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Hey ShySparrow13, I'm sorry about your aunt and you. Maybe you should try telling your dad about the problem since she is your dad's sister. Or maybe you could try just asking if your aunt would want to go out for a day just you and her,maybe she will start to see the real you. For example you and her could go shopping,get your nails done or even go bowling. Look at your options and see how you can make the problem become not a prob any more. Remember if she starts yelling at you just to keep you cool and give her some room to cool off. GOOD LUCK!!
by abhonorollgirl on 8/8/2008 12:35:53 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD i know this is a stupid question but plz help me how do you put smileys and sad faces on the comments and i mean the ones that are yellow not the other ones plz help me smartchic96
by smartchic96 on 8/3/2008 4:41:10 PM
hi poeple! Im bored! isnt this magizene sweet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by zoebro on 8/1/2008 10:39:47 PM
hey girls! Whats up?? wanna chat?
by s1309012 on 7/31/2008 12:21:35 AM
OMG!!!! how many profies are not publicy visable??!!?
by nickJluvr96 on 7/28/2008 1:35:07 PM
hello peoples of the earth!! 8-D lol
by nickJluvr96 on 7/28/2008 1:30:07 PM
HEY V95!! i ttly think you should go for modeling... great way to make cash and fun too if u likt it!! go for it-- u might regret it if u dont!!
by loveorange on 7/28/2008 10:30:29 AM
lucky only dumb boys live nextdoor to me. YUCK!
by littlebussy on 7/27/2008 11:21:36 PM
Okayy. first of all have'you even called himm..? Yeahh i hae had the same prob. and okayy maybe he just thinks you dont like him anymoree and because of that hes not calling you.? hrmm. i suggest if you have his phone number ring him up hunn always love: Maygan
by maygerrs12 on 7/27/2008 9:52:31 PM
well if you don't see your bf dump him and go with your other guy or tell him to talk to you
by macee5678 on 7/27/2008 7:56:42 PM
hola amigas!
by blondie_gurl on 7/27/2008 4:46:03 PM
i think that you should go for the neighbor kid but make sure you break up with your boyfriend first or that would be wrong:] if hes not putting enough effort into the relationship then hes not worth your time kisses, rachel
by PinkRachelHearts on 7/27/2008 1:31:33 PM
yay just like ally said if things don't work out you have a back up the neighbor boy and chances are he likes you too, so go for it and if it doesn't work out you know what do to do!!!!
by kourt101 on 7/26/2008 7:19:49 PM
by kourt101 on 7/26/2008 7:11:19 PM
Thz Lauren!
by ShySparrow13 on 7/26/2008 9:38:23 AM
I'm in that same problem! he does txt me but barely and he NEVER calls. so, i txt 'n' call him. maybe that's what you should try. but if he doesn't do to well with that, like not answering or not really wanting to talk, i'd say; forget him and go for the next door guy!
by broadwaygirl1 on 7/25/2008 11:37:51 PM
***MOD*** I really like this guy that sits next to me in band camp sectionals. The problem is I'm to scared to talk to him because I think he is shy because he usually only talks to people he really knows. I don't want to come along as intimidating if I just came up and said, "Hey! I think you're cute!" What should I break the ice with? Please answer this question. -Katie
Try talking to him about other things and getting to know him more before you tell him you think he's cute! Good luck! -lauren
by *katie* on 7/25/2008 11:33:08 PM
MOD: **MODERATOR** (trying again) Here's the Prob; Anti-Aunt. My aunt, on my dad's side of the family, hates me. I'm really not kidding. She likes my brothers, her two kids, and my three other little cousins, but she doesn't care for me at all. She snaps at me for no reason and if I mess something up a little she gets even more angry. Her kids are older then me, I'm 13, two of my brothers are older then me. The rest are younger. On every single b-day of mine she leaves early because it's 'boring'...She only stays for about a half hours..It hurts..This year a got a C+ in math..It was a hard year..And she began telling me how much better I could do and how I'd never get into a good highschool. I've heard of 'tough love', but I don't think this is it. She laughs at me and really makes me angry. Besides that, she's causing a lot of problems for my dad. She tells him how terrible I am. -I try to be nice to her, really. Even my mom says I'm polite-. So then he gets mad at me. I've told my mom this, but she says there is nothing she can do. Do you have any ideas, mod? Or any GL grls?
Sorry girl, but your aunt is just going to act like that. You can try to have your mom or dad talk to her about the way she treats you. But that doesn't mean she'll change. The only advice I dan give you is to be careful not to mess up around her (even if your mistakes are little). Remember the old saying "sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me"? You might just have to keep that in mind when she's around and ignore her nagging. -lauren
by ShySparrow13 on 7/25/2008 10:34:00 PM
MOD: **MODERATOR** I'm so confused and mixed up. I've liked this guy "Joel" since grade six. Two years ago. He was pretty nice to me before he knew I liked him. In grade seven he learned I liked him and he started acting like a real jerk. He stood me up twice and really hurt my feelings. He said he doesn't like me at all and I need to stop liking him because it's annoying. Like I said it hurt my feelings a lot. My friends tell me it's time to move on, and I've been trying. But whenever I see "Joel" my heart starts pounding very hard and I get all stammery and nervous. I guess I still see some good in him... How do I stop crushing on a jerk? Please help.. ((I'm trying agian))
Hey girl, just keep reminding your self that this guy is NOT a good guy. You deserve better! The best way to get your mind off of him completely is to find a new and better guy who likes you and treats you well. -lauren
by ShySparrow13 on 7/25/2008 10:14:09 PM
That's too bad, but YOU haven't called him either, so he's probably feeling the same way and it just to shy or nervous to call. Just give him a call and see what happens!
by jonas_brothers on 7/25/2008 10:13:32 PM
MOD: Here's the Prob; Anti-Aunt. My aunt, on my dad's side of the family, hates me. I'm really not kidding. She likes my brothers, her two kids, and my three other little cousins, but she doesn't care for me at all. She snaps at me for no reason and if I mess something up a little she gets even more angry. Her kids are older then me, I'm 13, two of my brothers are older then me. The rest are younger. On every single b-day of mine she leaves early because it's 'boring'...She only stays for about a half hours..It hurts..This year a got a C+ in math..It was a hard year..And she began telling me how much better I could do and how I'd never get into a good highschool. I've heard of 'tough love', but I don't think this is it. She laughs at me and really makes me angry. Besides that, she's causing a lot of problems for my dad. She tells him how terrible I am. -I try to be nice to her, really. Even my mom says I'm polite-. So then he gets mad at me. I've told my mom this, but she says there is nothing she can do. Do you have any ideas, mod? Or any GL grls?
by ShySparrow13 on 7/25/2008 10:06:09 PM
if he isnt gonna bother with you so what! you deserve better girl, and you know it, go for the guy next door, and tell your boy if he doesnt care about his girl then good bye, cuz no boyfriend sits around and uses you as a trophy, cuz thatr is nbot right, show him your better than that and leave him in the dust, cuz if he dont care about you, why should you bother! trust me, i bet the boy next door likes you lot if you two have been hanging out, so call huim right now and tell that boyfriend gunk that you are leavin trust me he probly wont care till your 20! you rock, shine like the sun! love, openbook242(:
by openbook242 on 7/25/2008 9:23:27 PM
MOD: I'm so confused and mixed up. I've liked this guy "Joel" since grade six. Two years ago. He was pretty nice to me before he knew I liked him. In grade seven he learned I liked him and he started acting like a real jerk. He stood me up twice and really hurt my feelings. He said he doesn't like me at all and I need to stop liking him because it's annoying. Like I said it hurt my feelings a lot. My friends tell me it's time to move on, and I've been trying. But whenever I see "Joel" my heart starts pounding very hard and I get all stammery and nervous. I guess I still see some good in him... How do I stop crushing on a jerk? Please help..
by ShySparrow13 on 7/25/2008 8:54:50 PM
*****MOD***** Aubrey, your avatar is so cute!
by iamherefornoreason on 7/25/2008 8:03:45 PM
*****MOD***** How can a girl make her hair more wavy for the new school year without using stuff that can dry out hair?
by iamherefornoreason on 7/25/2008 8:03:15 PM
Bye yo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 7:16:03 PM
hi lol hi lol hi lol
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 7:15:10 PM
Mod when are there gonna be new quizzes, cuz i'm real tired of doing htese quizzes over and over again. Thanks!
by SouljaGirl22 on 7/25/2008 7:12:41 PM
omg, i got the first comment yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:40:30 PM
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by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:39:37 PM
hiya girlies and mods!!!!
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:37:33 PM
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by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:37:12 PM
cjlizzy, u still on? HI AUBREY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/25/2008 6:36:11 PM
hiya, mod!!
hey girl! XOXO Aubrey
by cjlizzy on 7/25/2008 5:36:58 PM
*-*-*MOD*-*-* How long does it take for your profile to be moderated cuz mine is taking a long time. Thanks!
by swimstar515 on 7/25/2008 3:04:09 PM
~~~MOD~~~ I want a job this summer, and I'm only 12. I'm thinking of becoming a model. My mom always said that i should try it, same with my friends. So should I try it? Thanks♥
by v95 on 7/25/2008 1:28:31 PM
omg, sugaraddict,i read that book and it rocks! also, read generation dead and lock and key! they r sooooooooo good!!!!
by jazzygrl on 7/25/2008 1:23:36 PM
THANX SOOOOO MUCH to whichever mod helped me! i love u guys!
by jazzygrl on 7/25/2008 1:20:10 PM
i had a dream that i was kissing a girl once...it was really weird cuz i knew her... but i'm totally not a les..
by nirvanaluver on 7/25/2008 12:51:03 PM
sugaraddict--- i didn't like The Host. it seemed boring alot of the time and i guess it did have a nice ending and intriguing characters, but jared, the guy mel loves, was so MEAN. unfortunately for me but luckily for you, stephenie is supposedly working on a sequel.
by sweetdreams33 on 7/25/2008 9:14:01 AM
mod--- when will we know if we won the school style week 4 giveaway???
by sweetdreams33 on 7/25/2008 8:53:30 AM
MOD, I was just wondering how long it takes to moderate a profile cuz mine is taking awhile. Thanks
by swimstar515 on 7/25/2008 8:15:48 AM
u shud ask ur bf y he isnt talking to you and i he doesnt know or has a bad answer, dump him and go for the neighbor,
by simplydifferent on 7/24/2008 11:48:39 PM
hey hon, i would talk to ur bf, but i would so dump him if hes not talking to u..... GO FOR UR NEIGHBOR! (isnt it weird how i can help others but then cant figure out what to do with my prob???)
by jazzygrl on 7/24/2008 11:23:30 PM
MOD! i REALLY like my bgf, but i dont want to ruin r friendship. ive known him since b4 kindergarten, and im so confused. i think he likes me, but im not sure!plz help! i c him all the time, and i can play it cool, i dont think he knows, but i am soo confused!
It's normal to start to like your bgf! The best boyfriends start out as friends. I'd just remain close friends but boys are pretty oblivious sometimes, if you decide you really like him, show more interest maybe by talking to him more or flirting but not being to obvious
by jazzygrl on 7/24/2008 11:21:31 PM
Yo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I have a total omg problem, there is this guy i know weve been best friends forever. he just asked me out like in the begining of the summer, and I said no, but now I think I do like him. I'm starting to regret my decision, but he's dating now! Please Help, Tell what I should do!
Hi-
don't think that you have totally missed your chance! Guys love girls with confidence so when you get back to school just act friendly and confident and he will turn around and look back in your direction. The key is to act like you don't care at all that he is dating someone else at the moment!
by danceluvr96 on 7/24/2008 11:18:41 PM
MOD~ i hve a suggestion... about the profiles... ok so uk how if ur profile is being modded it says its not publically visable? well we dont kno the dif between tht and just really not publically visable.... get my point?... anyways i think u should hve a screen tht says "this profile is currently being moderated... check back in a few days!" or something like tht and then 4 if it IS private just hve it hve the same screen so tht way we wont b as confused! thx!
by ~p0!k@dot95~ on 7/24/2008 10:30:42 PM
~*~*~*~*~*MOD*~*~*~*~*~ how do you get boils? they are so weird looking and I NEVER want to get them!
Hi
boils happen for different reasons. They are usually clogged sweat glands but I would ask your pediatrician!
by volleyballstar14 on 7/24/2008 10:29:41 PM
For the answer it says "If he's not willing to change" I along with a lot of other people have been told you should never change for a guy. So wait it's okay for guys to change for girls but it's wrong for girls to change for guys. That's messed up.
by panicatthediscolova on 7/24/2008 9:49:58 PM
I had a problem like that but with my bff's next door neighbor. Lets just say he still doesn't know.
by txtr on 7/24/2008 9:23:22 PM
i say c if da neighbor dudes into u first!! if he iz i say dump the other dude!! ((i mean he's not actin much like a boyfriend!!))then go for da neighbor!!♥
by neworleans_chic on 7/24/2008 9:09:31 PM
hey any1 on
by starlet0605 on 7/24/2008 9:08:12 PM
hey! yea totally talk to ur bf... if he shows no interest in it...or makes excuses...its time to end it then u can totally go 4 the new guy...!!! good luck!!
by starlet0605 on 7/24/2008 9:06:19 PM
I used to have the same problem. Tell him that you need to talk more. If he doesn't listen, then break up.
by Twilighter101 on 7/24/2008 8:51:02 PM
Wow, i have a boyfriend just like this. :]
by vball_lover on 7/24/2008 8:46:19 PM
hey! the host by stephanie meyer is the best book ever! i just finished it and i am just like, woa. Everybody needs to read it.
by sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:07:42 PM
Hey everyone! check out my profile!
by sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:06:40 PM
that would suck
by sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 8:06:06 PM
~MOD~ hey i have a confusing question and its totally fine if you guys are too busy to answer. okay here goes..... so there is this guy in my play (rumored to like me....& three other girls) anyway he has this little notebook he keeps bringing to rehersal and today he was extremely secretive about it (i.e. holding it really close to him whenever i walk by, if he is showing someone it he wont let me see it, he tells me there is nothing in it about me....you get the picture) anyhoo i went up to him and asked him if i could see it...I went on pleading with him to let me see it....so then i asked him why he wouldnt let me see it and he said "beacuse i like the attention" and i got tired of begging him to let me see it.......so i asked other people who had seen it and i heard that it is either a poem, song, drawing, doodles, or there is nothing on it. so what i need help with is does it sound like he likes me????
Hi!-
Okay so you can't agonize over what he is writing down. It could be about you or could very well not be... either way it sounds like he wants his privacy! I'd try to approach him another way with no mention about his notebook just to see what he's up to! Maybe ask him about a scene in the play or something so you don't act overly interested but still interested enough. Just strike up a conversation about what he is up to this summer maybe!
by glinda on 7/24/2008 8:00:16 PM
4th comment? lol
by sugaraddict1 on 7/24/2008 7:55:59 PM
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by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:49:11 PM
hi, one of my friends has the same problem, so she talked to her bf and now they are as good as new!
by Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:48:11 PM
by Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:47:15 PM
sorry about that. i think that you should tell your bf that u want to talk to him more. if he still doesn't, then break up with him.
by Katerlin on 7/24/2008 7:45:37 PM
hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi hi
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:44:23 PM
iz anyone modding?
Yep! It's Cassie
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:40:48 PM
hi larkibabi!! u still on?
by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:40:17 PM
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by Tampa Bay Rays Luvr on 7/24/2008 7:39:49 PM
*********************MODERATOR********************** MOD, please help i have a SERIOUS prob. last night, i had a dream that i was kissing a GIRL. and like, it wasnt just a kiss on the lips we were full fledged making out. but the thing is, in real life, im totally in love with BOYS and thats allllllll i talk about. also, i've kissed boys before and they were kind of slobbery and gross but i guess thats just because we were kind of young. but when i think back on my dream, while im totally completely ashamed and embarrassed that i was making out with a girl, i remember loving the kiss and if im not mistaking, it wasnt just one girl that i kissed. does this mean im lesbian?!?
Hi~
Of course your dreams aren't necessarily reality. At your age your hormones are raging and you are thinking about so many things. Just keep an open mind!
by sweetiehearts1212 on 7/24/2008 7:28:49 PM
hello peple!!!!
by larkibabi on 7/24/2008 7:00:04 PM
MOD, I have a similar problem except the roles r switchd, i won't talk 2 my boyfriend. The problem i have with him though is how 2 break up with him. When i break up with him my friends r goin to want a clear explaination y, saying th@ i don't wanna be in a relationship anymore & th@ i don't feel a spark any longa won't cut it. My most difficult challenge is explaining it 2 him rather than my friends. 1 of my friends told me th@ he was going 2 give up on luv if i broke up with him & I'd just take it as teen drama but he has seriuz problems where he lives. I want to break up him the right way so that itz plain & simple y I want 2 break up with him. I haven't askd 4 any advice in awhile so i could learn 2 handle thingz on my own, this time I want 2 break up with him right (I've broken up with him b4, but w got back 2getha cuz my friendz convinced th@ i did it 4 the wrong reasonz) so I'm asking 4 some adviced. If it helpz he lives in a different city & I've neva seen him eye 2 eye b4, we've just talkd on the computer.
by milk&honey_baby on 7/24/2008 6:53:17 PM
hi
by gumdrops and lolipops on 7/24/2008 6:47:13 PM
1st comment?
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