Thanks MOD.
Does anyone else's dad do that at all? Also if you could answer ONE MORE THING FOR ME MOD!!!!
My dad makes me play volleyball because he says its a good sport, but I'm really bad at it and I don't really like it. He says I'm not commited to anything but that's because he never let's me try anything I want to do. I asked to take voice lessons and he got me guitar lessons. Then he said I wasn't committed to guitar. Well it's like gee i wonder why! lol I really want to do cheerleading but my dad is making me try out for volleyball next year and says cheerleading is a waste of time. any advice?

xoxo Allie

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Hey MOD
My dad is really mean to me. This morning we sat down for breakfast and I was waiting for the knife to spread butter on my waffle because my sister had it. My dad says what are you doing? and i said waiting for the knife. I truly just said it in monotone not with any attitude and he stands up, walks over to me, starts yelling and whacks me in the head. Then he yells some more and whacks me again. Just after school I was getting my older sis to help me with some homework. I didn't understand so I was asking her to explain more clearly. My dad, hearing this says, SHELBY IF YOU DON'T START TRYING HARDING IM GONNA WHACK YOU IN THE HEAD AS HARD AS I CAN. Sometimes he knocks me in the back of the head and gives me big knots. When he's mad at me he says things like 'Im gonna turn you over on my knee and slap you until you can't sit down!" I thought you were supposed to stop spanking when your like 7 but I'm 13! One time he actually slapped me in the face. One time he punched me in the head because I took the shoelaces out of my Sperry Topsiders! It's completely stupid stuff that shouldn't matter to him! ANYTHING SETS HIM OFF! If I talk to him I'm afraid he's gonna hit me more! Seriously, and there's nothing I can do to defend myself! GIRLS does anyone else's dad act like this? And MOD is this considered abuse? Cause I'm not sure if this is normal or not and I don't feel comfortable asking my friends because I don't want them to get too worried.

xoxo Allie

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everytime something in my house breaks or isn't working or is lost or whatever my dad automatically blames me or my sister. also it seems like the only time he talks to me is to yell at me for something. it drives me crazy!!!!! what should i do??

 

Hey girl! You should explain to your dad that you are only human and that you might lose things, but its not always your fault.

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