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by PinkButterfly24 on 3/10/2010 11:02:56 PM
most guys do this to get the feeling that they have power over people. ik it sounds disgusting, but for most guys, its true.
it's completly wrong and i feel horrible for the girls that experience: even if it's only happened to them once.
no girl on this planet deserves that kind of treatment.
by gretathegreat on 3/6/2010 10:50:28 PM
phew no guyz in my school harrass us they say perverted stuuf which isnt much better
by absf on 3/5/2010 5:28:27 PM
Tell the guidance consoleur immediatly! In my experience, that has been the way to solve it. Especially because after the school has the person on record for doing something like that once, if they do it again they will get in HUGE trouble! It alerts the school of this and they keep a watch out for the person.
by jedzia on 2/20/2010 2:16:21 PM
Thats sad, boys are stupied
by leslied335 on 2/15/2010 3:32:01 PM
by dancera16 on 2/3/2010 5:54:09 PM
by dancera16 on 2/1/2010 9:06:36 PM
hey umm i wanted 2 say tat tat happened 2 my bff 2.these 2 boys would slip thier hands in her pants and her shirts and the teacher would never notice. once they made her go into the boys bathroom and they made her have sex with them their then sent her out in a knee lenght clear skirt so everyone could see her thong and tampon and they also made her wear a clear piece of cloth round her boobs so her nipples could still be seen.then they took her to their group and started to stick their fingers in her vagina and since she hasnt started shaving they yanked out the hair tats above the vagina and shaving it snd waxing it. then they started playing with her hymen and boobs. 5 guys put their penises in her vagina and butthole.then they saw hair on her nipples and they shaved and waxed it. then they took off all her clothes and made her run a full lap 2 make the blood from her vagina splatter everywhere then took her in the middle of the school and everyone saw her naked with her having her period.and they threatened us not to tell anyone or dare to try and stop her or else we would be next its reaallly scary and i want to help her but i dont kno how to without me or my friends being next.
by sagarika on 1/9/2010 2:04:35 AM
I was in a situation eerily similar to that. Everything worked out though because the next time that guy touched her she socked him and sent him sprawling. He never did that again to my BFF!
by solosinger7 on 12/30/2009 1:05:16 PM
oooh! that is NOT good! she lets them??? i would turn around and slap that sicko in the face and report him! she needs help! i hope those boys get in serious trouble!
by hermionemania on 12/22/2009 7:10:04 PM
by sagarika on 12/20/2009 8:47:30 PM
OMG! good 4 u for noticing the signs! if she's not strong enough, u need to b there 4 her! it might be tough but you guys will make it through!
Send her our best wishes!
by Labluver1996 on 12/14/2009 8:12:02 PM
I'm sorry that you're friend is being sexually harassed. my freshman year of high school I was sexually harassed.
by sixteengirl93 on 12/14/2009 4:51:01 PM
by mommagirl on 12/9/2009 8:32:34 PM
i need help please help me im in 6th grade now and when i was in third grade i was sexually harassed i know it sounds wierd but its true. ther was a boy who would touch my butt and boobs every day more then once a day and he would come up to me and say hey sexy and at that time i was afraid if i told on him that it would be tattle telling so i let it go on for about a month and a half. i finnally told my before and after school counslour when it had driven me to tears. now one of my guy friends got in trouble for sexuall harassment and im am so scared and nervous sometimes i cant sleep because im worried it will happen again.PLEASE HELP ME I CRY MY SELF TOO SLEEP SOMTIEMES BECAUSE IT SCARES ME SO MUCH
by guy crazy 5000 on 12/8/2009 1:54:07 PM
i'm like 11 and last year in 6th grade (basically everyone was 11) so its like some girls in my class don't really act with dignity so its like on our way to art these guys start chasing a gir in my class and are just grabbing her boobs and squeezing them and all she's doing is laughhing and playfuly trying to take their hands off. if it was me i'd have just slapped them
by emygirl11 on 12/6/2009 4:27:46 PM
OK how creepy is this?
some guy came over to my friends at school while they were playin basketball. this dude came up to them and asked them to play basketball at his house. then he hugged one of my friends and he started to play basketball w/ them and got hi-contact. a cop questioned them during science class, expect this in the news baby.
by ajago12598 on 12/3/2009 10:44:25 PM
by barrelracingchick on 12/3/2009 10:18:38 PM
This totally happened to me.
Only, i was the one being sexually harrassed.
It was bad though, this kid was big and i wud hit him and smack him away, but i just wasnt strong enough!
so, one day during spanish class, i decided i'de had enough, so as he reached over to grab my butt, i stood up from my chair (in the middle of class) and yelled "STOP TOUCHING MY BUTT ALREADY!!"
lets just say he never tried it again.
by katgrlnj on 12/3/2009 12:43:32 AM
ugg that happened to my friend but it was worse, so that friend and another of my friends decided to join this community service club run by a friend of my moms. it was fun untill we found out that the boy was also in that club and i had never seen him so i was like wow thats the boy who did all that nasty stuff to u ???????!?!?!?!?" he seemed so innocent !@ we quit btw, i was scared of him!
by football playa 4eva! on 11/25/2009 6:33:07 PM
wow.thats bad.who will go around just to touch butts.im lucky my class don`t.
by naqaila on 11/21/2009 2:56:30 PM
by sad_girl on 10/27/2009 3:27:32 PM
Thank you Caitlin!!
by karikaylee on 10/23/2009 8:53:17 PM
by karikaylee on 10/23/2009 3:04:09 PM
by karikaylee on 10/23/2009 2:51:35 PM
hi its me again. mand i was wondering, how do you get, i guess, idk awkward question, but how do u get your big break. like ive been wanting to b an actress for a long time, but the city i live in (aka extremely small) iz definetely not a very likely place to u know get found. but u have to had at least met one famous person! i wanna b on disney channel or something. im 12 and have really high hopes. Do u think i have a chance? thanx!
by heathermag on 10/5/2009 8:24:50 PM
by heathermag on 10/5/2009 8:21:04 PM
OMG OMG OMG SO SORRY GIRLS LIFE I GOT way to over my head, i looked at the wrong page, and i found my comments on a dif page. woops
by mycoda on 9/24/2009 8:17:07 PM
OMG OMG OMG!!! NONE OF MY COMMENTS ANYWERE GO THROUGH ANYWERE!!! ITS SOOO ANOYING!!!!! SO SEROUSLY GIRLS LIFE DO YOU HATE ME????? jk not in a mean way or any thing... but really???
by mycoda on 9/24/2009 8:14:46 PM
Ooo. You have to get through to her somehow....
by AcePrincessGal on 9/24/2009 5:07:36 PM
something like that happened in my last grade. not saying who not saying when and not saying what grade.
by PicturePerfect on 9/6/2009 11:45:25 PM
its great that ur concerned about ur bff!
by aussie1300 on 9/6/2009 1:18:12 AM
Ummm. yeah, why are new comments in the front?
by cats-r-the-best on 9/5/2009 11:41:29 PM
by cats-r-the-best on 9/5/2009 11:37:51 PM
WHY DO GUYS DO THAT???
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by thealphacouncil on 9/3/2009 4:48:02 PM
its happened to me... i minded then but it wasnt as big of a deal as your saying....
this one guy i know touches all of the girls' buts when he hugs them..
but no one cares.!
by lindsayislove on 9/2/2009 2:17:21 AM
by kgirlpanda on 9/1/2009 6:52:27 PM
Hun, you need to tell a teacher. This was happening in our class and we told our homeroom teacher after class one day. She was super understanding about it. If that doesn't work then tell your principal or even talk to the guy yourself. You are a strong capable young woman
by hollygolightly on 8/31/2009 1:13:53 PM
by hoodie_obsessed on 8/29/2009 8:18:40 PM
ya i would totally tell her she should stick up for herself. maybe even tell the guys they should stop but if that doesnt work tell an adult!!
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by Back 2 School Club on 8/29/2009 4:36:43 PM
i would never let a boy do that. if he ever did anything physical like that to me i would get physical back by punching him in the face ant then kicking him. he would SO regret it.
by Pinkdramaqueen<3 on 8/29/2009 4:00:11 PM
by NewportLiving777 on 8/29/2009 1:36:32 PM
if i was her i would be so mad at thouse boys
by horsesgirls246 on 8/29/2009 1:57:05 AM
guys in my class do that to this one girl but she encourages them she likes it!!!
im goin to a new school and like the paragraph said i want to be able to twist his arm or something if i need to physically protect myself in the new public school, my first since kindergarten. where should i go to learn this??
by hoodie_obsessed on 8/28/2009 8:21:13 PM
Well my friend was like that and let guys do whatever they wanted with her. It got out of control by the end of the year like she would sit across from a guy and he would shove his hand down her pants and stuff, you could tell she was unhappy but she didnt admit it. She finally talked to a counserler ad got it straightened out!
by alliegrl101 on 8/28/2009 5:32:01 PM
yeah, that's tough. I'd definitely be angry and tell. Kids can get suspended or even expelled for stuff like that because it makes students feel insecure in their school environment
by soccerbee683 on 8/28/2009 1:10:44 PM
You should definitley tell an adult! Your friend might be mad at you at first, but trust me, she will thank you a couple years from now, and know you just wanted to protect her because you really care for her!
by dancerhn on 8/27/2009 9:47:10 PM
If I were your friend i would smack that boys hand away, go to a teacher, and say "(so and so) just grabbed my butt!"
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by musicrox on 8/26/2009 3:23:16 PM
Ooh, that's tough. Tell her to stand up for herself. If you want you could confront the guys, but that could be scary, so talk to your parents, your friend's parents, and the school guidance counselor IMMEDIATELY.
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