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I’m 14, and I’ve been looking at porn. I’m really not that kind of person, and I want to stop. But it has gotten kind...
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I used to be addicted to porn, but I'm not really anymore. Instead I look up smut online because it's not degrading to women (ha, that's a lie). When I'm done, I always clear my history, but I feel like there's still evidence. I know where it is too - my mind. I'll always have those images, those words, that dirty feeling. I want to curl up in a ball and cry. When I was still watching porn, I really wanted to stop, so I made up a "recovery plan". It was a list of distractions and habit changes. I remembered my Home Ec teacher saying that anorexia makes you not as interested in sex, so I even thought about becoming anorexic. I didn't do it. And I'm still addicted. Please help!

 

Hey beautiful_me13, well watch less and less of it every day. It may be better to slowly stop yourself from watching it, versus stopping all together. No worries, you'll get there. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile

Lynae P.

by beautiful_me13 on 7/22/2013 12:16:21 AM

 
 

I have this problem right now Frown It's really confusing on how you get so addicted to this kind of stuff. It just started as curiosity, but now I just look it up when I'm bored. It's really embarrassing Frown If my parents found out they would kill me and ground me for life! I'm trying really hard to stop too...

by YouCanCallMeCat on 5/27/2013 11:27:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!

Hey girlie,


I can only imagine how tough things are for you. Because we wish you only the best, it’s extremely important that you speak to a trusted adult, such as a family member, doctor, guidance counselor, teacher, etc.



 



Also, for additional help, check out: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2008/08/04/HELP!2.aspx



 



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Meghan D.

by TheColorsOfTheRainbow on 4/12/2013 9:31:25 PM

 
 

A lot of us struggle with this so you arent the only one. Its kind of easy to find and often you end up wanting to look at it more, so it becomes addicting. Maybe the best thing is to try to get your mind on something else because I have noticed just thinking about guys and kissing can give me fantasies and then I end up often looking at it.

I think we go through these phases where we want to watch it more at certain times and want to watch different kinds because we are curious and because we are at the age when we think about these things. The guys on Glee said it right when they talked about girls watching porn and how it affects us because we can look at naked men anytime we want because of the internet. So the best way to stop or not watch it as much is to think about something else.

by fashionqn on 3/15/2013 12:01:34 AM

 
 

I'm addicted to porn too... But unlike you, I'm not ashamed of it.

by sexlvr on 11/2/2012 1:17:28 AM

 
 

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Meghan D.

by Abbydabbers on 6/22/2012 6:35:15 PM

 
 

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by Abbydabbers on 6/22/2012 2:36:36 AM

 
 

Not to make excuses but I think because of our age and the changes our bodies are going through many of us get hooked or used to watching it because we are curious and then find it interesting. Honestly I think there should be more resources to help girls stop if they want to because it can be addicting.

At sleepovers we always had one girl would suggest looking at it and then you find yourself watching it in private. Plus a lot of the times we would watch Gay porn with just men and truthfully, even though my friends didnt think so, just like the article says I thought it was degrading to men because of what they were doing.

by luckykel on 1/14/2012 12:02:14 AM

 
 

and btw, you'll probally look at it at some point. it's not just a guy thing and idk why everyone freaking out. it's just sex. If i watched it i'd NEVER tell my mom XD

by skatingsarah96 on 8/18/2011 12:42:54 PM

 
 

ok i've seen it before.....it's not that bad. nor do i feel addicted. it's a curosity thing and it doesn't bug me. it can be degarding, but it's fansity, NOT reality.

by skatingsarah96 on 8/18/2011 12:40:40 PM

 
 

Get boy friend and start doing this stuff with him. I find that works.

by purplepokadots on 6/22/2011 10:30:45 PM

 
 

I don't know why everyone is trying to quite of ashamed of doing it. I do it all the time and I have for a while. I don't have bad dreams, I don't hate myself, I'm not ashamed. If it makes you feel good and doesn't hurt you then why stop? Guys do it all the time and why should they get to have all the fun? I like to enjoy myself and porn is a way of enjoying myself.

by purplepokadots on 6/22/2011 10:21:48 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod mod mod...
Whats porn?




Hey girlie,

Check out a definition in a dictionary, like webster.com.  I don't want to post anything here that may make others uncomfortable!




Ruth S. Ruth S.

by LoveHappens on 4/2/2011 9:28:35 PM

 
 

I sorta started to get addicted to it also and it's disgusting..... I cant stand it!!!! I hope I can stop soooo bad!!!!!

by alison99 on 1/15/2011 12:21:05 AM

 
 

for the people wonder what porn is

i'm 16 i know what it is through south park and other stuff. trust me you don't want to know. it'll wreck your mind for life.

by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:47:34 PM

 
 

please don't write on my wall about these things. i've come clean and don't want to EVER hear about it agian.

by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:40:09 PM

 
 

there is even stuff like this in anime fan fics. fortunaly i don't read them. but i know they exist and we nerds can get pretty perverted sometimes. they also can be really bizzar if you aren't a nerd and probably think it's extremly out there. (trust me it's weird to my standards and heard people be sexually attracted to anime charaters. trust me on that one. i'm not though.)

trust me never read a m rated fan fic until your older. i learn that the hard way. and scared myself for life. dispite the fact i'm christian and i never want to do that till im married

by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:38:02 PM

 
 

wow i'm suprised so many people are omitting this. i might well come clean too.

i sort saw stuff like that on south park once in a while . also i saw a older guys "man hod" on a r rated movie once (i'm 16 so i can do that...sort of) and wrecked my mind for life . i saw that type of stuff in fan fiction (i'm not kidding nerds can be preverts too) fortunatly i don't read them most of the time.

i don't like that i've done these things. watched these things dispite the fact i'm a virgin annd i'm a cristian. i isn't exactly porn but still it's pretty bad. i'm very sorry i've done these things

by aqua girl on 10/17/2010 10:29:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
I was curious about a year ago too. I was addicted to porn for 9 months, and i still need help. It has become really addicting and i cant stop. My mom came across the website a few months ago and blamed my brother (he's 20) I was going to tell them but im afraid they're going to send me to a clinic for crazy or disturbed people. And to top things off I still watch it when my parents aren't home. I NEED HELP!!!! Is any of advice on this stuff in the Girl Talk book??
-On Ji

 

Hey girl, I think you should tell you parents, and it's not fair for
your brother to be blamed for something you're doing. Maybe your
parents can help you! Explain to them how you came across it and tell
them that you want to stop but don't know how because you're addicted.
And don't watch it when your parents aren't home- try to replace this
with a different habit like going on a different website, going on a
run, or making a nice snack. Tell yourself that you don't want to let
yourself get addicted to this. You could also try talking to a
psychologist or school counselor. Start your plan of action to stop now
so that you don't continue to become addicted to it any longer! I'm not
sure if any of this is in the Girl Talk book, sorry!


Vanessa J.

by ImJustMe96 on 7/29/2010 11:21:59 AM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD! MOD! So I went over to my friends house a week or two ago and we got on youtube to look up the newest lady gaga song. When I got on i noticed her "Recommended for you" videos we're filled with PlayBoy stuff...I asked what that was about and she was like IDK. I thought maybe it couldve been one of her other family members but the problem is It was HER youtube account. I'd like to say something to her about it but I don't want to embarrass her. I've had some friends who are into that BUT i just don't want them to think I'm all up in there business....Any advice? PLEASE?!

 

Hey girl, wow that's a tough one - I can definitely understand why you were curious.  But from having a YouTube account myself, I know that sometimes the video recommendations are way different than things you've actually watched.  So, it could just be an inaccurate recommendation.  If you're worried about her for some other reason, like you think she is watching bad videos a lot or doing other inappropriate behaviors, you could talk to her about it.  xoxo

Marie H.

by 4everSwim on 6/17/2010 7:15:29 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD

Hey girl,  I am so so sorry to hear about your struggles.  If you can't talk with your mom, I would see about visiting with your school counselor.  They can help you sort out this issue and work thorugh it.  It's really great that you reached out for help.  Hang in there, and it will get better!  xoxo

Marie H.

by wrestlar101 on 5/5/2010 5:30:33 PM

 
 

It happened to me to for a while. I didn't like it and i couldn't live with myself. I also started having really gross dreams. But I wasn't like that. I would wake up in the morning and be like "eww, that was disgusting". But i got passed it and everything is fine now!

by com6677 on 4/23/2010 7:12:56 PM

 
 

Same here.. I was on my family's computer just messing around and I wanted to find a photo that was on my brothers user account, and I was looking in his documents for it and well.. yeah. It's been 5 months now, kind of tempting sometimes, but haven't even tried to yet! Smile

by Bellward on 2/10/2010 10:51:06 PM

 
 

i had this same problem whenever my parents wernt home i would go on my dads laptop and look it up but that was back in july and i realised that it was disguesting and now i look at everyone in a diffrent way....anyway it's been 5 months and i havent even been tempted!!!

by jewelsrox on 11/14/2009 9:38:14 PM

 
 

ummm, cheerleader and frankenstiengirl, i am jewish, not christian and i used to look at porn.
cheerleader, im sure you had no intention to hurt anyone, but you said "kudos to people who are chrisitian".

by gothbutterfly on 7/4/2009 4:57:20 PM

 
 

i wuz curious n went on porn site, 2

by Julianna32899 on 6/30/2009 7:30:50 PM

 
 

I want to stop and I know it is bad but I just have an urg to look at porn sometimes. How do I make myself stop?
HELP!!!




Hey girl, tell your 'rents that you've stumbled upon the sites and they make you uncomfortable and maybe they'll put a block on it. 
katelin s.

by athlete24 on 5/27/2009 6:50:24 PM

 
 

Yeah, your just being curious and every girl/guy goes through that. Atleast you want to stop, which is a good thing.

by smalltowngirl09 on 4/19/2009 2:26:27 PM

 
 

wow i had the same problem
my mom found out so.........ya

by iloveedwardcullen123 on 3/17/2009 7:23:52 PM

 
 

I looked at that stuf for a while, but im only 12... I felt really ashamed, so i broke down and told my mom, but she is the only one that knows. I felt better after i told her, but during the night, i threw up because i felt so bad. 8{

by HarryPottergal on 11/17/2008 7:58:52 PM

 
 

I have been looking at it also, it was from curiosity at first because I heard people talking about it so I wanted to see for myself. Sometimes I get disappointed for looking at it and tell myself I am going to stop but it doesn't seem like I can.

I really like guys and kind of like to look at them naked. I know that isn't right to see guys naked just like its wrong for them to like to see us naked. I wish I could stop.

so is there a way to get myself to stop? I feel bad for doing it but then in class I heard that a lot of girls are getting addicted just like guys. Is that correct that we are looking at it a lot too, I know some of my friends do it?

by luckykel on 11/1/2008 5:42:03 PM

 
 

*MOD*
My friend looks at and reads Gay porn. She tells me its different than regular porn because it doesnt degrade women. Is that true? Ive never seen it but she wants me to try.... what should I do?

by tokio hotel lover <3 on 10/30/2008 1:00:01 AM

 
 

same here but i was just like, w//e and than i stopped

by joycii_uchiha_grl.4eva on 10/26/2008 9:38:05 PM

 
 

Hey You Don't have 2 worry u will get over it 2.

by Hjm2010 on 10/21/2008 8:21:16 PM

 
 

Say no if you don't want to don't do it
You don't have to do it because your freinds do it
Not doing it may change your life
I don't know what porn is but i m guessing its reeallly bad.

by galgirl45 on 9/24/2008 9:05:43 PM

 
 

Ok here's some stranger advice:If u hate it STOP,if not DON'T.Just dont b stupid&get caught.....................unless u already have!!

by SoccerChamp13 on 9/23/2008 7:34:54 PM

 
 

there is this guy i like in my sociol studies class so i be my self right.but then after things become cool with us all of all sudden this creeper behind me shakes my chair what do i do??????HELLLLLLP MEFrown




Hey Girl,

Move your chair so he can not shake it.  Ask him nicely to please stop that you find it really annoying.  If that doesn't help tell the teacher.  Good Luck.




-Kyle  

by s321gama on 9/23/2008 2:32:49 PM

 
 

In stead of a scary movie. Try seeing a chick flick or even a funny movie. And in stead of popcorn try something different. Like checks mix, yogurt, chips, and candy bars.

by madpick on 9/21/2008 9:26:37 AM

 
 

Omg i ace this exact same problem. I'm even 14 too! its so hard to stop, and i really want to, and i'm not the only one of my friends who does this. I have a friend who lives with this stuff every day. her sister, who isnt even married yet, has a baby, and her brother brought home a porn dvd that one time we watched and it was reallt gross, but we're both addicted. And she's only 12! WE NEED HELP!!!

 

Hey babes, youre not addicted. Just try not to watch it. xoJANA

by anankaroxman on 9/17/2008 7:54:15 PM

 
 

That's good that you are trying to stop.

by smilygirl on 9/14/2008 4:19:25 PM

 
 

omg! i only saw porn once and i couldn't even watch the whole thing... accually scratch that i DIDN'T want to watch the whole thing. I was on this website once and people had these blogs were they posted other web links and stuff and this one girl who was a lesbian put a link up in her blog and wrote "this is me" so i clicked on the link and it was a lesbian porn. i took me a second to realize wut it was at first (i know.. im slow). but then when i realized wut it was i IMMEDIATLY exed out of it. it was really gross and loud... surprisingly.

by smexiskinnyjeans on 9/13/2008 9:25:56 PM

 
 

I myself have the Scar4Life on that subject. But I got over it and so will you! Good luck.

by dreamer12 on 9/13/2008 8:55:32 PM

 
 

it's kinda freaky that i know exactly how u feel

by Buh-Bah on 9/11/2008 8:54:43 PM

 
 

Ok hi I need some major help: I'm 13, and this guy in my grade (he's also my BGF) has told me at least twice a day over the summer that he likes me, sometimes I flirted back, sometimes I didn't. But he also flirts with 2 of my BFFs and 3 other girls that I don't know mutually, but I know their names. I really really like him also, but now there's a rumor going around that he's already lost his virginity. I don't know if I believe it, and even though I've been hurt many times by him emotionally, I think I love him. And now I don't know if it's a family-type love, or a couple-type love. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!

by CasKenzie1 on 9/8/2008 7:35:11 PM

 
 

I'm not gonna say looking at porn is nothing to be ashamaed of, because it is. And even though you don't want to, I understand the kind of sick hold it has on you, because I have been looking at porn also. I started about 2 months before I turned 13, then stopped a month afterwards, then started up again a month later, and I am proud to say that I haven't looked at porn for about 3 months now. I guess my message to you is to never give in, no matter how tempting. Just like the forbidden fruit. What helped me was finding some way to distract myself whenever I thought about it, like a boy I liked at the moment, or what homework I had that day. And by the way, it takes a lot of courage to admit things like this, and I bet a lot of girls look up to you because of it.

by CasKenzie1 on 9/8/2008 7:28:15 PM

 
 

mod!!!! whats porn




Hey girl!


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by loverbug164 on 9/5/2008 7:23:51 PM

 
 

wow i had this problem too. It's really hard because It's on demand all the time. It's right there! and at night nothing stops you!
but i got through it and its been more than i year since thats long gone. we can do it! Im just glad im not the only girl out there who has had this problem.

by clickgrl34 on 9/5/2008 4:54:06 PM

 
 

about stds like in an earlier comment... i loved the article u did on it in the latest issue. kudos for doing it. its really scary how so many girls get them BEFORE AGE 20.
to sum it up in one word,-

scary.

by jazzygrl on 9/5/2008 9:53:55 AM

 
 

MOD!!!!! (OR GRLS)

im totally crushing on my bgf. i think he likes me too, but im not 100% sure. he lives right across the street from me and is in some of my classes at school so i talk to him alot. he doesnt know i like him, and i really wished i knew if he liked me back, cuz things might get sooooo awkward. and if it does, im gonna have a HUGE prob!!!! im so confused... sorry this was so long, i feel like i still have more to say tho... just dont know what the more is...

by jazzygrl on 9/5/2008 9:42:07 AM

 
 

omg i looked at porn too it was actually addicting!

by nanau on 9/4/2008 9:24:19 PM

 
 

I had a problem similar to that but I'm better now. It is addicting! But it's also really shameful. I've never told anyone about it. I got over it on my own. I eventually just got so scared my parents would find out that i stopped altogether.

by countrycat335 on 9/4/2008 8:12:07 PM

 
 

mod help me please!
okay so i broke up with my bf a week after school got out, and i kind of started liking this guy who is very good friends with him (i wouldnt say best friends though). we hung out only twice over the summer *in a group though), but we talked online a lot and he usually IM'd me first. one day in the beginning of august i asked online if he liked anyone, he said "you a little bit, but no one else". i was really excited, and i told him i liked him a little bit too, but nothing has happened. school started two days ago, and we havent even said anything to each other because we have no classes and have been pretty busy. but i have definitely caught him staring at me in the hallway at least twice, and he's caught me a couple of times too. what should i do? and should i not bother because him and my ex are good friends?
thanks so much! <3

by soccerhottie45 on 9/4/2008 4:41:03 PM

 
 

Moderator,
R U guys here only at certain times?

by whiteorchidgirl on 9/4/2008 4:36:49 PM

 
 

hey cheerleader2478 im a christian to and i want to get a purity ring and i might get one soon!!

by sprinkles1297 on 9/4/2008 3:16:30 PM

 
 

^^MOD MOD MOD^^
pleas answer!! how can i convince my parents to let me get a myspace? im 14. ive told them that im going to stay safe and keep stuff private but they still wont budge. any tips??SmileSmileSmile
THANKIES!!

by trackstar on 9/3/2008 9:53:13 PM

 
 

ya, i kinda know what you mean
i hav NEVR looked @ anything like that,
but i understand how hard it is to
kick an addiction
eating disorders are so tough
and they are life-threatening
i hav a friend who used 2 b a bulimic
and she got ovr it
and i cant believe im telling this,
but i used 2 b bulimic 2.
and it was really hard to
stop
but i did,
and im so happy now

by Fantom Phreeke on 9/3/2008 8:15:00 PM

 
 

KUDOS 2 U !!!!! You are 1 smart person 2 try 2 stop. After all evrybody makes mistakes u just got 2 move on and let it go like my teacher always says " It wasn't my 1st mistake and it won't be my last. "

Luv,
rockstar4eva Smile

by rockstar4eva on 9/3/2008 7:44:48 PM

 
 

same here sparky4me! idk exactly but i think i have a pretty good idea

by GymnastDancer on 9/3/2008 7:31:20 PM

 
 

Ok, well I have been with my BF for a year, and lately my mom has been talking a lot about birth control. it's really scary, but I'm kinda considering it. I mean it's not so I can go out and do it, it's more like a back up. But i'm scared that if I do I'll want to more. We have gone without it for a year and he says he will wait until we get married, but I really need help. I'll be going to college next year and he's already there so it's not like we're immature. I love him, and we plan on a future, he says he can wait, but what do I do?
*Brat*

 

Hey babes, i went on it when i was a sophomore. In a perfect world, everyone would wait until they are married. Unfortunately this isnt a perfect world. If you are going to make the decision to have sex, its best for you to use contraception. I would explore the idea of birth control but remember it doesnt protect against STDs so make sure you still use condoms. xoxo JANA

by socrchiki on 9/3/2008 5:39:56 PM

 
 

I don't EVER want to see that crap i think I'll wait untill I'm over 25 to see what boys look like.

by Princess411 on 9/3/2008 4:37:25 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Dear MOD, I subscribed to GL like at the end of July, so i was expecting to get the August/September one in August, but it didn't come until yesterday? Will it always be that late or was it because it was the first one I was getting? Thank you!! emily♥♥

 

Hey babes, we had to process your subscription and I dont think the Aug/Sept. issues comes out until later Aug anyways. xoxo JANA

by emily96 on 9/3/2008 3:41:44 PM

 
 

don't worry that kinda happens to me to i look at it sometimes and I want to stop also and im definatly not that kind of person and it's really gross but it's just kinda idk i can't describe it so don't worry your not alone

by maxerpup77 on 9/3/2008 2:14:48 PM

 
 

well if it is from the internet then just stop going on the internet 4 a while until u think u can take it.. and if they r magazines then just rip and burn them it might be hard but its worth it..

by maxxy<3 on 9/3/2008 2:13:51 PM

 
 

I did that alot. When my parents werent home, I would go on Yahoo! and look 4 "boobs" and all these porn sites would pop up. :-[...... I tried to stop but at my 10th b-day party I had a sleepover and we stayed up all night. At like 5 AM we turned the TV on in my room and we flipped to 49 and "Girls Gone Wild" was on. One of my friends wanted to watch it.GROSSSSSSSS !!!!!!!!!!!

by Madawg12097 on 9/2/2008 9:52:39 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD there's this boy, oh wow, thats how they all start out... haha, owhwell, so me and this boy, lets call him joey have been "together-ish" since lets say april, he's a year older, and not really dumb, but i tutuored him, and then i fell for his amazing charm, this caused me and my then current bf to breakup, and i havent had a serious bf since then. i thought hope was lost for me and joey, until august, i started seeing him around more, and then BAM, August 6th, we kissed, not just a normal kiss though, a full fledge makeout, and then we talked about thta, and didn't really speak for about 3 weeks. i'm still in love with him... what do i say to him??? how do i explain this, and win him over???

 

Hey babes, just tell him that you dont normally kiss guys you arent interested in dating and see where that conversation goes. Dont let him get away. xoxo JANA

by marilyn_monroe_wannabe on 9/2/2008 6:49:40 PM

 
 

don't worry, it happens to others as well. just try to visit it less and less over time.

by loveinabluehoodie on 9/2/2008 2:01:29 PM

 
 

sopranosinger
wow. thats a big deal. i would totally help him. Smile it IS GOING TO SAVE HIS LIFE. that really sweet that you are willing to do that for him. Smile

by MrsNickJonas4ever on 9/2/2008 12:47:08 PM

 
 

**MMMOOOODDD!!**
please help me. im starting school wednesday, (i know...im lucky), so i have one day left to get prepaired. But I was just wondering, what to do with my hair. Its medium length, and extremly wavy/poofy. I usually straighten it and that looks good, but I know that will get boring fast. So do you have any ideas/tips to make my hair look really REALLY cute? (PS we wear uniforms, so my hair and jewerly is really the only freedom I have Smile )

by MrsNickJonas4ever on 9/1/2008 10:03:15 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD this is a serious situation ok theres this guy in my class and i really like him and i know he likes me because but i still really like him he is nice and funny what do i do????!!!!!
HELP!!!!!!







try to hang out with him after school! Smile Laura

by annaclare on 9/1/2008 4:33:07 PM

 
 

hey, i need a good place to buy a purity ring.
im christian and i need one
know any places?

by jojo thy clown on 9/1/2008 1:52:10 PM

 
 

MOD!!!
there's this guy who won't leave me alone. he thinks we're still friends. he is really gross.
i told my friend about it, but she only made it worse by saying that i like him.
now he always says hi to me in the hallway. and his locker is right next to mine! i try to ignore him, but he won't leave me alone!
how do i get him to leave me alone without hurting his feelings???







Just keep ignoring him. He will get the message. Smile Laura

by popmusic on 9/1/2008 12:48:45 PM

 
 

hey girly, don't worry. you arne't the only one who has been curios! just like carol said, don't make it a habit. don't do it at all

good luck Smile

by _savvygirl_15 on 9/1/2008 8:59:30 AM

 
 

ok i'm confused... they will post a question concering porn but they wont explain wat it is???
they just sed its not a topic to discuss on here but thats wat the whole topic is about!!

by curly-q babe on 8/31/2008 11:57:09 PM

 
 

soporanosinger

its great that u want 2 do that 4 ur friend. sit down wit ur rents and talk 2 them about it. give them reasons y u want 2 do it. it might also help if u researched the procedure. and present them with info lyk its safe n stuff lyk that. also remind them of hw much ur friend means 2 u and how traumatized u would b if he passed away. hope that helps

*~Kay

by *~Skye_blue on 8/31/2008 9:32:23 PM

 
 

hi

by godsgirl2u on 8/31/2008 6:42:59 PM

 
 

yea ok so i admit ive well its complicated your kinda like my cousin yea so i noe its addicting and i feel your pain stay strong! Smile lol

by pinay_tears_never_lie on 8/31/2008 6:42:15 PM

 
 

I had just gotten a TV in my room, and for some reason that kinda stuff popped up on channel 85 or whatever. it was always on...kinda gross.

by kklaboosh on 8/31/2008 6:10:45 PM

 
 

Hi moderator,
Sorry to bother. But I have a quick and important question. LOL, how do I get to my profile? I've been trying by typying my username in the search box but everytime I do that a thing appears to invite friends, I don't want to do that and I want to get to my profile to create it!

by medina.star77 on 8/31/2008 5:00:44 PM

 
 

omg frenchie is it true that they can track it. now i am soo scared because my ex-bff came over my house and started lookin that stuff up and i cant tell my mom and dad, but it was on you tube so i really hope i dont get in trouble.

by Celticsgal247 on 8/31/2008 5:00:06 PM

 
 

Mod
my bf alex just moved today. i've been crying all day because everyone says we looked so cute together. he won't call back. and i'd have to drive myself four hors to get to where he's living Please help!

by loverootbeerforever on 8/31/2008 3:45:40 PM

 
 

I've never really looked at porn, but trust me, I've been curious! I think you shouldn't really look at it because what if you get caught? Good for you for trying to break the habit, I know you can do it!

by ShopperSoccerGurl on 8/31/2008 1:14:11 PM

 
 

i dont no what that is lol but from what everyone says i think im glad i dont no lol

by sparky4me on 8/31/2008 1:03:15 PM

 
 

That's good that you want to stop, since porn can turn people all around. I've been curious about it before, but I've never looked at it since you have to be at least 18 and it's illegal. And they can track whoever uses it. Since everything on the internet is traceable, I keep my sites clean. But great job that all of you are admitting you guys did/do that.

by frenchie on 8/31/2008 12:45:41 PM

 
 

i've never really looked at actual porn just like the celebs and their bad pictures vanessa hudgens, etc. and i feel really bad about doing it but i know i can stop if it doesn't go too far. i feel glad that other girls say they have because then i don't feel so un holy. because i am a christian and i really want to get a purity ring and save myself for marriage but i read all this stuff about s*x and im scared iw ont be able to!

by brunettebombshell on 8/31/2008 10:53:34 AM

 
 

frankenstiengirl and pink cat,
Hey that's cool that you are Christian too! God bless!

-cheerleader2478

by cheerleader2478 on 8/30/2008 8:50:58 PM

 
 

wow sopranosinger

thats awsome that you can do that for your friend. i had a friend give bone marrow to his sister who has cancer. evrythibng went absoluetly perfect. and it realllllyyyy helped his sis. she was able to get up and had like color in her cheecks and stuff and it was right before her birthday too. just remind your parents that if things were reversed, you know they would want your friend to able to help you. good luck!

btw... isnt it like illegal to look up porn? idk

hope i helped <33

by twilightluver28 on 8/30/2008 8:20:08 PM

 
 

oh and about the dear carol question...yeah i agree frankensteingirl...

by tje728 on 8/30/2008 8:05:51 PM

 
 

Miss_Star,

no i deff don't think that would be considered *copying her, because hollister and abercrombie and fitch are MAJOR stores for teens..that sounds weird but its true almost everyone i know shops there every once in a while..lol
but stay true to you!! its ok to like those stores but don't just like them because all the popular kids wear them, wear them because YOU want to..not because everyone does (because its not very kool if you always have the same outfit on as someone else...so make sure you shop everywhere not just those two stores ;] )

and as of your second concern no i don't exactly come from a rich family either but don't worry you can still shop there even if you don't have credit cards with the sky as the limit, these stores do have clearance sections..and by clearance i don't mean old stuff with like stains on them and things like that. hollister and abercrombie are trend setting stores or trend following stores but whatever you wanna call them their clothing selection changes Very often, so everytime it changes the *new things from a week ago go on clearance so they can make room for the newEST items.(..get it?) i live in a pretty small town and the mall i go to is like 15 mins away and it doesn't have an abercrombie and fitch but it does have a hollister and since its a small city even tho everyone chops there are still a lot of cute things on clearance. (i've gotten tanks there before that were $6.70 a piece) and you can babysit, mow lawns, tidy up for neighbors, rake leaves, shovel snow, plant flowers, take care of your neighbors pets or garden or whatever when they are out of town random things like that you could even have a car wash in your front lawn if you really want to or a garage sale. be creative!!

i hope i helped!!

many <3's,
tje728

by tje728 on 8/30/2008 8:03:23 PM

 
 

hey don't worry about it. the best thing to do is tell your parents about what is going on with you and these websites. i had the same problem and couldn't take it anymore. it may help to see a therapist or counselor. my therapist helped me so much and showed me a method of blocking those things from my mind. my family still loves me for who i am.

by Biscuit on 8/30/2008 7:43:47 PM

 
 

cheerleader2478--hey it's cool that you're a christian, so am I! anyways it's also great that you stopped looking at porn and wanna be pure in like every way...same here! hope I'm not being annoying to ppl who aren't chistian.Smile

by frankensteingirl on 8/30/2008 7:39:01 PM

 
 

MOD HELP!!!!!!!!! Ok so theres this guy alex hes in my grade and sooooooooo cute and he sometimes texts me for no reason. well when he was with some friends of my friends he phoned me and asked me out. he said he was serious! then five minutes or less later he texts me to say he just remembered he has another girlfriend and we're breaking up!!!!!! do u think the girls he was with put him up to it or he was just really embarrassed he had asked? PLZ HELP!!!!!!







Hey girl!

I am sorry that happened to you. All I can say is just talk to him and ask him straight up and then tell him how you feel.

<3 Brianna 

by pink cat on 8/30/2008 7:30:22 PM

 
 

MOD how long does it usually take to get ur profile approved after u update it?




Hey girl!

Check this out. http://www.girlslife.com/page/PROFILE-FAQ.aspx

Hope it helps.

<3 Brianna 

by pink cat on 8/30/2008 7:26:08 PM

 
 

Hi cheerleader2478, Im a Christian too! no wayyyy!

by pink cat on 8/30/2008 7:19:03 PM

 
 

I agree with GirlScouts

by Miss_Star on 8/30/2008 6:19:10 PM

 
 

What i did was i started to read and do whatever i could to keep myself preoccupied so that I didn't need to think bout it! Bless you!

by ~iheartcharlie~ on 8/30/2008 6:18:03 PM

 
 

I need help with clothes.

I never cared which stores i shopped at until a popular girl told where she shops (Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister). I tried the stores and I really liked them. Now, I wanna shop there more. Is that copying?

Also, it costs a lot there and I'm not in a rich family. How do I earn spending money at 13 years old?

by Miss_Star on 8/30/2008 6:15:42 PM

 
 

man, went there did that dont wanna go back. trust me, im only 12 and it tramatized me for 2 MONTHS! I'd start crying and eventually they gave me the talk and i felt SO MUCH BETTER when they put the parental controls. it hurt me so much that i thought about suicide till my sister talked to me. All it is is a good thing in a bad light. If you haven't done that yet, DONT!

by ~iheartcharlie~ on 8/30/2008 6:13:58 PM

 
 

MOD!!
okayyy so my friend  is one of my awesome guy friends. ok first though when we were playing truth or dare my other friend  asked him if he liked me. for any other person he would say no, but then he said "im not going to answer that" then later she said "do u have a crush on anyone in the class?" and sam said "well yea" and she said "7th or 8th grade?" and he said "7th"
do you think he likes me?
thanks for your help!




Hey girl!

I don't know if he likes you but if you like him just talk to him about how you feel.

<3 Brianna 

by flip-flop_diva on 8/30/2008 5:54:45 PM

 
 

yea, i no. i was at my dads work and had to go to the bathroom. there are magazine racks all over and i just happened to look and find a porno magizine. outa curiosity i looked. but all in curiosity. it was really nasty yet intriuging. i think i was just curious about how nasty people can get. so your not alone! try to quit, k!?!

by iluvbleach01 on 8/30/2008 5:30:49 PM

 
 

supranosinger,

Wow, that is so cool that you are able to help him out like that. Just tell your parents that he needs it and that you would feel really bad if you didn't help him out. I'm sure that they would be ok with it...people give blood all the time. Tell your friend I said good luck, God bless, and I hope he feels better!!!!!!!!! Best of luck to you too!

-cheerleader2478

by cheerleader2478 on 8/30/2008 3:58:19 PM

 
 

I had this problem...then my mom found out about it (terrible) and so I stopped...then recently my parents were in the Christian store one day and they got me two magazines; Teen Virtue and His Girl, and they explained what sexual purity was and what it meant and stuff like that...it isn't just practicing abstinence, it's also keeping your mind, thoughts, soul, and heart pure and clean too, because God wants us only to do that with our spouse. So I am doing purity and it is much easier to stop the habbit when you are doing that...I want to get a purity ring too...I found one on the internet and its really pretty but I don't know if they website is reliable and it is over $200...sorry if anyone on here isn't Christian but I am and I just wanted to share all that...(freedom of religion!)...kudos to those who are though!

-cheerleader2478

by cheerleader2478 on 8/30/2008 3:55:36 PM

 
 

hey MOD someone posted a website on here...just letting you know cause she said that it takes you to a porn site where they do really wrong things so I just think it would be smart if it were removed.

-cheerleader2478

by cheerleader2478 on 8/30/2008 3:50:50 PM

 
 

Its not ok but I used to look at it to once I got caught and just ask your mom to put up a filter so that those things you won't be allowed to look at. Don't worry i had the same problem and this is my solution

by ashw123 on 8/30/2008 3:40:08 PM

 
 

i know how it feals

by whatchamacallit on 8/30/2008 2:46:30 PM

 
 

yeah i used to look at stuff like that but the fear of getting caught made me stop!

by curvy_queen on 8/30/2008 2:19:04 PM

 
 

sopranosinger: this is a very big matter so you really need to sit down with your parents and talk it over, just have a calm talk with them and let them tell you their problems with you doing that

by allmaewin on 8/30/2008 1:27:39 PM

 
 

coka-cola
thanks! we r fine now. she is thinking bout letting it go and keep be my friend. its a long story of how i got her to change her mind. i'll tell ya if u want

by abercrombiegirl6 on 8/30/2008 1:09:50 PM

 
 

wow that's pretty brave that a bunch of ppl are admitting to looking at porn...it's not something I would do but it's great that you guys put an end to it and can admit it! Smile

by frankensteingirl on 8/29/2008 10:25:46 PM

 
 

oh i don't have that kind of curiosity.....but i over hear guys at school talking about it and it grosses me out..

by mairyfairy25 on 8/29/2008 9:22:41 PM

 
 

hey all_american_tween

I did that when i was like in third grade and i was looking up websites that were titled of my friends and i happened to stumble along the same one your ex bff did....
i will never look at it again xD

by indigo on 8/29/2008 7:38:57 PM

 
 

I stumbled across porn once. I was curious...So, I looked at it a few more times. I don't do it anymore. And I now find it unappealing and degrading. I hope you can drop the habit. You'll be better of without it. It's not a good thing to immerse yourself in. :3

by kate-o on 8/29/2008 7:35:04 PM

 
 

***Mod***

Hi there. I don't know if you remember me, I'm the girl with the BF that has cancer. I have another problem...So the thing is, my BF was diagnosed with a certain type of leukemia, a rare one, APL. He needs blood platelets, and the only type of people who can give him platelets are the people who match his six proteins EXACTLY. Well, his brother tested negative, his parents tested negative. If he doesn't get those platelets, it's guaranteed that he'll die. So my parents had let me get tested last week (they thought it'd be useless anyways). I got the results today. And I'm a perfect match. I can give him anything, from platelets, to bone marrow, to my own kidney. How strange is that, right? Anyways, I want to give him platelets, but my parents are really scared about it. What should I do to convince them? They're not exactly forbidding me to do it, they're just skeptic. I want to save his life. What do I do? What do I say?

by sopranosinger on 8/29/2008 7:33:01 PM

 
 

I'm not quite sure what to say but personally, (don't take it personally), but I think its sickening that anyone actually WANTS to look at that. Again, no offense!

by girscouts2664 on 8/29/2008 6:51:43 PM

 
 

I've only read a few comments and I can't believe how many girls have admitted to looking a porn. (Kudos to you for admitting it, btw)???? As a self-proclaimed "good-girl" (I am not a preppie), who lives in a fairly innocent town, that is shoking to me.

by Banapple7 on 8/29/2008 6:06:55 PM

 
 

Hey I had a friendship like you and M. Only it wasn't my fault, it was the girls who we hung out with she was mad at. She ended up going one way and I the other. We don't talk or hang out anymore, but I'll treasure our memories. And hey if things don't work out, it'll be okay. My teacher always said "Things always work out in the end, if things don't work out it's not the end!"

by Coka-Cola on 8/29/2008 6:04:44 PM

 
 

Don't worry, if you stop now, it will all end here!

by NYCBdancer on 8/29/2008 5:23:00 PM

 
 

kudo to you for trying to stop!

by BFFsR4eva on 8/29/2008 5:13:11 PM

 
 

*MOD*what is porn??







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by ilovebooks! on 8/29/2008 4:59:26 PM

 
 

MOD!!!!!!!!!! OR GIRLS!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!
me and my bff lets call her m. anyways m is really really mad at me and she got mad at me before and we are distant friends but now m is super mad and doesnt want to be my friend at all anymore. everytime we talk to each other we always end up fighting. i really really really like m. my other friends have tryed helping but nothing worked it made it worse. my other friends are tell me to get over m and just leave her alone but i dont want to do that because i really really like m. anyways this weekend i was going to go to the movies with my friend who used to go to my school and knows m. so i was going to ask my friend to invite m but tell her im not going but then i meet them there and i talk and try to work things out with m.is that a good idea?????!!!!! what do i do!!!!!!??????
HELP!!!!!!!!!




Hey!

Maybe you and m just need some space from each other right now. I don't think its a good idea to have your mutual friend invite m without telling her. I think you and m should meet at a neutral place like a starbucks or something and just talk to each other and tell her how you feel.

Brianna

by abercrombiegirl6 on 8/29/2008 4:42:00 PM

 
 

I had this problem. You can get over it.

by Tennisgirl93 on 8/29/2008 3:52:30 PM

 
 

Hi Mod!!!!

by Monkey Gal on 8/29/2008 3:20:05 PM

 
 

it's ok. tell yourself to go a day without looking. if you can do that then go a week soon go a whole month. I did have a thing with porn for a while. I finally got over it. I haven't told anyone about it. it's still deep deep down in my soul. no one will find out about it. you will soon get over this tiff. It's just plain curiosity!

by actressgirl55 on 8/29/2008 2:30:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD This guy likes me but we'er awesome as friends and our parents know eachother and I don't like him THAT way Frown PS: His Best Friend is my ex, too!!!

 

then just remain friends. Smile Laura

by watchout on 8/29/2008 1:27:17 PM

 
 

don't woory. i have had curiosities too.

by sk8chick18 on 8/29/2008 1:15:23 PM

 
 

once my ex-bff whose name is Jenna was searching on the web when she was like four and she said "I wanna find my website!" so she typed in jenna.com and it came up to jenna jameson's website whose like this big pornstar and they were doing really wrong things.

by all_american_tween on 8/29/2008 12:34:58 PM

 
 

Wow..I only did that once because I was curious. Don't judge! It was scary stuff. But I stopped because I knew it wasn't right and I didnt want my family or friends to find out. *ashamed*

by MunkQoo on 8/29/2008 11:51:57 AM

 
 

ok then thats y i dont look at that stuff its grossFrown but kudos for asking how to stop itSmile

by have_a_heart on 8/29/2008 11:03:07 AM

 
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