes me if i have talked to him and im like yea.. and she kinda jus looks at me really weird like they r still goin out!!! idk wat to do! HELP!!

by Audra_Lane905 on 11/17/2008 7:05:40 PM


I really like the first one, flirt with your eyes. I think it would work great! I'll have to try it out Tuesday! I really like the smile thing too. I am so excited to try these out. Smile

by SportyBFF25 on 11/16/2008 11:18:24 PM


Wow. My friends always tell me that I flirt with my best guy friend, but I always got mad when they said it because I am afraid to like him (he has a girlfriend)I guess I do flirt with him...A LOT. Mostly the tickling, playing with hair stuff. Sometimes he just lays on my lap on the bus when he is tired. I still don't think it is serious though. His girlfriend already knows he's a flirt. Thanks for putting this up. It helped with realization.

by musicnoteXOXO on 11/16/2008 9:43:04 PM


In the article you said if you get in the "friend zone," it's really hard to get out. I'm friends with my crush and we both like each other now. And I've heard he might ask me out soon. So that's not always true.

by maryjaneSC on 11/14/2008 10:19:19 PM


So, I like this guy. He's one of my friends and I've known him for like 2 years. We got into a big fight last summer, and we didn't talk for a long time. Last week, he called my friend and asked her for my number. She gave it to him and he was acting like he was eternally grateful. He texted me saying "hey." but my phone was dead so I didn't get the message till three days after. i had 4 texts from him, one of which said-Winktaylor!hey- i was texting him yesterday and my friend says that she thinks he likes me! I don't know what to do now. I don't think he likes me, but he's being super confusing right now!
What should I do, we never talk at school.

by naturegirl1676 on 11/11/2008 6:02:20 PM


MOD Me and my bff r liking the same guy. Bt he sat by me the other day. Bt he flirts with her all the time. I am getting mixed signals. Wat should I do?


tell your friend that you like him to so she knows. And while your at it tell the boy how ou feel . if both you and your BF like him he should be off limits to both of you. you don't want to hurt eachothers feelings. See Ya Tobie

by Oh-liv-e-uh on 11/1/2008 11:28:36 PM


MOD!!!! PLZ HELP!!!! There is this guy who I seriously thought was flirting, but my friend asked him if he was gonna flirt with the girl he liked and he was like "What's flirting?" Does that mean he wasn't flirting with me?


Hey babes, most of the time people dont even notice that they are flirting, it could just be that he was flirting without knowing that thats what he was doing. xo JANA

by flipflop4 on 10/22/2008 7:09:01 PM


OMG! the comment left last by cheermaniac5 was left on my 11th b-day! wow! i'm turning twelve this year

by nirvanaluver on 10/13/2008 5:19:34 PM


HELLO?????? anyone there :?:

by Haley240 on 3/16/2008 6:29:52 PM


the guy i like i think ike me too,but he is kind of populary. but he flurts with me, and the first time i sow him i could tell he though i was cute. im confussed! in one class he sits in front of me, sometimes he turns around and start to stare at me and in to my eyes! he is so cute!!!!!!!!! Smile :oops:

by Haley240 on 3/16/2008 6:03:41 PM


"WoW" i loved ur tips!

by Haley240 on 3/16/2008 5:56:54 PM


Hey mod thanks for referrin' me to this page. Really helped.
lol, now I'd like your advice again.
So, I told my friends who I like (which I know deeply regret, lol!) and then the other day this kid in my class, John, we were talking about who would be good together and then all the sudden he was like me and my crush and I blushed and started laughing so then he went and asked my crush something, and he told me he was trying to convince my crush to ask me out, and then my crush was just like, 'what ever' and just waved him off, so then my bffs went up to my crush and they were like 'what did john ask you?' adn my crush pretended that he didn't know what they were talking about (which was sweet) but then this other girl in my class told me that later my bffs told my crush to ask me out and he waved them off, too... but now whenever i look at my crush i have to turn my head cuz I blush and start to smile... so, lol, what do I do now, because chances are, he gets the hint that I like him, lol.... so, ya, lol, Mod, could really use your advice right now. lol.
Thanks so much .
Half Blood Princess

He knows you like him, I'm guessing he likes you, if you want to be his gf ask him out. He may just be scared and you can show him your courage and do it sooner. Good luck girl!

by Half Blood Princess on 3/14/2008 9:20:42 PM


:cool: &hearts Smile 8) :mrgreen: :roll:

i just learned how to do the faces!! they are sooo cool!

by tennisgrl10 on 3/7/2008 10:27:00 AM


OMG I just realized that my crush does a lot of those things! Thanks you guys for making me realize that my crush is totally into me!!! Smile Smile Smile

by swimmer girl on 3/6/2008 7:49:46 PM


I love how the person who wrote this said that we all have different styles on flirting. I never thought of it that way. I wish I was like a pro flirt-er. Tong Then all the guys would want to chat with moi! Imagine that...*sigh* LOL. Laughing Anyways, I need some advice. I want a space thats just my own- not in my room,not outside,someplace calm and a place that I can call my own! (I cant call my room my own because I have to share my closet with my mom!!!!!!!) Got any ideas?

by fishylips on 3/1/2008 3:37:13 PM


Hey how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you

hey girl! there are are ton of signs. For one, they always go out of their way to talk to you (whether in school, on the weekends, or even online). They smile a lot around you. Sometimes they might even get really nervous.

by lizzie on 3/1/2008 1:55:29 PM


after reading this i realized that i constantly am subconsciously flirting. Is that a bad thing?

I don't think so.

by aerochick on 2/29/2008 10:39:00 PM


Never mind I don't need help any more. we're just friends.

by Jesse on 2/28/2008 6:25:15 PM


Can anyone help me peeeze!

by Jesse on 2/27/2008 6:18:48 PM


I have a question for anybody that can help. One of my best freiends(maddy) aperently is really hot and same with my other bff alison b/c guys check them out and ask them out all the time. I rely dont care the only prob is that all the guys that i like like them!And this guy (corbin) that is my bgf (that i think im in love with) likes maddy and asked her out today! What doI do?

by Jesse on 2/27/2008 4:22:30 PM



ok so I like this guy (BEN)so I told one of my guy friends. He told someoneelse who told Ben. The guy said he didnt believe him but he liked me. How do I know If he really likes me? should I ask him out!

ONE PROB- Im on the bottom floor and hes on the topfloor at school so i like never see him!

help me please! Thanks! ♥♥♥

maybe you could talk to him before or after school and ask him if he likes you or not before you ask him out
~L'Oreal Smile

by Ari on 2/22/2008 10:59:45 PM


Thanx. i know. moderation. however sometimes i flirt ALOT without realizing im doing so. XD so most guys edge away. it also stinks cuz im a bit on the heavier side. D= some guys dont care which is good.

Hey girl,
It's ok to be flirty! Go for it!

by Yessie_Yessie on 2/22/2008 8:43:45 PM


What do you think? I know its kinda late, but i have a flirt-tip!
Act as if you dont really want to be talking to him. I dont mean blow him off, but i mean just hesitate to talk to him...
EXAMPLE: i was talking to my 8 year old friend (michelle) and my crush and his older bro were sitting by a tree like 5 meters away. His older bro interupted our convo and i told him that i thought he was mad/avoiding me, then continued to talk to michelle. Michelles lil sis comes out (lily) and askes me to push her on the swing. My crush says, "hey jess, do you think imade it to the soccer team?" i dont even glance at him and say "...i guess if your good enough..." his bro "ooo!"ed. Lily followed me to my house (nextdoor) and i came back out and saw michelle and my crush & his bro were on the porch of michelles house. i put down lily and continued my game. it was hilarious because my crush was DYING to talk to me. It worked so well.(P.S., michelle and her fam, and my crush and his fam live in the same house NOT BRO & SIS)=] the best way to flirt i guess is to antiflirt.

Hey girl,
Sometimes antiflirting works but sometimes you should just act natural and interested if you are

by Yessie_Yessie on 2/22/2008 8:28:37 PM


just kidding!!!!!! haha, im so silly!!!

by syndy on 2/17/2008 8:30:47 PM


hi is any1 there?

by smileyface on 2/17/2008 2:27:47 PM


MOD!!!!!!!!!!!! ANY MOD!!!!!!!!!!!! MOD!!!!!!!!!!!
ok. when i got my BF, he told me that he will want to kiss. i told him no the reason i said no is cuz, when i go up to the mirror, like, face to face, i look ugly. then, also, i dont know how to kiss. i dont know how to do any kiss whats so ever. how are you soppust to kiss? and u plz xplane all the differnt kinds plz?

Hey girl! if your new bf is interested in kissing you, I'm sure your a lot more beautiful than you give yourself credit for. First kisses are great! There are a ton of kinds (more than I could ever explain on the blog) but for a first kiss I would keep it nice and sweet (in other words, nothing crazy). Don't pucker lips too hard. Try and keep them as relaxed as possible without feeling dead and droopy. For inspiration rent some romantic movies or watch some re-runs of "What I Like About You" (Amanda Bynes kisses ALOT on that show)
<3 Laura

by K on 2/11/2008 4:01:55 PM


ok. i was the one who sadi about the flirting prob. i dont think that i flirt. its just that one of my friends always thinks that im flirting when i dont think i am. like, i grew up two only brothers, so im into sports. and if i play a game with sum guys, she thinks that im flirting. and if i laff at one of their jokes cuz it really is funny, she thinks im flirting. and i dont do one of those weird, iggly, bidazzeld laffs. and i dont touch them either. i didnt think i was flirting with the guy that she likes. my friend told me i was when really i was just talking. how can you tell the difference?

by scooter on 2/5/2008 3:54:14 PM


my friend likes this guy. i tiold her that i didnt like him cuz i dont. my prob is is that i always flirt with guys even tho i dont mean to. it just happenes naturally. i dont wanna stop tho. now shes mad at me. what do i do?

You should want to stop, its not good when a girl flirts with every guy she sees, guys actually dont really like it, they wont see you as girlfriend material...guys want a girl who only has eyes for them. If your friend really likes a guy stop ruining her chances with him, her feelings are probably really hurt if you have been throwing yourself at her crush. Instead of being flirty with everyone, be friendly. There is a difference between being fun and outgoing and being way too ditzy and touchy. Go with the fun, cute friendly girl persona. In the long wrong this will get you a guy thats great and it will save your friendships. xoxo JANA

by scooter on 2/4/2008 5:20:38 PM


dear insane about drake bell,

If you have this feeling that she did say yes, then it is probally true. You should totally try to forget about them for now. If they are together don't try to break them up it will just make your life worst. Basic advice, find out if she did say yes. Look for a new guy if he liked you he would have asked you out.

by shimmergirl on 2/3/2008 9:34:08 PM


Mod, what if this guy i like is the one that is shy and not me?i try to talk to him but he just smiles and then looks at the ground then shakes his hair in this adorable way then gives me small answers or input?plz reply!!

by annabananna on 2/3/2008 9:09:01 PM


insasne about drake bell
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww I'm so sorry. There are tons of boys in the world and I"m sure that you will soon find another boy. I'm still sorry though.

by Basketball Girl on 2/3/2008 8:36:55 PM


this is great 4 social butterflies, but wat about shy-bes?

by notsodumbblonde on 1/27/2008 2:07:44 PM


This was really helpful! Thanks GL!

by SWEETIEpink on 1/21/2008 11:30:48 AM


k, thanks alli!@

by OMGGIRL on 1/18/2008 10:44:02 AM


i don't know. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM!!!!

by hehe on 1/18/2008 3:12:51 AM



My boyfriend is a vegitarian so where should i take him to dinner.

by Confused on 1/18/2008 3:08:56 AM


can u help me? i don't know if my crush likes me or not, he is really confusing me!this has been going n since october! in my 1st period class he is like nice friendly and makes me laugh, and then in p.e. he plays soccer with this girl and her friends and doesn';t pay attention to me. any ideas? thanks! xoxoalyssa

Hmm I don't know girl...doesn't seem too promising. Could you hang out with him outside of school and see if there are any sparks?

♥ Alli

by OMGGIRL on 1/17/2008 7:34:32 PM


how was ur day jessie?

Long, but pretty good :O)

<3 Jessie M.

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 11:25:05 PM


u r so u always know the answers to my probs.! lol xoxoalyssa

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 11:19:01 PM


k, thanks jessie! love ya! xoxoalyssa

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 11:18:12 PM


ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.................tmrw is going 2b the worst day of my life!!!

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 10:36:49 PM


sorry to bug you again, but somethin really embarasing happened 2dfay at school. i was walking to p.e. and this guy was like "so you saw me give myself a wedgie?' i was like "um, no" then i walked past him and he told him freind "yeah she was, she was looking at my butt, i saw her." but i wasn't!!!! what do i do? i bet he will tell eveyone in math class tmrw...plz help me again. xoxo alyssa, thanks

Aww, it sounds to me like he was just playing around and joking. Don't make a big deal out of it and I'm sure it'll all be fine.

<3 Jessie M.

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 10:34:10 PM


thanks jessie , but i am not really friends w/ him....or talk to him a lot...

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 10:26:57 PM


please help me cuz my last prob didn't get answered like 7 comments up yeseterday....

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 9:00:59 PM


i REALLY need your help!!! i am really confused! AAAANNNYYYY advice will be appreciated! i have like this guy, (lets call him sam,) since the begging of school. i thought he liked me 2 until the begining of the week when i saw him talking to sarah today and playing soccer with her yesterday. i don't know for sure if he likes me and there is no way i can ask him or his friend. sam is in my first period class and last class(cooking and p.e.) i was talking to my friend hannah today and i asked where this teachers room was-i saw sam looking at me and as soon as i was finished talking, he immeaditly said the answer and wouldn't make eye contact with me. AAAANNNYYY AAAADDDVVVIIICCCEEE????????????????????????????????? thanks xoxoalyssa

Are you friends with this guy? Do you talk to him regularly? That's really important in situations like this. The more you talk, the more opportunity you'll have to flirt with him and pick up any signals.

<3 Jessie M.

by OMGGirl on 1/16/2008 8:59:25 PM


k thanks! i am just really upset-sorry! xoxoalyssa

by OMGGirl on 1/15/2008 8:23:02 PM


can you answer my prob about 4 comments up? really need help...thanks

hey hon, i'm working as fast as i can, but it's a little busy right now, so i'll get to your question as soon as i can
~L'Oreal Smile

by OMGGirl on 1/15/2008 8:05:19 PM


omg i am so confuzzled.!!!! i think this guy in my math class likes me, but i am not sure. i thought he liked this other girl named sarah. a little more than a month ago i heard him say to his friend "a girl with shoulder length blonde hair" and a "s" in her name. today though someone came to the door and everyone looked back, but sarah didn't. he looked at me and did that swishy thing w/ his hair. omg i am so confused! i though he liked sarah. he sits on the other side of the room and have no friends in that class, so it is kinda hard. also today, it sounds like his friend was trying to get him to tell who he likes, but he just told him to shut up! WHAT DO I DO!? thanks xoxalyssa

by OMGGirl on 1/14/2008 8:50:21 PM


hey mod how it says mess up his hair playfully or something like that wat if he has short hair that u cant mess up? (jw)

Just play with his hair, it basically what it is saying.
XO - Caity

by LoVeR on 1/12/2008 7:05:06 PM


Omg girls! This totally works Smile Guys will love you! Thank s a bunch for this guide Smile

by Ringo on 1/10/2008 9:17:47 PM


I can so use these!

by Lissy on 1/8/2008 6:29:42 PM


how do you become a mod?
it sounds fun!

by lilgirl on 12/29/2007 10:18:11 PM


this is a miracle! i get flirting advice tht's not from a chocolate wrapper! it's good 5 start ratting flirting advice!

my rating: ***** Smile

THANK YOU GL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by happy ck gurl on 12/27/2007 9:03:30 PM



I know that! I want to know how old flriting sould start. I, pretty much, do everything on that list, and I didn't even know! ( want to be friends? I WANT to give advice like you, can you give me tips on how you did that? )

by talia on 12/18/2007 8:32:13 PM



sorry, i'm not a mod, but i can answer quesitons, darnnit.
i think 10 might be a bit to early to start dating. Its proboably when you can date. If you want to be fun, try just being friends, or yourself. likley to go better

by thatgirl on 12/13/2007 9:19:28 PM



thanks, i figured but idk, i have liked other guys, which is cool. And then, i him less. its more of an itsy bitsy crush now.

is that good?

by ems on 12/13/2007 3:17:17 PM



alrighty, here is my story:

in 3-4th grade, i had this great guy friend named Brett. Later, it turns out he liked me then. Apparently though, he stopped liking me in 5th grade,(for another girl) when i started liking him. I still liked him in 6th grade when he liked me a bit, but my friends constantly pestered him (against my will) so he chose another girl. Now, i still still like him, but he likes, yet again, another girl.

I don't really need you to tell me to get over him, thats not what i'm interested in knowing.

we've gone back and forth liking each other for a few years now...
is there any chance that one day we might go out?

you may not want to hear this, but going back and forth for so many years sounds like it could be a waste of time. there's always a chance you might go out with him, but if it hasn't happened yet, you may be better off checking out some other guys until maybe you're both old enough to figure out your emotions and such. good luck!
~L'Oreal Smile

by ems on 12/13/2007 6:51:13 AM


I have a crazy qestion! Ok, when is a good time to start flriting? Is it when you can date ( if it is, this was no help to me, because I'm only 10! ) or like just to make you be fun around, so in the future, we can date, or so I can get used to flriting, or so I can get to flriting, or........ I've got nothing. Please Help!

by talia on 12/9/2007 9:36:02 PM


this is good advice. but what if you want to flirt with ur crush but dont want to seem like ur hitting on him cus his gf is ur friend and she sees what ur doing??????????

by winterwonderland on 12/6/2007 11:57:00 AM


Wow i love this flirting tips!
but what if ur not so conversational and shy?

by trackstar on 12/1/2007 8:43:03 PM


i guess not bye

by star on 11/28/2007 6:12:06 PM


hello anyone on?

by star on 11/28/2007 6:11:03 PM


hey, stacy. still there?

by laura on 11/27/2007 6:37:15 PM



i think i might be crushing on 2 guys. 1 of them i see everyday and we talk bout the usual stuff but the other i see less often but when we talk its usually bout nore personal things. trevor(one i see everyday) is this really smart jock, super cute, & super nice (especially 2 me). kyle(the other guy) is super smart, a huge dork,& practically knows me better than any one else. but which guy should i chose. & should i even tell them both how i feel cause i dont want them to feel akward cause they have the same exact class with each (almost exactly the same). please help me.


There's not really any need to tell either of them, unless you're trying to develop a relationship with either of them. Why don't you concentrate on continuing to get to know them both, spending more time with them and figure out exactly how you feel about each?

♥ Alli

by katie on 11/25/2007 8:04:45 PM


i like this guy but he eats his hair. what should i do. Im worried that he might choke or go it weird that i like him????
HELP MOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No its not weird that you like him, ppl are all different this is just something that makes him unique. If you are truly concerned you should ask him why he does this and if there are any health risks.
Good luck!!!

by kaTRINA on 11/24/2007 9:50:24 PM


i like this guy but he eats his hair

by kaTRINA on 11/24/2007 6:22:15 PM


i am in love with a guy whose eyes bulge... is that normal? i AM NORMAL FOR LIKING HIM????

I don't think eye bulging is really a reason not to like a guy if you enjoy spending time with him and hanging out ignore the eye bulging issue.

by shannon on 11/24/2007 5:16:40 PM


my bf is slapping my buttox constintly and i cant even sit anymore. his hand is always on my buttox. HELP WHAT DO I DO!!

I would talk to your bf and tell him that it is bothering you. If that doens't work and he doesn't listen to what you need, I would question if he is really worth it.

by alicia on 11/24/2007 5:08:19 PM


so i was all like thinking this 1 time and this boy all like interupted my thoguht process and i was all like wut s ur prob and hes like i wanna go out w/ u and i was all like i was thinking and he was all like ok and then i was all like come back in a month and he was all like no i wanna kno now and i was all like so wut i nd 2 think and he was all like say yes or no and i was all confussed so i said yes to get him 2 go away but now he thinks were going out and im all like still trying to think and he is sooooo interuptive to my thinking pattern!!!!!!!!! my friedns are all like dont think just dump him and im like no i have 2 think and there all like no and im all like yes and there all like no and im all like yes and then they went and dumped him 4 me and i was like ttly still thinking so i didnt kno they dumped him so he was all angry and i didnt kno y and he was all like im over with you and i got mad cuz he intterupted my thinking patteren and i was all like no im over with u !!!!! so yea ineed help!

You def shouldn't have said yes to him in the first place! Your friends also shouldn't have done what they did behind your back. Totally not cool. I think you should talk to your friends and at least let them know how you feel. You should also talk to the boy. Tell him you didn't mean for any of this to happen and you were really thinking about whether it was a good idea or not to date him! Get things cleared up. <3, Sharon

by kiki on 11/24/2007 3:04:17 PM


so there's this boi ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

by olive on 11/24/2007 2:57:19 PM


hey anyone on?

by star on 11/23/2007 10:21:01 PM


OMG WHAT KINDA ADVICE IS THAT? this girl is hurting here! how do u get over aguy in 5 sec? she's liked him 4ever sooo someone plese give better advice!

by marieclaude! on 11/23/2007 3:55:37 PM


Thnks for the advice!!

by Cheer Chick on 11/22/2007 2:29:04 PM


I have a bf and weve been together for a month but one day he went to kiss me and i backed away. My friends say he just likes girls to get somthing from them. I kind of believe them though cause when i backed away he got mad and he hasnt called me for3 weeks. should i call him or dump him the hard thing is i like him? ANYONE GOT GOOD ADVICE?

He hasn't called you in three weeks? I don't think you need to worry about dumping him, sounds like he may have beat you to it. That said, good riddance! Any guy who doesn't respect your boundries and doesn't call you afterward isn't a guy worth liking. Seriously, what is there to like about this guy? I know it's hard to let go of someone so wallow for a few days then focus on yourself and your friends and keep your eyes open for guys who ARE worth your time.

by Cheer Chick on 11/22/2007 11:30:29 AM


Thanks anonymous!! Your advice was great! On Monday I am soo gonna talk to him! I thought about and your right he likes me for who I am! That makes me feel really great!! thank you soo much!!!

by Justine on 11/21/2007 4:28:24 PM


omg, this is another reason why i love glSO much!@!!!!! muchas gracias! xoxo alyssa

by OMGGIRL on 11/21/2007 4:08:13 PM


that is if you can

by star on 11/20/2007 11:50:21 PM


well if he moved schools found out what school he is going to now if its close by you could still hang out with him on weekends, if not call him, or email him

by star on 11/20/2007 11:49:58 PM


*******************MOD**************************************Hey mod its me again Justine and I think Jana answered my quetion last time. Well I will tell you my prob again and tell you my new prob.Ive known this guy since i was 7 ( now im 12) and we
always had crushes on eacother ever since we met.
Everytime we would sit next to eachother we would
always talk and he would make me laugh. But
everytime we moved our seats we would just ignore
echother.This year i really want to talkto him. How should I do it. I
know he still likes me because this yr i was in the hall
and he smiled at me and last yr his friend told me 3
times that he had a crush on me.

That was my prob you already told me what to do. Now the prob is when I see him I always say to my self just do it but when I get up to him I chicken out. What should I do?

by Justine on 11/20/2007 9:22:26 PM


i need help how do i ask the boy i like out. not like on a date like bf,gf.(he knows i like him and his bff is my bff , told me he likes me) but how come he doesnt talk to me!?!?hey,anyone can answer back!

by ana on 11/20/2007 4:49:12 PM


i need help how do i ask the boy i like out. not like on a date like bf,gf.(he knows i like him and his bff is my bff , told me he likes me) but how come he doesnt talk to me!?!? and i am going 2 his house on thanksgiving do i need help fast.also he is moving in 2-5 weks 5 states away.
hey,any1 can answer back!

by molly on 11/20/2007 4:48:05 PM


hi, i have a question, please respond!

Go ahead and ask and I will get to it as soon as I get through all the other ones that are ahead of yours.

<3 Jessie M.

by girliegal on 11/19/2007 10:56:25 PM


you guys are really lucky myboy friend is out of tiwn for thankingiving

by Kasandra on 11/19/2007 7:48:58 AM


hi! umm this guy always flirts with me (i think) and he always wants to sit with me on the bus ummm i dont really like him like that and no one else does either so does he like me or am i just imagining it? HELP ME!!!! he's a weird one =/

by Abercrombie on 11/19/2007 12:57:19 AM


OK 10 people CANNOT comment first... it isn't posibe!!! BTW thats for the flirting tips.

by Meg on 11/18/2007 10:23:09 PM


hello? any one therre?

by star on 11/18/2007 10:03:50 PM


i will talk

by star on 11/18/2007 10:02:03 PM


i need help how can i get guys to like me and not be too flirty just super friendly

Hey babe, I think Jessie covered sooo much up above. Why don't you give it another read?

♥ Alli

by Sweetiepie on 11/18/2007 9:43:33 PM



by bubbles on 11/18/2007 9:29:38 PM


~~~~MOD~~~~~ PLZ HELP!! Smile

I like a guy at school. He's popular, funny, sweet and amazingly cute! He is only in my band class and we play totally different instruments so we never sit next to each other! And he always looks at me during band and at lunch! And somehow we found out each other's screen names for instant messaging so now we talk to each other whenever we can. And HE always starts the convo, which is totally awesome cuz he wants to talk to me! And he even told me that he liked somebody (but he didnt say who)
But the thing is that we have NEVER talked to each other in real life, only online. It's like in real life, we act as if we have never seen each other but online, it is the total opposite. OK, I kinda have three questions for this problem so here they are.

1: When he told me he liked somebody online, do you think he was dropping a hint that he likes me?

2: How can I start a convo with him in real life if we are ever next to each other?

3: When he looks and glances at me during band and at lunch, does that mean he likes me?

It sounds like he might like you, he's just really shy in real life. Try just dropping a casual, "hey, how are ya" and flash a smile next time you see him. Slowly, as the days progress, work towards having longer convos in person. Online chemistry is great, but it's not much without actual in-person chemistry

♥ Alli

by music luver on 11/18/2007 9:03:47 PM


Dear Alli,
The question was: I have a problem. Well my friend’s name is Brian and he goes to the same high school as the guy who broke my heart, Andy. Brian keeps asking me “are you going to my high school” over and over again and he wanted to know my three choices that I put down for a high school. I told him that I’m afraid that he might tell a certain someone in his school, the guy who broke my heart. So then he asked, “who, Andy?” I said yes. Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own????????? Because how would Brian know that I was talking about Andy unless Andy put him up to this. Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own terms?????????

I think Brian's just curious out of his own nature. If Andy was the one to break your heart, why would he really care where you go to high school? Also, are they that close of friends?

♥ Alli

by Amelia on 11/18/2007 7:53:10 PM


Hey Alli! I was wondering if I could get an opinion from you on my question above.

what was the question?

♥ Alli

by Amelia on 11/18/2007 7:41:02 PM



thanks (:


♥ Alli

by ems on 11/18/2007 7:36:44 PM


OMG!!!!!!!! I hate that it's going 2 be monday tomorrow!!! Gosh! Anyway, I might try that advice on a kid who sits next to me during CCP (Derrick

by Gossip Girl on 11/18/2007 7:24:07 PM


mod --

first off, you mods are awesome for helping everyone (:
second, i like this guy. and so sometimes i see him staring at me (naturally, i'm staring...) does he have some sort of 6th sense or does he like me?
also, this one day in class, he came in late. My friend who also likes him had a seat open next to her, but he sat behind her. The thing is: i didn't have a seat next to me and i was on the end. He sat right across the isle from me.

do you think he likes me?

he might!

♥ Alli

by ems on 11/18/2007 7:06:30 PM


Alli (moderator)
i made a comment..about a guy i like, did u get that cuz it still says awaiting moderation..wasnt sure if it wokred or not cuz my other ones were posted

It's still here. I have a lot of longer questions like that still waiting to be answered, so please be patient. Thanks babe!

♥ Alli

by ali on 11/18/2007 6:58:31 PM


pretty pleaseing!
I have two brothers with hot friends!!! i love it so much! I normaly like get all dresed up when they come over hahahah
what u should do to keep ur cool but not looks anti social is invite a friend over when he is over and he'll see u have friends and maybe al four of you can hang out!

by ali on 11/18/2007 6:56:49 PM


anyone on that wants to chit chat???

by ali on 11/18/2007 6:46:54 PM


food? pizza
animal?i live all
color? dark purple
videogame if n e? mario party 2 on nintendo 64 Tong Tong Tong
hobbies? ahhh noting really haha
resturaunt? um..pasta plus..i supose
song? umm...omg too many to choose
artist/band? Nirvana

by ali on 11/18/2007 6:45:03 PM


awwww the guy i like was told i like him and he told me he doesnt wanna go out cuz we are best friends and he doesnt want to ruin our friendship after the brek up so he dont wanna go out.
and now we dont talk to each other cuz its awkard and im sad cuz i losta friend a more than friend in one guy. Frown not good i tell ya.
i want some advice on how to break the awkardness cuz the other day he said to me "ever notice how we dont talk to each other no more??Frown" but still we dont talk!
how am i supose to break the awkardness tomorrow when i see him in the hallway? please help! i miss him....
please help mod or other chickies....thanks

The best way to break the awkwardness is just to jump back into the way things used to be. If you do it slowly, you might each try too hard and be on edge with each other and that could be totally weird. Just wake up tomorrow with a smile on your face, a bounce in your step, and pretend he never found out that you like him. Go back to how it used to be. Maybe spend some time alone hanging out one day after school or this weekend or something.

♥ Alli

by ali on 11/18/2007 6:40:00 PM


WOW good for u

by Josie on 11/18/2007 5:50:14 PM



i like this boy and he likes me, so he asked me to our dance , i said yes. Now this popular girl is saying that we wouldnt be a good couple, only becasue she likes him. Also i am shy around him and i think he starting to like some other girl, help?

HELLO, he asked YOU. That means he likes you! Put away your fears, hang out with him and see what's going on between the two of you. Don't listen to those other silly people. He wouldn't have asked you to the dance if he didn't really enjoy your company

♥ Alli

by help on 11/18/2007 5:29:52 PM


i am really shy, what is a basic flirting move for shy people

by shy on 11/18/2007 5:23:19 PM



i like this boy and he likes me and he asked me to our dance and i said yes, now what?

Awesome! Pick an outfit, plan your pre-dancing activities (will you have dinner beforehand? will a group of you meet at someones house? Whose parents are going to drop off?) and have fun!!!

♥ Alli

by help on 11/18/2007 5:19:03 PM


ok, i like this boy and he likes me, and asked me to our dance and i said yes. Now what??

by help on 11/18/2007 5:13:35 PM


my BFF will ttly

by LittlePrincess on 11/18/2007 4:28:45 PM


I'm in the just friends zone, so I'll start 'getting physical.' I did yesterday when I dragged him outside, put my feet on his legs to make him 'mad,' and played with his hair. Whatever feels right, correct?

by Kpanda on 11/18/2007 3:47:02 PM


Dear Robin,
I have a problem. Well my friend’s name is Brian and he goes to the same high school as the guy who broke my heart, Andy. Brian keeps asking me “are you going to my high school” over and over again and he wanted to know my three choices that I put down for a high school. I told him that I’m afraid that he might tell a certain someone in his school, the guy who broke my heart. So then he asked, “who, Andy?” I said yes. Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own????????? Because how would Brian know that I was talking about Andy unless Andy put him up to this. Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own terms?????????

Most likely Brian is doing this on his own, but I would definitely decide high schools based on the place you want to be most, not on who's going there.

xoxo, Robin H.

by Amelia on 11/18/2007 3:44:30 PM


Meg 09 u r so lucky to have ur crush in at least 1 of ur classes, my crush goes to the same school but is in NONE of my classes!

by cocolover on 11/18/2007 3:38:19 PM


Love ya 2!!
My new skool is hard @ adjust 2!!
I am still wit the pops tho!!

by loveyababe on 11/18/2007 3:32:48 PM


I like this boy and he likes me back. We both want to go out with eachother but no one has made a move. what do i do?

Maybe you could invite him to a movie with a group of people, and after he sees you want to hang out he'll be more likely to make a move.

xoxo, Robin H.

by LULULOVER on 11/18/2007 3:32:43 PM


Hey Robin,
What do you think about my question(about the Andy and Brian situation)? I think it's a little at the top. I just want to get everyone's opinion. Thanks so much Cassie for your opinion!!!!!!!!

I'd love to help you out, but you'll have to resend your prob with the word "Mod" at the top.

xoxo, Robin H.

by Amelia on 11/18/2007 3:29:21 PM


hey Lovercam!!
How is school so far w\o me??

by loveyababe on 11/18/2007 3:26:03 PM


Hi again, you must be really busy but i just wanted to say thanks! i gotta clean the catbox now, but can i ask how long you will be modding?

It's Robin Smile I'll be modding until 4 p.m. EST.

xoxo, Robin H.

by flowergirl on 11/18/2007 3:03:24 PM


Why does everyone care if they're first comment or not? It's getting pretty annoying.

by cheermaniac5 on 11/18/2007 3:02:08 PM



by star on 11/18/2007 2:51:34 PM


anyone on?

by star on 11/18/2007 2:50:27 PM



How do you kiss? Not French but a friendly but at the same time romantic for your bf.

Check out our kissing tips.

xoxo, Robin H.

by Casie on 11/18/2007 2:36:19 PM


MOD Advice!

The guy I like is really quiet and he doesn't really talk much, which makes me more nervous to talk to him. And it'll be my first time to talk to him, I don't want to embarrass myself. Help

Just ask him questions about what he's doing. It'll give him a chance to talk, and you won't have to worry about you talking the whole time.

xoxo, Robin H.

by Jenny on 11/18/2007 2:12:59 PM


thanks for the advice (:

yea, i've decided i should definatley talk to him more...

ty again

by ems on 11/18/2007 1:43:50 PM


MOD Advice!

I've liked this guy since last year and he said he doesn't like me back. Now this year he does! I'm confused. We never talked to each, not a word and we both like each other. My friends are tell me to ask him out, which I will. His friends hate me. Advice?

Def start talking to him and hanging out with him more before you ask him out. It'll give you a better idea of if the friend thing is a big deal and if you even still want him.

xoxo, Robin H.

by Jenny on 11/18/2007 1:36:57 PM


ok, so i like this guy (woah! unique much!) and he's *sorta* my friend. i've liked him for a few years now. sometimes, i look over at him (too see what he's doing, you know?) and sometimes, he's looking at me. i mean !!!!!!!!!! does he have a 6th sense or an intrest in me?

by ems on 11/18/2007 12:24:57 PM


dear gl,

i like this boy and he likes me, but i feel like he doesn't like me. He asked me to our dance, but i am starting not to like him becasue its so hard to talk around him. I dont no what to do because i asked this girl for advice and she is like it would be weird if you go to the dance together. But she is oonly saying that because she likes him and she is really popular, what should i do! help!

by help on 11/18/2007 11:59:48 AM


this stuff never work, first of all i am shy around boys and i would never do this flirting stuff

by ari on 11/18/2007 11:54:58 AM


Dear GL,
I have a problem. Well my friend's name is Brian and he goes to the same high school as the guy who broke my heart, Andy. Brian keeps asking me "are you going to my high school" over and over again and he wanted to know my three choices that I put down for a high school. I told him that I'm afraid that he might tell a certain someone in his school, the guy who broke my heart. So then he asked, "who, Andy?" I said yes. Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own????????? Because how would Brian know that I was talking about Andy unless Andy put him up to this. Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!Do you think Andy is putting Brian up to this to persuade me to go to his high school or do u think Brian is doing this on his own terms?????????

I don't know, babe...It could be either one. Just don't worry about it and go to whatever school you want to go to. Forget about those boys!

by Amelia on 11/18/2007 11:42:29 AM


any1 on?

by iluvlipgloss on 11/18/2007 10:20:23 AM


color? orange!
animal? polar bear
resturant? long horn
food? Ummm...i like alotta foods!
vacation? the beach!
video game? animal crosssing wild world for DS
hobbies? writing, hip-hip, acting, volleyball, basketball, shopping

by Hiphopper on 11/18/2007 10:17:31 AM


thanks perkie i'm going to try it. i am only in 6th gradde but he seems so nice i think i will ask my friend to ask him if he likes anyone if it is not me i will make him like me.any ideas how to get rid of pimples

by andrea on 11/18/2007 10:00:08 AM


ok, so i used to go out with this total perv/jerk/freak in my neighborhoo. but i broke up with him and now i am going out with one of his old friends. he wont leave me alon and is really annoying. sometimes he still spread rumors about how i kept telling him to kiss me but i realy didnt. this freaak is on my bus and lives right behind me and goes to my school, what should i do?

by coco on 11/18/2007 9:51:17 AM


of course not so bye

by star on 11/17/2007 11:31:13 PM


anyone else on?

by star on 11/17/2007 11:23:37 PM


noooooooooo dont go!!!

by star on 11/17/2007 11:23:02 PM


1. i have no idea
2. i have no idea
3. Wreckers
4. Red Robin
5. chating with anyone who will listen
6. Jacob

by star on 11/17/2007 11:22:40 PM


thanks perkie for answering my ?

by star on 11/17/2007 11:20:01 PM


good advice, but i wouldn't have the guts to talk to my crush

by iluvlipgloss on 11/17/2007 11:06:17 PM


Thanks L'Oreal!
I don't he just always starts! How can I avoid him w/o skipping church and not being paranoid?

just keep it casual and play it cool, no flirting, no really long conversations and that sort of thing, eventually he'll get the hint
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 11:00:29 PM



Okay, I promise this is the last time I'm gonna bother you. Okay well I just talked to the guy that I USED to like. AKA my ex. He used me (In ways that should not be told) and so now he turned into some pshyco freak that now goes to my church. Yeah I really don't want him tearing my life up again, I've moved on and It's taken alot of talking to to get over him. (not gf & bf way YA know) So I REALLY don't want him to interfere with the guy I like now. AHH What do I do?!?!?!

be polite, but keep it cool. it's okay to say hello, but don't ask him what he's been up to unless you really want to hear the answer. it's taken you a lot to move on, so don't go backward! keep going about your business, but there's no reason to be buddy-buddy!
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:55:58 PM


Hey L'Oreal,

Can you view the new entrys for You wrote it?

Unfortunately I'm not at the office right now, so I don't have access to the computer with all the e-mails, sorry hon!
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:42:02 PM


um yeah i would really like to flirt with this one guy but every time i even think about talking to him i feel that he will think i am weird for just radomly talking to him any one know what i should do?

by star on 11/17/2007 10:41:26 PM


hello? any one on?

by star on 11/17/2007 10:36:55 PM


Sorry I just misspelled your name! Yikes! Sorry L'Oreal

haha, it's cool, no worries
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:31:35 PM



Thanks, He does every single one of those things, I was happy then I thought he was some crazy stalker guy, now I'm happy again... He knows where my mom went to school, tad bit quirky.

quirky is always fun, haha
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:30:31 PM



How do you know when a guy likes you or just a friend? I seriously don't want to ask him. I know this sounds like the stupidest Question on earth and sorry 'bout that!

no it's cool, because i went through the same thing with one of my really good guy friends earlier this year. you'll never know for sure unless he tells you, but some signs to look for: he makes excuses to hang out with you, he smiles at you a lot, laughs at your jokes (even when they're not funny), teases you a lot, remembers special things about you, like your favorite candy, etc.
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:22:06 PM


woah! Sorry L'Oreal!!!! I thought Kristen was still modding! Just ignore all the okward Q:s!!!!!!!!! Sorry!

haha, no it's totally fine!
~L'Oreal Smile

by Kathryn on 11/17/2007 10:16:31 PM


Hey this dude in my best friends class is so cute.i want to ask him out but im not pretty i am fat kinda.will this make him end up asking me out.any more ideas

by andrea on 11/17/2007 10:15:35 PM


perkie what was ur question above. cauz idk.

by kaykay on 11/17/2007 10:13:49 PM



by Valgal on 11/17/2007 9:34:02 PM


(By the way, this is a great flirting blog-i've been wanting some tips!) I have a prob. You see, I have a slight case of ADHD, and I take medication for it. Not a big prob, right? Well, my mom was just really mad at me saying I've been acting very un-tactfull lately, and saying that she wanted to try me on a bit more of a new medicine. The medicine has some side effects that aren't the serious, but I was mad that she thought I should be put on more meds and said I didn't want to be tested on like a lad rat. Even after I reluctantly agreed to do it, she kept saying I should do it, and that it's not bad to put me on more meds, and that putting me on meds in the first place was the best thing that ever happened to me. That last comment was really hurfut; it was like she was saying I couldn't accomplish anything without that stupid pill that gets stuck in my throat everyday. And to think, she was lecturing me about all of this when she got mad at me in the first place just for saying I think she should cook more often! Am I taking this way out of proportion? What do you think?

Hey Anonymous,
I would suggest going to the doctor first to see if you actually need more medication rather than just having your mom tell you that you do. You also need to realize that there's nothing wrong with you if you're on medication for ADHD. There are a huge number of people who have ADHD so remember that you're not alone.

by anonymous on 11/17/2007 8:33:05 PM



Up until now I had liked a guy (C) but now he ignores me at school pretty much and gives more attention to my other girl friends and his guy friends than me and it makes me sad. Whenever I email him, he emails me hearts, and 3 days ago we watched a movie for a school club and he laid right next to me and hekd my hand. he used to call me all the time but has stopped. He also has told people we are going out. I am feel really sad because he doesn’t act like I even exist.if he had asked me, I would have said no, but he assumed we were going out. But I really like my carpool (R) but what do I do about (c)?

Hey girl,
I think the main thing you can do is to just talk to C. Maybe you can get some of the questions you have cleared up. It's not fair of him to act like your dating one day and then ignore you the next. Once you get things cleared up with C, you can focus on R :]

by somebody on 11/17/2007 7:40:11 PM


i'll try it!

by DIVA on 11/17/2007 7:29:57 PM


it worked

by GiLmOrE gIrL on 11/17/2007 7:28:50 PM



by GiLmOrE gIrL on 11/17/2007 7:28:27 PM


aeropostale chick~
do you have naturally stright hair or cury is it long or short maybe i can help!!!

by GiLmOrE gIrL on 11/17/2007 7:23:25 PM


heyy heyy anyone there??

by KK on 11/17/2007 7:21:13 PM


hello anyone there?

by GiLmOrE gIrL on 11/17/2007 7:13:28 PM


i really like this guy and he knows my name but we never really talk. how can i start up a conversation so that it might hint that i like him with out sounding like a total dork????????

Hey Gilmore Girl,
You should start by just trying to be his friend first and then move from there to try and show him you like him. Just start by asking how he's doing or how school is going. What is plans are for the weekend is also a good conversation starter.

by GiLmOrE gIrL on 11/17/2007 7:12:17 PM


i guess i use the eye contact thing when i flirt with my crush and i guess he does that when he flirts with me, we also smile at each other all the time, and we get competive too in a flirty way.


okay my crush likes me. when ever i talk to him i get kinda shy and act differently, but when ever i am around other guys i act like myself and not shy. i dont want my crush to think that i dont like him as much because i act differently around him then other guys(if that makes sense). do i talk to my crush without acting so shy and not myself?

keep it funky fly

Hey girl,
First you just need to relax when your around him and talk to him like he's any other guy friend. You could also try to approach him in a group setting or with your friends so it's not just the two of you.

by ♫♪choir_mania♫♪ on 11/17/2007 7:09:21 PM



how can you tell if a guy is flirting back?

Hey Girl,
Sometimes it's hard to tell if a boy is flirting back or not. If he's smiling a lot and seems really interested in the conversation you having even though it's not about anything that exciting then it's probably safe to assume that he is flirting!

by xcblondie on 11/17/2007 6:58:55 PM


it's been such a busy week! I went back to my old school that I went to before I was homeschooled! I'm in a junior high building so it's been pretty busy! I like it there though! Laughing

by beautiful brunett on 11/17/2007 6:49:16 PM


are you on barbiegirl138?

by beautiful brunett on 11/17/2007 6:44:55 PM


oops! I ment awesome and hope-my bad Smile

by beautiful brunett on 11/17/2007 6:43:32 PM


i agree, it isn't weird to have nicknames for your crush. I know I call mine Pucky because he is sooooooo good at hockey. (Pucky like hockey puck...yea) Kinda fuuny, but he likes it.

by somebody on 11/17/2007 6:42:26 PM


that's awsome advice! Hey, Kristen, your doing good for your first day! I hpe you like it! Laughing

by beautiful brunett on 11/17/2007 6:41:14 PM


Hey KT is this where you chat?????
o and I need advice.....I heart this guy and well he knows I like him but when eva I try 2 see who he likes he feeds around the bush......He is such a drama king he even said 2 my friend when she told him I like him "should I propose like this" And he got down on one knee!!!!!!!! I love him so much!!!!! HELP!!!!! HOW DO I KNOW HE LIKES ME!!!!!

by AlyX on 11/17/2007 6:24:46 PM


i read this 4 advice, and i didn't even need 2! i do it anyway, lol. AWESOME ADVICE! it totally works- trust me! Smile

by Briella on 11/17/2007 6:24:05 PM



Up until now I had liked a guy (C) but now he ignores me at school pretty much and gives more attention to my other girl friends and his guy friends than me and it makes me sad. Whenever I email him, he emails me hearts, and 3 days ago we watched a movie for a school club and he laid right next to me and hekd my hand. he used to call me all the time but has stopped. He also has told people we are going out. I am feel really sad because he doesn't act like I even exist.if he had asked me, I would have said no, but he assumed we were going out. But I really like my carpool (R) but what do I do about (c)?

try telling C he needs to make up his mind. ever hear of the old saying, you can't have your cake and eat it, too? well he can't say he's going out with you and then ignore you, it's not fair. so tell him that while you can be friends, you can't go out with someone who doesn't respect you. as for the carpool guy, definitely get to know him and he could turn out a lot better than C!
~L'Oreal : )

by somebody on 11/17/2007 6:02:08 PM


ok i need help...
ive liked this guy (ryan) for a really long time. We ended up going out (yay) but he broke up with me after about 2 weeks...i dont know why. Anyway I still really like him but he hasnt talked to me since we broke up, about a month and a half ago. I want to say something to him to make him start talking to me again, but i dont know what..?
Help pleaasee!

by kayla on 11/17/2007 5:46:23 PM


well i have liked this guy since, well now i cant even remember...but i mean a long time, and we are friends in all but i just dont know when or how to ask him just about if he wanted to be a little closer friends so i was kinda think valentines and would slip a note to him in his locker what do ya think do you think i should go for it??? HELP ANYONE! I JUST WANT SOME COMMENTS!
THNX! kelly

Hey Kelly,
Slipping a note in his locker would definitely be a good idea, but if you don't want to wait until Valentine's Day maybe you could slip him a note sometime sooner than that. It wouldn't hurt!

by Kelly on 11/17/2007 5:43:32 PM


******************MOD I NEED HELP!****************************

Ok So I like this guy (Jeff) but he likes this one girl (Mary). So Mary didn’t like jeff when he first told her he liked her. But I did. And the other day Mary kept asking me if I liked Jeff. And I told her I did. I also told her I like him a lot. And the weird part is that she kept asking me how much. And I really do like him a lot, and I told her that. Today, I find out Mary and Jeff are going out. I’m heartbroken.


Hey Confused,
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. It's neven any fun to have your hearbroken like that. Maybe you should try and talk to your friend Mary about what she did and how it makes you feel. As for dealing with the heartbreak you should try to do things to keep your mind off of the situation. Go hang out with other friends, see a movie, go shopping, or just do something that makes you feel happy.

by confused on 11/17/2007 4:53:39 PM


pretty good guide....uhm yeah i kinda like someone but mostly as a friend i mean we hang out like everyday after school and talk sometimes in school...but i dont know if he likes anyone...but yeah cool adive i guess

by gal on 11/17/2007 4:47:30 PM


Monday: I was maybe going to break up with my bf but i didn't actually want to and I didn't but he found out and then that made things akward.

Tuesday: I kissed my bf on the lips and he never kissed me back because he said "you want my reply to that?" and I said I'll wait till tommorrow. STUPID STUPID STUPID!

Wendsday: He never kissed me back (still) and then people were asking why I was gonna break up with him. which made it akward.

Thursday: He didn't show up and my friends got into a fight with me over something really stupid, but I really need the boyfriend advice right now.


Hey girl,
The most important thing for you to do is to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. You need to do this when there aren't any other people around who will make it awkward. Just explain to your boyfriend how your feeling and what you're thinking. Be completely honest about everything and then hopefully the two of you can work things out together.

by Ringette #9 on 11/17/2007 3:24:31 PM


hwy jessie
very nice-- need to try when somepeople come back from this weekend's fieldtrip. and the playful idea couldnt be truer!thanks Laughing


by Amelia on 11/17/2007 3:17:05 PM



by Rachel on 11/17/2007 2:58:50 PM


U know wat i do that all the time!

by Unknown on 11/17/2007 2:34:06 PM

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