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IF YOU HAVE A FRIEND WHO'S LOST A LOVED ONE...

IF YOU HAVE A FRIEND WHO'S LOST A LOVED ONE ... BE A GOOD LISTENER. Let her tell stories about her loved one, even if it's...
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Mod mod mod!!!
My BFF just killed herself!!! T-T I miss her!! I really wanna go with her but that wouldn't be right but I feel I shuld cause I'm bullied at school a lot and I miss her. Plz help!

 

Hey chica, please contact www.nineline.org for advice on this issue. 

Amalia E.

by smartpaws on 11/2/2011 1:38:46 AM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod! one of my bffs mom died really awfully a year ago. I have been really supportive and helped her however she needed........... but, she's gotten really weird latly......because her mom always pushed her at school, she's gotten really obsesive and judges herself by the way she does. Also, she compets with me, and can get kinda nasty without relizing it. I've talked to her about it. But she just does it again..I want to support her, but its becoming really hard to and I know she isndriving offand anoying otherbpeople. I don't want her to end up all alone........also, she won't talk to anybody, no consulers or anything, so if I go to my guidence teacher and drag her into it, she will hate me....I've talked to my mom, but she dosent know what to do ethier, and I don't want to talk to my other friends behind her back....what do I do? Sorry this is so long.........

 

 

Hey chica, it sounds like your friend definately needs to talk to someone. Can you talk to her dad about it, if he's around? Otherwise, I'd be completely honest with your friend and let her know how you feel. She may not realize that she's doing it. You're a really good friend, and she needs people like you.

xxx

Becca G.

by #1puppylover on 4/24/2011 7:16:51 PM

 
 

TRS:hey girls. i know that alot of you that read this have a friend thats going through a loss or your going through a loss. i also know that sometimes friends who dont know about this kind of thing can hurt us more with a wrong reaction when we try to talk to them. well about a year ago my aunt died and i could never talk to anyone without them getting bored or looking at me like i shouldve gotten over it already, but recently i had an idea. i decided to start a club for people like me who just wanted to talk to someone who gets it called TEARS OF STRENGTH inspired by my aunt who told me you should never be afraid to cry. if you want to talk to someone or join the club please go to my home page and add a comment started with TEARS OF STRENGTH to join. you could also leave a story and ill try to respond as best i can. even if you dont want to join ill be there to talk. kk, srry for the long note but i do want you all who are going through something to know your not alone. (R.I.P diana)

by destiny true on 1/17/2011 10:32:38 PM

 
 

my aunt died about a year ago but i still cry really hard about it.sometimes i feel like im the only one left thats still bothered by it.we were really close.last year when she passed it was a day after she took me out shopping and i felt like it was my fault for a while like i had over exerted her.after i got past that i was really depressed but didn't know it.my grades dropped and i even failed a class.my mom kept asking me if i wanted to talk to someone but that always made me cry because my aunt was the one i would talk to.i tried going to my school therapist and some other people i knew but every one of them said "it'll get easier. believe me, i know what your going through." and that always gets me fired up inside because i ask them if they've ever lost a loved one and they say no so i dont see how they could possibly know what im going through.recently i tried talking to my friends but they just get this bored look. wish i could show them this article.i feel so alone.

by destiny true on 1/17/2011 10:04:36 PM

 
 

mod if ur fighting with a bff how do u stop it?




I'm not sure what you two are fighting about, but usually it's easiest to sit down and talk about the problem one-on-one.  If you get your other friends involved, it becomes much more complicated and the story becomes twisted, like broken telephone.  So, although it may be awkward, next time you are alone with your BFF, sit down and chat it out! Hopefully you'll get something resolved... Good luck! 
Katie R.

by iloveicarly1 on 8/18/2010 10:27:39 AM

 
 

This made me think of one of my cousin's friends who just died in a car accident. I don't get to see my cousin very much because I live in WA and he in Nevada, and he's a few years older than me, but he was pretty good friends with his brother's wife's sister's boyfriend, who was drunk and driving. I just wonder why he was drunk, as he was (supposedly) a good kid (according to my grandma). If you are the kind of person who is religious or anything, could you maybe say a few prayers for that kid's family, and the families of the two people in the car with him?
Tnx Vanessa J.

by Irishdancerzrule on 8/17/2010 2:59:08 PM

 
 

i have a friend who lost her brother but it was several years ago...i have always listened to her openly and i luff her <3 shes my bff =]

by turtles_in_africa on 8/16/2010 11:27:35 PM

 
 

I lost my mom to cancer a few years ago and don't feel totally comfortable talking to them about it so i sooo wish they'd read this!

by soccercutie18 on 8/7/2010 12:18:10 AM

 
 

My grandma just died a couple weeks ago. ( July 23). Im sad, but i know its better for her, she was in a lot of pain. but i feel bad for my grandpa cause he is all alone now cept for their dog. but only one of my friends said sorry about my grandma. and my other friend said that it must suck when her grandpa died a couple months ago. so it makes me feel sadder that no one really cares about me. Frown I love and miss my grandma sooo much. :'(

by 555copper on 8/4/2010 12:39:27 PM

 
 

i lost my grandfather on july 9th wacthin him pass away was the most scariest nd hardest thing ie evr done =(

by royelness on 7/12/2010 12:55:09 PM

 
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