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plz help. im so depressed. yep as always im having boy trouble. k so i was in LOVE (yeah it was love, im sure.) wit this one guy for like 2 or 3 years now. (i think i still am now but now i just try to hide it) but when i asked him out he said no, mayb it was because i'm not pretty enough. but be4 i asked him out my BGF asked me out. and i wanted to say yes cuz he's awesome. and i did but then 2 min later i change my mind cuz i remebered how girls r always surrounding him and he always has to have every girls attention. he always wants hugs from them. and he has more than one crush most of the time.and i was the only one who was his ONLY crush.(i think he's still crushing on me)after i said no he started ignoring me and pretending to be busy and pretending to date other girls. and all of his friends say that he's lying bout dating them and that he loves me.and that we're pefect 4 each other. which we r. and now he's always flirting wit all of the girls as usaul. exacpt me. and i really wanna go out wit him. i think i still love the other guy, but i try not to be. i try to forget them both. but now instead of thinking bout the other guy all the time i'm thinking bout my BGF. what should i do? sorry bout the length. PLZ HELP

 

Hey doll, ok first things first. You asked the guy out and he said no. Props to you for putting yourself out there. Unfortunately, he doesnt feel the same way about you so dont sit around feeling sorry for yourself and being sad because some guy doesnt know how awesome you are. As for the BGF, clearly he is hurt. Talk it out to him. Just say I like you, I dont like not having you around but I dont like playing these games, can we start over. Then see where things go. xo JANA

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My dad's friend has two kids, both boys, and twins one year older than me. They always talk about there "girlfriends" around me, do they like me?

Hey girl! if they have girlfriends they may want your advice or suggestions! It seems like they value your opinion, so they probably like you as a friend!  

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ok sorry to bother u but i realy like my best guy friend but there is a big probalem.... i moved across town so we dont go to the same school any more.... and i cant get over him... my brother said he thinks that my best guy friend liked me before i left because he said he did every thing he would do if he liked a girl... witch made it all worse because now i no for almost certain he liked me before i left... and now i dont no what to do... ive been home schooled for like 10-12 weeks now... so i only got to see him for like a month and a half at my other school.... but i noticed that he doesnt talk to me as much on facebook any more and he quit saying he missed me and stuff like that... i was thinking about taking the city bus so i could go to the same high school as him but i dont no if i want to if he isnt going to talk to me and not only that i had some problems with some kids that went to school with me witch would be the same kids that would go to that high school.... also i no that wo of my friends liked him too... and i think one of them is made at me because i told her i liked him but she never exactly said she liked him so i told her and she got kinda mad....so do u have any advice on what i could do about this??
(P.S i would talk to other guys but since im home schooled that is kinda out of the option....)

Hey doll!  You definitely shouldn't start taking the city bus or
make any other big changes for this guy, especially if he isn't talking
to you as much as he used to.  Continue to be friends with him and make
an effort to hang out with him on the weekends.  Also, see if you can
get involved with a youth group, sports team, or any other
extracurricular activity so you can meet more people.  Also, you can't
help it that you like this guy so don't let your friend get ya down.